I Do and I Don't

What happens when you catch feels for your therapist? What are the most important questions… Read MoreEPISODE 68: A Bath and a Hot Therapist The post EPISODE 68: A Bath and a Hot Therapist appeared first on .

Joel and Cat discuss how to create parameters and protocol around pandemic dating, how couples… Read MoreEPISODE 67: I Don't Know Which Hole We're IN The post EPISODE 67: I Don't Know Which Hole We're IN appeared first on .

When the new person you're seeing tells you they don't want their ex to find… Read MoreEPISODE 66: Yeah, I'm Into Sex The post EPISODE 66: Yeah, I'm Into Sex appeared first on .

This week, Joel and Cat offer up some questions to pose to your partner to… Read MoreEPISODE 65: Still Not Naked The post EPISODE 65: Still Not Naked appeared first on .

In this episode, Cat gushes about a memorable Zoom date and listeners send in their… Read MoreEPISODE 64: Zoom Dating 101 The post EPISODE 64: Zoom Dating 101 appeared first on .

It's abundantly clear that Joel is growing restless with this podcast and needs things to… Read MoreEPISODE 63: Advice On A Device The post EPISODE 63: Advice On A Device appeared first on .

How can playing with power dynamics enhance your sex life and your relationship at large? … Read MoreEPISODE 62: What's In The Sauce? The post EPISODE 62: What's In The Sauce? appeared first on .

This week, Cat and Joel talk about how to empower your teens with next-level sex… Read MoreEPISODE 61:Next Level Sex Ed The post EPISODE 61:Next Level Sex Ed appeared first on .

Cat and Joel talk about the media-driven narrative around vaginas and shame, the complexities of… Read MoreEpisode 60:Prioritize Your Pussy The post Episode 60:Prioritize Your Pussy appeared first on .

Joel and Cat talk about what to do when one partner is carrying more of… Read MoreEPISODE 59: Loving In LOCKDOWN The post EPISODE 59: Loving In LOCKDOWN appeared first on .

In the first episode of 2021, Cat and Joel explore the parameters of girl code… Read MoreEPISODE 58: Quelling the Constant Ache The post EPISODE 58: Quelling the Constant Ache appeared first on .

Joel continues his crusade to turn the podcast into a religious space while Cat places… Read MoreEPISODE 57: Church of the latter Day Taints The post EPISODE 57: Church of the latter Day Taints appeared first on .

Hide your kids! NSFW! In what is perhaps the most obscene episode to-date, Joel and… Read MoreEPISODE 56: Talk Dirty To Me The post EPISODE 56: Talk Dirty To Me appeared first on .

What's the best way forward when you're a newly single dad in his 40's and… Read MoreEPISODE 55: Deep in the SH*T The post EPISODE 55: Deep in the SH*T appeared first on .

Here's what happens when Joel and Cat are asked to share the most profound things… Read MoreEPISODE 54: Move Out Son The post EPISODE 54: Move Out Son appeared first on .

At a listener's request, Cat and Joel share how they both want to be loved.… Read MoreEPISODE 53:Deflowering Satan The post EPISODE 53:Deflowering Satan appeared first on .

This week Cat and Joel dish out advice to a listener who worries that she… Read MoreEpisode 52: Antiseptic Swipes The post Episode 52: Antiseptic Swipes appeared first on .

Joel and Cat spontaneously dive into TV and Movie couples with complex relationship dynamics. Then,… Read MoreEPISODE 51: Wagging Tongues The post EPISODE 51: Wagging Tongues appeared first on .

In this 50th episode special, Joel and Cat share listeners' secrets to long-term relationship success.… Read MoreEPISODE 50: Secrets to Longevity The post EPISODE 50: Secrets to Longevity appeared first on .

Cat and Joel talk about how to navigate interested parties when you're fresh out of… Read MoreEPISODE 49: Word to Your Mother The post EPISODE 49: Word to Your Mother appeared first on .

Joel and Cat use their expertise to tackle complex relationship questions with grace and wisdom.… Read MoreEPISODE 48: Aligning Attachment Styles The post EPISODE 48: Aligning Attachment Styles appeared first on .

It's okay to be a mess sometimes, and Joel and Cat are happy to help… Read MoreEPISODE 47: Flings With Friends The post EPISODE 47: Flings With Friends appeared first on .

Joel and Cat discuss meeting the right person at the wrong time, having to police… Read MoreEpisode 46: Loving In The Moment The post Episode 46: Loving In The Moment appeared first on .

In this week's episode Joel and Cat take on dominance and dating, how to navigate… Read MoreEpisode 45: Steam Your Yoni The post Episode 45: Steam Your Yoni appeared first on .

What to do when one partner wants to open up the relationship and the other… Read MoreEpisode 44: Butt, Yeah! The post Episode 44: Butt, Yeah! appeared first on .

Joel and Cat offer almost-expert advice on intimate relationships and in this week's episode they… Read MoreEpisode 43: The Horror of Dinner Parties The post Episode 43: The Horror of Dinner Parties appeared first on .

Taking separate vacations, building trust in a partnership after a lifetime of being cheated on,… Read MoreEpisode 42: The Best Nugget The post Episode 42: The Best Nugget appeared first on .

Cat's back on her game doling out solid advice for intimate relationships as she and… Read MoreEpisode 41: Noblization Isn't a Word The post Episode 41: Noblization Isn't a Word appeared first on .

Joel and Cat make an appeal to the LGBTQ2+ community, and then they explore how… Read MoreEpisode 40: A Little Game The post Episode 40: A Little Game appeared first on .

Joel drops a personal bombshell, then he and Cat discuss why you should stop having… Read MoreEPISODE 39: Sex With the Ex The post EPISODE 39: Sex With the Ex appeared first on .

Today we give you a very special episode of I Do and I Don't with… Read MoreEpisode 38: with Jenny Arndt! The post Episode 38: with Jenny Arndt! appeared first on .

In another special edition of I Do and I Don't Joel and Cat take on… Read MoreEpisode 37: Teen Special! The post Episode 37: Teen Special! appeared first on .

What's the appropriate amount of time to wait after a breakup before getting back into… Read MoreEPISODE 36: The Madonna and Whore The post EPISODE 36: The Madonna and Whore appeared first on .

Joel coaches Cat on dating in COVID times (read, tries to pimp her out), then… Read MoreEPISODE 35: Edging > Orgasm? The post EPISODE 35: Edging > Orgasm? appeared first on .

Bad kissing, connecting when you're not in the mood, standing with your partner in their… Read MoreEpisode 34: How to Kiss The post Episode 34: How to Kiss appeared first on .

Cat has a crisis of relationship counselling faith, one listener feels like they can't make… Read MoreEpisode 33: Cat is a Great Guru! The post Episode 33: Cat is a Great Guru! appeared first on .

Here's a very special edition of I Do and I Don't! These questions about marriage… Read MoreEpisode 32: Kids Ask the Darnedest Questions The post Episode 32: Kids Ask the Darnedest Questions appeared first on .

Why houseplants are better than kids, when to worry about late-night texts blowing up your… Read MoreEPISODE 31: Getting Choked Up/Out The post EPISODE 31: Getting Choked Up/Out appeared first on .

Joel and Cat dispel any notion that their relationship is more than strictly professional. They… Read MoreEpisode 30: Mentality of a Nudist The post Episode 30: Mentality of a Nudist appeared first on .

Joel gets bonkers with kitchen appliance metaphors as he and Cat discuss ending a marriage… Read MoreEpisode 29: COVID in the Kitchen The post Episode 29: COVID in the Kitchen appeared first on .

Joel and Cat help navigate online dating that gets too sexual too fast, and weigh… Read MoreEpisode 28: The Pain Block The post Episode 28: The Pain Block appeared first on .

Joel and Cat explore how to build emotional intimacy, relationships where managing alcohol becomes a… Read MoreEpisode 27: Cup Overfloweth The post Episode 27: Cup Overfloweth appeared first on .

This week's episode covers the dangers of assuming a new prospect's bedroom dynamic based on… Read MoreEpisode 26: Popcorn Cake The post Episode 26: Popcorn Cake appeared first on .

How to keep a burgeoning relationship going strong during the pandemic, whether or not to… Read MoreEpisode 25: COVID Companions The post Episode 25: COVID Companions appeared first on .

Joel and Cat take on their first live episode and chat about how much of… Read MoreEpisode 24: True COVID Colours The post Episode 24: True COVID Colours appeared first on .

This episode tackles how to keep unwanted in-laws away from labour and delivery, hitting the… Read MoreEpisode 23: The Perfect Marriage The post Episode 23: The Perfect Marriage appeared first on .

Cat and Joel dissect how to give up on being right, whether or not to… Read MoreEpisode 22: Ovulating Vicariously The post Episode 22: Ovulating Vicariously appeared first on .

Joel and Cat tackle your COVID 19 marriage questions. If this doesn't brighten your self-isolation,… Read MoreEpisode 21: Pandemic Hall Pass The post Episode 21: Pandemic Hall Pass appeared first on .

Gay porn and straight husbands, how to talk to your teenage kids, Joel's crisis of… Read MoreEpisode 20: The Matrimonial Closet The post Episode 20: The Matrimonial Closet appeared first on .

Joel and Cat help listeners to dip their toes in the online dating pool, reason… Read MoreEpisode 19: Dating – Sad and Tired The post Episode 19: Dating – Sad and Tired appeared first on .

Joel and Cat share their top three tips to keep your sex life interesting, the… Read MoreEpisode 18: Four Levels of Foreplay The post Episode 18: Four Levels of Foreplay appeared first on .