Not Your Mama's Sex Talk

In this month's episode of Not Your Mama's Sex Talk, the whole group comes together to talk about stigmatized communities within the realm of sex and relationships. The episode specifically focuses on polyamory and BDSM in an attempt to normalize and destigmatize these communities. This podcast is a collaborative peer health educator project with the Take Control Initiative in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit: https://www.takecontrolinitiative.org/ Resources from this episode: https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-polyamorists-next-door/201807/what-is-the-difference-between-polyamory-and-polygamy https://www.healthline.com/health/relationships/polyamory-vs-polygamy#why-people-do-it https://www.vox.com/the-highlight/2019/5/20/18542843/intersectionality-conservatism-law-race-gender-discrimination https://theswaddle.com/kink-101-everything-you-need-to-know-about-bdsm/ https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/feb/09/kink-anthology-book-fear-shame https://www.insider.com/kink-at-pride-discourse-explained-kinks-role-in-lgbtq-history-2021-6 https://slate.com/human-interest/2018/11/kink-bdsm-radical-queer-history.html https://lovingbdsm.net/2018/05/02/ssc-rack-prick/ Social media: Instagram/Tik Tok: IUDecide Facebook: Take Control Initiative Join The CREW Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thecrewtci/ Email: notyourmamassextalkpod@gmail.com Credits: Researchers: Jaidah, Sydney, Anna, and Evren Speakers: Jaidah, Sydney, Anna, and Evren Editor: Sydney Logo by Paola Almanza Theme song by Justin Sung

Here is a short teaser trailer with highlights from the upcoming episode "Stigmatized Communities"!

In this month's episode of Not Your Mama's Sex Talk, the whole group comes together to delve into the extensive realm of sex and dating in the digital age. From long distance relationships and dating apps to ethical porn consumption, there's a lot to discuss when it comes to modern sex and relationships. This podcast is a collaborative Peer Health Educator project with the Take Control Initiative in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit: https://www.takecontrolinitiative.org/ Resources from this episode: Revenge porn hotline 844-878-CCRI https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/dating-in-the-digital-age/202112/the-social-significance-online-dating https://www.mcmasteroptimalaging.org/blog/detail/blog/2022/01/26/love-in-the-digital-age https://www.getlasting.com/long-distance-relationships https://www.nsvrc.org/sites/default/files/publications/2019-01/Digital%20Consent%20Handout_508.pdf https://www.esafety.gov.au/young-people/my-nudes-have-been-shared https://www.pewresearch.org/internet/2014/02/11/couples-the-internet-and-social-media/ https://goat.com.au/crime/how-can-you-send-your-nude-pics-safely/ https://www.vice.com/en/article/mb3nd4/how-to-sext-securely-safely-what-apps-to-use-sexting https://www.buzzfeednews.com/article/nicolenguyen/how-to-safely-send-your-nudes https://www.insider.com/how-to-sext-safely-experts-2019-4 http://www.fau.edu/newsdesk/articles/safe-sexting.php https://hawcdv.org/online-dating-red-flags/ https://www.bustle.com/wellness/onlyfans-ethical-porn-experts https://happymag.tv/best-ethical-porn-sites/ https://cherwell.org/2020/07/24/the-problem-with-pornhub-and-how-they-get-away-with-it/ https://www.varsity.co.uk/opinion/19674 Social Media: Instagram/Tik Tok: IUDecide Facebook: Take Control Initiative Join The CREW Facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thecrewtci/ Email: notyourmamassextalkpod@gmail.com Credits: Researchers: Jaidah, Sydney, Anna Speakers: Jaidah, Sydney, Anna, and Evren Editor: Evren Logo by Paola Almanza Theme song by Justin Sung

Here is a short teaser trailer with highlights from the upcoming episode "Sex and Dating in the Digital Age"!

In this month's episode of Not Your Mama's Sex Talk, Anna and Evren discuss all things communication and boundaries. From safe words to sexual aftercare, communicating with your partner(s) is a crucial step to fostering safe and healthy relationships and having an enjoyable sex life. This podcast is a collaborative Peer Health Educator project with the Take Control Initiative in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit: https://www.takecontrolinitiative.org/ Resources from this episode: https://www.menshealth.com/sex-women/a29341534/sexual-aftercare/ https://www.plannedparenthood.org/blog/sexual-boundaries-how-to-listen-to-your-body https://www.intimina.com/blog/what-is-sexual-aftercare/#:~:text=Aftercare%20is%20a%20broad%20term,nervous%20system%20is%20ramped%20up. https://www.issm.info/sexual-health-qa/what-is-postcoital-dysphoria-post-sex-blues/ https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/relationships/sexual-consent/how-do-i-talk-about-consent https://www.rainn.org/articles/what-is-consent https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2019/06/01/728398532/how-to-talk-about-sex-and-consent-4-lessons-from-the-kink-community https://blogs.bmj.com/bmjsrh/2020/09/24/bdsm-consent-in-non-bdsm-sex/#content https://vantagepointdallascounseling.com/sex-therapy/5-ways-to-respectfully-negotiate-sexual-boundaries/ Sex questions from @shrimpteeth on instagram Social Media: Instagram/Tik Tok: IUDecide Facebook: Take Control Initiative PHE Book Club: Sex Plus by Laci Green. RSVP: https://docs.google.com/forms/d/e/1FAIpQLScmp1Ol_T8ULebSAq9nrcK67q-etDkNeetuSgOKD_w6CZrL6Q/viewform Join The CREW facebook group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/thecrewtci/ Email: notyourmamassextalkpod@gmail.com Credits: Researcher: Jaidah Speakers: Anna and Evren Editor: Sydney Logo by Paola Almanza Theme song by Justin Sung

Here is a short teaser trailer of highlights from the "Communication and Boundaries" episode which will be posted on Monday, March 28.

Here is a short teaser trailer with highlights from the "Sex Trivia" episode!

Welcome back to Not Your Mama's Sex Talk!! In this episode we kick off the new season with Jaidah and Sydney playing sexual and reproductive health trivia. This episode covers topics ranging from penis size to IUD's as emergency contraception and much more! This podcast is a collaborative Peer Health Educator project with the Take Control Initiative in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit: https://www.takecontrolinitiative.org/ Resources from the episode: https://bridgercare.org/sex-trivia-quiz/ https://www.plannedparenthood.org/planned-parenthood-massachusetts/local-training-education/parent-buzz-newsletter/parent-buzz-e-newsletters/heres-some-health-trivia-not-trivial https://www.buzzfeed.com/sarahaspler/sex-trivia-quiz https://www.buzzfeed.com/sam_cleal/sex-trivia-quiz https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/rm-quiz-sex-fact-fiction https://healthcenter.uga.edu/5-sexual-health-facts-every-college-student-needs-to-know/#:~:text=1.,partners%20within%20the%20past%20year. https://www.healthline.com/health/lambskin-condoms https://link.springer.com/article/10.1007/s10508-018-1203-x https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/12230622/#:~:text=There%20was%20no%20statistically%20significant,size%20has%20no%20scientific%20basis. https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S1743609515309589 https://www.nejm.org/doi/full/10.1056/NEJMoa2022141 https://www.nichd.nih.gov/newsroom/news/020421-levonorgestrel https://www.health.ny.gov/diseases/communicable/chlamydia/fact_sheet.htm https://www.helpingwomenperiod.org/7-amazing-facts-about-periods-that-everyone-needs-to-know/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/owning-pink/201104/15-crazy-things-about-lady-parts https://www.webmd.com/sex-relationships/rm-quiz-sex-fact-fiction Social Media: Instagram/Tik Tok: IUDecide Facebook: Take Control Initiative Email: notyourmamassextalkpod@gmail.com Credits: Researcher: Anna Speakers: Sydney and Jaidah Editor: Evren Logo by Paola Almanza Theme song by Justin Sung

On this month's episode of Not Your Mama's Sex Talk, Sydney and Becca walk you through the basics of how to talk to your child about sex, periods, consent, relationships, puberty, and more. This episode also features a discussion with special guest Catherine Betances from the Take Control Initiative (TCI) in which we answer audience questions. We would also like to thank LaTonya Scott from TCI for her help with research and topic ideas. This is the last episode of the first season of the Not Your Mama's Sex Talk podcast, we will be back later this year with a new cohort of Peer Health Educators and new topics about sexual and reproductive health. This podcast is a collaborative Peer Health Educator project with the Take Control Initiative in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit https://www.takecontrolinitiative.org/ Content warning: topics in this episode including sexual abuse and consent may be sensitive or triggering for some listeners. If you would like to learn more about the topics discussed in this episode, here are some helpful resources for parents and children: https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/parents https://amaze.org/ https://amplifytulsa.org/adults/ https://www.ted.com/talks/ted_ed_why_do_women_have_periods?language=en https://ed.ted.com/lessons/how-do-contraceptives-work-nwhunter https://sexpositivefamilies.com/resources/ Ages 9-12: https://everybodycurious.com/ Sexplanations (18 and up) video explanations: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pD1sX-sg8dE&list=LLymJOrDbU-FIA7RYe5C7_Hw&index=26 https://www.youtube.com/user/sexplanations/videos Social Media: Instagram: IUDecide Facebook: Take Control Initiative Email: notyourmamassextalkpod@gmail.com Credits: Researchers: Aicha Diop, Sydney Panzica, and Misia Paszkowiak Guest researcher: LaTonya Scott Speakers: Sydney Panzica and Becca Mclaughlin Guest Speaker: Catherine Betances Editor: Lanie McKinney Logo by Paola Almanza Theme song by Justin Sung

In this month's episode of Not Your Mama's Sex Talk, Misia and Lanie discuss and debunk common myths and taboos about sex, periods, and relationships. This episode also features an interview with special guests Gabriela and Shannon from the Oklahoma Call for Reproductive Justice (OCRJ). This podcast is a collaborative Peer Health Educator project with the Take Control Initiative in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit https://www.takecontrolinitiative.org/ Content warning: topics in this episode including sex and abortion may be triggering to some listeners. Social Media: Instagram: IUDecide Facebook: Take Control Initiative Email: notyourmamassextalkpod@gmail.com Credits: Researchers: Becca Mclaughlin and Aicha Diop Speakers: Misia Paszkowiak and Lanie McKinney Guest Speakers: Gabriela Cano and Shannon Editor: Sydney Panzica Logo by Paola Almanza Theme song by Justin Sung

In this month's episode of Not Your Mama's Sex Talk, Aicha and Sydney talk about the importance of reproductive health, TCI services, different forms of birth control, and STI testing. This episode includes an interview with special guest Rachael Kermis, a family medicine physician at Baton Rouge General. This podcast is a collaborative Peer Health Educator project with the Take Control Initiative in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit https://www.takecontrolinitiative.org/ Content warning: sexual topics covered in this episode may be sensitive to some listeners. Social Media: Instagram: IUDecide Facebook: Take Control Initiative Email: notyourmamassextalkpod@gmail.com Credits: Researchers: Becca Mclaughlin and Lanie McKinney Speakers: Aicha Diop and Sydney Panzica Guest Speaker: Rachael Kermis Editor: Misia Paszkowiak Logo by Paola Almanza Theme song by Justin Sung

Welcome to Not Your Mama's Sex Talk Podcast! In our first ever episode, Aicha and Becca discuss what is means to be in a healthy relationship, how to utilize love languages, and the importance of consent. This podcast is a collaborative Peer Health Educator project with the Take Control Initiative in Tulsa, OK. For more information visit: https://www.takecontrolinitiative.org/ Resources from the episode: DVIS (Domestic Violence Intervention Services): 918-743-5763 National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-SAFE or 1-800-799-7233 Love languages quiz: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/ Social Media: Instagram: IUDecide Email: notyourmamassextalkpod@gmail.com Credits: Researchers: Sydney Panzica and Misia Paszkowiak Speakers: Aicha Diop and Becca Mclaughlin Editor: Lanie McKinney Logo by Paola Almanza Theme song by Justin Sung