Podcasts about boundaries

Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 2799: Melissa Josue guides readers through the emotional complexity of relationships filled with conflict by emphasizing the importance of understanding personal needs and clearly communicating expectations. This compassionate advice helps partners determine whether their visions for love and family are truly aligned, and whether continuing the relationship supports each person's well-being. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://melissathelovecoach.com/we-argue-all-the-time-should-i-continue-in-this-relationship/ Quotes to ponder: "Getting clear on your needs, and what needs are not getting met helps you identify and communicate what you need to fix and improve in the relationship." "Arguments usually stem from emotional reactivity and defensiveness." "Kindness makes each partner feel cared for, understood, and validated, feel loved." Episode references: The Science of Lasting Relationships (The Atlantic): https://www.theatlantic.com/magazine/archive/2014/06/the-science-of-lasting-relationships/361631/

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Is the grass really greener on the other side? Or is it time to water the lawn God's already given you? In this weeks message from Jim Ramos, discover Guardrail #3 from his upcoming book, Guardrails: 10 Boundaries for an Unbreakable Marriage — how to stay emotionally connected to your bride and avoid the subtle drift that destroys marriages. Jim unpacks biblical truth from Genesis 2, explains the Hebrew word Dabaq ("to cleave"), and shows what it really means to pursue, protect, and stay bonded to your wife. You'll walk away knowing the difference between connection and attachment — and why it matters AND simple ways to guard your heart from emotional entanglement with others. This message is from The MAG, The McMinnville Area Gathering for men in McMinnville, Oregon. This episode is sponsored by Compassion International. Our goal is for the Men in the Arena tribe to sponsor 1,000 boys over the coming year! Help us reach that goal and make a difference in a child's life today. When you sponsor a child using our link, you'll receive a free copy of Jim's book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God! We are also sponsored by MTNTOUGH Fitness Lab, a Christian-owned fitness app. This app, combined with diet, has helped Jim get in the best shape of his life! Get 6 weeks free with the code ARENA30 at MTNTOUGH.com. Every man needs a locker room. Apply to join an exclusive brotherhood of like-minded men in The Locker Room, our monthly live Zoom Q&A call! We meet in the Locker Room once a month for community, fellowship, laughter, and to help each other find biblical answers to life's difficult questions. Locker Room members also get access to monthly exclusive leadership trainings, historically only available to the staff team at Men in the Arena. Membership is by application only. Go here to apply: https://patreon.com/themeninthearena Get Jim Ramos' USA TODAY Bestselling book, Dialed In: Reaching Your Full Capacity as a Man of God (https://tinyurl.com/dialedinbook)

In this episode, James and Otto sit down with Amrit Dhillon-Bains—founder of Anais Events—for a conversation that goes beyond weddings and deep into identity, resilience, and leadership. Known for her powerful presence and soulfully intentional celebrations, Amrit shares what it's meant to build a globally recognized brand while holding true to her values. From navigating cultural expectations to setting healthy boundaries in a demanding industry, she reflects on how her own journey has shaped the way she leads, serves clients, and shows up in her work. She also talks candidly about the pressure of representation—what it's like to lead with excellence while carrying the weight of being "the first" or "the only." And why, in her words, belonging isn't something you find—it's something you build. If you've ever wrestled with identity, struggled to set boundaries, or wondered if you're allowed to do things differently—this episode is a quiet permission slip to trust yourself.

If your stomach drops every time your phone buzzes or dings with a message from your husband, you're not alone.When you're married to an alcoholic, a single text can set off hours of anxiety — and deciding whether to reply or stay silent can feel impossible.In this episode, we'll talk about what healthy phone boundaries really look like when addiction is in the picture — and how to protect your peace without guilt.You'll learn:

This week on the Anchored by the Sword Podcast, I'm thrilled to welcome my friend Alexandra Hoover, author of the brand-new book You Can Let Go: Make Peace with Your Past, Break Free from Offense, and Move Forward with God, released in October.Alex and I dive deep into her powerful story — from a childhood marked by trauma and instability to an encounter with Jesus at age 18 that completely changed the trajectory of her life. Today, she is a wife, mom of three, author, teacher, and a woman passionate about helping others walk in healing, identity, and freedom.Her book cuts to the heart of something every single one of us wrestles with: offense, the ways it shapes us, hides in us, and tries to lead our lives until we finally let God address the roots.This conversation is rich, honest, layered, and so needed — especially for women who are tired of carrying wounds they never asked for and stories they didn't choose.

#907: Join us as we sit down with Chriselle Lim – creative director of PHLUR, entrepreneur, & one of the original digital fashion tastemakers. As a trailblazer in fashion, beauty, & lifestyle, Chriselle built a global brand by sharing her evolution online. In this episode, Chriselle opens up about redefining boundaries in the digital age, embracing major life transitions, the personal growth that shaped her next chapter, & how she helped turn PHLUR into a modern fragrance powerhouse leading to its acquisition.    To Listen to episode #200 with Chriselle Lim click HERE   To Watch the Show click HERE   For Detailed Show Notes visit TSCPODCAST.COM   To connect with Chriselle Lim click HERE   To connect with PHLUR click HERE   To connect with Lauryn Bosstick click HERE   To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE   Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE   Head to our ShopMy page HERE and LTK page HERE to find all of the products mentioned in each episode.   Get your burning questions featured on the show! Leave the Him & Her Show a voicemail at +1 (512) 537-7194.   To shop PHLUR visit  https://bit.ly/4nJi6Eu and use code SKINNY for 15% off.    This episode is sponsored by WOO More Play Visit https://woomoreplay.com to learn more about  WOO More Play. Now available in stores and online at https://www.fascinations.net, use code SKINNY30 for 30% off at Fascinations.    This episode is sponsored by Nutrafol For a limited time, Nutrafol is offering our listeners $10 off your first month's subscription and free shipping when you go to http://nutrafol.com/skinnyhair.   This episode is sponsored by Branch Basics Shop Branch Basics in 600+ Target stores nationwide, or http://Target.com. You can also use my code SKINNY15 to get 15% off at https://branchbasics.com/SKINNY15. Again, SKINNY15 for 15% off at https://branchbasics.com/SKINNY15   This episode is sponsored by Fatty15 Fatty15 is on a mission to replenish your C15 levels and restore your long-term health. You can get an additional 15% off their 90-day subscription Starter Kit by going to http://fatty15.com/SKINNYand using code SKINNY at checkout.   This episode is sponsored by Bon Charge Go to http://boncharge.com and use coupon code SKINNY to save 15%.   This episode is sponsored by Boll & Branch Shop now at http://BollAndBranch.com/skinny with code skinny for 25% off sitewide, plus free shipping.   This episode is sponsored by Kendra Scott Visit http://kendrascott.com/gifts to start shopping!   This episode is sponsored by Everyday Dose  Get 61% off your first Coffee+ Starter Kit, a free A2 Probiotic Creamer, with over $100 in free gifts by going to http://everydaydose.com/SKINNY or entering SKINNY at checkout.   Produced by Dear Media

Struggling with boundaries? Attachment expert Daphna Lender reveals why "gentle parenting" trends miss the mark. Learn the neuroscience-backed technique of parental self-regulation that transforms difficult moments with your kids. Discover why your own nervous system holds the key to effective boundaries. With 30 years of clinical experience, Daphna shares evidence-based strategies for managing challenging behaviors in children and teens. Learn how to "clear your screen" before setting boundaries, why listening with curiosity changes everything with teenagers, and the surprising power of disengagement. Read the show notes for today's episode at terricole.com/783

SummaryIn this episode of Echoes Through Eternity, Dr. Jeffrey D. Skinner explores the transformative power of saying 'no' and how it can lead to a more focused and fulfilling life. He emphasizes the importance of understanding one's priorities, setting boundaries, and creating rhythms of rest to guard against burnout and maintain spiritual health. Through practical steps and personal anecdotes, listeners are encouraged to embrace the strength found in discernment and the sacredness of their time.TakeawaysA life of endless yes can unravel your calling.No can unlock health, abundance, and a deeper joy.Clarifying your God-given priorities is essential.Your priorities aren't walls, they are pathways.Saying no starts before the word even forms.Every unchecked yes robs time from your true path.Boundaries are sacred ground that protect relationships.Your stop doing list is not loss; it is harvest.Sabbath is not a suggestion; it is God's invitation to trust.The quiet strength of no is a gift, not a chain.Sound bites"A life of endless yes can unravel your calling.""Saying no starts before the word even forms.""Boundaries are sacred ground."Chapters00:00 The Power of No03:22 Finding Balance in Church Planting05:50 Practical Steps to Saying No08:08 The 24-Hour Rule for Discernment10:44 Building a Stop Doing List13:05 Setting Boundaries for Healthy Relationships15:42 Creating Rhythms of Rest17:53 NEWCHAPTER17:58 ETE_Cover Art.mp4Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/echoes-through-eternity-with-dr-jeffery-skinner--5523198/support.Echoes Through Eternity Guiding church planters and pastors to plant seeds of prayer, holiness, and courage that outlast a lifetime. contact drjefferydskinner@protonmail.com

Let's get real — a lot of the exhaustion, resentment, and overthinking we feel as women doesn't come from “doing too much.” It comes from doing too much for everyone else and not enough for ourselves. That's what happens when we don't have boundaries. Boundaries aren't walls. They're the guardrails that protect your peace, your energy, and your healing. They sound like: ➡ “I'm not available for that.” ➡ “I need to think before I commit.” ➡ “I'm not drinking tonight.” Simple. Direct. No guilt required. But here's the truth — holding boundaries is hard at first. You'll feel guilty. People might push back. You'll want to explain yourself. And that's okay. Because every time you honor your boundary, you're telling yourself: ✨ “I'm worth protecting.” ✨ “My peace matters.” ✨ “God gave me permission to rest.” If you've been the fixer, the peacekeeper, or the one who holds everything together — this is your permission to pause, say no, and choose you without apology. You are not being mean. You're being healthy.   If you're feeling stuck and want personalized support, I'm here. Email me at michelle@setfreesisterhood.com. I'd love to walk alongside you in this journey of freedom.

What if the fastest path to your goals starts with protecting your energy? We sit down with functional medicine nutritionist and educator Andrea Nakayama to unpack how high achievers can set a self-care floor, work with their biology, and lead with more clarity and calm. Andrea's story—building a global education company while navigating profound personal loss—reveals why sleep, boundaries, and joy aren't luxuries. They're leadership tools.We explore how to define your non-negotiables so they actually live on your calendar, not just your wish list. Andrea breaks down the hormone science behind the late-night “second wind,” why it sabotages sleep quality, and how to catch your natural evening curve for better recovery. We talk practical micro-practices that fit real schedules: 10-minute resets, afternoon self-checks, and routines that flex without collapsing into all-or-nothing thinking. Her “road, bike lane, poison ivy” model helps you stay consistent while avoiding extremes that trigger stress and setbacks.For big goals, we trade hustle myths for smarter pacing. Think Everest, not elevator—base camps to acclimate your systems, stepwise upgrades, and permission to learn on the way up. Andrea's five P model—passion, permission, purpose, persistence, perseverance—replaces perfectionism with momentum you can sustain. Along the way, we connect bioindividuality, circadian rhythm, and nervous system care to everyday leadership decisions so your effort translates into durable results.If you want to finish strong and start stronger, this conversation gives you the playbook: protect sleep, schedule what refuels you, and let joy be part of the plan. Subscribe, share this episode with a friend who needs permission to slow down, and leave a review to tell us your top non-negotiable for the season. In this podcast you will learn how to:• define energy, relationships, and impact as daily anchors• non-negotiables for leaders: sleep, digestion, blood sugar• setting a self-care floor and saying no with confidence• calendar design with micro check-ins and wiggle room• shift out of all-or-nothing mindsets• cortisol, circadian rhythms, and second winds• evening unplugging and nervous system care• the five P model: passion, permission, purpose, persistence, perseverance• add joy as a core success metricHighlights:0:00Slowing Down To Succeed0:21Framing Elite Achievement4:08Making Self-Care Non-Negotiable8:02Defining Your Self-Care Floor12:04Calendar Design And Wiggle Room15:57Beyond Perfectionism And The Bike Lane20:38Base Camps, Not Summits In A Day25:53Circadian Rhythm And Second Winds30:00Night Unplugging And Nervous System33:28Micro-Practices For Recovery37:42Weekends, Boundaries, And RefuelingInterested in 1:1 Coaching?Kristin partners with high-performing financial advisors, leaders, and business owners who are ready to lead with more clarity, focus, and intention.Clients often come to her with a strong vision, but they aren't sure how to close the gap between where they are now and where they want to go. Many are navigating a season of growth, stepping into expanded leadership, or realizing they've outgrown their current systems and ways of working.They know they're capable of more and want a strategic thought partner to help them get there, someone who will ask the tough questions, create space to think deeply, and offer a proven process for turning ambition into meaningful progress.If this sounds like the kind of partnership you've been craving, email meet@kristinburke.com to learn more and connect.Connect with Kristin

In this special role-reversal episode, Beth hands the mic to her longtime friend of 40+ years, OB-GYN Dr. Patricia “Tricia” McClelland—a familiar voice on the podcast from past episodes on hormones and menopause. This time, Tricia interviews Beth, asking the questions Beth usually asks everyone else. Together they dive into the values that quietly steer Beth's life—love, kindness, community, authenticity, using your gifts to help others, and treating everyone with dignity—plus how her Christian faith gives her peace with her own imperfections. Beth opens up about parenting three kids close together, her journey with ADHD, and how chronic people-pleasing and weak boundaries left her exhausted (and what she's doing differently now). They talk honestly about: Growing through hard seasons like early motherhood How ADHD shows up as procrastination, overwhelm, and “inconsistent attention” Practical tools for focus in a distracted, social-media-driven world Boundaries, FOMO, and the myth that you can keep everyone happy Food, body image, and talking to kids about health without shame Self-care that actually fits real life: yoga, friendship, faith, and small doable practices If you've ever felt like you're supposed to have it all together while secretly struggling, this conversation will make you feel seen, normal, and a little more hopeful.

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Politics and faith weren't meant to be weapons, but windows into the heart. When conversations turn political, it's easy to choose sides and lose sight of each other. In this week's episode, Laura will talk about what happens when belonging gets tangled with belief—and how to hold conviction without losing compassion. Maybe the real question isn't whose side are you on, but how can we stay connected in the middle? What if Jesus didn't come to take sides—but to take us home to love?  

True balance isn't found. It's designed, line by line, through faith and focus. In this episode, luxury calligrapher and engraver Kristin Andrews shares how she transformed a creative spark into a thriving business built on faith, discipline, and intention. From her start sketching rainbows on her mother's walls to founding Kreative Blends Calligraphy Studio, Kristin's story is one of balance and belief. You'll hear how she manages a full-time career in tech, raises a family, and still creates elegant, meaningful experiences for brands like Nordstrom, Meta, Swarovski, and Tory Burch. Through courage and consistency, she's learned that boundaries don't limit creativity, they protect it. Tune in to learn how to build confidence through structure, how faith fuels ambition, and how devotion turns passion into purpose. Visit our website where you will find show notes and links to all the resources in this episode, including the best way to get in touch with our special guest. The key moments in this episode are: [00:27] Embracing Creativity and Personal Style [01:08] Meet Kristin Andrews: A Journey of Balance and Boundaries [03:07] Kristin's Entrepreneurial Beginnings [04:33] Launching Creative Blends Calligraphy Studio [05:44] Balancing a Full-Time Job and a Business [08:36] The Challenges and Rewards of Entrepreneurship [16:44] Daily Habits for Success [19:47] The Bodybuilding Journey [20:00] Struggles with Body Image [21:03] Starting a Health Journey [34:22] Manifesting Goals and Aspirations [35:24] Lightning Round and Final Thoughts

In this episode, Lynette Robinson and I dive deep into three real-world scenarios that DOOs often face when it comes to team dynamics, leadership communication, and managing project integrity. From addressing uncomfortable feedback loops to maintaining authority in hiring processes and leading remote teams, we're talking through the tough but necessary conversations that help you grow as a strategic operator. If you struggle with balancing work boundaries or communicating effectively with both leadership and team members, this episode is packed with insights to help you stay strong, professional, and aligned with your values.   Connect with Lynette: Website: www.lighterlivingvirtualsolutions.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/_lynettedrobinson Facebook: www.facebook.com/lighterlivingvirtualsolutions   For full show notes, check out www.TheOpsAuthority.com/podcast/291 Stay Connected: Join the Ops Insiders FREE Facebook community! Other Ways to Connect with Me: Facebook Page Instagram

The modern cult of “holding space” has become a sanctuary for avoidance. We glorify tolerance while privately hemorrhaging self-respect. The phrase once meant presence; now it often means paralysis. Hold Dis L detonates the myth that unconditional compassion justifies self-erasure. Krishnamurti warned that conformity masquerades as kindness; Hawkins proved that guilt vibrates lower than anger. Together they whisper: love without discernment isn't love—it's spiritual codependency with better vocabulary.

The modern cult of “holding space” has become a sanctuary for avoidance. We glorify tolerance while privately hemorrhaging self-respect. The phrase once meant presence; now it often means paralysis. Hold Dis L detonates the myth that unconditional compassion justifies self-erasure. Krishnamurti warned that conformity masquerades as kindness; Hawkins proved that guilt vibrates lower than anger. Together they whisper: love without discernment isn't love—it's spiritual codependency with better vocabulary.

Parenting a child who constantly melts down—even when you've tried every gentle parenting tip out there—can leave you exhausted and doubting yourself.You're doing your best to be calm and validating, yet you still feel like you're walking on eggshells. You're not alone. The truth is, gentle parenting isn't enough on its own—and understanding whycan completely change your family dynamic.Let's break down what gentle parenting gets right, what it misses, and how to help your child truly regulate and thrive. Learn more about why empathy without boundaries backfires, what “Regulate, Connect, Correct” really means, and how to shift from over-validation to true emotional safety.Why Doesn't Gentle Parenting Always Work?Gentle parenting promotes empathy, validation, and connection instead of harsh punishment. That's beautiful in theory—but many parents discover it's not enough in real life.Here's why: Validation alone doesn't calm a dysregulated brain.Kids may feel heard, but not necessarily safe.A dysregulated nervous system can't learn, connect, or cooperate.Empathy without boundaries often fuels anxiety and chaos.When kids stay stuck in big emotions, they become dependent on constant reassurance instead of learning self-regulation. That's when parents start feeling drained and walking on eggshells.

In this episode, Amapola dives deep into what it really means to set healthy boundaries  especially for Chicana and Latina moms who were raised to put everyone else first. From cultural guilt to emotional exhaustion, this heartfelt conversation reminds us that saying “no” is not selfish — it's sacred.Amapola breaks down how to identify your limits, start small, communicate clearly, and stay consistent. She also shares insight on how to navigate guilt, cultural expectations, and pushback when you begin to stand in your power.If you've ever felt tired, overstretched, or guilty for protecting your peace, this episode is your loving reminder that boundaries are an act of self-respect and self-love.

If you are ready to UNSUBSCRIBE™ from judgment and feel confident in who you are, this episode will speak directly to you. I sit down with Kathryn Henry for a powerful conversation about letting go of judgment, releasing fear, building confidence, and creating a life that aligns with your values.This conversation blends healing, personal growth, emotional intelligence, and mindset shifts. It gives you practical UNSUBSCRIBE™ tools to remove what drains your energy so you can move forward with clarity and ease.Kathryn Henry is known not only for her wildly successful corporate career as an executive for organizations like Gap, Levi & Strauss, and Lululemon, but also for her grounded wisdom and her ability to help people release old stories. She shares the moments that changed her life, how she stopped judging herself, and how letting go created space for her to grow, lead, and live more intentionally.If you are searching for guidance on healing, confidence, boundaries, emotional wellness, or personal reinvention, this episode will meet you exactly where you are.If this conversation resonates with you, share it with someone who needs encouragement or clarity. Sharing helps the podcast grow and helps more people find UNSUBSCRIBE™.CONNECT WITH KATHRYN:INSTAGRAMWEBSITECONNECT WITH GINNY:INSTAGRAMMerch, Speaking, VIP Day, brand partnerships: UnsubscribeOfficial.comSign up for the NEWSLETTERSponsored by Thrifty Traveler. Find mistake fares, hidden deals, and cheap flights AND save $20 on your first year with THIS LINK.Follow the podcast for weekly conversations that help you grow, heal, and UNSUBSCRIBE™ from what no longer serves you.Leave a 5 star review to support the show.

Sabrina Zohar, host of The Sabrina Zohar Show (7M+ downloads, top 0.1% globally), joins David Brickley for a raw, honest conversation about mental health, dating, relationships, and childhood trauma—and how all of it ties into the patterns we carry as adults. They unpack the psychology behind anxious vs avoidant attachments, the neuroscience of texting anxiety, the truth about boundaries (hint: it's not about telling people what to do), and how to actually rewire old beliefs instead of projecting them onto your partner. From real talk about her own healing journey to the patterns she sees in thousands of clients, this episode is packed with insight, self-awareness, and the kind of honesty that makes you feel seen.  

Send us a textIn this empowering episode of The Daily Energize, Spencer Jones dives deep into the topic of boundaries and what they truly mean and how they can help you live more authentically. Instead of viewing boundaries as walls that shut people out, Spencer encourages you to see them as bridges back to yourself, tools that help you protect your energy, values, and peace. 

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Thanks to our Partner, NAPA Autotech Training and Pico TechnologyWatch Full Video EpisodeWe unpack what “boundaries” actually are—and aren't—in shops and life. Margaret draws clear lines between rules vs. boundaries, protective vs. containing boundaries, and gives scripts you can use with customers, colleagues, and leadership. Matt adds his trademark honesty (and jokes) about self-regulation, “saying it like it is,” and swapping “but” for “and.”Sponsor shoutoutsNAPA AutoTech Training — Apprentice pathways, Tech Update, Service Advisor, and EV Ready week-long hands-on training. Details: napaautotech.comPico Technology (PicoScope) — Turn a PC into a powerful diagnostic scope. Guided tests, EV kit, faster fault-finding. Details: picoauto.comKey ideas & takeawaysRules vs. Boundaries: Rule: “You're not allowed to yell at me.” (trying to control others)Boundary: “If you yell at me, I will leave the room.” (what I will do)Two Types of Boundaries:Protective: Guard yourself from others' behavior (leave the room, pause the call).Containing: Guard others from your behavior (take a break before you escalate).Simple Shop ScriptsAdvisor to escalated customer: “I'm happy to help and if the yelling continues, I'll have to ask you to leave. I'm happy to help when we're calm.”Advisor protecting self: “If voices rise, I'm going to step to the break room for five minutes and then return to help.”Employee to manager (after-hours texts): “I'll handle this when I'm back at work.” (Boundary = your response, not their texting.)Use “and,” not “but.”“I hear you overslept and I need you here on time.”Removes the “disqualifier” feel of but, holds two truths at once, reduces power struggles.Broken-record technique for heatRepeat your boundary + offer: “I'm happy to help, and if the yelling continues, I'll need you to leave.”Professionalism ≠ light switchContainment and communication are skills that need coaching, not just warnings. Managers can (and should) teach, not only discipline.Reasonable ExpectationsSome things are rules of employment (e.g., start times). People can be upset and the expectation still stands.Curiosity FirstLead with, “Are you open to feedback?” “Tell me what would work better.” You can hear it without agreeing to change your decision.Culture Over ChaosWe don't need reality-TV drama in a professional shop. Boundaries + coaching = fewer blowups, better results.Practical Playbook - Train mechanical specialists and technical specialists to:Spot their escalation early (breathing break, lap around the building).State boundaries in first-person (“I will…”) not second-person commandments.Swap but → and in feedback and estimates.Train advisors on three phrases:“I want to help, and we'll...

This one hits where it hurts: the living room. We dig into how money actually moves in multi-generational, first-gen Hispanic households during the holidays when everyone has an opinion and nobody wants to say the quiet part out loud. Daniela Molina joins me to cut through the noise with straight talk on culture, pressure, and breaking money taboos. We start with reality. Different generations carry different money scripts, and when the saver, the spender, and the “I don't even know” all live under one roof, small choices turn into family politics. Daniela lays out how to start real conversations without shaming your elders, how to share what you're learning without posturing, and how to reframe the holidays so love is the priority—not debt. Then we torch a few lazy hot takes. “Cut off your family to get ahead” sounds bold online, but it ignores culture and context. “Debt is always bad” is just wrong. We separate clickbait from facts and talk about how to consume media like an adult: verify sources, look for methodology, and stop outsourcing your brain to headlines. We also get tactical: setting boundaries when relatives hit you up for cash, protecting your personal life if you work in media or client-facing roles, and expanding your reach with bilingual content—even if you don't speak Spanish—by partnering, translating key one-pagers, and focusing on genuinely useful advice. Holiday season is when budgets blow up and resentment festers. Not this year. Listen in, get your plan tight, and keep your dignity intact. Full video here: https://youtu.be/IU23V53K2fAAs always we ask you to comment, DM, whatever it takes to have a conversation to help you take the next step in your journey, reach out on any platform!Twitter, FaceBook, Instagram, Tiktok, LinkedinDISCLOSURE: Awards and rankings by third parties are not indicative of future performance or client investment success. Past performance does not guarantee future results. All investment strategies carry profit/loss potential and cannot eliminate investment risks. Information discussed may not reflect current positions/recommendations. While believed accurate, Black Mammoth does not guarantee information accuracy. This broadcast is not a solicitation for securities transactions or personalized investment advice. Tax/estate planning information is general - consult professionals for specific situations. Full disclosures at www.blackmammoth.com.

Ever reach your boiling point that was really a much-needed release? In this raw, Heart AF episode, I walk you through the moment I finally let go and faced the truth. When I finally looked at the things I didn't want to see, I was able to  scream, and let my tears flow.  This was a turning point in releasing all the suppressed emotions and  resentment that had been building up within me, showing the only way out of it is through. We dig into: • Suppressed emotions—and how unspoken pain turns into irritation, victimhood, and burnout • The “mirror effect” in relationships (yep, your partner will reflect your stuff) • How to notice triggers before you explode: body cues, short fuse, numb-out habits • Practical tools for release: name it out loud, journal it, move it (somatic shaking/dance), music, crying • Boundaries, responsibility, and self-healing: why no one else can fix what's hurting inside you • Getting back to alignment—so you can attract joy, abundance, and connection Quick practices to try today: Name the truth: “That hurt me.” Say it out loud or write it down. Move the energy: 3 minutes of shaking/dancing or a primal scream in a safe space. Micro-boundary: one small, clear ask the next time a line is crossed. This is what healing looks like! It's messy, human, and honest. When we do our inner work, everything around us follows suit! Don't forget to share this episode with anyone who could benefit!  If this resonated, tell me what landed, or share your own release story. I'm listening.

This week, Karen tackles listener questions on navigating everything from over-involved mother-in-laws to family disagreements and unmet expectations. Karen shares wisdom from her 39 years of marriage about when to speak up, when to set boundaries, and how to keep your marriage strong even when extended family drama threatens your peace! Episode Recap:How do we make our relationships with our MILs stronger and better? (2:53)As a MIL, how can I best help my DIL when Baby #3 arrives? (4:25)My MIL doesn't get along well in family situations, should I intervene? (8:35)Boundaries are for you, not the other person (10:17)My SIL never prioritizes our family, should I talk to her? (12:25)My MIL is upset over our parenting choices, (15:18)My husband and I are at odds over how best to honor his family (18:20)Scripture: Matthew 11:28 (NIV) “Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest.”Discussion Questions: When have you found it hardest to set boundaries with family? What helped you hold firm?How can you and your spouse stay unified when you see a family situation differently?What practical ways can you show love to your in-laws while still protecting your family's peace?When conflict rises, what would it look like for you to “take it to the Lord” instead of trying to fix it yourself?Resources:Reach out to https://birdsonawiremoms.com/book-karen-to-speak to have Karen come speak in your community!Join our private FB group, BOAW Moms: https://www.facebook.com/groups/BOAWmoms

Holiday gatherings can make body boundaries a mess. Here's how to help kids handle hugs, high-energy relatives, and "say-hi" moments with confidence and respect. You'll learn: – What to teach kids about saying "no" politely – How to prep family for your boundary rules – Ways to model consent during the holidays Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent   LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!  The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

The holidays can be extra tough for autistic, ADHD and other neurodivergent kids—new people, touchy relatives, and lots of noise. In this episode, I share simple, concrete ways to help ND kids keep their boundaries and stay comfortable. You'll learn: – How to prep ND kids for hugs and touch expectations – What language makes boundaries crystal clear – How to support them when family doesn't get it Your next step? Check out The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids. LEARN MORE Watch here: All Kids Episode on YouTube ND Kids Episode on YouTube Got some thoughts or questions? Amy@BirdsAndBeesAndKid.com Learn more! BirdsAndBeesAndKids.com 30-minute Quickie Consultation Get clarity fast with a focused 30-minute session on your most concerning sex talk question. The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for ALL Kids: Neurotypical & Neurodivergent All the topics you'll need to cover as your kids grow up! Puberty, consent, relationship, and sex (of course)!  The Birds & Bees Solutions Center for Parents of Neurodivergent Kids Get the tools to communicate with your neurodivergent kid about sex, consent, and safety—without awkwardness or overwhelm. The Porn Talk Info Kit Simple tools for the porn and online safety talks—plus videos and tech tips to calm your worries. Includes a specific video for parents of neurodivergent kids.

It's that time of year again - the holiday season is upon us! While the holidays can be fun and cozy, they can also be a LOT. The endless events, extra time with family, and food EVERYWHERE, it's no wonder you feel overwhelmed on your fitness journey.The truth though? You're allowed to have BOUNDARIES. You can enjoy the holidays and stay aligned with your goals!Setting boundaries isn't about being “that” person who ruins the fun - it's about protecting your peace. You don't owe anyone an explanation for saying NO to something that doesn't serve you.Start by getting clear on what you actually want this season, and be super specific!Remember - boundaries protect your energy, your goals, and your growth. They're not rude, but a form of self-respect. People might not always get it, but…that's not your problem.If you want to stop the cycle of “falling off” and “starting over” every single January, it's time to protect your peace and honor your goals, friend!Episode recap:Why you can set healthy boundaries AND still enjoy the holiday seasonThe truth about pressure & judgment during this timeHow to get clear on YOUR specific goal this seasonThe power of “no” as a complete sentenceNormalizing being the “fit and healthy” friend (without guilt)How to plan + backup plan so you can stay intentional and flexibleWhy boundaries protect your energy, your goals & your peaceLinks/Resources:Ep. 116 | Social Gatherings Without Guilt: Tackling Food and Drink Pressure From OthersGrab your FREE Body Recomp Meal Prep BlueprintListen to the Sol Fit PodcastJoin FIT CLUB, my monthly membership with workouts you can do at home or the gymPRIVATE COACHING is my 1:1 program (choose 3 or 6 month option)Connect with me on Instagram @kristycastillofit and @unfuckyourfitnesspodcast so we can keep this conversation going-be sure to tag me in your posts and stories!Join my FREE Facebook group, Unf*ck Your FitnessClick HERE for my favorite fitness & life things!Send me a text with episode ideas or just to say hi! Support the show

What happens when setting a boundary means completely starting over?In this powerful and deeply personal episode of Restructured, I sit down with my friend and fellow boundary advocate Jennifer Wiczynski, an ERISA attorney who made a life-changing decision to rebuild her life from the ground up.Content note: This episode includes discussion of an unsafe relationship and may be difficult for some listeners. Please take care while listening and skip ahead a few minutes if needed.We talk about the moments that push us to draw the line, the difference between setting rules and setting real boundaries, and how both of us have learned to protect our peace while running businesses in a demanding industry.It's a conversation about courage, change, and choosing yourself — even when it's hard.Connect with Melissa on LinkedIn⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Learn about Melissa's Keynote Presentation

In this heartfelt episode of The Human Experience, host Jennifer Peterkin welcomes Angela Harvey, who opens up about her profound journey through codependency, depression, and rediscovering her self-worth. Angela shares candid reflections on her lifelong search for validation, the pain of unmet expectations, and the transformative process of learning to nurture herself from within. Through honesty and vulnerability, she explores how grief, accountability, and creative expression have shaped her path toward healing. Her story is a reminder that transformation is always possible—at any stage of life—when we learn to set boundaries, care for ourselves deeply, and embrace our truth with radical transparency and self-love. ⚠️ Content Warning: This episode contains discussions of depression, suicidal thoughts, and emotional trauma. Listener discretion is advised. Key Takeaways:● Angela’s experience with codependency and how it affected her identity and relationships.● The importance of self-awareness and healing from depression and suicidal ideation.● Self-care and boundary-setting as essential practices for well-being.● Breaking free from external validation and redefining self-worth.● The pressures women and mothers face around productivity, identity, and emotional labor.● The role of accountability and radical honesty in personal growth.● Navigating grief in its many forms—loss of people, identity, and expectations.● Learning to self-soothe and manage emotional triggers with compassion.● Embracing vulnerability and transparency as tools for lasting healing.● Finding freedom through creativity, self-acceptance, and storytelling. Interview recorded in Wake Forest, North Carolina.     Angela Harvey’s Bio:Angela Harvey is a compelling author and poet whose work captures the depths of human emotion and resilience. Based in Wake Forest, North Carolina, she has spent over 25 years facilitating workshops and hosting personal growth retreats that help others reconnect with their authentic selves. Her debut poetry self-help book, Poetic Alchemy: Seven Intentions for Healing, Growth, and Transformation, grew out of her own experiences with heartbreak and self-discovery—transforming pain into art and insight. Angela serves as the Director of Black Rainbow Love and is a columnist for SWERV Magazine. Through her writing, speaking, and teaching, she continues to empower others to embrace their potential, practice self-love, and heal through creativity and connection.     Connect with Angela Harvey:

Ep 90: The holidays don't have to derail your fitness or make you feel like you're “starting over” come January. In this episode, Chelsey breaks down how to approach the holiday season with balance, strategy, and zero guilt — so you can enjoy yourself and stay aligned with your goals.We'll cover:Mindset: Why one day (or even a few) won't undo months of consistent effort — and how to keep your perspective in check.Workouts: How to stay active before and during travel — from quick 20-minute sessions on the app to bodyweight or banded workouts that fit anywhere.NEAT (Non-Exercise Activity Thermogenesis): Easy ways to stay moving without “working out” — like helping clean up, running errands, or walking with family.Food: Simple ways to feel balanced while still enjoying your favorite foods — bring protein and fruit, and keep small parts of your routine intact.Boundaries & Habits: How to set light, flexible boundaries that support you — like capping drinks, skipping late-night snacking, or stacking habits (walk before lunch, workout before meals, etc.).Whether you're traveling, hosting, or just trying to stay consistent through the chaos, this episode will help you approach the holidays with confidence and intention — not restriction.Start your 7 day FREE trial of my new app HERE!Want to work one on one with Chelsey?Set up a one on one consultation call here to see if personalized online training is right for you.Join a semi-private class in LA here.Email info@chelseyrosehealth.com to inquire about one on one in person training.Follow Chelsey on Instagram:@Chelseyrosehealth@StrengthtobuildFollow Chelsey on TikTok Here."Submit a question to the show"

"Honoring your own boundaries is the clearest message to others to honor them, too." - Gina Greenlee Check Out These Highlights:  I love this quote because treating yourself well is as essential as treating others well. Wouldn't you agree? I want to explore the concept of saying no respectfully to honor oneself and others. If you've been listening to my podcast for a while, you know I always share my CSA with you, so when you are ready to look at your communication superpowers and blind spots, I have it available for you. I am adding that link to my show notes so you can easily access it.  Before I delve into the topic of saying no respectfully, I want to share some foundational communication knowledge with you and recommend that you take my CSA – the link is in the show notes. About Connie Whitman: Known for her energetic, passionate, heart-centered, and enthusiastic approach to sales, teaching, and coaching, Connie Whitman has served as the CEO of Changing the Sales Game for over 25 years, helping business owners, leaders, and sales teams build powerful organizations.  Connie is a four-time #1 International Best-Selling author, including her book ESP (Easy Sales Process): 7 Steps to Sales Success, as well as a speaker and podcast host. Her inspiring teaching, transformational tools, and informative content help business owners and salespeople increase their revenue streams by enhancing their communication skills.  She is thrilled to share inspiring content on her international podcasts "Changing the Sales Game" and "Enlightenment of Change."  How to Get In Touch With Connie Whitman: Website:   https://changingthesalesgame.com Email: Connie@changingthesalesgame.com Free Gift: https://changingthesalesgame.com/communication-style-assessment/

Burnout isn't just a buzzword—it's a warning sign.In this episode, we're joined by Kelsey Smith to talk about what burnout really looks like behind the scenes as a creator, how to break the cycle, and why boundaries and systems are the only way to build a business that doesn't break you.********************************DISCLAIMER: This audio and description may contain affiliate links, which means that if you click on one of our recommended products, we may receive a small commission at no additional cost to you. This helps support our show and allows us to continue to provide you with valuable content. Thank you for your support!********************************FULL SHOW NOTEShttps://thesmartinfluencer.com/e246-the-truth-about-burnout-boundaries-and-building-a-business-that-lasts/CONNECT WITH GUEST NAMEWebsiteFacebookInstagramPinterestYouTubeTikTokLinked InCONNECT WITH CORINNE & CHRISTINAGet notified when new episodes drop Check out our YouTube channelJoin the convo on FacebookConnect on InstagramCOMMENTS, QUESTIONS, EPISODE IDEAS?Email us at hello@thesmartinfluencer.comSupport the show

AI is powerful—but it's not a person. In this episode, Joe Rockey and Father Boniface Hicks cut through hype and fear to frame AI as a tool in service of human creativity and relationship, not a replacement for them. We explore how parents and educators can guide kids wisely, why presence beats perfection, and how prudent governance and virtuous use turn technology into a channel for love. Throughout, we hold the three lenses: honesty with self, charity with others, under a living relationship with God.Key IdeasPersonhood vs. tools: AI can assist; it cannot love, intend, or take responsibility—only persons do.Formation first: families, schools, and parishes can coach attention, boundaries, and creative habits so tech serves growth.Create, then edit: let AI help with drafts or analysis, but keep the human voice, judgment, and accountability.Presence > polish: prefer relational availability over endless “optimization”; use tech to free time for people.Prudence and trust: welcome governance and guardrails; cultivate virtue so our choices—online and offline—reflect the Gospel.Links & ReferencesHoly See, Dicastery for the Doctrine of the Faith & Dicastery for Culture and Education, Antiqua et nova. Note on the Relationship Between Artificial Intelligence and Human Intelligence (Jan 28, 2025) — official Vatican text: https://www.vatican.va/roman_curia/congregations/cfaith/documents/rc_ddf_doc_20250128_antiqua-et-nova_en.htmlCTAIf this helped, please leave a review or share this episode with a friend.Questions or thoughts? Email FatherAndJoe@gmail.comTagsFather and Joe, Joe Rockey, Father Boniface Hicks, artificial intelligence, Antiqua et nova, Vatican AI note, human dignity, personhood, creativity, editing workflows, parenting, education, formation, attention, boundaries, prudence, governance, virtue, moral responsibility, presence over perfection, relationships, technology as tool, discernment, accountability, spiritual growth, relationship with God, relationship with self, relationship with others, Benedictine spirituality, practical spirituality, Catholic podcast, work and family life, ethics, builders of AI, trust and safety

In today's episode, I'm talking about boundaries that grow capacity. Many of us grew up believing we were responsible for everyone else's emotions. We learned to stay quiet, stay polite, and keep everyone happy. Unfortunately, those patterns often show up later as burnout, resentment, or the quiet ache of always being available for everyone but ourselves.Boundaries don't have to mean permanence or walls that never come down; they're more like fences with gates. Boundaries that grow capacity can be uncomfortable at first, but over time, that discomfort turns into peace and regrowth.In this episode, I cover:How to recognize when your body is signaling the need for a boundaryWhy so many of us were conditioned to feel responsible for other people's emotionsHow guilt, burnout & resentment often show up when boundaries are missingThe difference between compassion and carrying someone else's emotional loadWhy boundaries are more like fences with gates than walls or distanceHow boundaries help grow your capacity + protect your energyThe connection between boundaries & healing (for you and your loved ones) Make sure to hit subscribe/follow so you never miss an episode! Find the complete show notes here: https://terryndrieling.com/boundaries-that-grow-capacityConnect with Terryn:Follow on Instagram @terryn.drielingCheck out my websiteSend me an email at terryn@terryndrieling.comResources & Links:Episode 36: Boundaries Are KindEpisode 93: Family Dynamics and Emotional Healing with Paige DulaneyEpisode 102: Stop Carrying Everyone Else's Healing: Do the Work for You FirstJoin the waitlist for the Good Movement CollectiveGood Movement music by: Aaron EspePodcast produced by: Jill Carr Podcasting

Tznius and Boundaries in the Workplace is a thought-provoking series exploring halacha, sensitivity and practical guidance for navigating Mixed work environments. Adapted from the original Project Chana Power Hour recordings, these episodes feature renowned Kallah teacher and Mashpia Mrs. Sara Morozow, who brings clarity and insight to the topic. Whether you work directly in a mixed environment or not, this series offers valuable lessons for fostering healthy, and respectful spaces in all areas of life.

We are excited to welcome clinical psychologist and USA Today bestselling author, Dr. Chloe Carmichael, today.  Chloe wrote Nervous Energy: Harness the Power of Your Anxiety, which Deepak Chopra endorsed. Her latest book, Can I Say That? Why Free Speech Matters and How to Use It Fearlessly prompted Eric to reach out to her. That book received recommendations from Dr. Phil McGraw, Dr. Drew Pinsky, Patrick Bet-David, and various other thought leaders. She joins us to explore mental health, the importance of free speech, and what goes on within corporate organizations. Chloe's Journey Dr. Chloe Carmichael built her career as a clinical psychologist, author, and speaker, blending academic insight with real-world experience. She holds a Ph.D. in Clinical Psychology and has a private practice in New York City. Her background as a yoga teacher and her fascination with mindfulness shaped her approach to emotional regulation and performance, and she has worked extensively with high-achieving professionals. Over time, her work has evolved from traditional therapy into coaching, corporate consulting, and thought leadership, bridging the gap between psychology and practical success strategies. Productive Anxiety Chloe explains that anxiety, when understood and managed, can be a powerful motivational tool because the physiological arousal associated with anxiety is similar to the energy needed for preparation and action. Productive anxiety becomes maladaptive only when paired with avoidance or self-criticism. Instead of suppressing it, people can use that energy to plan, anticipate, and perform better. Recognizing that anxiety is a natural human function helps people shift from fear-based reactions to constructive responses. High Achievers and Self-Regulation When anxiety gets reframed as preparation rather than panic, it becomes an ally in achieving excellence. High performers often experience elevated anxiety because they set ambitious goals and carry heavy responsibilities. The challenge is not to eliminate anxiety but to regulate it. Practices such as self-awareness, structured planning, and mindfulness help individuals to harness their natural drive without burning out.  Emotional Awareness Tuning into emotional cues can offer valuable feedback rather than distractions. Emotions signal what matters most, and ignoring them can lead to misalignment or poor decisions. Identifying the underlying messages (fear of failure, desire for growth, or need for control) allows people to channel those feelings into intentional actions rather than reactive ones. Boundaries and Self-Validation Boundaries are essential, especially for those who seek their validation externally. Many high achievers rely on the approval of others, which can increase anxiety when feedback is inconsistent or negative. Chloe encourages the development of self-validation skills and acknowledging one's own efforts and internal standards. Setting emotional and time boundaries helps maintain focus, energy, and confidence, even in competitive environments. Practical Tools for Managing Anxiety Chloe offers practical strategies for turning anxiety into productive energy. She recommends setting clear, achievable goals and using visualization to stay focused on positive outcomes. Scheduling dedicated worry time helps contain overthinking, while separating problem-solving from emotional processing prevents downward spiraling. Reframing self-talk from "what if I fail?" to "how can I prepare?" will turn fear into action and build confidence. Mindfulness and Grounding Techniques Mindfulness is essential for calming the nervous system and being grounded. Deep breathing, guided meditation, and journaling slow the mind and create distance from anxious thoughts. Chloe points out that mindfulness does not eliminate anxiety. It helps the mind engage with it objectively, cultivating emotional resilience and better decision-making. Leadership and Psychological Safety Chloe highlights the importance of creating environments where people feel psychologically safe to express their ideas and concerns. Leaders who model calm, reflective behavior encourage teams to think critically rather than reacting emotionally. Leaders will also benefit from acknowledging their own anxieties, as that normalizes stress and builds trust within teams. Balancing Ambition and Well-being Ambition and mental health are not necessarily mutually exclusive. Sustainable success requires the balancing of drive with recovery. High performers should schedule rest, physical movement, and meaningful personal time to prevent chronic stress.  Integrating Psychology into Everyday Life Chloe views psychology as a proactive skill set that helps people live with intention rather than reaction. She encourages listeners to use psychological tools in everyday life, not just in therapy or moments of crisis. Emotional tracking, mindfulness, and self-compassion can strengthen relationships, sharpen leadership, and boost creativity. Connect with Eric Rozenberg On LinkedIn Facebook Instagram Website Listen to The Business of Meetings podcast Subscribe to The Business of Meetings newsletter Connect with Dr. Chloe Carmichael On LinkedIn

Why Do We Keep Arguing About the Same Things? Here's How to StopDo you and your spouse keep circling back to the same arguments, no matter how much you talk? In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you'll learn why repetitive conflict happens, why arguing never fixes relationship problems, and what to do instead. Coach Jack breaks down the real causes—power struggles, fear, and unhelpful beliefs—and shows you how to stop the cycle for good.What You'll LearnWhy repeating the same argument means there's an underlying skill gap, not a communication failureHow unmet emotional needs, insecurity, and control issues keep conflicts aliveThe biblical and psychological reasons arguing never brings love or respectPractical ways to restore peace and connection without giving in or becoming a doormatIf your marriage feels stuck in the same pattern of conflict, Coach Jack's Difficult Partner Coaching Package can help you take back control, rebuild respect, and foster meaningful connection—all without constant conflict.Key TakeawaysArguing damages love—it never builds itReplacing invalidation with validation stops recurring conflictsBoundaries protect your relationship; they're not punishmentReducing time together can lower tension and rebuild attractionYou can end the cycle and bring peace back into your marriageAdditional Resources:How Effective Are Your Boundaries? (Free Quiz) – Assess how well your boundaries are helping or hurting your relationshipBook: Overcome Neediness and Get the Love You Want – Learn how to stop insecurity from pushing your spouse awayWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

In the final episode of the Performing at Your Best mini-series, Stacey pulls back the curtain on the little things that help her show up as her best self—especially on the tough days. From colourful shoes to crunchy salads and weighted blankets, this episode is a celebration of self-awareness, self-compassion, and setting yourself up to lead with clarity, calm, and confidence. You’ll learn: ✨ What “spoons” have to do with energy, productivity, and staying out of burnout✨ How sensory tools, joyful clothing, and rituals can regulate your nervous system✨ Why Stacey unapologetically leans into what works for her (and how you can too)✨ The power of finding your own quirky, comforting rhythm so you can lead from a place of strength This isn’t about copying someone else’s routine. It’s about discovering what works for you—and giving yourself full permission to do more of it.

Episode Description:Menopause and people pleasing are more connected than you think. Learn how hormonal shifts fuel emotional overload—and how to reclaim your voice, boundaries, and peace.In this powerful episode of Doing Life Different, host Lesa Koski is joined by therapist Dr. Becky Whetstone for an honest, empowering conversation about the emotional toll of people pleasing—especially during perimenopause and menopause. If you're tired of saying yes when you mean no, exhausted by invisible expectations, and ready to finally feel free in midlife, this episode is for you.We explore the deep connection between fluctuating hormones and heightened emotional reactivity, where people pleasing comes from, how to identify it in your relationships, and—most importantly—how to stop. Whether you're navigating aging parents, grown kids, grandkids, a partner, or a career, it's time to embrace your enoughness and stop living for approval.Timestamps:(00:00) Welcome and what's coming up in the episode(02:31) How menopause messes with your emotions(06:52) Where people pleasing starts (childhood trauma + core wounds)(10:04) People pleasing in family, work, and faith(13:36) How boundaries help you heal(17:45) Lesa's breast cancer journey and spiritual growth(22:10) Saying “no” without guilt(25:42) Healing your nervous system after people pleasing(29:50) Faith, value, and who God says you are(33:15) Coaching your inner child (and your mom!)(36:21) Practical tools to stop people pleasing today(41:10) Final thoughts and next stepsKey Takeaways:Hormonal shifts during perimenopause and menopause impact emotional regulation, making people pleasing even harder to resist.People pleasing is a trauma response, not a personality trait—it's often rooted in childhood fear of rejection.Boundaries are the cure: Learn to say no, feel your feelings, and stop fixing people who didn't ask for help.Faith meets psychology: God didn't design you to live for approval. You're already enough.Healing is possible at any age—whether you're 40, 50, or 81, it's never too late to embrace your authentic self.Guest Bio:Dr. Becky Whetstone is a licensed marriage and family therapist, writer, and speaker known for her direct, humorous, and faith-anchored approach to emotional healing. A self-proclaimed “recovered people pleaser,” Dr. Becky helps women break free from emotional entanglements, trauma cycles, and perfectionism to rediscover joy and autonomy.Resource Links:

Licensed psychotherapist and global relationship and empowerment expert Terri Cole is back in KICK-ASS Stepmom to dive into how to break the cycle of high-functioning codependency. Stepmoms, you're going to see yourself in this one!   Get The Disengaging Without Disconnecting Masterclass www.jamiescrimgeour.com/disengaging  Work With Me. www.jamiescrimgeour.com/coaching  Get My Ebook -  120 Ways To Be A KICK-ASS Stepmom www.jamiescrimgeour.com/ebook  Episode Sponsors: Cozy Earth | Go to www.cozyearth.com and use the code COZYJAMIE for 20% off of your order OSEA | Clean skincare that actually works.  Shop OSEA:https://bit.ly/47jvKIj OSEA Ocean Body Glow Set: https://bit.ly/4h16E59 Use code KICKASSSTEPMOM10 for 10% off your first order Metabolic Reset Program | Get $350 off with the code JAMIE350 at https://www.jentherhn.com

At some point, every one of us becomes “the bad guy” — the person who says no, sets a line in the sand, or disappoints someone who wanted a little too much. And truthfully? That's a good thing. In this episode, Brett breaks down why being willing to let people down is essential if you want to keep your sanity, your focus, and your self-respect. Because saying yes to everything doesn't make you a better leader, coach, or friend — it just makes you a doormat. We've all seen how it happens: someone asks for a small favor here or there, and before you know it, your time, energy, and attention are getting siphoned off in a hundred directions that don't serve your goals. This conversation is about drawing the line, protecting what actually matters, and remembering that you're not supposed to serve everyone. Sometimes, being the “bad guy” is what keeps you effective, grounded, and able to keep doing the work that actually helps people long-term. If you found this helpful, check out:   •The Apprenticeship – our live workshop on communication and influence.   •Speaker School – for anyone who wants to present and persuade more effectively.   •Join our community at ArtofCoaching.com/community for bonus materials and episode breakdowns.  

In this conversation, I sit down with Beatriz Victoria Albina, a family nurse practitioner, somatic experiencing practitioner, and author of the newly released book End Emotional Outsourcing to unpack why so many of us struggle with people-pleasing, perfectionism, and burnout.Beatriz introduces the concept of "emotional outsourcing" (a term even Oprah is talking about) which describes how we've learned to source our sense of worth, safety, and belonging from everyone and everything outside ourselves. But here's the revolutionary part: she explains that these aren't personality flaws. They're survival skills we developed as kids, and we can unlearn them.We get real about the invisible labor women carry, the pressure to be productive over everything else, and why setting boundaries feels so physically uncomfortable. Beatrice then walks us through practical, body-based techniques you can start today. This conversation is for anyone who's exhausted from putting themselves last, who feels guilty for saying no, or who's ready to stop apologizing for taking up space in their own life.Connect with Beatriz: https://beatrizalbina.com/Link to Beatriz's book: https://beatrizalbina.com/book/Free Meditations: https://beatrizalbina.com/free-meditations/Beatriz on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/beatrizvictoriaalbinanp/Connect with Sabrina:https://www.instagram.com/Sabrina_Soto/www.SabrinaSoto.com

You've told your parents you're not available during work hours. They keep calling anyway. You've asked them not to comment on your weight. They bring it up again on the next visit. You've said no to those random Amazon gifts. Another package arrives at your door. Many parents know how to set boundaries, but get stuck when someone won't respect them. In this summary episode, therapist Nedra Glover Tawwab shares practical strategies for enforcing boundaries when people repeatedly ignore or dismiss them. You'll learn about the "fire extinguisher method" for stopping uncomfortable conversations before they spiralhow to embody your boundaries through your actions (not just your words)how to navigate the especially tricky situation where you rely on someone for childcare but they won't respect your limits. Nedra also discusses her new children's book and works through real scenarios about unwanted gifts, body-shaming comments, and what to do when setting a boundary means potentially losing support you need. This conversation gets honest about the hard choices enforcing boundaries sometimes requires. Can you really maintain a boundary with someone you depend on? What do you do when the person provides childcare for you? Nedra offers a clear framework for deciding when to stand firm, how to take action when words aren't working, and why allowing people to be upset with you is part of the process. Questions this episode will answer How do you deal with someone who doesn't respect boundaries? Enforce the boundary through your behavior, not just your words. If someone keeps calling during work hours after you've asked them not to, don't answer the phone. If they bring unwanted gifts, donate them immediately or return them to the gift-giver. You can't control what they do, but you can control what you do. Why is setting boundaries so hard? We often learned in our families of origin that setting boundaries leads to rejection or anger. We worry about people being mad at us, the relationship ending, or being seen as selfish. These fears come from early experiences where our caregivers responded poorly when we tried to express our needs and boundaries. How do you enforce boundaries when words aren't working? Use behavioral enforcement. Stop answering calls during the times you've said you're unavailable. Use the "fire extinguisher method" to interrupt conversations the moment they start heading toward topics you've said are off-limits. Show through your actions that you meant what you said. What is the fire extinguisher method for boundaries? Jump in to stop conversations before they get going, the way you'd use a fire extinguisher on a small flame before it spreads. When someone starts bringing up a topic you've clearly said you won't discuss, interrupt them immediately: "I know where this is going, and I don't want to talk about it.” Why do people get upset when you set boundaries? Some people are used to being able to say or do whatever they want in the relationship. Your boundary ‘brushes up against' their expectation of having full access to you or being able to speak freely. They may also genuinely believe you need to hear what they have to say. Should you be with someone who doesn't respect your boundaries? This depends on the severity of the violation and your level of dependence. If someone provides childcare but also body shames you, you may need to find alternative childcare to truly maintain the boundary. Sometimes you have to choose between the support someone offers and having your boundaries respected. You might accept that certain behaviors come as part of the "package," or you might want to reduce your...

"My Boundaries," is this month's Parent Support Group meeting topic. Moms and Dads share how they have come to understand and use the concept of boundaries to better cope with the many challenges of parenting a child with a substance use disorder or other mental health condition. Caron Treatment Centers' family therapist Karen Moser joins the conversation.   Podcast Disclaimer The Parent-to-Parent Podcasts are provided as a service to you from other parents and do not represent professional clinical advice. The views and opinions expressed in the Parent-to-Parent Podcasts are not necessarily those of Caron or its affiliates. Nothing contained in the Parent-to-Parent Podcasts is intended to be instructional for clinical diagnosis or treatment. The information should not be considered complete, nor should it be relied on to suggest a course of treatment for a particular individual. It should not be used in place of a visit, call, consultation or the advice of your physician or other qualified health care provider. You should never disregard clinical advice or delay in seeking it because of something you have heard or read in the Parent-to-Parent Podcasts. Caron and its affiliates are neither responsible nor liable for any direct, indirect, incidental, consequential, special, exemplary, punitive, or other damages arising out of or relating in any way to the Parent-to-Parent Podcasts, content or information contained therein or any hyperlinked website. Your sole remedy for dissatisfaction with the Parent-to-Parent Podcasts, content or information contained therein, and/or hyperlinked websites is to stop using the Parent-to-Parent Podcasts or hyperlinked websites. Please be advised that the Parent-to-Parent Podcasts may be protected by federal and international copyright or other laws, and your right to reprint, republish, modify, reproduce, or distribute the Parent-to-Parent Podcasts may be limited accordingly.

Follow the show:Apple Podcasts | Spotify | Everywhere else In this week's episode of the podcast, I'm exploring what happens when your old definition of success no longer fits your life as a mom. Before kids, success might've meant promotions, achievements, and productivity, but now that version just leaves you feeling like you're always behind. I share client stories and practical tools to help you redefine success in a way that aligns with your values and season of life, so you can finally feel fulfilled, calm, and proud of how you're spending your time. Topics in this episode:Why your old definition of success doesn't work anymore How success and balance are connected Client stories that illustrate new, sustainable definitions of success Simple ways to create an attainable version of success How to use your values and goals as a daily guideShow Notes & References:Book your Boundaries & Balance: Holiday Clarity Call here: www.ambitiousandbalanced.com/boundaries-and-balance-session Discover all the details about Ambitious & Balanced: www.rebeccaolsoncoaching.com/ambitiousandbalanced Ready to explore if it's right for you? Book your free discovery call: www.rebeccaolsoncoaching.com/ambitiousandbalanced-call You can watch this episode on YouTube! Check it out by clicking here: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCPZA5JKXYxjCMqodh4wxPBg