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“How to be more confident” is one of the most common things people tell me they want, and also one of the most misunderstood. If you've ever thought, “I'll finally feel confident once I calm my anxiety, stop second-guessing myself, or stop worrying about what other people think,” this conversation offers a very different starting point. In this episode of Love, Happiness and Success, I'm joined by Dr. Aziz Gazipura to talk about confidence as something deeper than appearances or bravado. I'm revisiting this episode on why confidence is really about your relationship with yourself, how social anxiety and people-pleasing quietly erode self-trust, and why trying to look confident often leaves people feeling more anxious and disconnected. We also talk about the inner critic as a misguided safety system, how avoidance keeps anxiety alive, and why confidence grows through practice, self-compassion, and supported risk-taking rather than positive thinking alone. If you struggle with social anxiety, harsh self-talk, or the habit of saying yes when you mean no, this conversation offers a steadier, more realistic way forward. As you listen, I'd invite you to reflect on this: Where in your life have you been trying to feel confident without being on your own side? And what might shift if confidence started with how you treat yourself when things feel uncomfortable or imperfect? Episode Breakdown: 00:00 What confidence really means (and why it's misunderstood) 01:48 Confidence as your relationship with yourself 07:32 From social anxiety and people-pleasing to real confidence 12:45 The inner critic and the “safety police” 16:51 Social anxiety vs. low confidence (and why avoidance makes it worse) 22:56 How confidence is built through practice and exposure 31:11 People-pleasing and “niceness” as anxiety patterns 38:21 Boundaries, authenticity, and healthy relationships 45:03 Projected dislike and changing self-talk 50:28 Final takeaways + where to find Dr. Aziz If this episode resonates and you'd like support building real confidence (the kind rooted in self-trust, authenticity, and emotional safety), I'd love to invite you to schedule a free consultation. This is a private, secure space where you can share what's been weighing on you and what you want to feel differently. You'll answer three quick questions so we can help match you with the right counselor or coach on my team. Many people experience this as a meaningful first step toward feeling more grounded, more supported, and more confident in their lives. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self
In this episode of Life of And, Tiffany sits down with Logan Montague, an entrepreneur, coach, and founder of marketing agency Your Marketing BFF's, to discuss the journey from burnout to balance. Logan shares her story of starting an agency at 25 and the challenges she faced as it grew. She discusses her decision to scale back after feeling overwhelmed and how she's now building a life that aligns with her personal values.They explore the messy middle of business growth, the importance of setting boundaries, and how to balance ambition with self-care. Logan talks about her transition to a more sustainable freelance lifestyle and the lessons she's learned about maintaining a healthy work-life balance. Tiffany reflects on her own growth, helping Logan clarify his next steps while honoring her need for both personal and professional fulfillment.What You'll Learn:How to identify and overcome limiting beliefs that hold you back from growthWhy scaling your business too quickly can lead to burnout and what to do about itThe importance of defining personal and professional boundaries to achieve long-term successIf you're interested in working with Logan, check out this link:Your Marketing BFF's: www.yourmarketingbffs.comFor more from Tiffany:Are you a busy working mom looking to optimize your morning and evenings? Grab this FREE checklist: https://www.tiffanysauder.com/Morning-Evening-Routine-ChecklistFollow Tiffany on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tiffany.sauderTimestamps:(00:00) Intro(01:27) Meet Logan: marketing agency founder(03:58) Burnout and challenges from scaling too quickly(04:46) Scaling back to find work-life balance(06:45) Personal growth during business transitions(13:57) Logan shares strategies for time management(22:09) How Logan plans and prioritizes her time(26:52) Navigating special projects and overcoming distractions(29:15) Balancing business growth with personal life(30:20) Staying disciplined with personal and professional goals(30:44) Using business principles for personal life balance(32:40) Life changes affecting priorities and business growth(35:09) Setting foundations for future success(35:44) Logan's transition to professional growth and coaching(38:36) Defining goals and setting boundaries for success(49:17) Pricing strategies for business growth(50:34) Implementing systems to manage boundaries and timeCheck out the sponsor of this episode:Created in partnership with Share Your Genius
Moving back in with family can awaken old wounds faster than years of personal growth can prepare us for. In this first coaching episode of 2026, Christine supports Sarah, who recently returned to the United States after six years abroad and is temporarily living with her parents. What she expected to be a short transition has turned into a deep emotional reckoning with childhood patterns, triggers, and the urge to "fix" family dynamics. Christine helps Sarah understand how protector parts, formed in childhood, take over when old environments reactivate unresolved trauma. Together, they explore how to release long-held anger safely, set boundaries that are actually enforceable, and begin reparenting the inner child with compassion rather than control. If family interactions leave you feeling dysregulated, angry, or guilty, this episode will help you see those reactions through a new lens and give you tools to stop trying to change your parents and start changing how you care for yourself. Consider / Ask Yourself: Do you feel like all your growth disappears the moment you go home? Are you the family fixer, peacekeeper, or emotional mediator? Do you struggle with guilt or rage after spending time with your parents? Are you trying to set "boundaries" that you cannot actually control? Key Insights and A-HAs: The urge to fix family dynamics often comes from a childhood protector part trying to create safety. What feels like "I can't help it" is usually a trauma-based habit, not a true lack of choice. Asking someone to change is a request, not a boundary. Boundaries are about what you will do. Rage is often stored grief from unmet childhood needs and must be safely released. Your inner child learns to trust you only through consistency, not intention. How to Deepen the Work: When you feel the impulse to fix, pause and thank that part for trying to protect you. Create a release valve for anger such as screaming into a pillow, shaking your body, or release writing. Practice leaving triggering situations instead of confronting them in the moment. Reparent your inner child through consistent safety rather than promises of change. Ask yourself: "What can I do right now that I actually control?" Coaching with Christine Christine currently has just two remaining openings in her private one-on-one coaching practice. She has been coaching individuals since 2004 and only works with a small number of clients at a time to provide deep, personalized support. If you feel called to work with Christine, email jill@christinehassler.com to inquire. Social Media + Resources: Christine Hassler — Take a Coaching Assessment Christine Hassler Podcasts Including Coaches Corner Christine on Facebook Expectation Hangover by Christine Hassler @ChristineHassler on Twitter @ChristineHassler on Instagram @SacredUnionCouples on Instagram Email: jill@christinehassler.com — For information on any of my services! Get on the waitlist to be coached on the show! Get on the list to be notified about the upcoming certification program for coaches!
Welcome to 2026, babes!! In this solo episode of Literally Not Okay, your girl Alexis Waters is coming in HOT with a full holiday breakdown, a gay hockey porn obsession (shoutout Heated Rivalry), and why family time should absolutely come with a four-day max limit.Plus, I spill how standup comedy gave me confidence, why you NEED community, and the iconic moment a stoned comedian changed my life by asking, “Are you doing it with your full pussy out?” Life-changing advice.This one's for my ADHD girlies, my overstimulated queens, and anyone who needs a reminder that it's okay to not be okay — especially around your in-laws.
In part 2 of this series on Boundaries with Connection, we explore how to set boundaries that create success by providing structure and containment that offers safety, connection, and co-regulation.In this episode, you'll learn:How boundaries can create physical and emotional safetyHow to create the kind of boundaries your child really needs for continued developmentHow to set boundaries with the intent of increasing regulationResources mentioned in this podcast:Previous podcast episode https://robyngobbel.com/scaffoldingFREEOne-page PDF infographic on Boundaries with Connection!CLICK HERE to get the download sent to your inboxRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/boundaries2We're kicking off 2026 with a LIVE webinar- Creating Felt Safety! Attend live and watch the recording- PLUS get a huge folder of digital resources including a workbook all about how to impact YOUR felt safety!Register at -----> RobynGobbel.com/FeltSafetyWebinar Get access to over 25+ free resources in our brand, new Free Resource Hub! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResourceHub :::Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/bookJoin us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClubSign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/ImmersionFollow Me On:FacebookInstagram Over on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute's (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)
"This year didn't knock me out all at once — it chipped away at me. And somehow, that's what taught me surrender, trust, and confidence." -Kristen Olson "I don't need to have the whole plan — I just need the courage to keep showing up, trusting the work, and letting the next step reveal itself." -Ashley Knight Every year, we sit down for one of our most meaningful conversations of the entire season — our annual Year in Review and Year in Preview, and for the seventh year running, I'm joined by the one and only Ashley Simone Knight . This episode isn't about perfection or polished highlight reels. It's about real reflection, honest growth, deep gratitude, and setting intentions for what's next — personally, professionally, and spiritually. Together, Ashley and I unpack what 2025 actually looked like behind the scenes: the breakdowns, the breakthroughs, the lessons in timing, confidence, surrender, community, and what it really means to keep showing up when you're tired but still called. We talk about: Why 2025 felt like a year of being broken down — and rebuilt The power of confidence after doing the work Letting go of control and learning to surrender without quitting The role of community, mentors, and chosen family Navigating career uncertainty, relationships, and self-trust Why "being yourself" is not easy — but it's valuable How rest, fun, and alignment are non-negotiables moving into 2026 As we look ahead, we share what we're hoping for in 2026 — not rigid goals, but intentions rooted in peace, flow, abundance, love, health, and clarity. If you're closing out a year feeling exhausted but hopeful… If you're entering a new season unsure but still willing… If you need a reminder that you're not behind — you're becoming… This episode is for you. Here's to reflection, release, and what's next. DOWNLOAD The 2025/2026 Goals and Intention Sheet HERE Timestamps: 00:00 – Intro Welcome back to Turmeric & Tequila® + why this annual tradition matters 03:45 – Why We Do This Episode Every Year Reflection as a leadership tool + seven years running with Ashley Simone Knight 08:30 – 2025 in One Word (Confidence, Surrender, Timing) How the year broke us down — and rebuilt us stronger 15:10 – When Life Chips Away at You (Not One Big Crash) Burnout, exhaustion, and the slow drip effect of hard seasons 22:40 – Gratitude Check: People Who Carried Us in 2025 Friends, mentors, community, chosen family, and unseen support systems 30:15 – Grief, Growth & Letting Yourself Be Supported Navigating loss, asking for help, and receiving instead of powering through 38:50 – Community Is the Constant CrossFit, movement, dance, routine, and showing up even when it's hard 46:20 – 2026 Word + Intention Confidence, surrender, flow, and trusting what's being built 55:10 – The Letter to Your Younger Self Blind faith, courage without a roadmap, and honoring who you've always been 1:03:40 – Career, Identity & Self-Worth Interviewing, rejection, references, and remembering who you are 1:12:30 – Charging for What Comes Easily to You Why your gifts still deserve value — even if they feel natural 1:19:50 – Personal & Professional Growth in 2026 Boundaries, clarity, peace, and leaning into aligned opportunities 1:27:10 – Work-Life Balance, Rest & Fun Moving away from grind culture toward sustainability and joy 1:33:40 – Money, Love & Alignment Why flow creates abundance (without forcing it) 1:39:00 – Closing Reflections Showing up, trusting timing, and walking forward together Ashley Simone Knight is a trusted voice, longtime collaborator, and recurring guest on Turmeric & Tequila. Known for her honesty, depth, and grounded perspective, Ashley brings thoughtful insight into personal growth, professional evolution, relationships, and navigating life's transitions with clarity and courage. @theashleysimone For seven years running, Ashley has joined Kristen for their annual Year in Review + Year in Preview conversation — a tradition rooted in reflection, truth, laughter, and growth. Her ability to articulate the in-between seasons of life makes her a powerful and relatable voice for anyone learning how to surrender, rebuild, and move forward with confidence. Kristen M. Olson is the founder and host of Turmeric & Tequila, a top-ranked podcast in the top 2% globally. A lifelong athlete, performance coach, entrepreneur, and speaker, Kristen is known for blending real conversations with leadership, wellness, mindset, and human connection. @madonnashero Through Turmeric & Tequila, Kristen creates space for honest dialogue around growth, resilience, and what it really takes to live aligned — both personally and professionally. Connect with T&T: IG: @TurmericTequila Facebook: @TurmericAndTequila Website: www.TurmericAndTequila.com Host: Kristen Olson IG: @Madonnashero Tik Tok: @Madonnashero Website: www.KOAlliance.com WATCH HERE MORE LIKE THIS: https://youtu.be/ZCFQSpFoAgI?si=Erg8_2eH8uyEgYZF https://youtu.be/piCU9JboWuY?si=qLdhFKCGdBzuAeuI https://youtu.be/9Vs2JDzJJXk?si=dpjV31GDqTroUKWH
Listen as Pastors Stephen Martin and Nathan Brown answer the marriage questions most pastors avoid. From surviving infidelity to navigating blended families to understanding biblical boundaries in intimacy—this episode delivers practical wisdom for real marriages.Perfect for your commute or workout, this Q&A covers six listener-submitted questions from the Strong Marriage Conference.You'll Learn:✅ Why God permits but never commands divorce✅ How to rebuild trust after betrayal✅ Navigating adult children in second marriages✅ What the Bible actually says about the marriage bedWhether you're engaged, newlywed, or decades into marriage, this conversation will strengthen your biblical foundation for the covenant you've made.New episodes every Monday, Wednesday, and Friday at 7 AM CT. Subscribe now so you never miss an episode.
If you've ever told yourself "I know I need boundaries, I just can't seem to hold them," this episode is for you. In Episode 4 of 6 in the Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents series, we explore why boundaries feel so hard — and why that struggle actually makes sense when you understand the emotional environments many of us grew up in. For children raised by emotionally immature parents, boundaries weren't neutral. They were emotional risks. Needs were often dismissed, minimized, or met with guilt, withdrawal, or conflict. Over time, many children learned that connection required self-sacrifice. In this episode, we discuss: What boundaries actually are (and what they are not) Why "just say no" advice often doesn't work How guilt, anxiety, and fear get tied to boundaries The role the nervous system plays in boundary-setting Common misconceptions about being "bad at boundaries" Why compassion — not force — is the foundation of change This episode isn't about pushing yourself to have stronger boundaries. It's about understanding why your body learned that boundaries weren't safe — and how awareness creates choice.
What happens when you stay quiet for too long in your relationship?In this powerful episode of She Believed She Could, Alison Walsh sits down with licensed couples therapist, author, and podcast host Colette Jane Fehr to explore why self-silencing, avoidance, and unhealthy communication patterns quietly erode intimacy and connection. Drawing from over 13 years of clinical experience and her upcoming book The Cost of Quiet, Colette breaks down the criticize–defend cycle, attachment styles, and the real reasons couples feel stuck, disconnected, or on the brink of divorce.This conversation is honest, compassionate, and deeply practical—offering hope, clarity, and tools for anyone who wants healthier communication, stronger relationships, and the confidence to speak their truth.Connect with Colette Fehr:Instagram: @colettejanefehrWebsite: colettefehr.comPre-Order Cost of Quiet
Heartbreak can turn even the strongest among us into tireless editors of the past. We replay scenes, bargain with “what if,” and try to outrun regret. This conversation changes that script. With transformation specialist Dr. Dravon James, we explore forgiveness not as a soft ideal but as a rigorous, practical pathway to real happiness. Acceptance—“it is what it is”—stops sounding like surrender and starts feeling like authorship. As Dravon says, you can't change a yellow wall to blue without first naming yellow.We dive into a blank-canvas practice that's equal parts tender and disarming: release old labels, whisper “I am nothing,” and notice what appears. From that openness, the questions sharpen: Which version of me is complete? What wants to be created now? Along the way, we trade perfection for progress and explore how safety in relationships grows when we allow the power of “no.” Boundaries become bridges when consent enters hard conversations and curiosity replaces assumption. That's where real repair begins.Dravon's insights on self-trust come alive here: before self-love, rebuild faith in your own choices by noticing how often you've already shown up for yourself. When we tune into that inner station, synchronicity feels less like luck and more like alignment. Sometimes the truth within says a long relationship has run its course. Hearing it is hard. Ignoring it is harder.If you're ready to stop punishing yourself, to let “no” deepen intimacy rather than threaten it, and to turn heartbreak into wisdom you can actually use, this episode is for you. Listen, share it with someone who needs a softer way forward, and leave a review so more people can find their path to everyday peace. Then tell us: what label are you ready to set down today?Connect with Dr. Dravon James:Website: https://drdravonjames.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/drdravonjamesFacebook: www.facebook.com/everydaypeacewithdrdravonjamesBook: Forgiveness: The Pathway to HappinessChelsea Leigh Trescott: Email: chelsea@breakupward.com Instagram: https://instagram.com/thankyouheartbreak Advice Column: https://www.huffpost.com Writing: https://thoughtcatalog.com/chelsea-leigh-trescott
As we step into a new year, I want to talk today about something that sounds really simple, but in my experience has the power to quietly change everything about how we work, how we earn, and how we show up every day. This year, my word is boundaries. And today, I'm walking you through why boundaries, not hustle, not motivation, not another strategy, are often the missing piece between intentional growth and sustainable success. So I'm going to share the boundary that would have changed everything for me in 2025, the boundaries I'm actively putting into place for this coming year, 2026, and how you can identify the one boundary that would make the biggest difference in your own business this year. Mentioned in this episode: Access the full video interview with Elana Steele of Steele Appliance here: https://www.reneedevignierdesign.com/appliance Sign up for my weekly newsletter here: https://www.reneedevignierdesign.com/from-the-jobsite Find the full shownotes at: https://devignierdesign.com/interior-design-boundaries
A podcast for postpartum moms navigating motherhood, identity shifts, and emotional overwhelm. We talk boundaries, realistic postpartum expectations, mental health, rest, and support—so you can feel seen, grounded, and confident in this new season. Fourth Trimester Classes Website IG
If you want a practical next step to bring clarity to your dating life and relationships, start here: https://py.pl/3PRNtGKdI5hMost Christians think “good boundaries” in dating just means not having sex… but you can avoid sex and still end up emotionally exhausted, spiritually confused, and attached to someone who was never serious.In this episode, we're talking about the critical Christian dating boundaries for 2026 that aren't about sex— the ones that protect your heart, clarify intentions, and help you build a relationship with a healthy pace (not pressure).If you've ever:- moved too fast emotionally- overshared too soon- felt confused by inconsistent communication- got caught in “married energy” without commitment- or realized you didn't have boundaries around time, money, access, and spiritual rhythmsthis is your START HERE episode.We break down a safe “range” for dating (not rigid rules): enough consistency to grow, not so much intensity that you lose perspective.What you'll learn:- how often to actually see each other (without smothering the relationship)- communication expectations that bring clarity (not anxiety)- emotional boundaries so you don't go too deep too fast - money + gift boundaries (effort vs. pressure / love-bombing)- when to involve community + family without moving too fast or hiding- why “spiritual intensity” can become a crutch in Christian dating - Want a simple next step? Grab our Unlock Your Dream Relationship Workbook (only $5):Link is in the description + pinned comment.Subscribe for more Christian dating advice, relationship boundaries, and biblical relationship wisdom every week.CHAPTERS00:00 You can avoid sex and still get hurt01:12 Boundaries = rhythm (not rules) + the “range of safety”06:00 Boundary 1: Time together (steady, not smothered)11:52 Boundary 2: Communication (clarity, not anxiety)16:11 Boundary 3: Emotional intimacy (guarded vs guarding your heart)20:50 Boundary 4: Money & gifts (effort vs pressure)25:47 Boundary 5: Access to your life (slowly, not suddenly)31:36 Boundary 6: Personal space (don't lose yourself)33:55 Boundary 7: Spiritual rhythm (no spiritual crutches)37:56 Healthy boundaries help love last
Have you ever left something out on purpose so you wouldn't forget it…Only to watch it slowly turn into clutter?You're not lazy.You're not failing at tidying.And you're definitely not the only one doing this.In this episode, I'm talking about the fine line between intentional visual reminders and everyday clutter. The kind that builds up quietly and then suddenly feels overwhelming. Especially in busy homes. Especially when you're juggling family life, mental load, and a brain that works fast and forgets faster.Is leaving things out actually helping you rememberOr is it adding to the chaos?I share a real conversation from my own kitchen that sparked this episode and why it highlighted something so many women struggle with when it comes to decluttering, organizing, and home organization. We dive into why “I'll put it away later” so often backfires and how even small habits can either support your organization or completely derail it.This episode is about:Making declutter strategies work in real lifeUnderstanding the difference between clutter and intentional systemsReducing friction in your home without lowering your standardsOvercoming overwhelm without trying to be more disciplined or perfectBecause the goal isn't a spotless house.It's an organized home that supports your life.And a family system that doesn't rely on you remembering everything.What if your reminders didn't live on every surface?What if tidying didn't create tension in your home?If you're working on decluttering, organizing, and building habits that actually stick, this episode will give you a fresh way to look at how your home organization supports your brain, not fights it.
You’re already doing great things in your business—but are people seeing it? In this episode, Stacey continues the Turning Culture Into Capital series with a strategic (and deeply encouraging) look at how to make your community engagement visible—so your investment of time, money, and energy doesn’t go unnoticed. Because giving back isn’t just a feel-good bonus. When done well, it’s a business growth strategy that attracts loyal customers, dream team members, and powerful brand awareness. You’ll learn: ✨ How to make sure your community contributions are seen, celebrated, and shared✨ The ROI of visibility—why your fruit shop loyalty might be all about more than just apples✨ Smart ways to build brand awareness through sponsorships, local media, and partnerships✨ How to delegate visibility (hint: promote your most outgoing team member!)✨ Why alignment, not obligation, should drive your community involvement✨ What to avoid when choosing where and how to give back (including that 3am regret shift!) Plus, Stacey shares real stories from her own business and clients—reminding you that when you're strategic and values-aligned, your community investment won’t just feel good… it’ll pay off.
In this insightful episode of the Secret Life Podcast, host Brianne Davis-Gantt dives into the five P's to avoid when dating: perfectionism, projecting, possessiveness, people pleasing, and pushing people away. With a blend of humor and honesty, Brianne unpacks how these personality traps can sabotage our relationships and hinder our ability to connect authentically with others.Brianne encourages listeners to reflect on their dating behaviors and emphasizes the importance of self-awareness and healthy boundaries. She shares personal anecdotes and practical advice on how to break free from these detrimental patterns, allowing for more genuine connections. From learning to embrace imperfections to recognizing the significance of autonomy in relationships, this episode offers valuable insights for anyone navigating the complexities of modern dating.Join Brianne as she empowers you to step into the new year with a fresh perspective on dating, reminding us that true connection comes from being our authentic selves. This episode is essential for anyone looking to foster healthier relationships and overcome the common pitfalls of dating.
I sit down with AJ McQueen for a deeply honest conversation about trauma, masculinity, faith, and self-acceptance. AJ shares how violence, heartbreak, and survival shaped his early life, and how learning radical acceptance became the turning point in his growth as a man. We talk about sex, discipline, purpose, boundaries, and why so many men live stuck in survival mode. This is a raw, reflective discussion about becoming grounded, choosing yourself, and learning how to live with integrity.SHOW HIGHLIGHTS00:00 - Introduction and Meeting AJ01:00 - Heartbreak as a Catalyst for Growth05:10 - Sex, Addiction, and Masculinity10:00 - Growing Up Around Violence16:20 - Defining Manhood and Fatherhood21:15 - Autonomy, Boundaries, and Self-Respect28:45 - Saying No and Taking Back Control35:15 - Trauma, Gifts, and Acceptance40:30 - Confidence Through Radical Acceptance48:25 - Survival Mode vs Self-Understanding53:30 - Enoughness and Self-Worth01:01:10 - Travel, Perspective, and Expansion01:06:20 - Faith, Spirituality, and Service01:12:30 - Closing Reflections and Gratitude***Tired of feeling like you're never enough? Build your self-worth with help from this free guide: https://training.mantalks.com/self-worthPick up my book, Men's Work: A Practical Guide To Face Your Darkness, End Self-Sabotage, And Find Freedom: https://mantalks.com/mens-work-book/Heard about attachment but don't know where to start? Try the FREE Ultimate Guide To AttachmentCheck out some other free resources: How To Quit Porn | Anger Meditation | How To Lead In Your RelationshipBuild brotherhood with a powerful group of like-minded men from around the world. Check out The Alliance. Enjoy the podcast? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, or Podchaser. It helps us get into the ears of new listeners, expand the ManTalks Community, and help others find the tools and training they're looking for. And don't forget to subscribe on Apple Podcasts | Google Podcasts | SpotifyFor more, visit us at ManTalks.com | Facebook | Instagram
In this episode I interview Dr. Charles Sophy, author of FAMILY VALUES: Reset Trust, Boundaries, and Connection with Your Child . He is the medical director of the Los Angeles County Department of Children and Family Services and a regular contributor on the Dr. Phil show. Dr. Sophy has helped all kinds of families break harmful patterns. Based on his wealth of experience as a psychiatrist and as a father, Dr. Sophy assures every parent: “No matter how complicated life gets or how off course your family dynamics become, it's never too late to hit the reset button and move forward with confidence, love, and authenticity, with your family values leading the way.” For more information on Dr. Charles Sophy: https://drsophy.com/. Follow on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sophyonthestreet/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
John Assaraf is a renowned entrepreneur, New York Times bestselling author, neuroscience expert, and founder of NeuroGym. With a career spanning over four decades, John has built multiple multi-million-dollar companies and dedicated his life to helping millions break through self-imposed limits. He is recognized for translating complex neuroscience into practical strategies for personal and professional growth, focusing on the power of identity, mindset, and the mechanics of the brain. John's mission is to empower others to engineer success from the inside out and unlock their full potential. Takeaways: Identity Drives Change: John emphasizes that true, lasting change begins with transforming your identity—how you see yourself—since you will never outperform your own self-image. The Brain is Wired for Safety, Not Success: Our brains are naturally designed to keep us safe and avoid pain, not to achieve success. Recognizing and consciously working with this wiring is critical to overcoming self-sabotage and achieving new levels. Upgrade Your Inner Software: Just like technology, your beliefs, habits, and identity are ‘software' that can be intentionally upgraded through practice, self-awareness, and emotional regulation—leading to greater achievement in all areas of life. Sound Bytes: “We will never, ever, ever outperform our hidden self-image of ourselves.” “Our brain is wired to keep us safe, not successful.” “You can practice a new identity the same way a basketball player practices free throws—until it becomes automatic.” Connect & Discover John: Website: johnassaraf.com Facebook: @johnassarafpage Instagram: @johnassaraf X: @johnassaraf LinkedIn: @johnassaraf YouTube: @JohnAssaraf Website: myneurogym.com
Focusing on understanding what's driving behavior can sometimes make it feel like we aren't addressing the behavior at all. It can feel as if we are boundaryless and permissive. This episode sheds light on what boundaries really are and how focusing on regulation, connection and felt-safety increases compassionate boundaries in response to behaviors.In this episode, you'll learn:What boundaries really areHow they are different than punishment and rulesExamples of boundariesWhat to do when your child violates a boundary Resources mentioned in this podcast:Previous podcast episode "But What about a Consequence?"FREEOne-page PDF infographic on Boundaries with Connection!CLICK HERE to get the download sent to your inboxRead a summary or the full transcript at: RobynGobbel.com/boundaries1We're kicking off 2026 with a LIVE webinar- Creating Felt Safety! Attend live and watch the recording- PLUS get a huge folder of digital resources including a workbook all about how to impact YOUR felt safety!Register at -----> RobynGobbel.com/FeltSafetyWebinar Get access to over 25+ free resources in our brand, new Free Resource Hub! RobynGobbel.com/FreeResourceHub :::Grab a copy of USA Today Best Selling book Raising Kids with Big, Baffling Behaviors robyngobbel.com/bookJoin us in The Club for more support! robyngobbel.com/TheClubSign up on the waiting list for the 2027 Cohorts of the Baffling Behavior Training Institute's Immersion Program for Professionals robyngobbel.com/ImmersionFollow Me On:FacebookInstagram Over on my website you can find:Webinar and eBook on Focus on the Nervous System to Change Behavior (FREE)eBook on The Brilliance of Attachment (FREE)LOTS & LOTS of FREE ResourcesOngoing support, connection, and co-regulation for struggling parents: The ClubYear-Long Immersive & Holistic Training Program for Parenting Professionals: The Baffling Behavior Training Institute's (BBTI) Professional Immersion Program (formerly Being With)
"But a Samaritan traveler who came upon him was moved with compassion at the sight."~ Luke 10:33How can I better support my loved one who suffers with mental illness?What is the Church's place in caring for those with mental illnesses?Is it possible to choose my responses instead of just reacting?In episode 90, Kenna & Pat welcome Beth Hlabse, program director of the Fiat Program on Faith and Mental Health at the University of Notre Dame, for an honest conversation about loving and supporting people with mental illness. Drawing on personal stories, professional expertise, and Catholic teaching, the episode explores the complexities of mental health through the lens of accompaniment, compassion, and community. Beth shares practical wisdom for churches and families, highlighting the importance of seeing the gifts and goodness of every person beyond their diagnosis, setting healthy boundaries, and moving from reactive to responsive support. Listeners are invited to reflect on their own biases and discomfort, discovering pathways to deeper empathy, hope, and belonging—especially in faith communities. Whether you're walking this journey yourself or supporting someone you love, this episode offers encouragement and tangible steps toward stronger, more healing connections.Beth Hlabse is the program director for the Fiat Program on Faith and Mental Health at the McGrath Institute for Church Life at the University of Notre Dame. As a mental health counselor, Beth has provided therapeutic care for adolescents and adults with histories of trauma and adverse child experiences. Beth graduated from the University of Notre Dame in 2011 and she obtained her masters in clinical mental health counseling from Divine Mercy University. Beth and her husband Pete live in South Bend, Indiana.Episode 90 Show NotesReflection QuestionsChapters:0:00: Introduction and Highs & Hards18:40: Acknowledging my past to inform my future29:00: Loving others in the midst of mental illness42:07: Isolation: a cause and effect of mental illness54:03: Healthy boundaries in relationship with others with mental illness59:01: Challenge By ChoiceSend us a text. We can't respond directly, but we're excited to hear what's on your mind!Click here to register for the DBT group from Jan. 20 - March 24, 2026 (MN & WI residents only)Support the showThank you for listening, and a very special thank you to our community of supporters! Visit us online at thiswholelifepodcast.com, and send us an email with your thoughts, questions, or ideas.Follow us on Instagram & FacebookInterested in more faith-filled mental health resources? Check out the Martin Center for IntegrationMusic: "You're Not Alone" by Marie Miller. Used with permission.
Have an episode suggestion? Text us!In this Mindset Monday, Matt drops a handful of hard-earned lessons from the last month, pulled straight from the notes app, the place where the real thoughts live before the world distracts you out of them.He breaks down why boundaries are one of the most misunderstood concepts in relationships, and why they rarely fix an emotionally immature person, but often do deliver the clarity you have been avoiding. Then he tackles a brutal question for anyone stuck in justification mode. If the behavior is working, why do you keep trying to cut back, manage it, or quit in private?From there, Matt offers a permission slip a lot of people need. There is a difference between processing your pain and keeping it alive. Healing matters, but constantly revisiting the same trauma can become its own kind of trap. And finally, he goes after a sacred cow, acceptance. Yes, acceptance can save your sanity and build resilience, but it can also turn into complacency and keep you tolerating chaos you should not have to survive.If you are in recovery, in a relationship affected by addiction, or on the other side trying to rebuild your life, this episode is a gut check in the best way. Clarity over comfort, wisdom over coping, and growth that actually moves you forward.Find video clips and full length video from this episode on YouTube and our other social media pages!On the web:www.twfo.comSupport the Show:Buy Us a Coffee!Online Program: www.independentlystrong.comSoberlink Device:www.soberlink.com/wheelsCheck out our blog:https://twfo.com/blogFollow us on TikTok:https://tiktok.com/@twfo_coupleFollow us on Instagram:https://instagram.com/twfo_couple/Follow us on Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/TWFOCoupleFollow us on YouTube:https://www.youtube.com/@twfo_coupleFind Taylor Counseling Group:https://taylorcounselinggroup.com/Donate to Counseling for the Future Foundation:Donate Here
Send us a textIn this week's episode of the Fragmented to Whole Podcast, I'm exploring attachment from a different angle and sharing how boundaries and recovery can actually create secure attachment, even if you didn't grow up with it.Instead of focusing on attachment labels, we look at how internal safety, self-trust, and boundaries change the way we show up in romantic relationships.Some of the talking points I go over in this episode include:The difference between anxious, avoidant, disorganized, and secure attachment and how they often show up in adult relationshipsHow self-abandonment fuels insecure attachment patterns like chasing, distancing, and resentmentWhy boundaries aren't about pushing people away, but about staying connected to yourselfHow boundary work creates internal safety and builds self-trust over timeWhy secure attachment can be developed in adulthood through recovery and consistent boundary practiceSecure attachment isn't something you either got in childhood or missed forever. When you stop abandoning yourself, you stop building abandonment into your relationships. Boundaries help you stay present, grounded, and connected to who you are, so relationships stop feeling like life or death and start feeling safe.Be sure to tune in to all the episodes to receive practical tools for building emotional safety, healthier relationships, and a more whole life.Thank you for listening. If this episode resonated, take a screenshot, share it in your stories, and tag me. And don't forget to follow, rate, and review the podcast and share your key takeaways.Learn more about Fragmented to Whole athttps://higherpowercc.com/podcast/Feeling drained in your relationships? Take my free Boundaries Drain Quiz to see where your energy is leaking and how to reclaim it.Start here: https://higherpowercc.com/drain/CONNECT WITH BARB NANGLE:Subscribe to “Friday Fragments” weekly newsletterLinkedinWork with Barb! Book a “Say No Without Guilt” Session
The “new year, fresh start” energy feels exciting, but can also be overwhelming! This episode cuts through the noise with a refreshingly simple approach to goal setting. Instead of complicated systems, you'll focus on just two questions: what you want to do more of this year and what you want to do less of, both personally and in your science classroom. We'll talk about prioritizing yourself, identifying energy and time drains, getting specific with your goals, and making small, flexible shifts that actually stick. By the end, you'll have a clear, manageable direction for the semester...and maybe even the motivation to reset alongside your science team!➡️ Show Notes: https://itsnotrocketscienceclassroom.com/episode216Resources Mentioned:Shop INRS full year curriculum bundles.Complete unitsWinter science freebiesCore Values Mini-Course SSS Virtual PD Course BundleDownload your FREE Classroom Reset Challenge.Take the Free Labs When Limited virtual PD courseSend me a DM on Instagram: @its.not.rocket.scienceSend me an email: rebecca@itsnotrocketscienceclassroom.com Follow, rate, and review on Apple Podcasts.Follow, rate, and comment on Spotify.Related Episodes and Blog Posts:Episode 55, Goal Setting for the New Year - A Different ApproachEpisode 56, Scheduling Rest - Why You Need to And How to Do ItEpisode 111, Priorities and Boundaries in the New YearEpisode 165, How Naming What Matters Most Can Change the Rest of Your School YearJanuary 4th - 10th, I will be doing my BIGGEST sale of the year with DAILY discounts that are exclusively for my email list. Start your new year with some CHEER!itsnotrocketscienceclassroom.com/winter
#134 Why Boundaries Aren't Walls, They're Self-Respect with Randi Halaway This episode breaks down the subtle ways people give their power away in the name of connection, why self-sacrifice gets mistaken for love, and how boundaries are meant to protect your energy, not push people away.We go beneath surface-level self-help and into the real work: healing abandonment patterns, regulating your nervous system, choosing alignment over attachment, and learning how to reclaim your power without hardening your heart.You'll learn:• Why connection without alignment leads to self-abandonment• The real difference between compromise and self-sacrifice• What boundaries actually are and who enforces them• How fear of being alone shapes relationship choices• Why understanding personal growth isn't the same as living it• How to reclaim your power without shutting down emotionallyIf you've ever stayed too long, ignored red flags, or lost yourself trying to make something work, this episode will speak directly to you.⏱️ Timestamps00:00 – The hidden addiction to connection (Preview) 02:08 – “I'm not the fear that keeps me stuck”05:42 – Losing identity through relationships and roles09:27 – The marriage that cracked everything open14:05 – Knowing the work vs integrating the work18:38 – Compromise vs self-sacrifice23:47 – What boundaries really are and who enforces them29:06 – Fear of abandonment and repeating patterns35:18 – Healing loneliness without another person41:07 – Nervous system regulation and personal power47:25 – Daily practices for self-trust and alignment52:38 – What changes when you choose yourself
Pastor Jordan Sunday January 4th 2026
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This episode is a homecoming!!!As part of our January Reset Series, we're re-airing a powerful conversation with four physicians from three specialties who each share a one-year update on their Direct Primary Care journeys.In this episode, you'll hear from:• Dr. Christina Much and Dr. Jake Much (Family Medicine) founders of Defiant DPC who are sharing about growth beyond expectations and how they planned maternity leave without panic• Dr. Deepti Mundkur (Internal Medicine) will be reflecting on time, advocacy, mentorship, and designing a practice aligned with life• Dr. Lauren Hughes (Pediatrics & Lactation) will be discussing boundaries, parenting while practicing medicine, and building community-rooted careWhether you are in residency, early career, actively considering DPC, or already open and asking how do I protect my energy and build something sustainable, this episode is for you.These physicians aren't sharing finished stories - they're sharing living ones.And January is a reminder that it's okay to pause, reassess, and realign whether you're just beginning or years into practice.Take a breath.You're not behind.You're allowed to build something that lasts.What to Especially Listen For:• How growth sometimes comes faster than expected and how to respond without burning out• How maternity leave, parenting, and practice ownership can coexist• How advocacy becomes possible when time is no longer rationed• How workflows, boundaries, and systems continue to evolve after opening• How DPC allows doctors to practice medicine that matches their values and not just their training
This episode is about beginning the new year without pressure, panic, or performance.Instead of “New Year, New Me,” I'm talking about what it looks like to enter this next chapter softly, intentionally, and regulated carrying the lessons without carrying the weight.In this episode, I share:✨ Why I'm letting go of rushed resolutions✨ What softness actually means and what it doesn't✨ How I'm setting boundaries without hardening✨ Carrying wisdom forward without dragging the past✨ Intentions my body can actually keep✨ Choosing peace without waiting for permissionIf you're feeling unsure, tired, or resistant to the pressure of starting over, this episode is an invitation to slow down and begin in a way that feels true to you.No rushing.No reinventing.Just presence.Because this… This Is Healing.
Have you ever caught yourself thinking, “If you felt what I feel, you'd drink too”? Chuck gets that. For years, a combination of work stress, long commutes, and intense back pain had him pouring more than he ever planned. Drinks became his “off switch” at the end of the day and then his go-to whenever his body flared. Eventually, the pain calmed down and the stressful job shifted, but the habit of drinking stuck around—which was the wake-up call he couldn't ignore. In this episode, Chuck and Coach Cole talk through the messy, human side of quitting alcohol when you have chronic pain, including what happened when his back suddenly “went out” again after months alcohol-free. Chuck shares how appropriate medical care, a short course of prescribed meds, and a strong internal “I am not starting over” helped him stay off the bottle. You'll hear how he rebuilt his routine around daily stretching, core strength, and even a zero-gravity nap, plus why music and creative hobbies feel better than any buzz. They also dig into boundaries—leaving family gatherings early, pushing back (diplomatically) at work, and deciding he no longer has to sit and absorb other people's behavior to be polite. If you've ever wondered whether you can rebuild your life around what you love instead of avoiding what hurts, this conversation is for you. Coach Cole and Chuck discuss: Slipping from teenage partying into midlife self-medication with alcohol Realizing the job and pain changed, but the drinking stayed Navigating quitting alcohol when you have chronic pain Facing a second major back episode alcohol-free and nearly getting derailed Why alcohol never truly solves stress, family conflict, or health issues Using “walk away” as a valid backup plan at triggering gatherings And more… Episode links: www.alcoholexperiment.com Related Episodes: I've Used Wine to Numb Physical Pain | Reader Question | E196 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-196-i-used-wine-to-numb-physical-pain-now-without-it-my-quality-of-life-is-way-down-what-can-i-do/ Overcoming Using Alcohol as a Pain Reliever | Reader Question | E656 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-656-readers-question-overcoming-using-alcohol-as-a-pain-reliever/ Alcohol Doesn't Relieve My Pain, It Steals My Joy | Alcohol Freedom Coaching | E732 - https://thisnakedmind.com/alcohol-freedom-coaching-alcohol-doesnt-relieve-my-pain-it-steals-my-joy-ep-732/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious!
I'm pulling back the curtain on my 2025 business insights... nosy bitches, this one's for you! I share the ultimate the plot twist: I made almost the exact same money as 2024, while taking a 3-month sabbatical, working essentially part-time, and living like an eccentric writer.I break down my Pitch Perfect launches (including a surprising feeling I had with my first $20K month), why I'm retiring from being "The Podcast Queen," and the creative possession that birthed SUPERNOVA — my new thinking lab for people who want to build intellectual frameworks that shape culture instead of learning more tactical skills. Plus: why I'm choosing restraint as my 2026 word, and why I'm actively exploring capped business models and circular economies instead of scaling into outer space.Themes from the episode:Making the same money while living exponentially better - I generated $143K (basically what I made in 2024), but took almost 3 months off, worked Tuesdays-Thursdays, and traveled to 10+ cities, which honestly feels more successful than any revenue goal ever could.From reactive hot takes to restrained discernment - I'm retiring the knee-jerk cultural commentary and choosing thoughtfulness over Threads wars, because not everything needs my opinion and frankly, discernment is sexy as hell.Why SUPERNOVA exists and why I refuse to be the podcast queen forever - The sabbatical revealed I don't want my legacy to be "she taught people to pitch/podcast," I want it to be "she taught people to build worlds," which required creating a 4-month thinking lab for intellectual frameworks that transcend your current business reputation.Ditching cold pitching for relational EVERYTHING - I stopped teaching extractive tactics and started focusing on nurturing your actual circle, which resulted in my most collaborative Pitch Perfect cohorts and proved that relationships always win over spray-and-pray strategies.Exploring capped income and circular economies because endless growth is a scam - I engaged in 8+ swaps/trades for high-ticket programs, I'm capping SUPERNOVA at 10 people, and I'm actively researching what it means to redistribute resources instead of building a team-run empire I don't even want.My 2026 themes: CREATE. PLAY. PHILOSOPHIZE. EXPLORE. UNEARTH. ASK BIG QUESTIONS. SIMMER. PONDER. WONDER. THINK.What are yours?!Connect with Chelsea:
In this solo episode of Waking Up With Melissa, I'm breaking down why the first 90 days of the year set the tone for everything that follows: your momentum, your identity, your results, and your capacity to receive.This isn't a hustle or discipline conversation. This is about devotion, obsession, self-concept, and nervous-system regulation.I'm sharing how I personally plan my year, why I script 50 desires every January, and why excitement not pressure is the real catalyst behind sustainable success. If you've ever struggled with follow-through, clarity, or consistency, this episode will completely reframe how you approach goals, growth, and becoming.A BREAKDOWN OF THIS EPISODE:00:00 — Why the First 90 Days Set the ToneHow the way you begin is usually the way you end—and why January matters more than you think.05:12 — Discipline vs Devotion vs ObsessionWhy pressure kills momentum, and what actually gets people to follow through.08:04 — Planning the Year Without Forcing the OutcomeWhy most people don't fail from lack of discipline but from lack of a plan.10:47 — The Power of Scripting & Writing 50 DesiresWhy writing your goals in present tense rewires identity, belief, and possibility.14:58 — Creativity, Clarity & StillnessWhy clarity doesn't come from logic and how disconnection creates alignment.20:18 — Survival Mode Isn't About MoneyWhy success without self-concept still feels like survival.23:02 — Identity-Based Goal SettingWhy setting goals from who you should be creates resistance and how to shift into becoming.25:11 — Relationships, Boundaries & CapacityHow the people you allow close in the next 90 days shape your entire year.28:36 — Paying the Price of AdmissionWhy expansion costs time, energy, money and sometimes comfort.32:48 — Restarting Without ShameWhy pressing “reset” daily is the real growth hack.Stay ConnectedFollow me on Instagram: @iammelissaruizPS: Unleash & Unveil Your Soul Business is officially open for 2026.Whether you're starting your business or refining your launches and attracting more aligned clients, this container is designed to support your next evolution.DM UNLEASH at @iammelissaruiz or visit www.iammelissaruiz.com for details.
Reflection is the cheat code most people skip, and it's the very thing that turns a good year into a great life. Before charging into 2026 with more goals, more pressure, and more noise, I wanted to pause, look back, and extract the lessons that actually mattered. Because progress doesn't come from moving faster, it comes from moving forward with clarity.In this episode of The Happy Hustle Podcast, I'm breaking down 25 Terrific Takeaways from 2025, all through the lens of our S.O.U.L.M.A.P.P.I.N framework, the 10 alignments that help you systematically harmonize ambition and well-being. These aren't fluffy ideas or motivational quotes. These are lived lessons. Wins, mistakes, reminders, and truths that shaped my year, and if applied intentionally, can help make 2026 your most aligned, energized, and fulfilling year yet.We start with Selfless Service, because fulfillment doesn't come from accumulation; it comes from contribution. The biggest reminder here? Service is the fastest path to meaning. Giving your time, not just your money, creates real presence, real connection, and real impact. If you want more joy, help more people. It's that simple.From there, we move into Optimized Health, because energy is the real currency of success. Hustling without health always ends in burnout. Your nervous system sets your income ceiling, recovery is a skill (not a reward), and if you don't protect your energy, no amount of productivity hacks will save you. Health isn't a side quest; it's the foundation.Next up is Digital Unplugging, where I get real about distraction, doom-scrolling, and how constant connection is quietly killing creativity. Attention is your most valuable asset, and what you focus on compounds. Creating boundaries with technology isn't about restriction; it's about freedom.When it comes to Loving Relationships, the lesson is clear: success means nothing if you're disconnected from the people you love. Presence beats presents. Dating your spouse matters. Boundaries are love in action. The moments you protect today become the memories that matter tomorrow.In Mindful Spirituality, I share how alignment starts with something bigger than you. Success without purpose feels empty. Stillness creates clarity. Gratitude rewires the brain. Faith, however you define it, provides an anchor when life gets noisy.We then dive into Abundant Financial, where money is reframed as a tool, not a scorecard. Profit creates peace. Lifestyle design beats lifestyle inflation. Generosity unlocks abundance. When money aligns with values, it becomes a vehicle for freedom rather than stress.With Personal Development, the reminder is simple but powerful: who you become determines what you build. Identity precedes behavior. Consistency beats intensity. Reflection accelerates growth. The goal isn't perfection, it's persistent alignment.Passionate Hobbies get their rightful place too, because joy isn't a distraction, it's fuel. Play makes you better at work. You need something in your life that has nothing to do with money. Fun isn't optional; it's strategic.In Impactful Work, clarity creates cash, community is the new moat, and depth beats diversification. Focus compounds. Shiny objects dilute momentum. Doing meaningful work with people you care about is the real flex.And finally, Nature Connection, the ultimate reset button. Time outdoors lowers stress, restores perspective, and reconnects you to what actually matters. Nature doesn't rush, yet everything gets done.The big takeaway? Alignment is the goal. When you align across these 10 areas, success becomes sustainable. More is the myth. Meaning is the shift. And if you build meaning into your days, 2026 won't just look good on paper, it'll feel damn good to live.Let's make this next year your most intentional, fulfilling, and aligned year yet.Keep putting the happy in your hustle.
Welcome back to reality! The holiday rush is over, and January 2nd requires a strategic approach to daily productivity and stress management. This powerful 10-minute guided affirmation practice is your tool to anchor calm and boost self-confidence right from the start of your routine.We guide you through 20 targeted affirmations across four key areas to help you regain control:Emotional Calm: Releasing the need to control everything and choosing calm over chaos.Focus & Productivity: Affirming your ability to approach work with clarity and ease.Self-Worth: Reinforcing that your value is inherent and not tied to your output.Energy & Boundaries: Visualizing a protective light to help you set clear, loving boundaries.This short-form meditation is ideal for busy people, designed to be listened to on your commute or during your morning ritual. Start your day centered, grounded, and stable.Key Topics & Long-Tail Phrases:
Are you setting boundaries that keep getting trampled? In this episode, you'll discover the biggest myth about boundary setting that keeps women stuck, exhausted, and resentful. Learn why expecting others to maintain your boundaries for you never works, and get the exact 3-step framework that will help you reclaim your power and energy. From dealing with a difficult ex to managing pushy friends and setting limits with your kids, these practical examples will show you exactly how to enforce boundaries that stick.Boundaries aren't about being mean or difficult, they're about self-love, self-preservation, and teaching people how you're willing to be treated. When you master this skill, you'll stop people-pleasing, eliminate resentment, and finally feel like you're in the driver's seat of your own life. If you're ready to build unshakeable self-trust and create the empowered life you deserve after divorce, this episode is your roadmap.Are you ready to take charge of your healing and make a change for the good? Go to: GetOverDivorce.com, you can book a short call with me and we will uncover your blocks and blindspots and find out if my program "The Get Over Divorce Collective" is a fit for you. Inside this program I will work with you personally to help you reach your healing and thriving goals.Want to join the best Facebook Divorce Support Group on the internet? Join: Thriving Community, Women Supporting Women through Divorce.#HealingConversations, #Hardconversations, #ConflictResolution, #RelationshipGrowth, #IntentionalLiving, #FamilyDynamics
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Have you ever felt pressure to keep the peace and ended up saying “yes” when a big part of you wanted to say “no”? In this episode, we unpack people pleasing – and, at its extreme, fawning – an often misunderstood coping response rooted in survival. We’re joined by Lia Love Avellino, LCSW, director of head and heart at The Well, to explore how boundaries, emotional health, and lived experience intersect. Lia helps us recognize the physical cues that signal self-abandonment – like a tight chest, knotted stomach, or shaky voice – and offers tools to pause, check in with the body, and name what you truly need. Because boundaries aren’t barriers; they’re meeting places that make more honest, authentic connection possible.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
In this first episode of 2026, Karen shares a raw, chronological wrap-up of the most powerful lessons 2025 taught her—through health, emotional healing, nervous system regulation, faith, Human Design, boundaries, and self-worth. This episode is a lived-experience transmission about what happens when you stop bypassing your emotions, stop playing small, and finally learn the difference between surrender and fear-based giving up. What you'll hear in this episode Why Karen records when the message is ready—not on a schedule—and how that's aligned with her Human Design How 2025 felt like “six lifetimes in one year”… and why the lessons finally integrated in November/December The surprising way a physical cleanse became a metaphor for an emotional cleanse What “as within, so without” looked like in real time (symptoms, signals, patterns, clues) How nervous system regulation revealed a truth she couldn't “mindset” her way around The core wound that linked everything: the invisible girl / making herself too small Why being “easygoing” was actually self-abandonment in disguise A deeper definition of surrender: trusting the outcome after you've expanded your self-worth capacity The difference between boundaries from authenticity vs boundaries from ego The line that changed everything: “Your personality is your personal reality.” Why Human Design helped her finally understand her energy sensitivity, timing resistance, and emotional permeability The “upper limit” problem: why you can get close to what you want… but can't hold it or repeat it The lesson of reciprocity: giving endlessly without receiving as a mirror (not a character flaw in others) The spiritual arc of the year: from being mad at God… to making peace, and trusting again The 2025 lessons Karen names (organized + titled) 1) The Cleanse That Turned Into a Life Cleanse What started as a liver/health cleanse became a full-body “truth cleanse”—revealing how much the body holds emotionally. 2) Your Body Keeps Score (Even If Your Mind Thinks You're Fine) She realized she had mastered “silver lining mindset”… but her nervous system and body were still carrying what she hadn't processed. 3) Nervous System Regulation Isn't a Vibe—It's a Before & After Somatic work, EMDR-inspired practices, energy work, reflexology, and body awareness showed her what regulation actually feels like. 4) The Bad Door: The Emotions You Avoid Hold the Keys Once the door opens, it's an avalanche—but also the beginning of freedom. 5) Surrender vs Fear-Based Exhaustion Surrender isn't “fine, I'll tolerate it.” It's alignment with an outcome you're truly expanded enough to hold. 6) Upper Limits: Why You Can't Keep What You Don't Believe Is Possible If you can't repeat the outcome, you haven't expanded enough to sustain it. The work is widening your capacity. 7) The Invisible Girl Pattern Making yourself small, “low maintenance,” endlessly accommodating… creates a reality where people don't see you—because you trained them not to. 8) Reciprocity and Self-Worth Giving without receiving wasn't kindness—it was a nervous-system safety strategy and a self-worth wound. 9) Boundaries Without the Chip on Your Shoulder Boundaries from authenticity are powerful. Boundaries from ego still keep you trapped. 10) Be For Something, Not Against Something Energy aimed at resentment and “showing them” blocks outcomes. Energy aimed at what you're building expands outcomes. 11) Human Design as a Practical Roadmap Understanding her sensitivity, timing, and energetic permeability helped her stop personalizing everything—and start protecting her system. “I thought it was going to be the year of ease… and then I got waylaid with tests on tests on tests.” “It wasn't ‘ease' as in easy… it was ease as in I could finally move through the lessons and finish them.” “Your body will tell you what problems you actually have—emotionally and physically.” “Mindset change isn't enough. It's not behavior. It's energetic.” “If you can't repeat the outcome, you haven't expanded enough.” “I wasn't invisible because people were mean. I was invisible because I made myself microscopic.” “You can't be against something. You have to be for something.” “2025, you sucked… but you made me powerful in the happiest way.” If you're in a season of shedding, recalibrating, or learning how to stop abandoning yourself—please don't do it alone. I've got openings right now through The Experience Project for women who want grounded, practical support: readings, workshops, and ways to connect in community. See what's available: EVENTS | kbaldridge #Mindset #SelfCare #GrowthMindset #PersonalGrowth #SelfWorth #NervousSystemRegulation #HealingJourney #FaithJourney #WomenSupportingWomen
In this episode of Sharing Without Shame, Donna Marston sits down with Anne Peshka to explore how trauma, shame, addiction, and grief can be transformed into healing, purpose, and gratitude.Anne shares her powerful life story, including childhood trauma, addiction, recovery, motherhood, grief, and the moment she realized she was worth fighting for. Together, Donna and Anne have a compassionate, real conversation about letting go of labels, releasing shame, and learning how to truly hold space for ourselves and the people we love.✨ Topics Covered:- How childhood trauma fuels shame and addiction- Why substances are a Band-Aid—and healing starts with the “why”- Releasing labels like “addict,” “victim,” and “survivor”- Grieving the living and loving without control- The importance of boundaries vs. unhealthy helping- What it really means to “hit your enough”- Turning pain into purpose and trauma into wisdom- Learning to believe you are worthy of a good life
Taylor knows exactly how to devastate her fans with her lyrical storytelling, and “Ruin The Friendship” is the perfect example of that! After about an hour of Sara and Laura recapping their favorite moments and takeaways from The End Of An Era Documentary (Episodes 1-4), the ladies dig into the lore of the song. Taylor's high school experiences and the early 2000's high school moments bring Sara and Laura right back to their own teenage-dom. Were you equally as wrecked when you reached the last chorus of the song?! It's hard to imagine that the ladies are halfway through The Life Of A Showgirl's track list!Chapters(00:00) Introduction (02:38) What's On Our Plates(16:19) End Of An Era Documentary Recap (Episodes 1-4)(48:26) Other Taylor Updates(53:06) Song Analysis: Ruin the Friendship(58:54) Our Personal Associations With The Song(01:03:56) Folk"lore" of the Song(01:12:29) Verse 1: Specific Landmarks, Beginning Of The School Year, Flashback To Fearless/Debut Taylor(01:19:49) Chorus 1: Boundaries, Chemistry(01:22:34) Verse 2: Prom, Noticed Interest(01:29:56) Chorus 2: 50 Cent's 2000's Bangers, Regret In Inaction(01:34:07) Bridge: Playing Safe, Question...? Tie Ins(01:39:00) Verse 3: The Moment All Of Our Hearts Dropped(01:42:03) Chorus 3: Inconvenience Gets A New Meaning, Sound Advice, Lessons Learned(01:47:22) Music Theory Analysis(01:49:27) Favorite Lyrics & Rating(01:51:00) This Song As A Recipe(01:53:57) Signing Off!SUPPORT US ON PATREON! Show us some love and get monthly bonus episodes and first dibs on upcoming episode ideas. We'd be enchanted to have you join our Swiftie community!Links ReferencedUrbanDazeApparel Taylor Swift Favorite Song SweatshirtMom of Late Taylor Swift Friend Jeff Lang Breaks Silence on 'Ruin the Friendship': 'She's Keeping His Name Alive'50 Cent Interview With Extra TVSalted Dark Chocolate BrowniesPlease make sure to subscribe and leave a review. If you'd like to reach out to send in a question or comment, please do so via any of these platforms:email blankplatepod@gmail.comleave a voicemail at (717) 382-831Patreon (get bonus episodes and first dibs on episode ideas)YouTubeInstagramTikTokYou can also follow Sara and Laura individually:• Laura: Instagram and Tiktok• Sara: InstagramListen to our previous podcast: Passports & Pizza
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Is anger, regret or sadness still tying you to your past? In this episode, you'll learn how finding forgiveness helps you heal unhealthy emotions, create closure, and move on. You'll learn about the two types of forgiveness and how to shift your mindset so you can finally feel happier, freer, and more like yourself again. If happiness and well-being feel out of reach right now, I hope you dive into this one. Forgiveness often sounds simple, but it can feel deeply challenging when anger, regret, or unresolved pain linger. I'm revisiting this episode because these unhealthy feelings tend to hold on quietly, shaping how we feel long after the moment has passed. In this conversation, I talk about what forgiveness really is and what it is not, and how finding forgiveness can support healing and closure without excusing harm or abandoning your boundaries. We explore the difference between forgiving yourself and forgiving someone else, especially when there has been no apology, no repair, or no justice. You'll hear how to work with difficult emotions like sadness and resentment, how to move on when the other person may never change, and how forgiveness can support your growth, well-being, and peace of mind. If part of you feels like you should be over it by now, but something still feels unfinished, this episode offers a more compassionate way forward. Forgiveness is not about forgetting or minimizing what happened. It's about releasing what no longer serves you so you can heal and feel happier in your life today. Episode Breakdown: 00:00 Finding Forgiveness and Emotional Healing 03:25 The Two Types of Forgiveness: Yourself and Others 05:52 How Anger, Regret, and Guilt Impact Happiness 07:56 Self-Forgiveness Through Compassion and Growth 15:00 Making Amends and Repairing Harm 21:59 How to Forgive Someone Who Isn't Sorry 24:19 Letting Go Without Excusing Harm 28:56 Forgiveness, Boundaries, and Emotional Safety 31:19 Choosing Forgiveness to Move On and Feel at Peace If this conversation about finding forgiveness stirred something tender for you, I want you to know you don't have to work through it alone. I'd love for you to schedule a free consultation with me or someone on my team at Growing Self. It's a private, secure space to share what you've been carrying and get matched with the right counselor or coach for where you are right now. You'll answer three quick questions, and we'll help you take a thoughtful next step toward healing and clarity. xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie BobbyGrowing Self
Healing, money, motherhood, fertility, boundaries and so much more have been topics on the Imperfectly Phenomenal Woman podcast. To celebrate the final episode, we're listening back to some of the most unforgetable conversations that live rent-free in Lauren's mind. In this milestone Episode 200, you'll re-experience powerful conversations centered around the limiting beliefs that often hold women back from living fully and authentically. You'll hear: Beliefs about Well-being and Boundaries 78. Avoiding Confrontation: You Can('t) Rock the Boat with Siona Peterous 111. Single Mom: You Can('t) Put Yourself First with Samantha Wright 92. Extend Yourself Grace: You Can('t) Juggle Motherhood & Work with Pastor Brelyn Bowman Beliefs about Financial Freedom and Debt 83. Money Moves: You Can('t) Pay Off Your Debt with Bola Sokunbi Beliefs about Exploring Paths to Motherhood 35. Egg Freezing: You Should(n't) Explore Your Fertility Options with Ruthie Ackerman 183. Infertility and IVF: You Can(t) Get Pregnant with Angela Gaston Personal Epiphanies: Beliefs About Identity, Healing & Voice 14. Me Too: You Can('t) Tell Your Story with Alexandra Cohl 49. Too Broken to Fix: You Can('t) Overcome Life's Challenges with Taya Marquis 108. Neuroscience: You Can('t) Deconstruct Toxic Thoughts with Dr. Carolyn Leaf 7. Facing Fears: You Are(n't) Good Enough with Chloe Dawson Closing 100. 101 Years of Wisdom: An Interview with Mother Manning ____ A message from Lauren: Thank you from the bottom of my heart for listening to this podcast. After 200 episodes, I'm at peace with ending this chapter and look forward to the beautiful things that God has in store for me. Embrace the dichotomy of being an imperfectly phenomenal woman. There is so much grace in that duality. And don't forget, you are enough. Let's stay connected! IG @lauren.e.will Substack @laurenwill Substack Post: The Final Farewell: 200 Podcast Episodes, One Imperfectly Phenomenal Journey dearlaurenwill@gmail.com ipwomanpodcast.com
Understanding you need boundaries? Fine. Setting them? Different story. This week we're getting practical—I'm walking you through exactly how to set boundaries, what to say, how to hold them when people push back, and what happens when you start protecting your time, energy, and peace. Spoiler: it gets worse before it gets better. When you set a boundary, people are going to test it, question it, call you selfish, tell you you've changed. But here's what's actually happening—what you were doing benefited them, and that benefit is going away. This is Episode 200, and it's only fitting that it's about boundaries. In this episode: The extinction burst: why boundary-testing gets louder before it stops (and what happens if you cave) The five-step process: get clear on the boundary, communicate it without over-explaining, hold the line, expect the guilt, and notice who respects it Scripts for setting boundaries: "I've decided [boundary], and I understand if it's disappointing, but this is what's going to be" Mantras for holding boundaries: "No is a complete sentence," "Their discomfort is not yours to fix," "Boundaries are not mean, they are clear" What boundaries look like with kids (teaching them how to treat you), parents (protecting yourself from what they didn't give you), partners (equity and shared responsibility), and friends (balance on the ladder) The three outcomes when you hold boundaries: some adjust, some resist then accept, some leave—and what each tells you about the relationship Quote of the week: "Their disappointment is not our failure. Their struggle is not ours to fix. It is not our job to make them happy. Your job is to raise them to be capable, respectful, and independent adults." Practice for this week: One boundary. Just one. Ask yourself: Where am I the most resentful? What am I tolerating that I no longer want to tolerate? What boundary would protect my time, energy, or peace? Write it down. Practice saying it out loud. Then hold it, even if it's uncomfortable.
If you keep entering a new year hoping things will change without confronting the patterns you keep repeating, nothing will be different. Familiar habits. Familiar reactions. Familiar relationships. Familiar excuses. Over time, that repetition does not just stall progress. It reshapes your identity and erodes self-trust. In this episode, I break down why motivation always fades under pressure and why discipline without structure collapses into burnout. I expose the internal enemies most people avoid. Undisciplined thinking. Survival tactics that are no longer necessary. Coping skills that numb instead of build capacity. Predictable failure loops. People-pleasing disguised as kindness. Environments that quietly keep you stuck. You will hear a direct breakdown of the internal battles that must be faced before anything external can change. Thought governance. Emotional regulation. Boundaries. Values. Standards. And the real cost of avoiding your blind spots. Not with shame. With clarity and ownership. This episode is for anyone tired of almost becoming who they were called to be. For those who know they are capable of more but keep sabotaging themselves in familiar ways. If you are ready to stop surviving, stop outsourcing responsibility, and start living with intention, courage, and alignment, this is the work. Kate Hastings | Mental Health Coach
Send us a textIn this episode of The Nourished Nervous System, I'm joined by Dr. Nima Rahmany, chiropractor, educator, and creator of the Becoming Trigger-Proof methodology, for a deep and illuminating conversation about people pleasing, trauma responses, attachment patterns, and how nervous system healing transforms our relationships — with others and with ourselves.Dr. Nima shares his personal journey from chiropractic care into somatic psychology and attachment work, shaped by his own experiences with ruptured relationships, trauma bonding, and nervous system dysregulation. Together, we explore how stress, chronic illness, burnout, and relational conflict often stem from self-abandonment learned early in life — and how healing begins by turning inward.This conversation weaves somatic awareness, polyvagal theory, shadow work, and attachment theory into a compassionate framework for understanding why so many of us struggle with boundaries, resentment, and emotional exhaustion.In this episode, we explore:The fawn response and how people pleasing develops as a survival strategyWhy self-abandonment often leads to burnout, autoimmunity, and chronic stressHow childhood attachment wounds show up in adult relationships and parentingThe difference between being boundaryless, walled-off, and elegantly boundariedWhy resentment builds when we ignore our body's “no”How shadow work helps us reclaim disowned parts of ourselvesA somatic approach to working with triggers in real timeWhat it actually means to be “regulated” — and why regulation doesn't mean being calm all the timeHow to build resilience by increasing your capacity to feel, rather than suppress, emotionDr. Nima also walks us through a powerful, embodied example of how triggers with our children or partners can become doorways to healing unmet needs within ourselves — offering a practical, compassionate roadmap for rupture and repair.This episode is especially supportive if you:Identify as a people pleaser or “the strong one”Struggle with guilt around saying noFeel chronically depleted despite doing “all the right things”Are navigating parenting, partnership, or work stressSense that your nervous system is asking for a different way of relatingResources mentioned:WebsiteDr. Nima Rahmany's Attachment Style QuizThe Trigger-Proof ExperienceFacebookResources:Ayurvedic Dosha Quick Reference Guide Abhyanga Self Massage Guide Weekend Nervous System Reset Nourished For Resilience Workbook Find me at www.nourishednervoussystem.comand @nourishednervoussytem on Instagram
Send us a textIn this New Year's episode, Kendra Corman gets candid about why she's heading into 2026 tired, excited… and fiercely committed to one word: no. After a 2025 defined by “forge” (building, growing, expanding), a family crisis and an overload of opportunities forced her to re-evaluate sustainability, boundaries, and what it really takes to preserve creative focus.Kendra shares the behind-the-scenes story of her year—what went right, what went sideways, and why the systems and people you build now are what save you later. What 2025 Taught Kendra About Growth and OverloadKendra went into 2025 with momentum, capacity, and big goals—and hit them hard.A strong first quarter with focused, energized work timeA goal of 25 speaking gigs that turned into 35+ eventsMovement on major business projects, including a second edition of her bookA huge personal “yes”: becoming a full-time assistant professor at Rochester Christian UniversityThe Moment Everything ChangedA serious fall and ICU stay for Kendra's mom pulled her into months of caretaking and travel.What stood out most wasn't just the disruption—it was the proof that what she'd built actually held up:Her assistant (Carol) triaged inboxes, managed tasks, and kept clients supportedSystems like Asana and strong relationships prevented a total business collapseThe experience reinforced how vital support structures are—even for solopreneursKendra realized: capacity isn't just about time. It's about what you've built to hold you when life happens.When “Forge” Turned into “Fracture”Even with major wins, Kendra stretched too far.Weeks with multiple speaking events, including one with four in a single weekDrift from a 4–5 day workweek back to 7 daysFeeling like she was working constantly but not moving forwardBook revisions stalled, and recovery time evaporatedThe truth she landed on: success without boundaries becomes burnout in disguise.Why “No” Is Her Word of the Year (Again)Kendra revisits a tool that once helped her escape burnout in 2022: saying no first.So in 2026, “no” is back as the guardrail.Her challenge to listeners:Block vacations nowProtect pre- and post-travel buffersPut the important stuff on the calendar before it gets crowded outKey TakeawaysSystems and support are what keep your business stable when life interrupts.Saying yes is exciting—but on Looking to leverage AI? Want better results? Want to think about what you want to leverage?Check and see how I am using it for FREE on YouTube. From "Holy cow, it can do that?" to "Wait, how does this work again?" – I've got all your AI curiosities covered. It's the perfect after-podcast snack for your tech-hungry brain. Watch here
Having boundaries actually makes you MORE attractive to women and in this video, I'm going to explain why this is the case.CONTACT/ FOLLOW ME:Instagram: @courtneycristineryanBUSINESS INQUIRES: courtneycristineryan@gmail.comAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brandsPrivacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
In this episode, Meg shares the third pillar of effective parenting: setting clear boundaries and having clear consequences. When kids know exactly what the rules are—and what happens when those rules are broken—the power struggles begin to fade. Boundaries remove the guessing game from parenting and allow you to respond with confidence instead of reacting emotionally.You don't need to lecture, threaten, or yell. The boundary does the teaching for you. Using simple, consistent follow-through (and your Happy Habits as a guide), you can create a home that feels peaceful, predictable, and steady for both you and your children.This final pillar brings structure, clarity, and calm to your parenting—so everyone in the home can thrive.
We're spending the last few weeks of 2025 reviewing our TOP 5 MOST DOWNLOADED episodes! Why do so many Christians struggle with boundaries? We are taught that boundaries are wrong, sinful, or selfish — and that we should always say YES and be ready to sacrifice and serve at a moment's notice. But is this really the way of Jesus? Or could this lead us down a path of emotional burnout, codependency, and unhealthy relationships? Today, we have an on-air counseling session with my friend, Bianca Olthoff. Bianca has been on the podcast before, processing pain from the past (listen here if you missed it!) but today we dive into the topic of BOUNDARIES and learning to protect your heart and calling. Bianca shares how she lived so many years with low to no boundaries, and the damage that caused in her life and in her relationships. We talk about her childhood, and how the concept of low boundaries began to take root in her life…and followed her into adulthood. If boundaries have been a weakness for you, you HAVE TO make time to listen to this episode from start to finish! Setting healthy boundaries is the Jesus way. Find out how! Extras: Soul Care: Order Soul Care Today! The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY! DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She is the bestselling author of eight books including Choosing Marriage, Are You Really OK?, RESET, and Soul Care. Debra is the host of the popular podcast and nationally syndicated radio show Talk To Me where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions with notable pastors and leaders. You may also recognize her voice from her appearances on national television and radio, including Better Together, The Kirk Cameron Show, Focus on the Family, The 700 Club, and many others. She reaches millions of people each year with the message of mental, emotional, and relational health. Connect with her on Instagram or at DebraFileta.com.
Throughout 2025, several new revelations have come to light involving the ever-controversial subject of unidentified anomalous phenomena (UAP). From new whistleblowers coming forward to sensational claims about alleged secret programs, the last twelve months were at no loss for excitement as far as claims involving aerial mysteries, but what have this year's major revelations taught us, and how much can be verified? This week on The Micah Hanks Program, take a look at some of the major developments from 2025 involving UAP, from sighting reports to new revelations, and also controversies that have erupted around the subject. Have you had a UFO/UAP sighting? Please consider reporting your sighting to the UAP Sightings Reporting System, a public resource for information about sightings of aerial phenomena. The story doesn't end here... become an X Subscriber and get access to even more weekly content and monthly specials. Want to advertise/sponsor The Micah Hanks Program? We have partnered with the AdvertiseCast to handle our advertising/sponsorship requests. If you would like to advertise with The Micah Hanks Program, all you have to do is click the link below to get started: AdvertiseCast: Advertise with The Micah Hanks Program Show Notes Below are links to stories and other content featured in this episode: NEWS: U.S. Government Agency Issues Statement on Low-Flying Helicopters Spotted Over Las Vegas Science of Tomorrow: The Top Discoveries in 2025 That Are Pushing the Boundaries of Science Science of Consciousness: The Most Intriguing Discoveries in 2025 Involving Neuroscience and the Mind Archaeology in 2025: Here Are Several of This Year's Most Fascinating Ancient Discoveries Beyond the Standard Model: Here Are the Top Mind-Bending Physics Stories from 2025 Astronomy in 2025: This Year's Most Captivating Discoveries in Space and the Cosmos BECOME AN X SUBSCRIBER AND GET EVEN MORE GREAT PODCASTS AND MONTHLY SPECIALS FROM MICAH HANKS. Sign up today and get access to the entire back catalog of The Micah Hanks Program, as well as "classic" episodes, weekly "additional editions" of the subscriber-only X Podcast, the monthly Enigmas specials, and much more. Like us on Facebook Follow @MicahHanks on X. Keep up with Micah and his work at micahhanks.com.