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For the want-to-be-weds, soon-to-be-weds, and the newlyweds we're keeping it transparent about relationships, faith, and life. #StokedToBeTheStokes! New episodes every Tuesday! ITUNES: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/stokedtobethestokes-podcast/id1435754996 IG: @StokedToBeTheStokes FB: www.fac…

Brian & Ariana Stokes


    • Aug 11, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
    • monthly NEW EPISODES
    • 40m AVG DURATION
    • 49 EPISODES

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    Latest episodes from Stoked To Be The Stokes Podcast

    STBTS Ep 49- So The Takeaway is... (Therapy Pt 4/4)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2021 25:53


    In this last installment of our Therapy series we share our biggest takeaways from our therapy journey thus far. We love to hear the feedback so please be sure to keep the conversation going in the comments on FB and IG @StokedToBeTheStokes and subscribe to the YouTube channel! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    STBTS Ep 48- "You Ever Go Too Far?" (Therapy Part 3 of 4)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2021 21:33


    Ok, so last episode we found the right therapist...this episode we discuss the time one of us went too far and it led to a one-on-one emergency session. Be sure to keep the conversation going in the comments and follow on IG and FB @StokedToBeTheStokes (and subscribe to the YouTube channel!)Like, share, and rate if you can relate! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    Episode 47- "What If This Was My Last Straw" Therapy Part II

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2021 19:13


    The STRUGGLE with finding not only A therapist but THE RIGHT ONE- y'all....ok let's just get into it. From insurance issues to modifying our dealbreakers...how we ended up with what we didn't even know we needed. Baby cooing in the background because...well...2 under 2! Be sure to follow @StokedToBeTheStokes on all social media platforms and subscribe to the Youtube channel! Like, share, and rate if you can relate!

    Episode 46- Therapy Part 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2021 22:29


    We're back! And we want to talk about therapy (our experience, at least) since it's been over a year since we've started! In this episode, we discuss what led us to get (back) into therapy and how we FINALLY found a therapist that worked for us- it was a journey! As always, share, like, comment, and rate if you can relate! Also, be sure to follow us on Instagram @StokedToBeTheStokes and subscribe to our YouTube channel @StokedToBeTheStokes !

    Love & Marriage Huntsville Reaction *Bonus Episode*

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 23, 2020 28:45


    We've been tuned in to LAMH since the beginning, but this week took us for a ride! Frenemies conversing with children, co-parenting dilemmas, and in-law interventions...pardon the interruption to our regularly scheduled episode- we just had to talk to someone about it! Keep the conversation going in the comments- we'd love to hear your answer to some of these questions (even if you don't watch the show)! Be sure to subscribe to the YouTube channel & follow @StokedToBeTheStokes on IG an FB for more content!

    Ep 44- Dating Games, Pet Peeves, & Things You Never Told Me

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2020 27:43


    "When is it your place to give your friend the low down on someone they're dating?" ...and other questions that need answers! This episode was hilarious- we may have gotten a little carried away! Be sure to follow @StokedToBeTheStokes on IG and FB for more content, and as always...like, share, and SUBSCRIBE to the YouTube channel if you haven't already!

    Ep 42- Things We Said We'd Never Do As Parents!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2020 34:44


    New parents always have their list of do's and do NOT's right?? But boy do things change once baby gets here! We had fun recording this episode and realizing how much has changed in the past few months. Let's just say...we've made a few allowances already and don't regret it one bit! What are some of the things you sad you'd never do?? Keep the conversation going in the comments and be sure to follow @StokedToBeTheStokes on IG and FB for more content! And don’t forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel!

    Are We Asking Too Much??

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2020 27:19


    As new parents, going out hasn't exactly gotten easier just yet (but it gets better...right??) We're still figuring out what the essentials are for our diaper bag and trying to not feel guilty for squeezing our way into the Happy Hour section of our favorite restaurant. Can anybody relate? If you haven't subscribed to our YouTube channel yet, be sure to do so now and turn on those notifications for new content alerts! Also, follow us on IG and FB @StokedToBeTheStokes.

    Bonding and Baby Blues

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 18, 2020 30:28


    In this episode, the Stokes discuss their experience with maternity and paternity leave in California as well as the side of the Baby Blues no one seems to be talking about: the Dad side. Like, share, and rate if you can relate and be sure to keep the conversation going on IG and FB @StokedToBeTheStokes. As always, if you'd like to watch this episode live it is on our Youtube channel- be sure to subscribe!

    Protective Much? Why We Hid Our Baby

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2020 30:41


    Our first episode back post-pregnancy! (So if we act a little crazier than usual - you know why!) In this episode, we discuss the feelings we felt and boundaries we set with family, friends, and social media concerning Baby Stokes after she was born. Subscribe and rate if you relate! Keep the conversation going in the comments online on IG, FB & YouTube where you can also find more content! Be sure to share and subscribe to our YouTube channel if you haven't already! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    What A New Mom-to-Be Needs!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2019 13:07


    New Moms get all the love! (but it all the love too much?) In this #RingLight episode the Stokes discuss how to support a new Mom-to-be. Be sure to keep the conversation going in the comments and don't forget to like Like & Subscribe! You can also subscribe to our Youtube page and be sure to follow us on Instagram and Facebook for more content @StokedToBeTheStokes Ariana's IG: @ArianaNicoleStokes Brian's IG: @BrianLamarStokes

    New Dads Need Love Too -Top Things A New Dad Needs!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2019 13:04


    New Dads need love too! In this #RingLight episode the Stokes discuss how to support a new Dad-to-be. Be sure to keep the conversation going in the comments and don't forget to like Like & Subscribe! Don't forget to subscribe to our YouTube channel and be sure to follow us on Instagram and Facebook for more content @StokedToBeTheStokes Ariana's IG: @ArianaNicoleStokes Brian's IG: @BrianLamarStokes

    Let People Enjoy Things (Ep 35)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2019 42:21


    In this week's episode, the Stokes discuss a few things they're looking forward to most about becoming parents. After receiving mixed advice, the focus is on staying positive! Be sure to subscribe to the YouTube channel if you haven't already and download the episodes on iTunes SoundCloud, and GooglePlay for on-the-go listening!

    Overcoming Obstacles in Marriage (Double Date with the Quintanilla's!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 29, 2019 58:09


    In this episode of Stoked To Be The Stokes, Brian and Ariana host Gabby and David Quintanilla. They discuss everything from their age gap to figuring out finances to working to overcome their pasts early on in marriage. The transparency was real! We can all relate on some level. Be sure to tune in and keep the conversation going in the comments on IG and FB @StokedToBeTheStokes. Be sure to subscribe to the YouTube channel if you haven't already and catch all of the laughs live!

    Ep 34- Marriage and Ministry: Finding the Balance (Double Date w/ the Cancholas!)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2019 50:17


    This week the Stokes host the Canchola's on the show as they discuss marriage, parenting, ministry, and how they balance it all. They reveal a few interesting facts about their relationship, how it started and what's kept them in love for the past 8 years. Listen and keep the conversation going in the comments on IG and FB @StokedToBeTheStokes ! As always- like, share, and rate if you can relate! We appreciate all the love! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    We're Having A Baby...It's A... (S2E21)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2019 38:07


    We're Having A Baby...It's A... (S2E21) by Brian & Ariana Stokes

    We're Having A Baby: Half-way There! (S2E20)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 30, 2019 45:34


    The Stokes are halfway through their pregnancy journey and excited to share a few details (and stories) they've been holding onto since before they announced! Tune in and subscribe if you haven't already. And as always...be sure to like, SHARE, and rate if you can relate! Keep the conversation going in the comments on IG and FB @StokedToBeTheStokes

    Young and Married- Double Date Episode! (S2E19)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2019 51:58


    The Stokes host the Smith's on this week's podcast as they discuss everything from knowing each was "the one" to breaking up, to getting married...all before age 23! Watch the episode live on our Youtube channel! Be sure to listen and keep the conversation going in the comments on IG and FB @StokedToBeTheStokes. As always...like, share, and rate if you can relate! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    Keep It 100 (S2E18)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2019 49:05


    Keeping it 100 is sometimes easier said than done- especially when everyone has an opinion about how you should or should not be in certain spaces. The Stokes discuss the challenges (and rewards) that they've discovered on their journey to being (and loving) their personalities no matter what. Of course there's a couple pregnancy and life updates! As always, keep the conversation going on IG, FB, and Youtube! And be sure to like, share, and rate if you can relate! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    Great Expectations: We're Having a Baby! (S2E17)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2019 36:05


    The word is out: #BabyStokes is on the way! In this episode, Brian and Ariana discuss finding out they were pregnant, sharing with family and friends, and if there's such thing as "perfect timing." Be sure to keep the conversation going on social media @StokedToBeTheStokes on FB and IG - and now YouTube! As always...like, share, and rate if you can relate! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    *Special Episode* Happy Father's Day (S2E16)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 16, 2019 34:41


    On this special Father's Day episode, Brian and Ariana each discuss a few of the major life lessons they learned from their dads. Tune in for some heartwarming and hilarious moments! Be sure to keep the conversation going on all social media platforms @StokedToBeTheStokes and, as always...like, share, and rate if you can relate! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    Friends, How Many Of Us Have Them? (S2E15)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 11, 2019 49:39


    The Stokes discuss the unexpected challenge of making new friends in adulthood and marriage. From making the time, to being intentional, to navigating the awkward "this isn't working" phase...#thisis30. Like, Share, and Rate if you can relate! And as always...keep the conversation going on IG, FB, and YouTube @StokedToBeTheStokes #StokedToBeTheStokes YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZDvSrbNs5ZlHromtcuBezA ITUNES: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/stokedtobethestokes-podcast/id1435754996 IG: @StokedToBeTheStokes FB: www.facebook.com/stokedtobethestokes

    First Year of Marriage Myths Debunked (S2E14)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2019 61:56


    The first year of marriage often gets a bad rep so we wanted to discuss what was myth and what was fact (for us at least!) Like, share, and rate if you can relate! And as always, be sure to follow on IG and FB and now YOUTUBE @StokedToBeTheStokes to keep the conversation going! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    Check In: 1 Year Wedding Anniversary! (S2E13)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2019 48:43


    The Stokes are officially 1 YEAR MARRIED!!! This check-in is a little different from the others in that it recaps the whole year (and gets a bit unfiltered with some never before shared details). Be sure to listen and to check out the wedding highlight video on IG TV and FB @StokedToBeStokes This journey would be less fun without your love and support! Remember to like, share, and rate if you can relate! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    Black Card...Revoked? (S2E12)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2019 40:19


    In this episode, Brian is coming for Ariana's black card with a list of 'what would you do' scenarios, 'finish this song,' and black staple movies he's sure she's not familiar with. The discussion that ensues is hilarious! Take a listen and like, share, and rate if you can relate! Don't forget to keep the conversation going on Instagram and Facebook: @StokedToBeTheStokes #StokedToBeTheStokes

    Mama, You Know I Love You (S2E11)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2019 40:48


    In this episode, the Stokes discuss the top 5 lessons they learned from their mothers, the moment they discovered their mothers didn't know everything, and how watching them has shaped their views on marriage. Tune in, like, share, and rate if you can relate! Be sure to follow on IG and FB @StokedToBeTheStokes to keep the conversation going! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    In the Middle (S2E10)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2019 37:31


    WE'RE BACK! New house, new jobs, new city- we have so many updates! Listen and get all the details on what this past month has looked like as we quickly found our faith and patience tried amidst so much CHANGE. Be sure to follow us on IG and FB @StokedToBeTheStokes where we keep the conversation going. And remember-to like, share, and rate if you can relate!

    Find You A Processed Man- Double Date Episode! S2E9

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2019 50:36


    The Stokes host a Double Date with newlyweds Jose and Erica Rodriguez to discuss finding love after loss, choosing marriage after divorce, and not losing yourself in ministry. We had tons of questions and they were an open book! Take a listen, and keep the conversation going in the comments on IG and FB @StokedToBeTheStokes ...And don’t forget to like, share, and rate if you can relate! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    Birthday Behavior #Dirty30Baby (S2E8)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2019 42:46


    The Stokes unload all of the details leading up to Brian's many surprises for his 30th birthday including a trip across the border to Mexico! They also discuss what #BirthdayBehavior looked like growing up and what new traditions they hope to start now. Join the conversation on all social media platforms (@StokedToBeTheStokes) for exclusive footage and sound off in the comments! Like, share, and rate if you can relate! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    ...I Got Caught (S2E7)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2019 45:03


    Two phones...a secret email...drinks with exes...$45 on Cheetos?! The Stokes put it all out on the table in this episode as they go through some of the topics men and women keep hidden from their spouses. Keep the conversation going on IG and FB by following @StokedToBeTheStokes and remember...like, share, and rate if you can relate! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    Check in...Again (S2E6)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2019 33:46


    The Stokes have their 3-month check-in using the 10-Point Marriage Check-Up tool. Last check-in was a little...well...rocky...so here's hoping for the best ;-) Be sure to follow on social media @StokedToBeTheStokes and keep the conversation going! Like, share, and rate if you can relate! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    The Fast Life (S2E5)

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 5, 2019 38:49


    The Stokes discuss their experience after their first fast, the impact it's had so far, and what it means moving forward. They also share a couple of high's and low's from this past week. Be sure to follow on social media @StokedToBeTheStokes and keep the conversation going in the comments! Like, share, and rate if you can relate! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    Can You Go The Distance (Double Date!) S2E4

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 19, 2019 62:55


    The Stokes have a double date with The Halls as they discuss how they made their long distance relationship work, the ups and downs of newlywed life, and how they almost didn't make it to the altar! Like, share, and rate if you can relate! Don't forget to follow on IG and FB to keep the conversation going! @StokedToBeTheStokes

    On My Knees?? (STBTS S2E3)

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2019 30:32


    The Stokes discuss how they've incorporated an integral practice into their marriage that they haven't done in...well...years. Rate if you can relate! Like, share, and keep the conversation going on FB and IG in the comment section! @StokedToBeTheStokes #StokedToBeTheStokes

    Bad Advice, Good Intentions (Double Date Episode!) S2E2

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 7, 2019 43:20


    The Stokes sit down with Dre and Shana Adams as they share some of the good, bad, and just plain crazy advice they got before getting married and what they did with it. Tune in and rate if you can relate! Don't forget to follow on FB and IG to join the conversation! @StokedToBeTheStokes

    Happy New Year! STBTS S2E1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2019 29:09


    We're BACK with Season 2 of #StokedToBeTheStokes!!! The holidays are over and we are refreshed and ready to go! In this episode we discuss how to maintain new year resolutions... and why we are abandoning them this year. I know, right?

    Ep. 12 "Permission to Speak Freely?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2018 47:17


    Brian and Ariana discuss the difficulty of giving and receiving the hard truth in the relationship, and each reveal a few character flaws they've had to learn about themselves...the hard way. Tune in, like, share, and rate if you can relate! Don't forget to follow the page on IG and FB for more content! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    Six Month Check-in (Ep. 11)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2018 44:08


    The Stokes are 6 months in to their first year of marriage and do a live check-in to see where they stand. Their scores were...surprisingly different. Tune in and find out why! Don't forget to follow on FB and IG @StokedToBeTheStokes for more content!

    Episode 10 (LIVE): The Engagement

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 18, 2018 78:53


    Brian and Ariana discuss the up's and down's of their engagement period- the things they were glad they did and what they wish they would have done differently. Join the conversation on FB in the comments and don't forget to follow @StokedToBeTheStokes on both Instagram and Facebook! Share, comment, like, and rate if you can relate!

    When Plans Change (Ep. 9)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 14, 2018 72:17


    We're always encouraged to make and state a plan but what happens when "the plan" changes? The Stokes discuss how their individual missions and motivations have changed courses over the past 5 years since moving to Los Angeles and what that means for the future. Comment, share, and rate if you can relate! Don't forget to follow on IG and FB @StokedToBeTheStokes for more content!

    Boundaries (Ep 8)

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 7, 2018 48:21


    Brian and Ariana talk about the awkwardness and benefits of establishing boundaries with family, friends, church and work after marriage. Comment and rate if you can relate! Don't forget to follow on FB and IG @StokedToBeTheStokes and email info@stokedtobethestokes for any inquiries!

    We Were Never Friends (Live Recording)

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2018 69:54


    The Stokes go LIVE for the first time as they discuss whether or not it's necessary to be friends before dating, how they met and became official, their different opinions on what dating was supposed to look like, and the timeline leading up to their engagement. Listeners chime in via FB live and add to the conversation with their own personal experiences. Comment and rate if you can relate! And visit the FB page to watch the live recording of this week's episode as some things are just better in person ;-)

    Different Strokes for Different Folks

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2018 45:56


    The Stokes discuss a few experiences they had while discovering how their families were different (and sometimes alike) in culture, behavior, and expectations. Like, Share, and Rate if you can relate! Don't forget to follow on FB and IG!

    Fix Your Attitude!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2018 52:42


    On this week's episode: Last name- to change or not to change? When's the right time to talk about it? And why didn't anyone mention how emotional (and tedious) the process could be?! The Stokes also discuss the tool that has made all the difference on tough days of their relationship and get transparent about some insecurities they're still encouraging each other through. Comment and rate if you can relate!

    Check-Ins & Changes

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2018 43:31


    The Stokes talk about some of the changes they've had to adapt to in their relationship- especially after marriage- and give a tool they use to "check-in" once a month. Don't forget to follow and join the conversation on FB and Instagram!

    I Need SPACE

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2018 45:34


    Brian and Ariana talk about finding balance when one partner needs more 'me time' than the other, how to communicate that without anyone's feelings getting hurt, and how it may benefit the overall relationship. Tune in and join the conversation on Instagram and Facebook @StokedToBeTheStokes

    SURPRISE! MARRIAGE IS NOT 50/50

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 25, 2018 39:33


    The Stokes share what they've learned about marriage being everything BUT 50/50 and explore how "happy wife, happy life" is a myth that can do more harm than good. Listen, like, share, subscribe! #StokedToBeTheStokes

    If You Don't Talk To Me...Then You Don't Talk To My Husband #STBTS Ep 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2018 35:35


    The Stokes discuss how NOT to interact with married couples and how LA culture is unlike any other...seriously. Subscribe, rate, share and join the conversations on FB and IG @StokedToBeTheStokes !

    Introducing #StokedToBeTheStokes

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 9, 2018 2:06


    Introducing our new podcast!

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