To Have & To Hold

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Looking for a podcast to elevate and enhance your relationships? Your marriage? Your family life? Well look no more as John and Nichole Sablan help bring together faith, experience, social science and practicality to your every day lives with a podcast fo


    • Aug 19, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 31m AVG DURATION
    • 14 EPISODES


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    Angels, Demons & Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2020 29:57


    Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to our guardian angels and discuss the reality of angels and demons in marriage and family life. ----------------------------------- Fr. Chad Ripperger's Website http://sensustraditionis.org/ Video on Angels by Father Chad: https://youtu.be/8WMjnJmgpn4 https://youtu.be/nt_eTbkrR-g #spiritualwarfare #ephesians6 #frchadripperger

    Getting & Staying on the Same Page

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2020 38:48


    Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to the Feast Day of St. Dominic and discuss the topic of how to get and stay on the same page as a married couple. They talk about their own practice of an annual retreat to talk through goals and priorities in marriage, children, spirituality, relationships, personal, professional financial. #marriagegoals #catholic #catholiclife

    The Elephant in the Room (Part 2)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2020 30:34


    Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to healing and continue the discussion on the effects of Adverse Child Experiences (ACEs) on us as people and in our marriage and family and some practical tips to deal with them. -------------------------------------------------------------------- Video Credit: https://www.thersa.org/ Original YouTube Video: https://youtu.be/1Evwgu369Jw Voice: Dr Brené Brown Animation: Katy Davis (AKA Gobblynne) www.gobblynne.com Production and Editing: Al Francis-Sears and Abi Stephenson #adversechildexperiences #catholic #catholiclife

    The Elephant in the Room (Part 1)

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2020 30:23


    Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to the wisdom of the Church and discuss the effects of Adverse Child Experiences (ACEs) on us as people and in our marriage and family. ----------- Video of Nadine Burke-Harris speaking on ACE Study https://www.ted.com/talks/nadine_burke_harris_how_childhood_trauma_affects_health_across_a_lifetime?language=en #adversechildexperiences #catholic #catholiclife

    "You want me to do what?!" - Expectations in Marriage

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 22, 2020 37:47


    Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to faith filled friendships and discuss the challenge with having unrealistic and unhealthy expectations in marriage and family. #comparisongame #catholic #catholiclife

    The Comparison Game

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 15, 2020 28:30


    Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to the pursuit of happiness and they discuss the issue of the comparison game in marriage and relationships. #comparisongame #catholic #catholiclife

    Can I Trust You God? Faith, Trust & One Flesh Union

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 8, 2020 35:26


    Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to Nichole's success in passing her clinical counseling licensure exam. They also discuss the reality of doubt, trust and opening yourself up to God in times of stress, anxiety and uncertainty as well as growing spiritually and as a couple during this time. #trustingod #catholic #catholiclife

    "How to Change Your Spouse" - Offering it Up

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2020 28:29


    Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to a return to mass and discuss the concept of "offering it up" as it relates to our own offerings and sacrifices on behalf of our spouse and family. #catholic #offeritup #howtochangeyourspouse

    "How to Fight Fair" - Resolving Conflict In Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 10, 2020 37:42


    Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to differences and discuss how to approach arguing as a couple and in relationships that is respectful, productive and life giving. #catholic #howtofightfairinmarriage #resolvingconflict

    "What's with You?!" Understanding the Temperaments

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 3, 2020 39:38


    Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to the temperaments God gave them and discuss how a good understanding of temperaments lead to improved relationships. Book Recommended: https://www.amazon.com/Temperament-God-Gave-You-Yourself/dp/1933184027/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1WFI8BS7DX5BV&dchild=1&keywords=the+temperament+god+gave+you&qid=1591196544&sprefix=temperaments+god+%2Caps%2C204&sr=8-1 https://www.amazon.com/Personality-Plus-Work-Successfully-Anyone/dp/0800730542/ref=sr_1_1?crid=1145UI23YAW63&dchild=1&keywords=personality+plus+at+work&qid=1591198783&sprefix=personality+plus+at%2Caps%2C209&sr=8-1 Temperament Quiz: https://www.temperamentquiz.com/ #catholic #catholicmarriage #worldablazeinc

    "What the Church did to our Marriage"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2020 29:03


    Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to the birthday of the Church and to the gifts that the Church has brought to their life, marriage, family and relationships. #catholic #catholicmarriage #worldablazeinc

    "COVID Contemplations"

    Play Episode Listen Later May 20, 2020 22:25


    Join John & Nichole Sablan in this episode as they toast to the small start of lifted restrictions and the things they discovered during this time of quarantine. #catholic #catholicmarriage #worldablazeinc

    “Know Your Role”

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2020 28:06


    Join John & Nichole Sablan as they toast to all mothers, discuss gifts of maternity and speak to the roles of husbands and wives in marriage and family.

    What's Your Secret?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2020 25:19


    Join John and Nichole as they kick off their first episode of To Have & To Hold and share some secrets to their 25 years of marriage and family life.

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