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Brian Miller (Coach Approach Ministries) is joined by Robert & Kaylee Fukui, authors of Tandem: The Married Entrepreneur's Guide for Greater Work-Life Balance, with special guest Danelle Miller (CAM Operations Director… and Brian's wife). They talk about what happens when marriage and business share the same kitchen table: role confusion, taking things personally, decision gridlock, risk tolerance gaps, and the surprisingly powerful value of prepping conversations so nobody gets blindsided. Along the way: performance reviews when you're married to the boss, why "we never argue" is not the flex people think it is, and the simple signals and boundaries that keep conflict messy-but-safe instead of messy-and-destructive. Key takeaways Name the hat you're wearing. "Husband vs boss vs coach" isn't semantics—it's the difference between teamwork and accidental emotional arson. Most conflict escalates because it gets personal fast. Entrepreneur couples take disagreement as distrust quicker than typical coworkers would. Decision-making is the #1 limiter. If you can't come to agreement, you can't move forward in business—and you might torch the marriage while trying. Risk tolerance differences are real (and predictable). One person wants to jump; the other wants a safety net. Healthy couples build the net together. No surprises. Healthy reviews and hard conversations work best when people get a heads-up and a chance to think and respond. "Guard your heart" (shot over the bow). A simple pre-signal + a few deep breaths helps the listener receive without reacting. DISC-style awareness lowers the temperature. When differences are expected, they stop feeling like betrayal and start feeling like design. Memorable moments (with timestamps) 00:01:30 – 00:04:10 — Brian describes working with Danelle: "On paper, I'm the boss…" (and then reality walks into the room). 00:04:11 – 00:06:34 — Performance reviews as a married team; why "changing hats purposefully" matters. 00:07:05 – 00:11:06 — Biggest obstacles: blurred lines, taking it personal, conflict resolution, and decision paralysis. 00:11:52 – 00:13:02 — "Opposites attract; once we say 'I do,' it's irritating." 00:14:11 – 00:15:13 — The myth of "we never argue" and why it can be a warning sign. 00:15:13 – 00:16:33 — Danelle's "six months of stuffing" → file cabinet dump (every spouse just felt that in their bones). 00:17:37 – 00:18:15 — "40,000 feet vs zero feet" leadership styles; how execution starts too early and vision changes too fast. 00:22:23 – 00:23:37 — Brian on the harder truth: telling Danelle difficult things and the need for "messy but safe." 00:23:48 – 00:24:23 — "Guard your heart" + deep breaths = better receiving. 00:31:42 – 00:33:36 — Resources: the book, assessment, and discovery call pathway. 00:33:47 – 00:35:16 — Danelle's takeaway: boundaries have types—time, giftedness, and roles—and naming them helps. Practical tools you can steal today 1) The "Hat Statement" Before a conversation, say: "I'm speaking as your spouse." "I'm speaking as your business partner." "I'm speaking as your boss/employee." Then agree on the goal: solve, decide, debrief, or just listen. 2) The "Shot Over the Bow" A pre-signal for hard truth: "Guard your heart." "This might sting; I love you; we're okay; we still need to talk." Then: two deep breaths before the content lands. 3) The "Is now a good time?" boundary Especially for the spaghetti/waffle clash: Ask permission to enter the other person's mental room. If not now, schedule it: lunch / weekly meeting / tonight. Discussion questions (great for couples, teams, or coach debrief) Where do work and home boundaries blur most for us—time, topic, tone, or role? When we disagree, what story do I tell myself about what it means? (e.g., "You don't trust me.") What's our risk tolerance gap—and how can we build "safe jumping" together? What pre-signal would help me receive hard truth without reacting? What would "messy but safe" look like as a norm in our relationship? Resources mentioned Book: Tandem: The Married Entrepreneur's Guide for Greater Work-Life Balance (available via Amazon; also mentioned: thetandembook.com) Assessment + CAM listener page: marriedentrepreneur.co/cam (includes assessment + discovery call link) Coach Approach Ministries: coachapproachministries.org
Let us know how you enjoyed this episode!One person wanting to talk and the other shutting down doesn't mean one of you cares more. It means your nervous systems cope differently.If you feel like you're always the one trying to talk things through — or you're the one who shuts down and gets overwhelmed — this episode will help you understand what's actually happening beneath the surface.In this episode, I break down:- The pursue–withdraw dynamic in marriage- Why shutting down is about protection, not avoidance- How to stop taking withdrawal personally- What “consensual conversations” are and why they change everything- How to use pacing to prevent arguments- The Japanese concept of ma and how intentional pauses improve communication- How to set conversations up for success instead of forcing resolutionIf you're ready for personalized support to help your marriage get back on track with healthy communication, book your clarity call here!Thanks for listening!Connect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoachingIf you would like to support this show, please rate and review the show, and share it with people you know would love this show too!Support the show
Should you ever correct your spouse? The Bible says you should, and it tells you how (Gal. 6:1-3). First, you must not be just frustrated and fed up, but “spiritual.” Second, your goal must not be to humiliate, expose, or “win,” but to “restore.” Third, you must bring correction in a “spirit of gentleness,” not anger. Fourth, you must examine your own heart, “lest you also be tempted.” And, finally, you must “Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ” (Gal. 6:2) — so whenever the problem persists, you’re called to be patient and longsuffering. Correcting your spouse is sometimes called for, but it must be done carefully, this way (Gal. 6:1-3).
For the woman who still believes her marriage can feel better than this… even if she doesn't know where to start yet... Married-U is open! If you love your spouse but feel disconnected. If parenting has taken over everything. If your differences feel heavier than they used to. You're not broken. Your marriage isn't doomed. You're missing a few key shifts most of us were never taught. - https://married-u.com In today's episode, I respond to two honest questions: • Should kids sleep in the marriage bed, or should that space be protected for the couple? • How do you support a spouse with social anxiety when you're more outgoing and social? These aren't just practical questions. They're really about closeness, safety, desire, and learning how to stay a team. If you want to start creating a marriage that feels calmer, warmer, more connected, and more alive Married-U was built to guide you step by step. You can begin on your own, even if your spouse isn't ready yet. https://married-u.com
Numerous demonic entities are discussed and taught in the modern deliverance movement, and one of those is the spirit spouse. Leaders who hold to this belief teach people that this demon can invade one's dreams at night and have intimate encounters with them. It is said that this can stem from soul ties of past relationships, generational bloodline curses, witchcraft, and even scrolling on social media. Is this Biblical?Join me as we examine this teaching from Abednego Lufile and Tiffany Buckner, and we consider what Scripture has to say about this teaching. Resources:https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/do-demons-have-legal-rights-to-christians/id1535754914?i=1000657147189Deliverance videos playlist:https://youtube.com/playlist?list=PLGatBwNLxrd4NcLdQBMLf4HAbVBSr7-Lr&si=E-43CoaM8aALl1xXMy info:Website: http://www.lovesickscribe.comSubscribe to my blog here: http://eepurl.com/dfZ-uHInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lovesickscribe/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/lovesickscribeblog
Taxes. Filing status. Adjusted gross income. Capital gains. Just reading those words can make you want to close the tab and deal with it “later.” But here's the truth: taxes change after widowhood. Sometimes in ways no one warns you about. Filing status shifts. Income is calculated differently. Survivor benefits can become taxable. And all of it is happening while you're navigating one of the hardest transitions of your life. In this episode, Stacy Francis and Allen Sakkon walk through what really happens to your tax situation after the loss of a spouse - in plain language - so you can feel more confident, ask better questions, and avoid costly surprises. You'll hear them discuss: How your filing status works in the year your spouse passes, and what changes in the years that follow (including qualifying surviving spouse and head of household) Why your adjusted gross income (AGI) is such a powerful number and how it affects Social Security taxation, Medicare premiums, and eligibility for credits and deductions When and why Social Security survivor benefits become partially taxable and how timing major financial decisions can help What cost basis means, how the step-up in basis works at death, and why it can dramatically reduce capital gains taxes on a home or investment account How selling a house or investments in the wrong year can unexpectedly spike your income and how to think strategically about timing The most commonly missed deductions after a spouse's death, including medical expenses, property taxes, mortgage interest, charitable gifts, and capital loss carry-forwards One simple habit - tracking your income deposits —-that can help you regain control and make your tax return far less intimidating Resources Allen Sakon on LinkedIn | Email Stacy Francis on LinkedIn | X(Twitter) | Email FrancisFinancial.com Reach out to receive a complimentary consultation! Contact Francis Financial at +212-374-9008 or visit Francis Financial today!
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When to Let a Cheating Spouse Move Back (and When it Prevents Reconciling)When a spouse says they want to come home after an affair, the relief can be overwhelming. But moving back in too quickly often restores comfort without restoring trust, increasing the risk of repeated betrayal and emotional distance. In this episode, Coach Jack explains how to rebuild love, trust, and commitment in the right order so reconciliation has a real chance to succeed.What You'll Learn:How to know whether your spouse's remorse reflects real change or fear of consequencesWhy rebuilding connection must come before living together againWhat conditions should be met before ending a separationHow to set loving but firm boundaries that protect your marriageWant to Work With Coach Jack?: If you are trying to end an affair and restore your marriage, the Ending a Spouse's Affair Coaching Package provides structured guidance to help you balance strong boundaries with meaningful relationship building. Coach Jack works with clients to communicate clearly, reduce emotional reactivity, and create the right conditions for lasting reconciliation.Key Takeaways:Remorse without action does not rebuild trust.Separation creates the conditions necessary for reconciliation.Rebuild love, trust, and commitment before living together again.Living together should be treated as a trial, not a guarantee.You must be willing to lose your marriage in order to save it.Additional Resources: A Christian Guide to Preventing and Ending Men's Affairs, by Jack Ito, PhD,7 Separation Bourndaries that Promote Reconciliation after SeparationHow to Decide Between Marriage Counseling and Marriage CoachingWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.
In this episode of Married and Connected, certified marriage coach Kameran Alareqi dives into one of the most common (and least talked about) relationship struggles: losing yourself in marriage.Whether you're feeling emotionally exhausted, disconnected from your identity, buried under parenting and responsibilities, or quietly resentful that your life revolves around everyone else — this episode will help you understand what's happening and how to reclaim yourself without blowing up your relationship.In This Episode, We Cover:Why so many people say “I lost myself” during marriage or divorceThe psychology behind identity fusion in long-term relationshipsThe difference between codependent vs. interdependent marriageEmotional labor and why women often feel identity loss fasterIdentity narrowing and provider pressure for menThe early warning signs of “the slow fade”Why resentment builds when autonomy disappearsHow to rebuild autonomy without starting conflictPractical steps to rediscover your individuality inside marriageThe Psychology Behind Losing YourselfResearch on identity fusion and self-schema overlap shows that in long-term romantic relationships, our individual identity becomes deeply intertwined with our partner's. While this can create closeness, it can also lead to emotional enmeshment and loss of autonomy.This episode breaks down:Why divorce can feel like an amputation of identityHow attachment patterns influence identity lossWhy resentment often signals suppressed autonomyThe subtle ways couples trade authenticity for attachmentSigns You May Be Losing Yourself in MarriageConstantly saying “whatever you want”Avoiding conflict to keep the peaceGiving up hobbies, interests, or friendshipsFeeling emotionally numb or boredResenting simple requests from your spouseNot recognizing your own reflection anymoreIf any of this feels familiar, you're not broken — you're likely buried under layers of “we” without enough “I.”Practical Tools to Reclaim Yourself (Without Destroying Your Marriage)Kameran shares actionable strategies including:✔️ The “Church and State” separation every marriage needs ✔️ Why you need hobbies, trusted friends, and personal space ✔️ The 20-Minute Solitude Rule ✔️ How to practice small acts of autonomy ✔️ Rebuilding neural pathways of independence ✔️ Supporting your spouse in staying wholeBecause healthy marriages aren't made of two halves.They're made of two whole people choosing each other.
Hello, Protagonists!Welcome to another episode of the Creative, Inspired, ALIVE podcast—where we go behind the scenes with the storytellers shaping our culture.Our next guests, Emily Wibberley and Austin Siegmund-Broka, are a married Romance writing team! They met and fell in love in high school. Austin went on to graduate from Harvard, while Emily graduated from Princeton. Together, they are the authors of multiple novels, including The Roughest Draft and Reese's YA Bookclub Pick Heiress Takes All. They are also two-thirds of USA Today bestselling author E.B. Asher. So much teamwork! Seeing Other People is their latest novel.Today, we talk about:* writing in partnership,* trends in the romance genre,* incorporating speculative elements,* and the writing scene in LA.xo,Joanna & Evelyn
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With the recent National Marriage Week and Valentine's Day, Lionshare's Dave Buehring talks about marriage: how do we help each other grow closer to God and help them live into what God's calling him/her to do and be? How do you live into the commitment of you and your spouse walking with each other through life, forever? Then, Carmen dips into the Monday Mailbag to answer a question on how do we think well with all the sordid details coming out with the Epstein Files. The Reconnect with Carmen and all Faith Radio podcasts are made possible by your support. Give now: Click here
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Send a textOn this Special Valentines Day show, my Bride Jill Edwards and a comics wife, Bernice Worley share their point of view on the whole Life in Comedy. It is a sincere attempt to share how handling a spouse who travels, or an entrepreneur focused on a business....can be tough for every couple. I hope it is clear that this podcast is a tribute to Spouse's that support one another, and how Grateful we are to the women (or Men) that support their spouses..."Thank-you"Road Comic Bob Worley also adds a few comments and stories as well....and he is always funny!Support the show www.StandupComedyPodcastNetwork.com Website....check it out, podcast, jokes, blogs, and More!"NEW" Video Podcast: Tag Team Talent Podcast on Spotify & YouTube Podcast Quality List: https://www.millionpodcasts.com/heritage-podcasts/ Please Write a Review: in-depth walk-through for leaving a review.Interested in Standup Comedy? Check out my books on Amazon..."20 Questions Answered about Being a Standup Comic""Be a Standup Comic...or just look like one"
Marriage is complicated—because people are complicated. In Week 1 of It’s Complicated, Pastor JC walks through one of the most dysfunctional marriages in the Bible to uncover a powerful truth: marriage doesn’t fix our wounds, it reveals them. Through the story of Jacob, Leah, and Rachel in Genesis 29, we see how unmet expectations, emotional disconnection, and unhealed insecurity can follow us into marriage. This message challenges the belief that a spouse, children, or success can heal what only God can. Real change begins when we stop asking God to fix someone else and start inviting Him to heal us. If you’ve ever felt unhappy, unseen, or stuck in your marriage—or in any relationship—this message is for you.
Marriage is complicated—because people are complicated. In Week 1 of It’s Complicated, Pastor JC walks through one of the most dysfunctional marriages in the Bible to uncover a powerful truth: marriage doesn’t fix our wounds, it reveals them. Through the story of Jacob, Leah, and Rachel in Genesis 29, we see how unmet expectations, emotional disconnection, and unhealed insecurity can follow us into marriage. This message challenges the belief that a spouse, children, or success can heal what only God can. Real change begins when we stop asking God to fix someone else and start inviting Him to heal us. If you’ve ever felt unhappy, unseen, or stuck in your marriage—or in any relationship—this message is for you.
When a spouse passes away, the emotional toll is obvious—but the financial “whammies” can be just as disruptive: a lower Social Security benefit may disappear, tax filing status changes, Medicare decisions shift, and beneficiary and estate documents need immediate attention. In this episode of Safer Retirement Radio, Brian Decker and Marc Knauss, CFP(R) break down the practical steps families should understand before a loss happens, and the priorities to address in the first 30–90 days afterward. They cover how survivor benefits work, why taxes often rise for the surviving spouse, and how proactive planning can reduce administrative headaches and costly mistakes. Key topics discussed: Survivor Social Security basics: notify promptly, benefit coordination, and timing considerations Tax impact after a spouse's death: filing status changes and why brackets can tighten Medicare and supplemental plan review after becoming widowed Account consolidation, beneficiary updates, and estate document cleanup (trust, POA, health directive) Risks of scams and pressure tactics after an obituary posts Real estate and tax planning concepts like step-up in basis Advanced planning themes discussed on the show: trusts, legacy design, and rental real estate tax strategies If you're within 5–10 years of retirement (or already retired), this episode is a reminder that a written income plan and coordinated strategy can help protect the surviving spouse and reduce “decision pressure” during grief. Learn more & download resources: DeckerRetirementPlanning.com (Safer Retirement Education) Schedule a visit: 833-707-3030 This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not intended as tax or legal advice. Investing involves risk, including the potential loss of principal. Any references to protection, safety, or lifetime income generally refer to fixed insurance products, never securities or investments. Insurance guarantees are backed by the financial strength and claims-paying ability of the issuing carrier.
Running your clinic with your partner - but feeling out of sync, stuck talking about work nonstop, or quietly building resentment? In this episode of the Grow Your Clinic podcast, we unpack what actually makes working with your spouse work. We dive into the power of regular check-ins, clear roles, and intentional boundaries that protect both the business and the relationship. You'll hear real lessons on avoiding misalignment, structuring productive conversations, setting KPIs, and separating work from personal time - without letting important issues fester. We also explore how to handle money conversations with transparency, create accountability without tension, and why external support can be a game-changer. If you're building a clinic with your partner and want alignment, clarity, and a relationship that thrives alongside the business, this episode lays out the framework.Need to systemise your clinic? Start your free trial of Allie! https://www.allieclinics.com/ In This Episode You'll Learn:
Brian From is joined by Dr. Peter Larson of WinShape Marriage to talk about why dating your spouse shouldn’t stop after the wedding day. They unpack practical, doable guidelines—from putting dates on the calendar and unplugging from technology to focusing on progress over perfection—that can help couples stay connected in the midst of busy family life. The conversation offers a hopeful reminder that intentional, consistent pursuit can keep marriages from drifting into roommate status and instead cultivate lasting intimacy.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Marriage is about learning to love your spouse in the way they best understand love—their unique love language. Marriage experts Dr. Gary Chapman and Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott join forces to help you identify your spouse’s love language and become fluent in expressing love in meaningful, personalized ways. Together, they explore the subtle “dialects” within each love language and encourage you to be more intentional and authentic in how you love your spouse. Receive a copy of The Love Language That Matters Most and an audio download of "How to Speak the Love Language Your Spouse Needs Most" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive. Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.
This week, we're talking about why it's so hard for Catholics to find love, marriage, and that baby carriage, and how so much of the current conversation around dating is missing the mark.P.S. We recorded this talk before the Chapmans left town both for a family funeral and to spend time with Emily's mom, who is not doing well. Please keep them in your prayers. A Word from Our SponsorThis week's episode is brought to you by Select International Tours, who is excited to be offering a new pilgrimage for homeschooling mothers. Hosted by Sally Clarkson and Ainsley Arment, you're invited to spend 10 wonder-filled days, journeying through Normandy, Rouen, and Parish. To learn more visit SelectInternationalTours.com.Show Notes:“She's Probably Not Delaying Marriage” by Cartoons Hate HerThe Dating ProjectMartySacred SparkNational Catholic Singles Conference“Scarcity of College Men and the Decline in Marriage Among Non-College Americans”“The Illusion of Many Options”“Men on Dating Apps Are Aiming Too High, and Science Says It's Time to Stop”Visitation Sessions is a listener-supported publication. If you don't want to miss a minute of the conversation upgrade your subscription today. This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit visitationsessions.substack.com/subscribe
Popular author and pastor Gary Thomas brings us more examples for both men and women, showing us how to cherish one another. He explains why honor is key to the process, and you will be so grateful for this insight. Importantly, all men and women can do this successfully! Loving and cherishing is possible and powerful.
Matthew Brickman is joined again by Ryan Finley, the Founder of Freedom Financial Services Group, to discuss wearing two hats as both the financial advisor and the mediator in divorce cases.Ryan is the Founder of Freedom Financial Services Group, a divorce finance advisory firm helping families, attorneys, and courts navigate the financial complexities of divorce. With more than twenty years of executive leadership in finance and forensic accounting, Ryan has guided hundreds of families nationwide toward financial clarity and confidence. As a CPA, CDFA, CVA, and court-approved mediator, Ryan brings both technical precision and empathy to the table—bridging the gap between financial analysis and human understanding. His ability to simplify complex financial issues and foster productive dialogue makes him a trusted resource for attorneys and clients alike.Website: https://www.freedomfsg.com/----If you have a matter, disagreement, or dispute you need professional help with then visit iMediate.com - Email mbrickman@ichatmediation or Call (877) 822-1479Matthew Brickman is a Florida Supreme Court certified family and appellate mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. But what makes him qualified to speak on the subject of conflict resolution is his own personal experience with divorce.Download Matthew's book on iTunes for FREE:You're Not the Only One - The Agony of Divorce: The Joy of Peaceful ResolutionMatthew Brickman President iMediate Inc. Mediator 20836CFAiMediateInc.comSCHEDULE YOUR MEDIATION: https://ichatmediation.com/calendar/OFFICIAL BLOG: https://ichatmediation.com/podcastOFFICIAL YOUTUBE: http://www.youtube.com/ichatmediationOFFICIAL LINKEDIN: https://www.linkedin.com/company/ichat-mediation/ABOUT MATTHEW BRICKMAN:Matthew Brickman is a Supreme Court of Florida certified county civil family mediator who has worked in the 15th and 19th Judicial Circuit Courts since 2009 and 2006 respectively. He is also an appellate certified mediator who mediates a variety of small claims, civil, and family cases. Mr. Brickman recently graduated both the Harvard Business School Negotiation Mastery Program and the Negotiation Master Class at Harvard Law School.
Marriage is about learning to love your spouse in the way they best understand love—their unique love language. Marriage experts Dr. Gary Chapman and Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott join forces to help you identify your spouse’s love language and become fluent in expressing love in meaningful, personalized ways. Together, they explore the subtle “dialects” within each love language and encourage you to be more intentional and authentic in how you love your spouse. Receive a copy of The Love Language That Matters Most and an audio download of "How to Speak the Love Language Your Spouse Needs Most" for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive. Get More Episode Resources If you enjoyed listening to Focus on the Family with Jim Daly, please give us your feedback.
Why do so many marriages feel anxious, tense, or disconnected — even when there's no major conflict?In Episode 106 of High Performance Parenting, Greg and Jacquie Francis explain how misaligned expectations and misunderstood differences quietly create anxiety in marriage — and how embracing God's design brings peace and connection.They cover:How expectations + unmet reality create anxietyWhy personality differences aren't flawsHow trying to “fix” your spouse damages connectionWhy celebrating quirks builds trustHow adjusting expectations brings peaceWhy God designed your spouse exactly as they areThis episode is a powerful reminder that connection grows when understanding replaces comparison.(00:00) Why Expectations Create Anxiety in Marriage(02:22) Learning and Celebrating Personality Differences(04:12) How Unrealistic Expectations Damage Connection(06:31) Stop Trying to Fix Your Spouse(08:17) Appreciating Strengths Instead of Weaknesses(10:06) Trusting Your Spouse's Strengths(13:38) Adjusting Expectations to Match Reality(16:15) Embracing God's Design for Your Marriage(17:55) Final Encouragement & Closing
This one word—CHERISH—will change your marriage! Best-selling author Gary Thomas explains how cherish is different than love and gives us practical steps on how and why you want to make this important change in your marriage. Inspiring for every marriage!
Spending more time together can save your marriage! Greg and Erin Smalley describe how prioritising your spouse, finding better ways to connect in the bedroom, and keeping open hearts are essential keys for a lifelong, loving marriage!
This Postmodern Realities episode is a conversation with JOURNAL author Anne Kennedy about her article, “Deconstructing Faith and Marriage when a Spouse Comes Out: A Review of Beard: A Memoir of a Marriage by Kelly Foster Lundquist”. https://www.equip.org/articles/deconstructing-faith-and-marriage-when-a-spouse-comes-out-a-review-of-beard-a-memoir-of-a-marriage-by-kelly-foster-lundquist/This is also part of our Anne's ongoing column, Theological Trends. One way you can support our online articles and podcasts is by leaving us a tip. A tip is just a small amount, like $3, $5, or $10, which is the cost of a latte, lunch out, or coffee drink. To leave a tip, click here.Related podcasts and articles by this author:Episode 475: Is Good Christian Parenting a Myth? A Review of ‘The Myth of Good Christian Parenting: How False Promises Betrayed a Generation of Evangelical Families' by Marissa Franks Burt and Kelsey Kramer McGinnis“Is Good Christian Parenting a Myth? A Review of ‘The Myth of Good Christian Parenting: How False Promises Betrayed a Generation of Evangelical Families' by Marissa Franks Burt and Kelsey Kramer McGinnis“.Episode 470: Does the Bible Teach Complementarity? Does the Bible Teach Complementarity? Episode 461: Historian Diarmaid MacCulloch's Lens on Sex and Marriage: Summary Critique of ‘Lower Than The Angels: A History Of Sex and Christianity'Historian Diarmaid MacCulloch's Lens on Sex and Marriage: Summary Critique of ‘Lower Than The Angels: A History Of Sex and Christianity'” Don't miss an episode; please subscribe to the Postmodern Realities podcast wherever you get your favorite podcasts. Please help spread the word about Postmodern Realities by giving us a rating and review when you subscribe to the podcast. The more ratings and reviews we have, the more new listeners can discover our content.
With Valentine's Day, just around the corner, I've been thinking a lot about what does it mean to really love my wife, and to love well? In this bonus episode, we pulled a favorite clip from our archive with Jennifer Finlayson-Fife, therapist-turned-coach, longtime mentor, and returning guest on the podcast, in which we asked her: "What does it mean to cherish your spouse?" Her answer is thoughtful, wise, actionable, and hopeful as she teaches how to build truly loving marriages. Resources and Events Don't miss this amazing opportunity to love and make love with your spouse better! Next Level Loving: A Virtual Intimacy Getaway (Feb 13-14): https://getyourmarriageon.com/next-levels-virtual-lovemaking-retreat Intimately Us & Just Between Us apps (Valentine's Intimacy Challenge started on Feb 1!): https://getyourmarriageon.com/our-apps/ Get Your Marriage On Coaching Program: https://getyourmarriageon.com/program/ Get Your Marriage On Cruise: https://getyourmarriageon.com/cruise/ We had a cancellation for our retreat in the spring! Snatch this spot while you can! https://getyourmarriageon.com/couples-retreat/ Disclaimer: The opinions and values expressed by guests on the Get Your Marriage On! podcast are their own and do not necessarily reflect the opinions and values of the host. Appearance on the podcast does not imply an endorsement of the guest or their products by Get Your Marriage On or its host. While we work hard to bring you quality and valuable content, listeners are encouraged to use their own best judgment in applying the information or products discussed on this podcast.
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Balancing Careers and Family: Insights from Dr. Thomas HelmIn this episode of The Girl Doc Survival Guide, Christine invites Dr. Thomas Helm, MD, for his second appearance on the podcast. Dr. Helm, former Head of Dermatology and Director of Dermatopathology at Buffalo Medical Group, now working at Penn State Hershey Medical Center, shares his extensive experience and personal anecdotes. They discuss generational changes in the medical field, challenges faced by women in medicine, and the importance of work-life balance. Dr. Helm emphasizes the significance of understanding work culture, making intentional career decisions, and maintaining work-family harmony. He reflects on his career transition to academia and the rewarding relationships he has built along the way. The conversation delves into the importance of community, mentoring, and the profound impact of prioritizing meaningful relationships over individual autonomy.00:00 Introduction and Guest Welcome00:45 Personal Anecdotes and Family Influence01:22 Changes in Medical Field Demographics02:10 Challenges for Women in Medicine02:39 Balancing Career and Family04:50 Mentorship and Career Advice06:46 Prioritizing Relationships and Community10:53 Transition to Academia and Personal Growth18:52 Final Thoughts and Gratitude
Thomas Love, 39, is accused of beating his pregnant spouse and another man during a home invasion.
Stronger marriages require a “life-and-death” commitment! Greg and Erin Smalley describe how a foundation of faith, a relentless commitment to each other, and learning “rules of engagement” in conflict saved their marriage!
Thomas Love, 39, is accused of beating his pregnant spouse and another man during a home invasion.
Nobody ever really teaches us how to be married. Most of us walk into marriage full of love and hope, but with very little understanding of what we're actually stepping into. We come from different families, different upbringings, and different beliefs about money, sex, parenting, communication, and conflict. Then suddenly, we're expected to blend all of that into one shared life.Marriage often feels like being thrown into the deep end and told to figure it out as you go. And for many couples, the struggle isn't a lack of effort—it's a lack of tools. We don't know how to build the marriage we want, and sometimes we don't even know what tools we're missing.In this episode of Ultimate Intimacy, Nick and Amy talk about how many of us have unintentionally built patterns, habits, and even entire marriages we never meant to create. Not because we didn't care, but because we were never taught how to do it differently. They explore why understanding this truth can change everything, and why learning to extend grace to ourselves and to our spouse may be one of the most powerful steps toward deeper connection and intimacy. If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!
Have you ever gone all out to love your spouse, only to be met with a lukewarm response? You meant well. You put in real effort. And somehow, it still missed the mark.In this episode of One Degree Marriage, we're talking about what it actually looks like to love your spouse in the way they feel most loved, not just the way that comes naturally to you. Using real-life examples, biblical truth, and practical questions you can ask this week, we unpack why love is meant to be self-giving and sacrificial rather than self-expressive.We discuss love languages, why gratitude and intention both matter, how seasons of life change the way love is received, and why regular check-ins (like a Weekly Marriage Meeting) are key to staying connected. If you want to move from well-intentioned effort to meaningful connection, this episode will help you take that next step.
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You made space for your husband to step up. He's fumbling through it. And you're standing there thinking: I could do this so much better. Should I just take over again? But - when you're asking "is this worth it?" you're trying to calculate a payoff you can't even see yet. Your vision of what marriage could be is being imagined from inside the wound - from inside the pattern of doing everything yourself. In this Q&A conversation, Rabbi Yonasan and Rena Reiser tackle two listener questions that reveal the same challenge: learning to be vulnerable in marriage. Not just "let him help with tasks" vulnerable. Actually vulnerable - admitting you have inadequacies, expressing uncomfortable feelings, asking for what you need. They explore why this feels so foreign when you've been independent your whole life. Why most women can't even recognize what they're feeling, let alone ask for it. And why there's no shortcut around the discomfort - real interdependence requires learning an entirely new language. This Episode Is For You If: - You made space for your husband to step up and he's fumbling - wondering if you should just take over - You're exhausted from handling everything but don't know how to need your husband - You're in early marriage transitioning from independence to vulnerability - You can't recognize what you're feeling, let alone what you need - The thought of asking for help feels embarrassing - You're perfectionistic and struggle watching anyone (including yourself) fail - You wonder if you're capable of real interdependence
Time for another Rom Com I Fell For with Bubble Pro, Carla from Ok, Real Quick! And we revisit a classic romantic comedy with a problematic premise that we just don't care about because it stars two hot people in their peak hotness. Today we're making splash with the film, Overboard. Thanks for listening and Keep Streaming! Content warnings for gaslighting, manipulation, kidnapping? Spouse abandonment, lifestyles of the rich and famous, and Tofutti. Find, follow, support the pod → https://linktr.ee/mystreamingbubble Don't forget about Twin It to Win It → https://linktr.ee/twinittowinitpod
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If your ex is still controlling you and you keep reacting, explaining, or trying to keep the peace… you might be actively hurting your legal case without even realizing it.Because here's the thing: divorce doesn't cure controlling behavior—it often exposes it. And control doesn't always look loud. Sometimes it looks “polite.” Sometimes it looks like silence. Sometimes it looks like a thousand tiny moments that make your stomach drop.In this episode of How Not to Suck at Divorce, attorney Morgan Stogsdill and comedian Andrea Rappaport break down what control looks like after separation, why it escalates, and the legal + emotional action steps to shut it down.And yes—there's also a story involving a tambourine, a fire-lit “happiness class,” and a man casually threatening everyone with a tombstone. (Welcome to the show.)What You'll Learn in This Episode✅ How control shows up during divorce (even when it's not obvious)Morgan explains that control can look like:Financial control: “I'll pay when I feel like it,” monitoring spending, moving goalpostsMicromanaging parenting and second-guessing everything you doWeaponized silence / delayed responses to make you spiralMaking you feel like you need permission for decisions you don't need permission for“Polite” manipulation disguised as “concern for the kids”Why control often escalates after separationAndrea explains the psychology: when someone loses access and power, they often pull harder—because control is how they regulate their discomfort.The dangerous legal issue most people miss: “splitting”Morgan explains how controlling behavior can drive a wedge between you and your attorney—making you doubt your lawyer, hold back details, or get pulled into the ex's narrative.That's not just stressful. It can derail your strategy and cost you serious money. The communication trap that keeps you stuckIf your nervous system is hijacked every time they text you, you'll default to the old pattern:ReactingOver-explainingTrying to smooth things overTrying to get them to “understand”Which gives them exactly what they want: access.The Tools That Help You Stop the Control1) Tighten the structure (legally + logistically)Morgan explains why vague agreements don't work with controlling people. Example of vague: “reasonable communication.” Problem: “reasonable” becomes a playground for manipulation.2) Reduce accessBecause (say it with us): control fades when access fades.That may mean:limiting communicationusing a parenting appnot responding to baitpushing...
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