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What if you and your spouse had regular conversations that left you feeling encouraged? Bill and Pam Farrel talk with Jim Daly about how to do something called a marriage meet up. Then, Erin and Greg explain why scheduling time to talk together can lead to greater marital satisfaction. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYMarriage Meet Ups (Bundle)Focus on Marriage AssessmentStrengthen Your Marriage With a Meet UpImprove Your Marriage by Asking the Right QuestionsWife Wants Better Communication in Marriage: A Guide for Mentors
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Read OnlineThe scribes and Pharisees said to Jesus, “The disciples of John the Baptist fast often and offer prayers, and the disciples of the Pharisees do the same; but yours eat and drink.” Jesus answered them, “Can you make the wedding guests fast while the bridegroom is with them? But the days will come, and when the bridegroom is taken away from them, then they will fast in those days.” Luke 5:33–35Though most of the scribes and Pharisees rejected the ministry of John the Baptist, here they attempt to use his discipline of fasting as a weapon to criticize Jesus. But our Lord, perceiving the hollowness of their accusation, turns it into an opportunity for divine revelation. He discloses to them, and to us, a profound truth about His identity: He is the Bridegroom.By doing so, Jesus draws from the rich prophetic imagery of Isaiah and Hosea, which portrays God as the divine Spouse of Israel. Isaiah declared, “As a bridegroom rejoices in his bride so shall your God rejoice in you” (Isaiah 62:5). Hosea, speaking the word of the Lord, proclaimed, “You shall call me ‘My husband'… I will betroth you to me forever” (cf. Hosea 2:18–22).Jesus is not merely using a poetic image. By calling Himself the Bridegroom, He reveals a nuptial mystery: Christ comes in the flesh to unite Himself to His Bride, the Church. The proper response to His presence is not fasting in sorrow but rejoicing in the wedding feast. Fasting will have its place, but only once the Bridegroom is taken away, which is a prophetic reference to His Passion.This exchange exposes not only the Pharisees' superficial religiosity but also unveils a central mystery of salvation: In Christ, God draws near in spousal love. To follow Him is to enter into a covenant of joy and grace.Though nuptial imagery might seem more naturally relatable to women, it expresses a truth that transcends gender. Just as “a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, and the two of them become one body” (Genesis 2:24), so each soul is called to a transforming union with Christ. This is not merely symbolic; it is a real and spiritual union. We are called to become His Mystical Body. Saint Paul captures this mystery when he writes, “I have been crucified with Christ; yet I live, no longer I, but Christ lives in me” (Galatians 2:19–20).Traditionally, this union has been described as Mystical Marriage or Divine Union. Saint Teresa of Ávila favored the image of Mystical Marriage, emphasizing the soul's intimate, spousal love for Christ. Saint John of the Cross more often spoke of Divine Union, highlighting the complete transformation of the soul in God. Though they use different terms, both describe the soul's ultimate vocation: perfect union with Christ.In Heaven, when this Divine Union is fully realized, fasting and other penitential acts will be unnecessary. During Jesus' earthly ministry, the disciples did not fast because the Bridegroom was with them—an extraordinary grace unique to those three years. But after He was “taken away,” fasting took on a new importance, becoming a participation in His Passion and a preparation for the Wedding Feast to come.Reflect today on the glorious end to which you are called: union with Christ, your Bridegroom. This journey requires sacrifice, so fasting and penance remain essential. Yet when we keep our eyes fixed on the joy of Divine Union, every sacrifice becomes lighter and a joyful embrace of love. The difficulty of fasting and penance is overshadowed by the union they help bring about. Resolve to fast, to pray, and to stay close to Christ, the Bridegroom of your soul. He is the faithful Spouse who will never abandon you.Bridegroom of Your Church, You came to enter into union with us, Your sons and daughters by grace. By Your Incarnation, You wedded Yourself to humanity, and through Your Passion, You purified Your Bride, the Church. As I journey toward the Wedding Feast of Heaven, purify me now through acts of penance and prayer, so that my soul may be ready for the Divine Union to come. Jesus, I trust in You. Image: Jesus Reproves the Scribes and Pharisees, by Iulian RosuSource: Free RSS feed from catholic-daily-reflections.com — Copyright © 2026 My Catholic Life! Inc. All rights reserved. This content is provided solely for personal, non-commercial use. Redistribution, republication, or commercial use — including use within apps with advertising — is strictly prohibited without written permission.
Jesus told us that when you're praying, if you have anything against someone, you need to forgive them first. He said, "If you don't forgive others, God won't forgive you." Prayer is asking God to do something on your behalf. When you're in business, you need God to move in your business. You need God to bring clients, customers, strategy, and revenue. But when you're asking God for these things while holding unforgiveness in your heart toward your husband or wife, the Bible says your prayers are blocked. So, if you're struggling in your business, check your forgiveness walk with your spouse. Unforgiveness toward your spouse is sinful, and it's not something you should tolerate. Whatever is causing you to hold unforgiveness toward your spouse, you need to forgive if you want to be successful in what God has called you to do. __________ Partner with Us: https://churchforentrepreneurs.com/partner Connect with Us: https://churchforentrepreneurs.com __________
Episode #1183 What does it really mean to lead in your marriage? In this episode, Tim Matthews and Lawrence Davis unpack one of the most common pieces of feedback men hear from their wives: "I want you to lead." While the message sounds straightforward, many men are left wondering what leadership actually looks like in everyday life. Drawing from a real coaching conversation inside The Powerful Man community, Tim explains why leadership isn't about taking control or making every decision. It's about creating clarity, building trust, and becoming someone your partner can rely on. He also explores why asking your wife to "paint a picture" of what leadership means to her can open the door to deeper understanding instead of unnecessary conflict. Together, Tim and Lawrence discuss the importance of emotional attunement, consistency, and earning trust over time. They also explain why the same question can produce completely different results depending on the health of the relationship and how your energy and intentions shape the outcome of difficult conversations. Whether you're rebuilding trust or looking to strengthen an already healthy marriage, this episode offers practical insights into becoming a more grounded and trustworthy leader at home. Timestamp Chapters 00:00 What does leading your wife actually mean? 02:18 A coaching story about rebuilding trust 05:39 Why the same question can backfire 07:46 Asking your wife to paint a picture 09:06 Starting small to rebuild trust 12:41 Why reliability matters in marriage 16:18 Becoming receptive to leadership 18:07 Presence over mind reading 20:49 Why trust changes everything 22:36 The power of asking better questions 25:47 Next steps for your relationship journey If your marriage is struggling and you're looking for practical guidance to rebuild connection, download your free copy of A Man's Guide on How to Save Your Marriage Without Talking About It. Prefer to watch instead of listen? Watch the full episode on YouTube: https://youtu.be/IbiSjCgzg8U The Powerful Man helps men become stronger husbands, fathers, and leaders through practical coaching, emotional resilience, and authentic masculine leadership.
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Why can't I believe anything my spouse says after infidelity—even when they may finally be telling the truth? After cheating, affairs, pornography, or repeated deception, your brain can learn that your spouse's words are no longer reliable evidence of reality. In this episode of Marriage Redesigned, Lisa explains the neuroscience behind why betrayal can leave you questioning everything your spouse says. You'll learn why your brain begins scanning for deception, why reassurance alone doesn't rebuild trust, and why consistency, transparency, and changed behavior matter more than promises. We'll also look at what Scripture teaches about truth, trustworthiness, and recognizing change by its fruit—and the important difference between forgiving someone and automatically trusting them again. If you're struggling with betrayal trauma, hypervigilance, intrusive thoughts, or wondering, “How will I ever know if my spouse is telling me the truth?” this episode will help you understand why you feel this way and what rebuilding trust can actually look like. Safety before intimacy. Truth before trust. :: NEXT STEPS WE ARE NOT CRAZY 7 PILLARS OF HEALING FROM BETRAYAL TRAUMA Join our Beauty Beyond Betrayal Sisterhood: Healing from an affair: Heartbreak Recovery for Christian Women Email: info@marriageredesigned.com WEBSITE: www.marriageredesigned.com Got a question you want answered? ASK HERE
Hi friend, Have you ever looked at your marriage and thought, “We're doing okay, so why don't I feel as connected to my spouse as I used to?” Maybe there's no major conflict. No betrayal. No obvious crisis. You have a good spouse, you love each other, and yet something feels different. What if neither you nor your spouse is the problem—but your marriage has quietly lost connection? In Part 2 of this two-part conversation, we explore why you may feel tired of a genuinely good spouse and how a marriage can gradually become more functional than connected. Discover how couples can become excellent partners but distant friends—and learn three practical ways to rebuild curiosity, appreciation, and meaningful connection. ............................................................................................
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Sometimes grief begins long before someone dies. It begins when the person you love is still beside you, but the life you knew together is already changing.In this episode, Teresa Reiniger sits down with Suzy McNamara for an honest conversation about caregiving, anticipatory grief, identity, faith, and carrying more than one devastating loss at once.Suzy spent five years as the primary in-home caregiver for her husband, Bob, after he was diagnosed with posterior cortical atrophy, a rare form of early-onset Alzheimer's. She shares what it was like watching changes begin in his early 50s, protecting his dignity as his world became smaller, and slowly realizing that she was no longer only his wife, she had become his caregiver, advocate, and protector.Then, while Bob was entering the final stage of his illness, Suzy's sister and best friend, Elizabeth, died. Suzy reflects on what happens when there is barely room to grieve because someone still depends on you.This conversation offers validation for caregivers who feel unseen, people experiencing anticipatory grief, and anyone carrying layered losses.About our guest: Suzy McNamara is a widow, mother of four adult children, former primary caregiver to her husband Bob, and author of The Silkworm, the Magician, and the Sister Tree: A Tale of Love and Loss.In This Episode● How early-onset Alzheimer's changed Bob's identity, career, relationships, and independence.● Why grief can begin while the person you love is still physically present.● How Suzy's identity shifted from wife to caregiver, advocate, and protector.● Protecting a loved one's dignity when others do not understand their limitations.● Grieving Suzy's sister Elizabeth while continuing full-time caregiving.● How faith, writing, friendship, and a smaller support circle helped Suzy keep going.What You'll Take Away● Anticipatory grief is real grief.● Caregivers can lose parts of their identity, too.● Protecting someone may require disappointing other people.● Surviving one difficult day deserves recognition.● You do not need a large circle—you need people who can truly stay.MEMORABLE QUOTESSuzy: “There are so many little tragedies in the big tragedy of Alzheimer's.”Suzy: “That's when the grieving really begins.”Suzy: “The caregiver loses their identity for sure.”Suzy: “You do have to build sort of a wall around your heart.”Suzy: “Getting through one day is a huge, huge accomplishment.”Teresa: “Grief does not always wait for one loss to end before another one begins.”EPISODE CHAPTERS00:00 — When Grief Begins Before Death03:33 — Bob's Early-Onset Alzheimer's Story08:26 — The Fear and Shame Before Diagnosis13:28 — When Alzheimer's Arrives in Midlife18:00 — Losing the Identity of Wife and Becoming Caregiver19:48 — Protecting Bob's Dignity and Safety24:59 — Grieving a Sister While Caring for a Husband28:16 — When Caregiving Leaves No Room to Grieve29:26 — The Story Behind Suzy's Memoir33:30 — Finding the People Who Can Truly Stay35:48 — Getting Through One Day Is an Accomplishment39:32 — Suzy's Book and Audiobook42:19 — A Reminder for Caregivers Who Feel Unseen
If you are grieving after losing a spouse, you may feel like there's no way to ever feel joy again. But there is hope. And you'll get a picture of that hope from our guest, Ann Alessi, mother of Steve Alessi. With faith and family grounding her, she found a path to healing after losing her husband, who had been by her side for 65 years. In this emotional episode, Pastor Ann opens up about becoming a widow at 85, what helped (and what hurt) in early grief, how to support someone who lost a loved one, and why joy can still come after loss — without forgetting the person you love.WHAT YOU'LL LEARN:How to grieve in a healthy, faith-filled way after losing a husband, wife or loved oneWhat NOT to say to a grieving spouse or widow — and what to say insteadHow to handle fear, loneliness, and the holidays after lossWhy you shouldn't make major life decisions in the first year after losing a spouseHow family and community support healing after griefHow to find joy again while honoring your loved one's memoryABOUT OUR GUESTPastor Ann Alessi was married to Pastor John Alessi for over 65 years before his passing in October 2020. Now in her eighties, she shares wisdom from six decades of ministry and marriage on navigating widowhood, leaning on God, and embracing new roles as mother, grandmother and great-grandmother.Whether you are a widow, widower, or supporting someone grieving a spouse, this episode offers practical, Christian encouragement for navigating grief, healing, and finding joy again.The Family Business with The Alessis is a multi-generational podcast where a pastor's family says what they can't say on Sundays — with honest conversations about faith, family, marriage, grief and loss.NEXT STEPSIf this helped you, please share it with someone walking through loss. Text the show! Support the showJOIN THE FAMILY BUSINESS WITH OUR NEWSLETTERSign Up for Our Family Business Newsletter and get more inside news from the Alessis + tips and strategies for a happier family! Get free access to the newsletterCONNECT WITH THE FAMILY BUSINESSFollow Us on Instagram and FacebookSubscribe on YouTubeLeave a reviewMORE PODCASTS YOU'LL ENJOYFind more podcasts coming from our Metro Life Studios team, including:My Morning DevotionalMen's Morning DevotionalThe Mary and Martha Show You can listen to all of these shows on our Metro Life Studios app here! Get The Metro Life Studios app
Welcome back to The Catholic Coaching Podcast with Matt and Erin!In this episode, we're continuing our live demonstration series! Erin steps into the coach's chair to walk Matt through an unscripted, live Causal Mindset Coaching session as he faces the internal resistance, fear, and "mind drama" surrounding creating a family and business budget.If you've ever avoided a hard conversation about money with your spouse out of fear that it will turn into an argument, or found yourself putting off budgeting because of feeling inadequate or overwhelmed, this episode is for you.Watch as Erin helps Matt uncover the core thoughts driving his procrastination, shift from a lens of scarcity to stewardship, reframe conflict as an opportunity for honest connection, and break through the barriers preventing true unity in marriage.What you'll learn in this episode: • Live Coaching Demo: Coaching through the fear of financial conversations and spousal conflict. • Reframing Budgeting: Shifting from restriction to optimizing financial stewardship and aligning with core values. • The Roots of Procrastination: How avoiding potential conflict leads to isolation and resentment. • Redefining Conflict: Moving from seeing conflict as destruction to viewing it as an opportunity for unity. • Ownership in Marriage: How to take responsibility for your own mind drama without putting pressure on your spouse.#CatholicCoaching #MarriageAndMoney #MindsetCoaching #CatholicPodcast #MetanoiaCatholic #BudgetingForCouples #CatholicMarriage #LiveCoaching #FinancialStewardship #HabitChangeSend us Fan MailSupport the show____________________► Make sure to SUBSCRIBE to the Metanoia Catholic YouTube Channel!► Discover How God Is Speaking to You In Prayer► Find out your temperament: Take the Free Quiz► Get the Conversation Starter Guide (FREE) ► Take the Quiz: WHAT TYPE OF COACH ARE YOU?► GET THE DAILY SEVEN JOURNAL!This interactive journal will help you transform your life from the inside out by teaching you how to grow in gratitude, set healthy goals, and gain mastery over your thoughts.► JOIN THE ACADEMY!Your online resource of classes, tools, and community to ramp up your growth and really change your life. Learn from the Metanoia Catholic coaches in webinars, live coaching calls, Lectio Divina, and more with your monthly membership.____________________► SUB...
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Get in Touch! Send us a message.Thursday afternoon. You just got off a call with your accountant. Sales are down. A vendor sent a price increase letter this morning — effective immediately, no negotiation window. A rep is coming in tomorrow and you're not sure what he's bringing from the field.You go home and try to explain it to your spouse. They listen. They're supportive. But you can see in their eyes they're following the words without feeling the weight. "I'm sure it'll turn around," they say.You try a version of it with a friend at dinner. He listens, then says: "Man, I wish I could make my own hours like you do."You take a sip of your drink and change the subject.The decisions you're making — when to expand, when to cut, how to handle a vendor relationship turning adversarial, what to do with a salesperson who's underperforming — require context that almost no one in your personal life has. So you make them alone. You carry the weight alone. And over time, isolation becomes the default setting.Meanwhile, the dealer running a showroom a thousand miles away at a similar revenue level? They're not your competition. They're your peer group. And some of them solved last quarter's problem two years ago.In this episode, we talk about the peer call — the thirty-minute monthly conversation that turns isolation into a resource.What you'll hear:Why the people who love you can offer support but not the specific understanding that comes from having made the same callsHow to find a peer who isn't your competition and why most of them are waiting for the same conversationThe AI prompt that turns a peer call transcript into an accountability document instead of just a venting sessionGet the AI Note-taking Guide → cabinetnotes.com
Learn about the words that matter and how what you say to your spouse can shape your connection. | “Encouragement is oxygen to the soul.” —George Adams Is it really possible to rekindle the spark and restore the “like-new” connection in your marriage? Yes it is! In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical, and powerful. You'll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Alisa and Tony DiLorenzo's proven approach to building intimacy in marriage will help you experience deeper and richer levels of intimacy with your spouse – starting today. Click HERE to get your copy today! Links from today's episode: Apply for Marriage Coaching The 6 Pillars of Intimacy® Certified Coaching Program Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
What if you and your spouse had regular conversations that left you feeling encouraged? Bill and Pam Farrel talk with Jim Daly about how to do something called a marriage meet up. Then, Erin and Greg explain why scheduling time to talk together can lead to greater marital satisfaction. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYMarriage Meet Ups (Bundle)Focus on Marriage AssessmentStrengthen Your Marriage With a Meet UpImprove Your Marriage by Asking the Right QuestionsWife Wants Better Communication in Marriage: A Guide for Mentors
Many young adults wonder if their past struggles will prevent them from experiencing healthy, lasting relationships. Shame, secrecy, and fear of rejection can make honest conversations about sexuality feel impossible. In this episode, John and Haley Begeman share their journey of recovery, dating, and building trust through courageous conversations about sexual brokenness. They explore the importance of honesty before marriage, how to approach disclosure with wisdom, and why healing happens through community. This conversation offers hope that freedom is possible and that authentic relationships can be built on truth, grace, and trust. Resources: Register For The 2026 Summit Now! GET STARTEDSummit 2026!: Register NowFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
A person's demeanor is their outward behavior, attitude, or manner. A godly marriage requires both husbands and wives to have a calm demeanor. Spouses are commanded to treat their spouse gently and avoid being harsh or quarrelsome. Marriage will inevitably bring disagreements and difficult moments, but spiritual maturity is demonstrated by how we respond to them. To live out marriage God's way, both spouses must learn to control their emotions and maintain a peaceful demeanor even when conflict arises. __________ Proverbs 21:9 NLT, 1 Timothy 3:11 NLT, Proverbs 19:14 NKJV, Colossians 3:19 NLT, and 1 Timothy 3:3 NLT __________ Partner with Us: https://churchforentrepreneurs.com/partner Connect with Us: https://churchforentrepreneurs.com __________
Who is the most loyal person you've ever known? A parent? Spouse? Friend?Truthfully, we all crave loyalty. It gives us a sense of safety. We feel that if there is some loyalty in our world, it's like a warm blanket on a cold night. Life seems less scary.As we discuss the role of Jesus in our personal stories, it is good to remind ourselves often of ultimate loyalty. In turn, it encourages us to be loyal to that One person we can always count on.John 14:6 says, “Jesus answered, ‘I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'”Jesus gives us loyalty that cannot be broken. Are we willing to stay true to Him, as well? In other words, if life's road gets rough, do we stay on the path He has set for us? Like Peter, we tend to think nothing could pry us from Jesus, but our choices can do that. Then we regret being disloyal to Christ.Resolve to never let that happen to you. Keep His sacrifice for you in your mind and heart. That will help you stay true to Him when life isn't so great.He promised to never leave you. Tell Jesus that you love Him for that, and keep your eyes looking ahead to the eternity He has made for you.Let's pray. Lord, make us strong in our loyalty to our Savior. Then let that light shine for those who see us. In Jesus' name, amen. Change your shirt, and you can change the world! Save 15% Off your entire purchase of faith-based apparel + gifts at Kerusso.com with code KDD15.
Long-term care coverage is an essential, yet often misunderstood, aspect of retirement planning in the United States. Although many people will require some form of long-term care as they age, most are unprepared for the high costs and limited coverage options available. On the show this week, I'm debunking common myths like the notion that Medicare will fully cover all long-term care costs and taking a deep dive into the four main ways retirees can pay for these expenses. You will want to hear this episode if you are interested in... 00:00 Understanding the options for long-term care help 03:10 The difference between Medicare and Medicaid 05:07 Spouse asset protection options 09:15 Understanding hybrid policy benefits 13:24 Hybrid vs. traditional long-term care 19:25 Long-term care insurance application process Understanding Medicare's Limitations There is often a misconception that Medicare covers long-term care. In reality, it's split into two primary parts: Part A, which covers some costs for hospital stays, and Part B, which addresses preventative care such as doctor visits and certain procedures. While Medicare may pay for medically necessary hospital stays—such as those following an injury like a broken hip—it stops covering the costs when ongoing care is no longer deemed medically necessary. Extended or custodial care, where you need help with daily living activities but do not require intensive medical treatment, is not included under standard Medicare coverage. This leaves retirees exposed to significant out-of-pocket expenses once hospital-based care ends. The Four Main Options for Long-Term Care Coverage There are four primary payment strategies for long-term care. Each option has its benefits and limitations, and selecting the right one depends heavily on individual circumstances. 1. Medicaid Medicaid is a needs-based program designed for individuals with low income and limited assets. To qualify, applicants must pass specific income and asset thresholds, which, for single individuals, often means owning less than $2,000 in assets. Married couples have more leeway—the "community spouse" can usually retain a higher amount of assets and income. Medicaid planning may involve establishing a qualified income trust or transferring assets into an irrevocable trust. It is important to note that most states enforce a five-year look-back period for asset transfers, meaning that gifts or transfers must occur at least five years before the Medicaid application to be effective. 2. Self-Insuring Self-insuring is also an option, which involves setting aside personal assets, such as retirement savings or home equity, to pay for potential care needs. This method offers autonomy but carries risk, especially given the high and regionally variable costs of care. Depending on where you live, full-time nursing care can average over $15,000 per month, and home care or assisted living can still cost tens of thousands of dollars per year. Planning ahead is critical, particularly for couples, to ensure one spouse's care does not financially imperil the other. 3. Hybrid Long-Term Care Policies Hybrid long-term care insurance policies have emerged that combine life insurance with long-term care coverage. These products provide either long-term care benefits or a death benefit to your estate, ensuring that money paid into the policy is not "lost" if long-term care is never needed. Hybrid policies tend to offer flexible payout options and the potential for locked-in premiums, but they may provide less coverage per premium dollar when compared to traditional policies. 4. Traditional Long-Term Care Insurance Traditional long-term care insurance remains an option for those prioritizing higher benefit payouts. While these policies can stretch benefit pools further, they don't usually offer death benefits, and their premiums are not guaranteed—they can increase over time and may eventually become unaffordable. Underwriting is also stringent: many applicants over 70 are denied coverage, and certain medical conditions result in automatic disqualification. Making the Right Choice for You and Your Family You need to balance protecting personal assets, securing a spouse's future, and managing premium costs. Retirees should honestly assess their health, financial circumstances, and family situation. Consulting a financial advisor or insurance professional can help tailor a long-term care strategy that minimizes risk while supporting a comfortable and dignified retirement. Planning now, rather than later, ensures you are prepared for whatever the future may bring—and that you and your loved ones have peace of mind. Resources Mentioned Retirement Readiness Review Subscribe to the Retire with Ryan YouTube Channel Download my entire book for FREE Connect With Morrissey Wealth Management www.MorrisseyWealthManagement.com/contact Subscribe to Retire With Ryan
How to Talk About Money (and Other Things) With Your Spouse Without ArguingAttempts to solve money problems can quickly turn into arguments when being right or finding the practical solution takes priority over emotional connection. Coach Jack explains how validating first, problem solving second, and avoiding convincing or arguing can help couples work through financial and other practical disagreements while staying connected.What You'll LearnHow to respond to a spouse's ideas without immediately opposing, criticizing, or arguingHow validation can create the emotional connection needed for productive problem solvingHow to use a two-step approach to move from connection to practical, win-win decisionsHow backup plans can help couples handle agreements that do not work as intendedWant to Work With Coach Jack?The Re-Connections Coaching Package can help develop the relationship skills needed to strengthen attraction, love, and commitment while handling difficult conversations and relationship problems more effectively.Key TakeawaysEmotional connection comes before practical solutions.Validating an idea does not mean agreeing to act on it.Pros and cons can be explored without criticism or judgment.A Plan B provides a constructive response when Plan A does not work.Negative reactions call for empathy rather than argument.Additional ResourcesConsultationsRe-Connections Coaching PackageConnecting through "Yes!" by Jack Ito PhD7 Steps to Revive Your Marriage (post)Free DownloadsWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.
You emptied the dehumidifier again this morning. You noticed the fridge was bare, rerouted the drive home, and still had dinner on the table by six. Nobody said a word.In episode 172, we're talking about the invisible work of marriage: the mental load, the quiet planning, the tasks your spouse handles that no one sees, including you. This is not a conversation about who does more. It's about learning to see your spouse clearly, and letting that turn into real gratitude and real action. We walk through the 10-minute exercise we recommend to every couple, why comparison ruins it, and how to name your own unseen load without putting your spouse on the defensive.If this one met you where you are, share it with one couple who needs it and leave us a review.
If you enjoy watching the episodes on video, please check out my YouTube Channel. - https://www.youtube.com/@DebiRoncaOfficial The message today from my guest, Cathy Bass, is both personal and practical for anyone who experiences the devastating transition in life where we sadly lose our spouse. After losing her husband, she experienced firsthand how grief can shut down decision-making, especially when paperwork, deadlines, and IRS letters keep coming. Today, she speaks to widows about the “financial fog” after loss and the simple, steady steps that create stability and financial peace. Cathy is an Enrolled Agent, a federally licensed tax professional who has over 25 years of experience in tax preparation and tax resolution and has helped thousands of individuals and business owners make sense of complex tax issues. Connect with Cathy: Website - www.basstaxservice.comCONNECT WITH DEBI Website – https://www.debironca.com Instagram - @debironca Email – info@debironca.com Free Group Coaching - https://debi.sequoiatransitioncoaching.com/group-coaching YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@DebiRoncaOfficial Check out my online course! Your Story's Changing, Finding Purpose in Life's Transitionshttps://course.sequoiatransitioncoaching.com/8-week-program The Family Letter by Debi Ronca – International Best Sellerhttps://www.amazon.com/dp/B07SSJFXBD Free Clarity Call: https://calendly.com/debironca/free-clarity-call
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⚖️ What Happens If Your Spouse Doesn't Respond to Divorce Papers in California? | Los Angeles Divorce
Spiderman is worth $100 million dollars, and I don't mean the movie. Some dogs are eating better than we are, and the term, “google it” is so yesterday; it's been replaced by hip words by hip people. Are you and your spouse in the middle of a food divorce, and did you know you can place a bet on the Little League World Series? A woman who died, and then came back to life only to discover she had a traffic ticket. I give you potato fun facts that I'm willing to bet you didn't know, and are you a phone zombie? A major league baseball player has made history, and what is your favorite American accent? Today, I give you the top three choices. It's like Christmas without Santa, so come see what's in my big sack!
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Hi friend, Have you ever found yourself feeling irritated by your spouse, even though they are a good person, a faithful spouse, and someone who has done nothing terribly wrong? Maybe they reach for your hand and you pull away. Maybe they ask, “What's wrong?” and you simply say, “I'm tired.” But quietly, you start wondering: “Am I tired—or am I tired of you?” That can be a frightening question, especially when you know you have a good spouse. But before you conclude that you married the wrong person or that your love is gone, perhaps there is another question worth asking: What if this feeling is not only telling me something about my spouse? What if it is also revealing something happening within me? In this episode, we begin a two-part conversation about something many married people experience but may feel ashamed to admit: feeling tired of a good spouse. We'll explore some of the reasons you may feel this way and how what is happening within you can sometimes affect how you experience your marriage. So if you've been feeling distant, irritated, disconnected, or unsure about your feelings toward your spouse, this episode is for you. We pray this blesses you! ............................................................................................
Maximizing Fitness, Fat Loss & Running Through Perimenopause
At Breaking Through Wellness, taking more strategic care of yourself also means making more room for joy-filled experiences with the people you love. In fact, it may be the most important factor in thriving through perimenopause with optimal health, hormones, fitness, and holistic happiness!In this episode, Louise Valentine, a leading functional women's health, exercise physiologist, and female-specific fitness expert, shares a personal look at how health, changing hormones, fitness, relationships, and stress all intersect during perimenopause. After noticing how demanding this season of life has become for herself and her clients, she realized that reconnecting with her husband needed to become a top priority, not something left for when life finally slowed down.Louise shares why she and clients in her private practice are making intentional connection part of their wellness goals, including planning regular date nights and finding simple ways to bring back fun, conversation, and intimacy. She also walks through how she approached an adventurous weekend getaway, including hacks for alcohol, nutrient timing, and fun meals out, while still supporting her best training, recovery, and overall health.The conversation goes deeper as Louise opens up about family stress, resilience, changing priorities, and the importance of having a strong community around you when life feels heavy.The takeaway is simple: wellness is bigger than workouts and nutrition. Sometimes feeling your best also means protecting your relationships, making space for joy, and remembering what matters most.RESOURCES + LINKSLearn & level up with my free nutrition guide & award-winning 1:1 Academy to thrive through perimenopause with less stress: https://www.breakingthroughwellness.comTake advantage of our podcast listener discount & save 20% off Kion's science-backed clean products. Code "LOUISE" saves on all future orders: https://www.getkion.com/pages/maximizing Check out my FullScript here where you can see curated supplement picks, by topic, to address your concerns & save 25% off! A small portion of EACH sale goes back to support BTW. Thank you!Learn, laugh & level up with a Breaking Through Wellness masterclass here.Link to check out Function Health & save $25 off comprehensive, proactive blood work using code “LVALENTINE11” here. $25 goes back to support BTW with each new sign up! Thank you!Episode Highlights:(0:00) Intro(3:30) Why Louise is running less(7:15) Reconnecting with your spouse(9:35) Focusing on what matters most(11:08) The monthly date night challenge(15:04) Navigating a healthy date night(18:02) Fueling before drinking alcohol(20:24) Creating space for real connection(26:17) Hormones, alcohol, and recovery(29:25) Facing a high-stress season(33:29) Protecting relationships through hard seasons(38:36) Finding your own date-night style(40:25) OutroTune in weekly to "Maximizing Hormones, Physique, and Running Through Perimenopause" for our simple female-specific science-based revolution. Let's unlock our best with less stress!I'd love to connect!Email
I chose this episode to share again, because I think it is so personal. It could be easy to forget that BK is “merely human,” and think that the most educated among us does everything perfectly. Hearing Barbara describe her experience in the year after her dear husband died, gave me so much food for thought. Thank you, for the personal heart and professional information you share so freely, in this episode and in all of your work.
Have you ever looked back at something you said or did to your spouse and thought, "I don't know if I'll ever forgive myself"? Maybe you lost your temper. Maybe you lied. Maybe you were unfaithful. Maybe you neglected your marriage or made a decision that deeply hurt the person you promised to love. Your spouse has forgiven you. God has forgiven you. But you still can't seem to forgive yourself. In Episode 309 of the Family Meeting Podcast, Thomas and Lysandra Osterkamp talk about how to move beyond guilt and shame after failing your spouse and how to embrace the forgiveness and grace Christ offers. There is a difference between taking responsibility for what you did and allowing what you did to define who you are. Genuine repentance acknowledges the seriousness of our failures, but shame can keep us trapped in mistakes that God has already forgiven. In this episode, we discuss: Why you may struggle to forgive yourself even after receiving forgiveness. The difference between conviction and condemnation. How guilt and shame from your past can continue hurting your marriage today. Why accepting God's grace doesn't mean minimizing what you did. How to take responsibility without allowing failure to become your identity. Practical steps for rebuilding trust after hurting your spouse. How repentance should lead to change rather than endless shame. Biblical truth about forgiveness, grace, healing, and new beginnings. How to move forward after you've seriously failed your spouse. What it looks like to receive the forgiveness Christ offers. Your worst mistake doesn't have to become your identity. You can't change what happened yesterday. You can take responsibility for it. You can repent. You can seek forgiveness. You can make restitution where necessary. You can learn from what happened. And by God's grace, you can become a different spouse moving forward. If you've confessed your sin and received God's forgiveness but continue punishing yourself for what you've done, this conversation is for you. Whether your failure happened recently or years ago, Episode 309 will help you confront shame, accept forgiveness, pursue healing, and move forward with humility and a renewed commitment to love your spouse well. Bonus Resource: Send an email to info@familymeeting.org for our Moving Beyond Guilt: A Biblical Guide to Accepting God's Forgiveness. For more information: https://linktr.ee/familymeeting
Episode 121: How to Have the Breakup Conversation When You Fear Conflict
In this episode of Widow, Wisdom and Wealth™, Donna welcomes mortgage expert and neighbor Gary Coggin for a compassionate, practical conversation about one of the most overwhelming parts of widowhood: what to do about the mortgage and home after a spouse dies.With more than 40 years in mortgage banking, Gary explains how widows, widowers, and families can better understand their options, reduce panic, and make informed decisions with the help of trusted professionals. What you'll learn in this episode What happens to a mortgage when a spouse passes away Why you usually don't need to panic if both spouses were on the mortgage How to contact the mortgage servicer and when to call an attorney How mortgage professionals can help if payments become difficult after a life change When a reverse mortgage may be a helpful option How reverse mortgages can support aging in place Why family conversations matter when heirs may be impacted How income sources like Social Security, pensions, and annuities can affect mortgage qualification Why mindset and comfort level matter just as much as numbers Key takeaways 1. Don't panic after a spouse's death. Gary explains that losing a spouse does not automatically trigger a mortgage call. If payments continue, homeowners are generally not in danger of immediate action from the lender. 2. Reach out to trusted professionals early. Donna and Gary stress the importance of contacting your attorney, mortgage servicer, financial advisor, and a mortgage professional you trust. A coordinated approach can help reduce confusion and stress. 3. Reverse mortgages are often misunderstoodGary breaks down how reverse mortgages actually work, including how they can help older homeowners tap into equity, eliminate monthly mortgage payments, and remain in their homes. 4. Family communication is essentialIf heirs may be affected, it helps to include them in the conversation early. Gary explains that understanding everyone's concerns can make the process smoother and less emotional. 5. Wealth is more than being debt-freeDonna and Gary discuss how real estate can be a powerful part of a long-term financial strategy, and how money decisions should support both security and quality of life. A memorable example from the episode Gary shares a real-world example of helping a homeowner qualify for a mortgage by working with her annuity and educating the underwriter on how those funds could support her situation. The story shows how the right guidance can uncover options that might otherwise be overlooked. Listener action steps If you're facing widowhood, a home transition, or questions about your mortgage: Don't panic. Contact the professionals you know, like, and trust. Ask questions about your mortgage, income sources, and home equity. Explore whether your current home, a refinance, or a reverse mortgage may fit your long-term goals. About Gary Coggin Gary Coggin is a mortgage professional with over 40 years of experience helping first-time homebuyers, homeowners, and families navigate the mortgage process with education, empathy, and care. He also hosts his own podcast, The Gary Coggin Mortgage and Real Estate Show. Contact Gary Coggin LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/gary-coggin-301b5411/ Insta: https://www.instagram.com/philadelphiamortgage/ Give a call on the old-fashioned telephone: (215) 275-4402 "Don't panic and start to reach out to the people that you know, like and trust." Contact Donna Websites: https://sephtonfinancial.com/ https://donnajeankendrick.com _______________________________ Donna Kendrick is a Certified Financial Planner and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst and owner of Sephton Financial located at 314 Washington Ln, Jenkintown, PA 19046. If you'd like to contact Sephton Financial you can do so online at SephtonFinanical.com or by calling 215 948 3945 Registered Representative offering securities through Cetera Financial Specialists LLC, member FINRA/SIPC. Advisory services are offered through Cetera Investment Advisers LLC. Cetera is under separate ownership from any other named entity. Sephton Financial, LLC and Cetera are not affiliated. The views depicted in this material are for information purposes only and are not necessarily those of Sephton Financial. They should not be considered specific advice or recommendations for any individual. Neither Sephton Financial nor any of its representatives may give legal or tax advice. The guests on the podcast are not affiliated or registered with Cetera Financial Specialist. Any information provided by the guests are in no way related to Cetera Financial Specialist or its registered representatives.
Text the Show or Leave a VoicemailToday we continue our interview with Pete and Michelle Tucker. Pete was a motorcycle cop in Canada who had a catastrophic motorcycle accident that took his left leg and put him in a coma. If you haven't heard part one, it's really necessary for you to back and listen to Episode 148. This episode will pick up with the Pete in the hospital recovering from the multiple injuries and the traumatic amputation, slowly working through the system to win back his job as a cop on the street. You need to hear Pete and Michelle talking about the losses and struggles, because they are a fantastic example of a police couple who, together, survived the worst day possible.Music is by Mini VandalsHey Chaplain podcast episode 148.5Tags:Police, Accidents, Amputation, Career, Coma, Confidence, Hospital, Humor, Injury, Loss, Medical, Memory, Motorcycles, Spouse, Niagara Falls, Ontario, CanadaSupport the showThanks for Listening! And, as always, pray for peace in our city.Subscribe/Follow here:Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hey-chaplain/id1570155168Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2CGK9A3BmbFEUEnx3fYZOYEmail us at: heychaplain44@gmail.comYou can help keep the show ad-free by buying me a virtual coffee!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/heychaplain
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In Week 2 of Family Matters, Pastor Curt Taylor explores God's design for marriage through Ephesians 5, challenging us to move from a consumer mindset to a covenant mindset. Rather than asking whether our spouse is meeting our expectations, biblical marriage calls husbands and wives to follow Jesus through humility, sacrifice, and a commitment to one another. Pastor Curt unpacks the often misunderstood ideas of submission and leadership, showing that both are rooted in putting Jesus first and seeking the good of your spouse. When husbands and wives take ownership of what they can change and ask what it looks like to love one another well, marriage can become a powerful picture of the gospel. Ultimately, a Christ-centered marriage is more than a relationship between two people; it's an opportunity to show the world the sacrificial, self-giving love of Jesus.
The Truth in Love: Homilies & Reflections by Fr. Stephen Dardis
No one likes to think about losing a spouse—but having a plan is one of the greatest acts of love you can leave behind. In this episode of Finishing Well, Certified Financial Planner Hans Scheil and co-host Robbie Dilmore explore the critical financial and estate planning decisions every married couple should make before it's too late. Drawing inspiration from King David's careful preparation for Solomon, they discuss how thoughtful planning can protect the surviving spouse while creating a lasting legacy for future generations. You'll learn how the loss of a spouse impacts Social Security, Medicare, taxes, IRAs, long-term care, investments, and estate planning—and why proactive strategies like Roth conversions, beneficiary reviews, and life insurance can make all the difference. Whether you're in a first marriage, a blended family, or simply want peace of mind, this conversation offers practical wisdom rooted in biblical principles. Because the best estate plan isn't just about passing on possessions—it's about caring for the people you love most.
Homeschooling should be a pre-marriage conversation and almost nobody treats it like one.Today's guest is Mandy Davis — author of The Homeschool Bible, former school principal, and a leading voice helping parents take back authority over their children's education. She argues this decision shouldn't wait until your child turns five; it belongs in the conversation long before you say "I do." We talk about what to do when your spouse isn't on board, why the non-homeschooling parent matters more than most families realize, and why so many teachers are walking away from the system.Thank you to our sponsors!GEVITI: Use code "ALEX" to get 20% off of your first purchaseBRANCH BASICS: Use code "ALEX15" for 15% off Starter KitsZEBRA: Use code "ALEX" for 10% off any orderBIRTHRIGHT: Use code "ALEX" for 15% off your first orderPRIMA: Use code "ALEXCLARK20" for 20% off a one-time purchaseA'DEL NATURAL COSMETICS: Use code "ALEX" for 25% off first time orderOur Guest:Mandy DavisMandy's Links:WebsiteInstagram'The Homeschool Bible' BookFOLLOW ALEX:Instagram | @realalexclarkInstagram | @cultureapothecaryX | @yoalexrapzYouTube | @RealAlexClarkApple Podcast | Culture Apothecary with Alex ClarkSubscribe to ‘Culture Apothecary' on Apple Podcasts and Spotify. New episodes drop 6pm PST/ 9pm EST every Monday and Thursday.DISCLAIMER: This content is for informational purposes only and is not medical advice. Always talk to a qualified healthcare professional for any health-related questions or decisions.
It's Mailbag Friday! You've got questions, we've got answers. Segment 1 • Can a Christian celebrate Indian holidays like Diwali, even if the Hindu religious elements aren't emphasized? — Troy • Why don't you baptize babies? — Anonymous Segment 2 • How can I stop being controlled by other people's opinions and find my identity in Christ? — JD Segment 3 • What should I do if I want to serve more at church but keep getting overlooked? — Anonymous • Is it appropriate to dance with someone who isn't your spouse? — Jana Segment 4 • How do I respect my husband when I feel like there's nothing about him to respect? — Nancy • What is your view of the baptism of the Holy Spirit? — Jeremy ___ Thanks for listening! Wretched Radio would not be possible without the financial support of our Gospel Partners. If you would like to support Wretched Radio we would be extremely grateful. VISIT https://fortisinstitute.org/donate/ If you are already a Gospel Partner we couldn't be more thankful for you if we tried!
Imagine you've been married for 30 years.You've raised the kids. Built careers. Paid the mortgage. Saved in your 401(k)s.And for decades you've both said the same thing:‘Someday we'll retire.'Great.But here's my question:Have you ever actually asked each other what retirement means?”“Maybe his retirement is a 40-foot motorhome and six months traveling around the country.Her retirement is grandchildren, gardening and never sleeping anywhere that doesn't have room service.He thinks they're moving to Florida.She's already told the kids they'll have to carry her out of the current house.She wants three international trips a year.He's excited that he'll finally have enough time to reorganize the garage.Financially, they're completely prepared for retirement.There's just one problem:They've prepared for two completely different retirements.”
It's best to listen to your spouse instead of assuming you already know what he or she thinks. Dr. Randy Schroeder speaks with Jim Daly about the need to tell your spouse what you're actually thinking. You'll also hear Greg and Erin discuss how you can better communicate with your mate if you've had trouble doing so. Find us online at focusonthefamily.com/marriagepodcast or call 1-800-A-FAMILYSimple Habits for Marital HappinessFocus on Marriage AssessmentForming New Habits for Your Marriage (Digital Download)Take the Reactive Cycle AssessmentMisreading Your Spouse
Is it wrong to find someone attractive when you're already married—and when does attraction cross the line into lust?In this episode of Beyond I Do, Adam and Ashlee talk honestly about attraction, jealousy, temptation, intimacy, and the boundaries that protect a marriage. They unpack the difference between simply recognizing that someone is attractive and allowing that attraction to become fantasy, emotional connection, or something that begins creating distance from your spouse.They also share how past relationships and unresolved trauma affected the early years of their own marriage, and why healthy boundaries need to be established **before** temptation becomes a serious problem.Because affairs rarely begin with one huge decision—they usually begin with small compromises that feel harmless at first.--Get the Acts Study Guide at adammesa.org--Join our study on the book of Acts on our Bible Club Podcast!https://www.youtube.com/@bibleclubpodcast--Have a question about relationships? Ask us by clicking the link below!https://patria.church.ai/form/BeyondIdo_BEYOND I DO: MARRIAGE COURSEhttps://beyondido.thinkific.com/courses/beyond-I-do--Connect with Adam & Ashlee Mesahttps://www.instagram.com/amesa/https://www.instagram.com/ashleemesa/--Don't forget to stay connected with us: Instagram @beyond.idoTik Tok @beyond.ido
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As we're talking about all month, every marriage has gaps and seasons where connection runs thin or a need goes unspoken for too long. As you're learning to healthily differentiate, don't move so far away that you lose sight of the connections you DO need to have. Find where your healthy and unhealthy gaps are right here and make the healthiest move for you and your family as we learn together in this mid-week mini! Watch on YouTube! Watch on YouTube! Get inside the Enneagram and Marriage Coaching and Masterclass classroom here! https://www.enneagramandmarriage.com/the-e-m-coaching-masterclass Use the code COACH for $250 off - or - use a payment plan!! Find more about your type, the pod, freebies, and SO much more at our website right here! www.EnneagramandMarriage.com Take the E + M Quiz at www.QuizforCouples.com Love what you're learning on E + M? Make sure you leave us a podcast review so others can find us, too here! Get Christa's Best-Selling Book, The Enneagram in Marriage, here! https://a.co/d/df8SxVx Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
Our spouse hears messages every day from the world—criticism, pressure, comparison, and doubt. But what if home became the place where they were reminded of who they are, what they're capable of, and how deeply they're loved? In this episode, Dr. Kim and Nancy talk about the power of encouragement in marriage and why your words carry more weight than anyone else's. They share personal stories from their own marriage, practical ways to encourage your spouse authentically, and how couples can replace patterns of criticism with a culture of support. Whether your marriage is thriving or you've fallen into a habit of negativity, this conversation will challenge you to become your spouse's greatest encourager. Quotes from this Episode: Dr. Kim "I don't care what anyone else thinks. Hearing your encouragement makes all the difference in the world." "When your spouse gets more encouragement from someone else than from you, there's a void in the marriage." "Your encouragement is meant to build your spouse up, not put them in the box you want them to fit in." "The more you become a student of your spouse, the more you'll know how to encourage them in ways that truly matter." "When I ask God to help me see you through His eyes, I'm flooded with good things to tell you." "When you see yourselves as a team, encouragement becomes part of how you do life together." Mrs. Nancy "Your spouse is the most important person in your life. What they say carries more weight than anyone else's words." "Sometimes we simply need our spouse to say, 'You can do this.' Those words can make all the difference." "Living in a fallen world makes negativity come naturally, but that's not how God designed our marriages." "Specific encouragement is powerful because it reminds your spouse of the unique gifts and strengths God has given them." "A look or a tone can discourage just as much as words." "When I pray for you, it changes my heart. It changes the way I see you." Time to Talk About it: When do you feel the most encouraged by me? What specific words or actions help you feel seen, valued, and believed in? Have criticism or negativity become a habit in any area of our marriage? What's one intentional way we can replace those patterns with encouragement this week? How can I better support what God is doing in your life instead of trying to shape you into who I think you should be? Mentioned in this Episode: Sign up for our daily One Thing email! Struggling with your attitude toward your spouse? Find it hard to encourage someone you feel disconnected from? Our Reframing Challenge will help! Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. You'll love our 4 Days to Growing Gratitude in Marriage . Check it out with your spouse! If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com ! Be the first to hear about all things Awesome Marriage, receive monthly bonus content straight from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy, and take advantage of big discounts by becoming a Marriage Changer!
This spicy Q&A episode gets honest about the stuff couples actually wrestle with: mutual orgasms, body image, exploring positions, and all the awkward sex questions people usually avoid. You asked, and we answered!! Watch the episode on YouTube!! Our Episodes: Fellatio episode Anatomy Episode Anal Sex episode part 1 Anal Sex episode part 2 Our Products: Yes No Maybe Freebie Orgasm Course Waitlist Resources: Passionista Flirtation Experiment Feeling Sexy Good Pictures Bad Pictures Christian Friendly Sex Positions website My Counselor Online Better Help Join Unite & Ignite Want more from Kingdom Sexuality? Come hang out! Instagram Facebook Group Patreon Website Approximate Time Stamps: 00:00 — Spicy Q&A: Smut, Porn, and Bedroom Ideas00:40 — Welcome, Instagram Update & Verse of the Day01:10 — Advice for Partners with Different Kink Levels04:20 — When Orgasm Feels Unequal06:26 — When a Spouse Doesn't Enjoy Oral Sex09:07 — Is Reading Smut Okay?11:44 — Is Anal Sex Okay in Christian Marriage?12:15 — Exploring New Positions as a Couple13:20 — Is Masturbation Okay?14:36 — Does a Man Need to Ejaculate Every Day?15:08 — Breast Augmentation, Aging & Body Image19:54 — Overcoming Selfishness in Marriage25:46 — Closing Prayer Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
It's 9:30 at night. The kids are finally down, the dishes are still out, and this is the first time you have been alone together all day. Nobody is bringing their best self to that moment. So what does it actually look like to prioritize your spouse in a season when you cannot give them the most of your time?In this episode, we start with the why. Scripture describes marriage as the most important earthly relationship you have, and we walk through why that framing changes how you spend the little margin you have. Then we get practical about the season most of you are in: full careers, young kids, tired bodies. We talk about why your calendar will never rank your priorities correctly, why twenty connected minutes beat three distracted hours, and what happens when you stop competing over who is more exhausted. We also work through an honest question one of us asked out loud: wouldn't it be more efficient for each of us to just look out for ourselves? The answer takes us somewhere we did not expect.In this episode:00:40 Why Scripture puts your spouse above every other earthly relationship02:10 What the story of Job hints at about two becoming one04:26 The reverence for marriage we have quietly lost, even inside the church06:20 The greatest gift you can give your kids, and it is not more of you09:00 Why your calendar will never rank your priorities correctly11:01 Twenty connected minutes vs. three distracted hours15:31 The Savannah Bananas, 100,000 phone calls, and what "spouse first" looks like20:18 The weekly marriage meeting that changed our rhythm22:34 The tiredness competition, and a real Friday night we got it right29:25 Why the Holy Spirit, not willpower, is what makes this possible31:50 This week's one degree shiftResources mentioned: Genesis 2:24, Job 1, John 15:13, Ephesians 5:25, the elder qualifications in 1 Timothy 3, Jesse Cole and the Savannah Bananas, and our Free Weekly Marriage Meeting Template, the exact rhythm we describe in this episode.If this one named your season, share it with one couple who is in the thick of it, subscribe so you don't miss next week, and leave a review. It helps other couples find this Christian marriage podcast.
Imagine your spouse or significant other has been diagnosed with MS...shortly after you were diagnosed with stage IV colon cancer, and given just a 15% chance of survival. All of a sudden, the roles of patient and care partner are up for grabs -- and they change with almost daily frequency. That's exactly the scenario my guest, Kathleen Silva, faced. Kathleen is joining me to discuss how she and her husband, Rick, survived and thrived amid that frightening chaos. (Spoiler alert -- no one died!) We'll also tell you about an investigational drug that's the first to promise neuroprotection during an MS relapse. We're sharing study results that show people with MS who meet the medical criteria aren't jumping on the GLP-1 bandwagon. We'll provide compelling evidence for anyone with MS to quit smoking. And we're breaking down the results of a study that analyzed mortality rates in cases where MS was listed as the underlying cause of death. We have a lot to talk about! Are you ready for RealTalk MS??! This Week: When the roles of patient and care partner get turned upside down and inside out :22 The FDA green lights clinical trials for an investigational drug that promises neuroprotection during an MS relapse 1:08 People living with MS who meet the medical criteria aren't jumping on the GLP-1 bandwagon 5:43 Study results provide startling evidence for quitting smoking if you're living with MS 8:34 In spite of highly effective DMTs, mortality rates for deaths in which MS is listed as the underlying cause are increasing 14:05 Kathleen Silva takes us through the harrowing time in her life when her husband, Rick, was diagnosed with MS shortly after she had been diagnosed with Stage 4 colon cancer and given just a 15% chance of surviving 19:23 Share this episode 35:12 Next week 36:31 SHARE THIS EPISODE OF REALTALK MS Just copy this link & paste it into your text or email: https://realtalkms.com/468 ADD YOUR VOICE TO THE CONVERSATION I've always thought about the RealTalk MS podcast as a conversation. And this is your opportunity to join the conversation by sharing your feedback, questions, and suggestions for topics that we can discuss in future podcast episodes. Please shoot me an email or call the RealTalk MS Listener Hotline and share your thoughts! Email: jon@realtalkms.com Phone: (310) 526-2283 And don't forget to join us in the RealTalk MS Facebook group! LINKS If your podcast app doesn't allow you to click on these links, you'll find them in the show notes at www.RealTalkMS.com STUDY: Use of Semaglutide and Tirzepatide Among People with Multiple Sclerosis https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/13524585261442033 STUDY: Impact of Tobacco and Alcohol Consumption on Disease Progression and MRI In People With Multiple Sclerosis: Results of the Prospective Cohort Study NationMS https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/17562864261464304 STUDY: Racial and Ethnic Trends and Comorbidity Patterns in Multiple Sclerosis Mortality https://www.neurology.org/doi/10.1212/WN9.0000000000000148 REGISTER: ECTRIMS Patient Community Day https://ectrimspatientcommunity.eu JOIN: The RealTalk MS Facebook Group https://facebook.com/groups/realtalkms REVIEW: Give RealTalk MS a rating and review http://www.realtalkms.com/review Follow RealTalk MS on X, @RealTalkMS_jon, and subscribe to our newsletter at our website, RealTalkMS.com. RealTalk MS Episode 468 Guest: Kathleen Silva Privacy Policy
When your spouse is struggling, your presence matters far more than your solutions — simply being there and saying nothing is often the most powerful thing you can do. Leaning into God's Word together is where you'll find the true peace that no amount of fixing ever could. _______________ We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
If you're feeling stressed, exhausted, and disconnected, it might not be because life is too busy—it might be because your priorities are out of order. In this solo episode, I share a deeply personal lesson God has been teaching me over the past year: there is a biblical order to where our time, energy, attention, and devotion belong. After a season where work and ministry had climbed to the top of my priorities, God gave me a vision showing just how disordered my life had become. Then the board changed, revealing a simple order that would begin reshaping everything: God. Spouse. Children. Community. Ministry. I walk through each of these five areas and share what I'm learning about putting them back in their proper place, not through perfection or another checklist, but through surrender and obedience. Episodes Mentioned: Ep. 407 - Navigating Change: How God's Shifted My Entire Life Ep. 411 - Where Do I Start? (Bible Reading, Journaling, & Staying Rooted) Bible Verses: Matthew 22:37 — Love the Lord your God with everything you have — the first and greatest commandment Psalm 27:4 — One thing sought above all else — dwelling with God Genesis 2:24 — The covenant of marriage — two becoming one Proverbs 31:11-12 — The wife who brings her husband good all the days of her life Psalm 127:3 — Children as heritage and gift, not achievement or identity Deuteronomy 6:6-7 — Faith impressed on children through the ordinary moments of life Hebrews 10:24-25 — The call to genuine, embodied community Ecclesiastes 4:9-10 — Two are better than one — the value of real relationship Mark 8:36 — The cost of gaining the world while neglecting what matters Matthew 6:33 — Seek first the kingdom — the right order always starts with Him ## Sponsors **CrowdHealth** CrowdHealth offers a community-powered alternative to traditional health insurance, giving members access to bill negotiation, lower-cost prescriptions and testing, vetted doctors, and support when larger medical expenses arise. Get started for $99 for your first three months at **JoinCrowdHealth.com** using code **SPEAKEASY**. CrowdHealth is not health insurance. **Live Action** Live Action works to reach women considering abortion with life-affirming information, support, and hope before a decision is made. Your support can help put resources in front of women searching for answers when they need them most. Text **BLAKE** to **70723** or visit **LiveAction.org/donate/Blake** to support their work.