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Marriage coaches Les and Leslie Parrott offer practical advice on how spouses can avoid destructive conflict and learn to "fight a good fight" that will strengthen, rather than damage, their relationship. Receive the Parrotts' book The Good Fight and a free audio download of “How to Fight Fair” for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive. Get More Episode Resources If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.
Marriage coaches Les and Leslie Parrott offer practical advice on how spouses can avoid destructive conflict and learn to "fight a good fight" that will strengthen, rather than damage, their relationship. Receive the Parrotts' book The Good Fight and a free audio download of “How to Fight Fair” for your donation of any amount! Plus, receive member-exclusive benefits when you make a recurring gift today. Your monthly support helps families thrive. Get More Episode Resources If you've listened to any of our podcasts, please give us your feedback.
Send us a textConflict is inevitable in relationships. There is no way to avoid disagreements, different perspectives, or misunderstandings. However, when it comes to conflict in a relationship knowing how to Fight Fair is essential. Despite the rules of engagement, we have all been guilty of doing and saying things that we later regret or that were unproductive to the overall health of the relationship. This episode goes beneath the surface of basic “rules” and explores why we do certain things, despite knowing better. Why do we consistently apologize for the same things, but then react when triggered? How do we get off the roller coaster of unhealthy cycles or use conflict to propel us forward instead of backward? Drawing from decades of clinical experience and research, Dr. Demas answers many of these questions and more. If you are in a relationship or looking to improve how you do relationships, this is a must listen. Whether at work, in your family, or in an intimate relationship, improving how you deal with conflict critically important. Don't forget to subscribe to the Untherapeutic Podcast on your favorite streaming platform and follow Dr. Demas online. You can also schedule a counseling appointment with Dr. Demas online or with Dr. Nic Hardy. About Dr. Glenda Demas As an experienced psychotherapist, I offer a warm and welcoming therapeutic atmosphere that fosters personal growth. Possessing a wide array of clinical interventions and experience, coupled with a wealth of personal experiences fosters my ability to helps patients reach their fullest potential.I am a native Houstonian with with over 13 years of Behavioral Health Management experience in education and crisis intervention. I found my passion in Mental Health advocacy from my experience working with children in the education system and the foster care system. I currently preside on the Board of Directors for the National Alliance on Mental Illness-Greater Houston. My fellow board members and I have strived to create a community of individuals dedicated to spreading awareness on mental health.With my practice serving in Katy, Texas, and Atlanta, Georgia, I have provided psychotherapy services for individuals and families while leading support groups for parents of teens struggling with depression. In addition, I have served on various panel discussions that lead to an increase of resources that have spread awareness on the necessity of mental health awareness.
This unexpected banger of an anthology turned interconnected story is one of the best animated movies we've seen in a while. Ranging over 3 millennia, we see Predators being having a fun time killing people on Earth, trying to find a good fight. From Vikings, martial artists, and WW2 pilots, this movie proves how you can tell a story that increases a franchise's lore, without needless dialogue. 0:00 - Intro/Tony really loves this franchise 4:44 - Leave Earth alone!!!17:18 - The mighty Ursa23:50 - A scar for a scar28:00 - WW2 shenanigans30:50 - A wild ending36:00 - Animation style chat37:45 - What's next for the Predator franchiseIG: theuponfurtherreviewFB: The Upon Further ReviewTikTok: theuponfurtherreview#predator #predatorkillerofkillers #predators
In this episode of the Awesome Marriage podcast, Lindsay and Dr. Kim discuss the importance of resolving conflict in a faith-centered, biblical way. They debunk the myth that Christian couples do not experience conflict and emphasize that conflict can lead to growth and deeper intimacy in relationships. Learn the biblical principles for handling conflict, practical steps for effective communication, and the significance of humility and selflessness in marriage. Episode highlights include: Timeouts can help manage heated discussions. Keeping short accounts prevents resentment from building up. Using the silent treatment is a form of emotional manipulation. Bringing up past conflicts as weapons is unhealthy for marriage. Involving others in conflicts before addressing them with your spouse can create triangles of conflict. Taking responsibility for one's actions is crucial in resolving conflicts. Prayer is a powerful tool for maintaining a healthy marriage. Biblical principles provide a framework for resolving conflicts effectively. Couples Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: You will experience conflict with your spouse, and when you do it's important to keep the Lord at the center of the conversation. Remember your spouse is not your enemy and words shouldn't be your weapon. Acknowledge your part and be quick to forgive. Questions to Discuss: Which area of conflict resolution do you need the most help in- bringing up the past, resorting to the silent treatment, or taking responsibility for your part? Have you brought that struggle to the Lord and invited Him into the conflict in your marriage? QUOTES Conflict is normal and if done right can help our marriage grow. Even though we are both seeking to follow Christ, we are human. If your kids see you doing that, they want that, and it gives them security. Having a marriage that's not life-giving, can drain you so quick. It zaps your energy. When a couple is able to get past the things keeping them at odds, it goes beyond the marriage too. I can't meet all her needs, but God can. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Use our Marriage Boundaries Workbook to navigate tough conversations and hard seasons. Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you navigate conflict? Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Fighting for Your Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com ! Did you know we have resources just for handling conflict in your marriage?- check those out HERE. Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”
In this episode of the Awesome Marriage podcast, Lindsay and Dr. Kim discuss the importance of resolving conflict in a faith-centered, biblical way. They debunk the myth that Christian couples do not experience conflict and emphasize that conflict can lead to growth and deeper intimacy in relationships. Learn the biblical principles for handling conflict, practical steps for effective communication, and the significance of humility and selflessness in marriage. Episode highlights include: Timeouts can help manage heated discussions. Keeping short accounts prevents resentment from building up. Using the silent treatment is a form of emotional manipulation. Bringing up past conflicts as weapons is unhealthy for marriage. Involving others in conflicts before addressing them with your spouse can create triangles of conflict. Taking responsibility for one's actions is crucial in resolving conflicts. Prayer is a powerful tool for maintaining a healthy marriage. Biblical principles provide a framework for resolving conflicts effectively. Couples Conversation Guide: Main takeaway: You will experience conflict with your spouse, and when you do it's important to keep the Lord at the center of the conversation. Remember your spouse is not your enemy and words shouldn't be your weapon. Acknowledge your part and be quick to forgive. Questions to Discuss: Which area of conflict resolution do you need the most help in- bringing up the past, resorting to the silent treatment, or taking responsibility for your part? Have you brought that struggle to the Lord and invited Him into the conflict in your marriage? QUOTES Conflict is normal and if done right can help our marriage grow. Even though we are both seeking to follow Christ, we are human. If your kids see you doing that, they want that, and it gives them security. Having a marriage that's not life-giving, can drain you so quick. It zaps your energy. When a couple is able to get past the things keeping them at odds, it goes beyond the marriage too. I can't meet all her needs, but God can. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Use our Marriage Boundaries Workbook to navigate tough conversations and hard seasons. Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you navigate conflict? Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Fighting for Your Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com ! Did you know we have resources just for handling conflict in your marriage?- check those out HERE. Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”
Why Most Couples Fight Wrong (Therapist Breaks It Down). OpusClip is a generative AI video repurposing tool that turns your long videos into viral short videos. Use our affiliate link for OpusClips ➡︎ https://www.opus.pro/?via=RemarryThe tool that helps YouTube creators improve their channel, find ideas, & grow their audience https://vidiq.com/remarry Is Love Calling Again? Take the 5-Minute Remarriage Readiness Quiz!✓ Discover your emotional readiness✓ Get personalized insights✓ Receive expert relationship tips➡︎ https://scarytoremarry.com/Another Chance eBook: A Workbook for Finding Love After a Failed Relationship➡︎ https://scarytoremarry.com/products/Get your Love Fearlessly Intimacy Card Deck here ➡︎ https://scarytoremarry.com/products/Connect with April here ➡︎ https://www.frofessionals.com/Purchase your tickets to April's stage plays:The Depressed Therapist: When Caregivers Crash ➡︎ https://bit.ly/41BpBFnNot Guilty Easter Play ➡︎ https://bit.ly/41kgTKCConnect with our cohost Aqueela here ➡︎ / aqueelamaddox =====================Connect With Us!=====================X ➡︎ https://x.com/scarytoremarryIG ➡︎ / scarytoremarry ================================Subscribe & listen to the podcast HERE:================================Apple ➡︎ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast...Spotify ➡︎ https://open.spotify.com/show/3CaG9aQ...You're Fighting WRONG! In this video, Here's What a Therapist of 20 plus years says about fixing It!Most couples don't argue to solve problems—they argue to win. But what if you could turn every fight into a relationship builder instead of a dealbreaker? In this podcast, therapist April Phillips breaks down the biggest mistakes couples make during arguments and the proven techniques to fight fair (and actually resolve issues). Watch until the end for expert-backed tips that can change the way you and your partner handle conflict—forever#RelationshipAdvice #CouplesTherapy #MarriageTips #CommunicationSkills #ConflictResolution #TherapistExplains #LoveAndRelationships #HealthyRelationships #RelationshipGoals
Part 1 from the new series "When Love Gets Tough."Do you and your spouse struggle with conflict? Do your arguments leave you feeling more distant instead of closer? In today's episode, we're diving into one of the most important marriage skills—fighting fair. Conflict is inevitable, but how you handle it determines whether it strengthens or weakens your relationship.We'll cover:- The 4 toxic fight patterns that destroy marriages (from Dr. John Gottman's research)- 5 biblical principles for handling conflict with love, wisdom, and patience- Practical steps to resolve arguments without resentment- How to repair damage after a disagreement and grow closer as a couple- Scripture-based wisdom on communication, forgiveness, and conflictKey Scriptures:James 1:19 | Ephesians 4:26 | Proverbs 15:1 | Colossians 3:13Takeaway: Fighting isn't the problem—it's how you fight that makes or breaks your marriage. Let's learn how to argue in a way that builds trust, connection, and love.00:00 Introduction: Fighting in Marriage00:16 The Inevitability of Conflict00:22 Internal Dialogues and Their Impact00:45 Predictors of Divorce01:34 Series Introduction: When Love Gets Tough01:55 Communication Struggles in Marriage02:24 How to Fight Fair03:09 Weekend Recap and Personal Stories04:57 Healthy Conflict Resolution10:00 Four Destructive Fight Patterns18:41 Five Rules for Healthy Conflict23:57 Final Thoughts and Encouragement30:48 Upcoming Episodes and New PodcastSupport this ministry by donating at www.empoweredcultureministries.orgFollow us on Social Media: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/moremostforever/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/moremostforever/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@moremostforever
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Not all fights are created equal—some bring you closer, and some just make a mess. This week, Sarah breaks down what fair fighting actually looks like (and what it definitely doesn't), sharing her best tips and strategies for handling conflict in a healthier way. Then, she answers some of your questions about conflict: one from someone who always cries during arguments, another from someone struggling with a partner who fights louder (and meaner), and a sibling trying to navigate constant battles with their brother over their aging parents. Let's make conflict productive instead of destructive!Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/This Changes Everything Voicemail: Send in your question by calling or texting (313) 338-8828For a limited time, Wildgrain is offering our listeners $30 off the first box - PLUS free croissants in every box - when you go to Wildgrain.com/TCE to start your subscription.DISCLAIMER: This podcast offers information for educational and entertainment purposes only and is not a substitute for professional advice. Always consult a qualified mental health provider for medical or mental health concerns. The host, guests, and network disclaim responsibility for any decisions or actions you make based on information provided by this podcast.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Conflict in marriage is inevitable, but the key lies in how couples handle disagreements. Biblical principles from James 1:19 provide a framework for fighting fair: being quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger. Effective conflict resolution involves active listening, choosing words carefully, and managing anger righteously. Warning signs of unhealthy conflict include criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. The ultimate goal isn't to avoid conflict altogether, but to work together toward resolution rather than fighting for personal victory.
In this episode, Doug and Dr. Talia ask some tough love questions about the way you fight. Are you fighting to win? Do you bring up the past? Do you get defensive and shut down? Take a listen and see if there are some ways you can level up the way you fight to strengthen your relationship instead of damage it.We're Not Finehttps://werenotfine.comShop the Pod: https://werenotfine.com/shopInstagram: @werenotfinepod Doug JensenProfile: https://werenotfine.com/our-team/Email: contact@werenotfine.comIG: douglasljensenTwitter: dougjensen4CsDr. Talia JacksonProfile: https://werenotfine.com/our-team/Email: contact@werenotfine.comIG: @drtaliajacksonTwitter: @Talia.Jackson77
This week, in our A Loving Life sermon series, we'll discuss how to fight fairly in marriage, examining Ephesians 4:25-32 and 5:25-27 as our framework.
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Ready to renovate your OWN relationship? Be one of the few select couples who join me inside the Become Passion – Create Love that Lasts a Lifetime 12-week online immersion program for couples. To learn more and to join, CLICK HERE We begin May 3rd, 2024 and go through July 26th 2024 In today's episode of Sex, Love, and Elephants, I'm going to give you a look inside my Passion Masterclass - a FREE couples workshop I do ONCE a year. It's packed with information about the 3 Keys to Passion and much more. I also give you the opportunity to take the next steps in your relationship journey with me as your guide and romance cheerleader! (Yes, you can be both a hopeless romantic and a scientist—fun combination.) Here's the good news: You are NOT alone and it's NOT too late… even if it feels like it! In fact, on average, over 30% of the long-term couples I see in my practice aren't having any sex whatsoever. In this exclusive recording of my Passion MAsterclass you'll learn about the keys to great relationship and how you can shift your relationship from where it is to where you want it to be. You'll learn that extraordinary Lifelong Passion is 100% Possible, but you must beware of Marriage Inc. (AKA running your relationship like a business). You'll also learn how to create much more intimacy, thrill, and sensuality—no matter where your relationship is currently. Want to watch the actual masterclass with video? Click here! In This Episode, You Will Learn: The 3 Keys to Passion – What they are, and Why mastering them will help you cultivate great love and sex that last a lifetime Intimacy: “Marital Friendship” Why Learning to Fight Fair is so important. Painful repeating arguments Thrill: Why it is so difficult to keep the excitement, attraction, and romance going – and what you need to do about it. Getting real Sensuality: How to wake up your erotic life. Did you know most long-term couples make love only a few times a month? Got a question or topic you'd like me to cover in an upcoming episode? Email me at hello@drcherylfraser.com Let's Connect! Website - Sign up for Weekly LoveBytes here Facebook Page Youtube If you want to rate your relationship, take the Passion Quiz
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To make love last in a marriage, you must fight fair! Dr. John Gottman, a relationship expert, studied couples for years and found four red flags when it comes to conflict. They are: criticizing each other, feeling contempt (that's like disrespect), getting defensive, and shutting down (also known as stonewalling). These are the ingredients that build resentment and often lead to divorce. We have to learn what not to do in order to learn how to fight fair. There are also three green flags, or healthy habits that couples should use in their relationships: be quick to listen, slow to speak (talk less), and slow to anger. And here's a helpful trick: when someone's upset, ask them whether they need a solution or just someone to listen, so you know the best way to respond. Now, let's talk about anger. It's okay to feel mad sometimes, but it's important to deal with it calmly. And remember that forgiveness is like a superpower in relationships – it helps you move past the tough stuff. Watch Pastor Lucas and his wife, Colleen give practical tips on how to avoid relationship disasters and instead become a relationship master. #RelationshipDisasters #FightFair #LiquidChurch
Do you fight fair, or do you wish there was a referee to call a stop to the foul play when you argue with your spouse? Ground rules are an important step toward having healthy marriage conflict, so today Dr. Kim will spell out how to make sure you're fighting fair in your marriage. We want to empower you to fight fair, and resolve issues in a kind and loving way. If you need help to fight fair and truly resolve issues without making things worse, you will love today's conversation. We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage. Episode highlights include: The DOs and DON'Ts of fighting fair The side effects of unhealthy conflict A healthy way to “let it all out” Can honesty go too far? How do you know? Tips to the reconnection process - how to make up well *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here! QUOTES “We both learned we needed to reconnect and apologize, but sometimes we werent' ready to take that step at the same time. We had to learn that somebody needs to take the step. It doesn't really matter who started the fight or who was wrong.” “Taking responsibility is huge. Owning your part in it, even if you think you only did 10%, you still did 10%.” “What are you sorry for? Be very specific in what you did and why you're taking responsibility.” “I say it a lot: One of the best gifts you can give your marriage is to learn how to resolve conflict.” Forgiveness and apologies need to have no strings attached. It's just that I choose to do this. We're not just trying to clear a slate so our spouse stops bugging us. Have you repented before the Lord? That's where this starts. We are accountable to Him before being accountable to our spouse. Did I just treat my spouse in the way He would have me treat them? If not, I need to take that up with Him QUESTIONS FOR YOU When you really think about it, how did it affect your spouse when you had this conflict? Repentance. Learning from the mistakes made and committing to work on them together. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Learn more about how to make your marriage conflict healthy by joining Dr. Kim for the 8 Guidelines for Fighting Fair Webinar Our Conflict Resolution Cheat Sheet is your quick guide to get marriage conflict on the right track. If you're ready to learn how to do conflict well, the Conflict Resolution Guide helps you diagnose the problem areas in your marriage, then learn the steps to resolve them. TODAY is the last day for our 7 Most Popular Resource Bundle! Don't miss the chance to get 7 of our most-loved resources for 1 donation of ANY amount in support of the ministry of Awesome Marriage! Get all the details here!
In this solo episode, I discuss 11 bad habits when it comes to fighting in a relationship and how to fix them. - Sponsors: AMARE GLOBAL: The Mental Wellness Company - get $10 off your next order - https://www.amare.com/155249/en-us/ (use code: EVERYBODY) Get 10% discount on all For Everybody products at https://shopforeverybody.com/ (use code: SFE10) Get 10% off Jocko Fuel at https://store.jockofuel.com/ (use code EVERYBODY) - Extra Stuff: Subscribe to my newsletter: https://aaronmachbitz.com/ Something For Everybody Merchandise: https://shopforeverybody.com/collections/somethingforeverybody - To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/AaronMachbitz Buy Me a Coffee: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/SomethingForEverybody (Recorded on March 27th, 2024) Edited by Ben Rogerson (@BenRogerson_) Intro music by Residual Audio (Residualaudio.com) - Get in touch: iG: https://www.instagram.com/AaronMachbitz Twitter: https://twitter.com/AaronMachbitz Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/AMachbitz/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@AaronMachbitz Email: https://www.aaronmachbitz.com/contact/
Jordana joins Matchmaker Maria on the Ask a Matchmaker Podcast -- they catch up the new cool things happening at Betches and Jordana's fertility journey. Jordana Abraham is Co-Founder and Chief Innovation Officer of Betches, one of the earliest digitally native media and entertainment companies founded and led by women and the most influential female-focused humor brand in the market today. Betches was founded in 2011 and bootstrapped by Jordana with her childhood friends Aleen Dreksler and Sami Sage during their senior year at Cornell University. Initially, Betches was developed as a satirical blog for female college students; however, since its inception, Betches has evolved into a multi-platform juggernaut that has expertly leaned into social media as a storytelling platform, audience-building tool and brand marketing machine. Today, Betches is the most powerful comedy platform for women on the internet with millions of passionate millennial and gen z fans, offering entertainment, connection and community. Follow Jordana at @jordanaabraham and @u.up.podcast ------ You can work with Maria by either joining the matchmaking database at agapematch.com or enrolling in an upcoming Agape Intensive. https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/ Maria and Chrisoula host an annual retreat to Greece! Join them: https://www.agapeescapes.com/ Follow the podcast @askamatchmaker And follow Maria @matchmakermaria ***** Work with Matchmaker Maria and her team! Book a personalized strategy call with our expert matchmaker to gain valuable insights and tailored advice. https://calendly.com/felix-louie Join Maria in Greece: Our upcoming retreat promises a unique blend of relaxation, adventure, and connection-building activities. Reserve your spot now and have the best week of your life! Escape to Paros - June 22-29, 2024 https://bit.ly/3UXqgOC Escape to Crete - July 1-6, 2024 https://bit.ly/3Te6wFl Stay Connected! @matchmakermaria (Follow!) @askamatchmaker (Follow the pod!) Make sure to subscribe and sign up for notifications for fantastic dating and relationship advice brought to you by Maria Avgitidis!
Whether you're facing conflict in your romantic relationship, friendships, family, or workplace, this episode offers guidance on creating a culture of respect, collaboration, and mutual support. Tune in to discover the keys to fighting fair and building healthier, more resilient connections! Remember to purchase your copy of The Go Girl Guidebook, A Woman's Interactive Guide to Self-Love on Amazon. It's the perfect book to help guide you through this year: https://www.amazon.com/Go-Girl-Guidebook-Interactive-Self-Love/dp/1693262193 Keep in touch: https://www.instagram.com/gogirlmovement/ https://www.instagram.com/iamashleycaprice/ https://www.tiktok.com/@iamashleycaprice?lang=en www.GoGirlMovement.org
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Cindy Esliger discusses office politics and the necessity of engaging in them with integrity. While the term often carries a negative connotation, office politics can positively impact your career and recognizing the dynamics of office politics is crucial for anyone with ambition. It is possible to be strategic and ethical and Cindy shares exactly how to do this within your organization. Right away Cindy lists four benefits of engaging in office politics with integrity: 1. Builds trust and credibility, 2. Enhances political reputation, 3. Strengthens interpersonal relationships, and 4. Mitigates risks and challenges. Maintaining ethical standards allows us to form positive connections without getting entangled in behaviors that lead to damaged reputations or unpleasant consequences. Cindy details the behaviors we want to avoid engaging in as they are likely to contribute to a toxic workplace. Genuine relationships are always preferable and those are founded by seeking common ground and showing sincere interest in colleagues. When conflicts do arise, however, Cindy has advice for how to handle them: 1. Actively listen, 2. Choose the right place and time, 3. Focus on the issue, not the person, and 4. Involve others in finding a solution. Cindy's experience shows how to have a proactive approach to prevent misunderstandings and forge a supportive network. Following her advice will aid in becoming more politically savvy. Resources discussed in this episode:Guide to Fighting FairAstronomic AudioConfidence Collective—Contact Cindy Esliger Career Confidence Coaching: website | instagram | facebook | linkedin | email
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HOT RELATIONSHIP TIP: fighting isn't a bad thing… but you do need to learn how to fight fair. Emmalee Bierly, LMFT and Jennifer Chaiken, LMFT of Shrink Chicks are back and this time they're sharing their expert tips on how to fight. We cover: Why fighting is actually a part of a healthy relationship How to fight fair How to regulate your emotions during a fight Scripts for expressing your feelings and apologizing What resentment can look like and how it manifests in our relationships The grief that comes along with committing to a long term relationship Connect with Em & Jen: On their website Listen to their podcast Watch This Episode On YouTube Keep up with Honeydew Me: On Instagram On TikTok Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
About This SeriesTired of watching marriages crumble? Fed up with couples giving up? Would you like to guarantee that your marriage will last? This series will inspire you to join the fight against destruction and make three commitments to fail-proof your marriage.This Week's EpisodeHurt people, hurt people. And we tend to harbor our own pain in such a way that it blows up and hurts those around us. But in Jesus we can find healing and with his help we can stop using our baggage as a weapon, and begin looking to his Spirit to bring unity and healing.Wondering what to do with what you've heard?Your Next Step is waiting for you at hub.firstchristian.com!Learn MoreYou can follow along with this series by joining in this Sunday's services on-campus or streaming online at 9 and 11am this weekend.Follow @fcccanton on Facebook, Instagram, and Twitter to stay connected!Support the show
Over the few weeks we are jumping into a series, Love and Marriage. This series looks at how to have healthy godly relationships with people you love. Spouses, boyfriends, girlfriends, friends, parents, pets, whatever your relationship is, this series is for you. This week Lydia Miller is taking about the challenges we face in marriage, how to love through arguments and what it looks like to fight fair. Check this out.
In week two of our #FromThisDayForward marriage series, we're diving deep into the art of fighting fair. Because let's face it, disagreements happen to the best of us, but it's how we handle them that truly matters. Pastor Todd brought the FIRE with an eye-opening message: "Out of your mouth speaks your heart." (Insert mic drop
Our guest today is Steve Davis. Steve is a Colorado cop with 45 years of experience as a K-9 handler, motorcycle cop, investigator, and police chief. He relates a story of fighting a man on PCP in a restaurant, a fight that nearly took his life. Steve has so much wisdom to share and so please listen al the way to the end and catch what Steve says is a critical mistake that cops make when an injured cop returns to duty.Resources:This is Steve's book, A Thin Dark Line https://a.co/d/dLcHp5kThis is the conference where I met Steve & Erica: https://www.servingheroes.net/national-conference/Erica's interview was Episode 068Music is by Chris Haugen and by Winking Fox MusicHey Chaplain Podcast Episode 075Tags:Police, Drugs, Faith, Fight, Motorcycle Cops, PCP, Traffic, Trauma, Use of Force, Denver, ColoradoSupport the showThanks for Listening! And, as always, pray for peace in our city.Subscribe/Follow here: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/hey-chaplain/id1570155168 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/2CGK9A3BmbFEUEnx3fYZOY Email us at: heychaplain44@gmail.comYou can help keep the show ad-free by buying me a coffee!https://www.buymeacoffee.com/heychaplain
If you're going to pull off the call of God on your life, there's one thing for certain, you can't do it alone. You're going to have to bring people along with you. But whether you are building a family, a team, or a business — where do you start? How do you do it the right way? This week, we sit down with Tim Ross to unlock the cheat codes to building something God's way.
In this insightful episode of Connect, we look into the pages of Acts 15:36-41 to explore the timeless wisdom that the Bible gives on dealing with conflict. Join us as we unravel the narrative of Paul and Barnabas, two pillars of the early Christian Church, facing a sharp disagreement. Conflict is an inevitable part of any community, and the Bible offers profound insights on how to navigate these challenges with grace, wisdom, and a commitment to the greater purpose. In Acts 15:36-41, we witness a clash between two respected figures, Paul and Barnabas, each with their own perspective on the mission. Pastor Cole will guide you through the layers of this conflict, drawing parallels to modern-day challenges within our own communities, families, and workplaces. We will learn valuable lessons on communication, resolution, and maintaining unity in the face of differences. Discover practical strategies grounded in biblical principles that will empower you to turn conflict into an opportunity for growth and strengthened relationships. As we explore this biblical narrative, we find inspiration to emulate the humility, understanding, and grace shown by the early Church leaders. Tune in to this episode of Connect and gain valuable insights that will equip you to face conflicts head-on, fostering a spirit of unity and cooperation in every part of your life. Don't miss this opportunity to learn how to navigate conflicts in a way that glorifies God and strengthens the bonds of community. If you want to support this essential ministry, consider becoming a partner by donating here: Click Here --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/cole-phillips2/support
In this insightful episode of Connect, we look into the pages of Acts 15:36-41 to explore the timeless wisdom that the Bible gives on dealing with conflict. Join us as we unravel the narrative of Paul and Barnabas, two pillars of the early Christian Church, facing a sharp disagreement.Conflict is an inevitable part of any community, and the Bible offers profound insights on how to navigate these challenges with grace, wisdom, and a commitment to the greater purpose. In Acts 15:36-41, we witness a clash between two respected figures, Paul and Barnabas, each with their own perspective on the mission.Pastor Cole will guide you through the layers of this conflict, drawing parallels to modern-day challenges within our own communities, families, and workplaces. We will learn valuable lessons on communication, resolution, and maintaining unity in the face of differences. Discover practical strategies grounded in biblical principles that will empower you to turn conflict into an opportunity for growth and strengthened relationships. As we explore this biblical narrative, we find inspiration to emulate the humility, understanding, and grace shown by the early Church leaders.Tune in to this episode of Connect and gain valuable insights that will equip you to face conflicts head-on, fostering a spirit of unity and cooperation in every part of your life. Don't miss this opportunity to learn how to navigate conflicts in a way that glorifies God and strengthens the bonds of community.If you want to support this essential ministry, consider becoming a partner by donating here: Click Here
hello besties and introverties! this week i'm getting into the basics of HOW TO FIGHT FAIR in all of your relationships, from romantic to work buds. fighting fair is crucial to a positive resolution and not letting things fester and become a bigger deal than they are. Follow the podcast @youresoquietpod Instagram and TikTok Send me an email at hello@cbrownauthor.com --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youresoquietpod/message Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youresoquietpod/support
In today's episode of Sex, Love, and Elephants, I'm going to give you a look inside my Passion Masterclass - a FREE couples workshop I do ONCE a year. It's packed with information about the 3 Keys to Passion and much more. I also give you the opportunity to take the next steps in your relationship journey with me as your guide and romance cheerleader! (Yes, you can be both a hopeless romantic and a scientist—fun combination.)Here's the good news: You are NOT alone and it's NOT too late… even if it feels like it! In fact, on average, over 30% of the long-term couples I see in my practice aren't having any sex whatsoever. In this exclusive LIVE Passion Masterclass, you'll learn about Passion and how you can shift your relationship from where it is to where you want it to be. You'll learn that extraordinary Lifelong Passion is 100% Possible, but you must beware of Marriage Inc. (AKA running your relationship like a business). You'll also learn how to create much more intimacy, thrill, and sensuality—no matter where your relationship is currently. Intrigued? Be one of the few select couples who join me inside the Become Passion – Create Love that Lasts a Lifetime 12-week online immersion program for couples. To learn more and to join, click here! We begin November 3, 2023 and go through January 26, 2024.Want to watch the actual masterclass with video? Click here!In This Episode, You Will Learn:The 3 Keys to Passion – What they are, and Why mastering them will help you cultivate great love and sex that last a lifetime Intimacy: “Marital Friendship” Why Learning to Fight Fair is so important. Painful repeating arguments Thrill: Why it is so difficult to keep the excitement, attraction, and romance going – and what you need to do about it. Getting realSensuality: How to wake up your erotic life. Did you know most long-term couples make love only a few times a month? Want to learn more about Buddhism and Love relationships? Check out my book Buddha's Bedroom Got a question or topic you'd like me to cover in an upcoming episode? Email me at hello@drcherylfraser.comLet's Connect!About MeWebsite - Sign up for Weekly LoveBytes here Facebook Page YoutubeIf you want to rate your relationship, take the Passion Quiz Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
We talk about being a good sport when playing games!
Kaitlin and Mitch discuss how to Fight Fair, applying scripture, and what not to do (through personal experiences.) Main point taken "From this day Forward" by Craig and Amy Groeschel
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Arguments between partners are completely normal, even necessary within intimate relationships. If you're not arguing (at least occasionally!) you're not talking about the important stuff. The problem is NOT that we argue with our partners... the problem is that we never learned how to argue. If you're in a committed relationship, you're going to experience disagreements and arguments. This episode will teach you how to have them. If you're struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage and you're serious about finding that answer, book a Truth & Clarity Session with a member of my team. We'll discuss where you are in your marriage and explore if there's a fit for you and I to work together so you can make - and execute - the RIGHT decision for YOU and your marriage. What You'll Learn In This Episode: 5 strategies to help you “fight fair” How to get your partner's attention (without yelling) How to remain on the same team… even when you're arguing Featured On The Show: Struggling to decide whether to stay or go in your marriage? Book a Truth & Clarity Session Want even more tools to navigate a disconnected marriage? Join me on social media: Facebook | Instagram | LinkedIn | YouTube If you have a suggestion for a future episode or a question you'd like me to answer on the show, email us. Enjoy the Show? Don't miss an episode! Don't miss an episode! Subscribe to The Loving Truth podcast on Apple Podcasts or Spotify. Love what you're hearing? Leave a rating & review on Apple Podcasts!Is it possible to ever bring a marriage back to life? Find out in my free on-demand training called Living Like Roommates. I'll dive deep into what may have caused this distance in your relationship so you can understand how to move forward in a new direction. Sign up for the training livinglikeroommates.com.
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Rachel & Stacey go over what arguing or fighting fairly in a relationship looks like and what it absolutely does NOT look like. They break down how unfair fighting makes conflict worse, negatively impacts relationship dynamics and ways to fight fairly next time you have conflict with a partner! Produced by: Joey "Q' Quenga & JTB Studios --- Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/decoding-couples/support
Marriage arguments and fighting with your spouse are a part of life, but there are ways that we can better understand each other when marital conflict arises. Greg and Erin chat with Bob and Jenni Paul about a conflict tool for couples called heart talk. And you'll hear from Kennedy, a newlywed, about how he has learned to handle conflict in his marriage! Receive the book 9 Lies That Will Destroy Your Marriage for your donation of any amount. Have You Lost Hope in Your Marriage? For couples in crisis, you can still put the pieces of your marriage back together with Hope Restored. Visit our store for a copy of the book Crazy Little Thing Called Marriage: 12 Secrets for a Lifelong Romance. We'd love to hear from you! Visit our Homepage to leave us a voicemail.
Be honest - if you look back at your last fight with your partner, are you happy with how it went? Was there anything you wish that you had said differently? Or would take back Maybe you were feeling defensive, a little misunderstood, or just plain hurt! It would be nice if there was a referee to throw a flag or call time out when we cross the line in an argument. We reached out to our Instagram audience and found a couple willing to share a fight that they recently experienced. In this episode, we go through their text fight line by line, calling out what worked, what didn't, and different choices they could have made to communicate more effectively. You'll get a sneak peek at the kinds of fights other couples really have, while learning how to manage relationship conflict in a healthier way. Learning how to fight fair can be a process, but with some practice, you can turn those moments of tension into opportunities for growth and connection. Links & Resources: Mental Load Workbook Check out the show notes at vmtherapy.com/episode83