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Having suffered silently with depression for a number of years I found the best way out was by looking in. So began a quest to improve my mental state through consistent action, habit changes and science. By the latter I don't mean I started cooking meth. I'm interested in people, their passions and…

Tom Alfry


    • Jan 10, 2019 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 50m AVG DURATION
    • 27 EPISODES


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    Mr Samuel Hockey Part One

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2019 39:17


    My first interview of 2019 is with Mr Samuel Hockey. A designer and former National Mental Health Commissioner, Samuel has a huge experience within the mental health world. This is part one of two as we had so much that we covered. Keep an eye on www.tomalfry.com or @thenoisymind3po on Instagram for the next part!

    Mr Jonathon Levy

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 10, 2018 55:04


    Mr Jonathon "Jono" Levy joins me for my first epidode of Season Two. It's been a year since the last interview, so it was time to make a comeback! I had a great time getting to know Jonathon a bit more. We've been friends for a short time, but I always enjoy the conversations we have, so I knew this would be a good interview. He came up with some great points and uses some simple but excellent tools to help manage stress. Enjoy listening!

    Tom Talks Habits

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 23, 2017 17:43


    Tom Talks Habits by Tom Alfry

    Miss Rhiannon Noon #24

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 17, 2017 72:27


    I had a great conversation with Rhiannon about her past, the tools she uses to maintain good mental health and her passion of film production. There are some great tools in her for mindfulness and stress control, from lego to colouring and more. I am looking forward to the next catchup with Rhiannon in the near future.

    MIss Linda Ekpo #23

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2017 58:25


    Before Linda left Sydney to return to Dallas, Texas I got to interview her. In fact we interviewed each other. What follows is a really enjoyable and insightful conversation with a powerful woman. I'm looking forward to seeing the great things that Linda does, but until then we can enjoy getting to know her a little better. After this you may also know me better too, perhaps a little too much detail though. I'm not sorry ;)

    Miss Cat Haggerty Part Deux #22

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 3, 2017 50:25


    After our first chat we delved a little deeper into Cat's past and whilst swapping teas talked about the benefits of past negative experiences. Always a pleasure talking to Cat and learning a little more about her past and the tools she uses to look after her mental and physical health.

    Miss Cat Haggerty #21

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 1, 2017 53:48


    Cat joined me for two interviews because we had so much to talk about! In this first part I got to know a little about Cat's background and what she does to maintain good mental health.

    Mr. David Newson Revisited #20

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2017 46:41


    Mr. David Newson returns to talk a little deeper about his troubled past with salamanders, what he learnt from whores and how little I edit.

    Miss Hana Olsen #19

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 20, 2017 69:42


    Miss Hana Olsen is the first female guest to impart her wisdom. It was great to hear about her past and the habits she uses to maintain good mental health. She's passionate about poetry, writing and has a penchant for roller blading and climbing. Enjoy!

    Ewen Griffiths-Menzies #18

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 2, 2017 73:20


    This week I spoke with Ewen about his formative years, how he got into acting and his new show Who is Mordechai Waterview? There are some insightful points in our chat, the first time we had met! I'm looking forward to the next catchup and finding out more about this talented gent.

    Mr Michael Hanney Returns #17

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 25, 2017 66:27


    Michael and i had a great chat in my favourite cafe Sorelle in Waverley. We had just completed Coogee Stairs (a local challenging stair climb) and enjoyed a good solid breakfast before diving in. We spoke about Michael's past, what motivates him and how his mind works. More to come from this great man as he continues to work on his mental health.

    Tom Talks - Laughter #16

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2017 28:32


    It's me again! I like to think I am learning with each new podcast I produce. In the spirit of learning this week I am sharing my newfound knowledge with you. It's not rocket science, but it is amazing how simple things that help our minds are so easily overlooked when we take life too seriously.

    Tom Talks - London #15

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2017 24:44


    Going back to the solo experience this week as I haven't been able to get time to interview. I thought I'd recant some of my past and give some insight into my depression. Nothing too heavy though!

    Mr Dane Heimann of DuoDie Acrobatics #14

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2017 55:06


    In this episode I get to talk to my friend Dane, 50% of partner acrobatic duo DuoDie. We talk about bouncing balls off his chest and other interesting tools for the mind.

    Tom Talks 13

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 24, 2017 26:04


    Twenty minutes of me talking. I know it's hard work. Today I am talking about my history with depression. Excuse the brief moments of silence halfway through, I was trying not to cry!

    Tom Talks #12

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2017 8:53


    Time to think isn't always good for my brain! But a lesson learnt is a lesson shared. Keep your time planned and get sh*t done!

    Mr Andrew Arnott #11

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2017 87:29


    Enjoy this gold old rant with Mr Andrew Arnott. This is part one of our discussion about mental health and has spurned a few changes for the coming podcast formats and name. Enjoy!

    Mr Kurt Phelan #10

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2017 72:16


    Kurt is an actor, singer, dancer, teacher and a sommelier. When he's not doing all of these things he enjoys using the gym to balance mind and body. One of the simplest tools he uses for mental health is to sing like nobody is listening. This is just part of the puzzle to a balanced mind that Kurt shares with us today.

    Mr Uli Lobmayr #9

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2017 58:00


    Uli is a mate from my local coffee shop X74. Unfortunately the audio cocked up halfway through and towards the end, so I lost a fair chunk. But the first part is intact and I'll get him back for round two in the near future as he has some amazing insights to share.

    Juzzy Part Trois #8

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2017 47:17


    The finale. We talk about cheese and lycra amongst other things. I had a great time talking with Justin and even more listening back to these episodes. I hope you enjoy them too and take something away from them.

    Justin Part Deux #7

    Play Episode Listen Later May 13, 2017 43:37


    I think these first two parts are a great warmup to what comes at the finale. But take your time, don't rush. Take in what Justin has to say because there's a wisdom beyond his 29 years.

    Mr Justin Vague #6

    Play Episode Listen Later May 11, 2017 23:45


    What can I say about Justin other than he is a surprise package. I learnt so many pearls of wisdom from him in our interview and decided to publish a three parter because of his insight and humour. We can all learn a lot from this legend.

    Mr. Fred Macalino #5

    Play Episode Listen Later May 4, 2017 96:55


    There are many tools we can use to help ourselves, but do we overcomplicate things? Fred tells me about some of the simple things he employs that could help you to live a happier life.

    Mr. David Newson #4

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2017 75:58


    *Note: They may be some swearing. Probably mild though. No C word. Mr David Newson talks to me about his passions and what keeps him sane day to day.

    James "Yahmez" O'Brien #3

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2017 69:33


    Chatting with Mr O'Brien. There is some sense in the madness. Somewhere... *Note: They may be some swearing. Probably mild though. No C word.

    Michael continued #2

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 13, 2017 22:05


    Continuing my conversation with Mr Hanney. What a man! *Note: There may be some swearing. Probably mild though. No C word.

    Mr Michael Hanney #1

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2017 30:47


    The first podcast interviewing my friend Michael Hanney. We discover his passions and the tools he uses to stay sane. *Note: They may be some swearing. Probably mild though. No C word.

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