AFTER WORK BANTER

Dear ladies, God's list before ours. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

Never put yourself in someone's shoes because it shines to you. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

Please mind your business if you don't want to ruin or be ruined. Ask Peng Yu, he'll tell you. ●Ask.fm/Awbanter to drop comments. ●Social Media: @AfterWorkBanter --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

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Heya. From darkness to brightness, it happens to the most of us. We get into 2020 in some hours by God's grace. I've learnt so far not to pressure self at all. What have you learnt? Ending the year with a flu :( No mistletoe Peck :,(. HAPPY NEW YEAR IN ADVANCE. THANK YOU FOR BEING HERE WITH ME. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

There are pressures from everywhere. This episode addresses the issue of pressure. What type of pressure comes to you these days? Well done to you! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

So for most of us, even you reading this, GREETINGS are a thing for you. I tell you Good morning and you respond with "Morning!"....mhmmm mhhmmm mmm! I danger laugh. Lol...what's your thought on greetings? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

Heya! Super excited about this episode as it applies to most of us in the FIRST DATE Court. Today, I dive into the topic which explains what to do and what not to do on a first date. Just in case I left out anything, send a voice message expressing your opinion. Remember, you can follow me on social media. AFTER WORK BANTER on every platform. Thank you. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

In this episode I'll be talking about the myth of true love. You know, I just realized true love might mean something different from what it means to you. What is your definition of TRUE LOVE? Revert please. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

My experience on a good day turned bad when a bunch of kids started singing that I am a slay queen. I was upset and embarrassed but I didn't even know why...I thought that was an upsetting insult. However, I've realised it starts with what you have upstairs. Listen and gimme your feedback. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

Apparently, there are certain things a babe shouldn't indulge. WHO IS A BABE? A Prim & Proper lady who diligently observes the codes of conduct i.e not eating in public, dressing chic and effortless and lastly, commanding everyone's attention neatly. This is a category and the society nicely butt kicked me out of it because...because of ord-ee-nareh puff puff. Is this true and should these even matter? Talk to me. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

This issue of COZA Pastor and Busola Dakola has broken many into pieces. I'm honestly loving this age we are in. There was a time when women were shamed for being victims. I'm glad people can come out to make allegations. But it is time to stay woke on these streets. To my guys that can't do without sex, to my ladies who can't behave well, here is my two pence to you... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

I'm certain you think man just likes you for how you're dressed. You'll be amazed by the one thousand and one thoughts going through his head and the categories of these thoughts. I feature my crazy FIRe friend...Jigga in this episode! @ssygala. Please disturb me with your opinions and observations, if you have any. Xoxo, AWB❤ --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

The life of a girl is an already scripted triangle. At teen time, she sees her period, at 21 she's out of school, at 26 she's settling down with the absolute love of her life/or to her betrothed (for the unlucky). At 27 she's popping kids and so on. **At 26, life begins for every girl. Oh! Let's not forget the pressure that comes from the background: when are you getting married? is this how you wanna cook for your husband? If only you took men as serious as your job bla bla bla. Anyway, me, at a young age, no pressure notin notin, I went to be praying for God to give me a husband. Did it work? Listen and find out. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

So I was curious about our second meeting in life. My life? It's not that hard in a nutshell. We became really cool and I know that's so hard for most people. But once friends, always friends especially if it was ever genuine. Here's what he knows about me. I rate him 99/100. What do you think about being friends with your ex? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

It's a cold lonely life on these single streets. Before getting into a relationship, do you have the 4 vital elements to kickstart it? If you don't have this starter pack, BACK OFF and chill. Your time will come!

I bet you've seen a Nollywood movie where a young babe is dating a married man and then the wife tracks her down and pours acid on her whole goddam face. Remember my episode on Nigerians being so extra...Truth is..these things happen in real life and in most cases there's no acid. Let's hear it from an ex culprit. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

Apparently foreigners have an orientation about Nigerian girls- We're all gold diggers. I ask you...do you think Nigerian babes have a tiny drop of gold digging? --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

Sometimes, dealing with CATFISHISM isn't lies about the physique alone. It may include beliefs, responsibilities, position, name, and every other thing that makes up an Identity. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

Episode 9 - DEAR GIRL, WHAT ARE YOU? So FIRST thing's FIRST. NO BULLYING IS TOO SMALL TO BREAK YOU. EVEN WHEN YOU'RE THE BULLY & VICTIM. Everytime you look down on yourself, you destroy your petals. Hear ye! Hear ye! child. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

It's funny how I'm torn between the two. Should a lady allow her man talk to other ladies? OR put a Ban on any relationship with the opoosite sex...especially because girls are now THIRSTY! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

What is it about the Nigerian wedding that is so extra? The cost of the wedding, meeting the in-laws or even taking yhe girl home...OR....are they all intertwined? Join me this evening. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

FYI, I posted at 6p.m, just for you...cos you 'SpeshuL'. The attention I got was all fun on this particular day. But in the end, it became a nightmare...I was a bait! Listen and lemme know what you think? P.s, I have been scolded about my use of "word filler- "LIKE". I'd work on getting better. Please forgive!

Sigh....dress the way you'd love to be addressed...also, never look down on people...here's what happened to me sha.... --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

I'm sure you are irked by the frequent meetings that your organization seems to wanna hold every hour/day/week/month. Some of these things are irrelevant and here's what to do about them this year... Tune in. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support

SEX! SEX! SEX! I was 17 or so...I promise, I felt my experience will be different from the stories of the other young ladies that already experienced their first time. LOL! It really WAS DIFFERENT from theirs. Hmmm...How was it different? Listen. My presentation wasn't topnotch, but I promise to do better

The Nigerian party comes with a lot of expectation. If you fall below expectation, you'll be overlooked. When I thought I was slaying in my church mind...listen to hear what happened. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/afterworkbanter/support