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Sometimes, the people you love most can push your nervous system past its breaking point. Nervous system regulation is what helps you stay grounded, communicate clearly, and respond instead of react. And when you don't have it, you snap. You shut down. You get flooded, overwhelmed, or completely disconnected from the people you care about most. You're not failing. You're not “too sensitive.” And you're not bad at relationships. Your nervous system may simply be overloaded. I'm talking with emotional-development expert Alyssa Blask Campbell about why two people can experience the exact same moment in completely different ways, and how those invisible differences can create conflict, disconnection, and hurt feelings. Listen to learn: The four hidden senses shaping your emotional world Why generic self-care works for some people—and fails others How sensory differences create surprising relationship conflicts The difference between numbing yourself and truly regulating How to build calming strategies that actually fit you Sometimes the person you love isn't ignoring you, overreacting, or being difficult. Their nervous system may simply be speaking a different language. I hope this conversation helps you understand yourself more deeply, take things less personally, and bring more compassion into your relationships. Xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the podcast: Shopify —  Every self-made person started somewhere. Yours starts free at shopify.com/lhs Quince — Quality products you'll actually use that feel like luxury without the price tag. Get free shipping and 365-day returns at ⁠quince.com/lhs⁠

Have you ever reached the end of a full day knowing you cared for everyone, but still wondering whether your children felt loved by you? You handled meals, school, appointments, messages, laundry, medication, behavior, and everything else that had to happen. You were present. You were working. You were loving your family through all of it. But inside, you may still be thinking, “I just want my kids to know they are loved.” In this episode, I'm talking about that tender concern many mothers carry—especially when family life requires a lot of managing, planning, correcting, driving, caregiving, and keeping things moving. I share a small story from our home about an ordinary moment with one of my children, a coloring page, and a choice I almost treated as unimportant. That moment helped me notice something I still need to remember: the work of caring for a family really is love, but sometimes our children also need simple ways to experience that love as connection. If your days have been full and connection has felt hard, this episode will help you think gently about one ordinary way love can become easier for your child to feel. XOXO, Katie

How often should couples have sex? I'm going to tell you the truth: If you're counting, something deeper is already asking for your attention. When your partner starts feeling more like a roommate, it's easy to panic. To compare. To wonder whether your relationship is broken. But the “right number” isn't the answer. If you're lying next to the person you love wondering, “What happened to us?”... this episode is for you. In this conversation, I'm joined by Growing Self clinician and certified sex therapist Dori Bagi to uncover the hidden reasons desire fades, and what can actually bring it back. Listen to learn: Why sexual frequency is often a distracting symptom How spontaneous and responsive desire work differently The hidden expectations quietly creating pressure and resentment How hormones, body image, and emotional disconnection affect desire Whether attraction can return after it feels completely gone You may not have a libido problem. You may have an understanding problem. And once you can finally see what's happening, you can start changing it. Xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self P.S. If this is touching something tender in your relationship, you don't have to figure it out alone. You can connect directly with Dori for compassionate, expert support at growingself.com/dori.  Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the podcast: Shopify —  Every self-made person started somewhere. Yours starts free at shopify.com/lhs Quince — Quality products you'll actually use that feel like luxury without the price tag. Get free shipping and 365-day returns at ⁠quince.com/lhs⁠

Have you ever overextended yourself to the point where you collapsed? Gave and gave and gave until your well was dry.. The problem isn't that you can't handle hard things. It's that you haven't learned how to find your sustainable pace. If you're trying to figure out how to lead a productive and full life without becoming exhausted and depleted in the process, this episode is for you. In this conversation, I'm joined by award-winning science writer Elizabeth Svoboda, author of The Art of Pacing. Together, we unpack the hidden pattern behind that all-or-nothing cycle and why the answer isn't pushing harder or checking out completely. You'll learn how to work with your energy instead of constantly fighting against it, including a simple breathing technique that can calm your nervous system in just a few minutes. Listen to learn: Why high achievers keep swinging between overdoing it and shutting down How to calm your nervous system with a simple, science-backed strategy you can do immediately Hacks that make your to do list feel easier (and energizing) The one question that helps you make better decisions about what to say yes to How to get clarity about YOUR sustainable pace (not someone else's) How to get your energy back after a “burnout breakdown” and avoid going there again. It's time to stop chasing someone else's pace and start trusting your own. This episode will give you direction about how to do that. Lastly, take 10 seconds to think about who in your life is barely holding it all together and needs to hear this message today. Forward it to them.  And there it is: You just made a difference. (We're on this mission, together.) Xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the podcast: Shopify —  Every self-made person started somewhere. Yours starts free at shopify.com/lhs Quince — Quality products you'll actually use that feel like luxury without the price tag. Get free shipping and 365-day returns at ⁠quince.com/lhs⁠

Maybe you are thinking about bringing your child home because school is not working. Or maybe you are already homeschooling, but the curriculum, methods, or supports you chose are not helping the way you hoped. When your child has dyslexia, ADHD, autism, disability, behavior struggles, or several different needs at once, the next decision can feel terrifying. You may be afraid you will choose the wrong thing, make the gaps worse, or miss something important. You may be thinking, “I love my child, but I do not know enough to do this well.” In this episode, I'm sharing a personal story from a season when I walked into a professional evaluation expecting to be told that I had failed my child. That is not what happened. The appointment did not give us a complete educational plan, but it did help me see something I had almost missed. It also helped me understand that I did not have to solve my child's entire education all at once before taking the next step. We'll talk about the fear of getting it wrong, the value and limits of professional evaluations, and how to keep paying attention to the child in front of you when the path ahead is not clear. And I want to be clear: this episode is not about rejecting professional help, and it is not about treating every professional opinion as the final word. It is about receiving useful information, protecting what is already helping, and continuing to look for support that sees both your child's struggles and your child's possibilities. If you are afraid you will mess this up, this episode will help you breathe, think more clearly about the next step, and remember that needing help does not mean you are failing. Mentioned in this episode: Wings to Soar Academy — an online school created to support bright children with significant learning differences. From the archive recorded under a former show name: Beth Ellen Nash / Wings to Soar interview, Part 1   From the archive recorded under a former show name:  Beth Ellen Nash / Wings to Soar interview, Part 2 An optional resource for reading and spelling support: Touch-type Read and Spell may be helpful for some learners who need a multisensory approach to reading, spelling, and typing. It will not fit every child, but our family has found it useful. Use code: KKEENE (Disclosure: I may earn a commission if you purchase through this link, at no additional cost to you.) XOXO, Katie

You might not be falling out of love. You might just be exhausted. When you can't sleep, everything gets louder. The resentment. The anxiety. The dishwasher fight that suddenly feels like proof your entire relationship is broken. I've seen this happen again and again: people blame their partner, their marriage, or themselves—when the real saboteur is sleep deprivation. In this episode, I'm talking with marriage and family therapist and sleep expert Chrissy Lawler about what exhaustion is really doing to your mood, your parenting, and the people you love most. Listen to learn: Why exhaustion makes every conflict feel more serious How poor sleep quietly drains connection and intimacy The counterintuitive reason to get out of bed when you can't sleep How caffeine, alcohol, and nighttime habits sabotage your rest Why sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is go to bed angry Simple, evidence-based ways to start sleeping better tonight Before you decide your relationship is broken, check your sleep. A full night of rest might change the entire conversation. Xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the podcast: Shopify —  Every self-made person started somewhere. Yours starts free at shopify.com/lhs Quince — Quality products you'll actually use that feel like luxury without the price tag. Get free shipping and 365-day returns at ⁠quince.com/lhs⁠.

Julia and Drew are back in the studio to discuss Next Gen NYC Season 2, Episode 4. The girls sip on some Cha Cha Matcha and dish about the show hitting a new peak, Riley's classist meltdown, Hudson's bejeweled entourage, the extremely boring World Cup final, and Carl Radke's torrid dalliance with a mixed fruit-flavored coffee creamer. XOXO, Girls Room.Follow Girls Room on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Follow Drew on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Follow Julia on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

EP:201 Is your child a sensory seeker… or a sensory avoider? The answer might surprise you. Hi friends, If you've ever wondered why one child melts down over loud noises, another constantly crashes into furniture, or mealtimes feel like a daily battle, this episode is for you. One of the biggest misconceptions I see as an occupational therapist is that we tend to label our children—and ourselves—as either a "sensory seeker" or a "sensory avoider." But the truth is, our sensory systems are so much more complex than that. We all have unique sensory profiles. And understanding them can completely change the way you parent. In this episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I'm breaking down how sensory processing impacts your child's emotions, behaviors, and nervous system—and why learning your child's sensory profile can help you respond with more confidence, compassion, and connection. We'll explore: ✨ What a sensory profile actually is—and why it matters. ✨ Why your child may be both a sensory seeker and a sensory avoider. ✨ The connection between sensory processing and emotional regulation. ✨ How sensory needs influence meltdowns, transitions, picky eating, sleep, focus, and everyday behavior. ✨ Practical strategies to support your child's nervous system while regulating your own. Here's what I want every parent to know: Your child's behaviors aren't random. They're communication. When you understand what's happening inside their nervous system, you stop reacting to behaviors—and start responding to the needs underneath them. And this isn't just about your child. As parents, understanding our own sensory profiles can be just as life-changing. The more aware we become of our own nervous systems, the better equipped we are to stay calm during challenging moments, communicate more effectively, and create a home where everyone feels safe, supported, and understood. If you're tired of feeling like you're constantly walking on eggshells, frustrated by parenting strategies that don't seem to work, or simply want to understand your child on a deeper level, I know this episode will give you a fresh perspective.

Are you chronically late, stressed, and frazzled? Feel like you never have enough time to do what you really want and need to do? Here's the reality: Until you can manage your time, you'll always feel out of control. Poor  time management isn't just making you late. It's quietly stealing your life. If you feel buried, behind, overcommitted, and weirdly guilty all the time, this episode is going to hit hard. Because the problem may not be that you're lazy, scattered, or “bad at time management.” The real problem is that you're saying yes to everything and accidentally saying no to the life you actually want. I'm sitting down with Samantha Lane, TEDx speaker and founder of Origami Day, to talk about the simple time management shift that can help you stop living on autopilot. Here's the uncomfortable (but also liberating and life-changing) truth: You don't have a time problem. You have a choosing problem. Listen to learn: Why poor time management is really a life-management problem The brutal truth about your 168 hours each week How every “yes” secretly becomes a “no” Why your to-do list will never actually be done The simple weekly planning ritual that can calm the chaos If you've been trying to become more disciplined, more productive, more organized, and somehow still feel like you're failing, this conversation will help you stop blaming yourself and start choosing your life on purpose. You're not behind.You're just ready to choose differently. Xoxo, Dr. Lisa Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the podcast: Shopify —  Every self-made person started somewhere. Yours starts free at shopify.com/lhs Quince — Quality products you'll actually use that feel like luxury without the price tag. Get free shipping and 365-day returns at ⁠quince.com/lhs⁠

Have you ever started a homeschool day with a good plan, only to realize that the day you planned for is not the day you actually have? Maybe someone slept badly. Maybe the children are unusually restless. Maybe your own energy is low, or an unexpected problem has pulled the day off course. Other times, the lessons are simply creating more conflict than learning. In this episode, I'm sharing something a seasoned homeschool mother told me when my children were five and under and I was still trying to understand how homeschooling could work inside a busy home with several little ones. Her answer surprised me because it was not about becoming stricter, pushing harder, or forcing the original plan to work no matter what. It helped me see that a wise homeschool plan can leave room for hard days. We'll talk about how to recognize when the original plan no longer fits the day you actually have, and how a few simple backup choices can help you lower the pressure without feeling like you are giving up on school. And I want to be clear: this is not an excuse to quit every time a lesson gets hard. Sometimes children need help staying with difficult work, and sometimes attitudes need to be addressed. But one hard day does not mean your homeschool is failing. If your homeschool day has fallen apart and you are not sure whether to keep pushing or change course, this episode will help you think more wisely about what your family actually needs next. Scripture referenced: Proverbs 16:9, ESV: “The heart of man plans his way, but the Lord establishes his steps.” This verse does not tell us to stop planning. A plan can help us remember what matters and use our time well. But the plan is a tool for serving the family, and it can be adjusted when the people, time, attention, or circumstances change. Mentioned in this episode: Movie Schooling — a prepared resource for using wholesome movies for meaningful learning, conversation, and family connection without creating another lesson from the beginning. XOXO, Katie

Drew is joined by freelance writer, Vulture recapper, and Bravo connoisseur Tom Smyth to discuss Next Gen NYC Season 2, Episode 3. The girls sip on some Cha Cha Matcha and dish about Georgia's star quality, old gay Brooks, Liam's Patrick Bateman-esque vibe, the bountiful delights of old women snobbery, and crowning the ascendant queen that is Rowan Henchy. XOXO, Girls Room.Follow Girls Room on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Follow Drew on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Follow Julia on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

In the series finale of The Weight of the Chair, Tanya Engesether casts a clear, specific, and deeply honest picture of what changes when a leader has done the inner work — the honest, countercultural, body-and-soul-and-spirit work of tending to herself that this series has been describing. Not theory. Not aspiration. What actually becomes different. The presence that comes when the nervous system is no longer running a continuous background threat assessment. The ability to receive feedback without it becoming a verdict on personhood. The limits set with honesty rather than apology. The groundedness that stays when the emotional temperature in the room rises. The leading from overflow rather than from the bottom of the tank. And beyond the leadership — what changes in the relationship with the team, with the self, and with God. The faith that becomes sturdy rather than performed. The quality of prayer that shifts when the whole self shows up rather than the managed version. The peace that guards rather than the peace that depends on outcomes. This is not a destination. It is a direction. And Tanya names that honestly too — because the work is ongoing, the returning is ongoing, and what changes is not that the hard things stop. What changes is the baseline you come back to between them. Key Takeaway The work does not produce a life without difficulty. It produces a different quality of life within it. A different baseline to return to between the hard things. More presence, more honesty, more groundedness, more genuine usefulness to the people you lead and the God you serve. That is what is available on the other side. And it is worth every difficult step of getting there. I hope this episode blesses you! Xoxo, Tanya Episode Resources: Episode Catalog   My trusted Supplement Dispensary: Aligned Vitality Fullscript Dispensary My trusted Telehealth Peptide Provider:  EllieMD_Tanya Engesether *I do get a small commission when you use one of the above affiliate links. 3 Ways To Connect With Me: 1️⃣COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Book a FREE discovery call with me to find out more about functional health coaching. It's the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/coaching   2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/community   3️⃣ CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/contact   "Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they're meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"    If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don't forget to follow the show so you don't miss any episodes! And, if you're feeling really generous, I'd be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.   Click here to view our privacy policy.   Reminder:  The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent disease.  It is for educational purposes only. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

Your partner heard something you never said. That's why the conversation went sideways. That's why you're suddenly defending yourself.That's why they're hurt.That's why you're both thinking, “How did we get here again?” If you're struggling with a lack of communication in a relationship, this episode is for you. Because the problem may not be that you're bad at communicating. It may be that you and your partner are speaking completely different emotional languages. In this episode, I'm talking with psychotherapist Jason VanRuler, author of Discovering Your Communication Type, about why the same words can land beautifully for one person and completely miss another. We'll unpack the five communication types, why good intentions still create painful disconnection, and how to speak in a way your partner can actually receive. You'll learn: Why your partner hears something totally different than what you meant How the same words can comfort one person and trigger another The five communication types that shape every hard conversation Why “men can't communicate” is a lazy, damaging myth How to stop blaming each other and start translating each other What to say after a fight when you actually want to repair You don't have to keep having the same argument forever. You may just need to learn how your partner listens. Xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the podcast: Shopify —  Every self-made person started somewhere. Yours starts free at shopify.com/lhs Quince — Quality products you'll actually use that feel like luxury without the price tag. Get free shipping and 365-day returns at ⁠quince.com/lhs⁠

EP:200 Is intimacy in your relationship feeling more like another item on your to-do list than a meaningful connection? Hi friends, This week, we're talking about something that so many couples experience—but very few people are willing to say out loud. Over the years, I've noticed a common pattern with the parents and couples I work with: they're disconnected from intimacy. Sex starts to feel like an obligation instead of a place where both partners feel seen, safe, connected, and alive. And here's what I want you to know... That isn't how intimacy is supposed to feel. True intimacy isn't about checking a box or meeting someone else's expectations. It's about emotional safety, nervous system regulation, trust, vulnerability, and mutual pleasure. It's about creating a space where both people feel valued—not where one person silently sacrifices their own needs. If you've ever...

Wired and tired? I've been there too, and I know first hand… this is not sustainable. Help is here. If you're searching for nervous system regulation strategies because your body feels like it's waving a white flag — the insomnia, the tension, the stomach issues, the collapse at night — this episode is a must listen.  Join me for this conversation with somatic expert Liz Tenuto, known as The Workout Witch, about why chronic stress gets stored in the body, why your doctor can say “everything looks normal” when you feel anything but, and how somatic healing can help you come back to yourself. You'll learn: Why your body won't switch off at night How functional freeze makes you look fine while you're shutting down The body signs of stored stress: jaw, shoulders, gut, sleep, pain Why somatic healing can help when thinking harder doesn't A one-minute reset you can try right now If your body has been begging you to listen, this episode is where we start. Xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the podcast: Shopify —  Every self-made person started somewhere. Yours starts free at shopify.com/lhs Quince — Quality products you'll actually use that feel like luxury without the price tag. Get free shipping and 365-day returns at ⁠quince.com/lhs⁠

Sorry this is out so late! We've had days worth of technical difficulties with our hosting server that have finally been resolved. We appreciate your patience and will make it up to you with some bonus eps this month.Julia and Drew are back in the studio to discuss Next Gen NYC Season 2, Episode 2. The girls sip on some Cha Cha Matcha and dish about Ava and Gia's incomprehensible fight, Omar's terrifying den of sin/office, Confessions II, Taylor Swift's MSG wedding, and Ariana's allure. XOXO, Girls Room.Time Stamps:TKFollow Girls Room on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Follow Drew on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Follow Julia on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Have you ever looked around your house and thought, “I want this home to feel peaceful. I want it to feel like rest and joy. But right now, it just feels like work”? The table is filled with schoolbooks. The sink has dishes. Shoes are scattered near the door. Someone needs help. Someone is hungry. The house has been used all day for learning, meals, play, work, and care. In this episode, I'm talking about what to do when the whole house seems to need attention, but you do not have the time or capacity to clean everything. I share a simple question that helps me narrow my attention: What small space needs to be usable again before we can move forward? If dinner is next, you may not need to clean the whole kitchen. You may only need to wash the pan you plan to use and clear enough counter space to prepare the meal. Before lunch, you may only need to move the books and clear enough of the table for everyone to sit down. Before an appointment, you may need to move the bags and shoes blocking the doorway—not finish the entire room. I also share something an occupational therapist told me when my children were small and I felt embarrassed about the toys and lived-in mess in our home. Her words helped me remember that a home being used for learning, growing, eating, resting, making mistakes, and trying again will look used. And I want to be clear: sometimes the best choice is not to clean at all. If a child needs comfort, correction, encouragement, or help calming down, that person may need your attention more than the dishes do. The goal is not to make the whole house look perfect. The goal is to notice the one obstacle making the next part of family life harder, make that small space usable, and then stop. I also share how Movie Schooling can fit naturally into a day when both the house and the homeschool need a simpler plan. It gives you a prepared way to use a wholesome movie for learning and conversation without creating another lesson from the beginning. If your house feels like work instead of a place of rest and joy, this episode will help you narrow your attention to what would help your family next—without feeling responsible for the entire house at one time. Scripture referenced: Proverbs 14:1, ESV: “The wisest of women builds her house, but folly with her own hands tears it down.” This verse is not saying that a messy room means a weary mother is tearing down her home. Building a home also includes the way we speak, respond to one another, and decide what matters most. A tidy room is not worth becoming harsh with the people in it. Mentioned in this episode: Movie Schooling — a simple guide for families who want to use wholesome movies for meaningful learning, conversation, and connection without creating another lesson from the beginning. This episode is supported by: CTC Math — comprehensive video lessons and flexible, self-paced math learning for busy homeschool families. XOXO, Katie

In Episode 4 of The Weight of the Chair series, Tanya shares the real story of the season she almost quit leadership — not as a distant, safely processed memory, but as a wound that cost real things and changed real aspects of how she leads. She describes leading her team through one of the hardest seasons any leader has navigated in recent history — implementing decisions that caused pain, being the face of circumstances nobody chose, and experiencing in the aftermath what may be one of the most specific wounds a deeply invested leader can receive: having decades of relationship and demonstrated care weighed against a hard season — and found somehow insufficient. She names the anger she did not know she was allowed to have. The identity rupture that came when the people she had invested in most directed their pain at her. The people-pleasing thread underneath it all — the way her sense of self as a leader had become more dependent on their assessment than she realized. And the honest admission that the thought of quitting has been more present since that season than before. And then she names what God has done in the meantime. The identity work that has been the most stabilizing work of her leadership life. And the specific scriptures that have held her. This episode is for every leader who has been wounded. Who is still showing up. Who has wondered more than once whether it is worth it. It is. And she is going to tell you why. In This Episode You'll Learn: What the specific wound of having your character discounted in a hard season actually feels like How trauma and grief responses in teams get directed at leadership — and why it is not always a just verdict The people-pleasing thread in leadership identity — and why deeply relational leaders are most vulnerable to this specific wound Why unacknowledged anger in leaders does not disappear — it goes somewhere else The cultural shift toward self-orientation and what it means for servant leaders What God has done with the scar— and what it has produced What 2 Corinthians 4:8-9, Galatians 1:10, and Psalm 18:2 offer the leader who has been struck down What Tanya wants to say directly to the leader who recognizes herself in this story Why staying is not failure — staying is leadership Scripture Referenced 2 Corinthians 4:8-9 — "We are hard pressed on every side, but not crushed." Galatians 1:10 — "Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God?" Psalm 18:2 — "The Lord is my rock, my fortress and my deliverer." Key Takeaway What they said about you in their hardest moment is not the full truth about who you are. The investment was not wasted even when it felt unreceived. And the identity work — building your sense of self on something that human assessment cannot reach — is the most important work available to you right now. I hope this episode blesses you! Xoxo, Tanya Episode Resources: Episode Catalog   My trusted Supplement Dispensary: Aligned Vitality Fullscript Dispensary My trusted Telehealth Peptide Provider:  EllieMD_Tanya Engesether *I do get a small commission when you use one of the above affiliate links. 3 Ways To Connect With Me: 1️⃣COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Book a FREE discovery call with me to find out more about functional health coaching. It's the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/coaching   2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/community   3️⃣ CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/contact   "Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they're meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"    If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don't forget to follow the show so you don't miss any episodes! And, if you're feeling really generous, I'd be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.   Click here to view our privacy policy.   Reminder:  The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent disease.  It is for educational purposes only. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

You don't need to have it all figured out to move forward-- just a willingness to let go and trust God with what's next. In this episode of Start Living Sustainable, Cynthia reflects on Paul's words in Philippians 3:12–14 and why letting go of the past is the way toward living with purpose. Whether you're deep in your faith or simply open to the wisdom in it, this conversation invites every woman to honor the freedom we share as a nation while embracing the personal freedom found in releasing yesterday.

You're the tiger pacing the cage… but the door has been open the whole time. If you want to know how to gain confidence for real — not perform it, fake it, or force it — this conversation will show you where to start. Because the truth is, you can look wildly successful and still feel trapped inside your own head. In this episode, I'm talking with Sara Anderson about why confidence doesn't magically appear when you achieve enough — and why the higher you climb, the louder your self-doubt can get if you don't address it from the inside out.  Because here's the part nobody tells high achievers: You cannot think your way into confidence while your body is screaming danger. Real confidence is built from the inside out. Listen to learn: Why achievement can make your self-doubt worse, not better Why your mind goes blank when the stakes are high How your body betrays your confidence before you say a word Why affirmations don't work when your nervous system is in panic mode How to stop freezing, spiraling, and over-explaining under pressure The 10-second grounding tool that helps bring your brain back online How to stop performing confidence and finally start trusting yourself Why the cage door is already open — and how to walk through it If you're tired of pacing the same old cage, this episode is your open door. Xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors: Shopify —  Every self-made person started somewhere. Yours starts free at shopify.com/lhs Quince — Quality products you'll actually use that feel like luxury without the price tag. Get free shipping and 365-day returns at ⁠quince.com/lhs⁠.

EP:199 Hi friends, I want to remind you of something that so many parents need to hear: Self-love doesn't magically appear. It's something you create through the choices you make every single day. You build self-love by putting yourself on your own priority list. By saying no without guilt. By asking for help when you need it. By protecting moments of peace. By listening to what your body and nervous system are asking for instead of constantly pushing through. That's what allows you to thrive—even when life feels messy, overwhelming, and completely chaotic. One of the biggest misconceptions I see is that choosing yourself somehow makes you selfish. It doesn't. Choosing yourself doesn't make you a bad parent, a bad partner, or a weaker person. It makes you someone who is courageous enough to protect your mental health, honor your limits, and recognize that you can't pour from an empty cup. The truth is, life isn't going to become less chaotic. Parenting will always bring challenges, unexpected moments, and seasons that stretch you. But there is another way. You don't have to live in survival mode. You don't have to wait until you're completely burned out before taking care of yourself. You can learn to regulate your nervous system, create healthy boundaries, and prioritize your well-being—even during life's hardest seasons. That's exactly what we're talking about in this week's episode of Thrive Like a Parent. If you've been feeling overwhelmed, emotionally drained, disconnected from yourself, or like you're constantly taking care of everyone except you, I hope this conversation reminds you that you deserve the same love, compassion, and care that you so freely give to everyone else. Because when you take care of yourself, you're not just changing your life—you're changing the way your children experience theirs.

Feeling down when, at least on the surface, nothing is horrible? It's easy to blame yourself, and think “what's wrong with me that I can't just be happy?”  Here's a new idea. Maybe that feeling is not wrong at all.  Maybe it's a signal from your emotional guidance system that it's time to evolve.  The boredom. The restlessness. The exhaustion. The quiet little voice whispering, “I cannot keep doing this.” You can numb it.You can explain it away.You can call it anxiety, burnout, depression, hormones, laziness, or “just a rough patch.” But what if it's none of that? What if the real problem is that your life doesn't fit anymore?  In this episode, I'm talking about how to change your life when you feel stuck, especially when nothing is technically “wrong,” but everything inside you is screaming. Because that feeling you keep trying to get rid of? It may be the most important message you've gotten in years. Today, I'm going to help you stop ignoring it, stop shaming yourself for it, and start reading it for what it is: your emotional guidance system telling you it's time for a new chapter. You'll learn: Why feeling miserable doesn't always mean something has gone wrong How to tell the difference between a bad mood and a life that no longer fits Why boredom, dread, and restlessness can be signs of personal growth The journaling questions that reveal what you actually want Why insight alone won't change your life How to find the clarity, courage, and allies you need to move forward You don't have to blow up your life today. But you do need to stop betraying yourself by pretending you don't hear the alarm. Xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts.

Have you ever looked at your child and thought, “This kiddo is really smart, but this worksheet is wearing us both out”? Maybe summer is here. Maybe everyone is tired of regular lessons. Or maybe your child understands much more when they can build, move, measure, draw, cook, talk, explore, or help with something real. In this episode, I'm talking about what to do when the usual lesson is not working and more effort is not the answer. Sometimes the better question is: What is one other way my child could learn this today? Learning is not only what a child writes down. We can also see learning in what a child understood, practiced, remembered, explained, created, or became able to do. I share one of my favorite examples from our homeschool: the time my teenage boys were invited to help a trusted neighbor in his woodshop while he renovated his kitchen. They helped mix and pour concrete, watched cabinets and counters being built, practiced measuring, learned about tools and safety, and saw what happens when a real project does not fit correctly the first time. They were not only reading about measurement, materials, home repair, patience, or problem-solving. They were standing beside someone doing meaningful work and learning why careful attention mattered to the finished result. Of course, tools and equipment must be age-appropriate and supervised by a trustworthy adult. But real work with real people can help a child understand ideas that may be difficult to grasp through a worksheet alone. We also talk about lighter ways to keep learning going through stories, audiobooks, biographies, wholesome movies, cooking, building, painting, gardening, drawing maps, making models, caring for animals, helping with household work, and other useful tasks. The activity does not need to be elaborate. A child can practice fractions while doubling a recipe, read while following directions, use measurement during a project, and learn planning or attention to detail when the finished result has a real purpose. And every child does not have to participate in the same way. A younger child may listen, choose between two materials, hand you items, or watch one step before helping with another. A child with a disability may participate through words, signs, gestures, pictures, body language, or eye gaze. The goal is not to make every child complete the activity in the same way. It is to help each child take part in a way that fits their age, ability, communication, and needs. I also share simple ways to document real-life learning without interrupting the experience or turning every enjoyable moment into a school assignment. You might write one sentence afterward, record a quick audio note, save a short video, or ask your child to show or tell you one thing they noticed. If your child needs a different way to learn today, you do not necessarily need to design an entirely new homeschool plan. Sometimes you simply need a different way for this lesson or this day. You are not failing when your child needs something different. You can stay flexible, notice the meaningful learning that is actually happening, and choose a way forward that fits the child and family God has given you. Mentioned in this episode: Road Trip Mysteries — USA Edition — a story-driven activity adventure book created by Katie and her son, filled with puzzles, mystery, geography, and landmarks across America. This episode is supported by: CTC Math — a convenient online math option for busy homeschool families. XOXO, Katie

There is a specific kind of weight that no leadership book prepares you for. Not the weight of hard decisions, though those are real. Not the weight of difficult people, though those exist too. The weight of what you cannot say. The personnel decision in process. The organizational uncertainty not yet public. The confidence placed in you by someone who trusted you with something significant. Your own private fear that you might not be enough for the role — the one you cannot voice to the people who are counting on you to be certain. In Episode 3 of The Weight of the Chair series, Tanya Engesether names this specific, rarely discussed territory of leadership — the experience of carrying things that have no appropriate outlet — and brings both clinical honesty and deep theological comfort to bear on it. She walks through what emotional suppression actually does to the body — drawing from the research of psychologist James Pennebaker on expressive writing and physiological health — and names the predictable consequences when the weight accumulates without release: emotional numbing, displaced emotion, physical symptoms, and compassion fatigue. She then offers something both clinically grounded and spiritually profound: the specific practices that allow a leader to tend to the weight she is carrying within the appropriate limits of her role.  This episode will not take the weight away. But it will help you carry it better. In This Episode You'll Learn: The four specific categories of things leaders carry that cannot be shared — and what makes each one uniquely difficult The physiological cost of emotional suppression — what the research shows about holding things without outlet What happens to a leader's body and leadership when the weight accumulates too long without release The theological reality of being fully known by God — and why it is more than spiritual comfort What Psalm 139 and Psalm 62:8 offer the leader who cannot tell anyone The difference between honorable carrying and carrying that has become costly Five specific, legitimate, boundaried outlets for processing what cannot be shared broadly The practice of full-weight, unedited prayer — and why specificity matters James Pennebaker's research on expressive writing and physiological health When to know that the weight has exceeded what solo carrying can hold — and why asking for help is a leadership strength Scripture Referenced Psalm 139:1-4 — "You have searched me, Lord, and you know me... Before a word is on my tongue you know it completely." Psalm 62:8 — "Pour out your hearts to him, for God is our refuge." Matthew 11:28 — "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest." Key Takeaway The weight of what you cannot tell anyone is real — and it has a physiological cost when it has nowhere to go. Being fully known by God is not just spiritual comfort. It is the most complete outlet available to a leader — the one place where nothing needs to be held back, the weight can be fully set down, and the confidentiality is eternally safe. I hope this episode blesses you! Xoxo, Tanya Episode Resources: Episode Catalog   My trusted Supplement Dispensary: Aligned Vitality Fullscript Dispensary My trusted Telehealth Peptide Provider:  EllieMD_Tanya Engesether *I do get a small commission when you use one of the above affiliate links. 3 Ways To Connect With Me: 1️⃣COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Book a FREE discovery call with me to find out more about functional health coaching. It's the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/coaching   2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/community   3️⃣ CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/contact   "Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they're meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"    If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don't forget to follow the show so you don't miss any episodes! And, if you're feeling really generous, I'd be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.   Click here to view our privacy policy.   Reminder:  The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent disease.  It is for educational purposes only. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

The biggest obstacle to change usually isn't a lack of information—it's the comfort of familiarity. We know getting good sleep matters. We know stress affects our health. We know our environments influence how we feel. So why do we keep returning to habits, routines, and patterns that no longer support the lives we're trying to build? In this episode, we explore the connection between thoughts, emotions, habits, and behavior change through the lens of faith and neuroscience. Discover why your brain prefers familiar over better, how renewing your mind influences healthier choices, and why lasting change begins with awareness—not perfection.

There is a silent mind game stealing your peace — and you've been trained to play it every day.  If you can't stop comparing yourself to others, this episode may hit a nerve. That sick little feeling of “Why am I not enough?” It isn't something another promotion, relationship, body, bank account, or achievement is going to fix. I'm sitting down with Harvard psychologist Dr. Ron Siegel to reveal the brutal truth: your brain is wired to rank you. And the comparison game is designed so you never actually win. This conversation will help you understand why success never satisfies for long, why self-esteem can become a trap, and how radical self-acceptance can finally get you off the emotional rollercoaster. You'll learn: Why comparing yourself to others feels impossible to stop The ancient brain wiring behind “not good enough” Why every achievement high wears off so fast How social media and culture weaponize comparison Why “just build your self-esteem” can backfire The shift from impressing people to actually connecting How to begin feeling free without becoming someone else This is for anyone who's tired of measuring their worth against everyone else's highlight reel. You don't have to win the comparison game to feel okay. You can step out of it — and come back to yourself. Xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the podcast Upwork — When you need specialized talent fast, Upwork gives you access to vetted professionals across 125+ categories, from marketing to web development to operations support. No long recruiting cycles. No guesswork. Just the right person, when you need them. Check it out at upwork.com — posting a job is free. Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts. OSEA — Amazing, clean, science-backed skincare made with the power of the sea. Use code LHS at oseamalibu.com for 10% off your first order. LNutra Prolon — A science-backed, plant-based nutrition program that supports fat loss, metabolism, cellular rejuvenation, and overall longevity. Head to ProlonLife.com/LHS for 15% off your first order + a bonus gift.

Julia and Drew are back in the studio to discuss the stellar premiere of Next Gen NYC S2. The girls sip on some Cha Cha Matcha and dish about Ava clocking into work, Charlie's downhill slide into lymphatic congestion, RIP Adored Angels, dill eau de vie, and waving it in the general direction of Florida. XOXO, Girls Room.Time Stamps:00:00 - 5:08 - West Wilson's Whiteboard Wipeout5:08 - 12:05 - Widow's Bay (no spoilers) and Summer TV12:05 - 29:11 - Julia Reinvents the English Language29:11 - end - Next Gen NYC S2E1 DiscussionFollow Girls Room on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Follow Drew on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Follow Julia on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

EP:198 Hi friends, You've probably heard the phrase, "Put on your own oxygen mask first," more times than you can count. But here's the question I want to ask you... Are you actually doing it? Because knowing the phrase and living it are two very different things. So many parents I work with have quietly placed themselves at the very bottom of their priority list. You spend every ounce of your energy taking care of your children, your partner, your career, your home, and everyone else around you... until there's nothing left for you. If any of this sounds familiar, this episode is for you:

I'm going to say it- this is my best episode yet and you need to listen to it. Because it is going to unlock so much freedoms for you to be yourself and heal a shit ton in one sitting. Hello!!! We are talking about the DOORWAY that cringe is, how to alchemize fear into creativity, and how letting yourself be MEDIOCRE will literally make you GREAT.There's no need to fear your craziest dreams. They were given to you for a reason. You're here for a reason, you're in exactly the right place.WORK WITH ME: my books for intuitive coaching are open. Inquire via email at Jenaocean@gmail.com or check out “booking” on joyplay.orgI love your comments and emails! Keep em coming. Xoxo

If you've ever said “I'm fine,” watched your partner believe you, and then felt even more hurt than before, this episode is for you. Because that tiny moment, the one where you want them to know you're not okay without having to spell it out, is where so many couples quietly lose each other. In this episode, I'm talking with therapist and workplace wellbeing expert Nidhi Tewari about attunement, the relationship skill that helps people feel seen, understood, and emotionally safe. We'll unpack why loving partners still miss each other's cues, why fixing, reassuring, or changing the subject can accidentally make someone feel more alone, and how to become an “explorer,” someone who asks instead of assumes. You'll learn how to emotionally connect with your partner in a way that actually lands: how to calm yourself before a hard conversation, what to say when your partner is hurting, how to ask for what you need out loud, and how to share what hurts without starting a fight. In this episode: 04:00: The skill that can quietly make every relationship better 09:44: Why emotional connection is something you can learn 21:55: Why you can't connect until you calm yourself first 32:12: Fixer, Avoider, Connector, or Explorer: which one are you? 38:24: What to say so your partner finally feels seen 46:36: Why “I'm fine” backfires, and how to ask for what you need 52:45: How to tell your partner what hurts without starting a fight If you've been stuck in that lonely loop of hoping your partner will just know, then feeling disappointed when they don't, this episode will help you do something different. The first skill that brings couples back together is one you can start practicing tonight. Press play, and let's begin. Xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the podcast Upwork — When you need specialized talent fast, Upwork gives you access to vetted professionals across 125+ categories, from marketing to web development to operations support. No long recruiting cycles. No guesswork. Just the right person, when you need them. Check it out at upwork.com — posting a job is free. Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts. OSEA — Amazing, clean, science-backed skincare made with the power of the sea. Use code LHS at oseamalibu.com for 10% off your first order. LNutra Prolon — A science-backed, plant-based nutrition program that supports fat loss, metabolism, cellular rejuvenation, and overall longevity. Head to ProlonLife.com/LHS for 15% off your first order + a bonus gift.

Have you ever looked at a day full of real needs and thought, “How am I supposed to decide what comes first when all of it matters?” A child needs comfort. A medical form has a deadline. Dinner needs to be made. Lessons are unfinished. You are exhausted—and none of those needs are imaginary. But one mom cannot do every important thing at the same time. In this episode, I'm sharing a quote attributed to Elisabeth Elliot that has been pinned above my desk for about ten years. It became especially meaningful during a season when I was homeschooling, caring for children with additional needs, completing an intensive neurodevelopmental program, and staying up late to write reports that sometimes stretched beyond 60 pages. That quote helped me stop fighting the work that was truly mine to do. But it did not tell me that every important task belonged to me or that everything had to be finished that night. I also share three questions I use when the work feels endless: What really needs care today? What part of this is actually mine to carry? What can I actually do next? We'll talk about considering health, safety, deadlines, relationships, and your actual capacity. We'll also talk about accepting help, simplifying what can be simplified, and letting some work wait without believing that means you do not care. And I want to be clear: doing difficult work “gladly” does not mean enjoying suffering, hiding grief, refusing help, acting cheerful when you are hurting, or treating exhaustion as holiness. It means bringing the truth to God, asking Him for wisdom, and offering the work that is truly yours to Him. If you are overwhelmed by constant needs and unfinished work, this episode will help you slow down, ask God for wisdom, and identify the next faithful thing you can do with the time, strength, and help available. Scripture referenced: James 1:5, ESV If you are hearing this episode before July 4, 2026, I would be deeply grateful if you would pray for our family as we seek in-home care for my son. Please also pray for other caregiving families whose constant, complicated, and often unseen work may not be understood by the people around them. Mentioned in this episode: CTC Math — an online math program our family uses for flexible, self-paced learning. XOXO, Katie Road Trip Mysteries: USA Edition — a screen-free, story-driven activity adventure book for kids ages 8–12, filled with puzzles, clues, history, geography, and mystery.https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0CGL7T6LH Movie Schooling — a resource for families who enjoy using movies as part of meaningful learning, discussion, and connection.https://www.amazon.com/Movie-Schooling-Curriculum-Style-Education-Organized-Activities/dp/B0FHZR72T1  

Every leader feels it. The 3am spiral. The Sunday night dread. The tight chest before a hard conversation. The mind that never fully stops — replaying, rehearsing, anticipating, calculating — even when you have physically left the building. That anxiety is not a sign that something is wrong with you. In Episode 2 of The Weight of the Chair series, certified Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner and Christian Life Coach Tanya Engesether takes an honest, clinical, and deeply personal look at the specific anxiety that accompanies leadership — what makes it different from ordinary anxiety, what is actually happening in the nervous system when it shows up, and why it makes complete physiological and emotional sense. Drawing from neuroscience, functional health, and a faith-rooted perspective, Tanya walks through the role of the amygdala, the HPA axis, and the prefrontal cortex in the leadership anxiety experience — and names the specific ways chronic stress in a leadership role leaves its mark on the body. She also addresses the people-pleasing thread that amplifies leadership anxiety for many women, and offers Philippians 4:6-7 not as a platitude but as a genuine neurological and spiritual practice. And then she gets personal — sharing her own toolkit for the moments when the anxiety gets loud. If you have ever wondered why the anxiety of leadership feels different from anything you prepared for — this episode will give you language, clinical understanding, and practical tools for working with it rather than pushing through it. In This Episode You'll Learn: What makes leadership anxiety distinct from ordinary anxiety The four specific dimensions of leadership anxiety most leaders never have language for What the amygdala, the HPA axis, and the prefrontal cortex are doing during high-stakes leadership moments Why your body cannot distinguish between physical threat and psychological threat — and what that means for leaders Why the prefrontal cortex gets suppressed exactly when you need it most — and what to do about it The somatic signature of anxiety — why it lives in the body and cannot be thought away How people-pleasing patterns amplify leadership anxiety — and what that means Philippians 4:6-7 as a clinical and spiritual practice — not a platitude The physiological sigh — the fastest known way to activate the parasympathetic nervous system Tanya's personal toolkit for leadership anxiety — specific, practical, honest When anxiety is information rather than just noise — and how to tell the difference Scripture Referenced Philippians 4:6-7 — "Do not be anxious about anything, but in every situation, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God." 1 Peter 5:7 — "Cast all your anxiety on him because he cares for you." Key Takeaway The anxiety that comes with the seat is not evidence of inadequacy. It is the natural, predictable, neurologically inevitable response to carrying genuine responsibility for outcomes and people that matter. Understanding what your nervous system is doing — and having real tools to work with it — changes not just how you feel in the role, but who you are in the role. I hope this episode blesses you! Xoxo, Tanya Episode Resources: Episode Catalog   My trusted Supplement Dispensary: Aligned Vitality Fullscript Dispensary My trusted Telehealth Peptide Provider:  EllieMD_Tanya Engesether *I do get a small commission when you use one of the above affiliate links. 3 Ways To Connect With Me: 1️⃣COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Find out more about functional health or Christian Life coaching. It's the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/coaching   2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/community   3️⃣ CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/contact   "Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they're meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"    If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don't forget to follow the show so you don't miss any episodes! And, if you're feeling really generous, I'd be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.   Click here to view our privacy policy.   Reminder:  The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent disease.  It is for educational purposes only. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

A few days after Father's Day, I'm reflecting on a childhood memory, the feeling of safety I experienced with my dad, and how it shaped my understanding of my Heavenly Father's love. Whether your memories of your father bring gratitude, grief, healing, or hope, this episode explores the impact fathers and father figures can have on our lives, the longing we all have to feel loved and supported, and how faith can provide comfort, peace, and reassurance through every season. Join me for a heartfelt conversation about Father's Day reflections, the safety of a father's love, childhood memories, healing, faith, family relationships, and discovering the love of our Heavenly Father more deeply.

Bu bölümde ADHD'nin ne olduğunu, beynin ödül sistemi ve dopaminle ilişkisini, yeme davranışlarımızı nasıl etkileyebildiğini konuşuyoruz.Ayrıca ADHD ve yeme bozuklukları bir aradaysa neden kişinin kendini yıllarca “iradesiz”, “düzensiz” ya da “başarısız” zannedebildiğini ve iyileşme sürecinde nelerin yardımcı olabileceğini ele alıyoruz.Eğer siz de yıllardır kendinizle ilgili bazı şeyleri anlamlandıramıyor, yemekle ilişkinizde tekrar eden döngüler yaşıyor ya da ADHD tanınızın yeme davranışlarınızı nasıl etkilediğini merak ediyorsanız, bu bölüm tam size göre. Xoxo, İrem

Uncertainty can make you anxious, controlling, and completely exhausted, but staying steady is a skill you can build. Here's the real reason you can't seem to figure out how to deal with uncertainty: you've been taught that calm is a personality trait. Something you either have or you don't. It's not. The people who stay grounded when life blows up the plan didn't win some genetic lottery. They've built a skill. And by the end of this episode, you'll know how to start building it too. Today, I'm talking with executive coach Liz Tran about the agility quotient, the trainable intelligence that helps you stay steady when everything is changing. If the constant churn at work, in your relationships, and in the world has you anxious, overthinking, bracing, or trying to control every possible outcome, this conversation is for you. You'll learn how to build mental toughness from the inside out, how to get out of your comfort zone on purpose, and how to start changing your life even when the future feels uncertain, without pretending you've got it all figured out. In this episode: 04:20: The skill no one taught you, but everyone needs now 08:09: The “third intelligence” that matters when plans fall apart 18:27: The one-question reframe that flips dread into fuel 19:24: Four quiet habits steady people rely on under pressure 29:24: Which “change type” are you? 52:16: Why Googling and doom-scrolling make uncertainty worse 53:11: The boat metaphor that can change your next bad day 1:04:27: What helps kids become resilient instead of brittle If you're tired of living inside the spiral, needing control, asking “why is this happening to me,” and avoiding anything uncomfortable, I really want you to hear this one. Because uncertainty isn't going away. But you can become someone who knows how to meet it. Xoxo, Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby Growing Self Special thanks to this month's sponsors of the podcast Upwork — When you need specialized talent fast, Upwork gives you access to vetted professionals across 125+ categories, from marketing to web development to operations support. No long recruiting cycles. No guesswork. Just the right person, when you need them. Check it out at upwork.com — posting a job is free. Shopify — The all-in-one platform for building and growing your online business. Visit shopify.com/lhs to explore their tools and access exclusive listener discounts. OSEA — Amazing, clean, science-backed skincare made with the power of the sea. Use code LHS at oseamalibu.com for 10% off your first order. LNutra Prolon — A science-backed, plant-based nutrition program that supports fat loss, metabolism, cellular rejuvenation, and overall longevity. Head to ProlonLife.com/LHS for 15% off your first order + a bonus gift.

Julia and Drew are back in the studio to discuss the reunion post-mortem episode of Summer House Season 10. The girls crack open one final Loverboy and dish about Amanda being in a place of Backrooms, West's firing, "Aunt Gladys d*ck," where they are relative to their creams and ointments these days, and Lindsay's bravura performance. XOXO, Girls Room.Join us for our next journey covering Next Gen NYC S2 starting this week!Follow Girls Room on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Follow Drew on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Follow Julia on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

Hi friends, If you've ever experienced the dreaded public meltdown in the grocery store, at a restaurant, or in the middle of a crowded event, this episode is for you. As parents, it's easy to feel embarrassed, frustrated, or even judged when our child has a tantrum in public. But I want you to know something important: every child has meltdowns. It does not mean you're failing as a parent. It does not mean you're doing something wrong. It simply means your child is struggling with something bigger than they can manage in that moment. In this week's episode of Thrive Like a Parent, I'm diving into what is actually happening inside your child's nervous system during a public meltdown and why understanding the brain-body connection can completely change the way you respond. We'll talk about: ✨ The difference between tantrums and nervous system overwhelm ✨ Why giving in during a meltdown often makes future meltdowns more likely ✨ How to stay regulated when your child is dysregulated ✨ Practical strategies to support your child with firm, loving boundaries ✨ Why emotional regulation is a skill that must be taught—not something children automatically "just get" The truth is, parenting requires intentional teaching, repetition, and consistency. Our children aren't born knowing how to manage big emotions—we help them learn. And while that work isn't always easy, it creates the foundation for lifelong emotional resilience. If public meltdowns leave you feeling overwhelmed, exhausted, or questioning yourself as a parent, I hope this conversation gives you both practical tools and reassurance that you're not alone.

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Nobody told you it would feel like this. You prepared for the hard decisions, the difficult conversations, the long hours. You read the books, completed the training, built the skills. You knew leadership would be challenging. What nobody told you was how lonely it would be. In the first episode of The Weight of the Chair series, Tanya Engesether opens a conversation that most leadership podcasts never have — the specific, confusing, hard-to-name loneliness that lives inside leadership. Not the loneliness of having no one around. The loneliness of being surrounded — and still somehow separate. With her signature blend of personal vulnerability, functional health insight, and faith-rooted perspective, Tanya names what leadership loneliness actually is, why it catches high-achieving women so completely off guard, what it does to the body physiologically, and what she has personally learned to do when it hits. Including a visit to one of the most underused stories in leadership content — the prophet Elijah under the juniper tree — and what God's response to his complete depletion reveals about how we are meant to be met in our hardest moments. If you have ever sat in a full room and felt completely alone — this episode was made for you. In This Episode You'll Learn: What makes leadership loneliness different from ordinary loneliness The four specific characteristics of leadership isolation that most leaders never have language for Why the authority of leadership changes relationships in ways that create genuine distance Why leadership loneliness catches high-capacity women especially off guard The story of Elijah in 1 Kings 19 — and what God's response to his depletion reveals The clinical picture — what chronic loneliness does to the HPA axis, cortisol, inflammation, immune function, and sleep Why tending to leadership loneliness is not weakness — it is healthcare Tanya's personal strategies for navigating the loneliness of leadership — specific, practical, and honest Why peer relationships are the most clinically and experientially important investment a leader can make What specific prayer looks like versus general prayer — and why it matters Scripture Referenced 1 Kings 19:4–18 — Elijah under the juniper tree 1 Kings 19:7 — "Get up and eat, for the journey is too much for you." 1 Kings 19:18 — "I reserve seven thousand in Israel." Key Takeaway The loneliness of leadership is not evidence that you are doing it wrong. It is evidence that you are carrying something real — something that deserves to be tended rather than pushed through. The God who met a depleted, lonely prophet under a tree is the same God who is with you in the weight of the chair. This Is Episode 1 of The Weight of the Chair Series   I hope this episode blesses you! Xoxo, Tanya Episode Resources: Episode Catalog   My trusted Supplement Dispensary: Aligned Vitality Fullscript Dispensary My trusted Telehealth Peptide Provider:  EllieMD_Tanya Engesether *I do get a small commission when you use one of the above affiliate links. 3 Ways To Connect With Me: 1️⃣COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Book a FREE discovery call with me to find out more about functional health or Christian life coaching. It's the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/coaching   2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/community   3️⃣ CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/contact   "Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they're meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"    If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don't forget to follow the show so you don't miss any episodes! And, if you're feeling really generous, I'd be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.   Click here to view our privacy policy.   Reminder:  The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent disease.  It is for educational purposes only. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

You've probably read Psalm 23 dozens of times, just like I have. You've heard it quoted, recited, preached, and maybe even turned to it during some of life's most difficult seasons. But did you know that six familiar verses reveal seventeen powerful insights about God's character, His promises, and what it means for us to walk with Him through life's high mountains and low valleys? In this episode, Cynthia takes a fresh look at one of the Bible's most beloved passages and uncovers a remarkable progression that may help you see Psalm 23—and your own faith journey—in a completely new light.

De titel is een referentie naar een heerlijke anekdote van een luisteraar in deze aflevering. Hyroxschoolreisjesfotografie, dat had ook de kop kunnen zijn, maar die had nog meer uitleg nodig gehad. 'We willen duur vet!', was ook een prima aanhef geweest. Van goedkoop vet krijgt Hanneke een glad gehemelte. En dat willen we niet. Doucheputbonen, willen we ook niet. Net als affirmatiekaarten voor kinderen in lunchtrommels. Stinkkaaswormen, die wil Alex wel, Anne niet. Nynke was er trouwens niet, maar geef haar eens ongelijk met deze onderwerpen. Toch hadden we een hoop lol en veel geleerd van de wetenschapsblokjesin de episode. Oordeel zelf en koop eens een pot Sandwich Spread of natto. XOXO, Anne, Hanneke, Alex ___ Sponsor: YOKUU Ben je ook benieuwd naar de schoonmaakproducten of de zeep van YOKUU, bestel nu met code ikkeniemanddie en krijg 20% korting op je eerste bestelling!See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Julia and Drew are back in the studio to discuss Part III of the Summer House Season 10 reunion. The girls crack open an ice cold Loverboy and dish about the unsatisfying ending to the scandal that rocked the nation, the future of Summer House, wine country pork chops, West's inscrutable LinkedIn photo, and where Ciara goes from here. XOXO, Girls Room.Follow Girls Room on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Follow Drew on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.Follow Julia on ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Twitter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠.

In Season 2 Episode 47 of our Montessori Babies Podcast, we talk all about supporting your baby's brain!We touched on ideas like:Brain development in infancySteps to take everyday to support their brain developmentHow to make your life simpler while supporting their brainand more!Montessori Babies Resources:

Let's take a deep dive in this week's episode of Deep Diving into Dating and discuss our recent success stories before introducing our new, limited-time Summer Lovin' special matchmaking package! Join Matchmaker Jennifer & Matchmaker Jenni in the newest podcast hosted by One on One Matchmaking & Eight at Eight Dinner Club.Our goal with Deep Diving into Dating is to share snackable stories about dating and tips on how to be a better dater!Xoxo, your matchmakers!Instagram: @atlantamatchmakerssinglesLinkTree: linktr.ee/1on1matchmakingGive us 5 stars on the Apple Podcast app - because we are amazing and you love us! We know you do! 

You've named the pattern. You've asked the identity question. Now it's time to look at what people-pleasing is actually doing in your body — specifically, recognizably, and honestly. In the final episode of The Dying to Please Series, certified Functional Diagnostic Nutrition Practitioner and Christian Life Coach, Tanya Engesether, walks through five specific signs that your nervous system has been running in chronic fawn mode for too long — and what those signs look like in your hormones, your gut, your sleep, your mood, and your sense of self. Then she gets practical. Tanya offers a grounded, grace-filled starting place for women who are ready to stop managing symptoms and start addressing what's driving them — in their bodies and in their lives. This episode is for the woman who is ready. Not perfectly ready. Not have-it-all-figured-out ready. Just ready to begin. Key Takeaway The women who heal most fully are not the ones who found the perfect supplement or the perfect protocol. They are the women who decided they were worth addressing at the root. That decision is the beginning of everything. The Dying to Please Series — Full Series Episode 281: Dying to Please — The Real Health Cost of People-Pleasing Episode 282: Who Am I? Rebuilding Your Identity Outside of People-Pleasing Episode 283: Five Signs Your Body Is Paying for Your People-Pleasing — And Where to Actually Start (this episode)   I hope this episode blesses you! Xoxo, Tanya   Episode Resources: Episode Catalog   My trusted Supplement Dispensary: Aligned Vitality Fullscript Dispensary My trusted Telehealth Peptide Provider:  EllieMD_Tanya Engesether *I do get a small commission when you use one of the above affiliate links. 3 Ways To Connect With Me: 1️⃣COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Book a FREE discovery call with me to find out more about functional health coaching. It's the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/coaching   2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/community   3️⃣ CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/contact   "Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they're meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"    If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don't forget to follow the show so you don't miss any episodes! And, if you're feeling really generous, I'd be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.   Click here to view our privacy policy.   Reminder:  The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent disease.  It is for educational purposes only. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

The Environmental Protection Agency reports that indoor air can contain significantly higher concentrations of pollutants than outdoor air. In this episode, we're exploring why that happens, what may be contributing to the air inside your home, and a few simple ways to create a healthier environment for yourself and your family.

Learn how to JournalSpeak⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.yourbreakawake.com/journalspeak⁠⁠ Lisa and I sit down for another epic conversation about the magic of this work. We named this episode "What Happens After the After Picture". As a society, we are obsessed with the before and after, the makeover... the result. But what happens when human life doesn't have a result? What happens when the human condition is a lifelong experience? This is the truth for all of us, and Lisa's observations based on her own IBS journey are incredible. Every one of you will walk away with a gem from this convo. Plus, I love talking to my friend. Plus, I can't stop swearing (sorry). Don't worry, you'll just laugh with us. XOXO n. ⁠1:1 COACHING WITH TRAINED COACHES SUPERVISED DIRECTLY BY NICOLE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠PLEASE RATE AND REVIEW THE PODCAST HERE TO HELP OTHERS FIND IT!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Producer: Lisa Eisenpresser ~~~~~ SUPPORT:

This week, the ladies are diving into some of the internet's hottest conversations. From the ongoing discourse surrounding Dr. Cheyenne Bryant to the Patrick Ta and Painted by Esther drama, no topic is off limits. They also share their thoughts on Kevin Hart's viral roast before finding themselves divided over a listener situation that sparks a bigger conversation: at 21, what's considered holding your partner down, and what's expecting too much? Grab your drink and join the party!

The hardest part of recognizing a people-pleasing pattern isn't the recognition itself. It's the quiet, unsettling question that surfaces right after: But if I stop... who am I? In Part 2 of The Dying to Please Series, Tanya Engesether goes beneath the surface of the people-pleasing pattern to the identity question at its core — because for many high-capacity women, people-pleasing isn't just something they do. It is who they are. The strong one. The reliable one. The capable one. The selfless one. And the prospect of changing that pattern doesn't feel like healing. It feels like losing themselves. In this episode, Tanya explores how people-pleasing becomes identity over time, names the specific roles many women have built their lives around, and addresses the grief that comes with letting go of a familiar story — even a painful one. She then goes to the theological root of the issue: the difference between a worth that is performed and a worth that is established by God before you ever did a single thing. This is not a ten-step plan. This is an honest, grace-filled conversation about what it means to begin rebuilding your identity on a foundation that does not shift — and what becomes possible when you do. In This Episode You'll Learn: How people-pleasing transitions from survival strategy to identity over time The specific roles high-capacity women build their lives around — and what each one is costing them Why letting go of a people-pleasing identity involves real grief — and why that grief is valid The theological foundation of worth — what God says about your value before your performance begins The difference between performing an identity and living from one What Psalm 139, Ephesians 2:10, and Galatians 5:1 say about identity and freedom What it practically looks like to begin untangling worth from usefulness Why receiving is a spiritual practice — and why people-pleasers struggle with it How identity-level work is the foundation of sustainable physical healing Scripture Referenced Psalm 139:14 — "I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made." Ephesians 2:10 — "For we are God's handiwork, created in Christ Jesus to do good works." Galatians 5:1 — "It is for freedom that Christ has set us free." Galatians 1:10 — "Am I now trying to win the approval of human beings, or of God?" Key Takeaway Your worth was established before your performance began. Rebuilding your identity outside of people-pleasing doesn't happen all at once — it happens in small, repeated, often uncomfortable moments of choosing differently. And the woman you find on the other side of that work is worth knowing. I hope this episode blesses you! Xoxo, Tanya   Book a FREE functional health discovery call HERE.   Episode Resources: Episode Catalog   My trusted Supplement Dispensary: Aligned Vitality Fullscript Dispensary My trusted Telehealth Peptide Provider:  EllieMD_Tanya Engesether *I do get a small commission when you use one of the above affiliate links. 3 Ways To Connect With Me: 1️⃣COACHING: Are you READY to Lead Well, Live Well and BE Well? Book a FREE discovery call with me to find out more about functional health coaching. It's the accountability and guidance you need to reclaim your health and happiness! ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/coaching   2️⃣ FACEBOOK: Become part of our Supportive Facebook Group. Connect, share, and learn with others navigating life and leadership ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/community   3️⃣ CONTACT: Leave me a question or comment ➡︎ https://alignedvitalityhealth.com/contact   "Yes! Finally, a podcast helping others become the thriving leaders they're meant to be outside of hustle-culture! This is an amazing resource! Thank you so much for sharing and helping us become Spirit-driven, peaceful leaders!"    If you can relate, please consider rating and reviewing my show! It helps me reach more people – just like you – to help them change their future. Don't forget to follow the show so you don't miss any episodes! And, if you're feeling really generous, I'd be SO honored if you would share this podcast with someone.   Click here to view our privacy policy.   Reminder:  The information you hear on this show is not meant to diagnose, treat, cure or prevent disease.  It is for educational purposes only. Always consult with your own health practitioner before you make any changes to your health.

Your home may look beautiful, organized—well, mostly organized—and comfortable, but is it actually supporting your health and wellbeing as much as it could? In this episode, Cynthia explores a surprising idea: a beautiful home and a healthy home are not always the same thing. You'll discover why the environment you live in every day may be influencing your peace, rest, and overall wellbeing more than you realize—and how a few intentional shifts can make a meaningful difference. If you've been looking for a practical way to support your health without another diet, workout plan, or overwhelming wellness routine, this episode offers a fresh perspective.