Anchored

Von and Charles are back in the saddle and ready to update you on what going on with them and what's next for the show! Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Connect with The Lanes: Von's Instagram: @Von__Lane Charles' Instagram: @Charles_Lane Thanks for listening and see you next episode!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

The final week of the Lanes celibacy story. In part 4 Von and Charles discuss how abstaining from sex helped them to learn each other on a deeper and more intimate level. Talking Points in this episode include: Why Sex CAN'T be the backbone of your relationship How Celibacy helps you focus on your partner What Von and Charles did to help one another grow exponentially And More...... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Thanks for listening and see you next episode!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

This week is part 3 of the Lanes celibacy story. They discuss the camaraderie needed to combat negative people that try to dictate how and what their relationship SHOULD be. Talking Points in this episode include: How engagement can show you who your friends really are Recognizing when mentors have no more to give How keeping thing between you and your partner can strengthen your bond with them And more...... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Thanks for listening and see you next episode!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

The quarantine train moves on! This week the Lanes continue their discussion about their decision to become celibate. In part 2 they talk about they're most critical step. Counseling. Talking Points in this episode include: How past family experience could effect you perception of relationships The Benefits of premarital counseling And More... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Thanks for listening and see you next episode!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

Another week of quarantine down! This episode the Lanes open up about their decision to become celibate during their engagement and the lessons God gave them as a result. GOOD and BAD. Talking Points in this episode include: Reasons why Celibacy could be a good idea How NOT to initiate the decision to stop having sex Understanding how God moves on your behalf with the smallest of intentions And More... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Thanks for listening and see you next episode!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

Another week in quarantine down! This episode Von and Charles sit down with their friend and personal mixologist Diakisha to talk about bar culture and how you can get better acquainted with it. Talking Points in this episode include: What bartenders see that most people don't think they do! How to order a drink and tip your bartender correctly What men and women do in the bar to get free drinks And more... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Connect with Darkisha: Instagram: Keesh__b Thanks for listening and see you next episode!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

Its still Carona time! However the show must go on! This episode Von and Charles talk about how they created a safe emotional space for their relationship and how it can absolutely benefit yours. Talking Points in this episode include: What a Emotional Safe Place is Steps needed to create the Safe Place The Golden Rule of relationships And More... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Thanks for listening and see you next episode!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

Its Crona time! In this episode the Lanes answer questions from their listeners about how The Rona, Cronavirus, or COVID-19 is effecting them. Charles also adopts the "lil shooter" title with an opinionated rant of his own concerning the global pandemic. Talking Points in this episode include: How the government shutdown can be beneficial to your relationship What you can do during this unprecedented time peoples selfishness and its potential consequences during a pandemic And More... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Thanks for listening and see you next episode!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

Ever wonder why you and your partner continue to go around in circles about a particular issue in your relationship? This episode Charles and Von give incite to why it happens and how you can gain traction to a resolution. How? With Charles' sure fire "rules of engagement." Also, the Lanes try out a new segment with a very opinionated Von Lane ready to live up to the "Lil Shooter" title. Talking Points in this episode include: Steps to successfully engage in conflict resolution The true meaning of why you're in a relationship Twitter and Facebook's overreaction to the Honey Pot brand's new commercial And More... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Thanks for listening and see you next episode!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

This episode the Lanes take time acknowledge their condolences for the loss of an icon in the sports world and the black community. Kobe Bryant. Also, Von, the "lil shooter," loads her clip to "blast" her opinion on the media's handling of Kobe's past allegations while Charles gripes over Twitter's ridiculousness. Talking Points in this episode include: What MSNBC's reporter Allison Morris actually said How Twitter ruins movements Media bias towards African-Americans And More... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Thanks for listening and see you next episode!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

We've all seen the memes and motivational videos on the internet. Toxic people are bad for you. But what exactly is a toxic person? How do you deal with them? More importantly, if you can't deal with them how can you remove them from your top 5 or your life. This episode is all about understanding toxicity in people and yourself and how to detox. Talking Points in this episode include: Common toxic behaviors How to deal people's toxicity How to deal with your own toxic behaviors And More... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Thanks for listening and see you next episode!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

This episode the show finally has its first interviewee Dwayne Gibson Jr MSW LSW! Not only is he a close friend of Charles', he's also certified mental health therapist and a ordained minister. They're talking about generational curses known in the clinical world as cultural conditioning. Dwayne give incite to how the family unit is being throttled and how the practice of therapy can help. Talking Points in this episode include: Understanding what Cultural conditions and how it effects you The true value of therapist and how therapy can help you How to Identify hindering conditions And More... If You want to get in touch with today's guest here's how: Soaring on Success phone #: 419-407-6689 SoaringonSuccess@gmail.com Instagram: @Dwaynegibsonjr Facebook: @Dwaynegibsonjr Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW and Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Thanks for listening and see you next episode!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

Welcome to Season 2 of Anchored and Happy New Year! Charles and Von want you to be ready to crush your 2020 goals and ambitions. This episode they want to give you the secret sauce to making it happen. Your "Why" or the anchoring reason you need to keep on track for success! Talking Points in this episode include: Understanding the concept Why and its importance Ways to find out what your Why is Using Why to get to your What and completing the Golden Circle And More... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod Thanks for listening and see you next episode!! --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

This episode The Lanes, with the help of freshlymarried.com, asked each other 23 questions from a list of 100 CONVERSATIONAL QUESTIONS TO ASK YOUR SPOUSE. The goal is to demonstrate how to "spot check" your relationship to see if you're are on the same page or if something new reveals itself. Talking Points in this episode include: Learn more about Charles & Von Demonstrating how to "spot check" a relationship to make sure its on track The first meal that Von and Charles EVER cooked A cool way to potentially find out something new about your spouse And More... If you wanna give this excersice a go with your significant other here's the website with the bank of questions: https://freshlymarried.com/100-conversational-questions-to-ask-your-spouse/ Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

This episode Charles And Von answer another listener's question: "Is a woman being submissive and sticking to old school traditional values too old fashioned and ineffective?" (Paraphrased) Talking Points in this episode include: Understanding how submission works biblically Knowing what male leadership looks like The difference between "Old School" and "New School" marriage value systems Understanding what submission DOES NOT look like And More... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

This episode Charles And Von answer a listeners question. "Why do men stay in committed relationships for 7 plus years and NEVER pop the big question?!? Please gimme some insite!" Talking Points in this episode include: Addressing insecurties Gauging Maturity Matching Value Systems Identifying Nagging And More... Don't forget to SHARE and LEAVE A REVIEW Connect with us Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Facebook: @AnchoredPodcast Twitter: @AnchoredPod --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

There is nothing worse than realizing you don't have the amount of money you thought you had. We've all been there. This episode Von and Charles have a clue to where it disappeared to.     Thanks for Listening! If you haven't already, dont forget to subscribe and leave a review of what you thought!  Also, follow us: Instagram: @anchored_podcast Twitter: @Anchoredpod Facebook: @Anchoredpodcast --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

Von and Charles want to take the sting out of failure. This episode discusses how it has helped them grow and become better versions of themselves. As well as tips to leverage failure to your benefit. Thanks for Listening! If you haven't already, dont forget to subscribe and leave a review of what you thought! Also, follow us: Instagram: @anchored_podcast Twitter: @Anchoredpod Facebook: @Anchoredpodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

This episode Charles and Von discuses the importance of building a bond with you spouse or mate and offer 5 pointers that they think can help couples build it. Thanks for Listening! If you haven't already, don't forget to subscribe and leave a review of what you thought! Also, follow us: Instagram: @anchored_podcast Twitter: @Anchoredpod Facebook: @Anchoredpodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

Charles and Von are real self-care advocates. This episode follows them as they go down the list of actionable steps that can jump start or refine your own self-care practices. Thanks for Listening! If you haven't already, dont forget to subscribe and leave a review of what you thought! Also, follow us: Instagram: @anchored_podcast Twitter: @Anchoredpod Facebook: @Anchoredpodcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

This episode Von and Charles dish on how they met and what their first date was like. They also talk about the things that they did on their first that helped them to be the happy couple they are today. They hope that by sharing the techniques that helped them can helpfull other people's first date or the re-kindling of a long standing one.  If you think the Lanes give good advice subscribe to the show. Also, follow them on social media and ask them yourself!!  Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Twitter: @Ancoredpod   --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

This episode Von and Charles try to tackle the popular social media hashtag #relationshipsgoals. What the internet says it is versus what they actually believe it to be. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

Today Von and Charles answer their first listener question! It just so happens that the question fits the theme of the episode: Starting Over. Listern as the Lanes go in depth about what it take to ignore the pressure of typical society and start fresh. If you think the Lanes give good advice subscribe to the show. Also, follow them on social media and ask them yourself!! Instagram: @Anchored_Podcast Twitter: @Ancoredpod --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

In this episode Von and Charles further expand on their thoughts about communication. Except this time the focus is not on what you're saying, its what your body is doing while you're saying what your saying. Dont forget to subscribe! Also, follow us on Instagram @anchored_podcast --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support

For our inaugural episode we wanted to discuss a topic that we thought was extremely important. It’s often overlook, down played, or misunderstood. Communication.  Over time we adopt a style in which we decide to communicate with one another pending on our state of being. Understanding our own personal approach in real time and gaining the ability to recognize the style of others at the same time is key. This is effective communication. Join us as we walkthrough our thoughts on the 5 styles of communication and how knowing these facts can help you. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/anchoredthepodcast/support