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JD shared with the show that he's over dating and decided he wants to practice celibacy. The show wants to know what makes people go celibate? Tune in to hear why listeners stopped doing the deed and their advice for JD. Follow us on socials! @themorningmess
JD shared with the show that he's over dating and decided he wants to practice celibacy. The show wants to know what makes people go celibate? Tune in to hear why listeners stopped doing the deed and their advice for JD. Follow us on socials! @themorningmess
JD shared with the show that he's over dating and decided he wants to practice celibacy. The show wants to know what makes people go celibate? Tune in to hear why listeners stopped doing the deed and their advice for JD. Follow us on socials! @themorningmess
Writer and professor Melissa Febos had been in a series of consecutive relationships for decades. Then, one particularly devastating experience led her to take stock of her dependency on sex and love. She says she was in "the right amount of pain" to make a change. For Febos, that period kicked off what would become a year of transformative celibacy. Her new book The Dry Season chronicles the way abstinence from sex and relationships allowed Febos to awaken to her desires, motivations and decisions in a new way. In today's episode, she speaks with Marielle Segarra – host of NPR's Life Kit podcast – about how this year changed her outlook on attraction, attention, dancing, and the divine.To listen to Book of the Day sponsor-free and support NPR's book coverage, sign up for Book of the Day+ at plus.npr.org/bookofthedayLearn more about sponsor message choices: podcastchoices.com/adchoicesNPR Privacy Policy
This week on ‘The Write Question,' the second half of a conversation with memoirist Melissa Febos, author of ‘The Dry Season: A Memoir of Pleasure in a Year Without Sex,' out now from Knopf, an imprint of the Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group, which is a division of Penguin Random House.
This week on ‘The Write Question,' the second half of a conversation with memoirist Melissa Febos, author of ‘The Dry Season: A Memoir of Pleasure in a Year Without Sex,' out now from Knopf, an imprint of the Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group, which is a division of Penguin Random House.
This week's episode of CockTales: Dirty Discussions is an emotional rollercoaster with equal parts healing and hilarious. Kiki opens up about her new project xoMan Podcast, launching June 17th, and how she landed not just the hosting gig—but a producer credit too. Medinah shares her recent deep dive into celibacy, her new purpose-driven journey, and what it's like to feel truly lonely again. There's real talk on forever love, how our grandparents' marriages shaped our ideals, and why modern dating has us asking, “Where did the real men go?” Oh—and of course, there's a surprise golden shower story. Yes, you read that right. Whether you're in your healed girl era or still making mistakes for the plot, this one's for you. Topics Covered:Medinah's celibacy update & unexpected lonelinessVolunteering with Meals on Wheels & giving backKiki's XO Man Podcast announcement + favorite upcoming guestsReflections on forever love and generational relationshipsModern dating frustrations and “princess treatment” for men?!When your dress rips during an interview with David BannerTips for summer reading, affordable audiobook apps & library perksWeird Sex Story: A thunderclap headache and an unintentional golden showerCocktail of the Week:
Today on AirTalk, the latest updates on LA's immigration enforcement, arrests, schools and misinformation; how politics are at play amidst LA's protests; what the OC board of supervisors is going to do to regain the public's trust; LA Mayor Karen Bass joins AirTalk; Funk icon Sly Stone's legacy; are millennials in a midlife crisis? and the positive effects of voluntary celibacy. Today on AirTalk: Latest on LA's immigration raids and protests (0:15) Politics at play amidst LA protests (17:39) OC's trust in county supervisors (35:01) LA Mayor Bass joins AirTalk (51:25) Funk icon Sly Stone dies at 82 (1:02:22) Millennial midlife crisis (1:19:11) Positive effects of voluntary celibacy (1:32:15)
"I talked to my wife, and she was like, 'You're probably tired. You've been writing this book non stop for six months, and you probably just need a break. Like, go get a gelato and chill out.' And I was like, 'I can't,' then I was like, 'All right, fine, I will.' And then I ate a bunch of ice cream and watched the Pam Anderson documentary on Netflix in the middle of the day. And after, I don't know, four or five days, I had an idea, and I was like, ready to get back to work," says Melissa Febos on Episode 472.Melissa is the author of five books of nonfiction, including her latest, The Dry Season: A Memoir of Pleasure in a Year Without Sex (Knopf).In this conversation, we talk about: Writing in community Literary stardom Being a weirdo Wile E. Coyote The jealousy dragon The theory of bottoms And the liberation of quitting thingsReally rich stuff. You can learn more about Melissa at melissafebos.com and follow her on IG @melissafebos.Order The Front RunnerNewsletter: Rage Against the AlgorithmShow notes: brendanomeara.com
This week on ‘The Write Question,' part one of a two-part conversation with memoirist Melissa Febos, author of ‘The Dry Season: A Memoir of Pleasure in a Year Without Sex,' out now from Knopf, an imprint of the Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group, which is a division of Penguin Random House.
This week on ‘The Write Question,' part one of a two-part conversation with memoirist Melissa Febos, author of ‘The Dry Season: A Memoir of Pleasure in a Year Without Sex,' out now from Knopf, an imprint of the Knopf Doubleday Publishing Group, which is a division of Penguin Random House.
My guest today is the author and essayist, Melissa Febos. Melissa has written four award winning books - Whip Smart, Abandon Me, Girlhood (which won the National Book Critics Circle Award in the states) and Body Work. She's won too many prizes to mention here and her writing has appeared all over the place! In her mid thirties, after, let's just say a pretty horrific two year relationship, Melissa decided to step away not just from sex, but love, relationships, intimacy in general. At first for three months, then six, then ultimately for a year. Three months? Hardly a big deal, You might think. But for someone who'd been in one relationship or another since she was 15, it was the start of a long road to breaking a 20 year serial monogamy habit. Soon she realised she was not just taking a break, but making a change. One that would affect not just her relationships with friends family and lovers, but with herself, her work and the way she lived her life. The result is her new memoir, The Dry Season. Melissa joined me from Iowa to talk about that year of celibacy and what it taught her about independence, creativity, sexuality and above all herself. We also discussed shaking off the soup of sexual prescription, the happy ever after narrative, women's celibacy in history, sexual fluidity in midlife and why she's obsessed with the TV detective Vera! * You can buy all the books mentioned in this podcast at The Shift bookshop on Bookshop.org, including The Dry Season by Melissa Febos as well as the book that inspired this podcast, The Shift: how I lost and found myself after 40 - and you can too, by me. * If you enjoyed this episode and you fancy buying me a coffee, pop over to my page on buymeacoffee.com. • And if you'd like to support the work that goes into making this podcast and get a weekly newsletter plus loads more content including exclusive transcripts of the podcast, why not join The Shift community, come and have a look around at www.theshiftwithsambaker.substack.com • The Shift (on life after 40) with Sam Baker is created and hosted by Sam Baker and edited by Juliette Nicholls at Pineapple Production. If you enjoyed this podcast, please rate/review/follow as it really does help other people find us. And let me know what you think on twitter @sambaker or instagram @theothersambaker Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Join Jenn and Ellie in the final episode of the 'Power of Singleness' series. They reflect on the profound journey through singleness, emphasizing the importance of embracing this season, finding fulfillment in God, and the encouragement received from their wonderful guests. From overcoming fears and societal pressures to cherishing friendships and personal growth, this episode offers insights and real talk about navigating singleness with grace and hope. Tune in for an inspiring recap, touching stories, and powerful testimonies that remind us all of our worth and the beauty of God's timing.Thank you for being with us during this series!! Send us a textJust Know Though Podcast offers a safe space to discuss mental health, including topics like depression and past trauma. These conversations are not meant to focus on any individual guest, but to shed light on the difficult emotions many people face. We aim to highlight the strength and resilience required to overcome such challenges, while promoting understanding, support, and compassion. Mental health struggles are more common than we realize, and it's important to show kindness to ourselves and others. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out for help. You matter, and your well-being is important. Don't hesitate to connect with the resources below: Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 Remember, it's okay to ask for help, and it's okay to listen.
Send us a textArnie, Fred and Glenn continue their discussion of the apostacy or falling away from the New Testament pattern that occurred and, in this episode, continue to look at its history. We reviewed some of the departures we noted last week, in baptism and the Lord's Supper. Some began to worship men and women in the Catholic church, and we note that. Priests in the Catholic church also began hearing people confess their sins to them and we look at what this meant. We also discuss what was added to all the Bibles for a time. There were rules set up regulate what was eaten on certain days and, whether an individual ought to fast and even if priests and nuns could be married. We discuss these. Popes took upon themselves new titles and authorities that we note as well. All of these changes ended up causing a split between the Roman Catholic Church and the Eastern, Greek Orthodox Church. We complete this episode by beginning to discuss some of the individuals, such as John Wycliff, John Hus, Martin Luther, who began to question the changes that were made which resulted in what is called the Protestant Reformation. Take about 30-minutes to listen in on our discussion. Have your Bible handy so you can verify what we are saying. A transcript of this Buzzsprout episode is provided for your convenience.
In this episode our returning guest Felicia delve into the complexities of singleness, faith, and personal growth. We discuss the importance of healing from past relationships, the challenges of dating as a believer, and the significance of community support. Felicia shares her journey of celibacy, self-acceptance, and the lessons learned through her experiences as a single mother. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-worth, accountability, and the power of prayer in navigating the single season. Ultimately, the episode encourages listeners to embrace their journey, trust in God's timing, and seek fulfillment in their relationship with Him!Connect with Felicia on Instagram ^-^ @feli.andreaListen to Felicia's episode Faith over Fear series: The Power of Surrender and TrustSend us a textJust Know Though Podcast offers a safe space to discuss mental health, including topics like depression and past trauma. These conversations are not meant to focus on any individual guest, but to shed light on the difficult emotions many people face. We aim to highlight the strength and resilience required to overcome such challenges, while promoting understanding, support, and compassion. Mental health struggles are more common than we realize, and it's important to show kindness to ourselves and others. If you or someone you know is struggling, please reach out for help. You matter, and your well-being is important. Don't hesitate to connect with the resources below: Crisis Text Line: Text HOME to 741741 Remember, it's okay to ask for help, and it's okay to listen.
Hudson Byblow speaks about the Catholic Faith in engaging, personalized, and trauma-informed ways, formed by his own journey of coming home to the Catholic Church – the last place the world said he should ever look! After leaving behind his prior-held “LGBTQ+ is who I am” mindset to in favor of striving to grow in the virtue of chastity, he has come to experience greater peace, joy, hope, love, and freedom than what he ever before knew was possible. In this conversation, Dr. Jennifer Roback-Morris and Hudson Byblow explores the complexities of identity politics, particularly in relation to LGBT experiences and the Catholic understanding of chastity. Byblow shares his personal journey of reconciling his same-sex attractions with his faith, emphasizing the importance of pursuing virtue and understanding chastity as a transformative process. They discuss the distinctions between chastity, celibacy, and abstinence, and the detrimental effects of resentment on personal growth. The conversation also highlights red flags in discussions surrounding LGBT identities and the importance of seeking a deeper, more fulfilling understanding of one's vocation in life. Watch the full episode on censorship-free Rumble or Locals: Rumble: https://rumble.com/v6t6m2n-hudson-byblows-story-will-deepen-your-faith-a-catholic-witness-of-healing-a.html Locals: https://theruthinstitute.locals.com/post/6917798/hudson-byblows-story-will-deepen-your-faith-a-catholic-witness-of-healing-hope Subscribe to our newsletter to get this amazing report: Refuting the Top 5 Gay Myths https://ruthinstitute.org/refute-the-top-five-myths/ Hudson Byblow is a Catholic Speaker and author who specializes in training faithful Catholics how they can respond to all things LGBTQ+ in an authentically Catholic way. He is also the founder of Something More Beautiful, a site that helps people understand that just because LGBTQ+ desires/experiences might be part of their story, they are not automatically excluded from holy vocation to holy, chaste marriage. LINK: https://smbm33.com/ Chapters 00:00 Exploring Identity Politics and Its Impact 03:12 Hudson Byblow's Journey and the Concept of Chastity 05:59 Something More Beautiful: A New Ministry 08:49 Understanding Chastity: Definitions and Misconceptions 12:10 The Distinction Between Chastity, Celibacy, and Abstinence 14:56 Resentment and Its Impact on Chastity 17:47 Red Flags in Understanding Sexual Identity 21:04 The Connection Between Pornography Addiction and Same-Sex Attraction 23:56 The Origins of Same-Sex Attraction: A Personal Perspective Hudson Byblow Interviews: Trauma-Informed Education & Evangelization | Hudson Byblow on The Dr J Show ep. 152 https://youtu.be/bsq4c7D3tD8 Have a question or a comment? Leave it in the comments, and we'll get back to you! Watch the full episode, uncensored, on Rumble: https://rumble.com/user/Theruthinstitute Subscribe to our YouTube playlist: @RuthInstitute Follow us on Social Media: https://www.instagram.com/theruthinstitute https://twitter.com/RuthInstitute https://www.facebook.com/TheRuthInstitute/ https://theruthinstitute.locals.com/newsfeed Press: NC Register: https://www.ncregister.com/author/jennifer-roback-morse Catholic Answers: https://www.catholic.com/profile/jennifer-roback-morse The Stream: https://stream.org/author/jennifer-roback-morse/ Crisis Magazine: https://crisismagazine.com/author/jennifer-roeback-morse Father Sullins' Reports on Clergy Sexual Abuse: https://ruthinstitute.org/resource-centers/father-sullins-research/ Buy Dr. Morse's Books: The Sexual State: https://ruthinstitute.org/product/the-sexual-state-2/ Love and Economics: https://ruthinstitute.org/product/love-and-economics-it-takes-a-family-to-raise-a-village/ Smart Sex: https://ruthinstitute.org/product/smart-sex-finding-life-long-love-in-a-hook-up-world/ 101 Tips for a Happier Marriage: https://ruthinstitute.org/product/101-tips-for-a-happier-marriage/ 101 Tips for Marrying the Right Person: https://ruthinstitute.org/product/101-tips-for-marrying-the-right-person/ Listen to our podcast: Apple Podcasts - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-ruth-institute-podcast/id309797947 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/1t7mWLRHjrCqNjsbH7zXv1 Subscribe to our newsletter to get this amazing report: Refuting the Top 5 Gay Myths https://ruthinstitute.org/refute-the-top-five-myths/ Get the full interview by joining us for exclusive, uncensored content on Locals: https://theruthinstitute.locals.com/support
Questions answered this episode:Can indulgences and scapulars make sense through the lens of Theology of the Body?How can I embrace lifelong celibacy after my wife left me?Are appearance-focused exercises inherently vain or can they be good?ResourcesCOURSE SCHEDULEEating the SunriseFill These HeartsSexual Needs Into Prayer YouTube VideoChastity: Reconciliation of the SensesGod Is Beauty Book---Ask Christopher West is a weekly podcast in which Theology of the Body Institute President Christopher West and his beloved wife Wendy share their humor and wisdom, answering questions about marriage, relationships, life, and the Catholic faith, all in light of John Paul II's beautiful teachings on the Theology of the Body.---
Today, John and Shaun get real about celibacy, the unexpected wisdom of edging and what it means to hold space for change. As they dive into how we show up for friends, and navigate endings with grace (or not), they explore what it means to sit with discomfort and desire.Also on the table: sex in senior living homes, prostate surprises, and the enduring mystery of midnight erections.And then comes the twist: a conversation that starts with podcast logistics quickly turns into something deeper—a surprising reveal that could shift the future of the show. It's heartfelt, awkward, and unmistakably human.Resources Mentioned:The multi orgasmic male book HERELeave a one-minute voicemail for John and Shaun at 657-549-1001.Enjoying the show? Don't forget to subscribe, also rate us on Spotify, and leave a comment - we read every single one (yes, even the spicy ones)!Please take a moment and leave us a review on Apple Podcasts. Your support truly means the world to us!Find out more about John HERE.Follow John on Instagram HERE.Find out more about Shaun HERE.Follow Shaun on Instagram HERE.
Topics: ⁃ Dating as a Christian while protecting your heart.⁃ Intentionally placing yourself in spaces where men/women are likely to be⁃ Managing the balance between career and motherhood⁃ Understanding your true purpose for wanting to get marriedTime Stamps: 00:00 Intro 10:10 The Fall Of Men 20:02 Who Is The Preachers Daughter 25:53 Dating As A Christian 38:32 Women, Go Where The Men Are 45:07 Celibacy 1:00:40 Career womanCheck Out Our Vibes With DTMW Playlist: Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/playlist/6gwQRQBHuD0JV1hUOtFoM9?si=q9q-4Un2TMeI7FaMnCXUKQ&pt=f32f0441f2effeb1d3d6d5b35d40cb13&pi=e-XDo_DPp9RmqmJoin Ken & Tonye as they share their experiences of navigating marriage and fatherhood in their twenties.Email: DTMWPod@gmail.comInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dtmwpod/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@dtmwpodYoutube: DTMWPodTwitter: DTMWPodCheck us out on: https://linktr.ee/dtmwpod
In this episode, Joy Taylor gives her take on the recent headlines surrounding UNC head football coach Bill Belichick and girlfriend Jordon Hudson. She also celebrates the success of the Met Gala, Sinners, and Cowboy Carter. Then, Violet Benson is on the show! She and Joy discuss self-confidence, taking breaks from sex, and men needing more compliments Joy wraps the show by giving advice to a subscriber who has been in a relationship for 4 years, but doesn't feel like he is “in love.” Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Lilith Foxx and Lea Levi are sexuality experts whose journeys started with a lot of silence and shaming around sex and led to both spicy exploration and celibacy. After a rocky dating history, podcast producer, Makenzie Mizell, married herself. This episode briefly mentions intimate partner/domestic violence and touches on the feminist 4B movement. Listen after the outro music for a funny BTS story/confession involving Makenzie's ring. Learn more about this episode's storytellers: https://lilithfoxx.com Instagram: @thelilithfoxx https://www.makenziemizell.com Lea recommended checking out FLURE. Check out the latest specials at thepleasurechest.com! IG: @GirlBonerMedia FB: @MyGirlBoner TT:: @GirlBonerRadio augustmclaughlin.com/girlboner patreon.com/girlboner Get free shipping at Crave! Elegant, woman-designed jewelry and toys: https://lovecrave.com/products/vesper2?bg_ref=UAgjcRRV14 Girl Boner Radio is hosted and produced by August McLaughlin.
In this powerful and heart-stirring episode of Journey to Wholeness, Indiana welcomes author and podcast host Chamel Jackson for a deeply honest conversation about navigating heartbreak, healing in Christ, and walking with purpose in singleness.Chamel opens up about how she overcame relationship wounds, found peace in her single season, and embraced celibacy as a personal and spiritual decision. Together, they discuss real challenges and Godly solutions for Christian women dating in today's world.If you're wondering how to heal, how to wait well, or how to date without compromise — this episode will bless you, challenge you, and remind you: you are not waiting in vain. God is working even here. Listen in and be empowered to heal, grow, and thrive in your season of singleness.
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In this episode of Sex & Bacon, I sit down with the always unfiltered Darby for a rollercoaster ride through dating disasters, sexual awakenings, and the spiritual side of swearing off men—temporarily. We talk throuples, field apps, hat-fishing, giant dicks (that miss the G-spot), and the kind of kissing that makes you question if you even like the person. And then—curveball—Sarah shares her very real journey of trying celibacy… for six months. Kind of. Maybe. We'll check back in 30 days. Get ready for big laughs, bigger truths, and the kind of late-night convo you'd only have with your best friend and a half-empty glass of wine.
In this short Easter message, take away an easy way to celebrate The Resurrection in your every day life!What are we holding on to that Heavenly Father may be asking us to "lay to rest"? How can we shift our focus from what we are letting go of, to what we have the ability to bring to life?Artwork for this week's episode provided by Cora Oaks Art
In this episode of Earth Xperience, Lex Blaek Junior opens up about choosing celibacy, healing from generational patterns, and navigating relationships with intention. From confronting soul ties and spiritual discipline to embracing emotional healing and self-awareness, Lex shares how her decision to reclaim her body and time has reshaped her identity.We talk about the impact of childhood experiences, evolving beyond inherited relationship models, and how spiritual awakenings can emerge through pain, chronic illness, and silence. Lex unpacks the complexity of celibacy in today's culture, the power of discernment in dating, and why your first commitment should be to yourself.Key Topics:Celibacy and spiritual healingEmotional and energetic boundariesRewriting generational relationship patternsDating with discernmentChronic illness and awakening through stillnessIdentity, self-discipline, and choosing yourselfReclaiming your timeline as a Black womanConnect with Lex Blaek Junior:Instagram: @sheisblaekWebsite & links: https://beacons.ai/linkwithlex
Jay and Petra get deep into the difference between true celibacy and surface-level abstinence, revealing how the intention behind abstaining from sex can either fuel personal growth or create emotional walls. They unpack the psychological and relational impact of celibacy, challenging popular narratives and exploring how motives—whether rooted in fear, healing, or control—ultimately shape one's ability to experience authentic connection and intimacy.This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp Cognac Room listeners get 10% off of your first month at https://www.betterhelp.com/cognacroom
Episode 343 of the Front Porch Swingers podcast covers a VERY important topic: Sex after a SEVEN WEEK HIATUS! Brenna is finally healed enough to do the deed. Find out how it went! Plus, we discuss our upcoming move and how we foresee impacting our lifestyle journey. Get TONS of bonus content at https://patreon.com/frontporchswingers Try Kasidie for FREE by clicking on the Kasidie banner at https://frontporchswingers.com See Brenna's XXX fun: https://sincityhotwife.co Join us for an upcoming event: https://members.frontporchswingers.com
Five years since Covid, not only has the pandemic affected the way we live and work, it's also influencing the way researchers are thinking about the past. In this episode archaeologist Alex Bentley from the University of Tennessee explains how the pandemic sparked new research into how disease may have affected ancient civilisations, and the clues this offers about a change in the way humans designed their villages and cities 8,000 years ago.This episode was written and produced by Katie Flood and hosted by Gemma Ware. Sound design was by Eloise Stevens and theme music by Neeta Sarl. Read the full credits for this episode and sign up here for a free daily newsletter from The Conversation.If you like the show, please consider donating to The Conversation, an independent, not-for-profit news organisation.Celibacy: family history of Tibetan monks reveals evolutionary advantages in monasticism – podcastSocially distanced layout of the world's oldest cities helped early civilization evade diseases
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What if celibate people are really just repressing their sexuality? Or the Bible writers banned same-sex sex because they couldn't imagine a modern, egalitarian, consensual marriage?Join TJ (social science researcher) and David (communitarian vibes) as they name 7 “myths” of sex, celibacy, marriage, and love, and talk about LGBTQ flourishing for Christians.Note: This episode uses the terms “Side A” and “Side B” (and X, Y) as shorthand quite a bit. If you're new to the conversation, you might find it helpful to check out episode #3, where we talk through the four “sides”: #3 - A-B-Y-X | 4 Sides on SSA/Gay Sexuality—★ Timestamps(00:00) #61 - 7 Myths of Side A: On Sex, Love, and Marriage for LGBTQ Christians(03:19) Myth #1: Celibacy equals sexual repression or misery(10:29) Myth #2: The Bible writers only banned gay sex because they couldn't imagine consensual, egalitarian same-sex monogamous relationships(15:32) Myth #3: Marriage is the only committed covenant relationship(23:17) Myth #4: Colonialist European Christianity is the source of homophobia around the globe(31:06) Myth #5: A sexual ethic is just a personal decision(36:33) Myth #6: Love trumps everything(42:20) Myth #7: Sexual ethics are minor differences among Christians(53:25) Summing up—★ Links and References* Bill White in the New York Times: “How My Dad Reconciled His God and His Gay Son.” https://www.nytimes.com/interactive/2025/02/05/opinion/coming-out-evangelical-pastor.html?unlocked_article_code=1.u04.SZiC.MDfFGLX6HWTO&smid=url-share* Wendell Berry, **“Sex, Economy, Freedom, and Community,” (2018). https://www.counterpointpress.com/books/sex-economy-freedom-community/* John Pike, “Were loving, faithful same-sex relations known in antiquity?” https://www.psephizo.com/sexuality-2/were-loving-faithful-same-sex-relations-known-in-antiquity/* Preston Sprinkle, “Did Consensual Same-Sex Sexual Relationships Exist in Biblical Times? A Response to Matthew Vines,” (August 30, 2022). https://www.centerforfaith.com/blog/did-consensual-same-sex-sexual-relationships-exist-in-biblical-times-a-response-to-matthew—★ Send us feedback, questions, comments, and support!Email: communionandshalom@gmail.com | Instagram: @newkinship | Substack: @newkinship | Patreon: @newkinship—★ CreditsCreators and Hosts: David Frank, TJ Espinoza | Audio Engineer: Carl Swenson, carlswensonmusic.com | Podcast Manager: Elena F. | Graphic Designer: Gavin Popken, gavinpopkenart.com ★ This is a public episode. If you would like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit newkinship.substack.com
In this episode, Therese Markow and Dr. Brandon Sparks discuss the phenomenon of involuntary celibacy (incels). Dr. Sparks, an applied forensic psychologist, explains that incels are men experiencing long-term involuntary celibacy, often due to social exclusion and bullying during adolescence. Incels, primarily aged 18-30, are less likely to be in education or employment. The term "incel" originated from a woman's project at Carleton University. Incels often self-identify online, where they discuss the "Black Pill" philosophy, a nihilistic view of society. Dr. Sparks highlights the need for empathy and understanding to address their isolation and frustration. Key Takeaways: The modern iteration is often “incel” refers exclusively to men who are experiencing involuntary celibacy and they've been experiencing this for quite some time. They've come to believe that they can't form romantic or sexual relationships, and that's causing them an extreme amount of distress. For women who identify with the experience of an incel, they are often called “femcels”. There's a lot of incels that are looking to talk to people and to share their experiences. One of the biggest risk factors in adolescence is the people who are already being left behind. This seems to indicate that there's certainly a subset of people who struggle to catch up. "Incel philosophy as we know it, based on forum analysis they've created this worldview called the “Black Pill”, which is a nihilistic perspective of the world. It's this very transactional view of relationships, which is quite problematic because they're viewing women as master manipulators, playing this big game plan, and that men are just a means to an end for them." — Dr. Brandon Sparks Connect with Dr. Brandon Sparks: Website: https://www.brandontsparks.com/ Google Scholar: https://scholar.google.ca/citations?user=vWzf3QMAAAAJ&hl=en Research Gate: https://www.researchgate.net/profile/Brandon-Sparks-4 Twitter: https://x.com/brandon__sparks Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/brandonsparks.bsky.social Connect with Therese: Website: www.criticallyspeaking.net Threads: @critically_speaking Email: theresemarkow@criticallyspeaking.net Audio production by Turnkey Podcast Productions. You're the expert. Your podcast will prove it.
In this deeply personal episode, Pastor Benjamin Kandt sits down with Joshua Esquivel to explore his remarkable journey from legalistic religion and inner turmoil to vibrant faith and intimate communion with Jesus. Joshua shares candidly about growing up in a devout Seventh-day Adventist community, wrestling with shame surrounding his same-sex attraction, and the years of isolation, performance, and self-rejection that followed. He recounts his eventual “coming out,” the pain of family rejection, and the years he spent trying to find identity and peace through secular means, including New Age spirituality and relationships.Everything began to change when Joshua prayed a half-sincere, half-desperate prayer surrendering his life to God. What followed was an unexpected and supernatural encounter with the grace of Jesus through Scripture, Reformed theology, and the ministry of the Holy Spirit. He speaks about his conviction of the Bible's truth, his calling to celibacy, and the surprising joy and belonging he's found in the body of Christ—particularly through New City. This is a testimony of gospel hope, identity rooted in Jesus, and the kind of transformation that only God can bring.You can find the resources referenced in this episode here and here.
In this deeply moving and reflective episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik Chakraborty sits down with spiritual teacher and writer Alexander Reynolds. Alex opens up about his transformative journey from a chaotic, hypersexualized life to one of spiritual clarity, lifelong celibacy, and poetic expression. This isn't a typical self-help talk—it's a soulful, raw exploration of presence, inner power, and the profound simplicity of being. Whether you're seeking spiritual alignment, trying to navigate desire, or learning how to thrive in silence amidst chaos, this conversation offers grounding insights that speak to the eternal part of you. About the Guest:Alexander Reynolds is a writer, spiritual teacher, and poetic soul living in the remote wilderness of the Adirondacks. A survivor of a tumultuous youth and near-death experience, Alex chose a life of intentional simplicity, celibacy, and devotion. Through his book Manifest Your Immaculate Conception, YouTube teachings, and rhythmic writings, he helps others rediscover the divine stillness within. Key Takeaways: Celibacy can be a path to empowerment, not deprivation Silence isn't the absence of noise, but the presence of awareness Art, especially spiritual poetry, awakens transformation Real presence comes from witnessing life, not controlling it Desire can be transcended—not judged—to uncover deeper joy True power lies in reclaiming your eternal essence Connect with Alexander Reynolds:Explore Alex's work and teachings through his book: Manifest Your Immaculate Conception.Follow him on YouTube for poetic insights and spiritual depth. Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life?DM on PodMatch – Send me a message:DM Me Here:https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Subscribe To Newsletter:https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/ Join Community:https://nas.io/healthymind Stay Tuned And Follow Us!YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylifeInstagram - https://www.instagram.com/podhealth.club/Threads - https://www.threads.net/@podhealth.clubFacebook - https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymindLinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/newandnew/ #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #wellness #podmatch
Le hashtag celibacy - qu'on traduirait en français par célibat ou abstinence - cumulait 190 millions de vues sur TikTok en juin 2023. De plus en plus populaire, il témoigne d'un réel changement sociétal dans les habitudes de vie de la génération Z. Les jeunes n'aimeraient plus le sexe. C'est le résultat de plusieurs études américaines relayées notamment par nos consoeurs du média d'information Urbania. D'après une enquête parue en 2019 dans le Wall Street Journal, 36% des 18-38 ans préféreraient regarder une série Netflix plutôt que d'avoir un rapport sexuel. Qu'est-ce qui pourrait expliquer cette tendance chez les jeunes ? Y'a-t-il un lien avec #MeToo ? Écoutez la suite de cet épisode de "Maintenant vous savez". Un podcast Bababam Originals, écrit et réalisé par Johanna Cincinatis. A écouter aussi : Les ventes privées en ligne sont-elles réellement avantageuses ? Qu'est-ce que la méthode Loverboy, la technique de proxénétisme utilisée par le masculiniste Andrew Tate ? A quelle fréquence devons-nous laver nos draps ? Retrouvez tous les épisodes de "Maintenant vous savez". Suivez Bababam sur Instagram. Première diffusion : 11 août 2023 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Rocco is in as we decide the top 5 Amys of all time. Mike has the Dirt, We play Over/Under and why it is Celibacy week. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoicesSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
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So Nigerians! On today's episode, we discuss something that's not often talked about but super important—Sexual Purity vs. Celibacy. Are they the same thing? Is celibacy just about not having sex, and does sexual purity go deeper than that? We break it all down, from personal choices to religious beliefs, societal expectations, and the real struggles of maintaining either as a Nigerian youth.We also share personal takes, myths we've heard growing up, and whether these choices still make sense in today's world. So if you've ever been confused or curious about what it really means to be celibate or sexually pure, this one's for you!Don't forget to subscribe and share the podcast to your loved ones and people you're sleeping with. See you guys next week!! Happy Birthday So Nigerian podcast - 6331624488,Moniepoint MFBFollow us on http://twitter.com/sonigerian_http://Instagram.com/sonigerianpodcasthttp://twitter.com/damiar0shttp://instagram.com/damii_aroshttp://twitter.com/medici__ihttps://instagram.com/medici.i Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Today's episode features natural health icon Troy Casey, aka the Certified Health Nut. We skip over urine therapy to get right into all things relationships, parenthood, and celibacy-- to see a touching and inspiring version of Troy that might even bring tears to your eyes. Connect with Troy on Instagram @certifiedhealthnutAnd check out his website www.certifiedhealthnut.com
Happy Monday girlies! It's my wedding week, so I thought it fitting to talk about my celibacy journey as it is quickly coming to a close. Choosing celibacy after already having sex, living with my partner, and becoming a mom wasn't an easy decision. I battled with guilt, shame, and the feeling that maybe it didn't even matter anymore. But deep down, I knew that honoring God with my body wasn't about my past—it was about my obedience moving forward.In this episode, I'm sharing my journey of reclaiming my purity before marriage, why this decision became so important to me, and how I overcame the struggle of feeling like it was too late to make a change. If you've ever wrestled with sexual immorality, feelings of shame, or wondering if waiting is even worth it, I pray this conversation encourages you. Let's talk about it.FOLLOW ME: @mariahclayton_ @girlsirlpod Don't forget to leave a 5 star rating ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️The Reality of Being a Wife to a Boyfriend: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zZ3v1sbRxhM
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Involuntary celibacy (going more than 6 months without intercourse) within a committed relationship occurs more frequently than you would imagine. Join sex therapist and author Laurie Watson and couple's therapist Dr. Adam Mathews as they explore the reasons behind involuntary celibacy and what couples can do to address (and avoid) it. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Celibacy, Swamping, Loud Looking, No-Habiting: Stephen Colbert examines all the latest trends in modern dating in his long-running segment, "Romansplaining." Next, the wonderful Evie McGee Colbert joins her husband Stephen to help pick out the perfect Valentine's Day card. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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