Be Extraordinary

Whew!! Where do we start?! We came across a post that has been floating around twitter about normalizing not meeting the parents of your significant other. Should we normalize it?? Or is it still necessary to meet the parents? Let's discuss! We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @theAbakahs so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. You can also send us your thoughts, feedback, etc to theabakahs@gmail.com. And be sure to follow our other social pages: Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor, @iamayanaabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

It's been a long time!! For real! A lot has changed in the Abakah household, and we gotta update you! In this episode,, we're sharing some family updates and more. But one thing's for sure, two things for certain...we missed ya'll! Seriously! Thank you for always supporting our family and being our favorite cousins. We have felt the love! Listen in now to join the conversation. We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @theAbakahs so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. You can also send us your thoughts, feedback, etc to theabakahs@gmail.com. And be sure to follow our other social pages: Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor, @iamayanaabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

In this episode of Parents' Night Out, we're discussing the always loved...INTERNET TROLLS! While you are out minding your business, there's always a troll somewhere lurking. Well, we...that's right, The Abakahs, were hit with yet another troll recently. But this one, we just had to share with you. Listen in now to join the conversation. We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @ParentsNightOutPodcast so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. You can also send us your thoughts, feedback, etc to theabakahs@gmail.com. And be sure to follow our other social pages: Our Patreon: The Abakahs Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor, @iamayanaabakah Haven: @havenabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

In this episode of Parents' Night Out, we're talking about minding your marriage...minding your business...and then some! Listen in now to join the conversation. We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @ParentsNightOutPodcast so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. You can also send us your thoughts, feedback, etc to theabakahs@gmail.com. And be sure to follow our other social pages: Our Patreon: The Abakahs Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor, @iamayanaabakah Haven: @havenabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

We're Back! It's been a minute and a whole lot has happened...you know being in a pandemic and such...So we wanted to catch up a little. A lot has happened in 2020, and we are excited to be back with you! We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @ParentsNightOutPodcast so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. You can also send us your thoughts, feedback, etc to theabakahs@gmail.com. And be sure to follow our other social pages: Our Patreon: The Abakahs Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor, @iamayanaabakah Haven: @havenabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

In this episode of Parent's Night Out, we take it back to the beginning of our love story...How we met. We get asked quite often how we met, so we thought it would be perfect to share the origin of The Abakahs with you. Its crazy that we've known each other for 13 years, and been together for 12. But it still feels like we are just getting started. We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @ParentsNightOutPodcast so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. You can also send us your thoughts, feedback, etc to theabakahs@gmail.com. And be sure to follow our other social pages: Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor, @iamayanaabakah Haven: @havenabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

Happy New Year! It may be a new decade, but we have the same love. In this episode of Parent's Night Out, we discuss a few of our plans for 2020, including celebrating 10 years of marriage! Yes Jesus! God has been so good to us, and we are only getting started. Marriage isn't an easy thing, but having two people who are willing to work through it makes the road much smoother. Although we are crossing 10 years of marriage (12 years of togetherness) this year, we realize that we would've never got to this point without growth. Marriage is a step-by-step journey, join us! We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @ParentsNightOutPodcast so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. You can also send us your thoughts, feedback, etc to theabakahs@gmail.com. And be sure to follow our other social pages: Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor, @iamayanaabakah Haven: @havenabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

In this episode of Parent's Night Out, we discuss a few of the MANY lies that are often told about marriage. For some reason, SOME people seem to look for opportunities to discourage you out of getting marriage, rather than find ways to help support your decision to move your relationship with your spouse into the next level. We don't blame them, but we realize that the key to having a great marriage is to MIND YOUR MARRIAGE! Let's discuss. We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @ParentsNightOutPodcast so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. Also be sure to follow our other pages: Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor @iamayanaabakah Haven: @havenabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

In this episode of Parent's Night Out, we discuss a topic that isn't always talked about in marriage..."is it my responsibility to make you happy??" We were watching Love and Marriage Huntsville on OWN, and a particular scene between one of the married couples just set us off. And it was dealing with this very topic. Is it the responsibility of your spouse to MAKE you happy? Hmmm We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @ParentsNightOutPodcast so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. Also be sure to follow our other pages: Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor @iamayanaabakah Haven: @havenabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

In this episode of Parent's Night Out, we discuss a meme we came across which read, " 2 things adults should take more serious...who we marry and who we create children with." Message! Do you feel that adults really count the cost before saying "I DO", or are they blinded by the title of marriage trying to impress others with their new status? We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @ParentsNightOutPodcast so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. Also be sure to follow our other pages: Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor @iamayanaabakah Haven: @havenabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

In this episode of Parent's Night Out Podcast, we discuss our transition to our official podcast. Life has been happening, but we decided to start back happening to our lives. It's time to be intentional and be Extraordinary on purpose! Listen in for a few updates, our plans, and what's next for the Abakahs. We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @ParentsNightOutPodcast so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. Also be sure to follow our other pages: Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor @iamayanaabakah Haven: @havenabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

In this episode of the Be Extraordinary podcast, we discuss a meme that’s been going around about “Should A Woman Consult Her Man Before Cutting Her Hair?” Listen in for our opinion on the matter! We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @TheAbakahs so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. Also be sure to follow our other pages: Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor @iamayanaabakah Haven: @havenabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

In this episode of the Be Extraordinary podcast, we discuss gender roles  in parenthood. We did a few parenthood polls on our Instagram pages and  the responses were overwhelming...but in a good way. It's definitely a  conversation that is needed. Who is responsible for nurturing? What  about discipline? Changing diapers? Does dad babysit? Whew Chile! Lol!  Let us know your thoughts.   We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @TheAbakahs so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. Also be sure to follow our other pages: Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor @iamayanaabakah Haven: @havenabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

In this episode of the Be Extraordinary podcast, we discuss gender roles in marriage. In marriage, who is responsible for what? Is the mom responsible for caring for the child over the dad? Does mom handle all of the cooking? Who wears the pants? Is  dad supposed to bring home the bacon? What if mom has more bacon to bring home? Hmmm...It's been a whole year since our last podcast, but we are back and have so much to say! We love to hear your feedback on the topics we discuss, so be sure to follow us on Instagram @TheAbakahs so that you can share your love and reactions to each episode. Also be sure to follow our other pages: Bakah: @iambakah Ayana: @thehairazor @iamayanaabakah Haven: @havenabakah Our Design Biz: @hakabadesign Our YouTube Channel: YouTube.com/TheAbakahs

In this episode of the Be Extraordinary podcast, we introduce who we are as a couple and our journey into parenthood. We also talk about the different things NO ONE told us about becoming parents. OMG We're Parents! You can watch this podcast on our Youtube channel here: https://youtu.be/HhwjhFAWjK4 Also, be sure to subscribe to our Vlog Channel, The Abakahs, to keep up with us here: http://youtube.com/TheAbakahs