I'm Afraid To Ask

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Dusty and Brenda have a 20 year age difference, a 10 year friendship and lots of questions for each other. In this podcast they have a weekly phone call where they talk life in NYC where Dusty lives and life in Northwest Arkansas where Brenda calls home. It's a mix of southern upbringing, life mista…

Brenda Yelvington and Dusty Westfall


    • May 30, 2018 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 36m AVG DURATION
    • 12 EPISODES


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    Ep9: NYC Part II – There’s A Museum In Queens!

    Play Episode Listen Later May 30, 2018 59:05


    Part 2 of special episode: Brenda and Dusty take a trip to Queens to get a panoramic view of NYC, visiting all 5 boroughs in one day. They finish with the only Broadway reviews you need to hear and the biggest plot twist in “I didn’t ask but thanks for telling me” history!

    Ep8: NYC Part 1 – A Smokey Beast

    Play Episode Listen Later May 25, 2018 58:59


    Part 1 of special episode: Brenda and Dusty share their adventures of Brenda’s big NYC visit, first podcast party, meeting and interviewing some listeners, and end with a shared tale of a heartwarming-only in NYC - love story.

    Ep7: Peace with a capital ‘P’

    Play Episode Listen Later May 10, 2018 53:24


    This week Brenda pops dusty’s quiz with a twist. Then they discuss depression and anxiety and dealing with it with medication and meditation. They’re not experts but explore methods and means that anyone can try to rejuvenate. They end with stories of documentaries and care packages. AND a special announcement!!!

    Ep6: Fried Baloney

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2018 35:11


    Brenda and Dusty welcome their first ever guest for a pop quiz. Instead of the Big Q, they share one of their first attempts at recording. Nachos. Rats. Bologna. Wishes. They end sharing stories of Trekkies and grease monkeys.  

    Ep5: Friendship on Key

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 26, 2018 48:08


    It's Dusty's turn to ask Brenda questions in the pop quiz. Then they reminisce on how they met and how sometimes the keys to friendship require bolt cutters.  They end the show finding comfort in opossums and blankets.

    Ep4: Up There In Lights I'll Be

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 19, 2018 49:04


    Brenda “schools” Dusty with a pop quiz. In the Big Q, Dusty and Brenda discuss big changes, big choices and uprooting your life for opportunity. They end on panty hose and drag hoes.

    Bonus Question — “What would your Drag Name be?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2018 2:35


    Mini Episode: Dusty and Brenda figure out what their drag names would be.

    Ep3: "Momma, I’m Sorry"

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 12, 2018 41:55


    Brenda pops Dusty’s quiz. Then they dive into what it’s like to be “seen,” coming out of their respective closets and sharing stories of what it’s like to tell the world “here I am.” The show ends with Old Hollywood gossip and self help.

    Ep2: Raise A Glass To Ravenclaw

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2018 46:18


    This week Dusty and Brenda explore personality types. They take a few quizzes and learn about themselves and each other. A Rebel or Obliger? Piglet or Eeyore? Who’s your favorite Golden Girl? They end this week sharing some "brassy" and "colorful" stories with each other.

    Ep1: Send Nudes

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2018 36:12


    In their debut episode, Dusty and Brenda attempt a few lighting round questions with some quirky answers. Then they ask what it means to be creative and share personal stories about learning the creative process through trial and error. Brenda shares about her two secret “friends” and Dusty tells her what he thinks about them.

    Bonus Question — “What would you tell high school Brenda?”

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 29, 2018 3:49


    Mini Episode: Dusty asks Brenda what she would REALLY say to her high school self.

    Official Promo "I'm Afraid To Ask"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2018 1:38


    The Official Promo for the I'm Afraid To Ask podcast. Take a listen and meet Dusty and Brenda. Subscribe on iTunes and Podbean to be sure and catch their first episode coming soon!

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