Nobody Told Us

In this episode we talk with McKenzie who is in the first phase of motherhood with two children under two years old. We talk through which parts she is enjoying and also the difficulties with this stage. She shares her thoughts for other moms in this phase.

This is the first episode in a series about the phases and stages of motherhood. In this episode Magali and Camie discuss how motherhood has evolved as their children age. They discuss the stage they are at with all or mostly adult children. How they are managing the difficult parts and learning to cherish the moments that make it all fee worthwhile.

In this episode Magali and Camie talk through the ways partnerships change over time. They discuss the challenges in making a long term partnership work and the spaces where shifts ultimately led to the relationship's expiration. They also share things they actively choose to do differently to continue in their current relationships that are helping to keep them fulfilling.

In the fourth episode of our endings series Camie and Magali share their experiences in the endings of their marriages. They each share what assisted them in determining it was time for them to leave the partnerships and strike out on their own despite all of the challenges they anticipated.

In this episode we talk with special guest Janica LaRae about her experience with the ending of her recent relationship at 11 weeks pregnant and navigating parenting a new baby with an ex-partner. As well as the ending of her 7 year marriage prior. She talks through the things within her relationship that brought her to her decision to leave. She shares her journey and learning to trust herself and advice for those navigating long term relationship endings.

In this episode Camie talks with special guest Anne about her experience with the ending of her 15 year marriage. She talks through the things within her relationship that brought her to her decision to leave. She shares what she learned through her experience with divorce, the lingering effects of a toxic relationship on her current experiences and what she'd tell her former self and anyone lingering in a relationship that doesn't feel safe.

In this episode Camie talks with special guest Kristy about the experience of ending intended long-term relationships. About Kristy's historic and most recent relationship unraveling; how she dealt and is dealing with the myriad of feelings and experiences that accompany an ending of this magnitude. She also shares what she's learned in the process that has assisted with managing it all on her own.

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In the fourth and final episode of our love story series we talk with Jennie about how she met her fiancé Dave and their journey to becoming engaged. Jennie brings two children into the partnership and Dave has a young daughter. Jennie tells us how they met, what they did for their first date, when and how she knew he was the one, along with the proposal story. She shares what they have been doing to work with the challenges that blending brings.

In this Valentine's month series we are talking with people who have been divorced or have children and are back in the dating scene. We talk through what it looks and feels like to be in this place we never thought we'd be and nothing prepared us for. In the final episode of this series Eve shares her experiences re-entering the dating scene after divorce. She shares her path and reasoning for using the tools she has used to meet potential partners. She also explains how her clear inner knowing has guided her path and the benefit of embracing the lonely feelings life after divorce inevitably brings.

In the third of our four episode love story series we talk with Brittany about her 14 year relationship with her husband Jason. They have a yours, mine and ours household. She tells us how they met, what they did for their first date, when and how she knew he was the one along with the proposal story. We also get to hear what life is like when you are bringing families together and some specific tips for communication when topics are triggery.

In this Valentine's month series we are talking with people who have been divorced or have children and are back in the dating scene. We talk through what it looks and feels like to be in this place we never thought we'd be and nothing prepared us for. In episode 3 of this series Mikell shares his experiences re-entering the dating scene after a 23 year relationship. He shares how he's met people and things he feels have worked best for him to this point. He also shares experiences from his time dating and his personal approach, which is unapologetically honest and very transparent.

In our love stories series we are talking to couples who have found love after divorce. We talk through how they met and their dating experience, proposal, wedding and how they are keeping their relationship strong while blending their families. In the second episode of our love stories series we talk with Melissa about her 3 year marriage with her husband Ryan. She tells us how they met, what they did for their first date, what it was like navigating a break in their relationship, reconnecting, when and how she knew he was the one and shares the proposal story. We also get to hear about their wedding, what life is like when you become a step-parent and the things she's found beneficial communicating in this dynamic.

In this Valentine's month series we are talking with people who have been divorced or have children and are back in the dating scene. We talk through what it looks and feels like to be in this place we never thought we'd be and nothing prepared us for. In episode 2 of this series Emily shares her experiences after each divorce re-entering the dating scene. She shares how she's met people and things she feels like make dates most successful. She also shares experiences or stories from her dating experience and her big take away, when someone shows you who they are, believe them. The first time.

In our love stories series we are talking to couples who have found love after divorce. We talk through how they met and their dating experience, proposal, wedding and how they are keeping their relationship strong while blending their families. In the first episode we talk with LeighAnn about her 14 year relationship with her husband James. They have a family of seven all together. She tells us how they met, what they did for their first date, when and how she knew he was the one and shares the proposal story. We also get to hear about their wedding, what life is like when you are bringing families together and how they have made it work for so long.

In this Valentine's month series we are talking with people who have been divorced or have children and are back in the dating scene. We talk through what it looks and feels like to be in this place we never thought we'd be and nothing prepared us for. In episode 1 of this series Jacob shares his experiences within the last year of re-entering the dating scene. He shares how he's been meeting people, things he's looking for and things he chooses to avoid. Dating philosophy/rules he's employing, the energetic toll of being in the dating world again and the things that dating with kids has changed about the experience.

This is the sixth and final episode of a holiday series where we talk through the challenges of navigating the holidays after divorce. Ashley shares her unique perspective as a mom during the holiday season. In her co-parenting relationship they haven't been able to come to a common ground so they have reverted to state standards. She shares what she's found that assists with managing the complications of the holiday season when you are working within the confines of dysfunctional communication, schedules and expectations.

This is the fifth episode of a holiday series where we talk through the challenges of navigating the holidays after divorce. Shannon shares her unique perspective as a mom and soon to be step-mom during the holiday season. Shannon has 8 family schedules to work around for the holidays. She shares her experience with managing the complications of the holiday season when you are working with multiple people, schedules and expectations.

This is the fourth episode of a holiday series where we talk through the challenges of navigating the holidays after divorce. Hayley shares her experiences as a mom and step-mom during the holiday season. She shares what she's found that assists with managing the complications of the holiday season when you are working with multiple people, schedules and in her situation there are also military schedules to integrate. She also shares what she thinks are the most important parts of co-parenting.

This is the third episode of a holiday series where we talk through the challenges of navigating the holidays after divorce. Melanie shares her unique perspective as a mom and step-mom during the holiday season. She shares what she's found that assists with managing the complications of the holiday season when you are working with multiple people, schedules and expectations. She also shares what she thinks are the most important parts of co-parenting.

This is the second episode of a holiday series where we talk through the challenges of navigating the holidays after divorce. Our friend Kristy shares her unique perspective as a single mom with two kiddos in the holiday season. She shares what she's found that assist with managing the complications of the holiday season when it's typically just you and your children. She also shares what she thinks are the most important parts of co-parenting and the down time that comes with the space of life she's in now.

This is the first episode of a holiday series where we talk through the challenges of navigating the holidays after divorce. From feelings of deep loneliness to reveling in a bit of peace and quiet. We share things we've found that assist with managing the challenging bits and celebrating the joyful moments. In the coming weeks we will be inviting others to share their experiences navigating the waters of this time of year in unique situations that include yours, mine and ours.

In this episode we share what we learned from "The Secret to Love that Lasts" by Gary Chapman (a book that has sold over 13 million copies and touts "Improving relationships for over 30 years"). We share our results and how this information has improved our understanding of and shifted relationships with our spouses and kids. You can take the quiz here: 5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/

In this episode we get to hear Magali and Rick talk about their dating story. Their first date, engagement, and wedding. We also get to hear about their decision to get married quickly. What were some of the challenges after marriage? They also answer the question; After 14 years, would they do it again?

This week's episode, meet Aaron, Camie's husband. In this natural progression from our dating experience (episode #4) you'll learn more about how Camie and Aaron met, get to know some of their dating experiences, proposal and wedding story. 

In this episode we take a trip down memory lane and share our unique experiences dating after having children and divorce. We talk through our individual approaches to when and how we introduced our children to those we dated. We tell you about some of our memorable experiences and the biggest take-aways or "tips" from our time in the dating pool.

Got mom guilt? Today we get vulnerable discussing the reasons we have felt (and feel) mom guilt. How it was created and how we manage and move through our feelings of failure and inadequacy. We dive into the unrealistic expectations we can set for ourselves as moms and ask the question, "What does a good mom do?" We also raise awareness for the double standard we can engage in when we are looking at others vs. looking at our own parenting. Follow us: Facebook- https://www.facebook.com/NobodyToldUsPodcast Instagram- https://instagram.com/nobodytolduspodcast?igshid=hhjr3j3kjpq3 Website- https://nobody-told-us.captivate.fm

In this episode we share what we've found to be the most difficult topic to discuss in partnerships after divorce and the tools we've found that have helped us create more functional and productive communication. Materials referenced: Podcast- The Virtual Couch https://www.tonyoverbay.com/youre-coming-to-my-birthday-party-more-on-the-magnet-marriages-4-pillars-of-a-connected-conversation/ https://www.gottman.com/blog/the-four-horsemen-the-antidotes/ https://youtu.be/yWcEhtg7W3s

Welcome to our podcast, Nobody Told us, so we'll tell you. We are Camie and Magali. In this episode we introduce ourselves and we talk about why we wanted to start this podcast. We are excited to embark on this journey! Follow us on Instagram at Nobody Told Us Podcast Website- https://nobody-told-us.captivate.fm