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In this episode we finish off our types of Abuse with Financial Abuse. We are able to differentiate between financial and economic abuse. We also look at signs of Financial Abuse in relationships along sides its Impacts and we round up the episode with "why it is important to address this issue". Here are links to the instagram posts i talked about: Whatsspp conversation showing abuse- https://www.instagram.com/p/CDjRpA5pqp8/?igshid=8bn6blituqei. Monologue episode showing abuse - https://www.instagram.com/tv/CCT6Ro1JN7U/?igshid=17u4yp364xbr

In this episode we talk about Emotional Abuse in depth. We look at types of Emotional abuse and Signs to show if you're in an Emotionally Abusive relationship or not. We also look at the effects of this form of abuse along side 7 ways to deal with Emotional Abuse.

In this episode, we look at Physical Abuse and things you must know about Physical Abuse. We also look at signs that physical abuse might occur in your relationship along side examples and effects of Physical Abuse.

In this episode, we discuss Sexual Abuse as a form of Abuse. We look at the differences between Sexual Abuse, Rape, Assualt and Harrasment. We also look at what consent is as well as various sexual myths and we conclude the episode with the negative effects of Sexual Abuse. Watch today's Monologue Episode here: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CB_Y_sjpDZi/?igshid=19et1kq1p9mkz

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In this Podcast episode, we learn reasons why people find it hard to leave Abusive relationships and factors that cause traumatic bonding. We also find out what the Stockholm Syndrome is and various ways Society facilitates abuse. Here's today's Monologue Episode: https://www.instagram.com/tv/CBbMteGgo55/?igshid=pw75cefk24mw

In this Episode, we discuss Abuse in relationships, signs and indicators of abusive relationships. We also look at Healthy and Abusive relationship cycles and we end with the fact that abuse in relationships is a choice.

Let's Wrap up Trust Series with Trust Issues. Asides people breaking Trust in relationships, some persons just have "issues trusting others" as a result of their childhood or horrible experiences. If you are wondering if you have Trust issues or you need to know how to deal with it, this episode is for you

In this episode, we discuss the COME FORTH formula. We look at 5 points inorder to effectively move past a breach if trust. We also look at tips to prevent betrayal. And finally, we end the episode with the act of "Forgetting". If you haven't watched our monologue episode, please do so here-- https://www.instagram.com/tv/CAlRMvgAk2D/?igshid=128nv5va2ri6p

Trust Series continues. In this episode, we discuss Betrayal Trauma, examples and its symptoms. We also look at Anger after a betrayal has occurred and a few tips to manage it.

We start a new Series and focus is on Trust. In this episode, we define trust, find out situations or reasons trust can get broke in any relationship and we discuss 6 guidelines to help us know whether or not we are to leave a relationship that has gone through a Major Betrayal.

We finally round up the communication series with love languages. You get to find out what the "in love" phenomenon is and how yo differentiate it from true love. You also get to find out the love language of yourself and your partner. Give away is on till Tuesday so please send in your answers to "bdsmlcommunity@gmail.com". Enjoy

In this Episode we dicuss defensiveness, causes and various defensive reactions. We find out how to handle our defensive behaviours to enhance whatever relationship we might be in. Finally, we look at intimacy and review Emotional and Sexual intimacy which are 2 of the 4 forms of intimacy. If you haven't subscribed, don't forget to do so here or copy this link and paste in your browser: https://mailchi.mp/43228608d158/bdsmlsubscribe Follow on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcommunity__/ Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/bcommunity__

Daniel Diran rants about the "one million boys harrassing Lagos, Oyo and Ogun states. If you haven't subscribed, don't forget to do so here or copy this link and paste in your browser: https://mailchi.mp/43228608d158/bdsmlsubscribe Follow on:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcommunity__/ Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/bcommunity__

In this Episode, you will discover your communication style, the differences between contract-like and covenant-like relationships, know more about self-understanding and revelation and the various differences between couples and how you can turn them into assets. If you haven't subscribed, don't forget to do so here or copy this link and paste in your browser: https://mailchi.mp/43228608d158/bdsmlsubscribe Follow on: Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcommunity__/ Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/bcommunity__

Daniel Diran rants about 10 things he hates about the "novel" corona virus pandemic (LOL) and the resultant shut down. If you are interested in ranting also, send a mail to: bdsmlcommunity@gmail.com  If you haven't subscribed, don't forget to do so here or copy this link and paste in your browser: https://mailchi.mp/43228608d158/bdsmlsubscribe Follow on:  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bcommunity__/ Twitter: https://mobile.twitter.com/bcommunity__

Hey People, So instead of just one Episode on Communication, I realized we would need more to properly discuss various aspects of communication. Hence, we will be having a Communication Series throughout this month. In this episode, you will find out: What communication is! If you are a dove, hawk, owl or ostrich. The various levels of communication. Don't forget to subscribe to our newsletter to stay updated.  Kindly follow on: Instagram and Twitter. Thank you

After Six (6)months of procrastinating and several days trying to set things up, it is finally live. This Episode is a trailer of the BDSM-L Community podcast channel. It gives full details about who we are, why we exist and what you should expect. Classes starts this Friday. Please don't be late..hehe! Our first Topic is "Communication: Speaking your partners language". Don't forget to drop your amazing stories at bdsmlcommunity@gmail.com for those who have faced or are facing communication issues in their relationships. Your case study might just help not just yourself but someone else. Subscribe to our Newsletter: Newsletter . This way, i send you email updates of new episodes and whatever is worth sharing. Don't worry, i won't spam your inbox. Kindly follow on Instagram and Twitter and don't forget to share with a friend who you think should be part of the community. Remember: Stay indoors during this Covid '19 times and stay safe. See you on Friday!