BeingAMuslimBlackGirl

Watch out for our brand new episode “marriage therapy or na” where we unravel what it means to go to marriage therapy, pre-marital therapy, the pros and cons of making such commitments. We also discuss the stigma around therapy as a whole, the misconception of what therapy actually means and how we can possibly make a chang to these attitudes.

BMBG[SEASON FOUR. EPISODE ONE]- Pray for Palestine by BMBG

In our season finale, we rounded up 2020! We started from describing our 2020 in two words all the way to discussing the massive impact covid-19 has had on the entire nation. ⁣ -⁣ We also discuss the things that need to be left in 2020 alongside the reality of our ultimate purpose as muslims in this world. We definitely came to the conclusion that covid humbled us ALL!! ⁣ -⁣ We hope you enjoy this episode and take many valuable lessons from what we discuss and can also apply them to your 2021 In Shaa Allah.

In this episode of the BMBG podcast we talk about when enough is enough and setting boundaries. Often in life and especially as women we allow people we consider close or our loved ones to have full accessibility to us which sometimes can become draining to ones health and peace. ⁣ ⁣ However, there comes a time when boundaries need to be put in place. When people hear boundaries, they usually feel as though that person doesn’t want to see them or spend time with but 9/10 that isn’t the case. Boundaries aren’t bad a thing but more of a guideline to protect your happiness and sanity and for others to respect that. ⁣ ⁣ Do you know when your enough is enough?

I am sure we are all aware of what is currently going on in Africa and has been going on for many years. we as the youths in Africa and the youths in diaspora can no longer turn a blind eye to what the government of these countries are doing to the innocent people and less fortunate. Open discussions need to be happening everyday, protests need to be taken place and accountability needs to be held by the governments who are trying to run Africa to the ground. In this episode, we WERE actually suppose to discuss Nigeria and Congo as a hot topic but BECAUSE of how heartbreaking and close to home this topic was for all three of us, we ended turning it into our main discussion. This episode we touch on #endsars in Nigeria and the #silentholocaust happening in Congo. we are fully aware that there are so many of countries in Africa and outside the African continent that are facing inequality and brutality but we were so limited on time We hope this episode allows you to learn more about what going on in Africa and encourage you to the support in however many ways you can.

TBA

BMBG[SEASON THREE.EPISODE 4]-Struggles Of Loving Thyself by BMBG

In this episode we start off with a discussion about Tory Lanez and Meg the Stallion and about how black women are ALWAYS torn down day in and day out even when we try to protect our black men who only go round and disrespect us. We are tired! How is she even being called a snitch after protecting Tory from the very start?? Make it make sense please. ⁣ -⁣ We then move on to the difference between friendship and companionship, the struggles of finding a balance with our identities, finding the right friends or company that understand both our culture and faith. This conversation made us realise we have had a lot of struggles growing up as Black Muslim women in a western society ⁣ -⁣ We then touch on a very sensitive topic which is about embracing ones physical features and how this can be made possible. Again, it’s not as straightforward as it may seem, we realised it’s more than just standing in the mirror and telling yourself “ your beautiful”. ⁣ We touch on other things too that are really beneficial but you’ll have to listen to the podcast to find out! ⁣ -⁣ Please let us know your thoughts and if any of the topics stood out to you. Hope you enjoy. ⁣

WE ARE BACKKKK!! We just want to use this moment to apologise for the longest delay, Subuhan’Allah- so much has been going on and getting the team together has been very difficult due to everyone’s personal lives and on going global situation. But we are officially back back! We are back with SEASON 3. EPISODE 2. We even decided to revamp the podcast logo and make it a little more slick, hope y’all like it? - We have also decided to add a little twist and include segments.. In this episode we are start off by discussing rape apologists we then move on to BLM, solve your dilemma and then we end it with a little game (word association). - We hope you enjoy this episode and we do want to apologise as it was recorded over zoom so the quality isn’t the best but you definitely will be touched.

Salaaaaaaam sisters, we know it’s been a little while and we do apologies but we decided to make a special Ramadan edition (woop)! We knew not everyone would be able to make this session so we decided to record it. So in this amazing episode we have sister Ameenah leading one of our online Jummah talk sessions. In this session we cover all things Ramadan, we go from how to prepare for Ramadan ( mentally, emotionally, spiritually & physically) all the way to obstacles and temptations during this sacred month and how we can over come it. We hope you have your pen and paper on standby cause there are gem dropped left, right and centre. We hope this podcast will be beneficial to you and prepare you for Ramadan In Shaa Allah. Also please feel free to DM or email us about anything. We hope you enjoy, Love BMBG x

* DISCLAIMER* you will hear some microphone feedback... we are so sorry about that!! WE ARE BACKKKKKKKKK! We know it has been a while, but we promise we are back for season three which will be consistent, longer and more intense! Anyways we have started seasn three by discussing what is not discussed enough 2020. The girls decided to talk about whats it is like dating as a Black Muslim woman, which includes different experiences we have come across in our life. We discussed the difficulties on dating, on trying to build a romantic relationship whilst also trying to make it pleasing to Allah, we also touched upon tops and advice for sisters who are finding this extremely difficult to date in a halal manner! Hope you enjoy x

A podcast where we speak about our 2019, round up the decade and drop lively gems. We hope you can take everything we spoken about and apply it to your everyday life, into the new year and into the new decade IN SHAA ALLAH! There is a lot of laughter, emotions and tips dropped throughout the episode. We hope you enjoy the episode. Lastly we hope you have an amazing New year and achieve beyond what you are expecting (Ameen). Enjoy listening...

We must say this episode is full of so many emotions, you will go from anger to tears to feeling inspired. Our two amazing guests took us through their personal life journey on how it has been playing in sports as a Black Muslim, and boy oh boy it has been one hell of a bittersweet journey. This episode will truly inspire you and leave you wanted to pursue your dreams and goals more than ever.⁣ ⁣

In this episode we spoke about struggles in university whilst trying to balance our imaan , our acts of worship and school studies. Our guest speaker speaks a lot of truth about how hard it was for him to continue doing acts of worship when away from home, trying to find a prayer point and a whole load of other things

This episode we spoke with one of my personal favourite podcaster where he spoke about being a Muslim creative and the struggles he faces and how he maintains Islam at the forefront of everything he does when putting out content. You may want to grab your notepad and pens lady... he is so amazing, Masha’Allah!

AND WE ARE BACKKKKKK ....

BMBG[SEASON TWO.EPISODE TWO]- Our Ramadan So Far.. by BMBG

Salam Salam !! Back with Season 2 However this is a tad bit different because we a team now. Got 3 amazing sisters, alhamdullilah. Sit down and join us as we speak about struggles, realisation and tips about ramadan. I hope you all enjoy xx

Me and Samiyyah from the Rougue podcast indulge in a deep and very sensitive topic about sexual violence. This topic can effect ANYBODY, even those within the Muslim community but again this is an discussion that is not spoken about enough. Many turn a blind eye to sexual violence, and others do not see the big issue with it. But I do hope you gain knowledge and we can all use this as our stepping stone to have open conversation and making awareness around sexual violence, In Shaa Allah. A problem spoken about is a problem half solved.... I hope you all enjoy xx

My SECOND podcast ALONE ! Sit back, relax as i take you through ten of my personal tips of how to love yourself, build on your deen whilst strengthening your relationship with Allah SWT. It was not a straight forward or over night journey, but I can promise they work with daily practice and a positive mindset. May Allah make it easy for us all (Ameen)

Being a Black Muslim woman is not easy, especially in the western society, May Allah help us all ( Ameen) Join me and Zainab Hassan as we discuss her journey to how she made a name and platform for herself. Listen to some of her secrets and words of encouragement and how she made her dream become reality. Hope you all enjoy, BMBG x

Catch my American Sisters as they talk to BMBG about the crisis around sexuality and conversations around the topic among Black Muslim women and the Muslim community as a whole. Very insightful and interesting. Hope you enjoy it xx

Sit down and relax as me and my amazing guest Ray, founder of 4c_Hijab talk and Hair and Islam. So many things to learn, digest and low about the natural hair. Ray talks so passionately and deeply that I promise you, you'll want to go natural lol. I do hope you enjoy this, as much as I did xx

Enjoy as me and LK.scarves discuss her business, her entrepreneurial skills and how she put them into good use by giving back to her sisters in Islam. She also gives amazing advice on how you can start your own business and the right attitudes to have. She is also realistic with barriers that may arise on your journey. A very motivational and inspiring episode.

The issue of mental health in Islam can be portrayed as a taboo, however this topic is too important and current in our community to be ignored. In this episode, me and my amazing first international guest touch on dilemmas and issues around mental health illnesses within the Muslim community and African Culture Hope you all enjoy xx

Everyone always talk about forgiveness , but have you ever stopped to ask yourself what does it mean to you. This podcast is a touch on forgiveness and the importance of it within Islamic practices. May Allah SWT make us among those that are forgiven and forgivers ( Ameen)

As a Black Muslim sister, who for a majority of her life did not cover her hair, I understand the struggles and pressure those who do not cover their hair face from both the Muslim and non-Muslim community. I am sick and tired of others labeling those who don’t cover their hair “less of a Muslim“ just because they choose not to cover their hair.

Everyday being told to "calm down " or being asked " why are you so angry" because we are black and want our voices to be heard . Yet we are portrayed as submissive because we chose to wear an hijab and the ignorance of people. I am just as tired as you are sis. This podcast is an amazing discussion with my wonderful guest as she discusses what it means to her to be a Black Muslim Woman. We also discuss what we love most about being Black Muslim women alongside the challenges and struggles we have faced with both identities. Hope you Enjoy x

What was/is your university experience been like for you being Black and Muslim ? My amazing guest Aisha talks me through what her university experience is like for her as a medical student. So many things to be learnt from this discussion as I also touch upon personal experiences I faced in whilst in University. Hope you all enjoy, BMBG x

We honestly need to question our society. Aside from the love we black Muslims have amongst ourselves, who else cares or is trying understand us in the wider community or social media?