Empowering Wives

In this episode I want to admonish you to say the affirmations that you want to hear.  If you are in a place where you are longing for someone to affirm you, you may find yourself in trouble.  It is important that you write down positive affirmations to declare over yourself to build your spirit man up before the enemy crush you.

Have you thought about doing some house keeping lately?  Not your physical house but the spiritual one, your soul that is.  The bible say that we must work out our salvation with fear and trembling.  So house keeping is your duty!

The word of the Lord says "many are the afflictions of the righteous, but the Lord shall deliver us from them all."  What you are going through is not meant to kill you because the Lord is with you.  He will deliver you if you do not faint along the way.

You have the ability to unlock your husbands potential.  The bible tells us that life and death lies in the power or the tongue.  Therefore, my question is "what are you speaking"?

When God created man, He saw that there was a problem. That problem was that man was alone, it is not good for a man to be alone.  To solve this problem, God put man into a deep sleep, took a rib from him and formed a woman.  God saw a problem with man and created a solution and presented to the man his wife.   You are not just a wife, you are the solution!

When praying for your marriage it is important that you position yourself so that your prayers can actually be heard.  In order to do this you must emancipate from people and situations that may have bound you.  The way to do this is to forgive.

The fight for marriage can be difficult.  It will seem as if you are in it all alone.  Let me encourage you, the marriage between a man and a woman was established by God even before the church.  You may feel as if you have no assistance it this fight, but those who are for you are more than those against you.  Hang in there, you are in good company.

I have not recorded a podcast in a few months. Therefore, I do not want to come back with out being honest of why it took so long.  Also, I want to take this opportunity to encourage someone to keep pushing.

I have been ministering to other wives for the past 3 years, and I understand their position.  Not only because I have been ministering to them, helping them to get through some of the most trying times of their lives, but also because I have been there.

The pain that you are going through in your life can not compare to the glory that you will receive.  Whatever you are going through, go through with joy as you will receive your reward.

Often times we are carrying burdens that we do not need to carry.  The scripture says "Cast ALL your cares upon Him for He cares for you".  However, we are casting cares then turning around and picking them back up.  In this episode, I challenge you to cast your cares at the feet of our Master and leave them there.

Many wives are responsible for tearing down their own marriage and family.  The word says a wise woman builds her house but a foolish one tears it down with her own hands.  If you have been tearing down your marriage and family I want to challenge you to wise up!

Often times we find ourselves praying to God about our issues and we find that we get no answer.  Then we make the statement "If It's His will then He will answer"!  Well here is something to think about, God is probably not answering because you are asking Him to do something that He have granted you power and authority to do.

It is important that as you battle for your Family, Marriage, Finances, Job or whatever it may be.  It is important that you understand who your and where your enemy is.  Until you know this you will not be victorious in any fight.

Finding out that your beloved husband is unfaithful is devastating.  This was once my reality over 10 years ago.  At this time I know that as wives emotions and thoughts run wild.  Nonetheless, there is an important decision that we must make.  In this episode, I will challenge you to make that decision.  I would also enlighten you to some of things that you may need to identify in order to really understand why you are facing some of the issues your are facing. 

There is a saying "Trouble don't last always".  This indeed is true and the scripture supports it in Ecclesiastes 3:1 "There is a time for everything, and a season for every activity under the heavens:"  Whatever you are going through understand this "It wont always be that way, seasons change"!

You may be going through a tough time in which you do not believe you can handle, or you do not think you are strong enough to make it.  You might not believe, but God has equipped you for every battle on earth that you may need to fight. 

In this first season of Empowering Wives, I would be introducing you to my Journal "Fight to win, a battle plan to fight for your marriage".  One thing that I have recognized since I have been ministering to wives, many wives want to fight for their marriage.   However, they have no idea what that looks like.  In this season, I will walk you through scriptures that Holy Spirit revealed that will help you Fight to win.