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What do you do when intimacy and connection in your marriage start to fade? How can you rekindle the spark, or better yet, keep it burning strong? In this episode, we talk about practical and biblical ways to nurture intimacy in all its forms. When you intentionally protect and prioritize closeness with your spouse, you not only build a marriage you truly enjoy, but you also guard your relationship against the dangers of emotional affairs. Episode Highlights: Identify the different types of intimacy shared within marriage. The wholeness of your marriage matters. All forms of intimacy must be invested in. Boundaries keep your marriage protected. Quotes from this episode: Your sex life is a thermometer, not a thermostat—it reflects the health of your relationship, but it can't set it. When couples neglect emotional and spiritual intimacy, their physical relationship becomes hollow—a beautiful house with no foundation. Sooner or later, the cracks will show. Without emotional intimacy, sex loses its power to truly bond you together. Without spiritual intimacy, you miss God's vision for marriage—a reflection of Christ and the Church. If you wouldn't say, do, or share it with your spouse present, don't do it. That's your boundary—protect it fiercely. If you have nothing to hide, living transparently should be easy—openness is the glue of trust in marriage. Couple's Conversation Guide: When you think about intimacy in your marriage, which type (physical, emotional, spiritual, or relational closeness) feels the strongest right now? Which could use more attention? How do you personally feel most connected to me—through words, actions, time together, or something else? What boundaries do we need to set (personally and as a couple) to guard our marriage against the threat of emotional affairs? What's one thing you'd love for us to do together that would bring more joy, fun, or connection into our marriage? Mentioned in this Episode: Awesome Marriage is on Instagram! This month's resource targets all the major pain points of communication: Fix Communication Breakdowns Bundle Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Fight the chaos of culture and keep your marriage grounded in Biblical truth. Check out 4 Days to Growing Gratitude in Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com ! Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our Fix Communication Breakdowns Bundle
Schedules are tough and many times, schedules can be a challange, or frustrating. Make the plan, follow the plan, and take time to rest, just like God did. You're not a machine, you are a child of God.
Be careful. Don't get pulled into situations that on have some semblance of truth. Those places are stumbling blocks to God's purpose and plan for your life.
Get He's Not Changing Here: https://dr-david-e-clarke-teaches-counseling.thinkific.com/courses/hes-not-changing Get Codependent Hell Here: https://www.davideclarkephd.com/product-page/codependent-hell It's common to divorce a narcissist only to end up in another toxic relationship. In this episode of the Enough is Enough Podcast with Dr. David Clarke, you'll learn how to avoid making the same mistake in your next relationship and get some key relationship advice. Learn how to prevent history from repeating itself after divorce and remarriage and build a healthy marriage.
We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul
Negative thoughts are toxic. They could the connection to God. You can replace them with faith and trust in God. Now is the time to do that.
We've all been there. Problems, thoughts, become distractions, and they build over time into mountains. As Barney Fife used to say, "nip it in the bud." Barney was right.
Send us a textShow Notes: Understanding Narcissism in RelationshipsHost: Jason Polk, Couples Therapist & Agency OwnerEpisode Overview: In this episode, Jason Polk explores the complex topic of narcissism and its impact on relationships. He breaks down what it means to be a narcissist, the origins of narcissistic behavior, and how these patterns affect both partners and families.Key Topics Covered:Jason's definition of narcissismQuote on shame and false empowerment in the development of narcissistic traitsHow narcissists respond to feedback and accountabilityThe emotional toll on partners of narcissists, including depression and loss of selfThe challenges and strategies of marriage counseling with a narcissistic partnerThe importance of leverage and motivation for change in therapyPractical advice for partners, including setting boundaries and reclaiming your voiceResources Mentioned:PDF on functional psychological boundaries Takeaways:Change is possible, but it requires motivation and structurePartners have more influence than they may realizeSometimes, the work is about reclaiming your own needs and sense of selfConnect with Jason Polk: For more support or to learn about therapy options, reach out to Jason and his team of RLT therapists.Jason's agencies: Colorado Relationship RecoveryReal Therapists Group (insurance-based practice)
Have you ever been caught in a mistake, or a lie? Extend mercy to yourself by saying "you're right, I was wrong, I apologize."
Chana Levitan discusses these blocks to closeness with your husband and how to reconnect with your spouse.
God doesn't want us to dwell on the past. He wants us to see where we can go. Letting go isn't always easy.
Life requires us to say goodbye to status quo and accept and adapt to what's next. Not always an easy thing to do.
We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul
Send us a textAfter having previously considered how curiousity functions in a relationship, Kristy and Jerry take a look at how it also influences us as individuals, over our lifespans.
Many people cling to the old ways of thinking and feeling to keep themselves emotionally safe. Not a great place to be stuck, because every day sets the stage for a new beginning.
Sure, it could be a special present, an event, an announcement, a trophy or even a person that came into your life. But the best gift ever, is mercy.
Mercy is God's undeserved, unfailing compassion and love. And yes, it's hard sometimes to share that gift with others. It's hard, but essential.
It's true, we all stray from God's gift of mercy. Because life causes us to question, giving mercy to those we feel, don't deserve it. Mercy is for everyone in your life, not just a few.
Every marriage goes through seasons where spouses see the health of their relationship differently. Our unique physical needs, emotional capacities, and family backgrounds shape the expectations we bring into marriage and the ways we handle conflict. If you're in a season where you feel unheard or disconnected, this episode offers practical ways to pursue your spouse, tools for having the hard conversations, and encouragement to take ownership of your part in the struggle. Most importantly, it will remind you that God cares deeply about you and your marriage, and you can trust Him to guide and protect it. Episode Highlights: Each spouse has different emotional needs and brings different emotional baggage into a marriage. It's important to approach the content spouse with grace. Men and women have different relational needs. Just because you don't talk about, or acknowledge issues, doesn't mean they will just go away. Even if you feel lonely and isolated and unheard in your marriage, you can trust the Lord with your heart. Quotes from Today's Episode: Some people have a higher tolerance for dysfunction or distance in relationships. Couples may be sharing responsibilities without sharing their hearts. Sometimes the content spouse is suppressing their emotions. Acknowledging your part opens up the door for real conversation. It's ok to feel angry or frustrated, but don't let that cause you to sin. You're responsible for learning to manage your emotions. A healthy marriage requires two people who are both willing to grow. Timing and approach are everything. Scripture should be a guide not a weapon. Couples' Conversation Guide: How do you rate the health of your marriage right now? What do you think your spouse would rate your marriage? (If you don't know, ask them!) How safe do you feel to be vulnerable in your marriage? What do you think your spouse would rate how safe they feel in your marriage? (If you don't know, ask them!) How can you show your spouse that their feelings matter to you, even when you don't understand them? Can you identify an unhealthy pattern or rhythm in your marriage? What one positive step can you take toward changing that pattern or rhythm together? This week's challenge: Write your spouse a letter and share something you've had a hard time communicating in the past. Mentioned in this Episode: Find Awesome Marriage on Instagram! A unified family mission can help the work/ family balance. Check out our 10 Christian Family Mission Statements. Help your children write God's Word on their hearts with our FREE 11 Bible Verses For Kids to Memorize Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. If work seems to take priority over your marriage, you'll love this FREE YouVersion plan: Boundaries in Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com ! Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our Raising Faithful Kids in a Cancel Culture.
God has forgivin us for our sins. Simply, He wants us to forgive others, even when we feel that forgivness is not there. Is there someone in your life that needs forgivness?
You have been forgivin of your sins by God. He wants you to do the same towards others, even when you feel they don't deserve it. Not an easy thing to do, but always necessary. That's, mercy.
Ad Age senior agency reporter Lindsay Rittenhouse goes inside the growing trend of brand-agency marriage counseling. Rather than jumping straight into a costly and time-intensive agency review, consultancies are increasingly suggesting services that evaluate the existing relationship, and potentially improve both the agency and brand's practices. Plus, Group Black is changing its name to Portrait Media Group. In an exclusive interview with Ad Age, co-founder Bonin Bough explained the reason as well as the company's future path. And one change for future CMOs is the rise of test-running roles before committing full-time. Read more on how to get noticed for interim marketing positions. Dig deeper on the topics mentioned in this week's episode: ~Inside brand-agency marriage counselling ~The stats on client-agency tenure ~Google won't be forced to sell Chrome ~What Kraft Heinz's reorganization means for its future ~Keep up with the latest account reviews ~Buy tickets to Ad Age's Business of Brands conference ~Listen to Manscaped's CMO talk unconventional media strategies
Discover principles of a successful marriage makeover with Ruth Baron & Chaya Berger
Showing mercy is reflecting God's character in you. It's true, showing mercy to others, even when we feel they don't deserve it, is how God wants us to live our lives.
Are you truly satisfied, or always chasing more? This week we sit down with author Bobby Jamieson to talk about his book Everything Is Never Enough and the wisdom of Ecclesiastes. We'll unpack why your spouse can't be your joy, your job can't be your purpose, and your family can't give ultimate meaning. Real joy comes only from God; the giver, sustainer, and comforter. Anything else leaves us empty. Our hope is this conversation points you back to the only source who satisfies. Episode Highlights: We are searching the world for a satisfaction that only comes from Him. It's a crushing weight to expect our spouse to meet needs that only the Lord can meet. Desiring happiness and trying to create it will never work. A life of ease doesn't equal a life of joy. Marriage is a gift to be nurtured. It's daily decisions to care for, to provide for, to invest in your marriage. Quotes from Today's Episode: Happiness is a byproduct. If you just try to chase happiness directly, you're not really gonna get it. The world leaves us wanting. That eternity in our hearts is ultimately a longing for God. Only He can satisfy. Only He can fill our hearts. We are often tempted to seek that total good from our spouse. If you bring that expectation to your husband or wife, you will crush them. A lot of the joy of marriage arises as your laboring, as your communicating, as your toiling together. If you view all of life as a gift of God then you can give up that need for control. Marriage a whole lot of daily little kindnesses. Couples' Conversation Guide: When's the last time you thanked God for your spouse? Where do you find it difficult to enjoy your “lot”? When you consider your spouse, do you consider the fact they are a “gift” from the Lord? What's one way you can serve your spouse today? Mentioned in this Episode: You need a copy of Everything is Never Enough: Ecclesiastes' Surprising Path to Resilient Happiness Find Awesome Marriage on Instagram Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Have you believed the lied that marriage should be your source of happiness? 5 Marriage Lies to Defeat with Biblical Truths is the reading plan for you. If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com ! Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our Raising Faithful Kids in a Cancel Culture.
We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul
Simply, mercy is kindness and goodness, the essentials for resrotation and healing. Letting go and letting God show you the way, is the first step,
Are conflicts and growing emotional distance leaving you feeling exhausted and disconnected from your partner? Many couples find themselves in a cycle of frustration, where misunderstandings and unresolved arguments create a gap that feels impossible to close. You might be wondering if it's possible to restore the connection you once cherished. In this episode, we talk with Arkadiy Volkov, a registered psychotherapist and founder of Feel Your Way Therapy. Arkadiy, who specializes in couples therapy, shares his unique insights on how to move "From Conflict to Connection."Drawing on his experience and faith-based approach, he explains why communication breakdowns and emotional distance are so common and, most importantly, how couples can begin to heal. Tune in to discover how to: ✅ Address frequent misunderstandings and feel truly heard by your partner. ✅ Bridge emotional distance and rebuild a sense of closeness. ✅ Navigate persistent conflicts and find lasting resolution. This episode will show you that hope is never lost for your relationship and that healing is possible. Topics Covered Relationship conflict, couples communication, emotional distance, relationship repair, marriage counseling, couples therapy, dating advice, communication skills, building intimacy, emotional connection, Christian counseling, family life. Find Arcadiy here: https://www.feelyourwaytherapy.ca/ Did you enjoy this episode and would like to share some love?
Simply, by expressing the abundant mercy He has shown us. Let the anger go, and allow His mercy to help you move ahead.
Join special guest expert, Jamie Geller, as she shares the most important keys to being a great wife. This is an amazing new show that wives just can't miss.
We don't deserve it, but God's pardon, grace and mercy is always right there in front of you. No secret password or limited time offer.
Is your spouse married to their job, or are you? In today's episode, we're talking about what happens when work takes priority over marriage and how couples can recognize the signs before it causes lasting damage. Let's talk about why this is such a common struggle, what Scripture says about balancing work and marriage, and how to reconnect when work has created distance. If you're feeling like your relationship is playing second to a career, this one's for you. Let's dive in. Episode Highlights: God gave us ambition and talents for a reason. Work balance in marriage is a common struggle. We tried to look at struggles as growth opportunities instead of failures Society adds to the pressure we feel to pursue success first. If conversations become logistical or date nights become extinct you may be prioritizing work over your marriage. There's a biblical order, that when we get that order right, everything else finds its proper place. Prayer reminds us who our work is truly for. Quotes from Today's Episode: The issue is when our ambition becomes our identity. When we believe our value comes from our next promotion. We are sacrificing our family for our ego. Our culture has us believe rest is laziness. Providing isn't just about money. Your spouse needs your presence, your attention, and your emotional availability. Scripture makes it clear that work is good. We are created in the image of a working God. Bu work has its place in the greater order, and that place isn't first.. Rest and relationship are sacred. Boundaries aren't restrictions. They are protections. Create rituals that prioritize connections. Our ultimate provision isn't in our performance, it's in God's faithfulness. See what happens when you're physically forced to be present with one another. Couples' Conversation Guide: What one daily ritual can you begin this week to show your spouse and your marriage the energy it deserves. (coffee in the morning, lunch time phone call, prayer in the evening, etc.) When you hear the word “boundaries” do you automatically feel restricted? How can we implement some boundaries that feel like protection instead? Does our calendar reflect our heart for keeping our marriage first? If not, where can you begin to say “no” so that you can say “yes” to your marriage? What are some physical distractions we can remove during our time together? Mentioned in this Episode: Find Awesome Marriage on Instagram! A unified family mission can help the work/ family balance. Check out our 10 Christian Family Mission Statements. Help your children write God's Word on their hearts with our FREE 11 Bible Verses For Kids to Memorize Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. If work seems to take priority over your marriage, you'll love this FREE YouVersion plan: Boundaries in Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com ! Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our Raising Faithful Kids in a Cancel Culture.
We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul
Little problems hve a way of growing into major conflicts, especially when we decide that our way is the best way. Wrong in so many ways. Lean on God to help the next time trouble comes your way. Trust him, always.
It's not true, it's not fair, and it hurts. God can help you discover the best way to answer the issue. Use his wisdom and his words to help move forward.
Counseling is incredibly valuable. Jason and Lauren are huge proponents of marriage counseling, coaching and investing in marriage in a way that invites outside input from experts who can give great feedback to help couples grow in their connection. But it's so common for couples to spend years in sessions and workshops and retreats without ever experiencing lasting breakthrough. Why? Because no matter how good the tools are, they don't work if certain foundations aren't in place.In this episode, pastors and coaches Jason and Lauren Vallotton unpack some of the hidden reasons couples stay stuck—even with professional help—and how to create the kind of environment where real change is possible.They explore:Why solving problems without first building connection is like trying to spend from an empty bank account.How misdiagnosing root issues keeps couples treating the wrong thing—and stuck in painful cycles.Why communication tools and boundaries fail if you don't understand your actual relational cycle.How “making things fair” in sessions can unintentionally block radical ownership—something both spouses need in order to break patterns.Why safety is the soil for growth, and how tools can feel like weapons if emotional safety isn't present.The importance of “turning toward” your spouse and focusing on one clear target at a time.This conversation offers fresh perspective and practical guidance for anyone longing for deeper transformation in their marriage.PatreonIf you've enjoyed this podcast, would you consider financially supporting the show? Every donation, big and small, helps the Vallottons continue to prioritize making this content for you. Click this link to support! Thank you!For information on the Marriage Intensive and other resources, go to jasonandlaurenvallotton.com !Connect with Lauren:InstagramFacebookConnect with Jason:Jay's InstagramJay's FacebookBraveCo Instagramwww.braveco.org
We have a choice on what we believe and how we move through life. You are, who you are, because of your actions and integrity. Integrity will pull you through the most difficult times, it's true.
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God had a plan in mind when he created you. A plan for every moment of your life. Sometimes we go in the wrong direction, and God is right there correcting our path. Listening is the key. Responding to his voice is the way.
Join host Leah Richeimer, as she shares her best relationship advice ever. Join part 2 Game on with Leah for marriage tips starting with never giving up on your spouse. This is an amazing gem of a show that wives just can't miss.
I'll bet you've heard it. When facing a tough decision, or up against a major conflict. God speaks to us every day. How we listen is the most important part. Are you listening?
You can choose to walk away from God. That's a choice, a dangerous choice, because your life was designed by God and walking with Him every day means you are on the right path. Just in case you get lost, he's there to get you back on track.
We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul
Simply, never deny that a problem exists. So, what's your trouble, today? God is waiting to have a conversation.
Yeah, trouble can be a speed bump in your life and we all experience trouble. The key to moving ahead is simple. Trust God to give you the wisdom and insight on how to move past trouble. He really does have the answers for you.
Bobby talked about how marriage counseling has benefited him and his wife's relationship since before they got married. Amy lost a game recently and we've been waiting to have her spin the Wheel of Mild Punishment. Bobby finally determines her fate today and she is NOT happy. How well do you know classic TV Theme songs? Raymundo gives the show members a question about famous tv show songs...who can get the most correct and be the champ? In the Anonymous Inbox, a listener is debating between choosing a lucrative job offer or the love of his life?See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Send us a textAfter a summer hiatus, Jerry & Kristy are back, talking about the curiosities -- or lack of curiosities -- we have about our partners. How does this affect intimacy? Long-term relationship habits can work to erode spontaneity, a sense of discovery and wonder and all the good stuff that was there in the beginning. Can curiosity be restored??? YES, and at any point in the life span of your relationship.
We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul
You've discovered your husband's secret infidelity. What to know BEFORE you go to couple therapy.
Kenny and Joana have been going to couples therapy but Kenny is starting to think it might not be worth it when he starts to suspect that Joana might be cheating on him. Follow us on socials! @themorningmess