Podcasts about marriage counseling

Success can be a "Major Award.  F-R-A-G-I-L-E.  Here's the truth.  Whatever I achieve ia gift from God.  Stay humble.

In today's episode, we're diving into a powerful truth: the health of your marriage often comes down to what you choose to focus on. It's easy to fixate on what's not working, letting small annoyances grow into mountains of frustration. But what if the key to deeper connection and lasting joy is found in a simple but radical posture—gratitude? We'll explore how contentment isn't resignation, but an intentional choice to see the blessings amidst the imperfections. You'll hear honest reflections on prioritizing your spouse, the life-giving role of quality time, and how to navigate conflict in ways that build satisfaction, not resentment. Whether you're newly married or decades in, this conversation is a fresh reminder that gratitude, not settling, is the foundation of a thriving Christian marriage.   Episode highlights: Feeling content in marriage is different from settling. There's a way to work through conflict that makes both spouses feel more satisfied. Healthy conflict resolution is one of the strongest predictors of marriage satisfaction.  Silent discontentment leads to resentment that erodes at the foundation of your marriage.  The key is finding solutions that honor both spouses perspectives.   Questions to reflect: What are three things about our marriage that you're grateful for right now? Are there any small annoyances in our relationship that we've let build up? How can we address them gently and respectfully? How can we be more intentional about choosing each other—especially in the areas where our preferences or personalities differ?   Quotes from today's episode: “I found myself focusing on the things that weren't working in my marriage instead of thinking about the things that were.” “Small annoyances can grow into mountains of frustration” “Settling comes from a place of resignation” “Contentment flows from gratitude, an intentional choice we make.” “Contentment says I see the imperfections in our marriage but I choose to focus on the blessings.” “Nancy comes before my personal preferences.” “The key word is choice.” “Have a posture of gratitude while understanding there is room for growth.” “Quality time is oxygen for your marriage” "There's a way to work through conflict that makes both spouses feel more satisfied." Mentioned in this episode: Use our Marriage Reframing Challenge to change your perspective about your spouse and/or your marriage.  Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you intentionally choose to pursue the marriage God intended, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: 5 Marriage Lies to Defeat with Biblical Truth If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy.   

How to Have More Empathy for Your SpouseEmpathy is the backbone of emotional connection in marriage, yet most couples never learn the difference between being “nice,” listening, and truly empathizing. In this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, you'll get a practical guide to building real connection through validation—not just understanding or fixing. If you want to break the cycle of conflict and start making your spouse feel valued and understood, this is where to start.What You'll Learn:Why empathy—not just listening or being nice—creates real emotional connectionHow to validate your spouse so they feel normal and rightThe difference between agreeing with ideas and empathizing with emotionsPractical examples of validation that you can use in your own marriageWant to Work With Coach Jack? If you're ready to build a closer marriage using proven, step-by-step relationship skills, learn more about my Re-Connections Coaching Package. Coaching is practical, private, and focused on helping you create the marriage you want.Key Takeaways:Listening is not enough—validation and empathy are required for connectionAgreement is for ideas; empathy is for emotionsFocusing on how your spouse receives your words changes the relationship dynamicValidation can defuse conflict and build long-term intimacyThese skills can be learned and improved by anyoneAdditional Resources:Connecting Through "Yes!" – Book on the skill of agreement in relationships and marriageFree Download - Help your spouse to enjoy talking with you again with these free lessons.Work one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

Quick answer.  No!  God tests our faith.  He has the answers to all those issues, big and small.

André Lauren Benjamin, better known by his stage name André 3000, once said that "Roses really smell like Poo-Poo-Ooh"... and while he had a propensity to 'run out of sugar', forcing him to ask his neighbors if he could borrow some; this modern-day philosopher was right on the money when it came to the fruit of this expensive, thorny flower... Thusly Pastors Zac and Ashley discuss the finer tenets of Romance... and I beg you to recognize the plurality of the word "tenets". Topic Ideas: info@hpc.com 

Matthen 6:25 says not to worry about your life for God will provice for your needs.  If you tend to worry about every little thing, consider having a conversation with God.  He can help.

Let us know how you enjoyed this episode!Did you know marriage counseling isn't the only way to get support for your marriage?If you've ever wanted an alternative to marriage counseling, here's an episode dedicated to explaining how marriage coaching works and how to make sure you get the results you want out of it.If you are ready to finally see the change you want in your marriage, book your clarity call with me today so we can get started!Thank you for listening!If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarityConnect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoaching and follow me on threads @michellepurtacoaching!If you would like to support this show, please rate and review the show, and share it with people you know would love this show too!Additional Resources:Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage?  Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!

Think about this, you worry about a situation, your feelings react as it if actually happend.  Get on the right page by starting with a conversation with God.  He can help.

In this deeply honest and hope-filled conversation, Justin and Trisha Davis open up about their journey through love, ministry, and the real struggles that nearly tore their marriage apart—including infidelity and hidden personal battles. With vulnerability and wisdom, they share how counseling, truth-telling, and taking ownership became the turning points in their healing. Trisha shares what it looked like to face the pain of betrayal trauma, while Justin reflects on the overwhelming guilt and the hard road to forgiveness. Together, they unpack how our stories, the words spoken over us, and the lies we believe about our worth can deeply affect how we show up in relationships. But this isn't just a story about pain—it's a story about redemption. About the power of grace, the courage it takes to grieve and heal, and the choice to believe that real transformation is possible. More than behavior change, they point to the heart—the deep, inner work that allows us to discover who we really are and who God has created us to be. Their story is a beautiful reminder that no matter how broken things may feel, healing and hope are always within reach.   Episode highlights: Rock bottom is still a solid surface to stand when you come alongside Christ. Intimacy is to be fully known and know that we're fully loved. You never cause someone to have an affair. The truth sets you free because it doesn't give any room for the enemy. Excavating our past helps us understand our present. Redemptive pain can lead to growth. Healthy relationships require vulnerability and trust. Transformation comes from God's grace and our choices.   Questions for reflection: 1. What small, everyday choices are we making in our marriage that could either be building connection—or slowly creating distance? 2. Are there areas of hiddenness in our relationship—past wounds, unspoken frustrations, or shame—that we need to bring into the light? 3. What does forgiveness look like in our relationship right now?   Quotes from today's episode: "I had to choose to be a truth teller myself." "You never cause someone to have an affair." "I believed I have to be perfect to be loved." "You can't today, but God still has a plan." "Healing is hard, but then it's worth it." "You are not as stuck as you think you are." "You have to stop gaslighting yourself to grieve." "The heart of the book is about what God can do." Mentioned in this episode: Beyond Ordinary: When a Good Marriage Just Isn't Good Enough by Justin & Trisha Davis RefineUs Ministries Helping people experience transformation by building healthy, authentic relationships. Find Justin and Trisha on Instagram Use our Marriage Reframing Challenge to change your perspective about your spouse and/or your marriage.  Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you intentionally choose to pursue the marriage God intended, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: 5 Marriage Lies to Defeat with Biblical Truth If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Dear Quinn, Help My Parenting! Your Listener Questions Answered About Helping Kids Become More Independent, Disrespectful Teens and Moms that Need Breaks In the episode, Quinn answers these questions: 1. What should a mom do when they feel that their kids are being highly vocal in their teen years about the things I am not doing right as a parent? I want to take feedback, but don't want my feelings hurt. 2. My children are moving from the younger needy phase to the older independent phase and I'm struggling to let go of micromanaging them. How long are we supposed to let the leash lengthen between us and our child as they grow? 3. What happens when I am touched out? I don't want to be rude to them but I need space. Mind Renewal Tip: In parenting, if we remember that we grow as parents as our children grow as humans, we stay humble and adapt as their needs change. Scripture Renewal Tip: "Blessed is the one who finds wisdom, and the one who gets understanding, for the gain from her is better than gain from silver and her profit better than gold. She is more precious than jewels, and nothing you desire can compare with her." Proverbs 3:13-15: Purchase Sacred Marriage HERE.

We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul

In this deeply honest and hope-filled conversation, Justin and Trisha Davis open up about their journey through love, ministry, and the real struggles that nearly tore their marriage apart—including infidelity and hidden personal battles. With vulnerability and wisdom, they share how counseling, truth-telling, and taking ownership became the turning points in their healing. Trisha shares what it looked like to face the pain of betrayal trauma, while Justin reflects on the overwhelming guilt and the hard road to forgiveness. Together, they unpack how our stories, the words spoken over us, and the lies we believe about our worth can deeply affect how we show up in relationships. But this isn't just a story about pain—it's a story about redemption. About the power of grace, the courage it takes to grieve and heal, and the choice to believe that real transformation is possible. More than behavior change, they point to the heart—the deep, inner work that allows us to discover who we really are and who God has created us to be. Their story is a beautiful reminder that no matter how broken things may feel, healing and hope are always within reach.   Episode highlights: Rock bottom is still a solid surface to stand when you come alongside Christ. Intimacy is to be fully known and know that we're fully loved. You never cause someone to have an affair. The truth sets you free because it doesn't give any room for the enemy. Excavating our past helps us understand our present. Redemptive pain can lead to growth. Healthy relationships require vulnerability and trust. Transformation comes from God's grace and our choices.   Questions for reflection: 1. What small, everyday choices are we making in our marriage that could either be building connection—or slowly creating distance? 2. Are there areas of hiddenness in our relationship—past wounds, unspoken frustrations, or shame—that we need to bring into the light? 3. What does forgiveness look like in our relationship right now?   Quotes from today's episode: "I had to choose to be a truth teller myself." "You never cause someone to have an affair." "I believed I have to be perfect to be loved." "You can't today, but God still has a plan." "Healing is hard, but then it's worth it." "You are not as stuck as you think you are." "You have to stop gaslighting yourself to grieve." "The heart of the book is about what God can do." Mentioned in this episode: Beyond Ordinary: When a Good Marriage Just Isn't Good Enough by Justin & Trisha Davis RefineUs Ministries Helping people experience transformation by building healthy, authentic relationships. Find Justin and Trisha on Instagram Use our Marriage Reframing Challenge to change your perspective about your spouse and/or your marriage.  Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you intentionally choose to pursue the marriage God intended, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: 5 Marriage Lies to Defeat with Biblical Truth If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”

Go ahead, ask yourself.  What is the worst possible thing that could happen?  And, what could you do to cope with those issues.  Worry doesn't solve problems, it compounds them.

Let's connect the dots.  Imagination can play an essential role in constructing negative images of our concerns.  And that snowballs into doubt and depression.  Try this.  Imagine Jesus giving you what you need to face any situation.  

Ever wonder what caused the break up? Chances are, someone didn't stay in their aura lane. Michaela discusses what staying in your lane means for energy in a relationship, how soulmates navigate evolution and how different aura colors can overstep in their partnerships. Scott and Michaela discuss Blake Lively's and Ryan Reynold's auras, what soulmates are and how people can communicate through tough times to avoid a break up. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.comWant to learn more? Enjoy one of our other interactive Aura quizzes: https://knowyouraura.com/aura-quizzesListen to this introductory episode to find your Aura color: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/bonus-every-aura-color-explained/id1477126939?i=1000479357880Send Mystic Michaela some positive energy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mysticmichaelaExplore the Know Your Aura Website : https://knowyouraura.comVisit Mystic Michaela's Website: https://www.mysticmichaela.comJoin Mystic Michaela's Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2093029197406168Daria Lavelle's website: https://www.darialavelle.comAds:Get $30 off the first box - PLUS free Croissants in every box - when you go to https://wildgrain.com/kya to start your subscription.Visit https://shopbeam.com/kya and use code KYA to get our exclusive discount of up to 35% off.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

How Do We Overcome the Hidden Forces Behind Marital Challenges?   How does your relationships—or even your parents' marriage—shape the way you see beauty, brokenness, and the world itself? Therapist Dan Allender joins host Curtis Chang for a raw, insightful conversation on how relationships form the backbone of our worldview, especially in times of stress and trauma. They unpack hidden triggers behind marital conflict, the power of empathy over contempt, and why kindness and repentance are key to lasting connection. Whether you're navigating conflict or craving deeper intimacy, this episode delivers transformative wisdom for healthier, faith-rooted relationships.   Resources mentioned in this episode: Read Becky Allender's written pieces for The Allender Center Learn more about Steve Call's The Reconnect Institute Learn more about the work of Drs. John & Julie Gottman at The Gottman Institute   More From Dan Allender: Dan Allender & Steve Call's The Deep-Rooted Marriage Learn more about Dan's work at The Allender Center Check out Dan Allender's other books   Follow Us: Good Faith on Instagram Good Faith on X (formerly Twitter) Good Faith on Facebook   Sign up: Redeeming Babel Newsletter

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. It can be hard to know what is real and what is fake in the digital world we live in. Because of this, millions of older adults are falling victim to financial fraud with the FBI estimating that seniors lose more than $3 billion a year to scammers. In this episode, Quinn teaches listeners how to navigate and teach themselves and their loved ones about online safety by addressing: 1. Common types of scams 2. The way these play on your emotions 3. Common Red Flags to Look Out For Mind Renewal Tip: Rushed decisions are typically not the wisest of decisions. So take time to consider when a decision is being made based on emotion and not fact. Scripture Renewal Tip: You shall not spread a false report. You shall not join hands with a wicked man to be a malicious witness. Hebrews 13:18 Resources Better Business Bureau. Before giving money away, research charities on sites like Charity Navigator and CharityWatch https://www.buckley-law.com/articles/romance-scams-elderly/ To report scams and fraud, you can file a report with the Federal Trade Commission The Federal Trade Commission offers helpful information online about obtaining free credit monitoring or reporting services. Learn more about Hope for the Heart's upcoming Mental Health and the Church event here. Purchase Sacred Marriage HERE.

Send us a textLet's talk about the conversation that everyone tiptoes around—but desperately needs to have.Why is it so easy for some wives to submit to their boss, their pastor, their friends… yet struggle to submit to the one man God called them to honor—their husband?

Worry is much bigger than you are.  Taking a moment to talk with God can mean the difference of being stuck, or moving forward.  Let's get you unstuck, today.

Worry can and will dull your faith in God.  You don't have to live there.  You can change that, today.  It's time to move on.

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Narcissistic Behavior Is Normalized In The Offenders Family!In this episode of The 'NEW' Marriage (Ep267), we explore how narcissistic behavior becomes normalized in families, the effects on relationships, and strategies for healing. If you're dealing with toxic family dynamics or narcissistic abuse, this episode offers valuable insights and tips for breaking free and creating healthier relationships.

Join special guest, Dr. Chaya Lieba Kobernick, as she unravels questions about a therapist's role in marriage.  

Simply, look to God for insight and wisdom to make things right.  Get unstuck and get on with your life.

We're excited to launch a brand-new format for the Awesome Marriage Podcast—and with it, introduce a highly requested new co-host: Mrs. Nancy Kimberling! In this episode, Dr. Kim and Nancy Kimberling take you on a heartfelt journey through the story of their relationship, from their blind date to their early years of marriage and parenting, all the way to the joy of becoming great-grandparents. Their marriage hasn't been without its challenges, but what's carried them through it all is a decision they made early on: to keep God at the center of everything. Their wisdom, authenticity, and love for each other will make them one of your favorite couples to learn from. We pray this episode encourages and blesses your marriage.   Episode Takeaways: No matter how your marriage starts, everything changes when you invite the Lord in. He can transform the direction of your relationship in powerful ways. Building a strong, healthy marriage and family takes intentional effort and regular reflection on what's working—and what's not. Join the Kimberlings for an honest, up-close look at every season of marriage. Questions to Discuss:  When's the last time you reflected on where and when your relationship began? What scripture could you hold on to to help anchor your marriage to Christ?  What is keeping your marriage from moving in the direction you want it to move? Quotes: “We had fights and I thought what is going on, I made a mistake.” “You didn't get the picket fence” “I could have been the fun dad and still done discipline” “God taught us He cares about everything” “The more we brought Him into our conversations, our decisions. He was there. To guide us and to help us.  “It's saved our marriage.”  “God was there when they got married, and He's still there, and they made a covenant before Him and it matters.”  “We took divorce off the table and we kept it off the table.” “The most important thing to do in marriage is prayer.” “It's so important to have godly couples who are older than you and come alongside of you with godly wisdom.” “It's so important to have a village, a tribe, a life group to do life with.” MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you intentionally choose to puruse the marriage God intended, find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. Try this FREE YouVersion plan: 5 Marriage Lies to Defeat with Biblical Truth If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”  

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. We have a generation of boys struggling to launch and leave the nest. They seem easy at home because they are content on technology, but many parents find it feels hard to get them motivated to fly the coop. In today's episode Quinn addresses: 1. If the phrase “He's so easy. Just give him a video game and food and he doesn't make a peep!” is something to applaud. 2. What E word we should be focusing on as parents that isn't the word easy. 3. 7 Focuses We Want to Give Our Attention to When Raising Sons Mind Renewal Tip: We don't want easy boys, we want engaged boys, and they also end up engaged in easy, then we'll take that too! Scripture Renewal Tip: David defeated Goliath with a sling and rock. He killed him without even using a sword. David ran over and pulled out Goliath's sword. Then he used it to cut off Goliath's head. 1 Samuel 17: 50-53 Learn more about Hope for the Heart's upcoming Mental Health and the Church event here. Purchase Sacred Marriage HERE.

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.90% of Marriages Fail!In this episode of The 'NEW' Marriage (Ep266), we discuss the shocking statistic that 90% of marriages fail and explore the key factors contributing to relationship breakdowns. Learn how to avoid common pitfalls, strengthen your marriage, and build a lasting, healthy partnership.

We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul

Negative thoughts can destroy a person.  One word, adjustment.  Discover how to flow with other peoples patterns of life.  Not always that easy, but much easier when you talk to God about it.

You feeling this episode? Send us a text!Pt 3/7. In this episode, we come to a halt as most relationships do. For whatever reason, your relationship is at a stalemate. Arguments become frequently. One or both feel like they aren't being heard. When one or both try to end it but struggle to. Where do you go from here? Ask yourself is this worth fighting for? Block out the noise and the observation of other's relationships and focus on what centers you both. If you're looking for longevity, why? Don't base it off of parents or grandparents because you'll probably never know their struggles to stay. Time periods were different as well. Are you enough? I'm not talking about the other person but are you enough to yourself to keep fighting for someone else? Well, anywho, let's tune in. Support the show

Did you know that self-blame is often followed by blaming others.  This isn't the way God designed us to live.  It's time to face the reality of your situation.  Start with a conversation with God.

What is most important at THIS MOMENT?  Not yesterday, or tomorrow.  This moment is where you start to manage frustration and turn the corner.  Tomorrow becomes a much better day.

When life gets overwhelming—whether it's from busyness, health struggles, or a hard season—it's easy to let your marriage quietly slip to the back burner. In today's episode, we're talking about why putting first things first matters more than ever when you're under pressure. We'll explore the hidden costs of busyness, how to recognize when it's time to say "no" to good things to protect the best things, and why you must be intentional about hearing from God in every season. Plus, we'll share practical steps to help you and your spouse stay connected, even when life feels heavy. If you're feeling stretched thin, stressed out, or spiritually distant, this conversation is for you.  

High levels of frustration can produce self-defeating thoughts and behaviors.  You need to find the strength to power through.  Trust in God to help you find the way.  

In this heartfelt and honest conversation, Dr. Kim sits down with Jimmy Rollins to unpack the real-life highs and lows of marriage. They dive into why communication, forgiveness, and a strong support system are so crucial—and how those things have played out in their own lives. From the power of simple daily appreciations to creating a safe space for open conversations, Jimmy and Dr. Kim get real about what it takes to build (and rebuild) a strong relationship. They also reflect on how easy it is to chase success in the wrong places—and how to shift the focus back to what matters most. Whether you're in a great season or struggling to find your footing, this episode is full of practical wisdom and encouragement to help you grow and heal in your marriage. Episode Takeaways: Every marriage is hard and requires effort. Forgiveness is a decision, while reconciliation is a process. Daily appreciation can reignite connection in marriage. Creating a safe space is essential for open communication. Winning at the wrong things can harm your marriage. Community support is crucial for maintaining healthy relationships. It's important to examine your own behavior in marriage. Practical steps can lead to significant changes in relationships. Couples should seek resources and mentorship for guidance. The goal in marriage is to think together, not alike.   Questions to Discuss:  Are there areas of your marriage you are trying to ignore? Are there areas you are trying to change your spouse? How would you rate the community you have to support your marriage? What one thing can you say “no” to today, so that you have more margin to say “yes”  in your marriage.    Quotes: "Forgiveness is a decision." "Community is what keeps us sober." "You're not in it by yourself." "Every marriage is hard." "The goal is not to think alike." "The best days are ahead of us."   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our FREE Weekly Marriage Check Up Guide to keep intentionally winning in your marriage! Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you prioritize your marriage. Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Traffic Signs and Your Marriage: Part 1 If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. The world often shows preference to extroverts because they seem friendly, warm and engaging, but introverts have equally needed and powerful traits that can get overlooked if they don't have opportunities to show their strengths. In today's episode, Quinn highlights: 1. The differences between introverts and extroverts 2. The myth of being shy versus being introverted 3. The traits that make introverts great leaders Mind Renewal Tip: Introverts often show their best self when they are focused on a task versus connection because the pressure of connecting does not take their energy. Scriptural Renewal Tip:There is one body, but it has many parts. But all its many parts make up one body. It is the same with Christ. 13 We were all baptized by one Holy Spirit. And so we are formed into one body. It didn't matter whether we were Jews or Gentiles, slaves or free people. We were all given the same Spirit to drink. 14 So the body is not made up of just one part. It has many parts. I Corinthians 12: 12-14 Learn more about Hope for the Heart's upcoming Mental Health and the Church event here.

Welcome back!This is the 3rd of 3 episodes breaking down the vast array of parenting resources we have at our fingertips. Today we're talking: personal therapy, marriage counseling, one-off or 1:1 parenting coaching, and virtual parenting programs / memberships.For each, I break down the family that resource is BEST for, the benefits it provides, the unique Pros and Cons of utilizing that support vs. another, and ultimately, for some, the way they fall short. IN THIS EPISODE I SHARED:What a therapist will never tell youWhy 1:1 coaching actually takes LONGER to see resultsThe nuance missing from programs developed 50+ years agoDON'T MISS:The program that has it *all* if you are still looking for a breakthrough // MENTIONED IN THE EPISODE //Parent Effectiveness Training (P.E.T.)Nonviolent Communication (N.V.C.)Systematic Training for Effective Parenting (S.T.E.P.)Active ParentingTriple P (Positive Parenting Program)How to Talk so Kids Will Listen and Listen so Kids Will TalkPositive DisciplineLove and LogicDare to Discipline // CONNECT WITH DANIELLE //Website: parentingwholeheartedly.comIG: @‌parent_wholeheartedlyAPPLY: parentingwholeheartedly.com/applySend us Fan Mail over Text.Support the showSTART HERE:CALM + CONFIDENT: THE MASTERCLASS Master the KIND + FIRM Approach your Strong-Willed Child Needs WITHOUT Crushing their Spirit OR Walking on Eggshells *FREE* - www.parentingwholeheartedly.com/confident

We hope you enjoy!Please reach out to us at:marriageistougher.comfacebook.com/MarriageIsTougherinstagram.com/marriageistougher/Let us know if you would like to be a guest on the show or share topic ideasDon't forget to rate, review and subscribe!!!This goes a long way to help us get our message out to more men ready to be better husbands!Thank You,Bryan and Paul

In this episode of 'Solving Disconnection and Creating Connected Relationships for Couples and Parents,' Jason Polk, a therapist and coach with over 10 years of experience, discusses the financial and emotional costs of marriage counseling versus divorce. Jason highlights the expense and emotional toll of contested divorces, which can range from $10,000 to $15,000, compared to the relatively lower cost of marriage counseling. He explains how counseling can help either salvage a relationship or make the separation process more compassionate and dignified. Jason states that counseling can be valuable in creating healthier futures, whether couples stay together or separate.00:00 Introduction to the Show00:27 Marriage Counseling vs. Divorce: An Overview00:39 Financial and Emotional Costs of Divorce02:17 The Role of Marriage Counseling05:23 When Divorce is Inevitable06:15 Cost Comparison: Counseling vs. Divorce06:48 Conclusion and Final ThoughtsCouples Intensive episode.This episode was inspired by Jason's blog post. Jason's marriage counseling practice.

Managing stress isn't easy.  Acknowledging what you feel and think is best managed through confession.  Jesus has everything you need to help that happen.

Failure is very predictable in every human.  We are imperfect.  How we rebound from failure is based on truth and faith in God.  He will cleanse your heart and soul, every time.

Suspicion that is unresolved can damage a relationship in many ways.  Allow God to direct your benavior and help you discover truth.  He is the only one who can do that in your life.

Main takeaway:  Every relationship can be prone to drifting if we aren't paying attention, and our marriage relationship is no exception. In this episode Dr. Kim and Lindsay talk about how easy it is to begin prioritizing good things over the best things, and how those small compromises lead to big disconnect in marriage.  This episode will help you recognize the signs of drift and begin to fight back against it! Recognizing the signs of drifting is crucial for couples. Prioritizing time together is essential to prevent drifting. Good things can distract from nurturing the marriage. Drifting can happen gradually without realization. Communication and emotional intimacy are key to a strong marriage. Common signs of drifting include changes in communication and intimacy. Non-sexual physical touch can enhance emotional intimacy. It's important to address issues early before they become entrenched patterns. Questions to Discuss:  Is your marriage reflected on your calendar? When's the last time you encouraged your spouse with your words? Do you feel pressure to say yes to things outside of your marriage that in turn forces you to say no to things that would grow your marriage? Are you protecting your energy so that you make the most of the time with your spouse? What's one thing you can do today to show your spouse you're pursuing your marriage? Quotes: “You drift without even realizing it.” “Sometimes good things get in the way of the most important things” “If you're drifting away you're more vulnerable to sin.” “You have to choose the best over the good.” “There are things I could have done different.” “In our culture, life gets in the way and we don't even think about it.” “I've always got to know that Nancy is a gift, and I have to embrace that gift, and treat her like a gift every day.” “Drifting happens gradually.” “Show me where you have your marriage on your calendar.” “It's on my calendar now.” “It's not going great, but everyone's just accepting it.” “You can do something!” “Make sure you go to somebody who can be objective and is for your marriage.” MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our FREE Weekly Marriage Check Up Guide to help keep the connection and fight the drift! Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you fight the drift in marriage? Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Pursuing Your Spouse in Marriage Pt 1 If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. In today's episode, Quinn addresses the subtle pressure many parents feel to make their children “great” in something be it academics, sports or another extracurricular activity. Because while most parents wouldn't say anyone is directly telling them to do this, they can admit they feel the outside influence to prepare their child to excel more than generations in the past. In the episode, Quinn teaches parents how to keep a balanced perspective and also encourages to be mindful of: 1. Two questions to ask yourself when feeling the pressure that your child needs to be doing big things 2. Times when you might be taking it too far in the expectations you have of them 3. A powerful connection time that can refocus your goals in parenting Mind Renewal Tip: If this won't be relevant to you in ten years, it shouldn't be something that keeps you up at night. Scripture Renewal Tip: “You don't get wormy apples off a healthy tree, nor good apples off a diseased tree. The health of the apple tells the health of the tree. You must begin with your own life-giving lives. It's who you are, not what you say and do, that counts. Your true being brims over into true words and deeds. Article: https://www.facebook.com/share/1FgNTH4djk/?mibextid=wwXIfr

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The #1 topic request I've received on this podcast has been marriage. So we're bringing back a favorite: my two-part series with none other than the LOML — Aaron Weits, my husband of nearly 12 years, lover for 17, and best friend for 20. I realized I have a lot of new listeners who may not have heard this gem from Season 1 so we're doing something new & special called "Memory Mondays" where I'll pull something out of the archive to repost! Together, Aaron & I officiated multiple weddings and walked couples through pre-marital counseling using a curriculum we developed over several years. In this series, we break down the core topics every couple should talk about — whether you're just starting out or deep into the journey. Part 1: Conflict, Communication & Expectations We get honest about the real stuff: What do you do when you disagree? How do you break the cycle of scorekeeping? What boundaries help you fight fair? Part 2: Money & Sex Yes, we really go there. What's your earliest money memory—and how is it affecting your relationship? Why bartering for sex doesn't work The “no with an appointment” strategy and the importance of agreed-upon parameters Aaron shares so much wisdom in this series, and our hope is simple: We want you to have great marriages. May these conversations spark something good for you and those you love.

A continuation of last weeks episode, but it was a clean enough break to make 2 episodes from it, thusly here's the second part. Pastors Zac and Ashley discuss the financial elements of marriage and how divorce is not the quickest, easiest way that the world presents it as. If you are needing to speak with HPC staff about your own situation; please email info@hpc.church 

In this episode of the Johnson City Living Podcast, host Colin Johnson welcomes Dustin Peters from FLP Counseling. They discuss the importance of mental health, the various therapeutic approaches offered at FLP, and Dustin's personal journey into counseling. The conversation covers topics such as addiction recovery, marriage counseling, and the significance of family dynamics. Dustin shares insights on the stigma surrounding therapy, the role of diet and exercise in mental health, and the future goals for FLP Counseling. Listeners are encouraged to seek help and connect with counseling services in their community.TakeawaysDustin Peters is the CEO of FLP Counseling, which stands for Foundations for Life Principles.FLP Counseling offers a variety of therapeutic approaches including CBT, DBT, and marriage counseling.Dustin's journey into counseling was influenced by personal experiences with his wife's mental health struggles.The importance of intentional family time is emphasized as a way to strengthen family dynamics.Therapy can be beneficial even when there are no major issues; it can help build stronger relationships.Addiction recovery is a long process that requires ongoing support and strategies for maintaining sobriety.Dustin believes that expressing emotions is crucial for mental health and can prevent emotional overflow.FLP Counseling works with DCS to provide services for children and families in need.Diet and exercise play a significant role in mental health and can aid in recovery from mental health issues.Dustin encourages aspiring counselors to be prepared for the challenges and rewards of the profession.Chapters00:00 Welcome to Johnson City Living Podcast09:21 Therapeutic Approaches at FLP Counseling17:29 The Importance of Marriage Counseling23:41 The Power of Expressing Emotions31:23 Breaking Generational Cycles of Abuse38:54 The Impact of Diet on Mental Health44:34 Advice for Aspiring Counselors

Discover the way ahead at Indiana Wesleyan University. Learn more here. Avoidant attachment is one of the four attachment styles that can present in a person that affects their view of self and others. 1. How it happens or what it looks like in a relationship 2. What someone with avoidant attachment feels when someone tries to get too close 3. How to help them out of their shell and not take it personally Mind Renewal Tip: Avoidant attachment is something that is meant to be personal to others. It's a coping mechanism developed to protect the person from stress. Scripture Renewal Tip:A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. Proverbs 15:1

We sat down with overnight millionaire Jeffrey Allen—and his wife Jennifer. In February, Jeffrey was crowned the winner of Beast Games, a show created by MrBeast where over 1,000 contestants competed for the biggest cash prize in reality competition history: $10 million. But Jeffrey wasn't in it for the money. We talk about going to couples counseling after the win, navigating a mid-life crisis, keeping the victory a secret, and what it was really like to meet MrBeast. This episode is sponsored by Nutrafol, Rocket Money and BetterHelp. Nutrafol: Visit https://nutrafol.com and enter promo code UNPLANNEDGIFT for $10 off any order and free shipping when you subscribe. Rocket Money: Cancel your unwanted subscriptions by going to https://RocketMoney.com/unplanned. BetterHelp: Visit https://BetterHelp.com/unplannedpodcast today to get 10% off your first month. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this conversation, Lindsay and Dr. Kim discuss the concept of cultivating a servant-hearted marriage, emphasizing the importance of serving one another selflessly. They explore how serving each other can create a loving and respectful environment, reflecting God's design for marriage. The discussion includes practical ways to serve, the impact of a servant-hearted marriage on family dynamics, and the barriers that can hinder this service. They also highlight the significance of self-examination and seeking help when facing challenges in marriage.    Episode highlights include: Cultivating a servant-hearted marriage requires daily choices to act in love. Children benefit from witnessing a servant-hearted marriage. A servant-hearted marriage reflects God's design and glorifies Him. Serving one another should come from the heart, not a checklist. Counseling can help break negative patterns in marriage.   Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway:  God's design for marriage goes far beyond just coexisting with your spouse. Serving one another, respecting their wants and needs, and creating a loving relationship reflect the heart of the Lord and His design for the marriage relationship.    Questions to Discuss:  What stands in the way of you selflessly serving your spouse? Has your relationship with your spouse become transactional?   QUOTES  "Serving is saying, sure, I can do that." "Don't stay stuck there." "You don't just grow better." "God sees you." "It's gonna make a difference." “If your kids see you doing that, they want that, and it gives them security.” “Having a marriage that's not life-giving, can drain you so quick. It zaps your energy.” “When a couple is able to get past the things keeping them at odds, it goes beyond the marriage too.” “I can't meet all her needs, but God can.”   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our Marriage Boundaries Workbook to navigate tough conversations and hard seasons.  Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you navigate boundaries? Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Boundaries in Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Did you know we have resources for families- check those out HERE. Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!