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Is your spouse married to their job, or are you? In today's episode, we're talking about what happens when work takes priority over marriage and how couples can recognize the signs before it causes lasting damage. Let's talk about why this is such a common struggle, what Scripture says about balancing work and marriage, and how to reconnect when work has created distance. If you're feeling like your relationship is playing second to a career, this one's for you. Let's dive in.   Episode Highlights: God gave us ambition and talents for a reason. Work balance in marriage is a common struggle. We tried to look at struggles as growth opportunities instead of failures Society adds to the pressure we feel to pursue success first. If conversations become logistical or date nights become extinct you may be prioritizing work over your marriage. There's a biblical order, that when we get that order right, everything else finds its proper place. Prayer reminds us who our work is truly for. Quotes from Today's Episode: The issue is when our ambition becomes our identity. When we believe our value comes from our next promotion. We are sacrificing our family for our ego. Our culture has us believe rest is laziness. Providing isn't just about money. Your spouse needs your presence, your attention, and your emotional availability. Scripture makes it clear that work is good. We are created in the image of a working God. Bu work has its place in the greater order, and that place isn't first.. Rest and relationship are sacred. Boundaries aren't restrictions. They are protections. Create rituals that prioritize connections. Our ultimate provision isn't in our performance, it's in God's faithfulness. See what happens when you're physically forced to be present with one another.   Couples' Conversation Guide: What one daily ritual can you begin this week to show your spouse and your marriage the energy it deserves. (coffee in the morning, lunch time phone call, prayer in the evening, etc.) When you hear the word “boundaries” do you automatically feel restricted? How can we implement some boundaries that feel like protection instead?  Does our calendar reflect our heart for keeping our marriage first? If not, where can you begin to say “no” so that you can say “yes” to your marriage? What are some physical distractions we can remove during our time together?    Mentioned in this Episode: Find Awesome Marriage on Instagram! A unified family mission can help the work/ family balance. Check out our 10 Christian Family Mission Statements.  Help your children write God's Word on their hearts with our FREE 11 Bible Verses For Kids to Memorize Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word with your spouse? Find Awesome Marriage on YouVersion. If work seems to take priority over your marriage, you'll love this FREE YouVersion plan: Boundaries in Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to . receive our Raising Faithful Kids in a Cancel Culture.

Have you ever wondered why sex seemed so natural in the beginning, but now feels complicated—or even avoided?For many couples, sex was the hook that brought them together.For her, giving herself felt like the way to keep his attention.For him, receiving her felt like proof that he was wanted.It worked—at least for a while. But over time, that script creates a painful standoff: she pulls back, weary of obligation, knowing that this type of intimacy doesn't feel right, while he feels rejected, confused, and wondering what changed. Jeff and I lived this story. I realized I was using sex to keep him interested, and when I stopped, my desire plummeted because it was based on lies. I asked him to start initiating, but what I didn't know was how insecure he felt doing that. What was meant to bring us closer created a chasm between us.In this week's bonus episode, When Sex Was the Hook, I share our journey of untangling this pattern—and how couples can move toward a more honest, holistic intimacy.If this episode resonates, I'd love for you to share it with a friend or leave a review. It's one of the most powerful ways to help more couples find hope in their own journey.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipUnlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings.Book your free Courageous Love Conversation here.InstagramFac...

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Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.You Can't Fix People with Love!Trying to fix someone with love? It doesn't work—and it's destroying your relationship. In this episode of The ‘NEW' Marriage, Cass and Kathryn reveal why love alone can't heal deep wounds, change toxic patterns, or make someone emotionally available. Learn the truth about codependency, emotional boundaries, and what REAL love looks like when you stop playing the rescuer.

“Why am I the only one who knows when the kids need a bath… or that bedtime isn't optional?” If that sounds like your internal monologue on repeat, you're not alone—and you're not crazy. When you're constantly stuck in the same fight about chores, parenting, or just feeling alone in the relationship, it's more than frustrating—it's exhausting. This week, we're joined by licensed therapist and marriage alignment expert April Eldemire, LMFT, who shares why the issue isn't love, but a lack of clarity. She walks us through a simple 4-part ritual that helps couples reconnect, reduce resentment, and get back on the same team. So if you're tired of doing it all (and being the one who always has to bring it up), this episode gives you the words, the structure, and the encouragement to shift things—for good. Resources We Shared: Learn more about April and her work HERE. Feeling buried under an endless to-do list? Snag our FREE Home Responsibility Calculator and figure out exactly what to delegate—without the guilt Want to keep the convo going? Come hang out with us in the FREE No Guilt Mom Podcast Community—real talk, support, and zero mom guilt. Visit No Guilt Mom Follow us on Instagram! Explore our No Guilt Mom Amazon Shop filled with juicy parenting reads and guest favorites!  Rate & Review the No Guilt Mom Podcast on Apple here. We'd love to hear your thoughts on the podcast! Listen on Spotify? You can rate us there too! Love the show? Show it some love back by checking out our ah-maz-ing sponsors who help keep it all going—right here! Access the full episode transcript HERE #parentingpodcast #parentingtips #selfcare #MentalLoad #kids #teenager #toddler #preschooler, #baby, #noguiltmom, #YouNeverHelpWithBedtime, #InvisibleLoad, #MarriageIsHard, #ModernMarriage, #MomBurnout, #MarriageHelp, #ExhaustedMom, #MarriageAdviceForMoms, #DefaultParent, #connection, #ParentingAndMarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

What if the very questions you've been afraid to ask about sex… are actually the ones that could open the door to deeper connection, healing, and understanding? This week's episode wraps up the Let's Talk About Sex in Marriage series with something powerful:

This couple had an intimacy breakthrough most couples miss.He was frustrated they weren't having sex.She felt used and emotionally abandoned.He said, “I'm always open to sex—she just never initiates.”She said, “It doesn't feel like love. It feels like pressure.”Like so many couples, they were stuck in a painful standoff—both wanting connection, but waiting for the other to change.But here's what shifted everything:

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.How People Test Your Emotional Availability?Do you ever feel like your partner is testing you emotionally? In this episode of The 'NEW' Marriage, Cass and Kathryn dive into the subtle (and not-so-subtle) ways people test emotional availability in relationships. Learn how to recognize these tests, respond with empathy instead of defensiveness, and create deeper emotional intimacy without losing yourself.

What if the way you initiate sex… actually turned your spouse on?Not because of a clever move or perfectly timed suggestion—but because of the energy behind it.Too often, initiation becomes about asking for something. And for the person being asked? It can feel like pressure. One more thing on the to-do list. One more demand to meet.But what if initiating wasn't about getting sex—what if it was about offering love?This week's episode of AwakenYou in Your Marriage invites you into that powerful shift.You'll hear a client story about a woman who used to feel like sex was something she had to do to keep her husband happy—and how everything changed when she began seeing it as something she wanted to give, not just to him but to herself first!You'll also learn:

WELCOME BACK TO ANOTHER EPISODE OF MAN VS MARRIAGE!In this episode we are going ALL IN on helping you create THE amazing marriage you had in mind when you said "I do". Jeanne and I have made nearly 400 episodes on this podcast journey, hundreds of Which have tools that are certain to change your life...IF you use them! You may be asking yourself...how does he know?! Well, much like our normal lives you can have all the tools in the toolbox and things can still suck! Unless you get the tools out of the box and use them on the project itself the BBQ ain't going to put itself together!! Imagine how dopey you it would be if I ordered a desk for the studio, once it arrived I open the box put my tool box next to the box and then expect the tools to complete the job FROM the box and without me.While that example may be silly...yeah I agree silly in not really a dude word ha! Take 2, while the example may seem sort of "Busch league" it is actually one aspect of how we just get it wrong in our relationships. WE KNOW!! We have all the tools, that doesn't mean we keep our skills sharp and use them all the time! Unless we are intentional, plan our "work" and use the right tool for each aspect of the job we will just remain in the endless cycles of arguing, fussing, and fighting. It may be a daily occurrence or, sometimes you might make it six months until the next blowup. The fact is if we don't begin creating new cycles on purpose we will simply have what we have until it gets worse..That would suck.NOW, what are you waiting for? Get into this episode and LET'S GET READYYYY TO HUMBLE!!! (see what I did there? ha!)Yo Bro! or Sis :) Help us BUILD the brand and change lives where you are!VIST www.quincymoran.com/apparel right now! buy our clothing and represent in you local area. Let's change lives together!want to contact me?email: quincy@mvsmpodcast.com to get in touch! Check out our youtube! We are NEW on youtube and excited to grow the platform within the YT community!https://www.youtube.com/@manvsmarriagepodcast3348/videos#COMMUNICATION #pornaddiction #sex #marriedsex #marriage #mariagehelp #marriageandrelationships #relationship101 #marriagepodcast #marriagehelp #marriagebootcamp #love #lovestory #couples #faith #Relationship #relationships #Problem #Problems #CognitivePower #Opinion #Opinions #Trust #Marriage #Married #Truth #TruthTeller #Standard #Standards #Negotiate #Negotiating #Romance #romantic #reconciliation #selfimprovement #help #christian #redemption #narcissist #narcissism Marriage counseling and relationship advice#Marriage counseling and advice for marriage. Marriage counseling and therapy. Marriage and relationship counseling. #Relationships101

Have you ever loved your spouse deeply but felt your body shut down when they reached for you?Maybe you've wondered…“Why don't I want sex the way I used to?”“Why does my mind feel so distracted—or even resistant—when I want to feel close?”If that's you, I want you to take a deep breath and hear this:

We are excited to have another listener-submitted question to discuss! This question really hit home with us because it resonated with obstacles we've recently overcome in our own lives. It reminded us of the powerful emotional growth and healing that can be achieved in a marriage.The question was: “Is the woman in the marriage relationship the one who does most of the heavy lifting as far as promoting emotional growth toward each other?”You know, we find that 75% of the time, it is the woman who is pursuing and initiating things that will promote emotional growth. However, this is less because of gender and more due to attachment styles.If you didn't know, we love to talk about attachment styles because of how pivotal this concept has been in our marriage, our emotional intelligence, and our individual growth. Your attachment style will determine all sorts of things about how you relate to your spouse—such as if you reach out to them for connection or feel smothered by attention.In this episode, you'll hear:How people with different attachment styles engage in a relationshipThe underlying reason you long for connectionNext steps to develop more secure attachmentAnd more!We have certainly benefited from learning about our attachment styles, and we hope this helps you as well!Find resources mentioned and more in the show notes: jillsavage.org/emotional-growth-257Check out our other resources: Mark and Jill's Marriage Story Marriage Coaching Marriage 2.0 Intensives Speaking Schedule Book Mark and Jill to Speak Online Courses Books Marriage Resources: Infidelity Recovery For Happy Marriages For Hurting Marriages For Marriages Where You're the Only One Wanting to Get Help Mom Resources: New/Preschool Moms Moms with Gradeschoolers Moms with Teens and Tweens Moms with Kids Who Are Launching Empty Nest...

There was a season in my marriage when we were having sex… but something still felt painfully off.We weren't fighting. We were doing the “right” things.But emotionally, we were disconnected — and I felt it most clearly in the bedroom.We were going through the motions — like fast food intimacy.It gave us temporary relief but left us hungry for something deeper.Maybe you know what that feels like…Maybe sex has become a routine task you check off the list.Or maybe it's been so long, you don't even know where to begin.Maybe you're wondering: Is something wrong with me… with us?You're not alone — and nothing is wrong with you.AND something different is possible.In this week's episode of AwakenYou in Your Marriage, I talk about:Why sex can become a substitute for emotional connection — and how to tell the differenceHow to shift from “performance” to presenceWhat I did in my own marriage to stop blaming and start healingWhy foreplay starts right after sex ends (this insight is a game changer!)And a powerful visualization to help you reconnect with what your heart really wantsIf sex has become disconnected, distant, or just not what you hoped it would be, I invite you to listen in.You are not broken. You're just human. And your desire for meaningful connection is not too much — it's holy ground. Let's honor it.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipUnlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings.Book your free Courageous Love Conversation here.InstagramFac...

In this week's episode of AwakenYou in Your Marriage, I'm talking about something most of us have never taken the time to unpack—what we learned about sex… and how those lessons still live in our bodies, our minds, and our marriages today.For many of us, sex was never talked about at all.For others, the messages we received were shame-based, fear-driven, or wrapped in unrealistic ideals.Some of us absorbed confusion or silence. Others absorbed pressure, fear, or even distorted ideas of what it means to be desired.In this episode, I share a deeply personal story about my own early exposure to pornography, the lasting impact it had on my sense of worth, and how that confusion showed up in my marriage. I also talk about the harm of being dismissed by someone I turned to for help—and how our stories deserve to be met with empathy, not judgment.If you've ever felt shut down, ashamed, or like something's “off” in the way you connect with your spouse…This conversation will help you see that you're not broken. You just haven't been given the space to understand what shaped you.✨ There's a journaling prompt at the end to help you reflect, and if you're ready to take a first step toward healing, I'd love to invite you to a free Courageous Love Conversation.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipUnlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings.Book your free Courageous Love Conversation here.InstagramFac...

What do you do when your marriage is in crisis and one partner wants out? In this insightful episode, we sit down with Dr. Becky Whetstone, a Marriage and Family Therapist, consultant, life coach, and author of I (Think) I Want Out. After experiencing her own disappointing marriage counseling that led to divorce, Dr. Becky became determined to learn how to truly help couples reconcile when possible—or create an amicable divorce when necessary.Dr. Becky explains how, when a partner's nervous system is activated, they enter fight-or-flight mode, feeling as though their survival is at stake. This often leads them to believe that leaving is the only option. However, by calming the nervous system, addressing the root causes of conflict, and encouraging personal growth, many marriages can be saved.Join us as Dr. Becky shares her expert insights on navigating a marriage crisis, strengthening relationships, and finding the best path forward—whether that means healing together or parting peacefully.Learn more about Dr. Becky Whetstone and her work at MarriageCrisisManager.com.Thank you for supporting Linda's Corner! Please take a moment to share this episode, subscribe to the podcast, and leave a rating and review. Visit the Linda's Corner website at lindascornerpodcast.com, and follow us on YouTube, Facebook, Instagram, and Pinterest @lindascornerpodcast.Discover free resources to increase happiness, build confidence, improve relationships, manage stress, and calm feelings of depression and anxiety at the Hope for Healing website: hopeforhealingfoundation.org.For a transformative experience in deep inner healing, visit healingbreathworkdetox.com—a digital platform offering life-changing results.Become the champion of your own story as you overcome life's challenges and unlock your full potential!

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Talking Past Each Other!In this episode of The 'NEW' Marriage, Cass unpacks a subtle but common issue:You're not being ignored — you're being misunderstood.We explore how unspoken expectations, emotional filters, and past wounds cause couples to talk past each other. Learn how to finally feel heard — and hear your partner in return.

If sex feels awkward, distant, pressured, or just off in your marriage — you're not alone. In fact, over 50% of married couples say they're dissatisfied with their sex life… and many haven't talked about it in over a year.Not because they don't care.Not because there's something wrong with them.But because sex often carries a lifetime of silence, shame, and confusion.That's why this episode exists.In this kickoff to the Let's Talk About Sex in Marriage series, I'm inviting you into a conversation that's been missing for too long — one that helps you explore your desires, your fears, and your longing for more meaningful connection.We'll talk about:Why sexual disconnection is so common — even in loving marriagesHow emotional safety is the foundation of intimacyWhat it looks like to gently start this conversation with your spouseWhy sex isn't just physical — it's emotional, spiritual, and relationalThis isn't about fixing you or your marriage with a 3-step formula.It's about healing.It's about honesty.It's about reclaiming intimacy that feels true, nourishing, and safe.

You want to be more affectionate.You want to initiate connection.You want to soften, speak kindly, reach out…But when the moment comes—you freeze, shut down, or hold back.And afterward, you wonder: Why didn't I just do the thing I actually wanted to do?In this episode, we're exploring the emotional tug-of-war that so many of us face in marriage—the dissonance between how we want to show up and how we actually do. You'll learn why this dynamic is so common, how fear and self-protection subtly take over, and what you can do to begin choosing love without losing yourself.If you've ever felt frustrated by your own behavior or stuck in a pattern of emotional standoff, this conversation will bring clarity, compassion, and a new way forward.You don't have to stay caught in that in-between place.Let's talk about how to break through the blocks and start showing up as the partner you truly want to be.

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.Taking Responsibility!In this episode of The 'NEW' Marriage, we dive into the underrated power of taking personal responsibility in relationships.

We live in a world that constantly invites us to compare. From curated highlight reels on social media to romanticized portrayals in movies, it's easy to look at someone else's relationship and start questioning your own. We often think "why don't I have a house like that" or "why is my spouse not like that". But comparison, especially in marriage, can be one of the most destructive habits we unknowingly fall into.We polled our audience and asked the question "Do you find yourself comparing your marriage to others?" 65% said YES while only 35% said NO.This is an area we have made changes in our own life and seen the benefits and happiness from not trying to compare to others. Join us for this great episode where we share our own experiences, discuss why the comparison trap is so deadly for your marriage, and the things you can do to eliminate if from your life.If you haven't already, go check out the Ultimate Intimacy App in the app stores, or at ultimateintimacy.com to find "Ultimate Intimacy" in your marriage. It's FREE to download and so much fun! Find out why close to 1M people have downloaded the app and give it such high ratings and reviews!Check out the new UandI App we just released after a year in development.WANT AMAZING PRODUCTS TO SPICE THINGS UP? YES PLEASE... CLICK HEREFollow us on Instagram @ultimateintimacyapp for app updates, polls, giveaways, daily marriage quotes and more.If you have any feedback, comments or topics you would like to hear on future episodes, reach out to us at amy@ultimateintimacy.com and let us know! We greatly appreciate your feedback and please leave us a review.Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!Enjoy the podcast or have some feedback for us? Shoot us a message!

Have you ever pulled away from your spouse's affection…—even though part of you wanted it?Or maybe they offer something kind—a compliment, a hug, a moment of connection—and your whole body tenses or recoils?You're not alone.And you're not broken.This week on the podcast, I'm exploring a concept that's been deeply eye-opening for me—and for so many of my clients:What if you're not resisting love… you're resisting the pain that once came with it?Maybe “love” used to mean:Pressure to performConditional affectionBeing needed more than being knownOr being told what's “best” for you while your voice was dismissedSo now, even healthy love can feel like a threat.Your nervous system doesn't recognize it as safe—it recognizes it as familiar.And familiar, in this case, feels risky.In this episode, I walk through:Why shame and unhealed stories distort how we give and receive loveHow past experiences can cause us to resist connection—even when we long for itAnd the steps we can take to gently start healing and creating safety againIf you've ever wondered why love feels complicated, this might be the insight you didn't know you needed.This episode is a little tender, a little exploratory, and I truly believe it might unlock something powerful for you—just like it did for me.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipUnlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings.Book your free Courageous Love Conversation here.InstagramFac...

Text us your questions or topics for the show! We got you!Cass Morrow, Author of Disrupting Divorce: The NEW Man. Saving Struggling, Sexless, and Toxic Marriages.Kathryn Morrow, Author of Behind The White Picket Fence.The 7 Types of Dates!Not all date nights are created equal. In this episode of The 'NEW' Marriage, we break down the 7 types of dates that deeply impact connection, communication, and emotional intimacy.

It feels like nothing is changing… but it is.There's a moment on the journey of growth that can feel downright cruel.You're showing up. You're doing the work. You're staying present, using the tools, praying through the pain…And still, nothing seems to be changing.Not fast enough. Not visibly enough.And that old voice whispers, Why bother?If that's where you are right now, I recorded this week's episode just for you.✨ It's not that you're doing it wrong.It's that you're in the middle — the sacred, quiet stretch where the muscle of change is forming before it's visible.In today's episode of AwakenYou in Your Marriage, I talk about what it means to live in that middle space — the part where you're sometimes still falling into old patterns, but you're also starting to notice them and choose differently.I'll share a story from one of my coaching clients — a woman who, in the face of emotional shutdown and discouragement, kept showing up for herself and her relationship. She didn't get it “right” the first time. Or the second. But she kept coming back. And her courage was building something far more powerful than perfection.This episode is your reminder that:Falling into the hole doesn't mean you're failingYou can regulate, recover, and re-enter with loveAnd your heart is already protected by a God who is holding you as you growSo if you're weary from doing the work and wondering if it's making a difference — please don't miss this one.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipUnlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings.Book your free Courageous Love Conversation here.InstagramFacebook

What if the clutter in your home is quietly draining the energy from your marriage?In this week's episode, I sit down with decluttering and mindset coach Kerryn Simmons to talk about how the spaces we live in impact how we feel in our relationships. We explore what “clutter capacity” means, how childhood messages about organizing shape us, and how couples can begin to talk—without blame—about what they want their home to feel like.We also talk about what to do if your spouse isn't ready to have that conversation (yet) and how powerful it can be to take the first steps yourself.Whether you're constantly cleaning up or you've been avoiding the piles altogether, this conversation will help you start creating a home that fuels your connection instead of hiding it.

When your marriage feels heavy or disconnected, it's easy to believe you're the only one going through it.You look around and assume other couples must have it figured out,while you quietly carry the weight of your own disappointments behind closed doors.But here's the truth I wish more people knew:Suffering in silence won't move you forward.Healing begins when we step out of isolation—when we allow ourselves to be seen.When we realize we're not the only ones hurting.When we reach for help, not as a sign of failure, but as an act of courage.In this week's episode of AwakenYou in Your Marriage, I'm sharing something that's been on my heart:the quiet, life-changing power of doing this marriage work with others—in community, with guidance, and without shame.There's something incredibly healing about hearing someone else say,“We're struggling too.”Because suddenly… you're not alone anymore.If your marriage feels stuck right now, I want you to know:there is hope.You're not behind. You're not broken.You may just be missing the support you need to take that next step.And that next step could be as simple as scheduling a conversation.Listen to the episode and hear more about why this matters—and if you're ready to explore what working together could look like, I'd love to talk.Because this kind of transformation doesn't happen in isolation.And you don't have to walk this road alone anymore.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipUnlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings.Book your free Courageous Love Conversation here.InstagramFacebook

Let us know how you enjoyed this episode!Did you know marriage counseling isn't the only way to get support for your marriage?If you've ever wanted an alternative to marriage counseling, here's an episode dedicated to explaining how marriage coaching works and how to make sure you get the results you want out of it.If you are ready to finally see the change you want in your marriage, book your clarity call with me today so we can get started!Thank you for listening!If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarityConnect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoaching and follow me on threads @michellepurtacoaching!If you would like to support this show, please rate and review the show, and share it with people you know would love this show too!Additional Resources:Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage?  Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!

You open up about something emotional… and your spouse completely misses it.They try to fix it, change the subject, or talk about someone else instead.And just like that—you shut down.This is how emotional intimacy quietly unravels in marriage. Not with a big fight, but with a missed moment. A break in connection. A silence that grows.In this week's episode of AwakenYou in Your Marriage, I'm sharing a very real moment from my own marriage—something that happened just days ago—that brought this all into sharp focus.We talk about:

Have you ever been in a moment with your spouse where you felt a swirl of emotions?You're hurt.Frustrated.Disappointed.But underneath all of it—you know that you still love them.That's exactly where I found myself the day after our 20th anniversary.I had planned the evening. Jeff gave me flowers… a day late.And the way he handed them to me? Let's just say it didn't land the way he probably hoped.It would've been so easy to let my disappointment take over.To shut down.To keep a little distance as a way of protecting my heart.But I did something different this time.Something I've been practicing—and helping my clients practice too. And in today's episode, I'm sharing what happened, what I learned, and how it might shift the way you navigate these moments in your marriage too.

Have you ever had that moment in your marriage where you feel like…"What's the point of trying anymore?"Maybe you've done the work. You've been patient. You've read the books, had the talks, maybe even tried counseling.And yet, the connection still feels out of reach. The effort still feels one-sided. You still feel… stuck.If that sounds familiar, this week's episode was made with you in mind.In it, I share a story from my own life that helped me see how easily we can lose heart — not because we've failed, but because we've lost sight of where we're going.What if you don't need to work harder in your marriage?What if you simply need a clearer vision of what you're working toward?In this episode, you'll discover:Why trying without vision leads to burnoutHow emotional “quitting” often happens long before we even realize itThe missing ingredient that can make your commitment feel meaningful againA gentle challenge to reimagine what's still possible for your marriageIf you've been tempted to give up — or you've quietly stopped hoping — I want to invite you to listen.This might be the episode that helps you begin again… from a whole new place.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipUnlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings.Book your free Courageous Love Conversation here.InstagramFacebook

When life gets overwhelming—whether it's from busyness, health struggles, or a hard season—it's easy to let your marriage quietly slip to the back burner. In today's episode, we're talking about why putting first things first matters more than ever when you're under pressure. We'll explore the hidden costs of busyness, how to recognize when it's time to say "no" to good things to protect the best things, and why you must be intentional about hearing from God in every season. Plus, we'll share practical steps to help you and your spouse stay connected, even when life feels heavy. If you're feeling stretched thin, stressed out, or spiritually distant, this conversation is for you.  

Let us know how you enjoyed this episode!In this episode, I'm diving into ways you can start seeing positive changes in your marriage without even involving your husband. The work we do on ourselves is just as important as the work we do with our partner, so if you want to try something new and start viewing self care in a different light - check out this episode! Thank you for listening!If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarityConnect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoaching and follow me on threads @michellepurtacoaching!If you would like to support this show, please rate and review the show, and share it with people you know would love this show too!Additional Resources:Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage?  Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!

This week's episode is a tender one — one that honestly surprised even me as I lived it.Inside the episode, I share a brand-new break that happened in my marriage recently — a quiet, significant shift that exposed a dynamic I've lived with for years, often without fully realizing how much it impacted my heart.You'll have to tune in to hear exactly what happened. But more importantly, I want you to listen because this same dynamic could be quietly playing out in your marriage too — leaving you feeling lonelier, less connected, or even less drawn to your spouse without fully understanding why.In this conversation, I'll walk you through:Why emotional intimacy often feels so elusive (especially with partners who think love means protection)How emotional distance silently erodes connection and attraction over timeWhy feeling sadness or longing is not a sign of weakness — but a sign that your heart is still alive and hopefulHow you can begin softening the walls between you and your spouse, even if they feel high right nowIf you've ever wondered why you feel like you have most of your spouse—but not all of them—this episode is especially for you.Your dream of deeper connection isn't out of reach. And sometimes the first step is simply naming the ache you feel inside.Come listen. Your heart will feel less alone.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipUnlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings.Book your free Courageous Love Conversation here.InstagramFacebook

How to Save Your Marriage When Your Spouse Won't Try Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack – Podcast EpisodeOn this episode of Reconciling Marriages with Coach Jack, Christian psychologist and relationship coach Dr. Jack Ito shares how you can rebuild and save your marriage—even if your spouse refuses to work on it. If you're tired of waiting for cooperation that never comes, this episode will show you how real change is still possible, starting with you.What You'll Learn:Why your spouse's resistance doesn't mean your marriage is hopelessThe three options you have when your spouse won't helpWhy trying to convince your spouse usually makes things worseHow to create powerful change through matching words and actionsWant to Work With Coach Jack? If you're ready to stop feeling powerless and start rebuilding your marriage today, my Difficult Partner Coaching Package will show you how to turn things around with confidence and love. Learn more at: https://coachjackito.com/relationship-coaching-services/win-win-coaching-restoring-love-with-difficult-partners/Key Takeaways:Waiting often causes more damage than progress.Convincing your spouse usually increases emotional distance.Positive change often brings short-term resistance.Loving strength—not conflict—is the key to reconnecting.Real progress comes from consistent actions, not words alone.Additional Resources: More relationship help for you:Coaching Package: Restore a Loving Relationship with a Difficult SpouseBook: Overcome Neediness and Get the Love You WantDr. Dobson's Book title: Love Must Be ToughArticle: How to Improve Your Skills with Marriage BoundariesWork one-on-one with Coach Jack to repair your relationship using small, easy steps that rebuild connection quickly. Visit CoachJackIto.com to learn more about relationship coaching.

In many marriages, there's a quiet, often invisible dynamic that keeps one person shrinking and the other wondering why they feel so alone — even when both partners care deeply.It's called the “one down” position.And it's more common than you might think.Sometimes it looks like always apologizing…Or saying, “You deserve better than me.”Or hiding behind a wall of withdrawal and silence.But underneath, it's all rooted in shame — a belief that “I'm not enough,” or “I don't belong in this relationship as I am.”In this week's episode of AwakenYou in Your Marriage, I'm diving deep into this dynamic:

Let us know how you enjoyed this episode!Those of us who are married with kids know how quickly responsibility replaces romance.In this episode, I go into the decline in romance and connection often experienced in marriages after having children. The increase in responsibilities and exhaustion make maintaining the relationship challenging. Tune in to hear practical tips to keep the connection alive in your marriage even while you're knee deep in raising kids!Thank you for listening!If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarityConnect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoaching and follow me on threads @michellepurtacoaching!If you would like to support this show, please rate and review the show, and share it with people you know would love this show too!Additional Resources:Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage?  Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!

Send Wilk a text with your feedback!Episode 259 – Dr. Bruce Chalmer: When Communication Isn't the Real Problem in Relationships (or in Society)What if the root of conflict in our relationships — and in our divided world — isn't a failure to communicate, but a failure to tolerate discomfort?In this episode of Derate The Hate, I sit down with couples therapist and author Dr. Bruce Chalmer to explore how anxiety, not poor communication, is often the true barrier to meaningful connection — both in marriages and across ideological divides.Bruce has worked with couples for nearly 30 years, and his book It's Not About Communication! challenges everything we think we know about relationship struggles. But what makes this conversation especially powerful is how deeply his insights apply beyond romantic partnerships — to how we engage in tough conversations with those we disagree with.In this episode, you'll discover:✅ Why communication isn't the root problem in many relationships✅ How anxiety disrupts connection and meaningful dialogue ✅ Why tolerating discomfort is essential to emotional intimacy ✅ How ideas lead to growth, but ideologies often create rigidity ✅ The impact of confirmation bias on both romantic and political conversations ✅ Why faith in others' humanity is foundational for bridging divides ✅ How the tools of couples therapy can strengthen civil discourseWe also discuss Bruce's podcast with his wife Judy, Couples Therapy in Seven Words, where they explore love, faith, and what it means to truly connect in a world that often prioritizes being right over being human.Key Takeaways:✅ Emotional connection requires vulnerability, not just technique✅ Communication “problems” are often anxiety in disguise✅ Real transformation comes from deep listening and mutual respect✅ The goal of conversation isn't to win — it's to connect✅ We must create shared space for dialogue, even amid disagreementLearn more about and connect with Dr. Bruce Chalmer by getting the full show notes at www.DerateTheHate.comWhat have you done today to make your life a better life? What have you done today to make the world a better place? The world is a better place if we are better people. That begins with each of us as individuals. Be kind to one another. Be grateful for everything you've got. Make each and every day the day that you want it to be! Please follow The Derate The Hate podcast on: Facebook, Instagram, Twitter(X) , YouTube Subscribe to us wherever you enjoy your audio or directly from our site. Please leave us a rating and feedback on Apple podcasts or other platforms. Not on social media? You can share your thoughts or request Wilk for a speaking engagement on our site's contact page: DerateTheHate.com/Contact If you would like to support the show, you're welcome to DONATE or shop our Derate The Hate Merchandise store by clicking here! I look forward to hearing from you!

In this episode of the Awesome Marriage podcast, Lindsay and Dr. Kim discuss the importance of resolving conflict in a faith-centered, biblical way. They debunk the myth that Christian couples do not experience conflict and emphasize that conflict can lead to growth and deeper intimacy in relationships. Learn the biblical principles for handling conflict, practical steps for effective communication, and the significance of humility and selflessness in marriage.   Episode highlights include: Timeouts can help manage heated discussions. Keeping short accounts prevents resentment from building up. Using the silent treatment is a form of emotional manipulation. Bringing up past conflicts as weapons is unhealthy for marriage. Involving others in conflicts before addressing them with your spouse can create triangles of conflict. Taking responsibility for one's actions is crucial in resolving conflicts. Prayer is a powerful tool for maintaining a healthy marriage. Biblical principles provide a framework for resolving conflicts effectively.   Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway:  You will experience conflict with your spouse, and when you do it's important to keep the Lord at the center of the conversation. Remember your spouse is not your enemy and words shouldn't be your weapon. Acknowledge your part and be quick to forgive.    Questions to Discuss:  Which area of conflict resolution do you need the most help in- bringing up the past, resorting to the silent treatment, or taking responsibility for your part? Have you brought that struggle to the Lord and invited Him into the conflict in your marriage?    QUOTES  Conflict is normal and if done right can help our marriage grow. Even though we are both seeking to follow Christ, we are human. If your kids see you doing that, they want that, and it gives them security. Having a marriage that's not life-giving, can drain you so quick. It zaps your energy. When a couple is able to get past the things keeping them at odds, it goes beyond the marriage too. I can't meet all her needs, but God can. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Use our Marriage Boundaries Workbook to navigate tough conversations and hard seasons.  Want an opportunity to dig into God's Word as you navigate conflict? Try this Awesome Marriage YouVersion reading plan: Fighting for Your Marriage If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Did you know we have resources just for handling conflict in your marriage?- check those out HERE. Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips! Now is the perfect time to join our Marriage Changers program. Enjoy every resource of the month plus bonus content from Dr. Kim and Mrs. Nancy. Join now, just in time to receive our May “7 Most Popular Resource Bundle.”  

Let's say you bought something this week—a new pair of shoes, a few Amazon “add to cart” moments—and didn't tell your spouse. Not because it was a big secret, but because… what's the point, right?Guess what...Most of us aren't intentionally lying in our marriages.But we're often not fully telling the truth either.We leave out the small stuff—spending, frustrations, unmet needs—because we're trying to avoid conflict or protect ourselves from judgment. But those little omissions? They slowly pull us away from the very intimacy we crave.This week on AwakenYou in Your Marriage, I'm talking about what it really means to be open and honest in your relationship—and why this kind of vulnerability is one of the most important things you can practice.We'll explore:Why we hold back (even when we think it's “not a big deal”)How hiding creates cracks in the foundation of your marriageWhat it looks like to start being more honest in small, safe waysHow to prepare your nervous system for the discomfort of truth—and the connection that followsA real-life example of how one couple began opening up about their spendingIf you've ever felt like you and your spouse live beside each other more than with each other… this episode is for you.And if you're ready to take this deeper in your own marriage, book a Courageous Love Conversation with me. We'll gently uncover where honesty and connection might be waiting for you.To truth, trust, and a deeper kind of love,ChristineCBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipUnlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings.Book your free Courageous Love Conversation here.InstagramFacebook

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The Secret to Better Relationships and how they work With Dr. Robert RohmMost people don't realize the key to their success isn't more effort—it's understanding people. And no one explains this better than Dr. Robert Rohm.In this powerful episode of On The HomeFront with Jeff Dudan, we sit down with one of the world's leading authorities on the DISC model of human behavior—Dr. Robert Rohm. Having shared the stage with legends like Zig Ziglar and Les Brown, Dr. Rohm has spent the last four decades teaching people how to connect, lead, and live better by understanding personality styles. From resolving deep family conflict to becoming one of the most sought-after speakers in the world, Dr. Rohm shares the exact moment DISC transformed his life—and how it can do the same for you. Jeff and Dr. Rohm talk about parenting, leadership, personal growth, and how DISC is more than just a workplace tool—it's a life tool. Whether you're a business owner, a parent, or someone who wants to level up in life, this conversation will give you the practical frameworks and motivation you need to make lasting change. 

The Secret to Better Relationships and how they work With Dr. Robert RohmMost people don't realize the key to their success isn't more effort—it's understanding people. And no one explains this better than Dr. Robert Rohm.In this powerful episode of On The HomeFront with Jeff Dudan, we sit down with one of the world's leading authorities on the DISC model of human behavior—Dr. Robert Rohm. Having shared the stage with legends like Zig Ziglar and Les Brown, Dr. Rohm has spent the last four decades teaching people how to connect, lead, and live better by understanding personality styles. From resolving deep family conflict to becoming one of the most sought-after speakers in the world, Dr. Rohm shares the exact moment DISC transformed his life—and how it can do the same for you. Jeff and Dr. Rohm talk about parenting, leadership, personal growth, and how DISC is more than just a workplace tool—it's a life tool. Whether you're a business owner, a parent, or someone who wants to level up in life, this conversation will give you the practical frameworks and motivation you need to make lasting change. 

Porn is doing real damage to too many Christians today. This issue is affecting a huge percentage of our brothers and sisters in Christ, and the shame that often prevents us from talking about it leads to secrecy and hinders healing.  We're thankful that Nick Stumbo is on the podcast today. Nick is a pastor and the director of Pure Desire Ministries. Along with Barna, Pure Desire recently conducted a study on the impact porn is currently having on the Church in America. Their findings demonstrate how crucial it is to open the conversation about porn among Christians to help them find healing from its destructive impact.     We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  What the stats tell us about how many Christians are viewing porn regularly Why talking openly is ESSENTIAL for healing  Exposing the progressive nature of porn addiction  How to make church a place where openness is possible  What to do if your church is not a safe place to confess  How to prepare your kids to handle porn exposure safely  *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: The enemy would love for you to stay stuck in secrecy and shame. Jesus wants to bring freedom and healing. Take a step toward freedom today.  Questions to Discuss:  Do you have a safe friend you can be honest with? Are you practicing confession and accountability in your life? What can you do to help cultivate an honest, godly friendship today?  What is God prompting you need to take responsibility for so that you can grow closer to Him and your spouse today?    QUOTES  “Most people won't be surprised to know that the numbers are continuing to grow.” - Nick Stumbo  “To my knowledge, it's the first time in history that the majority of practicing Christians say they are doing pornography.” - Nick Stumbo  “84% of people said there is NO ONE helping them avoid pornography.” - Nick Stumbo  “If shame and secrecy are the sickness, then openness, community and love are what healing is all about.” - Nick Stumbo  “By the time it blows up a marriage, the help was needed 5-10 years ago.” - Nick Stumbo “You're not alone. There is help and hope for you. - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “True accountability is about me learning to be responsible for my own actions and behaviors.” - Nick Stumbo  MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Pure Desire offers healing groups and great resources to help you find freedom from porn. Check them out here.  Get the stats: Read the research by Barna and Pure Desire HERE  If porn has impacted your marriage, take Dr. Kim's 5 Steps to Healing After Porn Betrayal webinar to kickstart your marriage healing. We recommend the book Good Pictures / Bad Pictures to help equip your kids against porn exposure.

You know that subtle ache when your spouse is right there… but still feels far away?This week on AwakenYou in Your Marriage, I'm talking about what it really means to reconnect in your marriage—and why it so often feels harder than it should.Because for many, it's not that you don't want to feel close again… it's that you're not sure how to bridge the growing gap—especially when your spouse doesn't seem to feel the same urgency you do.In this episode, I'll walk you through:• Why disconnection creeps in slowly—and why it's rarely about one big thing• What it actually looks like to reconnect (hint: it's not just about more time together)• Why one partner often feels the disconnection long before the other• What to do when it feels unsafe to be vulnerable• And how to start rebuilding closeness… even if your spouse isn't on board yetThis episode is especially for the one in the marriage who's starting to notice how lonely it feels—and wants to take the first steps toward something better.You don't have to wait for your spouse to be ready. You can lead the way.And I'll show you how.CBS News Interview: 6 Tips For A Healthy & Loving RelationshipUnlock deeper connection in your marriage with my free guide, Daily Prompts for Deeper Connection with Your Spouse—get it now! Start feeling more connected and loved in your marriage today with my free Reclaim More Love in Just 3 Days process. This process will have you learning how to shift your focus, in a healthy way, and nurture thoughts that build connection and transform how you feel about your marriage. More resources and how you can start the process of Awakening(YourTrue)You and being the partner who creates your best version of what marriage looks like for you: https://christinebongiovanni.com/Join my AwakenYou newsletter for weekly marriage tips and early announcements of upcoming offerings.Book your free Courageous Love Conversation here.InstagramFacebook

Let us know how you enjoyed this episode!Are you struggling with communication in your marriage despite all your efforts? You're not alone. In this episode, I dive into the common challenges couples face when working on their communication and share practical tips on how to track your progress effectively. Learn why change takes time, the right questions to gauge your progress, and the importance of debriefing after disagreements. Plus, discover coping strategies for when you feel hopeless and understand the power of celebrating small wins in your journey towards better communication.Thank you for listening!If you resonated with this episode and you're ready to break the cycles you've noticed in your marriage, reach out by booking a clarity call to become a client! https://michellepurta.as.me/clarityConnect and send a message letting me know what you took away from this episode: @michellepurtacoaching and follow me on threads @michellepurtacoaching!If you would like to support this show, please rate and review the show, and share it with people you know would love this show too!Additional Resources:Ready to put a stop to the arguments in your marriage?  Watch this free masterclass - The #1 Conversation Married Couples Need To Have (But Aren't)Want to handle conflict with more confidence? Download this free workbook!Wanna make communication feel easy and stop feeling like roommates so you can bring back the romance and excitement into your marriage? Learn more about how coaching here!

Husbands, have you ever felt like your wife expects too much from you? Wives, have you checked whether your expectations are realistic?  Expectations in marriage can be a difficult topic, and they're a very common source of marriage tension. Which is why today, we want to help break down misunderstandings around spouse expectations today, so that you can experience better connection and more joy in your marriage.   We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.    Episode highlights include:  Wives may struggle to articulate their needs clearly. Non-sexual affection enhances sexual intimacy. Emotional connection is crucial for a healthy marriage. *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!  Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: Expectations don't have to be a source of conflict. There's a way to communicate and connect the different wants and needs you have in marriage. Questions to Discuss:  Are there any expectations that you feel are “too much”? Husbands, do you need more clarity from your wife about her expectations? How would you rate how well you actively listen and engage with your spouse? What would make you a more intentional listener? (time of day, location of conversation, free of distractions, etc.) When was the last time you checked in with your spouse about the overall health of your marriage relationship. What are the priorities in your marriage? Do you know your spouse's priorities? How do they compare? QUOTES   Wives want to be part of the decision making and feel like it's a true partnership. The better the non sexual connection and intimacy is, the better the physical connection and intimacy will be.  Most men weren't raised to be emotionally expressive. You don't have to solve everything.  When I stopped trying to fix it, I heard her better. A wife wants to feel prioritized. Learning to say things in a way your spouse can hear takes practice. You have to accept that God made us different as husband and wife. The small consistent things you do matter more than perfection.   MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:     Unlock True Intimacy: Become a couple who prays together.  Weekly Check in Guide We have several other AWESOME Resources on our website. Check those out HERE.   Check out our Bible Reading plans on YouVersion and make sure you're following us there to keep current on all our newest plans!   

Guest Prudie Kristen Meinzer is joined by Real Housewives alumna and Humble Brag podcast host Crystal Kung Minkoff. Together, they answer questions about feeling conflicted over an ex living their best life post-divorce, navigating a friendship after someone breaks the other's trust, and asking for financial help. Want more Dear Prudence? Subscribe to Slate Plus to immediately unlock weekly bonus episodes. Plus, you'll access ad-free listening across all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts by clicking “Try Free” at the top of our show page. Or, visit slate.com/prudie-plus to get access wherever you listen. This week's podcast is produced by Maura Currie, Vic Whitley-Berry, and Daisy Rosario. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Guest Prudie Kristen Meinzer is joined by Real Housewives alumna and Humble Brag podcast host Crystal Kung Minkoff. Together, they answer questions about feeling conflicted over an ex living their best life post-divorce, navigating a friendship after someone breaks the other's trust, and asking for financial help. Want more Dear Prudence? Subscribe to Slate Plus to immediately unlock weekly bonus episodes. Plus, you'll access ad-free listening across all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts by clicking “Try Free” at the top of our show page. Or, visit slate.com/prudie-plus to get access wherever you listen. This week's podcast is produced by Maura Currie, Vic Whitley-Berry, and Daisy Rosario. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Guest Prudie Kristen Meinzer is joined by Real Housewives alumna and Humble Brag podcast host Crystal Kung Minkoff. Together, they answer questions about feeling conflicted over an ex living their best life post-divorce, navigating a friendship after someone breaks the other's trust, and asking for financial help. Want more Dear Prudence? Subscribe to Slate Plus to immediately unlock weekly bonus episodes. Plus, you'll access ad-free listening across all your favorite Slate podcasts. Subscribe now on Apple Podcasts by clicking “Try Free” at the top of our show page. Or, visit slate.com/prudie-plus to get access wherever you listen. This week's podcast is produced by Maura Currie, Vic Whitley-Berry, and Daisy Rosario. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Enjoy the episode? Send us a text!Is your marriage at risk because of limerence? In this episode of Relationship Radio, Dr. Joe Beam and Kimberly Beam Holmes break down the science behind limerence—what it is, how it differs from romantic love, and why it can be so destructive in marriage.You'll learn:✔️ The key differences between limerence and true love✔️ How to tell if you or your spouse are experiencing limerence✔️ A powerful tool to assess if boundaries have been crossed✔️ What to do if limerence is threatening your marriageIf you're struggling in your marriage, don't wait. Get our FREE resource: The 7 Steps to Rescue Your Marriage

It's a new year, but it's still the same you and your spouse ... so how can you make your marriage the best it can be in the new year? With intentionality, you can break out of the habits that are not serving your marriage well, and build new ones that work better.  Listen today for the tips and tools to help! We pray this episode is helpful for you and your marriage.  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for quick weekly marriage tips!   Episode highlights include:  Signs that your marriage needs a “reset” What NOT to do during a reset  Where to start if you want a “reset” but you're not sure what to do  Tips to make sure you don't fall back into the same old patterns?    *Music for this podcast is created by Noah Copeland. Check him out here!    Couples Conversation Guide:  Main takeaway: Now is a great time to check in, take stock, and prioritize the healthy habits to make your marriage strong. Listen, then start taking steps today!    Questions to Discuss:  What do you want your marriage to look like in the new year?  What do you envision that's different from how things are now?  Brainstorm 3-5 steps you want to build into your marriage this year.  Where will you start?    QUOTES  “I think we need this every year.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “Don't just see the red flags and ignore them.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  If we're intentional in the New Year, we can really close the gap between what we have and what we want our marriage to look like.” - Lindsay Few   “You don't have to agree on everything, but you have to be willing to compromise.” - Dr. Kim Kimberling  “God is for our marriage. He is for us. When we invite Him into the process it really changes things.“ -  Lindsay Few   “Sometimes we have to sacrifice good things for what's most important.” - Lindsay Few     MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE:   Build healthy habits in the New Year with the Healthy Marriage Rhythms Bundle: 5 resources for just ONE donation! Get all the details HERE!  FLASH SALE! Browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com, and use code “FLASH2025” for $100 off ANY of our courses! Limited time only.  If you haven't browsed our site, you've GOT to check out the marriage resources we have over at AwesomeMarriage.com, and browse our online courses at AwesomeMarriageUniversity.com !  Sign up for Dr. Kim's Marriage Multiplier email for practical weekly marriage tips!