Make Your Money One Show

If you’re engaged ENGAGED or serious dating, it is so easy to become overwhelmed with ALL THE THINGS TO DO, right? Well no need to worry because in this week's episode, I’m breaking down the important money moves to make so that you’re financially prepared to say I DO

Learn two of my favorite non-conventional marriage books that will help you build strong marriages and strong finances.

Being vigilant with observing financial red flags, or financial warnings, is an important skill as you prepare to become one. Listen, we have all made dumb mistakes with money. Raise your hand if you have not. I see no hands raised. These behaviors are dangerous and without humility and a change will only cause chaos, destruction and divorce. everything is work it out-able, for the most part.  My goal with this episode is that you and your spouse will identify AND understand one another’s perspectives, so that The Lord can meet and change you and make you’re marriage all the more stronger. Let's dive into a few financial red flags to recognize.  

We are learning all about our money personalities or as some like to call it, our money types. Let's get into some definitions. A money personality, as defined by  Olivia Mellan, a clinical psychologist specializing in relationship and money issues, states that "money personalities" explain how we relate to money. She also believes that these personalities are usually fueled by factors like our internal beliefs, formed by your childhood experiences, the community you grew up in and the habits of those around you. Bear in mind that each type has both good qualities and shortcomings, and that most people are in fact a combination of types. Also keep in mind that we usually are a combination of a few and that your money type may change depending on your current situation. Our job as Christian couples is to sharpen areas in our money personality and in our spouse as well as buff away the parts that are not conclusive to winning with money. Which is why this episode is so important. So much of how we relate to money and as result how we spend, give, save and engage predates our marriages. The more we learn how we individually relate to money, the better we can use our strengths to work with our spouses to slay our money goals. In this week's episode lets learn how three money types, shape our financial outlook shapes how we interact with money so that we can learn how to be better stewards, understand our spouses better and as a result work together towards our shared and individual goals. 

Studies show that money issues are the third leading cause of divorce, preceded by incompatibility and infidelity. But what I’ve come to know what is true is that arguments over money are never just about money. Experts will tell you that the key to winning with money is to get on the same page. But how can you do that if you haven’t uncovered what matters most to one another. And what you’ll also find out is that developing the same money mindset is far from easy. So in this episode. I’m helping you proactively guard your marriage against money problems that may attempt to plague your marriage.

Seriously dating engaged or just married? Prepare your marriage to withstand the financial trials that will come by asking important questions as soon as possible.  Thankfully, I have been through the fire so you don't have to. I know exactly which ten questions are crucial to help you uncover so much about your future spouse and how money will affect your marriage. 

Money talks can be so uncomfortable to have for the first time which is why I'm helping you finally tackle them with ease and grace. Today I am discussing how to get comfortable talking about money so that you are informed and empowered to move forward with a financial plan that works for you both!

In this week's episode, we’re discussing 10 Bible verses as they relate to money. Financial transformation begins in the mind and as believers God calls us to renew our mind according to scripture. So in this week’s episodes, we discussing 10 Bible verses all Christians should know and live by. This is not an exhaustive list by any means just a few to help us to renew how we think, relate and manage money God has entrusted to us.

Welcome to The Make Your Money One Show where financial transformation begins in the mind. My job is to help married Christian millennials develop the same money mindset so that money fights don't drive a wedge between them. What I know to be true is that we don't "fight over money", we fight over perceived threats against our freedom, autonomy and happiness. You can expect honest conversations at the intersection between money and marriage. Let me help you get your "mind right. money right".