The Practically Kinky [Formerly Men Submit] podcast explores what it means to live in a kinky relationship through discussion, reviews, interviews and following up on listener questions. We cover any and all kinky topics, but there is an emphasis on a D/s female led relationships and Poly relationships.
Another How To for our listeners, this one is all about mummification and how to be safe.
Looking back at episode 43, how have our lives changed? Are the things that were important to us in Episode 43 still important to us?
In which we discuss getting back in the groove of making podcasts.
Does Balance of Power have a place in a power exchange relationship? In our opinion it does, and we talk about why and how. Also Beta Boy tries to convince us his new name should be Maverick.
What makes for a good compliment? What should you desperately avoid? Pro podcasting tip: It's a good idea to hit record.
Have you ever wondered if OWK is real? We are here to assure that it is. On this podcast we talk with supertoy about his adventure at OWK.
One of the most asked questions of us is 'how do I...'. This one is all about Feminization activities you can do and headspaces you might find yourself in.
Our inaugural Las Vegas episode as well as a milestone of our 50th episode. We talk about "emotional labor" - The expectation that, generally speaking, women are frequently expected to be responsible for the emotional health of the relationship. If you are interested in the background article mentioned in the podcast, here it is: https://www.theguardian.com/world/2015/nov/08/women-gender-roles-sexism-emotional-labor-feminism
If you are new to kink, how do you figure things out? How do you learn about what you want? How do you go about meeting people? We get this kind of question all of the time, so in this podcast we have a quick chat about what to do and what not to do.
We chat about a typical day in our household: how we live out our power exchange, make poly work and generally get practical yet incredibly important stuff done - like breakfast.
This episode is about male appearance and what domes look for. We discuss physique, manner, etiquette, body language and even mansmetics.
Expectations, great or otherwise, form part of any relationship. In this episode we talk about the kinds of expectations you might encounter in a D/s relationship and offer some ideas on how to approach them.
Just a quick update on our big upcoming European vacation. To our British, French, Swiss and Dutch listeners - we'd love to meet you!
In this episode we raid our kink cabinet and tell you all about the weird and wonderful goodies that lurk inside.
Based upon Episode 4 - The Big Talk, Alpha Domme and Beta Boy talk about how far they have come, what has changed, and where their kinky lives are right now.
... or for anyone really. We review our favorite games.
What does it mean to take a risk? As kinksters, many of us engage in activities that carry some element of hazard, both physical and emotional. What is a sensible way to manage these risks?
Miss Rose, Beta Boy and Alpha Domme discuss Polyamory and finding other poly people. An experiment is proposed. Don't worry - we love you if you are monogamous, poly, or anything else!
More ideas for people starting out. These are some quick, easy, affordable play ideas for those who need help getting started, or just need some new ideas.
We discuss some good feedback from listeners and shamelessly plug ourselves.
Given that most of our podcasts are not specifically about female led relationships, we changed our name to Practically Kinky. Our goal is still the same, give practical ways to make kink work in relationships.
Are you confused by all of the different roles: Domme, Sub, Bottom, Toy, and so on? We talk about some common definitions for these terms.
You know that moment where women roll their eyes and exclaim 'Men!' with exasperation as though it were a swear word? Well Beta Boy has had some experiences recently where he was frustrated too. We discuss the behavior we see perpetuated, and ways guys could avoid some dickies behavior.
Beautiful frilly clothes made specifically for men. The panties fit the boy parts so they don't fall out. And Alpha Domme tries to invite herself to the modeling for the catalog.
One of Alpha Domme's favorite subjects - Why stealth does not work and better options to try
This is our effort to give new people some ideas on setting a scene. Part One includes a discussion about scenes, then a discussion with Miss Rose and Alpha Domme on what the particular scene will entail.
We talk about our poly adventures and Alpha Domme's most recent efforts at finding an additional submissive.
Where Alpha Domme and Beta Boy discuss the experiment they set up and the disagreements that followed. We don't just share the great things, we also share the challenges we face as a couple.e
We introduce Miss Rose, a new poly partner and talk about the nitty gritty of body worship.
These are a few of our favorite things.. We each came up with three things we love.
NCSF offers many services to the kink community, including a Kink Aware Professionals Directory. Susan Wright discusses the services that NCSF provides . We discuss our Cock & Tail party, including our Cock Decorating Contest.
Eve Blake joins us on the podcast to talk about all things anal. We watched her demo at Kinkfest and asked her to talk to our listeners.
Our impressions of Kinkfest - which was a blast! We recommend attending this annual event if you can get to it.
A talk about why some people in the kink community feel ashamed about their kink and the problems/issues this causes. Also we discuss going to Kinkfest in Portland OR and parties in our future.
Posting on a site like Fetlife can be a challenge. This podcast discusses some ways to write a post to get the answer or info you are looking for.
Ok it is really more than 20 questions. This is a panel of Dominant women all along the spectrum answering questions posed by Beta Boy.
Items around your household or cheap items that you can purchase for kink. Sure you can spend hundreds for a beautiful whip, but sometimes the perfect item is right in your kitchen drawer.
A discussion around changes in the Men Submit site. We make changes every year to remain relevant to our listeners.
What is "Forced" (Forced Bi, Forced Feminization, etc). A contentious topic with a lot of discussion.
Is it ok to have kinky fantasies? Is it important to have them? Are some right or wrong?
Two subs talk about subspace. What does it feel like, have you achieved it, and more.
This one is so that you don't feel all alone. It's Alpha Domme's service to you. You can thank me later :). We talk about dating disasters and dos/don'ts for dates,
By far our most downloaded episode (about double all of the others). Alpha Domme talks about spanking safety and then tries out various devices on Beta Boy. Hear him squeal.
It is hard to imagine that there is that much to talk about housework, but we managed to make it a two part episode.
Yes, men say they want to do housework for domes, but is it really as all out sexy as the fantasies? Alpha Domme and Beta Boy discuss their relationship and housework getting done.
Two sub males get together to gab about chastity.
Alpha Domme and Beta Boy have entered the US. Time is short so we record on the Highway (safely of course) about the new kink scene in San Diego.
Ever wonder about Pro Dommes? We interview one to see what makes her tick, does she really like men, what does she do in scenes and more.
Many new domes struggle with how to start a scene, or feel intimidated by it all. This is a discussion about how you might get started.
Continued discussion about the dos and don'ts of dating in the D/s world
Dating in the D/s world. We introduce you to Pigboy, a hypothetical mixture of men we have met. Great information for those interested in finding someone.