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It's the Domme (or Dom) show - where we do a deep dive in the dark and mysterious world of BDSM.Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John do a deep dive into everything from misconceptions about what goes on in the dungeon to defining the euphoria known as "sub space."More often than not, the sexiest thing a Dominant does has nothing to do with a whip. You'll discover why giving women the power means your sex life skyrockets and why female lead sex is sooo much hotter, and will make men want more.We also discuss what you need to do if you want to quit your shit job and pursue a career as a professional dominant!And, for our swinger friends, we answer a listener question about where to meet other swingers.This is a very hot conversation! We're glad you're getting Turned On with us. Now... Get... On... Your... Knees.Our thanks to Club M4 Toronto - connect with them through our website at www.turnedonpodcast.com Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
Marjolein en Harmen hadden een hele drukke twee weken maar halen de boel goed in. Deze wat langere aflevering gaat door het Drents Coulissenlandschap richting een kerk. Dan via de wandelgangen van de Tweede Kamer naar Beverwijk, Zwolle en de klas van juf Mei Li Vos in Amsterdam West. Ga er maar goed voor zitten...hier is De Binnenkamer!
Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!Hey, it's Krystine — and yes, we're back. This episode is raw, real, and long overdue. I sat down with my subbie to walk through everything that's happened over the past year — from living in our skoolie, caregiving, work chaos, burnout, and what that's meant for our Female-Led Relationship.Spoiler: The cage isn't on right now… but our connection is stronger than ever.If you've ever felt like life has punched your FLR in the face — or like you're barely holding it together while still trying to lead — this episode is for you.What You'll Hear:Why our FLR didn't die when our life got chaotic — it just evolved.What it's like living in a bus during a Minnesota winter (hint: cold AF).Our honest struggles with chastity and why it's not always on.Hormones, exhaustion, and the real side of low-libido leadership.How small rituals and touch have become the glue in our dynamic.Key TakeawaysChastity doesn't define an FLR. We're still deeply connected even when the cage isn't locked.Intimacy shifts. The sex may slow down, but touch, presence, and intention can deepen.Being a Domme through burnout is hard. Leadership doesn't always look like heels and whips — sometimes it's just surviving.Submissive consistency is sexy. Even in chaos, his effort to serve makes a difference.This podcast isn't porn — it's real life. And real life isn't always tidy or sexy or easy.Resources & ExtrasReflection Worksheet: “How to Lead Through Life's Shitstorms” (Only on Patreon)Companion Blog Post: “What Happens When the Cage Comes Off… But the Connection Stays” (KrystineKellogg.com)Support the showHelp Support The Show? https://www.krystinekellogg.com/ Email Me! KrystineKellogg@Gmail.com Want to support the podcast and be involved with the behind-the-scenes, including voting on episode topics, as well as tiptoe with me into this whole "coaching" thing. Find my Patreon HERE! Keywords:domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, shared growth, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, partner confidence, submissive devotion, unique dynamics, balance of control, partner nurturing, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control
Y'ALL IM BACK AND SO IS THE PODCAST! So many people have been asking me to bring the pod back, so here we we are with season 2 and this time, its personal! This season is all about the in's and outs of my life and dommehood. Find out where I've been and where the future of this podcast is going!
You're not ready for this one. I sit down with Mistress Mia, a total queen of kink who's been running dungeons, wrangling sissies, and hosting massive sex parties for DECADES.
A packed suitcase can be a love letter to your future self. We open Violetta's travel diary and follow every deliberate choice—panties in soft colours, stockings with texture, clear pleasers, a red lace blouse—while honouring her commitment to stay locked with clarity and care. What begins as a packing list becomes a blueprint for courage, showing how outfits, accessories, and small travel hacks help move private desire into public life.From airport realities to creative layering, we share simple ways to make fashion practical and affirming: sunglasses that pass in any mode, wigs chosen for length and mood, purses that match purpose. Then we go deeper. Clothes aren't props; they're ritual. We talk about manifestation grounded in sensation—the ruffle at your wrist, the click of a heel—and how that embodied visualization turns a fantasy into a memory your body can use. If you've ever bought something beautiful and then hid it in the closet, this conversation offers a kinder path.We challenge the urge to purge and replace it with a living catalogue. Name your pieces. Journal short scenes about where they want to go. Let those entries guide small, safe steps beyond the bedroom: a café, a quiet bookstore, a hotel lobby at twilight. The goal isn't to perform for others. It's to align your inner voice with your outer expression, one outfit at a time, with rules and consent that keep your dynamic strong.If this resonates, listen now, share it with a friend who needs the nudge. Subscribe for more Diaries of a Domme, leave a review to help others find the show, and keep your wardrobe alive with intention.Try to connect with your local BDSM community. Fetlife is a great way to see others in similar FLR and chastity lifestyles. You can check out Mine in Fetlife at Chastity-Queen. It's a free to join. Hugs, Chastity Queen Locked In Lust 15% OFF:CHASTITYQUEEN Use Discount Code:CHASTITYQUEEN for 15% OFF ANYTHING at www.lockedinlust.com LOVE SHOP 15% OFF Sex Toys & MORE Get 15% OFF sex toys, lingerie and more, using PROMO CODE: CHASTITY QUEEN Buzzsprout - Let's get your podcast launched!Start for FREE15% OFF Shoe Freaks-PROMO%CHASTITYQUEEN GET your 15% OFF ANYTHING when you buy SEXY Shoes, heels & Stripper Boots at Shoe Freaks Canada!www.SMBSM.com - Chastity Cages 10% OFFGet reasonably priced chastity cages, chastity belts, chastity wear, + chastity accessories.THRONE WISH LISTBuy Me something anonymously or send Me a note telling Me who you are and I will thank you. Disclaimer: This post contains affiliate links. If you make a purchase, I may receive a commission at no extra cost to you.Support the showhttps://www.linktr.ee/ChastityQUEEN
Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!///// RE-RELEASE /////Welcome to Season 2! And what better way to kick it off than with my favorite month — Locktober.
Jürgen Ingels is serie-ondernemer, investeerder en founding partner/voorzitter bij Smartfin. Op zijn ondernemersfestival SuperNova haalde hij al Barack Obama en Oprah Winfrey naar België en in deze aflevering dropt hij de volgende klepper! In dit gesprek krijg je de persoonlijke kant van Jürgen te zien en deelt hij heel wat inside information.In dit gesprek: - Hoe beslis je wanneer je moet doorbouwen of verkopen?- Hoe overtuig je investeerders om te investeren in je bedrijf?- Waarom investeert Jürgen 3 uur per week in… nieuwsgierigheid?- Hoe kreeg Jürgen Oprah, Obama en zijn volgende gast naar België?- Waarom haalt maar 0,3% van de bedrijven ooit €10 miljoen omzet en wat doen zij anders?En nog zoveel meer.----------- Partners:
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In this unexpectedly playful episode of Pinky & Ava Pajama Party, Pinky opens up about a major first: stepping into the role of Top during a recent scene—and what that experience unlocked inside her. From the emotional high of her book release party to a tearful, vulnerable reaction that caught her off guard, Pinky reflects on how saying yes instead of no shifted her energy, confidence, and sense of self. She talks about letting her inner Domme out, feeling unexpectedly energized in scene, and how this moment became part of a much bigger reflection on the year she's had and the woman she's becoming. Along the way, the conversation takes a cozy Pajama Party turn—because of course it does—with side quests into banana bread & date balls; and the comfort of laughter, and softness after growth. It's an episode about power, permission, embodiment, and honoring your own evolution… with a little kitchen-table chaos mixed in. Slip into your PJs and join the party.
Have you ever wondered why being put down turns you on? Why a Domme's laugh, a sharp comment, or a teasing jab about your size leaves you harder than ever? You're not alone — today we do a dive deep into one of kink's most misunderstood, yet profoundly powerful dynamics: erotic humiliation.We explore:How something that sounds painful — even shameful — becomes a gateway to ecstasy. How we, as Femdoms, use humiliation to unlock subspace. Why does being laughed at, judged, or playfully degraded feel so right for so many submissives? And crucially — what separates consensual, joyful humiliation from emotional harm?Ms Olivia opens the conversation with a powerful truth: submission is freedom — and so is humiliation, in its own paradoxical way. It's about trust, surrender, and transformation. We hear from real listeners like SissyTeri Cum Slut, whose arousal skyrocketed after a casual SPH comment post-blowjob: “She said, ‘It's easy when you're not too big' — and holy shit, did that make me feel amazing. Better than the orgasm.”We break down Small Penis Humiliation (SPH) as a common entry point — not just as a fetish, but as a psychological key that unlocks deeper submission, feminization, and sissy training. From Pee Wee to Sissy Missy, many of today's most devoted sissies started here. But we also issue a vital warning: humiliation is not a kink to wing it with. Unlike trying a new toy or JOI, it touches your core identity. Benji shares how bringing it up with a partner backfired — resulting in real, unsexy humiliation. That's why consent, context, and aftercare are non-negotiable. You must be seen, judged, controlled — and still desired.And here's the twist: humiliation doesn't have to be mean. It can be joyful. smallPenisJumpingJack loves CFNM games where women laugh with him, not at him. simp4demi craves the sound of his Goddess laughing as she puts him in his place — because it means he's hers, fully used, fully accepted.This episode is about joy-centered domination, where teasing feels like inclusion, not exile. Where “Awww, look at you trying so hard with that tiny lil thing. Bless your heart” isn't cruelty — it's connection.We end with a message: Enjoying humiliation doesn't make you weird. It makes you human. But don't navigate it alone. Seek guidance. Learn the nuances. And remember — sometimes, laughing at yourself is the sexiest thing you do all week.Listen now. Reflect. Then DM us:What's your first memory of humiliation turning you on?Have you ever tried to explain this to a partner?What do you wish you'd known sooner?Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistressolivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comErika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasyerika@EnchantrixEmpire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
In this episode of YAS Podcast, host Princess Marx, along with producer AM Davies, delve into the multifaceted life of their guest, Vampiress, a featured performer, dominatrix, and former ballet dancer turned circus artist. Vampiress shares her journey from ballet training in Russia to becoming a touring performance artist known for her fiery shows. She discusses the emotional toll of her work, the critical importance of aftercare in domme sessions, and the misconceptions about the adult industry. The conversation also touches on the differences between lifestyle and professional dommes, the evolution of financial domination (findom), and the need for better representation and support for sex workers. The episode concludes with Vampiress sharing her future aspirations and a heartfelt message on the importance of community support and empathy in the industry.00:00 The Emotional Weight of Sex Work00:44 Welcome to YAS Podcast01:14 Meet Our Hosts and Guest01:48 Vampiress: A Multifaceted Performer03:16 From Ballet to Fire Performances04:38 A Journey Through Ballet Training05:49 Overcoming Adversity Through Dance08:13 Exploring the Adult Industry08:40 The Role of Kink in Healing11:34 Understanding the Domme-Sub Dynamic13:09 The Importance of Aftercare14:45 Professional vs. Lifestyle Dommes16:49 Misconceptions About Dominatrixes22:26 The Ethics of Findomming25:49 Acknowledging Support and Advocacy26:17 Power Exchange Beyond the Playroom26:40 Everyday Life and Helping Others27:51 Misconceptions About the Adult Industry28:05 The Reality of Featuring and Domme Work32:26 Explaining Featuring and Its Dynamics39:42 Touring and Future Plans40:12 Circus Background and Skills45:01 Supporting the Industry and Final ThoughtsFollow Vampiress on InstagramFollow Princess Marx on InstagramFollow Princess Marx on XDonate to our work YAS Work InstagramYAS Work BlueSkyYAS Work TwitterYAS Work YoutubeYASStore.Shop
Pegstress (AFAB), known as Peggin' Tha Stallion, didn't begin in leather — they began in leadership. A former corporate instructor for powerhouses like Verizon, Cablevision, and Microsoft, Pegstress spent over a decade training executives in communication, influence, and performance under pressure before trading boardroom strategy for bedroom sovereignty. With 15 years of pegging expertise and over 17 years immersed in a spectrum of kinks, they now serve as a kink educator, pleasure strategist, and sexual wellness advocate, merging dominance, humor, and emotional intelligence into deeply transformative teaching. Their mission is simple and unapologetic: to lead people toward sexual freedom, confidence, and health—without shame, without hesitation, and without apology. As a sex worker advocate and community mentor, Pegstress creates judgment-free spaces for all bodies and identities, centering queer, trans, and nonbinary experiences while helping individuals and partners unlock deeper intimacy, body literacy, and undeniable pleasure. Whether you're curious, kinky, or just craving something more, Pegstress is here to guide you toward your next evolution of Euphoria. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Today's episode isn't just a podcast about kink or BDSM – it's a masterclass in emotional courage, vulnerability and redefining power in loving relationships. Author / kink educator, Janet Hardy helps to bridge the chasm between “normalcy” and kink. Listener questions drive this episode and you're likely to hear your own worries in their questions. You don't have to be kinky to benefit from these insights - many of these issues are universal challenges in life: how do you be vulnerable enough to speak what you want and is it always a good idea to be blunt?We begin with this question: “What if a woman struggles to own her power because of cultural beliefs?” As Footstool so poignantly puts it, many men fantasize about their vanilla partner becoming their Mistress — but how does she step into dominance when a lifetime of conditioning whispers, “Be nice. Be passive. Don't lead.”? Janet offers a compassionate, no-nonsense response: Dominance isn't about dominance — it's about responsibility, clarity, and self-awareness. You don't need to be born a Domme. You become one — through practice, reflection, and permission to shed old scripts.Then came Wellspanked's dilemma: “When negotiating spanking, should we talk technique and intensity beforehand — clinically — or let it unfold in the heat of the moment?” The tension here is real: too much planning kills the spark; too little, and safety frays. Janet reminds us that true eroticism thrives in the space between trust and structure. Yes — talk logistics outside the scene. But leave room for improvisation within it. A safe word isn't a buzzkill — it's the foundation of freedom.One of our listeners, Ben, shared a fear so common it aches: “If my partner rejects my kinks, is the relationship irrevocably broken?” Janet's answer? No — but it might need to evolve. Rejection isn't always final. Sometimes, it's the first step toward honest dialogue. What matters isn't immediate acceptance — it's willingness to listen, to be curious,and to try. What do you do if you get bad news? Janet has an honest answer - the relationship may need to change form — or end — with dignity.Then came the knife-edge question: “Can a partner ever see you as equal after extreme degradation?” This cuts to the heart of humiliation play — one of the most misunderstood, feared, and exciting dynamics in kink. Janet doesn't flinch. She explains that the power of degradation lies not in the words, but in the aftercare. It's not about erasing dignity — it's about temporarily suspending it, with consent, for shared catharsis. And yes — equality returns, if both partners honor the reintegration. The scene ends. The love remains.Erika then turned to Janet's latest work — Notes on an Aging Pervert — a book that's “funny, sad, mind-bending.” She asked: Which essay was a lightbulb moment — for you or someone you love? Janet shared a story about aging, desire, and the myth of the “perfect scene.” The real magic, Janet said, isn't in the play — it's in what happens after:How do you come back to each other? How do you integrate the intensity? That's where connection deepens — not in the whip, but in the whisper that follows.We closed with a truth that resonates through every episode of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast: Kink isn't an escape from love — it's a path into it. Deeper. Messier. More honest.If you've ever feared being “too much,” or worried you're “not enough,” this conversation is for you.Tune in. Listen closely. And ask yourself: What would it feel like to be truly seen — kinks and all?Janet Hardy's websiteWhen Someone You Love is KinkyThe Ethical SlutRadical Ecstasy Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressOlivia@EnchantrixEmpire.comMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyErika@EnchantrixEmpire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
What happens when surrender becomes sacred? When boundaries are not barriers—but bridges to deeper intimacy? Meet one of the most influential voices in modern kink culture. Janet Hardy is today's guest. She's the co-author of the revolutionary The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships & Other Adventures and Radical Ecstasy: SM Journeys to Transcendence … to name just two of her books. She has a wealth of knowledge and experience. Listeners of The Weekly Hot Spot podcast, sent in a lot of questions and inspired this intimate conversation.Topics include:The intersections of power, pain, love and liberation.Myths and fears about ethical non-monogamy in kink spaces.Details about the new Workbook for The Ethical Slut.When Janet shares about how real change begins with honest self-inquiry, not permission from others, all three women talk about claiming their own personal erotic power. What does it mean to really choose who you are in your relationships? And, what is beyond tolerating a relationship. Hint: it's not always easy or safe to open up to this view of love and pleasure. Janet talks about building emotional resilience when having these vulnerable conversations.You'll hear Mistress Olivia's personal reflection on how Radical Ecstasy transformed her understanding of Dominance and submission — not as control, but as co-created surrender. “Pain is not the goal. Surrender is.” That one line shifted everything. Together, they explore how power exchange is one of the most intimate acts we're capable of — a dance where trust becomes tangible, and vulnerability becomes strength.We also tackle real listener questions:A trans woman shares her experience of feeling Dominant with male partners and submissive with female ones — is this a known dynamic? Janet offers thoughtful insight into gendered power dynamics and erotic archetypes.For the nervous beginner — especially the "vanilla wife" being asked to step into Dominance — what are the real fears women face? Spoiler: It's not about lack of interest. It's about responsibility, judgment, and the weight of expectation.And then… the eternal debate: Who's really in control — the Domme or the sub? Janet's answer may surprise you. (Hint: It's not a power struggle — it's a paradox.)Finally, for those walking the spiritual edge of kink, we explore how to distinguish emotional overwhelm from authentic spiritual surrender — because not every tear in a scene is transcendence. Some are signals. Learning the difference? That's where true mastery begins.This episode isn't just for kinksters. It's for anyone who's ever loved deeply, feared openly, or longed to be seen. It's about coming into power — not over others, but within yourself.Janet Hardy WebsiteThe Ethical SlutRadical EcstasyMistress Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistressolivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasyerika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!///// RE-RELEASE /////This one's for all of you trying to do it all.I sat down with my subbie for a real-life, messy, honest talk about something we don't hear enough about: what happens to your dynamic when you also have a family to raise? Can you still lead? Submit? Play? Hold space for kink and power exchange while also packing school lunches and managing bedtime routines?This episode was sparked by an article I read on boldpleasures.com about parenting and equality—and it hit me hard. Because so much of what we do in our FLR works because we communicate. And also because we fumble. And figure it out. And get it wrong. And come back to each other.So whether you're trying to raise good humans while keeping your subbie in line, or just wondering if you can be a Domme and a damn good mom at the same time… let me tell you: you can. And I've got stories to prove it.Inside This Episode:Why “submission” has zero place in parenting—but mutual respect doesHow we balance our FLR with equal parenting responsibilityThe quiet ways power dynamics can still show up at homeWhat our daughter sees, what we want her to know, and how we talk about itHow we stay connected when the schedule's full and the sink's overflowingThe truth about being a “24/7 Domme” (spoiler: I'm usually barefoot and tired)How to raise kids with healthy examples of leadership, love, and emotional safetyWhy obedience doesn't disappear just because the dishwasher needs emptyingAsk Yourself:What do your kids see when they watch you and your partner?Is there a clear understanding of power, love, and respect in your home?Are you creating the kind of relationship your children can learn from—not just tolerate?Do your dynamic and parenting style actually complement each other?My Favorite Quote This Episode:“I want my daughter to know she doesn't have to do something she doesn't want to do. I want her to be confident in her ability to say fucking no—and not feel guilty for someone else's disappointment.”Support the showHelp Support The Show? https://www.krystinekellogg.com/ Email Me! KrystineKellogg@Gmail.com Want to support the podcast and be involved with the behind-the-scenes, including voting on episode topics, as well as tiptoe with me into this whole "coaching" thing. Find my Patreon HERE! Keywords:domestic discipline, female led relationship dynamics, accountability, communication, people pleaser, personal growth, female led relationship challenges, discipline strategies, humor in relationships, shared growth, female led relationship advice, discipline and play, understanding in partnerships, personal anecdotes, physical touch, relationship rules, partnership growth, podcast insights, female-led relationships, submissive rewards, holiday appreciation, partner devotion, relationship dynamics,, control and appreciation, partner confidence, submissive devotion, unique dynamics, balance of control, partner nurturing, relationship empowerment, submissive strength.pegging, female-led relationship, kink, empowerment, dominance, submission, ass play, emotional connection, intimacy, power play, strap-on, control
Het gaat niet goed met onze jongeren: ze bezwijken onder prestatiedruk, zijn gedesillusioneerd in de politiek, zitten uren achter een scherm en zijn kwetsbaar voor de radicale ideeën van Andrew Tate. Maar geen paniek, want volgens ontwikkelingspsycholoog prof. dr. Eveline Crone, denken volwassenen altijd dat de nieuwste generatie gedoemd is. Crone onderzoekt al zo'n twintig jaar de hersenen van jongeren en legt in de Jortcast uit waarom juist zij zo vatbaar zijn voor extreem gedachtegoed. Hersenen zijn volop in ontwikkeling en niet alle gebieden doen dat even snel. Het gevolg? Domme beslissingen en een mooie (maar soms naïeve) vorm van idealisme.
Nyxie did the serial monogamy approach to relationships from the time they started dating until they were in their early twenties. That's when Nyxie realized they didn't necessarily need to be in a relationship to get many of their needs met and so they began exploring solo polyamory. However, it was the early 2000's and the language didn't quite exist yet so Nyxie affectionately refers to this as their "Slut Era." Nyxie's Slut Era lasted until they met their spouse (who was also non-monogamous) about 19 years ago. Early in their relationship they decided together that they wanted to be monogamous for a while. And so they did. Right around the beginning of 2020 they decided their kids were old enough and it was time to open up again... Today, Nyxie and their spouse are both exploring non-monogamy in their own unique ways. Nyxie is currently in a triad, has a submissive, and a "whole galaxy" of play partners. In this wonderful interview Nyxie dives into all the nuances of their relationships, exploring kink, raising a family, and navigating non-monogamy with a spouse who has a completely different approach. Nyxie isn't just passionate about sex, kink, and relationships in their personal life... It's also their life's work! From Nyxie's website: Nyxie Noc is a seasoned and compassionate Domme with decades of experience as a sex worker, fetish content producer, and educator in kink, consent, and advocacy. It has supported conduct and consent teams for various kink and sex-positive organizations and has provided safer-play orientations to over 850 participants, along with personnel orientations to more than 100 staff members within these communities. Nyxie's work is driven by a passion for the freedom of expression found within kink, and it values the transformative power of every scene and interaction. It is dedicated to creating safer, more inclusive play spaces and fostering supportive communities. Please check out all of Nyxie's work over on their website! Check out the full show notes here. Join the most amazing community of open-minded humans on the planet! Click here to order your very own NNM shirt! $10 Off - Online STI Testing
Season 9 on neurodiversity and sex begins with a deep dive into autism. Therapist Elmo Painter-Edington, herself autistic, gives us a primer on this unique brain difference and its interplay with sex, kink, and polyamory.Plus! Don't miss our Sunday, Oct. 12, 2025, 6pm, SEVENTH ANNIVERSARY SHOW in Chicago. Get tix and more info here! Main show sponsor: Rowan Tree Counseling.In this episode:Neurodiversity-affirming therapist and coach Elmo Painter-Edington, LPC, SEP, ASDIHost Karen YatesNeuroTribes by Steve Silberman Unmasking Autism by Devon Price I'm looking for…Episodes on specific topics - There's a list! The Afterglow, our Patreon membership club, brings you regular bonus content, early show alerts, discounts to live shows, and more goodies! Join now to help us continue to spread the message of sex-positivity. Or show your love for Wild & Sublime any time: Leave a tip!Be Wild & Sublime out in the world! Check out our new tees and accessories. Peep our Limited Collection and let your inner relationship anarchist run free… Support the showGet tickets to the 7th Anniversary show in Chicago! Oct 12 at 6pm at Lincoln Lodge.Support the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!
In this episode, DB talks with Midori, a sex eduator and artist who focuses on domination and power play for anyone who identifies as a woman. What does femme domination look like -- and why can it be so intimidating to tap into? Learn to tap into your domme side with tips from Midori on how to get there, and why domming is often so much simpler and sweeter than people might think. Guest Details Midori (she/her) is an educator, artist, and provocateur reshaping how we understand kink, consent, and connection. For over three decades, she has inspired people around the world to explore desire with courage, curiosity, and a touch of mischief. Born in Japan and forged in 1990s queer San Francisco, she brings a multicultural perspective to topics like Shibari, power dynamics, and playful negotiation. Founder of ForteFemme and Consent Dojo, she trains mental health professionals, educators, and everyday people in kink expertise, cultural competence, and trauma-informed care, making learning both profound and delightful. Event listing and all that Midori offers: https://planetmidori.com/ For great resources, class videos, live zoom events, and more : https://www.patreon.com/c/PlanetMidori ForteFemme Women's Dominance Intensive: https://www.fortefemme.com/ -- Register for upcoming intensive! November 14-16, 2025 Midori's socials https://bsky.app/profile/planetmidori.bsky.social https://www.instagram.com/planetmidori/ https://www.facebook.com/PlanetMidori/ https://substack.com/@planetmidori Midori's books Seductive Art of Japanese Bondage - https://www.twistedmonk.com/collections/bondage-education-books/products/seductive-art-of-japanese-bondage/?rfsn=264649.d9eeca Wild Side Sex: The Book of Kink - https://www.therippedbodice.com/aff/hello_34966/book/9781881943228 Silk Threads: Three Tales of Passionate Japan - https://www.therippedbodice.com/aff/hello_34966/book/9781626015302 An Intersectional Approach to Sex Therapy: Centering the Lives of Indigenous, Racialized, and People of Color - https://www.routledge.com/An-Intersectional-Approach-to-Sex-Therapy-Centering-the-Lives-of-Indigenous-Racialized-and-People-of-Color/Malone-Stewart-Gary-Smith-Wadley/p/book/9780367471958 Fundamental Concepts and Critical Developments in Sex EducationIntersectional and Trauma-Informed Approaches - https://www.routledge.com/Fundamental-Concepts-and-Critical-Developments-in-Sex-Education-Intersectional-and-Trauma-Informed-Approaches/Malone-Gilbert-Dukes-Fonte/p/book/9781032615431 DB is proud to be an affiliate of The Ripped Bodice! We may receive a percentage of profits from books purchased using our link. Thank you for supporting us by shopping The Ripped Bodice! ABOUT SEASON 12 Season 12 of Sex Ed with DB is ALL ABOUT PLEASURE! Solo pleasure. Partnered pleasure. Orgasms. Porn. Queer joy. Kinks, sex toys, fantasies—you name it. We're here to help you feel more informed, more empowered, and a whole lot more turned on to help YOU have the best sex. CONNECT WITH US Instagram: @sexedwithdbpodcast TikTok: @sexedwithdbTwitter: @sexedwithdb Threads: @sexedwithdbpodcast YouTube: Sex Ed with DB SEX ED WITH DB SEASON 12 SPONSORS Lion's Den, Uberlube, & Magic Wand Get discounts on all of DB's favorite things here! GET IN TOUCH Email: sexedwithdb@gmail.comSubscribe to our BRAND NEW newsletter for hot goss, expert advice, and *the* most salacious stories. FOR SEXUAL HEALTH PROFESSIONALS Check out DB's workshop: "Building A Profitable Online Sexual Health Brand" ABOUT THE SHOW Sex Ed with DB is your go-to podcast for smart, science-backed sex education—delivering trusted insights from top experts on sex, sexuality, and pleasure. Empowering, inclusive, and grounded in real science, it's the sex ed you've always wanted. ASK AN ANONYMOUS SEX ED QUESTION Fill out our anonymous form to ask your sex ed question. SEASON 12 TEAM Creator, Host & Executive Producer: Danielle Bezalel (DB) (she/her) Communications Lead: Cathren Cohen (she/her) Growth Marketing Manager and Producer: Wil Williams (they/them) MUSIC Intro theme music: Hook Sounds Background music: Bright State by Ketsa Ad music: Soul Sync by Ketsa, Always Faithful by Ketsa, and Soul Epic by Ketsa. Thank you Ketsa!
“Your reality is a result of your nervous system and how you see life. Let's shift that and be the doms of our lives.” - KimiThis conversation with Kimi Inch, The Creatrix of Erotic Leadership™, is one I've been dreaming about for over a year. Kimi is a renowned expert with 20+ years of experience in the realm of intimacy, conscious kink, and unlocking your body's untapped erotic energy. Featured on prestigious platforms such as The Oprah Winfrey Network, SXSW, Princeton University, and Nightline, Kimi's goal as a pro-Domme, Somatic Therapist, and Sex-Positive Edu-tainer is to provide a safe and pleasure-filled space for exploring parts of ourselves that we rarely dare to look at.It's been a heavy week, both individually and collectively, and after we wrapped, she thanked me for my vulnerability and said, “The world doesn't need more smart… the world needs more heart.” I invite you to explore, be open to what is possible, and press play to discover how conscious kink might weave more heart into your life, and thus, consequently, ripple into the lives of others.Click here to watch the full episode on YouTube. We Explore...▶Being turned on by the taboo▶Kink as a pathway to altered states of consciousness▶Why pain can be of service (and how to alchemize it)▶Ego death, surrender, & liberation in play▶Archetypes, Eros vs. ego, and erotic leadership▶Spanking, chakras, and awakening life force energy▶Dirty talk, erotic language & using your voice▶Aftercare & integration▶How to get your man into his heart during sex
In de nieuwe aflevering van VI ZSM bespreken Tim Tempelaars de interlandweek van Duitsland en Nederland. Verder ook aandacht voor de laatste ontwikkelingen bij Vitesse. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Get to know one of the hottest porn stars in the adult industry, Eva Maxim. This trans woman is the winner of a lot of awards. You know her from her hot sex scenes but today you'll get a peek behind the scenes.Today's episode talks about:Adult industry awardsThe business side of pleasureWhy and how Only Fans has changed the adult industry.Why she prefers producing content for Only Fans rather than filming a scene for a traditional porn studio.Eva graciously answers listener questions about:When she fully realized she is a STARPrepping for a porn shootConnection to the sissy communitySpeaking of sissies, since Eva is a Top, it's natural to ask her about trying some Femdom scenes with a sissy or two. Ms Olivia and Ms Erika offer to team up with some Domme content.This is the first of a 2 part interview and Eva will be back again!Eva Maxim Only FansTwitter X: @Eva_MaximMistress Olivia's blog: Experienced Mistressolivia@enchantrixempire.comMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasyerika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErika
Dating a dominant woman isn't about begging to be used - it's about learning how to meet power with presence. In this episode of the #teakink Podcast, Eva Oh unpacks the messy reality of dating as a Domme, the chaos of app culture, and what actually works when approaching a dominant woman. Supported by Chyrpe - the dating app for femdom and female-led relationships - this is essential listening for anyone navigating femdom dynamics with curiosity, confusion, or just too many emojis.Chyrpe: www.chyrpe.com/eva_ohWatch on YouTube: https://youtube.com/evaohMore on Eva Oh: https://eva-oh.comHIGHLIGHTS:Here are the timestamps for the episode. On some podcast players you should be able to click the timestamp to jump to that time.(00:00) - Welcome to #teakink(00:28) - Introducing Chyrpe: the dating app for femdom and FLRs(01:24) - Why dating a dominant woman isn't about “doing anything you want”(02:00) - The dating app disaster zone(04:10) - What dominant women experience on mainstream apps(05:30) - “I want to be your slave” & other spammy openers(06:15) - Respect, not performance: what Dommes actually want(07:30) - The cost of desperation: kink bingo and checkbox culture(08:50) - Submission isn't self-erasure(10:10) - What gets a real response from a Domme?(11:25) – Red flags vs green flags in femdom dating(13:00) - Emotional competence > chaotic desperation(15:10) - Fantasy vs reality: can you meet power with presence?(16:00) - For submissives: curiosity, calm, consistency(16:35) - For doms: vetting is sacred(17:10) - Final word: dominance isn't something you consume - it's something you relate to
Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!///// RE-RELEASE /////This one is real talk about parenting, boundaries, and keeping your kink alive when your life is anything but quietSo… you're kinky and you have kids? Welcome to the club.In this episode, I'm diving into something that every kink-positive parent wrestles with at some point:"How do you stay connected to your identity—and your dominance—when the kids are home, the bedroom has no door, and your sex life feels like it's on permanent hold?"I pulled from a couple of excellent articles (linked below) and shared how I've navigated being a Domme, a mother, and a woman with a wild, creative, and very adult job. This one's a little raw, a little funny, and hopefully a whole lot helpful.What I Talk Through:My own challenges with maintaining a kinky dynamic in a house full of peopleThe exact conversation I had with my daughter about setting boundaries and owning her pleasureHow I balance sex positivity with age-appropriate parentingThe time a toddler brought a butt plug into the living room
ABOUT KYAA CHIMERA Stunning, statuesque, blonde, blue-eyed porn star, fetish model, content producer, and Dominatrix Kyaa Chimera (pronounced ky-meer-uh) commands your attention from her appearance and mere presence. Kyaa's known for being a pansexual sex goddess on screen and lives a kinky and charmed life. Her name is an interesting amalgamation—she randomly came up with Kyaa and the Chimera because she's a multi-faceted performer like the Chimera, a mythical creature composed of different animals. Kyaa's fans are Kyaaists, and some treat it as a religion. Kyaa's journey into adult has been an interesting one. Before the industry, she went to university, earned a BA in English literature, and was on her way to becoming a teacher. Kyaa also bartended and read tarot cards. She decided to enter adult instead, and the rest is history. She's a well-respected Domme and has trained for over 15 years in BDSM and is skilled in flogging, whipping, rope rigging (Shibari), hypnotism, roleplay, and slave training, with thousands of hours of practice under her belt. Kyaa has also worked as a performer for top-shelf studios, including Hookup Hotshot, Team Skeet, Mylf, Love Her Feet, Evolved Fights, HorrorPorn, Julie Simone Productions, Trouble Films, New Sensations, Transglamour, and Girlfriends Films. The XMA Creator Awards have nominated Kyaa for Fetish Clip Creator of the Year and Best Fetish Cam Model, the AltStar Awards for Best Clip Artist, and by the TEAs for Best Girl/Girl Scene, Best Non-TS Performer, and Best Self Producer. When she's not running her empire, you'll find her traveling the globe trying to add even more than the 20 countries she already has on her passport, reading tarot cards, playing video and tabletop games, reading books and comic books, upping her game with her flow skills in flow skills poi, hula hoops, light whips, and staves, and adding to her extensive cosplay costume collection. Keep up with all her adventures by following her on X and TikTok @GoddessKyaa, IG and Threads @Kyaa_Chimera, and Bluesky @kyaachimera.bsky.social. Join her premium fan club, subscribe to her OnlyFans onlyfans.com/GoddessKyaa, and join her free account for exclusive updates onlyfans.com/kyaas_freefans. Follow and subscribe to her LoyalFans fan club loyalfans.com/goddess_kyaa. Buy her content a la carte on Kyaa's Adult Empire Studio This episode is brought to you by Olipop, a new healthy brand of soda. Go to https://drinkolipop.com/ and use code Marcela15 at checkout to get 15% off your first order. This episode is brought to you by Shopify. Shopify can help you take your business to the next level. Click HERE to set up your Shopify shop today and watch your business soar! This episode is brought to you by BranditScan, the best defese you have against social media fraud. Click HERE to get started with BranditScan today and get your first month for free. There is no better service to protect your social media accounts and your name and likeness. This episode is brought to you by Playboy. Click HERE to get a membership today and unlock a premium Playboy experience like no other. This episode is brought to you by Skillshare. Click HERE to start exploring all the courses Skillshare has to offer, from drawing and music, to graphic design and marketing, start expanding your knowledge today. This episode is brought to you by Fiverr. Click HERE to start hiring professionals to help you in various areas and take your business to the next level. This episode is brought to you by PodMatch. Click HERE to bring your podcasting journey to the next level by getting set up's Only Fans VIP Membership HERE Free Membership HERE
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Send us a textWhat happens when kink meets therapy? In this lively conversation, Dr Yulinda Renee Rahman, creator of Therapeutic BDSM™, explains how trauma can be healed when a kink professional, therapist, and client work together.In this episode:Therapist Dr. Yulinda Renee Rahman, creator of Therapeutic BDSM™ and founder of KPSAKink Professionals Standards Alliance (KPSA) Summit, October 25-26Books by Dr. Rahman on AmazonKaren Yates – sex educator and healerWild & SublimeWant more Wild & Sublime? Join The Afterglow for bonus content and Wild & Sublime goodies! Check out our new line of tees and accessories! Be wild & sublime every day! Shipping discounts for orders over $50.They said what? Full episode transcripts are available on our websiteDo you feel stuck? Work with host Karen Yates in Zoom groups and one-on-one as she uses the energy of sound to reduce stress and help repattern behavior. Learn more about Biofield Tuning.Show your love for sex-positive podcasting: Leave a lil' tip!Support the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!
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Sex workers describe their very first day on the job NSFW - r/nsfw Podcast - Reddit NSFW StoriesEvery job has a first day — and that includes sex work.It's not like what you see in the movies (though sometimes you may find some elements of Hollywood in there), and it's not all pretty, but it can be interesting and, sometimes, even a little funny.According to prostitutes, erotic masseuses, and other sex workers on Reddit, here's what that very first day on the job is like."I started working because I'd gotten a few propositions through a dating website. I was studying med at the time and I was short on money. So one time, this guy made me what seemed like a lucrative offer and I agreed... A week or two later, I drove over to his apartment. I was petrified, but I needed the money so I rang the doorbell. It was a lovely apartment, and he paid upfront. He was nice enough. He asked me to do some things that I didn't want to do, so I said, 'Maybe not this time.' Kept an eye on the time (via the helpful clock radio next to the bed) and thankfully he finished on time. Had a shower, bit of a chat afterwards, and then he kissed me goodbye on the cheek.""I drank a heap of wine before I went to the agency. This was about 2.5 years ago when the industry was booming. I did booking after booking and went home with a massive wad of cash. I didn't think about it too much. I just loved the rush of being booked and making so much money. The industry is dead over here now and I have no idea why.""My first night, I was ridiculously nervous. I went to an upscale hotel, nervously walked through the lobby, hoping I looked like I belonged there, and not like what I was really there for. I was nervous the whole elevator ride up. I walk to his room, lightly knock on the door. He opens the door, says (for the story's sake, we will use the name Sarah) 'Hi, Sarah?' and like an idiot I reply with my real name. We laughed it off. It was quick, 10 minutes. He was polite and clean. In the area for business. I ended up seeing him a few more times over the years, always very nice. Tipped on top of the hourly rate, which was always appreciated and made me choose to see him over other clients in the future.""I was a different type of sex worker, a pro Domme. My first pro session was terrible! He was a good client, however anything bad that could have happened did happen... Including cracking his rib during a trample session (very rare when everything is done correctly). However I never had an issue after that first session, and ended up with quite a few wonderful regulars.""I'm a straight male escort and... for my first booking, I received an email from a girl that basically went as follows: 'Hi, I'd like to book you as a birthday present for my friend's 24th surprise party.' ... I turned up early to help these girls prepare the surprise and they're all insanely attractive. Out-of-my-league attractive. The girl who booked me then drops this bombshell on me: 'Oh, by the way, all of us are either escorts or strippers.' Uh oh, I'm in way over my head...""The guy paid me $60/hour for three hours. He smoked a few bowls, talked about jazz, and then very creepily went on and on about my boobs. I jerked him for like 30 minutes with this horrible rose-scented lotion, blew him, and eventually we had sex. I was impressed he could get it up with how high he was and figured he must be on something else. That's mostly what I was thinking about the whole time.""I was 22, just graduated with a BA in a major that would make me no money... I posted on Craigslist ($400 an hour; I had no clue about rates and still don't, but from this thread it seems high) and met a man the next night at his house for an agreed-upon 30 minutes. We sat on the couch and talked a little bit. He ran a small business, divorced, overweight, 40s... I liked him, so I kept going until he finished -- maybe another 20 minutes? I didn't charge him for the extra. I didn't enjoy it as much as I would with a regular partner, but it wasn't bad.""He was in his 40s, from another town, and offered me $900 for the night. When the night came along, he booked a hotel, and I went over there some time that evening. I was so nervous, I could barely speak a word when I got there. He was an average-looking guy. I wasn't attracted to him but it didn't cross my mind that it mattered. I was still about to have sex with someone I technically just met, and for money... After that, we just went to sleep and I left in the morning."Sex workers describe their very first day on the job NSFWr/nsfw Podcast - Reddit NSFW StoriesSex workers describe their very first day on the job NSFW - r/nsfw Podcast - Reddit NSFW StoriesBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/true-cheating-wives-and-girlfriends-stories-2025-true-cheating-stories-podcast--5689182/support.
Why does a man want to wear panties? There are a lot of misconceptions around this and it makes for a perfect opportunity for some BDSM or kink education. Topics include:How does panty wearing start? Why would a heterosexual cis man wear panties?Is it always about sex or kink?Can wearing women's lingerie help a man be more comfortable with expressing his female side?Does wearing panties mean you're gay, bi or trans?Why does a Femdom Mistress put a man in panties?Feminization or sissificationSending a submissive into subspaceUsing panties to create a certain scene like erotic humiliation or cock controlDoes a panty boi always want to be humiliated?Lots of personal stories, behind the scenes of online Mistress domination, and much more!Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone Fantasy
Ben was caged in a female led relationship for years and he called in to talk all about it. Tue in to hear him discuss all the details including how and where he met the teacher who wound up domming him, the first time he went to a dungeon and exactly what she instructed him to do, when she explained in details exactly what she was looking for and the rules she presented to him and well as the list of chores he was made to do, how she got him to be completely obedient, when she introduced to chastity and the hardcore chastity cage she got him for his birthday, how long he was in chastity for and what he was not able to do while caged, the punishments he got fro her including flogging, caning and whipping, the weekend he was treated as a waste basket for a bunch of dommes and exactly what went down, how and when he lost his anal virginity and exactly what went down, how their days were set up when he lived with his Domme and all the things he would do for her and all the things she would do to him, how she started loaning him out to other Dommes ad what they'd do for him, when she finally took him out of the cage and the things she would do to him then, how she branded him and what she branded him with, how and why their female led relationship ended, what kind of relationship he's looking for now plus a whole lot more. Do you think this is FACT or FICTION? Comment on Spotify! **To see HOT pics of my female guests + gain access to my PRIVATE Discord channel where people get super XX naughty + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712 or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712 Want to be on the show? Email me at strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com or go to http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed. Sponsors: https://butterwellness.com/ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order https://bluechew.com Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON https://beducate.me/pd2520-anonymous Use code anonymous to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14 day money back guarantee Follow me! Instagram https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/ Twitter https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en Website: http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/ Everything else https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcas Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
DT FAM for this week, let's throw it back to November 2023, when we recorded with Colette Pervette, a professional Domme and Educatrix. She had some *WILD* stories... one that even had our producer leaving the room to gather himself for 5 minutes. Listening back to this episode was so fun for me, and I hope you all enjoy it just as much all over again. We will be back with a new episode next week!
Hi darlings, Miss K here and you're getting a raw, unfiltered solo update from your Curious Girl. This week, I dish on how I'm thriving without dating apps, choosing my kink life intentionally, and what it really takes to set boundaries with subs (even when they're cute).
Today's episode is all about ruined orgasms. What is a ruined orgasm? How is it different from a full orgasm? Why would a Femdom Mistress want to ruin an orgasm? There are so many aspects to discuss.In this episode you'll hear:The experiences of others who have had ruined orgasms by accident or on purpose.Why does a ruined orgasm leave you crazy horny?How does a Femdom Mistress use a ruined orgasm as part of cock control, tease and delay, tease and denial and even chastity play?Does a Domme consider a ruined orgasm as punishment, funishment or maybe both depending on the BDSM or kink play.The ladies also bring up feminization and sissy training. A ruined orgasm can keep those submissive sissy feelings going and stop the sissy drop or crossdresser purging cycles that are so frustrating (and expensive!).If you're interested in BDSM, kink, feminization, sissy training or sexy conversations with smart women, get in touch!Olivia@enchantrixempire.comErika@enchantrixempire.comDISCORD: LDWOlivia and LDWErikaMistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyOur adult social networking site: Enchantrix Empire
Is pain play a hard limit for you? If you say yes, then you might be like the person that inspired today's episode. Our friend didn't have any desire to explore pain play until one day he said, well okay maybe we can try it a little bit. Wait until you hear what happened next!You'll hear from a number of submissives who enjoy BDSM pain play:** Why would someone want to experience pain as part of sexual arousal?** How can a Femdom Mistress or Dominant Woman manipulate someone into pushing their limits of BDSM and kink?** How does pain and pleasure overlap in BDSM?** How are power dynamics between Domme and sub enhanced and expressed through painful sensations?** Why trust and communication in BDSM relationships is essential.** Role of aftercare in BDSM** Does the Domme get sexually aroused or orgasm as she is spanking or ball busting a submissive?The hosts also talk about using pain in feminization and sissy training. You'll hear from one sissy who says pain helps her to let go and slip into her feminine subspace.BDSM education, personal stories, insight from kinksters, and more.Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyContact us on DISCORD:LDWOliviaLDWErikaOur free, private adult social membership site, Enchantrix Empire.
I have Melissa on the show to talk about our feminine spiritual, emotional, and energetic empowerment, and lots more.Thank you, Melissa!This is a video podcast on Spotify and YouTube.Want to know more about Mel, the Body Witch?Free empowerment course, "Step Out of Your Trauma and Step into Your Power": https://smarterbodies.ac-page.com/step-into-powerMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thebodywitch/Bio: Melissa Gutierrez (she/her) is a somatic witch, trauma-informed Domme, and body-based guide who leads others into the dark to reclaim their power. Blending science with ritual, kink with healing, Mel alchemizes shadow into strength—helping seekers and rebels embody truth, embrace vulnerability, and rise in sovereignty.
Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!///// RE-RELEASE /////This week, I'm breaking down something that every submissive man needs to hear: how to actually support your Domme's confidence in real life. Not through fantasy. Not with surprise cages. But with mindset, consistency, and actual effort.We talk about what real submission looks like—not just the sexy bits, but the communication, daily service, trust, and selflessness it takes to make a dominant woman feel secure, respected, and in charge. I also share personal stories (including a little toy action from Lovense), a whole list of actionable submission ideas, and why “helping your dominant feel dominant” is not about what gets you off—it's about what gets her empowered.Whether you're in a new dynamic, trying to reset a stale one, or just here for the sass and stories—this one's got something for you. What You'll Walk Away With:The difference between fantasy-led submission and actual service5 non-tangible mindset shifts that build Domme confidence5 tangible tasks that show love and strengthen FLRWhy submissives are some of the strongest men out thereHow to build trust and security that leads to deeper intimacyQuestions This Episode Helps Answer:How do I support my dominant partner in an FLR?What makes a good submissive in real life?What does service submission look like day-to-day?What should I avoid doing as a new submissive?Is chastity required in a Female-Led Relationship?What are real-life tasks for submissive men?How do I build my wife's confidence as a Domme?Get 30 Days of FREE Starlink!! (
Today's episode was inspired by someone who called Mistress Erika asking for “discipline.” That person was talking about spanking and while paddling a bare bottom certainly can be part of BDSM correction protocols, the term discipline means a lot more than spanking or punishment. In fact, BDSM is a general term that encompasses a wide range of behaviors and mindsets for both the Femdom and the submissive. Today's episode includes:General definitions with BDSMPower exchange: The Domme is in charge and the submissive obeys her.Corporal punishment by a Dominant WomanImpact play as part of BDSM cultureVarious kinds of pain used as a way to correct misbehavior by a submissive.Different styles of domination for a submissive male versus someone who is feminized and submissive either as a sissy or a sub.A Femdom Mistress uses discipline to change, enhance, correct, or motivate behaviors that she wants from the sub. There are various ways to discipline a wayward subby:Physical: put in a stress position, bondage, impact play, etc.Mental: verbal humiliation, degrading tasks, embarrassing activities.Tasks and assignments used to enhance the control of the Domme.A Mistress could also take a fun activity away from the sub - for example, making a sissy slut stare at but not suck a dildo, or not allowing the sub to contact Mistress for a set amount of time.Remember, as we talk about anything with BDSM, kink, feminization, or sissy training …These definitions are guideposts, as long as the people involved are on the same page and communicating, we can create pretty much anything!Mistress Olivia's blog: Experienced MistressMistress Erika's blog: Intelligent Phone FantasyEmail:olivia@enchantrixempire.comerika@enchantrixempire.comDiscord:LDWOliviaLDWErika
In episode 135 of 'On the Whorizon' SWCEO founder and host @MelRoseMichaels sits down with Goddess Lilith, an industry icon and masterclass in adult entrepreneurship. Together, they dive into Lilith's groundbreaking journey from pioneering early webcam modeling to launching femdom events, founding a talent agency, and coaching creators to lasting success.Listeners will discover actionable advice on avoiding burnout, building multiple streams of income, learning to say "no" as an entrepreneur, and embracing the creative artistry of adult work. Melrose and Goddess Lilith pull back the curtain on the realities of adaptability, delegation, and emotional boundaries that keep talent thriving in an ever-changing industry.
Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!Let's keep this cuckolding conversation rolling.This week, I dig deeper into the emotional side of this lifestyle—what happens after you say yes, how to build a dynamic that works for YOU, and why the hell so many people on the internet think this ruins relationships. (Spoiler: it doesn't, if you're doing it right.)I'm breaking down another fantastic article from the site threesomes.wordpress.com and sharing some personal experiences, thoughts from TikTok, and the very real challenges of exploring kink while also raising kids, doing voiceovers, and fending off the occasional internet troll.We talk about finding bulls, navigating jealousy, building trust, and why chastity is NOT required—but can be a fun bonus. Plus, my take on being a “shy” Domme, why communication is non-negotiable, and why this lifestyle might be healthier than anything the mainstream ever sold us.What You'll Walk Away With:Why cuckolding isn't a one-size-fits-all model (and that's the point)The emotional rollercoaster couples often experience when starting this journeyTips for finding a bull and setting safety standardsWhy communication is your most important kink toolHow this lifestyle can deepen your bond—not destroy itGoogle-Friendly Questions This Episode Helps Answer:How do I start cuckolding with my partner?What's the difference between cuckolding and threesomes?Do I have to use chastity in cuckolding dynamics?How do I find a bull for my FLR?Can introverts enjoy cuckolding?Is cuckolding safe for married couples?What boundaries should we Get 30 Days of FREE Starlink!! (
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Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!This Episode, I'm diving deep into one of the best blog posts I've ever read about Female-Led Relationships—The Cheese, written by John Dalton on the Dom Think Tank blog.It's real, raw, and totally validated a lot of what I've lived through in this journey: the struggle, the guilt, the overwhelm, and ultimately… the unbelievable confidence that grows when a woman finally owns her space in a relationship.
Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!/////. RE-RELEASE. /////So, what actually makes a good subbie?This week, I'm joined by my favorite human—my subbie, my husband, my chaos co-pilot—for a raw, cozy, occasionally ridiculous chat from our camper (yep, it's cold, the lights are flickering, and we're doing our best).We dive into the foundational truths of a strong Female-Led Relationship (FLR): patience, communication, mindset, and consistency. It's not about checking kink boxes or racing to 24/7 protocols—it's about building something real, sustainable, and personalized to you.If you're struggling with confidence, or wondering why your partner hasn't “stepped up,” or if you're just trying to balance kink with regular life (kids, jobs, burnt-out crockpots)—this episode is for you. And yes, we talk about chores, cock cages, chocolate cravings, and how a 30-second hug can save your whole day.What You'll Walk Away With:The top qualities of a strong, supportive submissiveHow to help your Domme grow into her power without pressureWhy little gestures (like “I got it, relax”) make a massive differenceWhat “topping from the bottom” looks like—and how to avoid itThe importance of daily communication and mutual care in FLRQuestions This Episode Helps Answer:What makes someone a good submissive partner?How can a submissive support their dominant in FLR?What is topping from the bottom in kink?How do you introduce FLR to a reluctant partner?How do you build confidence in a female-led relationship?What are everyday ways to live out an FLR?What are good punishments oGet 30 Days of FREE Starlink!! (
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Sadly I cannot respond directly to your text, so please Email me!///// RE-RELEASE /////This week I'm talking directly to you, my beautiful dommes and the subs who serve them. Because as much as FLR is about power dynamics and structure, it's also about real-life partnership—and that means growth on both sides.We're diving into how submissives can support their dominant partners, especially when the Domme is still finding her confidence, her rhythm, or her voice. Spoiler alert: you don't have to start with thigh-high boots and whips. You start with communication, patience, and the courage to show up.Also in this episode: a few raw truths about my chaotic life lately, why I'm done giving a flying fuck what people think on social, and what being called a “FLR Master” made me feel (spoiler: not super comfy).What You'll Walk Away With:Tips on how subs can actively help their dommes grow in confidenceA real look at what being dominant feels like (hint: it's not automatic)How to build a relationship rooted in affirmation, not humiliation—unless that's your thing The difference between fantasy and actual FLR dynamicsWhy this lifestyle is yours to design, not something to measure by anyone else's rulesGoogle-Worthy Questions This Episode Helps Answer:How do I support my partner becoming a dominant in an FLR?What's the difference between kink and female-led relationships?What does it mean to “top from the bottom”?How do I become a more confident Domme?What is a loving dominant?How do I punish my sub without being physical?What's a good beginnerGet 30 Days of FREE Starlink!! (
A Domme wants to give their submissive what he wants – to call his partner Mommy – but it's jarring to hear. Here's the question: I stepped back into the BDSM lifestyle as a... The post Q&A: Is There a Way to Be Okay With Being Called Mommy or Daddy? appeared first on Loving BDSM.
This week, Auntie Su defies brain fog with some sharp takes on a hot movie and brings big game changers to the pod. Auntie Ku takes parenting to an organized art form and hopes for the best as Eme’s first snow day approaches. Plus a very surprising and disturbing discovery Auntie Su makes about her husband, leads to some of the best investigative journalism of her career. Please note, Add To Cart contains mature themes and may not be appropriate for all listeners. To see all products mentioned in this episode, head to @addtocartpod on Instagram. To purchase any of the products, see below. Ku takes her family to Mountain High for Yeti’s Snow Play Ku’s snow trip stay at Grand Pines Cabin Eme’s snow outfit: boots, gloves, & snowsuit Su’s game changing curler Su’s game changing activism for introvertsSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.