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Todd is the co-founder and Chief Brand Officer of Dream Performance & Recovery, makers of performance sleep products. His obsession and passion for fitness, nutrition, sleep and overall human performance optimization began when he was a walk-on for the Michigan State University football team. His successful college career led to an NFL opportunity for the Rams in 2012, where he took his passion for the strength and conditioning side of the sport to performance coaching. Starting as a trainer, he moved quickly into leadership and education and ultimately decided to take his learnings and skill sets into speaking and entrepreneurship. Todd has worked with several leaders in the sleep and recovery space to dive into the psychology of sleep and recovery and went on to take numerous continuing education courses surrounding sleep and now holds more than 10 certifications in fitness, nutrition and performance (CSCS, NSCA, NCSF, and more). Todd has been speaking on sleep for over 5 years as a sleep expert and co-founded Dream Performance and Recovery in 2023, designing the highest quality science-backed sleep performance products. He is currently working towards a Sleep Psychology PhD. SHOWNOTES:

The implementation manual for the NIST Cybersecurity Framework gone missing. Can it be found? Let's find out with your hosts Kip Boyle, CISO with Cyber Risk Opportunities, and Jake Bernstein, Partner with K&L Gates.    Want a deep discount on Kip's new Udemy course "Implement version 2 of NIST Cybersecurity Framework"? This one is valid until May 31, 2025 -- CRM_PODCAST_FRIEND   https://www.udemy.com/course/implement-version-2-of-nist-cybersecurity-framework/?couponCode=CRM_PODCAST_FRIEND   If you need to quickly get up-to-speed with the changes in NCSF v2 listen to this episode -- https://cr-map.com/podcast/141/

Send us a text if you want to be on the Podcast & explain why!What are the best personal training certifications? How to Become A Successful Personal Trainer Vol 2. Breaks down the top globally recognized personal training certifications.NASM, ISSA, ACE, NSCA, ACSM, NCSF, FFT LEVEL 3 (UK), Canada Fit Pro (Can Fit Pro), SUF CPT, NPTI, Fitness Mentors, Brent Brookbush Institute, NPTA, what's the best personal training certifications for you to become a personal trainer?Navigating the maze of personal training certifications just got easier with our comprehensive "March Madness" style breakdown of the top 16 globally recognized credentials. We pull back the curtain on what makes each certification unique, revealing critical insights that go beyond the marketing hype.The "big four" certifications—NASM, ACE, NSCA-CPT, and ISSA—dominate the industry landscape, but does their recognition truly reflect their quality? We examine how investment firms with deep pockets have positioned certain certifications as the "gold standard" through aggressive marketing rather than superior educational content. A simple Reddit search for "NASM personal trainer hell" might tell you more than their polished website ever will.Most aspiring trainers face a shocking reality: 90% quit within their first year. This isn't primarily due to lack of knowledge about exercise science, but rather gaps in practical skills—assessment capabilities, programming expertise, business acumen, and client management abilities. The certification you choose should prepare you for these real-world challenges, not just help you pass a multiple-choice exam.What truly matters in selecting a certification is alignment with your career goals. Before committing to any program, research where you want to work and what certifications those establishments recognize. The most valuable approach is interviewing trainers at your target gyms rather than relying on opinions from anonymous internet users.The fitness industry isn't saWant to ask us a question? Email email info@showupfitness.com with the subject line PODCAST QUESTION to get your question answered live on the show! Our Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/showupfitnessinternship/?hl=enTikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@showupfitnessinternshipWebsite: https://www.showupfitness.com/Become a Personal Trainer Book (Amazon): https://www.amazon.com/How-Become-Personal-Trainer-Successful/dp/B08WS992F8Show Up Fitness Internship & CPT: https://online.showupfitness.com/pages/online-show-up?utm_term=show%20up%20fitnessNASM study guide: ...

Send us a textIn this impactful episode of The Pineapple Express Podcast, host Kiley George explores the proposed Acadia Parish ordinance targeting sexually oriented businesses and its potential consequences for lifestyle clubs and consensual adult spaces. Discover why these spaces are essential for people practicing non-monogamy, swinging, and ethical open relationships, and how misconceptions about them drive unfair laws under the guise of "public safety."Kiley shares parallels from The Champagne Club's legal challenges and explains how ordinances like this threaten sexual freedom and the availability of safe, supportive spaces for adults. Learn why protecting these communities is a fight for personal freedom and how you can take action.Visit ncsfreedom.org for resources and advocacy tools. Subscribe now, share this episode with your community, and help protect consensual adult spaces. Together, we can safeguard the right to explore relationships freely and safely.How to Support NCSF and Their Call to Action:Write a Statement of Opposition:Draft a letter opposing the proposed ordinance and  use the https://ncsfreedom.org/2024/11/07/call-to-action-say-no-to-the-proposed-acadia-parish-sexually-oriented-businesses-ordinance/ to find out who to send it to. Share your perspective on why protecting consensual adult spaces is essential for the community.Make Calls to Local Officials:Reach out to Acadia Parish officials to express your opposition to the ordinance. Be respectful but firm in advocating for the rights of consensual adult spaces.Send Emails to Acadia Parish Leadership:Use NCSF's templates or craft your own email explaining the negative impacts of the proposed ordinance and urging them to vote against it.Leverage Social Media:Share the NCSF's call to action link and raise awareness about the ordinance. Use hashtags like #ProtectAdultSpaces, #SexualFreedom, and #NCSFAction to amplify the message.Spread Awareness in Your Community:Encourage others in your networks to join the fight. Share information about the ordinance and explain how they can get involved.Use Advocacy Scripts:Utilize the scripts provided by NCSF to ensure your calls, emails, or public comments are clear, concise, and effective.Donate to NCSF:Support the organization financially to help fund their advocacy work and efforts to protect consensual adult spaces across the country.Stay Updated:Follow NCSF on social media and subscribe to their newsletters for updates on the ordinance and other advocacy efforts.Educate Others About the Issue:Share accurate information about the importance of lifestyle clubs and the role they play in creating safe, consensual spaces for adults.4oSupport the show

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Day 3 of Naughty N'awlins starts with an industry meeting where we learn about how difficult it can be to be in the lifestyle.  Organizations like OPEN, NCSF and Woodhaul Freedom Foundation are doing everything that they can to help make our lives easier and safer.  Then, when Bob and John take us on a tour of New Orleans, we see more examples of how working together to help each other makes us all more successful.  Then, when the sexual freedom parade starts, we feel how strong our community really is.     Email your questions to Nessa here to be part of "Ask Nessa". Please subscribe on your favorite podcast platform. You can catch us on SLSRadio every Wednesday at 4pm Eastern Time. You can find tons of amazing lifestyle show on FullSwapRadio, including our show, Every Wednesday at 6:30pm and Midnight Eastern Time. We are now hosts on the Swinger Society Discord Server as well. If you have your own sexy stories, please call our hotline and share them with us and our audience. 844-4-Hump-Day If you have any questions for us, please email us at humpdayquickies@gmail.com Visit our website as well.  HumpDayQuickies.com Please follow us on all the social platforms: Twitter - HumpDayQuickies Instagram - HumpDayQuickies FaceBook - HumpDayQuickies TikTok - HumpDayQuickies We are adding new content as quickly as we can!

Dr. Lahann is an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist, Clinical Psychologist, and speaker. She is focused on providing education, resources, and psychological services as the Clinical Director of Spectrum Psychology and Wellness in Gilbert, AZ. Her work specializes in individual counseling and holistic sex therapy, focusing on intersectional approaches to values-aligned living across the lifespan. She has experience working with diverse bio-psycho-social-sexual backgrounds, relational dynamics, and a broad spectrum of mental health presentations. She has been involved in the BDSM, kink, ENM and poly communities for several decades, and is a member of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF)s Kink and Polyamory Aware Professionals Directory (KAP). Dr. Lahann has been an active member of her professional community in various roles. She is Past-President of the Arizona Psychological Association and the Arizona Psychology Training Consortium. Follow her work and adventures at her website www.SpectrumWellnessAZ.com or over on instagram @holisticsexuality If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

Coach Marvin King RKC, NCSF, CPT, USCTF Marvin is a 2-time published author, Martial Arts Hall of Famer, and Wellness Coach who has been teaching Kung Fu and fitness for over 40 years. His business, the Bowie Kettlebell Club Health and Wellness Center is located at 16701 Melford Blvd, Suite 400, Bowie, Md. 20715. He is the founder of the Bowie Kettlebell Health and Wellness System (BKHWS). A specialized wellness program that has been successful in the restoration of lost movement in participants for over 20 years. He's a Russian Kettlebell Certified Instructor (RKC), a Therapeutic Taiji (Qigong) Trainer with the United States Collegiate Taijichuan Federation (USCTF), a Certified Personal Training (CPT) with the National Council of Strength and Fitness (NCSF), a Shuai Chiao Kung Fu Black Belt practitioner, and National Shaolin Kung Fu (Taolu) Grand Champion. In 2020 Marvin received the AFKA Hall of Fame Lifetime Achievement award for 50 years of martial arts excellence and during the Covid pandemic he was selected to teach his unique program of Qigong and Joint Mobility virtually to martial artists in over 40 countries. For 4 years Marvin was nominated by his peers to receive the Who's Who in Martial Arts award and selected to serve on the board of the American Martial Arts Alliance (AMAA). In 2021 Coach King received the President Of the United States AmeriCorps Lifetime Achievement Award for his commitment to building a stronger nation through volunteer service. Marvin's collaborative and easy going teaching style is excellent for communicating the programs effectiveness to corporations, groups, and individuals. Participants quickly discover that the BKHWS movement patterns are simple to maintain, improve muscle balance, reduced stress, and contribute to the bodies well being, by managing weight and slowing the aging process.

In this episode, our hosts talk about turning their passions into full-time careers. All three loved fitness before they leaped into the industry. And this is how they did it. Listen in for a firsthand account of their journeys. Learn the crucial role certifications play in landing workFind out the unexpected doors that open along the wayUnderstand the personal and professional satisfaction this career offersIf you've ever considered going pro in the fitness industry, listen to this episode. Gio, Jonica, and Michael will motivate you to chase your dream. Resources:ISSA link https://www.issaonline.com/NASM link https://www.nasm.org/NCSF https://www.ncsf.org/ACE https://www.acefitness.org/fitness-certifications/personal-trainer-certification/default.aspxFitbod foodies facebook groupYoutube and Instagram Lifts Heavy Eats WellGet your 14-Day Trial!

In this episode, 513, of the KinkyCast. It's a New Year! The KC Crew discusses a wide range of topics. They start with a discussion about pressing issues such as women's rights, legal developments within the BDSM community, and political changes. The discussion further extends to education, economic disparities, and the pitfalls of the U.S. political system. The dialogue concludes with a reflection on societal standards, employment practices, and the healthcare system, highlighting the need for change in various domains.
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In this annual Christmas show, episode 512, the host, Woody, welcomes Susan Wright from the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom. They reflect on the state of sexual freedom rights, particularly noting the work by the NCSF on explicit prior permission, a new legal framework for consent to kink. They discuss the need for education and resources relevant to specific states and the challenges of existing laws. The conversation moves towards the issue of stigma faced by the kink community, causing many to keep their activities secret for fear of societal or professional backlash. The discussion ends with a word about the fight against blue laws that restrict sexual freedom. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2023-archive/512---susan-wright-ncsf--.html

Healthcare Teams in the Industrial Setting" Ryan Stevens w/ Nick Usuriello What can we learn pertaining to collaboration and service excellence from the industrial healthcare setting? Nick and I dive into this! Nick's journey and what sparked his interest to serve as an athletic trainer in the industrial setting Steps to build rapport with other stakeholders and team members when getting started in a new role The makeup of the healthcare team extended: Who to collaborate with to ensure proper injury reduction strategy and post-injury care in the industrial setting Strategies to ensure smooth collaboration and nurturing work relationships Call to action About Nick Usuriello, MS, ATC, NCSF-CPT, NCSF-SCS nick.usuriello@gmail.com https://www.linkedin.com/in/nick-usuriello-83902192/ A certified athletic trainer (AT) since 2019, Nick is a full time industrial AT in New York with Pivot Onsite Innovations, an Athletico Company. Nick brings the same passion and high level of patient care he provided in the world of collegiate athletes to his role with factory workers. Prior to obtaining his Athletic Training Bachelor's degree from Marist college, he obtained an associates degree in Exercise Science from SUNY Dutchess. In 2022, Nick received his master's degree in Applied Exercise Science from Concordia University-Chicago, with dual concentrations in sports nutrition and strength and conditioning. Prior to his current role, he spent 3 years working as an athletic trainer at St. Lawrence university, where he primarily worked with the football. baseball, field hockey, indoor track and field, esports, and men's and women's squash. Nick is a member of the NATA, NYSATA, and the National Council of Strength and Fitness. He holds the NCSF certified personal trainer and sports nutrition specialist credentials, and is certified occupational hearing conservationist through the Council for Accreditation in Occupational Hearing Conservation. Nick is an adjunct faculty member for the Marist College Athletic Training Education Program. Intro and Outro Music by Outskrts - LET'S DO THIS (Official Audio) _______________________________________________________ About Ryan Stevens cATalyzing Coaching & Consulting Organizations face many challenges with team dynamics, hindering collaboration, causing friction, and impacting service. As a coach and speaker, I guide organizations to enhance positive team dynamics and workplace camaraderie through the controllable aspects of effective communication, collaboration, and shared servant leadership. Ryan Stevens (cATalyzing Coaching & Consulting) is your guide to creating Awesome Teams! Ignite your potential. Fuel your

Ever felt confined by the choice of monogamy or polyamory? What options lie between those two ends of the spectrum? And what happens if what's right for you changes over time? Sex- positive psychotherapist Kate Loree joins Sunny to talk about navigating and customizing fluid relationship dynamics. Some of what's covered:  The significance of intention in customizable relationships Anxiety & Jealousy in non-monogamy Parenthood & fluid relationships Honesty in relationship dynamics Mindfulness & communication Couple's privilege  Fluid relationships vs relationship anarchy & more   Guest Bio – Kate Loree, LMFT  Kate Loree, LMFT, is a sex-positive licensed marriage and family therapist with a specialty in non-monogamous, kink, LGBTQ, and sex worker communities. She is also the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships. In addition to her master's in marriage and family therapy, she also has an MBA and is a registered art therapist (ATR). She is an EDSE-certified sex educator and an EMDR-certified therapist with additional training in the Trauma Resiliency Model (TRM) for the treatment of trauma. She has been practicing psychotherapy since 2003. Kate is the author of Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships and cohosts the sex-positive podcast of the same name, Open Deeply, with Sunny Megatron. She's been featured in Buzzfeed videos and has guested on Playboy Radio and many podcasts, including American Sex, Sluts and Scholars, and Sex Nerd Sandra. She's written for Good Vibrations, Hollywood Magazine, and is a frequent public speaker. Episode 212 Helpful Links & Resources Kate Loree Website: http://kateloree.com  Kate Loree Facebook http://facebook.com/kateloreelmft  Kate Loree Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft  Kate Loree Instagram http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree  Kate Loree YouTube https://www.youtube.com/kateloree  Open Deeply: A Guide to Building Conscious, Compassionate Open Relationships book https://www.amazon.com/dp/164742335X/ref=cm_sw_r_tw_dp_ZHACQ8RJHMR2R9HGHBMY  Open Deeply Podcast http://opendeeplypodcast.com  Sunny's Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/l/negotiationwb Sunny Megatron TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex  Open Deeply Podcast http://opendeeplypodcast.com In Loving Memory of Jackie “Bebe” Harris  https://ncsfreedom.org/2023/10/16/in-loving-memory-of-jackie-bebe-harris/  Decriminalizing BDSM with NCSF, National Coalition For Sexual Freedom – Ep 185 https://sunnymegatron.com/explicit-prior-permission-ncsf-podcast/    Episode 212 Sponsors & Discount Codes *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY at http://dipseastories.com/sunny Get 20% off + free shipping at Manscaped.com with code SUNNY http://manscaped.com  Pleasure Podcasts Network https://www.pleasurepodcasts.com/ Sunny's On-Demand BDSM Classes & Coaching:  https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/ 15% off most items from Stockroom https://bit.ly/sunnystockroom15 with code SUNNY    

 Join host Kiley as she chats with Tess and Susan from NCSF (National Coalition for Sexual Freedom) in a thought-provoking episode of Pineapple Express podcast as they tackle the crucial topics of consent and predatory behavior within the swinger lifestyle. With their wealth of experience and expert insights, they guide us through the nuanced landscape of boundaries, highlighting the importance of open communication and respectful interactions. Get ready for an eye-opening conversation that will empower and inform swingers and non-swingers alike.Open-A Journey Through Love Preview https://youtu.be/5Rwb5-SZ_xsFor more information on NCSF click this link https://linktr.ee/ncsfreedom?fbclid=PAAaaCuV_9s9UFXBOxGEJ3J_Ohj1q_2XBxTrOP0jCQiaAJpMvBJEiQMnlDm78_aem_Abgmp0Gx4_sbF8Tuu8NyXnlQW_PGZC90b9Eqb1SDQtcE3W3TqitycPA9FSSCnBaOrtA•Secrets Hideaway Resort and Spa September 21-24 with The Swinger Society overflow hotels for 'A Weekend To Remember' https://www.google.com/travel/search?q=kissimee%20hotels&g2lb=2502548%2C2503771%2C2503781%2C4258168%2C4270442%2C4284970%2C4291517%2C4597339%2C4757164%2C4814050%2C4864715%2C4874190%2C4886480%2C4893075%2C4924070%2C4965990%2C4990494%2C72298667%2C72302247%2C72317059%2C72321071&hl=en-US&gl=us&ssta=1&ts=CAESCgoCCAMKAggDEAAaUgo0EjIyJTB4ODhkZDg0MWEzNzE1MGJlNzoweDk0ZTdjZDk3MTFmZGMyMGQ6CUtpc3NpbW1lZRIaEhQKBwjnDxAKGAISBwjnDxAKGAMYATICEAAqBwoFOgNVU0Q&qs=CAEyvwFDZ3NJNjV2a3dzVDJnNi1XQVJBQkduNUJVR1JtWWxjMWJEaG5UblJhWDFFMlVVWmpSbkpCTW5GU2VVUlBYM2xMVEdkMlVGVlJlRjltZFhodFRYUTJiV2M1Ym5Ga1pESmpWbVpYV0ZwRmFIcDBZWGhWZUV0SWEwaEplSGxHWlRkTVgzVlRaRXBsTVZOYWVtWm9kSEZSYjBadFpVSnVTbk5OVm5KV2IwTkdURk5wYm01WlNWSjZaVjkxWlZCdGRFRTgG&ap=KigKEglExjCB9zo8QBGCdLEJal9UwBISCaEV7Cg4ZjxAEYJ0scngVVTAMABoAQ&ictx=1&ved=0CAAQ5JsGahcKEwjgme_2uJqBAxUAAAAAHQAAAAAQXghttps://www.google.com/travel/search?q=Heritage%20Park%20Inn%20Kissimmee&g2lb=2502548%2C2503771%2C2503781%2C4258168%2C4270442%2C4284970%2C4291Make sure you add my new Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Sexyswingerchic91

Recorded: May 21st, 2023 / Published: August 19th, 2023 - Text your questions and comments to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode, Mayfair and I are diving deep into the new legal standards involving BDSM.- Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “New Consent Laws for BDSM-S05E06”“Criminal Charges and Consensual Kink New guidelines may help consenting adults avoid being charged.” Posted June 2, 2023 by: David J. Ley, Ph.D., is a clinical psychologist and the author of “Insatiable Wives, Women Who Stray and The Men Who Love Them.”https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/women-who-stray/202306/criminal-charges-and-consensual-kink KEY POINTSBDSM and kinky sexual practices are increasingly seen as forms of normal sexual diversity.BDSM and kinky sex can result in criminal charges, even when such behaviors are completely consensual.New guidelines, known as Explicit Prior Permission (EPP), may offer protection from prosecution.EPP requires explicit informed consent, no extreme behaviors, and an ability to end activities.There is increasing evidence that human sexuality involves far more diverse flavors and interests than historically acknowledged. When von Kafft-Ebing first began labeling various paraphilic sexual interests, they were believed to be generally rare. But research by Joyal and Carpentier reports that nearly 50 percent of a non-clinical, random sample disclosed being interested in at least one sexual behavior historically deemed unusual or anomalous.Criminal Conflict With BDSMEPP: Explicit Prior PermissionImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/506National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers (Updated April 15, 2023):Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): - Master Producer ($50/month): Buffalo_Max92- Executive Producer ($25/month) Knot_the_Daddy, Shadowy Fox, Junicornsangel, Johnny Ferrell, Rei Webb, Haru Webb, Maxi, DarlingTN and Sarge, Kyro, and ExploringMermaid- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, Daddy Steve, KJ, Atsila, Ben, TrinityFae, Iamar Kinhawk, and clk124- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace in OK City, Hadea, MBRpoodle, Baddogbad & Subx13, XxLilyXxX, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme & Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Rabbit, ArchAngel, Jon Shaw, A.U., Sekhmets_Shadow, Grizzled Yeti & Yoza, FetishArtist, SirBNice, Kitten399, Neon, Dan & Dawn from Erotic Awakening Podcast, Black Angel, Sir RJ Recife, Nix_09, Officer Davis, Finn, Arden Solace, Pepa, KinkyyJay, Daddy's Princess, Kayla, and Valfreyja- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Morgana13, CIVLdisobedience, Rope Aficionado, Gator & Gizmo, Lexa, Ashley, Meg, Dark Diamonte, and AstridinchainsVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Listen in as we chat with Susan Wright of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom about consent, the law and so much more. Be sure to read the Podcast Diary and download this month's info-graphic!

Guest: Susan Wright, Founder and Media Outreach for National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Susan Wright joins Auntie Vice to chat about the work of NCSF including "Consent Counts," working to revise the paraphillia section of the DSM to remove consensual adult kink from mental health disorders, and revising the sexual assault laws for the first time since 1962. The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom is the only outward-facing advocacy organization working for more freedoms for the kinky and nonmonogamous communities, Susan Wright founded NSCF as an outgrowth of her work with the National Organization for Women around the D/s clause in NOW's platform in the 1980s and 1990s. The work of NCSF has been critical in creating a culture of consent and safetly for all.   Sites and Socials National Coalition for Sexual Freedom Consent Counts Project Kink Aware Professionals Twitter Instagram TikTok Link for SW peer support group Link for EARN IT Act opposition letter   ----more----https://ncsfreedom.org/

Celebrating Pride Month 2023 I chat with J Tebias Perry, a Gay Leatherman of Color. We discuss some of his life experiences in Leather, their work in as a writer, and their upcoming book Leather Mentorship: How to get it and how to benefit from it. J Tebias, explain some the work they have done for NCSF title abuse line, as part of the Titleholder Outreach Program. Additional we talk about their efforts to help others move past the generational trauma that has keep us for embrace our power and enjoying our lives here and in Europe. As well as a Myth and Realty around mental health. So check it out, and share. J Tebias Perry's Links J Tebias Perry - Facebook https://www.facebook.com/jtebias.perry JTebias.i.am - IG https://www.instagram.com/jtebias.i.am/ NCSF - National Coalition of Sexual Freedom https://ncsfreedom.org

On this episode of “The Pineapple Express Podcast” Kiley talks about her experiences at TPC Houston and Colette's in Houston. Kiley talks about the ENM Summit with NCSF that she did in Houston and even gets choked up talking about her experiences with some of her hero's and mentors. Open-A Journey Through Love Preview https://youtu.be/5Rwb5-SZ_xsCollettes New Orleans Red White and Blue 4th of July Party July 1 with Life of Spice and Dj Life of Spice https://coletteclubs.com•Naughty in N'awlins July 5-9 with The Swinger Society and Play Champagne https://members.naughty-events.com/events/13346/orders/new?promoter_id=534988•Secrets Hideaway Resort and Spa September 21-24 with The Swinger Society https://swingersociety.net•Play Champagne Halloween Freak Show Hotel Takeover Blue Ash,Ohio October 21-22 with Play Champagne https://playchampagne.comEmail us at: thepineappleexpresspodcast@gmail.comOnlyfans https://onlyfans.com/sexyswingerchicDiscord:https://discord.gg/swingersocietyVote for me on the ASN Lifestyle Awards for Best Content Creator, Best Social Media Influencer and Best Educatorhttps://www.asnlifestylemagazineawards.com/nominationsIf you like this podcast leave us a review to let other listeners know what you like we are always looking to improve what we can do for you. OUR NEW WEBSITE IS LIVE https://kileyg1991.wixsite.com/mysiteDon't forget to sign up for our newsletter and stay up to date on All Things Pineapple Express http://eepurl.com/immxdIFor more info about me and where to find all the events we will be at and to get an exclusive invite to The Swinger Society Discord make sure you check out my website https://sexyswingerchic.net/I'm on clapper so if TikTok gets banned follow me here: https://clapperapp.com/Sexyswingerchic?is_invite=1&r=gV6ALln5op&c=in&m=coJoin the Discord:https://discord.gg/swingersocietySponsor Links:https://swingersociety.net/https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK10098https://promescent.com/kileyhttps://shamelesscare.com/?ref=358https://ncsfreedom.org/Make sure you add my new Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Sexyswingerchic91

Susan is the Executive Director of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF). NCSF celebrated its 25th Anniversary in 2022 - that's over 25 years of fighting for the rights of kinky and polyamorous people. NCSF supports the groups and businesses in our communities and educates professionals so they can provide better services. Follow them on social media at: https://www.instagram.com/nationalcoalitionsexualfreedom/ https://www.facebook.com/NCSFreedom https://twitter.com/NCSF   If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries 

Do you ever feel like a workout doesn't “count” if cardio isn't involved? We hear so much about the importance of strength training, but do you understand the ‘why' behind it? As busy moms, we have limited time to cram everything into our days, including our workouts. If you're wondering what kind of exercise you should be spending your limited time on, Kate Lemere is here to answer your questions. She'll break down how to approach strength training vs. cardio and share all about how you can meet your fitness goals by forming new habits. Kate is a brand strategist turned fitness trainer in Chicago. Her goal is to help people understand the basics of fitness so they can find a lifelong process they love without restriction. She has spent the last decade honing her craft as a trainer, expanding her knowledge and fine-tuning her voice and articulation. Kate is also a Nike woman master trainer, Barry's chief instructor and founding trainer in Chicago, NCSF personal trainer, ACE Certified Behavioral Specialist, postpartum corrective exercise specialist, and she does not plan on stopping there. In today's episode, we dive into habit forming, strength training, protein intake, and how to fit all of this into your current daily routine as a busy mom. In this episode we discuss: How our habits can transform our long-term health. The important elements of fitness. Myths of strength training. Recommendations for strength training: Machines vs weights. What a typical everyday workout looks like for someone who only has 20 minutes. How much protein women should be consuming. Resources: Follow Kate on Instagram @katelemere Check out her blog: The Four Percent Shop Kate's courses Discount code from my sponsors: Navy Hair Care Shampoo + Conditioner: use code LYNZY for 30% off Navy Hair Care Charcoal Mask: use code LYNZY for 30% off Connect with Lynzy: Join the Motherhood Meets Medicine community at patreon.com/motherhoodmeetsmedicine Instagram: @motherhoodmeetsmedicine Sign up for the weekly newsletter here lynzyandco.com Disclaimer: This podcast does not provide medical advice. The information on this podcast is for informational purposes only. No material on this site is intended to be a substitute for professional medical advice, diagnosis or treatment.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"As a software engineer, I have the unique opportunity to serve as a coach for Fweefwop (https://www.fweefwop.club/) , a high-school/middle-school cyber security team consisting of around 20 members. Our team actively participates in a range of capture-the-flag competitions, and I take pride in the fact that several of our members have earned the prestigious title of NCSF's Scholars with Honors. Working alongside these students has been an incredibly fulfilling experience, and I relish every moment of our collective learning journey."   Connect with Charles: https://www.linkedin.com/in/perng/ Visit Fweefwop: https://www.fweefwop.club/ Visit The Pacific Hackers Association: https://www.pacifichackers.org/   Visit Short Arms website: https://www.shortarmsolutions.com/    You can follow us at: Linked In: https://www.linkedin.com/company/shortarmsolutions  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@shortarmsolutions   Twitter: https://twitter.com/ShortArmSAS  

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Lifestyle therapy, inlcuding nutrition, exercise, and behavioral health, is crucial for improving our patient's health and wellness, and is the cornerstone of obesity management. However, many clinicians struggle with finding the time, or having the resources to offer intensive lifestyle therapy.  In this week's episode, Karli speaks with Zach DeCoster, an exercise specialist and manager at Revolution Physical Therapy and Weight Loss, where they collaborate with healthcare providers to offer the lifestyle therapy components of obesity care. They discuss the importance of comprehensive care, individualizing care, overcoming barriers to care, and their visions of the future of obesity management.  Zach DeCoster is the Weight Loss Program Manager at Revolution Physical Therapy and Weight Loss , where he manages a multi-disciplinary team of physical therapists, registered dietitians, and licensed clinical social workers and therapists across 13 locations throughout the Chicagoland area. Previously, he was the Fitness Operations Manager at Elevated Living where he organized fitness programing and events in over 120 residential high rises across 12 states. He graduated from Loyola University of Chicago with a Bachelor of Science in Exercise Science with minors in Biology and Anthropology, and he is an ACSM certified Exercise Physiologist, an NSCA Certified Strength and Conditioning Specialist, and an NCSF certified Personal Trainer.Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RevolutionPTWLSupport the showThe Gaining Health Podcast will release a new episode monthly, every second Wednesday of the month. Episodes including interviews with obesity experts as well as scientific updates and new guidelines for the management of obesity.If you're a clinician or organization looking to start or optimize an obesity management program, and you want additional support and resources, check out the Gaining Health website! We offer monthly and annual Memberships, which include live group coaching, a community forum to ask questions and post resources, pre-recorded Master Classes, digital resources inlcuding patient education materials and office forms, and much more! We also sell our popular Gaining Health products, including a book on developing an obesity management program, editable forms and templates, and patient education materials in our Gaining Health Shop! If you are loving this podcast, please consider supporting us on Patreon

We rarely recommend gathering your kids for one of our interviews, but here we are. We'll wait for you to wrangle the whole family. Got everyone? Good.   Susan has been exploring non-monogamy for over 30 years in a beautifully fluid dynamic that blends swinging, kink, and polyamory together. She elegantly weaves her personal story in with the powerful activist work she has done to make the world a better place for people in the ethically non-monogamous and kink scenes. Along the way we talk about building community, being outed, the power of labels, living life to the fullest, and adventuring! Did we mention this conversation is fantastic?   Non-monogamy isn't just a hobby for Susan... It's her life's work. She founded the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom back in 1997 and has spent the last 25+ years advocating for consenting adults in the kink and non-monogamy lifestyles by fighting discrimination and persecution through direct services. Please go support all of the critical work that Susan and the NCSF are doing.   Check out the full show notes here.   Join us April 14-16 at Southwest Love Fest! Use code EMMA to save 10%!   Join the most amazing community of open-minded humans on the planet!   Skip the ads and sign up for the Premium Feed!   Click here to order your very own NNM shirt! Click here to join our upcoming Virtual Meet and Greets! $10 Off - Online STI Testing https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/  

This week on KinkyCast, episode 471, celebrating the 9th anniversary of the show, we feature Susan Wright of the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSF). Woody and Susan discuss NCSF's program "Consent Counts", which aims to raise awareness about the importance of informed and enthusiastic consent in all sexual activities. The program focuses on educating individuals, communities, and organizations about the principles of consent and how to practice it in a respectful and responsible manner. Susan provides insight into the goals and initiatives of the NCSF and how “Consent Counts” fits into the larger mission of promoting sexual freedom and protecting the rights of consenting adults. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2023-archive/471---susan-wright---ncsf--.html

In this episode listen as Kiley and Susan Wright from NCSF talk Sexual Freedom, FOSTA, Consent and all things NCSF. Susan Wright founded the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom in 1997, and serves as Executive Director. She currently chairs the Consent Counts Committee that worked with the American Law Institute to revise the Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault to create Section 213:10 Explicit Prior Permission for consent to kink. She also chaired NCSF's successful DSM Revision Project which helped result in the consensual paraphilias being separated from the Paraphilic Disorders in the DSM-5 (2013). Susan's research focuses on discrimination and violence against people who practice consensual non-monogamy and kink, with 18 papers published in professional journals. www.ncsfreedom.org There's still time to grab your tickets to some of the hottest Swinger parties in the nation visit my website for more info https://sexyswingerchic.net/Sponsor Links:https://swingersociety.net/https://www.go3fun.co/ad/TK10098https://promescent.com/kileyFor more info on Sexual Freedom Organization's:https://www.woodhullfoundation.org/https://ncsfreedom.org/ Podcasts I talk about:The Swing Nation https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-swing-nation-a-sex-positive-swingers-podcast/id1582945782Front Porch Swingers https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/front-porch-swingers/id1437745759Open Love 101: John and Jackie Melfi https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-openlove101-show/id1475117736Make sure you add my new Instagram https://www.instagram.com/Sexyswingerchic91

I hope we have consent to discuss today's topic with you! And today's topic is just that, how consent in the legal framework of things could be changing coming soon. Legally, kink wise and how we protect and use consent could change, and it's all starting with today's guests from the NCSF or National Coalition of Sexual Freedoms. Come talk about EPP or Explicit Prior Permission and lets get kinky! Consent Counts - https://ncsfreedom.org/key-programs-2/consent-counts/Consent Infographics - https://ncsfreedom.org/2download-consent-signs/How to get involved joining NCSF - https://ncsfreedom.org/get-involved/— MISTR: Get your PrEP HIV prevention from today's sponsor MISTR! Use Code SAFEWORD today: https://bit.ly/3yeOSX6 and get prescribed online and delivered to your door. —— MANSCAPEED: Check out the new and improved Lawn Mower 4.0 and enjoy this special 20% off with code WATTS20 ~ at http://www.manscaped.com! —Discord: https://discord.gg/bxqDQVcKH7 Amps Linktree: https://linktr.ee/pupamp Kristofer Linktree: https://linktr.ee/mrkristofer SAFEWORD MERCH: http://www.safewordshop.com TWITCH: http://twitch.tv/wattsthesafeword Watts Your Safeword Podcast:Itunes: http://apple.co/2QkMDwk Spotify: http://spoti.fi/2QjPNjL Twitters:http://twitter.com/WattsTheSafewrd http://twitter.com/PupAmp http://twitter.com/kristoferweston Instagrams:https://instagram.com/PupAmp/ https://instagram.com/mrkristoferweston https://instagram.com/wattsthesafeword Facebook: http://ow.ly/Z5nvM Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/WattsTheSafeword Opening by the magical Aethernaut https://aethernaut.bandcamp.com Music by Joakim Karud http://youtube.com/joakimkarud

Coach Marvin King RKC, NCSF, CPT, USCTF Marvin is a Martial Arts practitioner and Wellness Coach who has been teaching in the fitness arena for over 40 years and is the founder of the Bowie Kettlebell Health and Wellness System (BKHWS). A specialized wellness program that has been successful in the restoration of lost movement in participants for over 20 years. He's a 16 year Russian Kettlebell Certified Instructor (RKC), a Therapeutic Taiji (Qigong) Trainer with the United States Collegiate Taijichuan Federation (USCTF), a Certified Personal Training (CPT) with the National Council of Strength and Fitness (NCSF), a certified Shuai Chiao Kung Fu Black Belt instructor, and National Kung Fu (Taolu) Grand Champion. In 2020 Marvin received the AFKA Hall of Fame Lifetime Achievement award for 50 years of martial arts excellence and was selected to teach his unique program of Qigong and Joint Mobility virtually to martial artist in over 40 countries. For 3 years Marvin was nominated by his peers to receive the Who's Who in Martial Arts award and selected to serve on the board of the American Martial Arts Alliance (AMAA). In 2021 Coach King received the President Of the United States AmeriCorps Lifetime Achievement Award for his commitment to building a stronger nation through volunteer service. Marvin's collaborative and easy going teaching style is excellent for communicating the programs effectiveness to corporations, groups, and individuals. Participants quickly discover that the BKHWS movement patterns are simple to maintain, improve muscle balance, reduced stress, and contribute to the bodies well being, by managing weight and slowing the aging process. --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/markcox/support

Imagine you are a sex therapist and one of your patients discloses a sexual interest that either makes you personally uncomfortable or is something you are totally unfamiliar with. This often happens when kinky people seek out sex therapy, and it sometimes results in clients not getting the help they really need. So let's talk about navigating sex therapy with kinky clients. We're going to discuss what therapists need to know, as well as how patients can identify kink-affirming providers. I am joined once again by Stefani Goerlich, award-winning author of The Leather Couch: Clinical Practice with Kinky Clients and its sequel, titled Kink-Affirming Practice: Culturally Competent Therapy from The Leather Chair. Some of the topics we discuss include: How much training do sex therapists usually get in the area of kink and BDSM anyway? How do you deal with a problem like sexual shame? How do you navigate power dynamics in the therapy office with kinky clients? What should you do when a client expresses a sexual interest that makes you uncomfortable? What should you do when a client's sexual interests pose a very high risk of harm to the self or others? How do you encourage safety without shaming them? Where's the best place to find a kink-affirming therapist? Find kink-aware professionals through the NCSF directory or the AASECT directory. Thank you to our sponsors! Level-up your intimate life with Beducated, the Netflix of better sex! They have a whole library of online courses to teach you what you need to know. Enjoy a free trial today and get 40% off their yearly pass by using my last name - LEHMILLER - as the coupon code. Sign up now at: http://beducate.me/pd2242-lehmiller The Scarlet Society is here to help you explore what it is that brings you pleasure and cultivate the relationships you deserve. It's your new home for trusted resources aimed at helping women navigate sex and love after age 40. Visit scarletsociety.com to learn more and liberate your sexuality. *** Want to learn more about Sex and Psychology? Click here for previous articles or follow the blog on Facebook, Twitter, or Reddit to receive updates. You can also follow Dr. Lehmiller on YouTube and Instagram. Listen and stream all episodes on Apple, Spotify, Google, or Amazon. Subscribe to automatically receive new episodes and please rate and review the podcast! Credits: Precision Podcasting (Podcast editing) and Shutterstock/Florian (Music). Image created with Canva; photos used with permission of guest.

- In this week's episode of The Krypt we are learning about new federal laws defining consent and decriminalizing BDSM from Susan Wright, the head of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. https://ncsfreedom.org- Recorded: 3/20/2022 / Published: 10/14/2022- Text in your questions to 865-268-4005 or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By: (https://inclusionwoodworks.com)1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “New Federal Consent Laws with Susan Wright-S04E27”Important Links:The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom: https://ncsfreedom.org/2021/07/15/consent-counts-2/ The American Law Institute: http://www.thealiadviser.org/sexual-assault/ The Evolution of the Model Penal Code “Consent” Definition: https://www.thealiadviser.org/sexual-assault/evolution-of-model-penal-code-consent-definition/ Check out Susan's first visit to our podcast: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/221 Consent, as it is practiced in the BDSM communities, is accurately reflected in Section 213.10 of the MPC, with “Explicit Prior Permission” preventing criminal prosecution of activities that are truly consensual and do not result in serious injury. Permission is “explicit” when it is personally given, orally or by written agreement, along with:(a) specifying that the actor may ignore the other party's expressions of unwillingness or other absence of consent;(b) identifying the specific forms and extent of force, restraint, or threats that are permitted; and(c) stipulating the specific words or gestures that will withdraw the permission.Dick Cunningham has been assisting in the revision of the Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault as part of NCSF's Consent Counts project, helping to establish this legal framework that acknowledges the use of safewords, protecting those who use them properly, and equipping prosecution for when they are violated or when serious harm is done. Survivors who are sexually assaulted during kink activities also may now be covered by “rape shield” laws, meaning that their prior sexual behavior with others generally can't be used as evidence, reducing exposure to possible stigma attached to kink activities. “Without this change, BDSM practices, even when consensual, might still be violating the law,” says Susan Wright, Spokesperson for NCSF. “In fact, there is not a single appellate court decision in the U.S. that has accepted consent as a defense in an assault or abuse prosecution arising from BDSM conduct. This case law has established that using nipple clamps or dripping hot wax on someone constitutes ‘serious bodily injury,' when in reality, these are relatively mild activities.” Section 213.10 may be cited in opinions and briefs in cases involving BDSM activities, even in states where the legislature has not adopted the MPC on Sexual Assault. Needs explanation: the new MPC on Sexual Assault includes a general definition of consent for sexual activity, in which consent may be inferred from behavior—both action and inaction—in the context of all the circumstances. Neither verbal nor physical resistance is required to establish that consent is lacking, however, consent is ineffective when given by a person who is incompetent to consent or under circumstances precluding the free exercise of consent. Explicit Prior PermissionImportant Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/427National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255NCSF Kink Aware Professionals: https://www.kapprofessionals.org/https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. 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The Swing Nation PodcastEpisode 58:  Lifestyle Consent Best Practices with NCSF Listen in on a Swinger Society Staff webinar on Consent, where Susan Wright of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom gives a course on the best practices regarding consent for people in the lifestyle. Learn some of the nuances of giving and receiving consent when in lifestyle situations and the latest on regulations and laws that effect the way lifestyle people can interact with one another.   Our Website For ALL “Links” & Info:https://theswingnation.net-Or Check Everything Out Below!- Our Social Medias -PodCast Website:https://theswingnationpodcast.buzzsprout.com/Instagram: TheSwingNationPodcasthttps://instagram.com/theswingnationpodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=Twitter: NorthMnSouthFhttps://twitter.com/northmnsouthf?ltclid=SnapChat: LacySwingerXXhttps://www.snapchat.com/add/lacyswingerxxLacy's Tiktok: SwingingSgirl5  https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdsmNNpE/TheSwingNation's Tiktok: TheSwingNation_Podcasthttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdsaKnmA/- Swinger Society -Our Website to meet, connect & events:https://swingersociety.net/Our Popular Discord Full Of Swingers:https://discord.com/invite/swingersocietyOur Facebook Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/1321658238304222/- Swinger Websites -SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=36313<clid=Username: The Swing Nation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **SLS: http://sls.com/Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl** Our Merch **https://theswingnation.com** The Swinger Pride Flags **Etsy.com/shop/TheSwingNation- Lacys Fun Links -VIP Only Fans:https://onlyfans.com/thesoutherngirlFree Only Fans:https://onlyfans.com/northernguynsoutherngirl- Our Sponsors -Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing. Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order. https://shamelesscare.com/?ref=78Make Love Longer, It's Time for Great Sex. Promescent®: https://www.promescent.com/swingnationPassoniate non-monogramy for loving couples coursehttps://www.swingerclass.com/a/2147505835/zaCGUp3jSupport the show

Have Kinky Sex, Participate in BDSM or an Alternative Lifestyle? Know Your Rights & Support with NCSF Susan Wright. What is NCSF? It's the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. They are a nonprofit organization that focuses on advances of equal rights for consenting adults who engage in alternative sexual and relationship expression. Visit them online here: https://linktr.ee/ncsfreedom and directly to their website here: https://ncsfreedom.org/I was fortunate to be able to chat directly with the executive director of NCSF Susan Wright in this interview. It was very enlightening and educational. She talked about how NCSF has been able to influence policy and laws, including getting laws rewritten, and they've been able to make needed changes to medical standards for assessing individuals more accurately and fairly (which is very important for sexual assault and such things as divorce and child custody hearings), and they've also influenced the media to not be discriminatory. They have power!And the great thing is they share that power with the people who need it. They can help you if you are being shamed or targeted in legal matters for your sexuality choices. You can literally contact them and they will help you. They even want people to notify them of injustices so they can go to work on rectifying the issues. They are a team of professional people who have resources to share to help you. Please don't hesitate to contact them.They also have a blog and information available about consent and other topics related to kink, BDSM, sexual orientation, alternative lifestyles, swingers, and ethical nonmonogamy. Check them out today! Be sure to listen to the podcast because the statistics she states may shock you.Thank you for being a guest on my podcast Susan! I hope you find helpful advice and self help for relationships, law,  sex, intimacy, and legal matters in this episode.Connect with the podcast host Ruan here: https://linktr.ee/RuanWillowLeave Ruan a voicemail for the podcast here: https://www.speakpipe.com/ohfckyeahwithruanwillow or on my website at https://ruanwillowauthor.com/Ruan's new 10 story anthology is in presale mode (releasing 10/22/22)Decadent Erotica: An Anthology of Erotic Tales to Quench DesiresLearn more at the link below:affiliate https://amzn.to/3RyOsCwRuan's other new books! Skinny Dipping at the Pond on a Hot Summer Day (affiliate) https://amzn.to/3pKE7qBA couple meets up unexpectedly when both plan to skinny dip at a pond and naughtiness ensues.Podcast merchandise! Get shirts with Oh F*ck Yeah on them right here: https://www.bonfire.com/oh-fck-yeah/The Licking Sip Coffee Shop, topless baristas who offer more than what's on the menu! This shop has got a tittie washer, gotta wash off the saliva and remnants of whipped cream! This is saucy dirty yummy tale! https://storyoriginapp.com/universalbooklinks/1bc2ede8-10e2-11ed-bd31-d788e5ae6b49Never Say, Never Swing, a story of friends hooking up for a first-time swinging story where long-time fantasies get fulfilled! Kitcaster A podcast booking agency that specializes in developing real human connections for businesses. Support the show

The Swing Nation PodcastEpisode 53:  Demand Sexual Freedom with NCSF Dan and Lacy talk to Susan Wright founder of the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom. They discuss activism in the alternative lifestyle community and the ways NCSF can help fight back against the discrimination swingers face in today's society.  Legal Fees for The Crackenbeardshttps://www.gofundme.com/f/legal-fees-for-the-crackenbeards?qid=a0302369058b13f816236128f626999eOur Website For ALL “Links” & Info:https://theswingnation.net-Or Check Everything Out Below!- Our Social Medias -PodCast Website:https://theswingnationpodcast.buzzsprout.com/Instagram: TheSwingNationPodcasthttps://instagram.com/theswingnationpodcast?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=Twitter: NorthMnSouthFhttps://twitter.com/northmnsouthf?ltclid=SnapChat: SouthSwingLacyhttps://www.snapchat.com/add/swingerlacylouLacy's TikTok: SwingingSouthernGirl3 https://vm.tiktok.com/ZMRW6J7Vx/Lacy's Tiktok Live Only Account: SwingingSGirl5 https://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdsmNNpE/TheSwingNation's Tiktok: TheSwingNation_Podcasthttps://vm.tiktok.com/ZTdsaKnmA/- Swinger Society -Our Website to meet, connect & events:https://swingersociety.net/Our Popular Discord Full Of Swingers:https://discord.com/invite/swingersocietyOur Facebook Group:https://www.facebook.com/groups/1321658238304222/- Swinger Websites -SDC: https://www.sdc.com/?ref=36313<clid=Username: The Swing Nation** Use code 36313 for 14 days free! **SLS: http://sls.com/Username: NorthernGuynSouthernGirl** Our Merch **https://theswingnation.com** The Swinger Pride Flags **Etsy.com/shop/TheSwingNation- Lacys Fun Links -VIP Only Fans:https://onlyfans.com/thesoutherngirlFree Only Fans:https://onlyfans.com/northernguynsoutherngirl- Our Sponsors -Shameless Care: ED Medication and at home STD testing. Use Code TSN at checkout for $30 off your order. https://shamelesscare.com/?ref=78Make Love Longer, It's Time for Great Sex. Promescent®: https://www.promescent.com/swingnationPassoniate non-monogramy for loving couples coursehttps://www.swingerclass.com/a/2147505835/zaCGUp3jSupport the show

America is not the land of sexual freedoms and the Executive Director of NCSFreedom.org explains how people lose jobs, child custody, housing and more due to being polaymorous, kinky, or queer. You'll also learn how we can fight back against losing our human rights.1:00 why NCSF was formed3:00 consenting adults and alternative sexualities6:00 workplace discrimination and harassment9:00 what are the laws in your state?12:00 stigma causes suicide, strife14:00 opposition groups to sexual freedoms16:00 stop calling anti-abortion people “pro-life”19:00 what sexual freedoms do YOU fear losing?23:00 the six dildos law in Texas27:00 on crafting the DSM30:00 working with mental health “experts”33:00 cops shouldn't arrest people for doing kink consensually37:00 foster parents are more likely to abuse kids than parent's partner41:00 “institutionalized discrimination”44:00 what is FOSTA/SESTA?49:00 making adult postings illegal prevents their rescue 53:00 helping SA survivors report to police more safely 57:00 on PSAs on choking 1:00:00 resources and organizing recs

Recorded: 1/16/2022 / Published: 7/30/2022- Welcome to Kuldrin's Krypt. I'm your host Master Kuldrin. If you are new to the show we use our combined 30 years of BDSM experience and my 20 years working in the psychology field to dispel myths, get rid of stereotypes, and answer your questions about BDSM. You can call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com. - Rules to Love By: ( https://inclusionwoodworks.com )1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it's not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- “NCSF, Krypt Update, and Q&A-S04E19”National Coalition for Sexual Freedomhttps://ncsfreedom.org/Important Links:Full show notes: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/419National Suicide Hotline: 1-800-273-8255https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Show Producers:Become a show producer: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon Make a one-time donation: https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/PayPal Snail mail a donation or gift:Kuldrin Entertainment, LLC257 N. Calderwood Rd. #168Alcoa, TN 37701- Benefactor ($2,000/month): - Pro Producer ($100/month): Buffalo_Max92- Master Producer ($50/month): - Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, Anomalous Mats, Just_Call_Me_Ash, and Frozen Moron- Sr. Producers ($10/month): Trouble113, RoxieBear, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Alexandria, babylove&T-Rex, SortOutTheKinks, Master Gabriel, Knot_the_Daddy, Atsila, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, KJ, AuthorMistressBlackrose, UpstateScCouple, Crystal Force, Cali, PerfectlyThick, Odie & Ceci, Cap'n J, Saviy, AK-47, Mr. Byond, and CurtainCall, RodderBaily, SubmissiveKay, and TrinityFae- Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, MBRpoodle, LylacWine, Baddogbad, Arctic Foxglove, Katnipmeow, WyldThyme&Deacon Sean, CheeryQuery, Ropestuff2, Rabbit, BurningRedHot, Sir Wolf ArchAngel, Subx13, CourtsDom, Gator, Gizmo, JJ, Jon Shaw, TheCheshyre, Ben, TinkerBratTN, Brittany, Sekhmets_Shadow, Beatrix Kiddo, Solstice, FetishArtist, and SirBNice- Jr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, Morgana13, Brodie, The Gabbing Girl Time Podcast, Lexa, and AshleyVendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TorridTimber - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist - Tink's Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 *coupon for listeners (first purchase only) TinksToys13- Dark Delights Shops: https://darkdelightsshop.com/ (Watch my product review of them: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/DarkDelightsShop)Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Twitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinPatreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKrypt

Wendi Berger is a Licensed Massage Therapist, Nutrition Consultant, Personal Trainer, and Runner. Wendi's journey into health and fitness started 28 years ago after many years of working in the restaurant and catering business.In 1995, she graduated from The Desert Institute of Healing Arts in Tucson Arizona and received a Degree in massage therapy specializing in Sports/Deep Tissue Massage. She opened her own massage studio with the sole purpose of helping people heal their bodies through massage therapy. She soon realized that healing doesn't just happen…It's a process.This led her to personal Training. In 2005 she was certified through NCSF and started training clients and teaching them how to take ownership of their own health and wellbeing through hard work, discipline and consistency. It was amazing for her learn that our bodies can do incredible things if we are willing to put in the time and effort. She saw clients quickly see that they are much stronger and capable than they give themselves credit for.In 2013, she moved to Houston and established a new massage and training clientele. The first thing she did was join a gym and just by chance met some incredible women, all around her age who were triathletes. She had always been a gym rat but this was something entirely new and challenging. She decided that if they could make their bodies do what they were doing, then so could she. So she started training.She soon realized that all of the training in the world wasn't taking her anywhere without learning how to fuel her machine (body) correctly. So, she hired a nutritionist who changed her whole world!The more she learned, the more she wanted to share with others.She earned her nutrition certification through NAMS, and her new focus then became teaching people how to integrate good food and healthy habits into their daily lives.Not everyone is an athlete, or a gym rat. Whether a person is a Mother, Father, Student or C.E.O, everyone's primary goal is the same—to be healthy, fit and able to enjoy their time on this earth.With WBWellness it is not only her job but her mission to be a coach and support system without judgement or pressure. Her job is to help anyone looking for positive change to recognize their goal, reach for it and succeed.Life is short. It's time to make the most of it and be the best YOU that YOU CAN BE!CONNECT WITH WENDI:INSTAGRAMFACEBOOKEMAIL wendibwellness@gmail.com

U.S. law interprets consensual kink activities as harmful, criminal acts. This makes prosecuting sexual assault cases within the context of BDSM difficult. How can you prove non-consensual sex occurred if kink isn't considered sex in the eyes of the law, it's assault? The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom/NCSF worked along with the American Law Institute to establish a legal definition of consent in kink. They just unveiled the New Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault: Affirmative Defense of Explicit Prior Permission for use of force and restraint with sexual contact. On ep 185 of American Sex Podcast, the NCSF's Susan Wright & BebeBlueEyes explain how this gives legal power to sexual assault survivors, how it'll be adopted state-by-state, about the new consent model EPP/Explicit Prior Permission & why implementing it as community standard is integral to changing case law, what you can do to help, how the NCSF can assist you with criminal sexual assault cases involving consensual kink, and more. If you're kinky this is a MUST LISTEN--you need to know how the legal definition of consent is changing.      Guest Bio – Susan Wright, M.A Susan Wright, M.A., (she/her) founded the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom in 1997, and currently serves as Executive Director. In addition, she serves on the advocacy and community advisory committees for AASECT, the APA's Division 44: Task Force on Consensual Non-monogamy, Kink Clinician Guidelines, and the Diverse Sexualities Research Education Institute. She chaired the successful DSM-5 Revision Project which helped result in the consensual paraphilias being separated from the APA's Paraphilic Disorders in 2013. She currently chairs the Consent Counts Committee that worked with the American Law Institute on the new Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault to create Section 213:10: Affirmative Defense of Explicit Prior Permission for use of force and restraint with sexual contact. Her research for NCSF focuses on discrimination and violence against alt-sex practitioners; consent practices and attitudes; and the mental and physical health of alt-sex practitioners, with papers published in journals including the International Journal of Environmental Research and Public Health, Psychology & Sexuality, Journal of Trauma and Dissociation, Journal of Interpersonal Violence, Archives of Sexual Behavior, Journal of Sexual Medicine, Journal of Behavioral Health Services & Research, Journal of Social and Clinical Psychology, International Journal of Social Psychiatry, and Journal of Homosexuality. Guest Bio – BebeBlueEyes Bebe is a Poly, Het, very active, giggle bottom, service topping ‘s type'.  Since 2009, Bebe has been serving the broader kink & poly communities, presenting classes related to her passion, the ever-evolving topic of Consent. During covid, Bebe started the Submissive Safe Call, an online discussion group to keep ‘s types' connected. She founded StL PolyHarmonic, a local group for kinky & polyamorous persons.  In 2020, Bebe was humbled & honored to be chosen by Leather Leadership Conference for their Servant Leadership award! She s currently serving her 7th year on the Board of Directors of National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSFreedom.org). She is mother of a TNG kinkster, an IT Professional, Avid Foodie & Music Lover, and Debauchery Explorer! She's also an ICASA certified Sexual Assault Victim Advocate for the State of IL!  Her passions are service to the community, education, and personal responsibility through empowerment.   Episode 185 Links NCSF Website www.ncsfreedom.org NCSF Facebook http://facebook.com/NCSFreedom NCSF Twitter http://twitter.com/NCSF NCSF Instagram http://instagram.com/nationalcoalitionsexualfreedom EPP/Explicit Prior Permission video & Resources https://ncsfreedom.org/key-programs-2/consent-counts/ EPP/Explicit Prior Permission Best Practices with Consent to Kink https://secureservercdn.net/198.71.233.216/9xj.1d5.myftpupload.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/01/Best-Practices-for-Consent-to-Kink.pdf The state of the Law with consent in BDSM https://secureservercdn.net/198.71.233.216/9xj.1d5.myftpupload.com/wp-content/uploads/2019/12/Consent-and-BDSM-The-State-of-the-Law.pdf NCSF Incident Reporting & Response https://ncsfreedom.org/incident-reporting-and-response-form/ The Vi Johnson Liberation Award & nominee info https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Gzg227E5yrA Race Kink Discussion Series TUES 3/29/22 http://raceandkink.com (tickets are income-based + include a recording if you can't attend live) Sunny Megatron TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron Ken's charity DnD game Mondays 4pm-7pm PT https://www.twitch.tv/thunderpantsacademy American Sex Podcast Discord Community http://bit.ly/discordasp American Sex Podcast Patreon http://patreon.com/americansex Kink Academy Online BDSM Learning Library http://bit.ly/kinkacademy Sunny's Free Kink Negotiation & Scene Planning Mini-Workbook https://sunnymegatron.gumroad.com/l/negotiationwb   Episode 185 Sponsor & Affiliate Discount Codes/Links *by using our links & codes you can help support our work while saving a few bucks too—win/win! 65% off Beducated's yearly pass (discount locked in for LIFE!) http://beducate.me/sunny and use code SUNNY 30-day free trial of Dipsea Stories when you use code SUNNY http://dipseastories.com/sunny 15% off AND free shipping when you go to http://LikeAKitten.com/sunny OR enter code SUNNY at checkout Get up to 2 free months of podcasting service with Libsyn using this link https://signup.libsyn.com/?promo_code=SUNNY or use code SUNNY Hot & Healthy Erotic Humiliation recorded class https://gum.co/humiliationclass Prostate Play for Beginners (recorded class) from Sugar Baltimore https://www.sugartheshop.com/prostate-milking-for-beginners.html Sunny & Ken's classes on Kink Academy http://bit.ly/kinkacademyelectric & http://bit.ly/kinkacademyhumiliation 10% off American Sex Podcast & Sunny Megatron merch with code SUNNY (t-shirts, mugs, phone cases & more) http://bit.ly/sunnyshirts 15% off your order at Lovehoney when you use this link http://bit.ly/lovehoney15 This link can be a little wonky and does not keep tracking cookies. 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This week we welcomed back Susan Wright from the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF). We discussed and answered questions about the revised Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault and how it provides a legal framework for kink and BDSM.  Read more about the revised MPC NCSF's website Contact Susan at susan@ncsfreedom.org  Thanks for listening! If you enjoyed this one, you'd probably like episode 107 in which we talked to Susan about SESTA/FOSTA and consent. Buy our porn on ManyVids Read our newest blog posts Check out our sponsors for this week, Lulexy and Terrible Toyshop. You can find The Stinger here! Keep us on the air by donating a buck or two to our Patreon! You can listen to an ad-free version of the show a week early, and you'll have access to our Discord server. We post a lot of fun bonus content, including monthly photosets, silly and/or kinky videos, and movie reviews. If you'd rather make a one time donation, you can do so at PayPal.me/OCPLLC. Find us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink More by PODCAST JUKEBOX:Queers Next Door | Being ThereWill Sean Podcast? | The Goth Librarian PodcastDrinks with God | ProudToBeKinky | NO LOVE LOST Tags: Kink, BDSM, Fetish, Fantasy, Sex, Education, Positive, DIY, Punk, Nerds, consent, sexual, assault, law, freedom, ncsf

Ho-Ho-Ho! It's that time of year when we recap all the things that have affected our sexual freedom. The National Coalition of Sexual Freedom founder, Susan Wright is back for our Christmas tradition. What did you miss this year? There is a bunch of things that could enter into our lives as kinksters. Here are a few… Stealthing, Model Penal Code update, Consent Survey, New Resources, Consent Policy Model for Groups, Diversity Inclusion, Metamour Day, and the Coalition Partner Meeting! All this and an organization that protects your interests and lobbies for governmental change. NCSF is one of the most important allies for people in the alt-sex world. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/413---ncsf-christmas-showho.html

Listeners have written in to learn how best to approach getting into Kink and BDSM play. Tonight's guest has been active in making new players feel at home with all their new found kinks. She has been active in her local community and nationally with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. Tess (pronouns she/her/hers) is an Arizona kinkster with a message of inclusion and advocacy. Tess has been on the Board of Directors for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (Your Rights. Your Privacy. Your Freedom. (ncsfreedom.org) https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/398---are-you-new-to-the.html

About guest: Tadeo Arnold Celebrity fitness trainer Tadeo is an X Pro Brazilian Soccer Player took his team based mindset and positive approach to health and ascended to a top trainer at Equinox in Beverly Hills then 5th Ave/67th & Colombus.  He is NCSF, NASM & AFFAA certified, and fluent in English, Spanish and Portuguese. Tadeo also competed as a top #3 finalist on the reality TV show “https://www.imdb.com/title/tt4981490/?ref_=nv_sr_1 (Sweat Inc).” with Jillian Michaels and has done over 20 TV Appearances in various languages. Also he is coach of the #6 High School Basketball Team in USA where he helped earn $3 Million in scholarships for his athletes.  https://www.cuerpaso.com/

July 15, 2021—The American Law Institute (ALI) has approved the revised Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault, which decriminalizes BDSM activities in connection with sexual penetration, oral sex or sexual contact.Dick Cunningham, NCSF's Legal Counsel and member of the ALI, says, “The Model Penal Code on Sexual Assault (including unwanted or injurious contact), approved by the prestigious American Law Institute at its June meeting, is a milestone in the law's understanding of BDSM and a major advance in the treatment of consent as the central element by which sexual contact is to be judged. The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom has been deeply involved in the ALI process for over 6 years and is recognized in the ALI's report for its many contributions. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2021-archive/se---susan-wright---ncsf--.html

Krystal's passion for fitness and nutrition can only be matched by her clients' performance in the gym and her first-class meal-prep in the kitchen. She is a certified personal trainer through the NCSF and a nationally certified nutritionist through the American Academy of Health and Wellness. Krystal is known for achieving big results with her personal training and nutrition coaching clients. Her main passion project right now is an incredible online nutrition coaching subscription service where she helps her clients understand nutrition on a practical level and help them every step of the way on their journey towards their goals. In this episode we discuss: - The biggest fitness/nutrition myths that most people believe. - Practical take aways to improve your nutrition right now. - How to approach the grocery store with a tactical mindset so you actually get what you came for. - How to "diet" by adding instead of taking away. Check out Krystal's website at http://kskwikkleankitchen.com/about/ for an awesome nutrition blog and to sign up for her nutrition coaching service! You can also follow her @thekleannutritionist on instagram.

In this episode, Lady Petra and Saffermaster chat with Susan Wright, the Executive Director of the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom, ncsfreedom.org) about the work they do on behalf of the entire kink and poly community over a dram of Jameson Black Barrel Irish Whisky. We encourage all kinksters to support the NCSF with donations.

NCSF offers many services to the kink community, including a Kink Aware Professionals Directory. Susan Wright discusses the services that NCSF provides . We discuss our Cock & Tail party, including our Cock Decorating Contest.

Due to technical issues that were unknown at the time, the audio quality is not at our usual standard. However, the content is extremely important for all those who enjoy the freedom to practice BDSM. Recorded: 8/23/2020- Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kuldrinskrypt.com.- In this episode of The Krypt, Mayfair and I are going to talk about some new scary laws happening around the world and how they apply to those of us who live in the U.S.- Rules to Love By1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young- BDSM Concerns About New Domestic Abuse Laws“The BDSM Community Is Worried About Changes to the Domestic Abuse Bill: The much-welcomed end to the ‘rough sex defense’ has some kinky people concerned about the implications for BDSM.” by: Alice Snape (https://www.vice.com/en_uk/article/xg87v3/the-bdsm-community-is-worried-about-changes-to-the-domestic-abuse-bill)In July of this year, politicians in the UK hailed an amendment to the long-awaited Domestic Abuse Bill as the end of the "rough sex defense”. The new legislation states that consent can never justify grievous or actual bodily harm, even if it was perpetrated for the purposes of sexual gratification.While the bill itself has been rightly celebrated as a groundbreaking step forward for victims and survivors, many people in the BDSM community have expressed specific concern over this new amendment.Actual bodily harm (ABH) can include bruising, scratching, and bite marks, which means that many forms of BDSM – where the mixing of sex and pain is done safely and consensually – could fall squarely within the remit of the new law.“Any marks that last on the skin for longer than 20 minutes class as ABH, and impact play is commonly seen within a BDSM context,” says Aleph*, who is a top (the person in control during play).During impact play, for instance... Full show notes: https://kuldrinsKrypt.com/308Important Links:https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/Patreon https://kuldrinskrypt.com/silentcommunication https://KuldrinsKrypt.com/survey https://kuldrinskrypt.com/TeePublic Full show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/308Thank you: Show Producers:Benefactor ($2,000/month): Pro Producer ($100/month): Master Producer ($50/month): Executive Producer ($25/month) ShadowyFox, JunicornsAngel, Johnny Ferrell, Haru Webb, Rei Webb, and Lylac WineSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, Roxiebear, Trouble113, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay, babylove&Sir, Master Gabriel, Daddy Steve, Sir Pent, PurplePantera, SortOutTheKinks, Stella, CIVLdisobedience, Grog4life, Raefe, AuthorMistressBlackrose, and UpstateScCoupleProducers ($5/month): Kainsin, Alexandria, LilyChaos, knot_the_daddy, KJ, Duckie Monroe, ArtKitten, Hadea, Sir&Kitten, Raven, Raider69, Bonneville, Atsila Rose, PBW, and MBRpoodleJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, Jeremiah, and Morgana13If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.Vendors I know, like, trust, and use: (None of these are paid sponsors of the podcast.)- http://bdsmcontracts.org Coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.- http://whippingstripes.com - My personal maker of most things leather and paracord impact toys.- http://www.torridtimber.com/ - Fine fetish furniture and accessories- https://www.etsy.com/shop/TheCraftyHedonist -Tink’s Toys Fb Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2350280868612699 Fetlife Profile: https://fetlife.com/users/9885653?sp=3 Contact info:Email: MasterKuldrin@gmail.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

At this time each year, we invite Susan Wright of NCSF to go over a list of what happened in our alternative sexuality world in 2020. Susan is a long-time friend of the KinkyCast and this year’s list is long! Here is a sample of the list: Covid-19 and the impact on our communities, supporting virtual events, the Black Lives Matter movement, NCSF’s Consent Counts project to decriminalize BDSM, NCSF 2020 Consent Survey research data, Incident Reporting & Response, and the kinds of reports NCSF are getting from our communities, Polyamory Day and Metamour Day, and how to get involved. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/361---susan-wright---ncsf.html

#077 - Arlen Guerrero is the Complex Personal Training Manager for Chicago - Equinox Gold Coast and The Loop. Arlen is currently finalizing his Tier X Education for promotion and continues to work as a manager, providing education for 19 region central markets ranging from exercise science, leadership, and sales.In addition, Arlen is a Precision Running Coach for Group Exercise at Equinox and National Presenter for the NCSF. He's starting the process to teach for PPSC and is consistently looking to further his education after obtaining a degree in Exercise Science from FIU.

Dalton is currently the Head junior coach and offensive analyst at Syracuse High school in Kansas. He is a certified strength and conditioning coach through NCSF, he was the strength coach at perennial power house Tarleton State, he has a BS in exercise science and a Masters in Kinesiology. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

Please join Marsha Casper Cook and Sarah Steele when they welcome author Janice Jarrell on September 15th at 4 EST 3CST 2MT 1 PST for a great discussion. Janice's, Love's Magic, was her very first step into writing her own characters. Her own journey has echoed theirs in many ways, and she's grateful to all those gay activists who fought to give the gay community the rights and privileges they always deserved. She will be discussing her writing as well as other topics. Sarah Steele is a lawyer based out of Atlanta, Georgia. She works with the NCSF and other organizations helping to protect the privacy of people in non-traditional lifestyles. She is a passionate educator and avid podcaster. She is also engaged to a wonderful woman and is a loving mother to her five- year- old son. Marsha Casper Cook is an author, screenwriter, host and producer at Michigan Avenue Media Inc. It's going to be a lively fun discussion. Join the show live or on demand or iTunes after the show.   For more info http://michiganavenuemedia.com Sarah's Twitter Acct https://twitter.com/SarahSteeleEsq    

Please join Sarah Steele and Marsha Casper Cook when they discuss Covid effects on everyday life on Thursday September 3 at 4EST 3CST 2MT 1PST. Janice Jerrell is a very successful author who writes about gay men in a very effective way. Her journey has echoed theirs in many ways, and she's grateful to all those gay activists who fought to give the gay community the rights and privileges they always deserved. She will be discussing her writing as well as other related topics. Sarah Steele is a lawyer based out of Atlanta, Georgia. She works with the NCSF and other organizations helping to protect the privacy of people in non-traditional lifestyles. She is a passionate educator and avid podcaster. She is also engaged to a wonderful woman and is a loving mother to her five- year- old son. Marsha Casper Cook is an author, screenwriter, host and producer at Michigan Avenue Media.. For more info http://michiganavenuemedia.com Sarah's Twitter Acct https://twitter.com/SarahSteeleEsq https://www.amazon.com/Janice-Jarrell/e/B078LW1PLH1 It's going to be a terrific discussion.        

Please join Bennet Pomerantz when he welcomes Sarah Steele on August 13 at 4 EST 3 CST 2MT 1PST. Sarah Steele is a lawyer based out of Atlanta, Georgia. She works with the NCSF and other organizations helping to protect the privacy of people in non-traditional lifestyles. She is a passionate educator and avid podcaster. She is also engaged to a wonderful woman and is a loving mother to her five year old son. For more info http://michiganavenuemedia.com Sarah's Twitter Acct https://twitter.com/SarahSteeleEsq  

James Nelson is an NCSF-certified personal trainer and a graduate of CSU Stanislaus, where he competed in track and field. He is also a former student who has gone on to excel both academically and professionally, with even more to come. James attended three high schools as a prep and shares the ways his experiences were unique in each school environment. He presents a valuable perspective for teachers here, regardless of their background or teaching experience. Enjoy!

Susan Wright, founder and spokesperson for the National Coalition on Sexual Freedom (NCSF) chats with Meagan Ingerman about the NCSF’s Consent Counts campaign, how it has been received by police and prosecutors, and what people with “vanilla” sexual interests have to learn about consent from the kink, BDSM, fetish, leather, and non-monogamy communities. The post Consent Counts appeared first on Prostasia Foundation.

(Show link is at the bottom of the text) Today’s trio has been on the gay leather scene from practically it’s beginning. What was being gay in the sixties like? Guy Baldwin tells it like it was being 18 and kicked out of his home for being a homosexual. Guy tells how the WW2 veteran community took him in and taught him what a new family could be. Hardy Haberman in Dallas tells of bars that would warn gay patrons that the vice squad was about to raid and men had to find a female dance partner or risk going to jail. Race Bannon tells of Chicago and the famous gay bars that formed the basis of gay community. Race is an activist in San Francisco now and advises the city council on gay rights. Join us for a two hour tour of how human rights were violated and gay rights didn’t even exist. Three legends of the gay community in the United States tell it like it was, then and now. These are recordings from years back and some on the past timely events were edited out. The story that is told is so important that no matter if you are gay or straight, it’s worth a listen to see how we should not allow people to take away our rights. https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2020-archive/331---guy-baldwin---hardy.html

Policing harm in the polyamory and BDSM communities can be challenging. When consent is violated, when people are assaulted, when people commit assault... we often shy away from victim and perpetrator. In A.V. Flox's important first book, Disrupting the Bystander: When #metoo Happens Among Friends, we learn that we should do the opposite. We should surround people who have been harmed and people who harm with our human spirit to help them find space to heal.In this episode we discuss the book and the process of care it outlines for ourselves, for those harmed, and yes, for those who have harmed others. Content Warning: This episode contains discussion of assault, rape, bad actors, and how unsafe we really are in our "communities" without having each other's back.For a list of references, our social media,credits, and a transcript of this episode head to PodPodCvltCast.com !Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/PodPodCvltCast)

When it comes to working out, ‘finding your why’ is crucial. Are you trying to lose 10 pounds to look good in a swimsuit or are you looking for a dopamine boost? Kate Lemere is a legendary Chicago trainer for Barry’s Bootcamp. Even world-class trainers can struggle with body image issues.If you need a dose of inspiration, check out this week’s edition of Set That B*tch Free. Kate talks to Jacq about dealing with perfectionism, why exposure to your fears is so important, and why the process is really all we have.[01:43] - Who is Kate Lemere?[04:49] - Red Room inspiration[07:44] - Empowerment through fitness[09:23] - Maintaining a healthy mind[15:17] - Becoming a more flexible person[17:48] - Gym intimidation[23:11] - The Four Percent[28:33] - Courage, conviction, and dedication[34:25] - Body positivity?[38:01] - Appreciating the journey[41:05] - Who is Kate's Inner Babe?Kate Lemere is the founder and CEO of The Four Percent, a destination for those seeking a fit and balanced lifestyle. As a fitness expert, Kate’s thrill in life is helping others find their strength and fitness potential. She is at the forefront of the Chicago fitness landscape training personal clients and leading sold-out classes that motivate and empower. With an insatiable hunger better herself, Kate is NCSF, ACE and TRX certified. A Nike trainer and a Founding Trainer at Barry’s Bootcamp in Chicago, Kate brings technical and challenging programs to each and every class with an energy (and playlist) that is contagious.Jacqueline Gould is a self-worth enthusiast, wellness addict and founder of Your Inner Babe™. Follow her on Instagram @jacqgould where you can always find her latest posts on increasing your self-worth, conducting mindful introspection and finding that inner confidence that everyone has inside them.If you'd like to receive new episodes as they're published, please subscribe to Set That B*tch Free with Jacq Gould in Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider leaving a review in Apple Podcasts. It really helps others find the show.This podcast episode was produced by Dante32.

This week’s guest is, Susan Wright, founder of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. Each year at this time Susan joins us to revisit the year that was. This year we had some impressive improvements in the number of reported sexual assaults. NCSF is the only group fighting for the rights of the BDSM-leather-fetish communities. NCSF helps people who are discriminated against because of their sexuality — when they’re fired from their jobs or arrested for sexual assault for having kinky sex. NCSF also helps groups and businesses when they’re being persecuted by the media or local authorities. NCSF fought successfully to help convince the American Psychiatric Association that kink is not a mental illness, and NCSF is filing Amicus Briefs in military and civilian appeals court to hold prosecutors to the promise in Lawrence v. Texas that moral judgments can’t be a basis for criminalizing consensual sex. Come find out more about what NCSF does for the leather community! (Links on the show page…below!) https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2019-archive/307---susan-wright---ncsf.html

Before becoming a mom, you worked out to look cute in your bikini during your beach vacation. Now you HAVE to work out, otherwise your weak pelvic floor might cause you to pee yourself. Kate Lemere is a mom and a trainer for Barry’s Bootcamp and Nike in addition to her own fitness brand, The Four Percent. On this week’s edition of Dope Ass Podcast, she joined Andrea for a discussion about the unique fitness needs of mothers.How do you set goals? How much cardio do you REALLY need? Kate answers these questions and discusses her favorite indulgences as well as how she balances mom life, a full-time job, and a side hustle. Tune in and get inspired![00:10] - This week: Kate Lemere[04:18] - Barry's Bootcamp[07:51] - Training playlists[09:41] - Finding a sense of balance[12:52] - I've tried everything![15:13] - Setting realistic and empowering goals[18:57] - Fitness myths[21:46] - Postpartum health[26:16] - Gaining exposure and access[29:34] - Mindful indulgenceKate Lemere is the founder and CEO of The Four Percent, LLC, a destination for those seeking a fit and balanced lifestyle. As a fitness expert, Kate’s thrill in life is helping others find their strength and fitness potential. She is at the forefront of the Chicago fitness landscape training personal clients and leading sold-out classes that motivate and empower. With an insatiable hunger to better herself, Kate is NCSF, ACE and TRX certified. A Nike trainer and a Founding Trainer at Barry’s Bootcamp in Chicago, Kate brings technical and challenging programs to each and every class with an energy (and playlist) that is contagious.On Dope Ass Podcast, Andrea Levoff and her roster of hilarious, inspirational, and always-opinionated guests are tackling everything from motherhood to fashion to travel and spirituality---with a seriously dope ass lens. But don’t take our word for it. Learn more about your dope ass host and her mission to make everyone see the world through hot pink-colored glasses at https://www.andrealevoff.com/.If you'd like to receive new episodes as they're published, please subscribe to Dope Ass Podcast in Apple Podcasts, Google Podcasts, Spotify or wherever you get your podcasts. If you enjoyed this episode, please consider leaving a review in Apple Podcasts. It really helps others find the show.This podcast episode was produced by Dante32.

We catch up on all the latest, a little HURRICANE named Dorian and some big news out of Fort Wayne, Indiana. Susan Wright of the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom joins us to discuss the state of sexual freedoms in America and how the NCSF is working to ensure those rights not only endure, but grow. Links The Champage Club in Fort Wayne, Indiana Casual Toys - Because your pleasure is priceless Podcast A Palooza Event: May 2019 Book your ticket to Podcast-A-Palooza today! Sex Down South Conference More information on Swing Jam, coming in June 2020! National Coalition for Sexual Freedom - Protecting your right to live and love freely! Wanna hit Naughty in Nawlins 2020? Book here!

Recorded: 5/25/2019 / Published: 6/24/2019PatreonCall in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode:1: The Rules to Love By2: Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual FreedomRules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:30] Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual Freedomhttps://NCSFreedom.org[1:30] What is the NCSF?[3:10] What has the NCSF done to help get BDSM removed from the DSM as a diagnosable mental illness. How has this impacted the community?[6:25] What steps have been taken to make these changes come about?Child custody issues?[11:19] Hurt Vs. Harm and nationalizing the definition for consent and decriminalizing BDSM.[14:47] Wrongful arrest and conviction of a knife player.[15:30] How do we make political changes to make necessary law changes.[17:49] Confronting consent violations against men.[20:01] FOSTA/SESTA: What is it, what has been the effects of it, and what is being done to fight it?[28:51] NCSF Direct Services needs increased due to the current political climate.[35:10] Getting the government out of our lives and how to become a lobbyist.[39:20] Kink Aware Professionals (K.A.P.) https://www.ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/kink-aware-professionals-59776[42:35] What is your personal experience with kink and nonmonogamy?Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/221  [47:00] Thank you Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan.If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.comDay Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Recorded: 5/25/2019 / Published: 6/24/2019PatreonCall in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comOn this episode:1: The Rules to Love By2: Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual FreedomRules to Love by:1: Safe, sane, consensual, and informed2: KNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity3: “Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:30] Susan Wright from the National Coalition For Sexual Freedomhttps://NCSFreedom.org[1:30] What is the NCSF?[3:10] What has the NCSF done to help get BDSM removed from the DSM as a diagnosable mental illness. How has this impacted the community?[6:25] What steps have been taken to make these changes come about?Child custody issues?[11:19] Hurt Vs. Harm and nationalizing the definition for consent and decriminalizing BDSM.[14:47] Wrongful arrest and conviction of a knife player.[15:30] How do we make political changes to make necessary law changes.[17:49] Confronting consent violations against men.[20:01] FOSTA/SESTA: What is it, what has been the effects of it, and what is being done to fight it?[28:51] NCSF Direct Services needs increased due to the current political climate.[35:10] Getting the government out of our lives and how to become a lobbyist.[39:20] Kink Aware Professionals (K.A.P.) https://www.ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/kink-aware-professionals-59776[42:35] What is your personal experience with kink and nonmonogamy?Show notes can be found at https://kuldrinskrypt.com/221  [47:00] Thank you Show Producers:Pro Producer($100/month): LilyxChaosx.Executive Producers ($25/month): Jeremiah, ArcaneD.G.R. & violetaurelia,  Feline_Rouge, babylove2269, and FaisilSr. Producers ($10/month): Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx, JayKay, SortOutTheKinks, Delilah, SirMutualRespect and Master Gabriel.Producers ($5/month): Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, Roxiebear, olive_eyes, Seine (Zine), and AlexandriaJr. Producers ($1/month): K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, LxSoumis, Hayley, and Morgan.If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM Contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.https://www.daycollars.comDay Collars is a place for personalized handmade collars, leashes, cuffs and belts.http://whippingstripes.com My personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.Next time on The Krypt: ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: masterkuldrin https://www.instagram.com/masterkuldrin/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresource Limits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/survey

Today's conversation features Susan Wright of the National Coalition for S3xual Freedom (NCSF). We discuss what NCSF has done so far to fight for s3xual freedom and privacy rights, and what there is still left to do. WithPolyAnna.com Patreon.com/WithPolyAnna WithPolyAnna.com/Contact Suggested Links: www.ncsfreedom.org www.facebook.com/ncsfreedom https://twitter.com/NCSF https://www.psychiatry.org/psychiatrists/practice/dsm https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lawrence_v._Texas https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2010-22931-007 https://www.apnews.com/ec7bca54931544f7b71651406566206b https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jay_Wiseman https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Serenity_Prayer Suggested Hashtags: #NCSF #ConsentCounts #MeToo *Theme Song: "Somethin for Ya" by Mnage Quad --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/withpolyanna/support

Do families have to live together? My partners and I agreed to live together and have kids, but now I'm not so sure. 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:15 Host chat We took a two-month break to figure out what this podcast will be moving forward. We’re excited about new guests and will be moving to a biweekly format. NCSF has declared February 28 National Metamour Day The Iron Realm podcast is an audio drama dungeon crawl RPG adventure. 5:45 Poly in the news Is there such a thing as poly-dar? Do poly folks have certain recognizable traits? 8:00 Topic: Do families need to live together? Lewis has a male partner and a woman partner, Sally, and the three of them have discussed living together as a family and fathering kids with Sally. However, Lewis says their communication has not been great and their relationship was pretty dysfunctional until recently. He also values his own space and privacy. Is it OK to father kids if you don’t intend to live together as a family? Good instinct to get counseling when the relationship isn’t already pretty healthy You decide what’s good for you, not what’s good for anyone else 17:30 Feedback A listener calls in to ask how to find poly folks rural Pennsylvania. 22:45 Happy Poly Moment Danielle shares a snow day happy poly moment. Lusty Guy shares a surprise happy poly moment! 25:30 Thank you Thanks to Shelly for the donation, and welcome Laurel and Terra to the Poly Weekly Playmates! 32:00 How to make this podcast better Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com and attach an audio comment or call the listener comment line at 802-505-POLY. If you want us to teach a class at your event, want us to coach you, or want to appear on the podcast, email lustyguy@polyweekly.com. Friend us on Twitter or Facebook, leave a comment here. Check out Poly Weekly podcasts at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write a review on Apple Podcasts!  Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”

Recorded: 1/20/2019 / Published: 1/23/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comSpecial thanks to Rushguy1969 for recommending this topic!For full show notes visit https://kuldrinskrypt.com/208First, a deep into the woods about nurturing positive dominant qualities within one's self. First, I am going to give you a tool to help you figure out what you are already dealing with.Second, I’m going to share with you the things that I feel should be commonly found character traits for those on the left side of the slash...if not both.[1:04] Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:28] PAD Temperament Mode ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PAD_emotional_state_model )In order to know the best things in oneself to nurture we first need to know what is already there. For this, we are going to take a look at the PAD emotional state model which today typical is only used for marketing and developing multidimensional animated characters...but hey, if you can give a cartoon layered emotions and make them come alive on the silver screen with this then it has to have some kind of credibility and usability for us, right? ...[4:25] PleasureThe Pleasure-Displeasure Scale measures how pleasant or unpleasant one feels about something. For instance, both anger and fear are unpleasant emotions and both score on the displeasure side. However, joy is a pleasant emotion.[4:57] ArousalThe Arousal-Nonarousal Scale measures how energized or soporific one feels. It is not the intensity of the emotion -- for grief and depression can be low arousal intense feelings. While both anger and rage are unpleasant emotions, rage has a higher intensity or a higher arousal state. However, boredom, which is also an unpleasant state, has a low arousal value.[5:43] DominanceThe Dominance-Submissiveness Scale represents the controlling and dominant versus controlled or submissive one feels. For instance, while both fear and anger are unpleasant emotions, anger is a dominant emotion, while fear is a submissive emotion.So now, how do these three things tie together in determining what is what? Let’s say that something happened and you became angry. You would give the emotion of anger values for each of the three sections of the PAD emotional state model. For some this might look like this: Anger is a quite unpleasant, quite aroused, and moderately dominant emotion. While for others it might like: Anger is moderately pleasant, mildly aroused, and mildly dominant emotion.Now, use all this in emotions and environmental situations. This means that you are not just looking at the feeling itself but also taking a look a specific setting, with certain people at a restaurant, in a dungeon, … the locations, situations, and emotions is an endless sea of possibilities so this is one of those life exercises that you will need to constantly and consistently come back to for further exploration but be careful not to burn yourself out on it as it can also be pretty exhausting.[10:23] Ok, so now that you have examined a few emotions using the PAD emotional state model, what have you figured out about yourself? Where do you need to the most work? The areas where the arousal is high that it creates a situation out of your control might be a good place to start along with anything that causes debilitating anxiety, stress, or depression.[11:41] “...and...how do I go about doing this?”, you ask. There are several ways. The first thing I would do is check out the NCSF website ( https://www.ncsfreedom.org/ ) to see if they are any kink-friendly therapist in your area.The second thing I would do, besides actually make and attend the appointment with an open mind, is check out some books that are written to help with the specific areas you are having difficulties with or that you want to change. However, keep in mind that things don’t happen overnight and it is always best to tackle a few smaller projects back to back first to build a sense of security within yourself. Otherwise, it is incredibly easy and common to get lost in the process which means you will give up and fail. You and I both know that the worst thing about failing at something is that it often prevents us from moving to the next things because we start thinking that we will just fail at that as well. So, again, you’ve got your list now it’s time to start small.The third thing is to, you guessed it, communicate!!! You are changing yourself at your core and the people around you need to know this is happening. There is nothing worse than worrying about someone day in and day out because they are acting differently but they refuse to tell you why. I have lost friendships and had difficulties with family members from both changing and being the one wondering what was going on with the other person. If you don’t know about it, it is frustrating and will cause fights. Again, you are changing your entire foundation.[14:46] Commonly found character traits in EFFECTIVE Dominants with a history of successful relationships. (and honestly, these are also commonly found in effective submissives with a history of successful relationships.1: Self-awareness2: Effective Communication: (See also https://kuldrinskrypt.com/s01e24 )3: Patience4: A realistic view of self, others, the world, and situations5: Leadership6: Honesty7: Loyalty8: The desire for education and growth9: The ability to grow10: Kindness/Politeness11: Compassion12: Self-control13: Integrity14: A sense of humor15: Generosity [39:44] A final note or two:I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx and Feline_Rouge. Our Producers Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM contracts for the donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.[40:35] A SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT TO ALL HTTPS://PATREON.COM/KULDRINSKRYPT SHOW PRODUCERS:Coming soon:Weekly Patron ONLY WEEKLY EPISODES!!!Regular vlog play journals!!!Happening now: Monthly online munches!!!NEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext time on The Krypt ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfire https://www.instagram.com/kuldrinfire/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/surveyThis has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Recorded: 1/20/2019 / Published: 1/23/2019Call in at 865-268-4005 to leave your question or visit the Krypt at https://kudrinskrypt.comSpecial thanks to Rushguy1969 for recommending this topic!For full show notes visit https://kuldrinskrypt.com/208First, a deep into the woods about nurturing positive dominant qualities within one's self. First, I am going to give you a tool to help you figure out what you are already dealing with.Second, I’m going to share with you the things that I feel should be commonly found character traits for those on the left side of the slash...if not both.[1:04] Rules to Love by:Safe, sane, consensual, and informedKNKI: Knowledge, No Intolerance, Kindness, Integrity“Submission is not about authority and it’s not about obedience; it is all about relationships of love and respect.” -Wm. Paul Young[1:28] PAD Temperament Mode ( https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/PAD_emotional_state_model )In order to know the best things in oneself to nurture we first need to know what is already there. For this, we are going to take a look at the PAD emotional state model which today typical is only used for marketing and developing multidimensional animated characters...but hey, if you can give a cartoon layered emotions and make them come alive on the silver screen with this then it has to have some kind of credibility and usability for us, right? ...[4:25] PleasureThe Pleasure-Displeasure Scale measures how pleasant or unpleasant one feels about something. For instance, both anger and fear are unpleasant emotions and both score on the displeasure side. However, joy is a pleasant emotion.[4:57] ArousalThe Arousal-Nonarousal Scale measures how energized or soporific one feels. It is not the intensity of the emotion -- for grief and depression can be low arousal intense feelings. While both anger and rage are unpleasant emotions, rage has a higher intensity or a higher arousal state. However, boredom, which is also an unpleasant state, has a low arousal value.[5:43] DominanceThe Dominance-Submissiveness Scale represents the controlling and dominant versus controlled or submissive one feels. For instance, while both fear and anger are unpleasant emotions, anger is a dominant emotion, while fear is a submissive emotion.So now, how do these three things tie together in determining what is what? Let’s say that something happened and you became angry. You would give the emotion of anger values for each of the three sections of the PAD emotional state model. For some this might look like this: Anger is a quite unpleasant, quite aroused, and moderately dominant emotion. While for others it might like: Anger is moderately pleasant, mildly aroused, and mildly dominant emotion.Now, use all this in emotions and environmental situations. This means that you are not just looking at the feeling itself but also taking a look a specific setting, with certain people at a restaurant, in a dungeon, … the locations, situations, and emotions is an endless sea of possibilities so this is one of those life exercises that you will need to constantly and consistently come back to for further exploration but be careful not to burn yourself out on it as it can also be pretty exhausting.[10:23] Ok, so now that you have examined a few emotions using the PAD emotional state model, what have you figured out about yourself? Where do you need to the most work? The areas where the arousal is high that it creates a situation out of your control might be a good place to start along with anything that causes debilitating anxiety, stress, or depression.[11:41] “...and...how do I go about doing this?”, you ask. There are several ways. The first thing I would do is check out the NCSF website ( https://www.ncsfreedom.org/ ) to see if they are any kink-friendly therapist in your area.The second thing I would do, besides actually make and attend the appointment with an open mind, is check out some books that are written to help with the specific areas you are having difficulties with or that you want to change. However, keep in mind that things don’t happen overnight and it is always best to tackle a few smaller projects back to back first to build a sense of security within yourself. Otherwise, it is incredibly easy and common to get lost in the process which means you will give up and fail. You and I both know that the worst thing about failing at something is that it often prevents us from moving to the next things because we start thinking that we will just fail at that as well. So, again, you’ve got your list now it’s time to start small.The third thing is to, you guessed it, communicate!!! You are changing yourself at your core and the people around you need to know this is happening. There is nothing worse than worrying about someone day in and day out because they are acting differently but they refuse to tell you why. I have lost friendships and had difficulties with family members from both changing and being the one wondering what was going on with the other person. If you don’t know about it, it is frustrating and will cause fights. Again, you are changing your entire foundation.[14:46] Commonly found character traits in EFFECTIVE Dominants with a history of successful relationships. (and honestly, these are also commonly found in effective submissives with a history of successful relationships.1: Self-awareness2: Effective Communication: (See also https://kuldrinskrypt.com/s01e24 )3: Patience4: A realistic view of self, others, the world, and situations5: Leadership6: Honesty7: Loyalty8: The desire for education and growth9: The ability to grow10: Kindness/Politeness11: Compassion12: Self-control13: Integrity14: A sense of humor15: Generosity [39:44] A final note or two:I’d like to thank our Executive Producers Jeremiah, Sihlus, Jess, and ArcaneDgr & violetaurelia. Our Sr. Producers Matt, xEmeraldxWolfx and Feline_Rouge. Our Producers Kainsin, ThatPlace: Oklahoma City, JayKay and RoxieBear. And our Jr. Producers K-2SO, BuffaloDom84, Painwaits, LxSoumis, and Hayley. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/support to get that information.BDSM contracts for the donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hardbound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys.[40:35] A SPECIAL ANNOUNCEMENT TO ALL HTTPS://PATREON.COM/KULDRINSKRYPT SHOW PRODUCERS:Coming soon:Weekly Patron ONLY WEEKLY EPISODES!!!Regular vlog play journals!!!Happening now: Monthly online munches!!!NEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext time on The Krypt ??? In the meantime go to https://kuldrinskrypt.com for show notes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to become a Patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin Fire https://www.facebook.com/kuldrin.fireTwitter: @MasterKuldrin https://twitter.com/MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfire https://www.instagram.com/kuldrinfire/Patreon: kuldrinskrypt https://www.patreon.com/KuldrinsKryptPaypal: MasterKuldrin http://paypal.me/masterkuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceLimits and Interest Survey: https://kuldrinskrypt.com/surveyThis has been Master Kuldrin for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

N is for National Coalition for Sexual Freedom   Hi everyone!  Welcome to the A to Z of Sex.  I'm Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and I am your host.  We are working our way through the erotic alphabet one letter at a time.  Just a reminder this podcast deals with adult content, so if you don't have total privacy, you might want to put on your headphones.  Today the letter is N and N is for National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.     The National coalition for sexual freedom Mission Statement is:  The NCSF is committed to creating a political, legal and social environment in the US that advances equal rights for consenting adults who engage in alternative sexual and relationship expressions.  The NCSF aims to advance the rights of, and advocate for consenting adults in the BDSM-Leather-Fetish, Swing, and Polyamory Communities.  We pursue our vision through direct services, education, advocacy, and outreach, in conjunction with our partners, to directly benefit these communities.   Joining me to talk about the NCSF and other topics is D Choc Trei Henderson.  She is Ms Southeast Leatherfest 2018 and a director/southeast regional coalition partner lead for the NCSF.  She is executive producer of the first inaugural Southeast Consent Summit.  Choc is 2019 president of Leather Houses of |Color Coalition and was recently conferred as one of the newest directors for the Leather Archives and Museum. Other community service includes the Executive Director, VP and treasurer roles to re-launch ONYX Pearls South East and is presently bylaws Chair.  She has been treasurer of the Leather Leadership Conference and active in many local groups.  Her home leather bar is the Atlanta Eagle.    NCSF is a resource for the members of the kink, poly and Lifestyle communities and for people seeking information about them. If you engage in BDSM, fetishes or non-monogamy practices, and you are being persecuted or discriminated against because of it, please contact NCSF through the Get Help Now. If you need help removing kink or non-monogamy as a barrier to public services, please contact NCSF. If your group or business needs help with outreach to local officials, please contact NCSF.If you or your group needs help with a consent violation or sexual assault, please contact NCSF.   GET HELP NOW! The issue must openly, directly, and specifically relate to BDSM, swing or poly activities between consenting adults; in other words, the problems you face must relate to or be caused from your involvement in BDSM, swing or poly.  NCSF is not legal aid, nor do we offer specific legal advice for individuals. NCSF is a resource for the members of the kink, poly and Lifestyle communities and for people seeking information about them. NCSF provides publicly available information on kink and nonmonogamy for consenting adults.      They have produced the Kink Aware Professionals list which includes listings for mental health professionals, medical doctors, legal professionals, accountants who are aware of kink, alternative lifestyles as well as gender and sexual diversity and who can provide services without a negative bias.   They produce the consent counts program. The Consent Counts project involves the BDSM communities in a nationwide education and activism program coordinated and led by the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom.  This multifaceted campaign includes a comprehensive is analysis of current laws and court decisions, the development of legal arguments for changing the laws, participating in court cases, and ultimately, through lobbying, education and grass-roots activism, changing state laws and the way the public and the courts view BDSM.  An important element of the project also includes an Educational Outreach Program (EOP) to educate our own communities of the current state of the law, of the effort NCSF is undertaking and to involve them in our strategic planning process and development of “best practices” by which we can...

Every year at Christmas time we sit down with Susan Wright of the National Coalition of Sexual Freedom (NCSFreedom.org). We talk about what’s in the news that Kinksters, polyamorists, and the spectrum of players that we call friends. With the many changes in the presidential cabinet, we wonder what was changer in 2018 and what might change in 2019. What rights we may loose, current freedoms that will be less free and the just plain fucking us that is so irritable. This is always an informative show and this year is loaded with some gems that you may not have noticed, in your daily life… Yet! https://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2018-archive/255---susan-wright---ncsf--.html

In Episode 035 of the D&D Fitness Radio Podcast, we sit down with Dr. Ben House to discuss the key levers of nutrition that can be pulled to elicit a desired outcome, whether it be related body composition, athletic performance or general health and wellness. Dr. House talks about how he can optimize an individual’s diet whether they choose to a vegan approach, a ketogenic path or more conservative methodologies. We also discuss issues around exercise, food quality, technology and food preparation.Ben House, PhD, CN, FDN, fNMT, NCSF, USAW LI SPC has worked as a Strength and Conditioning Coach and Nutritionist since 2006. House is currently the owner and founder of Functional Medicine Costa Rica. House was accepted to medical school without an undergraduate degree, but elected to finish his degree and pursue a career in the health and fitness sector. He is currently practicing Functional Medicine after finishing his PhD and a multi-year metabolic health study within the Nutritional Sciences Department at UT-Austin. House has numerous publications in peer reviewed scientific journals such as The International Journal of Obesity, has presented his work at multiple international conferences, and lectures regularly on health and nutrition at The University of Texas.For more information on Dr. Ben House, you can follow him via the links below:Website: http://functionalmedicinecostarica.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbenhouse/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ben.house.9The D&D Fitness Radio podcast is available at the following locations for downloadable audio, including: iTunes – https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/d-d-fitness-radio-podcast/id1331724217https://www.iheart.com/podcast/dd-fitness-radio-28797988/Spreaker.com – https://www.spreaker.com/show/d-and-d-fitness-radios-showYou can reach both Don and Derek at the following locations: Don Saladino: http://www.DonSaladino.com Twitter and Instagram - @DonSaladino YouTube - http://www.youtube.com/donsaladino Derek M. Hansen: http://www.SprintCoach.com Twitter and Instagram - @DerekMHansen YouTube - http://youtube.com/derekmhansen

In Episode 035 of the D&D Fitness Radio Podcast, we sit down with Dr. Ben House to discuss the key levers of nutrition that can be pulled to elicit a desired outcome, whether it be related body composition, athletic performance or general health and wellness. Dr. House talks about how he can optimize an individual’s diet whether they choose to a vegan approach, a ketogenic path or more conservative methodologies. We also discuss issues around exercise, food quality, technology and food preparation.Ben House, PhD, CN, FDN, fNMT, NCSF, USAW LI SPC has worked as a Strength and Conditioning Coach and Nutritionist since 2006. House is currently the owner and founder of Functional Medicine Costa Rica. House was accepted to medical school without an undergraduate degree, but elected to finish his degree and pursue a career in the health and fitness sector. He is currently practicing Functional Medicine after finishing his PhD and a multi-year metabolic health study within the Nutritional Sciences Department at UT-Austin. House has numerous publications in peer reviewed scientific journals such as The International Journal of Obesity, has presented his work at multiple international conferences, and lectures regularly on health and nutrition at The University of Texas.For more information on Dr. Ben House, you can follow him via the links below:Website: http://functionalmedicinecostarica.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drbenhouse/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/ben.house.9The D&D Fitness Radio podcast is available at the following locations for downloadable audio, including: iTunes – https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/d-d-fitness-radio-podcast/id1331724217https://www.iheart.com/podcast/dd-fitness-radio-28797988/Spreaker.com – https://www.spreaker.com/show/d-and-d-fitness-radios-showYou can reach both Don and Derek at the following locations: Don Saladino: http://www.DonSaladino.com Twitter and Instagram - @DonSaladino YouTube - http://www.youtube.com/donsaladino Derek M. Hansen: http://www.SprintCoach.com Twitter and Instagram - @DerekMHansen YouTube - http://youtube.com/derekmhansen

  Hi everyone!  Welcome to the A to Z of Sex.  I'm Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and I am your host.  We are working our way through the erotic alphabet one letter at a time.  Just a reminder this podcast deals with adult content, so if you don't have total privacy, you might want to put on your headphones.  Today the letter is F and F is for Freedom – Sexual Freedom.   Susan Wright founded the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom in 1997, and currently serves as Chairperson and Director of Incident Reporting & Response. Susan also serves on the advocacy committees for AASECT, the Kink Clinician Guidelines, the Kink Knowledgeable Program, and the Diverse Sexualities Research Education Institute. Susan has conducted six surveys on discrimination and violence against BDSM practitioners; consent practices and attitudes; and the mental and physical health of BDSM and non-monogamy practitioners that have been published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, Journal of Sexual Medicine, Journal of Behavioral Health Services & Research, International Journal of Social Psychiatry, Journal of Trauma and Dissociation and Journal of Homosexuality.   In this two part talk, we started by speaking about the reasons for founding the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and the projects they have been involved in.  Susan talked about the research that NCSF has done on BDSM, relationship styles, polyamory and consent and that these have been the largest surveys done so far.  The research has demonstrated the psychological health of people involved in these alternative relationships and alternative sexual practices and was part of the evidence that caused the APA to modify the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders –V so that the vast majority of people practicing BDSM and/or polyamory no longer qualify for a diagnosis of paraphilia in relationship to their sexual and relationship choices.    We spent a lot of time talking about consent incidents and how we as a community identify these, manage these and apply sanctions.  Susan spoke about the groups that they work with.  The NCSF has developed a framework and a lot of resources for community groups and businesses around defining and dealing with consent incidents.    We spoke about the NCSF's role in educating law enforcement, psychologists and other mental health professionals.  NCSF hosts the Kink Aware Professionals list which is an international list of  mental health professionals, medical doctors, lawyers and other professionals who are kink aware.  The NCSF regularly educates professionals about BDSM and other alternative lifestyles and sexual practices.   We spoke about how important it is for individuals to be educated about consent and that some of the research that NCSF has done has found that 75% of consent violations happen with people who are in their first 3 years of being involved with BDSM.    We spoke about how individuals and groups handle consent incidents and the differences between someone making an error and someone being a repeat offender.  We spoke about needing to get information first hand if you are to make a judgement on a situation and that one of the problems is that often people don't have first hand information and are being asked to make a judgement.  We spoke about liability for people organising events and conferences and how important education is to limit liability and that decisions around excluding someone from an event are often taken because of liability issues.   NCSF has also educated people in the hospitality industry and made it possible for events and conferences to be held at these venues.    We finished up recognising that we had not managed to cover all the topics we set out to cover and will be doing another show on custody and divorce soon.   Susan Wright can be found at www.ncsfreedom.org Twitter @ncsf Facebook: http:www.facebook.com/NCSFreedom   This week we talked about:  Consent...

Susan Wright founded the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom in 1997, and currently serves as Chairperson and Director of Incident Reporting & Response. Susan also serves on the advocacy committees for AASECT, the Kink Clinician Guidelines, the Kink Knowledgeable Program, and the Diverse Sexualities Research Education Institute. Susan has conducted six surveys on discrimination and violence against BDSM practitioners; consent practices and attitudes; and the mental and physical health of BDSM and non-monogamy practitioners that have been published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, Journal of Sexual Medicine, Journal of Behavioral Health Services & Research, International Journal of Social Psychiatry, Journal of Trauma and Dissociation and Journal of Homosexuality.   In this two part talk, we started by speaking about the reasons for founding the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom and the projects they have been involved in.  Susan talked about the research that NCSF has done on BDSM, relationship styles, polyamory and consent and that these have been the largest surveys done so far.  The research has demonstrated the psychological health of people involved in these alternative relationships and alternative sexual practices and was part of the evidence that caused the APA to modify the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders –V so that the vast majority of people practicing BDSM and/or polyamory no longer qualify for a diagnosis of paraphilia in relationship to their sexual and relationship choices.    We spent a lot of time talking about consent incidents and how we as a community identify these, manage these and apply sanctions.  Susan spoke about the groups that they work with.  The NCSF has developed a framework and a lot of resources for community groups and businesses around defining and dealing with consent incidents.    We spoke about the NCSF’s role in educating law enforcement, psychologists and other mental health professionals.  NCSF hosts the Kink Aware Professionals list which is an international list of  mental health professionals, medical doctors, lawyers and other professionals who are kink aware.  The NCSF regularly educates professionals about BDSM and other alternative lifestyles and sexual practices.   We spoke about how important it is for individuals to be educated about consent and that some of the research that NCSF has done has found that 75% of consent violations happen with people who are in their first 3 years of being involved with BDSM.    We spoke about how individuals and groups handle consent incidents and the differences between someone making an error and someone being a repeat offender.  We spoke about needing to get information first hand if you are to make a judgement on a situation and that one of the problems is that often people don’t have first hand information and are being asked to make a judgement.  We spoke about liability for people organising events and conferences and how important education is to limit liability and that decisions around excluding someone from an event are often taken because of liability issues.   NCSF has also educated people in the hospitality industry and made it possible for events and conferences to be held at these venues.    We finished up recognising that we had not managed to cover all the topics we set out to cover and will be doing another show on custody and divorce soon.   Susan Wright can be found at www.ncsfreedom.org Twitter @ncsf Facebook: http:www.facebook.com/NCSFreedom   This week we talked about:  Consent violations,   consent definitions, education and the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF).  If any topics that we brought up caused you concern or triggered you, please write to me at drloribeth@atozofsex.com and I will help you find resources to resolve your concerns.

We mention the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) quite regularly on this podcast. On today’s episode, we’re speaking with the NCSF’s founder Susan Wright. Topics include the work the NCSF is doing, the current climate around kink and polyamory, and what to do if being kinky lands you in trouble. We also dive deep into that most critical of topics – consent.

This week, Dick and max are joined by, Susan Wright of the NCSF to discuss the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom's mission, the SESTA/FOSTA bills, and the importance of #metoo in conversations surrounding consent.  NCSF website: www.ncsfreedom.org Support the show by paying for max's pain! patreon.com/ocpkink Questions or comments for the show: offthecuffspodcast@gmail.com 1 (631) 881 KINK Find us on fetlife: www.fetlife.com/OfftheCuffs www.fetlife.com/Dick_Wound www.fetlife.com/minimusmaximus Follow us on Twitter and Instagram: @ocpkink Follow Dick Wound on Spotify: @ocpkink Check out our sister shows from PODCAST JUKEBOX: Will Sean Podcast? ProudToBeKinky Podcast Drinks with God & Being There Also check out our friend's shows: RISK! The Dildorks & This Is Actually Happening Opening and closing theme music: HOUND DOG RUN by This'll Kill Ya!

On this episode of the Krypt we are going to get into the second half of our Consent podcast, with our main focus on Boundaries but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.* A special shout out to Kuldrin, much of this podcast was written by Kuldrin, as he used to teach a class in boundaries during his tenure working in the psychological field. Much of this is actually just taken from those lessons and reformatted into show notes.* When we left off from part one of our two-part series on consent we were talking about the importance of being able to say no, and uphold our boundaries when it comes to consent. A boundary is defined as a dynamic line separating an individual's internal environment and external environment while varying in permeability and flexibility. This also applies to a line between others in that environment. Purposes and Types of BoundariesPurposes are to facilitate separation and individuation and to assist the individual’s adaptation to the environment. For BDSM this means that you will use these personal boundaries to maintain your personal self, and what you are willing to consent to. Types of boundaries can be broken down into:Ridged open which can be considered your soft limits Ridged closed, these are similar to your hard limits.Flexible or the things you might be open to, and things you are willing to negotiate.You need to learn what your appropriate boundaries are, how to set them, and how to recognize and respect the boundaries of others.How to identify your own boundaries.Become aware of your needs. You can’t expect others to respect or know what your boundaries are if you don’t know them yourself. Get support. Having others who will support you and help you uphold those boundaries is an important step. Many times you can even find a protector to help you in this capacity. Communicate effectively. Whether it’s expressing an interest or negotiating your limits, this has always been an important skill. For more information on the subject check out our episode on effective communication. Be realistic. Where boundaries start.Boundaries are natural. Infants start to develop flexible boundaries at 6 months old. Boundaries are developed and set before age 3. Have you ever looked at an infant in the eyes and it staired back briefly just before closing its eyes or turning its head? It did this because the stimulation became too much. Thus it set a boundary.People with healthy boundaries have limits and recognize what they are, know what they will or will not do and they know what they will or will not allow others to do.Teaching others how to treat you within the BDSM dynamic boundaries. Training is a big part of this. Not only do you have general training, but with each new relationship you have to train yourself and your partner as to how to be treated, and how to treat them. Again communicate your boundaries. Listen and respect the communications of others as well. And remember that not all communications of these boundaries is vocal. A person may be demonstrating a personal boundary via silent cues so try to always be observant of your surroundings. When boundaries aren’t respected. When boundaries aren’t respected, and we are faced with consent violations what can we do?If your consent has been violated, first determine for yourself if the person has made an honest mistake, or if this is a case of abuse. Recognize that you are not to blame in either case. Seek support from those around you. Communicate your feelings.Take your time. The simple fact is if you have been abused it will take time to heal, physically, mentally, and emotionally. The only person who can say whether it has been enough or too much time for this process is you. Rushing can often do more harm than good in these instances. What can you do if someone you know has had their consent violated?Give them time.Listen but never ask or demand that they talk about what has happened. Believe what they say. We each individually set our own personal boundaries and we are the only ones capable of saying whether those boundaries have been crossed. Do not rush to be their saviors. Often we can find ourselves wanting to be the saviors for those around us, especially if we have taken a role as a protector, but we also need to remember that protecting someone is something which that person also has to consent to. Going off to fight a battle for someone who does not consent to it can be just as harmful to that person as the original consent violation was. And now we’re going to dip into the hardest question of all; what do you do if you have been the one who violated someone’s consent?Be honest with yourself as to whether or not you intended the violation. If it is a case in which you made an honest mistake then you should apologise sincerely, and offer understanding. Understanding comes in many different forms; you will need to understand that your actions have affected someone who placed some level of trust in you, and that you may need to make further amends. Often you will have make a greater effort to regain that person’s trust, using patience and communication every step of the way. And finally you can forgive yourself for mistake, so that you can hopefully learn from it in the future. If it was not a mistake….Start by owning what you have done. Denying that you abused and mistreated another purposefully will only make things worse. Do not think you will live your life without consequences for your misdeeds. Do not allow yourself this choice again. Do not expect others to treat you with the courtesy or respect you have refused to show someone else. Other worthwhile notes on consent within our lifestyle. Physical boundaries ie condoms. Condoms are an important boundary for many as they reduce both the risk of pregnancy and that of STIs and STDs. There was actually a law about the removal of condoms before or during a sexual act without your partner's knowledge, an act known as stealthing, added in California back in May 2017, which added that once stealthing has happened the act is no longer considered consensual. The NCSF, ALI Project, and Consent Counts. The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom or NCSF has been coordinating the Consent Counts project in a BDSM community worldwide effort in education and activism in order to offer legal protection against consent violations. The American Law Institute has been working in conjunction with this to change the Moral Penal Code to decriminalize consensual BDSM. What this means for all of us is that for most states in the U.S. and several other countries, whether we consent to the activities we are engaging in or not, they are still considered legally reprehensible. But we will be digging more into this topic during our BDSM and the law episode later on this season. Well that wraps up our consent series. If you have any questions or comments join in the conversation in our Fetlife group Kuldrins Kyrpt. And now… A final note or two.I’d like to thank our Executive Producer Jeremiah, Our Senior Producer Matt, Producer Missy Lynn and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon and The Accidental Trucker. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/supportme to get that information.Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hard bound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. NEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext on The Krypt we are going to dive into . In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceOutro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

Ben Shenker, a lawyer practicing in Maryland and D.C., answers your poly questions 0:00 Introduction and host chat Under 18? Stop listening now and visit http://www.scarleteen.com 1:00 Announcements Take the Relations Decisions Lab survey and click Participants>Open Relationship survey if you are currently monogamous and looking to open up your relationship We’ll be at Southwest Love Fest next month! 3:15 Ask Benjamin Shenker, a poly lawyer Listeners call and write in to ask: Besides an LLC, how can more than two people own property together? (LLC, partnership, corporation, trust or a tenancy in common) If my ex has remarried in a more traditional arrangement and my long-term poly partner is married (not to me), does that put me at risk of losing custody of my kids? Is claiming a second legal marriage the only way to be prosecuted for polygamy? What are some of the ways to get marriage benefits without being legally married? Find him at polyamory.law or on Twitter at @polyamorylawyer or Facebook at Law Office of Benjamin Shenker. NCSF is a resource if you need help with child custody issues. 31:00 How to make this podcast better Questions? Comments? Feedback? Email polyweekly@gmail.com and attach an audio comment or call the listener comment line at 802-505-POLY. Friend us on Twitter or Facebook, leave a comment here. Check out Poly Weekly podcasts at polyweekly.libsyn.com. Share this with a friend or write a review on Apple Podcasts!  Our intro and outro music is courtesy of Pacemaker Jane, “Good Suspicions.”

On this episode of the Krypt we are going to get into the second half of our Consent podcast, with our main focus on Boundaries but first, I have to welcome my amazing co-host, Funsize.* A special shout out to Kuldrin, much of this podcast was written by Kuldrin, as he used to teach a class in boundaries during his tenure working in the psychological field. Much of this is actually just taken from those lessons and reformatted into show notes.* When we left off from part one of our two-part series on consent we were talking about the importance of being able to say no, and uphold our boundaries when it comes to consent. A boundary is defined as a dynamic line separating an individual's internal environment and external environment while varying in permeability and flexibility. This also applies to a line between others in that environment. Purposes and Types of BoundariesPurposes are to facilitate separation and individuation and to assist the individual’s adaptation to the environment. For BDSM this means that you will use these personal boundaries to maintain your personal self, and what you are willing to consent to. Types of boundaries can be broken down into:Ridged open which can be considered your soft limits Ridged closed, these are similar to your hard limits.Flexible or the things you might be open to, and things you are willing to negotiate.You need to learn what your appropriate boundaries are, how to set them, and how to recognize and respect the boundaries of others.How to identify your own boundaries.Become aware of your needs. You can’t expect others to respect or know what your boundaries are if you don’t know them yourself. Get support. Having others who will support you and help you uphold those boundaries is an important step. Many times you can even find a protector to help you in this capacity. Communicate effectively. Whether it’s expressing an interest or negotiating your limits, this has always been an important skill. For more information on the subject check out our episode on effective communication. Be realistic. Where boundaries start.Boundaries are natural. Infants start to develop flexible boundaries at 6 months old. Boundaries are developed and set before age 3. Have you ever looked at an infant in the eyes and it staired back briefly just before closing its eyes or turning its head? It did this because the stimulation became too much. Thus it set a boundary.People with healthy boundaries have limits and recognize what they are, know what they will or will not do and they know what they will or will not allow others to do.Teaching others how to treat you within the BDSM dynamic boundaries. Training is a big part of this. Not only do you have general training, but with each new relationship you have to train yourself and your partner as to how to be treated, and how to treat them. Again communicate your boundaries. Listen and respect the communications of others as well. And remember that not all communications of these boundaries is vocal. A person may be demonstrating a personal boundary via silent cues so try to always be observant of your surroundings. When boundaries aren’t respected. When boundaries aren’t respected, and we are faced with consent violations what can we do?If your consent has been violated, first determine for yourself if the person has made an honest mistake, or if this is a case of abuse. Recognize that you are not to blame in either case. Seek support from those around you. Communicate your feelings.Take your time. The simple fact is if you have been abused it will take time to heal, physically, mentally, and emotionally. The only person who can say whether it has been enough or too much time for this process is you. Rushing can often do more harm than good in these instances. What can you do if someone you know has had their consent violated?Give them time.Listen but never ask or demand that they talk about what has happened. Believe what they say. We each individually set our own personal boundaries and we are the only ones capable of saying whether those boundaries have been crossed. Do not rush to be their saviors. Often we can find ourselves wanting to be the saviors for those around us, especially if we have taken a role as a protector, but we also need to remember that protecting someone is something which that person also has to consent to. Going off to fight a battle for someone who does not consent to it can be just as harmful to that person as the original consent violation was. And now we’re going to dip into the hardest question of all; what do you do if you have been the one who violated someone’s consent?Be honest with yourself as to whether or not you intended the violation. If it is a case in which you made an honest mistake then you should apologise sincerely, and offer understanding. Understanding comes in many different forms; you will need to understand that your actions have affected someone who placed some level of trust in you, and that you may need to make further amends. Often you will have make a greater effort to regain that person’s trust, using patience and communication every step of the way. And finally you can forgive yourself for mistake, so that you can hopefully learn from it in the future. If it was not a mistake….Start by owning what you have done. Denying that you abused and mistreated another purposefully will only make things worse. Do not think you will live your life without consequences for your misdeeds. Do not allow yourself this choice again. Do not expect others to treat you with the courtesy or respect you have refused to show someone else. Other worthwhile notes on consent within our lifestyle. Physical boundaries ie condoms. Condoms are an important boundary for many as they reduce both the risk of pregnancy and that of STIs and STDs. There was actually a law about the removal of condoms before or during a sexual act without your partner's knowledge, an act known as stealthing, added in California back in May 2017, which added that once stealthing has happened the act is no longer considered consensual. The NCSF, ALI Project, and Consent Counts. The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom or NCSF has been coordinating the Consent Counts project in a BDSM community worldwide effort in education and activism in order to offer legal protection against consent violations. The American Law Institute has been working in conjunction with this to change the Moral Penal Code to decriminalize consensual BDSM. What this means for all of us is that for most states in the U.S. and several other countries, whether we consent to the activities we are engaging in or not, they are still considered legally reprehensible. But we will be digging more into this topic during our BDSM and the law episode later on this season. Well that wraps up our consent series. If you have any questions or comments join in the conversation in our Fetlife group Kuldrins Kyrpt. And now… A final note or two.I’d like to thank our Executive Producer Jeremiah, Our Senior Producer Matt, Producer Missy Lynn and our Jr. Producers K-2SO, Irish Mt. Dragon and The Accidental Trucker. If you would like to become one of our show producers go to our website, https://kuldrinskrypt.com/supportme to get that information.Second, I’d like to talk BDSM contracts for their donation of their beautiful 25 page soft and hard bound M/s and D/s contracts.. http://bdsmcontracts.org coupon code: kuldrin20 for a 20% discount on all purchases.And finally, I’d like to thank http://whippingstripes.com my personal maker of leather and paracord impact toys. NEXT WEEK’S AGENDANext on The Krypt we are going to dive into . In the meantime go to kuldrinskrypt.com for shownotes, how to subscribe information, and the link to Fetlife group so you can take part in the conversation and be eligible for giveaways. While you’re there click on support us to because a patreon supporter.Contact info:Email: Sir@kuldrinskrypt.com / funsize@kuldrinskrypt.comFetlife Group: https://fetlife.com/groups/159275Fb: Kuldrin FireTwitter: @MasterKuldrinInstagram: kuldrinfirePatreon: kuldrinskryptPaypal: MasterKuldrinhttp://kuldrinskrypt.com/contactresourceOutro: This has been Master Kuldrin and Funsize for kuldrinskrypt.com: Unearth the Truth

The NYC scene is the latest group to grab the torches and drag everyone down in a circular-fring-squad of accusations and innuendo. Let's talk about that.

This week Woody & the Beast have their annual talk with Susan Wright of the NCSF. With all the news of high profile men, finally having to admit the sins of their past and as the result, they loose their jobs. High profile jobs, news anchors, senators, movie actors and producers. How’s next the President? Susan gives perspective on this sign of the times. Susan Wright spends the bulk of her time acting as an educator and advocate for people who have been persecuted for their sexual preferences. She does this through her work with the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom — which she founded — and through a multitude of other projects. In the other half of her life, she has published over 30 novels over the course of her writing career, many of them sexually charged fantasy novels. Considering her output, you’d assume she’d have no time left over after she finished plotting out storylines, writing manuscripts, and making her way through the editing process. Note: This show was recorded just before Senator Franken stepped down. http://kinkycast.com/archive/2017-archive/203---susan-wright---ncsf--.html

This week, my guest is Executive Wellness Coach and Specialist in Functional Medicine and Nutritional Neuroscience, Anthony DiClementi. On this episode, we discuss Anthony’s mindset “biohacks,” which are tips he shares to strategically change your internal environment and optimize mental and physical performance. It is possible to train your mind and develop habits in such a way that will transform your life. Join us for information that will get you started on a better path today!

We chatted with Ruby Bouie Johnson about Oppression, Suppression, and Subjugation of Sexuality in her life as a black woman. The challenges she faced throughout her life. What inspired her to create PollyDallas? Some may not like the conversation, it is ok. We love making everyone think about the dark side of Human Sexuality. We are here to start a conversation and make you think outside the box and/or your comfort zone. Ruby Bouie Johnson is a clinical social worker and sex therapist who has 14 years of experience in a variety of behavioral health settings. Currently, she is private practice in Plano, Texas. Over the last 4 years, Ruby has been specializing in kinky, polyamorous, and open relationships as well as sexually- and gender-fluid clients. Ruby has a strong family and group theoretical and intervention skill set. She is able to work with triads, quads, and polycules with power dynamics and communication problems. Ruby has published in various journals and in the African American Encyclopedia on Criminology, she has presented at Kinky Kollege, Consent Summit, Association of Black Sexologists and Clinicians, American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, and her proposal was recently accepted by National Sex Education Conference. Mrs. Johnson is a contributor for Huffington Post, is on faculty for the Kink Knowledgeable Program, and serves on the board for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. Ruby is the CEO, Founder, and organizer for PolyDallas Millennium LLC. Ruby has a hub of information at www.blacksexgeek.net or www.facebook.com/blacksexgeekTwitter @polydallas2015 and @blacksexgeek

We chatted with Ruby Bouie Johnson about Oppression, Suppression, and Subjugation of Sexuality in her life as a black woman. The challenges she faced throughout her life. What inspired her to create PollyDallas? Some may not like the conversation, it is ok. We love making everyone think about the dark side of Human Sexuality. We are here to start a conversation and make you think outside the box and/or your comfort zone. Ruby Bouie Johnson is a clinical social worker and sex therapist who has 14 years of experience in a variety of behavioral health settings. Currently, she is private practice in Plano, Texas. Over the last 4 years, Ruby has been specializing in kinky, polyamorous, and open relationships as well as sexually- and gender-fluid clients. Ruby has a strong family and group theoretical and intervention skill set. She is able to work with triads, quads, and polycules with power dynamics and communication problems. Ruby has published in various journals and in the African American Encyclopedia on Criminology, she has presented at Kinky Kollege, Consent Summit, Association of Black Sexologists and Clinicians, American Association of Sex Educators, Counselors, and Therapists, and her proposal was recently accepted by National Sex Education Conference. Mrs. Johnson is a contributor for Huffington Post, is on faculty for the Kink Knowledgeable Program, and serves on the board for the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom. Ruby is the CEO, Founder, and organizer for PolyDallas Millennium LLC. Ruby has a hub of information at www.blacksexgeek.net or www.facebook.com/blacksexgeekTwitter @polydallas2015 and @blacksexgeek

This week Woody & the Beast chat with Susan Wright, on the topic of our kinky freedoms in the upcoming political climate. Susan founded the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom in 1997, and currently serves as spokesperson. Susan has presented over a hundred seminars for professional organizations, Universities and community groups on discrimination against kinky people, BDSM vs. Abuse, and the media influence on the persecution of alternative sexuality. Susan has also conducted several surveys documenting discrimination and violence against BDSM practitioners as well as consent practices and attitudes. She directed the successful DSM-5 Revision Project that helped convince the American Psychiatric Association to depathologize consensual BDSM behaviors in 2013, and she coordinated the SM Policy Reform Project for the National Organization for Women (NOW) which resulted in rescinding their anti-SM policy at their national conference in 1999. (www.ncsfreedom.org) Susan is a USA Today Bestselling author who began her writing career in 1993, and has published more than 30 novels and nonfiction books on art and popular culture with Pocket Books, Penguin Group, St. Martin’s Press and Kensington. (www.susanwright.info) http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2016-archive---episodes-101/151---december-23-2016--.html

This week Woody and Leigh dive into the deep end and welcome Sarah Avraham, an attorney from Atlanta. Sarah is a lifestyle attorney and is on the NCSF list of Kinky Aware Professionals. Poly families often form with little regard to potential legal problems the future may bring. Sarah covers a wide swath of issues that face all couples, triads and more. Take notes, there are a lot of gems in this show that could keep you out of trouble. Also known as Attorney Lady Steele, she is a wealth of knowledge. http://www.kinkycast.com/archive/2016-archive---episodes-101/150---december-16-2016--.html

An acronym is a very powerful literary device. They always hint to the additional information contained within. They can be humorous, convenient, downright silly, or incredibly educational. Join Sir H and alyce in their exploration of the acronym NCSF and learn why they would be considered a part of the Delta Force of the BDSM … Continue reading Episode 7: NCSF Delta Forces →

  Activist, sexual adventurer and lawyer Yandy joins us this week for an engaging discussion on how sociolinguistics ties into texting and cruising, alongside the ways sexual communities can truly care for their own in cases of sexual violence. From Mad Max feminism to traveling predators, Occupy Wall Street to making kink a safe place to play, we explore how to be ourselves while finding archetypes and inspiration to be even better people.   *** Passion And Soul Podcast: iTunes Subscription: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/passion-soul-podcast-by-lee/id840372122 RSS Feed: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com/rss Past MP3 files: http://passionandsoul.libsyn.com PassionAndSoul Audio Page: http://passionandsoul.com/audio Stitcher: http://www.stitcher.com/podcast/erotic-awakening-podcast/passion-and-soul Erotic Awakening Network: http://www.eroticawakening.com/podcast Yandy Contact Information: Fetlife: https://fetlife.com/users/260393 Links, Events, People and Books Mentioned: Myth: http://mythpartynyc.com/ Amorous Revolt: http://amorousrevolt.com/ It's Complicated: the social lives of networked teens: http://www.danah.org/books/ItsComplicated.pdf Coral Mallow: http://coralmallow.com/ The Good Men Project: http://goodmenproject.com/ Mad Max- Fury Road feminist critique: http://www.buzzfeed.com/lauriepenny/the-fast-and-the-feminist Cliff Pervocravy – The analogy of the missing stair: http://pervocracy.blogspot.com/2012/06/missing-stair.html Thomas Miller, Yes Means Yes Blog: https://yesmeansyesblog.wordpress.com/ Restorative Justice: http://www.restorativejustice.org/university-classroom/01introduction National Lawyers Guild: https://www.nlg.org/ NYPD Cannibal Cop: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/news/nypd-cannibal-cop/ NYPD sex worker sexual assaults: http://condommonologues.com/walking-while-trans/ Consent Culture http://www.consentculture.com/ NCSF: http://ncsfreedom.org/ Consent Counts Program: https://ncsfreedom.org/key-programs/consent-counts/consent-counts.html Playing Well With Others: Your Guide to Discovering, Exploring and Navigating the BDSM, Kink and Leather Communities: http://www.amazon.com/Playing-Well-Others-Discovering-Communities/dp/0937609587/ref=as_li_ss_tl?ie=UTF8&tag=pass-20 Annie Danger: http://www.anniedanger.com/tattooart/ New York Toy Collective: https://newyorktoycollective.com/ David Wraith Episode of Passion And Soul Podcast: http://passionandsoul.com/audio/wraith-podcast Additional Resources: The Revolution Starts at Home: Combating Partner Abuse in Activist Communities https://lgbt.wisc.edu/documents/Revolution-starts-at-home.pdf Supporting a Survivor of Sexual Assault, from the Ubuntu Collective https://iambecauseweare.files.wordpress.com/2007/02/survivor-support-booklet1.pdf Philly Stands Up: Inside the Politics and Poetics of Transformative Justice and Community Accountability in Sexual Assault Situations https://communityaccountability.files.wordpress.com/2012/06/philly-stands-up.pdf INCITE Community Accountability Working Document http://mail.incite-national.org/page/community-accountability-working-document Creative Intervention's Toolkit -- this is enormous! http://www.creative-interventions.org/tools/toolkit/ Safe/Ward guides for community members and leaders: http://kittystryker.com/2011/07/safeward-a-what-you-can-do-guide-for-community-members/ Lee's Upcoming Events/Appearances: http://passionandsoul.com/appearances/ Lee Harrington Contact Information: http://www.PassionAndSoul.com http://www.FetLife.com/passionandsoul http://twitter.com/#!/PassionAndSoul   https://www.facebook.com/lee.harringon https://www.facebook.com/passionandsoul

Well the seasons have certainly changed… and it was warm and sunny for the past couple weeks. And with Spring coming, so are a lot of other Columbus events meetings and gatherings! So we decided to jump right in with some Easter BSing! We are starting off the events with The AIS Un-Conference - coming the weekend of April 24-26! But since we have some time before that, let’s get in some BSing! On this month’s episode of the Kinky & Curious Podcast – BSing with Barak & Sheba. We chit chat about most of the stuff that we have been doing over the past month… This time, we BS’d so much we didn’t even get to a question! But we did talk a lot about the Columbus Space, and how little time is left to jump into the The Columbus Space Fund Plus we talked about our trip to Baltimore for the NCSF Coalition Partner Meeting. Then, our amazing hosts out there, the FemDom Fund Raiser for the NCSF, The Baltimore Playhouse, the Charm City Playspace, and how much crab we ate! Plus we talk about Barak and the “Itis,” How Sheba won’t swallow, and how much time we are driving around town looking for a Brick and Mortar Location… Plus – we BS as much as we can about The Columbus Space! So join us for some fun, some weird, wacky and kinky silliness! Check it out and let us know what you think!  Twistedly,
Barak & Sheba  

This week, Dan & dawn talk to Jsin, producer of Beat Me In St Louis as well as new board member of the National Collation of Sexual Freedom on the NCSF and its mission, and why we should care. Plus the ramble about aspects of the community in general.      Plus! The best tentacle pics ever? Check these out from Vlad_Gansovsky at https://fetlife.com/users/850017/pictures

Recently the Sex is Fun! crew experienced a situation in their communities where someone was accused of criminal sexual behavior. Witnessing this situation and the difficulty on all sides brought the topic of sexual assault and rape to the forefront. We realized this topic was important to cover because it happens in a lot of sexual communities and groups of friends. This episode is meant to provoke thought on how individuals and communities can make thoughtful and proactive choices to keep people safer.Resources:Rape, Abuse, and Incest National Network (RAINN) - http://www.rainn.org/National Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC) - http://www.nsvrc.org/United States Department of Justice Office on Violence Against Women - http://www.ovw.usdoj.gov/areas-focus.htmlNational Coalition for Sexual Freedom - https://ncsfreedom.org/NCSF pocket reference for dealing with law enforcementListen to the show now!Visit our sponsors!GreatSexGames.comThe Smitten Kitten: https://www.smittenkittenonline.com/Call us: 651-560-6969Email us: laura [at] sexisfun [dot] net | rick [at] sexisfun [dot] net | coochie [at] sexisfun [dot] netVisit our blog: http://sif.sexisfun.netCheck out our forum: http://greatsexgames.com/forums/Join us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/76698125624/Follow us on Twitter: http://twitter.com/sexisfunpodcast | http://twitter.com/sexisfuncoochie Friend us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/gayrick | https://www.facebook.com/LauraRadSiF | https://www.facebook.com/sexisfuncoochieFriend us on FetLife: https://fetlife.com/coochie | https://fetlife.com/laurarad | https://fetlife.com/gayrickImage: FreeDigitalPhotos.net

On this months BS'ing with Barak & Sheba, they are coming to you live from deep in the bowels of the Fortress of Solitude and handle questions about… ~ What they heck is an AIS one night party?  ~ What got you into producing these events and what kind of hassles did you encounter? ~ 50 Shades of Grey - awesome of not?  ~ We are new, what toys do you have? Find important?   Plus! They play whack-a-mole, talk about Scattegories (Pictionary with poop?), neighbors complaining about naked people swinging in the trees, wings with gears, Fundraising for NCSF, Barak giving Sheba the finger, deepthroating the microphone, and TONS more!  Originally released as : EA213_-_BSing_from_the_Fortress_of_Solitude.mp3

On this months BS'ing with Barak & Sheba, they are coming to you live from deep in the bowels of the Fortress of Solitude and handle questions about… ~ What they heck is an AIS one night party?  ~ What got you into producing these events and what kind of hassles did you encounter? ~ 50 Shades of Grey - awesome of not?  ~ We are new, what toys do you have? Find important? Plus! They play whack-a-mole, talk about Scattegories (Pictionary with poop?), neighbors complaining about naked people swinging in the trees, wings with gears, Fundraising for NCSF, Barak giving Sheba the finger, deepthroating the microphone, and TONS more! 

SHOULD YOU HAVE PROBLEMS HEARING THIS SHOW, PLEASE EMAIL RADIOSHOW@AURAHOUSE.COM AND WE'LL EMAIL YOU A FREE MP3 OF THE ORIGINAL BROADCAST. Today's guest: Christina Leon ~ President of Spectral Journeys and founder of Colorgized Wellness, a program which incorporates colored light and affirmations with exercising and yoga. Christina has been in the fitness industry since 1986 and holds certifications in Group Exercise (step, aerobics, kickboxing, Spinning, yoga). She has been a Certified Personal Trainer since 1987, holds three certifications (NASM, NCSF, and AFAA) and is also a certified Color Therapist and Reiki Healer. Her mission and goal is to promote awareness in color healing combined with chakra functioning and overall wellness. Host Eleyne Austen Sharp is an author, color therapist, spiritual aromatherapist and the director of Aura House, a color therapy training and wellness center. She is the creator of the Lightbodies, Angel Aromatherapy, ColorAscension and Color Empowerment product lines. Visit her website at http://www.colortherapyschool.com. (This show is pre-recorded; please email your questions for guests to radioshow@aurahouse.com.)

Graydancer interviews Ava Amnesia from the Studio Chicago about how to find and negotiate with quality doms. Also, learn about the Pie-a-Dom fundraiser for the NCSF and how you can plant one on Graydancer!

Listener feedback on the advantages of being a rope switch when learning how to rig, and thoughts on types of rope to use. Talking about Dark Odyssey (with special thanks to native guide Naiia, who was often naked as native guides should be) he mentions some of the presenters and friends there: Lochai & K Barbara Carellas Dossie Easton 10 Steve Morgan Calico (his super-awesome demo bottom) Tristan Taormino & C Sarah Sloane Ayem Willing MOLLENA!! (whom he has a bit of a crush on, as well as devious, devious plans...) Extreme Restraints toys are reviewed: the deluxe adjustable nipple clamps (pictured above), the circular nipple clamps, and the ones every rope top should have in their bag (but not for the reason you think!): the Nipplettes Vibrating Nipple Clamps! Also, a review of the tres chic Extreme Anal Jewelry. Feb. 20th was Lolita Wolf's birthday, and to celebrate, Michael the Artist is donating all proceeds from his two stores (Zazzle and Spreadshirt) to the NCSF! A great way to buy rope schwag for a good cause and make Lolita happy. Speaking of making Lolita happy, the main feature of this ropecast is the interview with the Leather Yenta herself, including the actual entry of Graydancer into her 100 Divas Spanking List!

Dan shares some information about the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom, and why supporting them is important.