Surviving Separation - Family, Divorce & the Kids

Money is a common battleground in separation, but it's not always a fair fight. Do you know everything about the shared finances between you and your former partner? Were you in charge of the banking? Or did you blindly trust them to pay the bills and make the investments? Do you know where all the money is and where it has gone? In this latest episode of the Surviving Separation podcast, TGB family law partner Wendy Barry talks about why anyone considering separation must take an interest in the family finances, how to protect yourself from any nasty surprises and why knowledge is, indeed, power.

The impact of a nasty divorce on children and former spouses is well known. But what about a good divorce? What does a good divorce look like and how do you do it? For the first time, Australian researchers are looking into what it takes for couples with kids to separate well. In this latest episode of "Surviving Separation" TGB family law partner Jane Miller welcomes special guest Dr Priscilla Dunk-West, from Flinders University, to discuss her research and advice for separating couples to make the road ahead smoother.

Controversial politician Pauline Hanson wants to see all couples have a pre-marital agreement in the belief it will fix the backlog in the Family Court. Tindall Gask Bentley family law partner Jane Miller explains pre-marital agreements and how they aren't the silver bullet some believe them to be.

Tensions can run high in families at Christmas, but what do you do when you are separated and you and your partner have to share time with your children? In this episode we are lucky enough to be joined by Virginia Leeuwenberg and Jo Wilmot from Relationships Australia SA. Virginia and Jo offered some incredible insights into what parents of separated families should focus on at Christmas as well as some tips on how to handle situations should tensions rise. TGB partner and accredited Family Law specialist Jane Miller shed some light on the Family Court process around Christmas custody and what legal avenues are open to parents if a compromise can't be found. The Surviving Separation podcast is brought to you by TGB Lawyers, a leading Australian family law firm. For more information and to sign up for our newsletter, please visit: tgb.com.au/podcasts To arrange an appointment with a lawyer, please visit: tgb.com.au Please be aware that discussions on this podcast are general in nature, true at the time of recording and should not be considered legal advice. If you are facing a legal issue, seek advice from a lawyer specific to your circumstances. Hosted by Michael Diggins

Determining how assets should be divided between a separating couple is difficult enough, but even more so for those in agriculture, aquaculture, the wine industry and other primary industries. Business structures are often complex, climate and market factors have a significant impact, while many couples are often "asset rich yet cash poor” or reliant on their property as their sole source of income. For some, the family farm has been passed down through generations and it is not just the separating couple who has an interest in it. TGB family and divorce lawyers Melanie Tilmouth and Diana Dichiera talk about the challenges of agricultural property settlements, tips and traps, and what action can be taken to simplify the process. The Surviving Separation podcast is brought to you by TGB Lawyers, a leading Australian family law firm. For more information and to sign up for our newsletter, please visit: tgb.com.au/podcasts To arrange an appointment with a lawyer, please visit: tgb.com.au Please be aware that discussions on this podcast are general in nature, true at the time of recording and should not be considered legal advice. If you are facing a legal issue, seek advice from a lawyer specific to your circumstances. Hosted by Andrew Montesi.

For just about everyone facing a relationship breakdown, the psychological and emotional toll is enormous. Leading psychologist Tim Dansie joins TGB Partner and Accredited Family Law Specialist Wendy Barry to talk about the mental health impact of separation. Tim shares the "grief process", the key stages and the risks to people who are not effectively managing their mental health through divorce. Wendy says mental health is a factor in most separation matters, and it can affect legal proceedings. Most importantly, Tim outlines key tips for building a mental health plan to help people cope with the traumatic process, and also recover. For people facing a relationship breakdown, this episode is a must listen. TIm Dansie: (08) 82691818 https://tdpsych.com The Surviving Separation podcast is brought to you by TGB Lawyers, a leading Australian family law firm. For more information and to sign up for our newsletter, please visit: tgb.com.au/podcasts To arrange an appointment with a lawyer, please visit: tgb.com.au Please be aware that discussions on this podcast are general in nature, true at the time of recording and should not be considered legal advice. If you are facing a legal issue, seek advice from a lawyer specific to your circumstances. Hosted by Andrew Montesi.