Podcasts about Family court

If you've ever heard the dreaded words, “I love you but I am not in love with you,” or, more bluntly, “I want a divorce,” you know what follows is a mental and emotional rollercoaster of epic proportion. But what you probably don't know is what to do if that day comes and what your rights might be when it comes to protecting yourself, your money, and your relationship with your children. My guest today, Attorney David Pissara, has made it his life's work to help men navigate what is likely the most difficult part of his life – post-divorce. Today, we talk about how to avoid conflict during these times while simultaneously protecting your rights, the emotional manipulation many men face and how to confront it, whether or not the family court system is biased and what to expect when dealing with the courts, what indicators to be on the lookout for you to recognize if a divorce is pending, and even how AI may change family law. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:17 – Introduction and Context 01:05 – Why Men Struggle in Divorce 02:58 – Men, Vulnerability, and Leadership 08:33 – Marriage as a Contract 12:37 – The Question of Fairness in Divorce Settlements 17:01 – What Men Should Look for in Women 20:18 – Predictors of Divorce and Commitment 21:27 – The Danger of Social Isolation 25:51 – Balancing Happiness and Sacrifice 28:15 – Feminism, Disney, and Unrealistic Expectations 31:12 – Dating Standards and Preferences 36:12 – The Dreaded “I Want a Divorce” Moment 37:00 – How Women Strategize Divorce 39:23 – Abuse vs. Violence in Relationships 43:40 – How Courts Handle Restraining Orders 46:06 – Why Men Rarely File Restraining Orders 49:40 – Civil vs. High-Conflict Divorces 52:02 – Should Men Stay or Leave the House? 54:38 – Resources for Fathers in Custody Battles 57:46 – Strategies for High-Conflict Personalities 59:39 – No-Fault Divorce and Its Impact 01:04:00 – Handling Loans and Slander in Divorce 01:06:52 – Bias in Family Courts and AI Judges 01:09:59 – Parental Alienation and Legal Strategy 01:11:00 – Wrap-Up and Post-Show Instructions Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready  

Send us a textDavid Pisarra wants to help fathers navigate their custody and divorce cases to secure more time with their kids. Like several previous Talking About Kids guests, David believes that the processes and systems can be easily biased against fathers, and David wants to help fathers overcome the obstacles. David and I discuss his perspective, his experience as a family law attorney, the dos and don'ts of family court, and Dad's Law School, David's online community that he designed to educate and support fathers. More information about David and Dad's Law School is at talkingaboutkids.com.

In this episode, Laurence Joss interviews Daniel Ryan, a family law attorney from the UK, discussing the complexities of the family court system, the importance of a child-centric approach, and the challenges faced by parents navigating custody battles. Daniel emphasizes the need for mediation and alternative dispute resolution, the financial strains on families, and the commercial nature of the legal system. He shares insights on how to prioritize children's needs and the importance of providing support to clients regardless of their financial situation.Key TakeawaysWhat you want is not necessarily what I'm going to pursue.Family court comes as a real shock to people.The family court system in the UK is so congested.People have stopped being reasonable.The court system is broken.It's about the money first and a justice setting second.He who has the most money will win the day.I can't afford to let you leave and potentially be slaughtered.We do keep looking for the holistic approach.I can't have somebody walk through the door and lose their children.Chapters00:00 - Introduction to Family Law and Child-Centric Approach03:02 - Understanding the Family Court System06:02 - Challenges in the Family Court System08:50 - Child-Centric Strategies in Family Law11:53 - Mediation and Alternative Dispute Resolution14:48 - Financial Strain and Access to Justice17:49 - The Commercial Nature of Family Law21:00 - The Impact of Resources on Custody Battles23:53 - Positive Changes and Client Progress26:55 - Conclusion and Reflections on Family LawIf you wish to connect with Lawrence Joss or any of the PA-A community members who have appeared as guests on the podcast:Email - familydisappeared@gmail.comLinktree: https://linktr.ee/lawrencejoss(All links mentioned in the podcast are available in Linktree)Please donate to support PAA programs:https://www.paypal.com/donate?hosted_button_id=SDLTX8TBSZNXSThis podcast is made possible by the Family Disappeared Team:Anna Johnson- Editor/Contributor/Activist/Co-hostGlaze Gonzales- Podcast ManagerConnect with Lawrence Joss:Website: https://parentalalienationanonymous.com/Email- familydisappeared@gmail.com

Attorney and former judge Michele Locke returns to our podcast, bringing her wealth of expertise in family law to illuminate the complex issue of parental alienation. Join us as we unpack the controversial behaviors that can drive a wedge between parents and children during divorce proceedings, using high-profile cases like that of Brad Pitt and Angelina Jolie to explore the spectrum of beliefs surrounding this topic. Michele shares her insights on the detrimental impacts of such behaviors on the family dynamic and stresses the paramount importance of focusing on the child's well-being amidst the chaos.Our conversation takes a deep dive into the intricate family dynamics of the "Brangelina" split, highlighting daughter Shiloh's experience as a mirror to the broader challenges faced by children in high-conflict divorces. We revisit pivotal events, such as the infamous plane incident that cast a long shadow over the family's legal battles. Through this lens, we discuss the often insurmountable challenges victims encounter in seeking justice and how these allegations can skew divorce proceedings and influence public perception.In tackling the emotional toll of parental alienation, we explore the nuanced concept of ambiguous grief experienced by alienated parents—a profound sense of loss without closure. Michele offers practical strategies for parents grappling with this heart-wrenching situation, emphasizing the varied approaches needed for different age groups. From maintaining communication to knowing when to step back, we provide guidance for navigating these troubled waters, understanding the growing trend of severed familial bonds, and contemplating the painful possibility of letting go when reconciliation seems out of reach.

It's brutal, but Tom Phillips brought this whole thing on himself. Yes, he was killed and that is a very hard and sad fact his kids are going to have to live with for their rest of their lives. Their father is dead. But, he shot a cop - an innocent local Constable who was trying to do his job. Tom Phillips also deprived his children of their mum, of any professional medical attention, of any formal education, for four years. Ember was five when they were taken to the bush and hasn't been to school since - she is now 9. The kids were essentially used as helpers as their dad carried out bank robberies, burglaries, and break-ins. These are not the actions of a father who wants the best for his kids. Any parent who loves their children knows you don't put them in harm's way. Much will be made of the custody situation in the coming days, but the fact is we don't know much detail about this. and likely never will. The full story won't come out. When he went bush the second time, Tom was in breach of a custody order. But that's about all we know because Family Court cases are wrapped up in suppression like Fort Knox in this country to protect the kids. Fair enough too. But whatever happened in court, before court, no matter how unfair or unjust a case may be, if you take the law into your own hands, run away with your own kids, deprive them of an education and contact with society for four years, then the outcomes are yours to own. And yours alone. The outcomes here are bittersweet. A father is dead. A police Constable is in hospital lucky to be alive. And three children have survived, at least physically, a dangerous situation they should never have been out in in the first place.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

David Pisarra and Matthew Brickman discuss the Top 30% of High-Conflict Family Law Cases involving people with borderline personality disorders and the mental manipulation they utilize in the family court system.David Pisarra is the founder of Union of Dads, with over 25 years in Family Law, focusing on helping fathers in custody and divorce cases. He's developed a supportive community with a social media reach of 125,000 dads aged 24-50, aiming to empower them in being active participants in their children's lives.At Dad's Law School, he lends practical skills for dads to succeed in Family Court, offering comprehensive online guidance and in-person trainings like his Dad's Badass Bootcamp.https://mensfamilylaw.comhttps://www.unionofdads.com-------------------------------------------------------------------------- 

What if you could transform fear-based beliefs into a source of empowerment? Join us on a journey of self-discovery and healing with the guidance of transformational healer, Lisa Watson. Lisa shares her groundbreaking reparenting method, designed to help women break free from toxic patterns and codependency, all while fostering generational healing. By reprogramming subconscious beliefs through deep inner child work, women can prioritize self-care and fundamentally shift their life's trajectory.Embark on the path to self-awareness and emotional mastery with us as we explore the power of becoming a silent observer of your own thoughts and emotions. Discover how identifying and understanding patterns rooted in past experiences can empower you to choose different thoughts and reactions, ultimately building new neural pathways for positivity and emotional growth. In a world shaped by patriarchal systems and societal programming, community support becomes an indispensable tool for navigating these transformative changes, especially for women.Our conversation with Lisa also touches on the often overlooked importance of inner child healing for both men and women, challenging the societal norms that discourage seeking help. By addressing systemic issues that perpetuate disempowering beliefs, we highlight the struggles faced by men in toxic relationships, showing that these challenges transcend gender. Lisa offers a message of hope and underscores the importance of solidarity and community support, reminding listeners that no one has to face their challenges in isolation. Together, we can reclaim personal power and authenticity, fostering a sense of connectedness and shared strength.

Send Us a Message (include your contact info if you'd like a reply)Divorce coaching isn't just for one type of professional anymore. What began as a niche service has evolved into a versatile skill set embraced by lawyers, mediators, paralegals, therapists, financial professionals, mortgage lenders, realtors and entrepreneurs—each using these powerful tools in unique ways.For attorneys, divorce coach certification addresses a critical gap in legal education. While law school prepares them for legal analysis and courtroom advocacy, it rarely teaches the soft skills needed to manage highly emotional clients making life-altering decisions. Certified divorce coach training provides structured frameworks for helping clients regulate emotions, clarify values, and make informed choices. Lawyers who complete our program consistently report more productive client meetings, less time spent on emotional management, and greater professional satisfaction. As one family law attorney with decades of experience told us, "This is the best continuing education I've ever taken."Mediators find that coaching skills dramatically improve client preparation and engagement. The ability to help clients articulate needs, understand interests (rather than positions), and develop realistic expectations transforms mediation outcomes. Meanwhile, paralegals and other legal support professionals discover new career opportunities, with some boutique firms now creating dedicated in-house divorce coach positions—a trend that benefits both clients and legal teams by reducing stress and improving service delivery.Beyond the legal field, our certification attracts therapists seeking to expand their practice, financial professionals wanting to better understand the emotional components of financial decisions during divorce, and entrepreneurs building innovative support services. What unites this diverse community is a commitment to transforming how people experience divorce—reducing unnecessary conflict, preserving co-parenting relationships, and empowering clients to make thoughtful decisions during a challenging life transition.Whether you're looking to enhance your existing professional skills or create an entirely new career path, DCA's revolutionary divorce coach certification offers a structured methodology grounded in alternative dispute resolution principles. Our approach teaches that while conflict in divorce is inevitable, combat is optional. Ready to be part of this professional revolution? Our next certification cohorts begin in October, and we'd love to welcome you to this growing community of practice-changing professionals. Learn more about DCA® or any of the classes or events mentioned in this episode at the links below:Website: www.divorcecoachesacademy.comInstagram: @divorcecoachesacademyLinkedIn: divorce-coaches-academyEmail: DCA@divorcecoachesacademy.com

Discover the transformative power of mediation in high-conflict divorce cases with Joe Dillon, founder of Equitable Mediation Services. Ever wondered if mediation can work even when tensions are running high? Explore how Joe's background in finance and negotiation informs his belief that mediation, when approached with good faith and optimism, can be an effective alternative to the courtroom for the majority of cases, even those involving domestic violence or financial abuse. Joe shares personal experiences and professional insights, highlighting the potential for mediation to heal emotional wounds and foster a healthier co-parenting relationship.Unravel the complexities of navigating divorce mediation as we tackle misconceptions head-on. Mediation isn't just a one-and-done solution—it's a process that requires patience, preparation, and commitment. Joe contrasts mediation with therapy while acknowledging its therapeutic benefits. He makes a compelling case for viewing life forward, not backward, and emphasizes why attorney involvement is crucial in complex scenarios. Two-hour sessions are ideal, allowing mediators to stay effective and clients to feel supported without being overwhelmed. Realize the necessity of removing emotions from negotiations and treating divorce mediation similar to a business transaction to minimize conflict and focus on data-driven decisions.Prepare to be empowered with practical steps and advice on making mediation a first choice rather than a last resort. Learn how to prepare for mediation by creating budgets, lists of assets, and keeping children's needs at the forefront. Joe Dillon also explores the challenges when one spouse is reluctant to divorce and how to communicate needs proactively. Find out why mediation agreements often hold weight in court and how they can streamline the divorce process, especially in overburdened judicial systems. We wrap up by offering guidance on whether mediation is suitable for you, accompanied by a heartfelt reminder that, with the right support and mindset, a better life awaits beyond the turbulence of divorce.

What impact does parental conflict during and after divorce have on children? Dr. Karen Molano, a distinguished child psychologist and early childhood specialist, joins us to offer insights into this pressing issue. You'll discover the transformative concept of multi-dimensional parenting, a holistic strategy designed to meet the needs of both children and families. Dr. Molano shares how early bonding—from conception through the first few critical years—shapes a child's worldview and relationships. Learn practical strategies to help safeguard your children from being caught in the crossfire of extreme divorce situations and how to maintain a nurturing, supportive relationship even across distances.This episode also uncovers the emotional intricacies faced by parents and children when a marriage ends. We stress the importance of creating a safe space for emotional expression and the role of movement in emotional processing. From the power of a simple walk to the rhythmic solace found in cooking, discover how these activities can alleviate stress and promote well-being. Acknowledging that children often mirror their parents' emotions, we discuss the pitfalls of masking feelings and explore healthy ways to communicate, ensuring children aren't burdened with filling emotional voids left by their parents.Building resilience in children starts with parental modeling, and this episode highlights how accountability and openness can positively influence young minds. Even in challenging family dynamics, a supportive environment can equip children with essential social and emotional skills that are invaluable in adulthood. As we wrap up, we explore the profound idea of empowering children to address issues independently, fostering self-assurance and personal growth. Strengthening the connection with your children is crucial, and Dr. Molano offers advice on nurturing this bond from conception through the early years, building an enduring sense of safety and security.

Western Law student Zak Schopp joined 980 CFPL's Mike Stubbs to outline how Western Law School is helping individuals currently trying to navigate their way through Family Court.

    Slam The Gavel Podcast welcomes Stand With Meg to the show. Meg is a Mother of five and has been trapped in an ongoing family court battle for over 12 years. On January 29th, 2024, all five of her children were taken from her without a trial, Due Process, without cross-examining her accusers and despite Kansas DCF having cleared her of the allegations of emotional abuse, they still used the false allegations against her.    For over 18 months, Meg has lived the devastating reality of forced alienation, with little to no contact with her children. She is able to see her son, but only supervised visits that prove costly, while also paying a GAL to just observe.To Reach Out To Stand With Meg:  TikTok: standwithmegSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright infringement is subject to legal prosecution.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

   I took over the podcast to show everyone how to stay busy in stressful times. If you find yourself in family court, any court situation, or family dysfunction with no one by your side, it's best to stay busy and find joy in the little things.   Also, encouraging court watching and what to do when you see a judge or an attorney treat a Pro Se Litigant (someone who represents themselves) badly. This is explained in depth.To Reach Maryann Petri:  dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright infringement is subject to legal prosecution.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

Join us as we explore the critical role of financial professionals in divorce proceedings with Maggie Nielsen, a partner at Purse Strings. Maggie shares her insights on why having a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) can be a game-changer in managing the financial complexities of divorce. While attorneys are vital for legal matters, Maggie emphasizes that financial experts offer specialized knowledge on pre-tax and post-tax dollars, asset distribution, and long-term planning, often at a more cost-effective rate than legal counsel. We'll also discuss the benefits of assembling a comprehensive team, including a CDFA, a mortgage professional, and even a therapist, to ensure a holistic approach to navigating the emotional and financial challenges of divorce.Listen in as we highlight the importance of mediation and how financial professionals can provide leverage in understanding asset distribution and legal entitlements. We touch on the necessity of involving a forensic accountant in cases where assets may be hidden and the challenges faced by conflict-avoidant individuals who might settle prematurely. Maggie provides a roadmap for minimizing expenses and maximizing financial security during this life transition. With a focus on strategic decision-making and the importance of understanding every document before signing, this episode offers valuable resources and insights to guide you through the divorce process. Don't miss out on these essential tips for navigating divorce wisely and strategically, and be sure to explore the resources available on our website and Instagram for further support.

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David Pisarra is the founder of Union of Dads, with over 25 years in Family Law, focusing on helping fathers in custody and divorce cases. He's developed a supportive community with a social media reach of 125,000 dads aged 24-50, aiming to empower them in being active participants in their children's lives.At Dad's Law School, he lends practical skills for dads to succeed in Family Court, offering comprehensive online guidance and in-person trainings like his Dad's Badass Bootcamp.https://mensfamilylaw.comhttps://www.unionofdads.com-------------------------------------------------------------------------- 

What if breaking free from toxic relationship patterns was simpler than you thought? In our latest episode, we invite Johnny Fernandez to share his compelling journey from attorney to relationship expert. Drawing from his own tumultuous past, Johnny opens up about growing up with an abusive stepfather and how those early experiences shaped his understanding of love and intimacy. Together with his wife Laura, Johnny has dedicated over 20 years to helping women navigate the complexities of love, guiding them towards healthier, more fulfilling relationships.We explore the courage it takes to step into the unknown territory of healthy relationships. Johnny emphasizes the human need for genuine connection and the transformative power of supportive partnerships. He shares how being content with singlehood, when not rooted in fear, can also be a powerful and fulfilling choice. Through self-education and a willingness to embrace change, listeners learn how to unlock new doors to happiness and intimate connections. Real change, Johnny argues, comes from understanding and observing positive relationship examples, which can redefine our perceptions of intimacy.This episode is filled with personal stories and insights on breaking free from harmful cycles and the resilience required to cultivate a positive life vision. Johnny walks us through the process of rewiring our brains to seek stability over drama, showing how consistency and small gestures of love can be the bedrock of a fulfilling relationship. As we share stories of transformation, we express gratitude for those who contribute to healing and hope, looking forward to continuing this essential conversation in the future. Tune in if you want to be inspired by stories of change and find out how you too can transform your approach to love and relationships.

Need Single Parenting Tips? Did you know that over 30% of US families are run by single-parenting households? We all know that single parenting is a difficult job. However, children residing in single-parent homes usually have it more difficult because they are deprived of the full-time guidance and direction of two parents, which is so essential for their moral, spiritual, and character growth. Single Parenting and Risks Having worked in Family Court for several decades as a mediator, consent hearing […] The post Single Parenting Tips for Helping Your Kids appeared first on Christian Singles Advice | Christian Dating Advice Tips. Related posts: Single Moms Tips Podcast Single Parenthood Advice for Christians With Troubled Kids Single Parents Dating and their Kids Solo Parenting vs Single Parenting: Understanding the Difference Stress Reducers for Single Parents

Find the Full Video on our Patreon! Judge Mora reporting, in this special episode Judge Deni and I begin by reviewing some breaking evidence in a highly publicized lawsuit. We received a second secret recording of a vicious prank phone call one Mr. Dane made to a Mx. Jacques Gonsoulin, an act Gonsoulin argues caused 9 million in damages. The case appears to be open and shut...until Mr. Gonsoulin's conduct in the courtroom turns the entire case on its head. Who will walk out a free man? Will Dane be ordered to pay Gonsoulin 9 million dollars? Can you smoke mari*uana in a courtroom? Find out divas...

A crime without a motive. A detective who investigated the unthinkable. On September 2nd, 2001, a father murdered his three children, Jackson (6), Taylah (11 months), and Mikaylah (11 weeks). To this day, his motive remains unknown. Former Detective Carla Tomadini was on the frontline of the investigation. At the same time, she had two young children of her own. Carla spent nearly two decades in the force before becoming a solicitor with the Director of Public Prosecutions. Hear about that case and the impact it had on Carla, as she sat down with host Brent Sanders on this episode of Crime Insiders | REWIND. This content contains references to domestic violence and violence against children. Help is always available, dial 1800RESPECT on 1800 737 732. If this content affected you, the number for Lifeline is 131 114.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Slam The Gavel welcomes Senator Tammy Nichols from Idaho to the podcast. Senator Nichols (district 10) is a mother to five children. When she and other parents noticed an issue with Common Core in the school districts. That is when she started speaking to Representatives and Legislature, working with other organizations, then decided she should run for office. She also noticed a disconnect between the people and government. "People are supposed to be part of the process," states Senator Nichols.   Senator Nichols talked about the task force in Idaho regarding family court. She was hearing from parents who were telling their stories and experiences in family court. These were professional parents; veterans, nurses, (parents with no criminal records) with egregious family court stories. More people started reaching out.      We discussed their mind-blowing testimonies and the patterns that are affecting the process. Also, how a parent will spend years and hundreds of thousands of dollars to get their child back.      This was started as Arizona had started a task force as well. Idaho followed suit. This is a national issue that is taking place. Utah did a re-vamp on child custody issues last year. There are very concerning issues regarding the courts such as no oversight. Not a podcast to be missed.To Reach Senator Tammy Nichols: nicholsforidaho@gmail.com (survey is there)Supportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright infringement is subject to legal prosecution.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

Could conflict in divorce be as addictive as a bad habit? Join us as we explore this provocative idea with Christopher Anderson, co-founder of New Leaf Family. Discover how traditional divorce proceedings may be inadvertently fueling emotional and financial exhaustion, and learn about innovative approaches designed to help individuals break free from these cycles. Christopher shares how New Leaf Family's set monthly fee structure is designed to remove the incentive for prolonged disputes and instead guide clients toward a healthier, more amicable future.Imagine pulling yourself out of the divorce chaos with a clear vision of your future as your guiding light. In this episode, we emphasize the power of self-directed life planning, encouraging you to remain focused on your own goals. Christopher and I discuss the importance of distancing yourself from unhelpful influences, like a soon-to-be ex-spouse, and instead concentrating on creating a fulfilling life for yourself. This empowering approach brings clarity of purpose, offering strength and direction as you navigate through adversity.As we delve into the intricacies of parenting during a divorce, child safety emerges as an essential priority. Different parenting styles can present challenges, and it's crucial to take immediate action when safety is at stake. Christopher and I reflect on the importance of not only ensuring temporary safety but also instituting protective legal measures for long-term stability. By moving beyond reactive responses, we explore how creative and strategic thinking can cultivate a future that supports personal growth and the well-being of your children. Join us for this thought-provoking conversation that challenges conventional divorce paradigms and offers a path to a brighter future.

     Slam The Gavel welcomes Jay Hughes to the podcast. Jay Hughes has currently been volunteering as an Advisor for the NMFAO, the National Military Family Advocacy Organization.     Jay discussed how he and his mother have been treated regarding a defamation lawsuit and family court. He also talked openly about his mother's cancer diagnosis and how she is doing. To Reach Jay Hughes: www.NMFAO.org, jay@nmfao.org, jaynhughes@yahoo.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright infringement is subject to legal prosecution.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

Jacintha Field, affectionately known as Jay, founder of Happy Souls Kids, joins us from Melbourne, Australia, in an enlightening discussion on the art of emotional regulation and play therapy for both children and parents. Jay offers her seasoned expertise on how parents can maintain a calm demeanor to aid their children in managing emotions, especially amid challenging family dynamics. Through Jay's insights, you'll discover the nuanced roles of self-regulation and co-regulation, along with the healing power of play and art therapy, which help children express complex emotions creatively and effectively.We explore the intricacies of parenting in high-conflict situations, where understanding a child's true desires becomes paramount. Whether it's navigating the emotional landscape of birthdays or simply acknowledging a child's need for structured routines versus playtime with friends, Jay illuminates the vital role of a play therapist in interpreting children's needs. The conversation underscores the significance of spending undivided time with children to nurture empowerment and connection, offering reassurance that being present for your kids can make all the difference during tumultuous times.As we address the trials of co-parenting, Jay emphasizes the importance of self-care, emotional regulation, and setting firm boundaries to prevent burnout and resentment. Highlighting her personal journey, she encourages parents to prioritize their well-being while fostering a compassionate parenting style. The episode concludes with a heartening reminder of the power of connection, advocating for nurturing relationships and the joy of incorporating "yes days" to deepen bonds and gain insight into a child's world. Join us for a conversation filled with practical advice and heartfelt encouragement for navigating the complexities of modern parenting.

As my producer wrote in the margins of this week's material, the phrase ‘Collaborative Divorce' can seem, on its face, like an oxymoron. After all, whether it's a marriage, partnership, or friendship, the act of separating one's self from another person usually stems from an inability to collaborate in the first place. But over the last four decades, Dr. Honey Sheff has designed many of the systems to help shepherd families through the separation process in a way that serves everyone. After working the Family Courts for 30 years, she decided there had to be a better way to help families separate while still honoring the wishes of everyone involved. Among her many professional achievements, Dr. Sheff is responsible for helping create the parenting plan summary form that is now used statewide by mental health professionals and attorneys with divorcing couples. She and Mike discuss why more and more attorneys are choosing A.D.R. to help couples separate with civility, why she believes the worst place for any family is inside a courtroom, and why boundaries are not only necessary to protect your emotional wellbeing, but vital in preserving your ability to serve your clients.____________________________SHOWNOTES:Dr. Sheff on LinkedIn

Are you unknowingly caught in the cycle of narcissistic abuse, especially from a parent or partner?In this episode, experts Heather Quick, Hope Jay, and Lynn Catalano unpack how narcissism shows up in family life, co-parenting, and even courtrooms. If you've ever dealt with manipulation, gaslighting, or emotional chaos from someone close to you, this episode sheds light on what's really going on, and why it's not your fault.Discover how to spot narcissistic patterns before they take a toll on your mental healthLearn why narcissists become more controlling when children enter the pictureUnderstand the emotional impact on children—and how you can protect and support themPress play now to learn how to recognize narcissistic abuse, set boundaries, and reclaim your emotional power.Join us on our podcast as we navigate the complexities of marriage, divorce, separation, and all related legal and emotional aspects, including adultery, alimony, child support, spousal support, timesharing, custody battles, and the financial impact of dissolution of marriage.Interested in working with us? Fill out this form here to get started. Not quite ready? Interact with us on socials! Linktree: https://linktr.ee/FloridaWomensLawGroup Florida Women's Law Group Website: https://www.floridawomenslawgroup.com/Hope & Lynn's Links:Hope's website: https://centerforhopewny.org/ Lynn's website: https://www.lynncatalano.com/ The Narcissist Slayers Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/3c8JDoJ3VcbMVQLUFSG853The Narcissist Slayers Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/p/The-Narcissist-Slayers-Podcast-61555214505139/?locale=es_ES The Narcissist Slayers Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/narcslayerspod/ Disclaimer: This podcast is for informational purposes only and is not an advertisement for legal services. The information provided on this podcast is not intended to be legal advice. You should not rely on what you hear on this podcast as legal advice. If you have a legal issue, please contact a lawyer. The views and opinions expressed by the hosts and guests are solely those of the individuals and do not represent the views or opinions of the firms or organizations with which they are affiliated or the views or opinions of this podcast's advertisers. This podcast is available for private, non-commercial use only. Any editing, reproduction, or redistribution of this podcast for commercial use or monetary gain without the expressed, written consent of the podcast's creator is prohibited.Thank you for listening, please leave us a review and share the podcast with your friends and colleagues. Send your questions, comments, and feedback to marketing@4womenlaw.com.

Can you truly reclaim your life and sanity amidst the chaos of a high-conflict divorce? Discover the transformative insights of Leah Mazur, a certified divorce recovery coach, as we unravel the complexities of handling toxic exes and the damaging effects of negative self-talk. Leah sheds light on the tools needed to navigate through emotional abuse, explaining how vital self-compassion and patience are for rebuilding one's mindset. We explore the significance of establishing strict boundaries and embracing radical acceptance, empowering you to regain control, not just for yourself, but also for your children during the tumultuous co-parenting journey.Leah joins us to share actionable strategies for silencing that critical inner voice many face during divorce. She introduces therapeutic practices, such as journaling and writing unsent letters, which serve as powerful outlets for processing emotions and moving past harmful labels. By recognizing and countering the manipulation tactics often present in high-conflict divorces, this episode promises to equip you with the resilience needed to overcome self-doubt. Tune in to learn how consistent, positive actions can pave the way to healing and personal empowerment.

     Slam The Gavel welcomes Marianne Perz, from Canada on to the podcast. Marianne is a former national team athlete for ultramarathon running for Canada. She has been a mediator in civil procedure and in family matters for over 22 years.      Her daughter remains stolen from her due to forgery of my signatures on adoption papers that the Court and Government is aware of but is concealing.       When lawyer JD Coon crafted an Affidavit and forged Marianne's signature purporting she gave up her daughter to the crown wardship for adoption to her brother and his wife. He forged her signature and notarized this forgery which he served to CAS. He also crafted a forged document as a Plan of Care, all purporting that Marianne gave up her daughter. In the interim he played her by telling her he was preparing to defend and would get her daughter back in 4 days on the day of the motion hearing.      On the day of the motion hearing on June 17, 2013, JD Coon came down the court house hallway to Marianne before the start and said he reached an agreement for her to get her daughter back and told her to sign a lone signature page and to initial it. He refused to give her the two content pages as he said it was a huge rush and when she asked him what the agreement was for he told her it was for CAS closing the file and her daughter returning to her via her aunt and uncle where she would live. The CAS had a weak case so this made sense to Marianne.......To Reach Marianne Perz:  dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright infringement is subject to legal prosecution. Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

Can fathers truly advocate for equal custody without feeling like they're attacking the child's mother? Join us for an insightful conversation with David Pisarra, a seasoned divorce and family lawyer, as we discuss strategies that challenge common misconceptions in child custody battles. David reveals the critical importance of fathers actively demonstrating their involvement and understanding of their children, rather than simply expressing love. With societal shifts moving towards equal custody, David shares practical advice from his book, "Dad's Child Custody Action Plan," including the creation of a "kid inventory" to help fathers articulate their knowledge of their children.The emotional toll of false allegations in custody battles is profound, and David sheds light on the frustrating scenario of being labeled a "Disneyland dad." We dive into how temporary restraining orders can be misused to gain custody advantages, often leaving the accused feeling defeated. Through real-life examples, we highlight the emotional exhaustion these battles can cause and their detrimental effects on both the accused parent and the child. Navigating accusations from individuals with personality disorders demands a strategic and objective approach, and David shares insights on maintaining composure in emotionally charged courtroom settings.Biases in family court systems and the mental health challenges fathers face during custody battles are pervasive issues we address in our conversation. David emphasizes the importance of rebuilding self-esteem and confidence for fathers, drawing on tools like the "Kid Inventory" to foster positive memories. As fathers navigate this complex legal landscape, maintaining social connections and support systems is crucial to prevent isolation and depression. Resources like "Dad's Law School" and "Dad's Badass Bootcamp" empower fathers to recognize their unique strengths, ensuring they can advocate effectively for themselves and their children in court.

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I want to talk about kids being bashed by their families. We've had a really bad run of it - I don't know if you've realized - in the last few weeks. As far as I can see, just in the last 8 weeks, we've had the toddler in the suitcase, and we've had the baby in the bin in Auckland. We've also had a 2-month-old go to hospital with serious injuries that happened today, we've had a 3-month-old taken to hospital in Wellington in June, and we've had a 6-month-old critically injured at a Foxton Beach house in July. And we've hardly talked about this. I mean, we've talked about the toddler in the suitcase yesterday, world media talked about it too because it is so bizarre, it's hard to ignore. We also talked about the baby in the bin, that got about a day's worth of coverage, again, because that was pretty out there - putting a baby in a bin. But everything else, almost no coverage. Now, do you know why that is? I mean, part of it is obviously that this is now not unusual anymore. We just bash our babies all the time in this country apparently - but also because you're not actually allowed to talk about it. I don't know if you realize this, but the moment that Oranga Tamariki, which is the new CYFS, uplifts a kid, the Family Court orders basically automatic blanket suppression on it. Which means the police can't say anything, it means OT itself can't say anything, it means the media can't say anything. So the news coverage just basically dies. We get: "baby's gone to hospital," and that's the end of it. No more coverage. It's actually only when the child dies that we can talk about it in detail because there is now no young person to protect anymore. Now, isn't that the opposite of what we want? I mean, I think this is doing our kids a disservice. I understand why we did this in the first place, why we put these suppression orders in - the idea was to protect the privacy of these young people. But what it is also doing is protecting the privacy of the thugs in their families who put them in hospital or in the suitcase or in the bin. And what it also means is that no one then talks about what's going on. We're not horrified by the detail because there is no detail, so we don't talk about it, including politicians - and they should be the ones pitching solutions. At the rate that we're bashing our kids, this should be an election issue every single election - but it's not because we hardly talk about it because of the rules. So surely the rules should change. LISTEN ABOVESee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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    Slam the Gavel welcomes David Thurston to the podcast. David is a determined father and whistleblower from Luzerne County, Pennsylvania and a SURVIVOR of the KIDS FOR CASH SCANDAL.    Now David has fought alone in Family Court since 2015 to protect his nonverbal, autistic daughter from abuze and systemic neglect, even after reporting SA by her mother's adult aunt in 2020.      Shockingly, the agency in charge, CYS refused to interview his daughter then closed the case as "unfounded." Soon after, the CYS director was arrested for endangering hundreds of children.    The family returned to court only because the mother wasn't following prior custody orders David wanted stronger protections; instead, when Judge Terra Toohill took over the case in 2023, she - despite long judicial and political ties to adoption interests and agencies involved IGNORED clear perjury against David, fabricated custody factors, accused him of SA without evidence and ordered his daughter to undergo unnecessary exams.     Today, David pays between $50-80.00 per hour for supervised visits but has not had custody in over 500 days and this all the result of judicial decisions steeped in conflict and what appears to be calculated retaliation. In June of 2025, the federal government validated David's claims. The U.S. Department of Health and Human Services found that Luzerne County, PA VIOLATED DISABILITY LAWS by failing to properly interview his daughter, forcing Pennsylvania to REFORM how the system handles vulnerable children.     David Thurston's story demonstrates just how serious and systematically dangerous unchecked judicial power and institutional neglect can be and this writer is very honored to share his voice and his truth today.To Reach David Thurston: Facebook David Thurston, justice will be served USA on Facebook, TikTok and InstagramSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright infringement is subject to legal prosecution. Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

     Slam The Gavel welcomes back Mark Andrews to the podcast. Mark was last on Season 3, Episodes 13 and 23, Season 4, Episodes116 and 138, Season 5, Episode 29.      The last time Mark was on he discussed the Federal Court updates. Today we discussed how the Sonoma County, CA Administrative Hearing went on for 2.5 hours. Mark's case is 23 years long. The judge denied everything they had asked for, though admitted that the upper court committed fraud. Now, Mark is appealing to the upper court of CA.     We also discussed how parents feel when they are denied seeing their children and the efforts of Robert Garza to make children's lives a better place when they can see their fit parents.To Reach Mark Andrews: notobetakenaway@live.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright infringement is subject to legal prosecution. Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

Join Mark Reel Jr., The Fathers' Rights Attorney, and Managing Attorney David Taub as they dive into the critical topic of Family Code 3044 Presumption in this informative video. With their combined expertise in family law, Mark and David break down the complexities of this legal presumption, explaining its implications in custody disputes and how it impacts parents in family court. Discover key insights, legal considerations, and practical strategies to navigate this challenging aspect of family law. Whether you're facing a custody case or seeking to understand your rights, this video provides essential guidance to empower you. Subscribe to Reel Fathers Rights for more expert advice on family law and fathers' rights! Seeking Divorce Assistance in These Locations? Our Team Can Help! Riverside: https://bit.ly/4lYPO9o Corona: https://bit.ly/44gJROv Irvine: https://bit.ly/3EvvQSL San Diego: https://bit.ly/4lOg85X Palm Desert: https://bit.ly/4jNWZzc  

So you're getting out of your emotionally and spiritually abusive marriage (congratulations, by the way, you're a hero), and you think the hard part is over? Honey, buckle up. This episode pulls back the curtain on what actually goes down in family court and why women like you and me need to step into the CEO role of our divorce process.I talk with Amy Polacko, a woman who's been through it, wrote a book about it, and now helps other women survive it. We cover everything from strategic silence and choosing the right attorney, to the "he's such a good guy" nonsense that courts just eat up.Here's the low-down: You could be framed. Literally. Not metaphorically. Actually framed. So let's talk about how to not let that happen.Key Takeaways: You must be the CEO of your divorce. Do not—I repeat, do NOT—hand the wheel to someone else and hope for the best.The justice system isn't always just. Especially if you're a woman who dares to leave an abuser.Document everything and hire smart. Get a coach before you get an attorney. Better yet, get Amy. Abusers have a playbook. And Amy knows what's on every page.Your “Christian” husband might still screw you over. Faith language doesn't mean he's safe. It might just mean he's scarier.Kids grow up. Even if you lose custody, there's hope. Connection isn't court-mandated, it's soul-deep. We'll talk about what to do if the unthinkable happens.Read the full show notes and/or ask Natalie a question hereRelated Resources:Check out Amy's website and get some one-on-one coaching with her.Get Amy's FREE resource, 10 Divorce Mistakes You Can't Afford to Make. Get the Proactive Playbook for Divorce or take her course, Divorce Decoded.Read her co-authored book, Framed: Women in the Family Court Underworld.Connect with Amy on Instagram. Go listen to some related Flying Free Podcast episodes, including “Winning Child Custody & Divorce Battles” and “How to Be the Parent Your Child Needs During Divorce.” And of course, consider joining the Flying Free Kaleidoscope where we make education and support for Christian women in emotionally abusive marriages (or making their exit) affordable and life-changing. (Plus Amy is one of our resident coaches!)Amy is a divorce coach and an award-winning journalist who is a domestic abuse survivor. Through her Freedom Warrior coaching business, she has guided hundreds of women out of toxic relationships and empowers women to be the CEO of their divorce. She is a former full-time investigative reporter on television. Amy's work has been featured in HuffPost, The Washington Post, Newsweek, NBC News, The Independent, New York Observer and Ms. She co-authored the groundbreaking book FRAMED: Women in the Family Court Underworld with Dr. Christine Cocchiola which exposes the gender bias crisis in our justice system

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     Slam The Gavel is honored to have Pennsylvania State Representative Jamie Flick on the podcast. Jamie Flick represents Pennsylvania's 83rd Legislative District, serving parts of Lycoming and Union Counties.     Today we discussed House Bill 378, which reduces the factors considered during child custody issues from 19 to 12. Mr. Flick's amendment improves the bill by requiring family courts to provide anyone named in a custody petition with a written copy of the new factors when decisions are made which add clarity and transparency to the process, creating a better future for children.     This amendment was unanimously approved by the House requires the court to give everyone a copy of the new factors within 30 days of modifications being made. This clarification helps parents to participate more fairly in the process. Once this amendment was added to this legislation, it took a little more than 30 days for the Senate to unanimously pass the bill and Governor Shapiro to sign it.     We discussed the shady Domestic Relations Units, the NECESSITY of CAMERAS in the COURTROOMS and the amount of false accusations Pennsylvania State Police see every year. 80% are false accusations. Not a podcast to be missed.To reach PA State Representative Jamie Flick: repflick.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright infringement is subject to legal prosecution. Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

Send Us a Message (include your contact info if you'd like a reply)The search for emotional justice can become an invisible prison for those navigating divorce. While completely understandable, this pursuit often keeps people tethered to pain long after legal proceedings conclude.Debra and Tracy dive deep into why clients become fixated on making their ex-partners acknowledge wrongdoing, apologize sincerely, or face consequences. They explore the neurological reality behind this pattern—how the brain remains in a heightened state of stress, treating emotional injury as an ongoing threat that must be resolved. This explains why many divorced individuals spend months or even years mentally rehearsing arguments or crafting the perfect message that might finally make their ex understand.The cost of this fixation is staggering. Beyond precious time wasted, children absorb the tension and learn unhealthy conflict resolution skills. Financial decisions suffer, careers stall, and social relationships deteriorate as friends grow weary of repetitive grievances. Most critically, this pursuit hands continued power to the very person who caused harm, creating a form of voluntary emotional imprisonment.Through case studies and practical examples, the hosts share powerful coaching strategies to help clients reclaim their agency. These include redirecting energy toward future possibilities, conducting "energy audits" to reveal how much mental bandwidth is being wasted, separating practical accountability measures from emotional justice outcomes, and developing internal validation skills. They explain why completion ceremonies, justice letters, and redefining "winning" can be transformative.Moving beyond the need for emotional justice doesn't mean pretending the hurt didn't happen. Rather, it means choosing freedom over vindication and self-determination over dependency. As Tracy and Debra powerfully articulate, the most profound justice often comes not from making an ex-partner acknowledge wrongdoing, but from creating a life so vibrant and fulfilling that their opinion no longer matters—showing your children what a true comeback looks like. Learn more about DCA® or any of the classes or events mentioned in this episode at the links below:Website: www.divorcecoachesacademy.comInstagram: @divorcecoachesacademyLinkedIn: divorce-coaches-academyEmail: DCA@divorcecoachesacademy.com

Destroying Your Ex Does Not Win Your Case - Episode 341 of the Divorce University Online Podcast. Family Court hearings are typically full of all kinds of mudslinging in both directions. Since we are in an adversary system and most people experience the law as “guilty vs innocent”, this may seem like a logical approach. But a Family Law Judge doesn't think in terms of “guilty vs innocent” so trying to destroy your ex in court doesn't necessarily solve your problems. To learn more about how I can support you in achieving success in your custody matter, please schedule a free strategy session at www.divorceuniversityonline.com/vip-coaching. Thanks for listening!

Click here to send us a topic idea or question for Weekend Wisdom.Are you looking for practical strategies to build attachment with your child? Jeanette Yoffe, MA, MFT, is a psychotherapist specializing in adoption and foster care with over 20 years of experience treating children with complex trauma. Her new book, The Traumatized and At-Risk Youth Toolbox: Over 160 Attachment-Informed Interventions for Working with Kids and Families in Foster Care and Beyond offers specific strategies and tools parents and caregivers can build into their family rhythms to promote regulation and healing in their homes. In this episode, we discuss:Overview of trauma's impacts on the brain, on learning, regulation, and on the ability to trust.What does co-regulation look like between a caregiver and a child with a trauma history?What are some simple, everyday things caregivers can do at home to support a child's self-regulation? What practical tools – activities or routines – will help us build emotional safety in our homes?Why is play such a powerful tool for connection and healing?Trauma often mimics ADHD or overlaps with it. How to help teachers understand what's really going on.How can parents or relative caregivers support our kids for homework, without turning the evening into a power struggle?What kinds of professionals should we look for?Resources:Working with Traumatized Children in the ClassroomWhat is Adoption?What is Foster Care?What is Family Court?Support the showPlease leave us a rating or review. This podcast is produced by www.CreatingaFamily.org. We are a national non-profit with the mission to strengthen and inspire adoptive, foster & kinship parents and the professionals who support them.Creating a Family brings you the following trauma-informed, expert-based content: Weekly podcasts Weekly articles/blog posts Resource pages on all aspects of family building

     Slam The Gavel welcomes Mandy Greenway and Rhonda Vicker to the podcast. Mandy has been involved with the Allegheny County PA "family" court for the last three years. She is now on her third judge, Judge Pat Sweeney. Apparently Mandy filed a PFA on her ex that was granted due to physical and verbal abuse at a custody exchange at a local police station. In court however, Judge Sweeney told her ex, "Just don't do it again." There was no accountability for outrageous behavior and apparently Sweeney can't control her ex either. CPS and county detectives now have her ex as a suspect in an ongoing active investigation of sexual exploitation and physical abuse. This is an in-depth podcast on what really goes on in the family courtroom not only in this nation, but globally.To reach Rhonda Vicker: FacebookTo reach Mandy Greenway: amandakg79@gmail.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright infringement is subject to legal prosecution. Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

This week, I sat down with Marc Fishman, and let me tell you this one's heavy. Marc's a disabled dad who's been fighting a brutal uphill battle in family court. Not because he's a bad parent. Not because he did something wrong. But because the system doesn't know what to do with someone who looks different, moves different, or needs accommodations to be a great parent. He talks about: Getting stonewalled when asking for basic disability accommodations How his rights as a dad were slowly stripped away not by evidence, but by bias And the emotional toll of being told you're “not capable” when you know damn well you are Marc isn't sitting still though. He's fighting back filing appeals, speaking out, and refusing to let the system define his relationship with his kid. This episode is about resilience, discrimination, and the raw reality of being a disabled parent in a court system that's still stuck in the past. If you've ever felt powerless, this one's for you.   Links https://newrochellepoliceabuse.com/    

     Slam the Gavel welcomes back Attorney Bethany Niman to the podcast. Attorney Bethany was last on Season 5, Episode 273. Attorney Bethany Niman is a solo lawyer with Bright Star Law in Idaho. Her focus is on family and criminal law.    Today we updated the case from June 26th, where Judge Chad Gulstrom, really didn't want to hear what Attorney Niman had to say. Niman drew up a motion to recuse the judge, and without submitting the document, he suddenly recused himself.     Awaiting a new judge to be assigned, Attorney Niman and her client Sarah await another hearing date as Sarah hasn't seen her children in over four months. Sarah discussed the current living situation of her ex and his paramour and the effects on the children, especially on July 4th, 2025.      We also discussed the efforts or Robert Garza and his 12 Solutions That Will Solve 90% of the Problems You Are Having in Family Court (found on Facebook). Updates to follow.To reach Attorney Niman:  Niman@starlawid.com or 208-2231618Supportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright infringement is subject to legal prosecution. Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

 In this eye-opening episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, host Avik Chakraborty speaks with Lisa Johnson, co-founder of Been There Got Out, a certified domestic violence advocate and high-conflict divorce strategist. Lisa shares how she endured ten years of legal abuse, represented herself in court, and turned her experience into a mission to support others. From recognizing coercive control to navigating family court without a lawyer, this episode breaks down how survivors can shift from feeling powerless to becoming fierce legal self-advocates.   About the Guest:Lisa Johnson is the co-founder of Been There Got Out and a certified domestic violence advocate whose personal legal case is now cited in law journals. She is a speaker, coach, and educator helping individuals trapped in high-conflict divorces and legal abuse scenarios. Along with her partner Chris, she guides others through strategic communication, parenting plans, and court preparation via their coaching programs and podcast.   Key Takeaways: Legal abuse is when the court system is weaponized by abusers to control or financially drain victims. Lisa spent over a decade in court and ultimately represented herself due to financial strain. Preparation, emotional regulation, and strategic communication are essential for navigating court successfully. Her course From Fear to Fierce in Family Court empowers others with tools to advocate for themselves. The first step in reclaiming power is education—understanding your rights and naming the abuse.   Connect with Lisa Johnson:Website: https://beentheregotout.comDiscovery Call Signup: Available on the websiteSocial Media & YouTube: Search Been There Got OutPodcast: Been There Got Out on all platforms   Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life?DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avikTune to all our 15 podcasts: https://www.podbean.com/podcast-network/healthymindbyavikSubscribe To Newsletter: https://healthymindbyavik.substack.com/Join Community: https://nas.io/healthymind   Stay Tuned And Follow Us!YouTube – https://www.youtube.com/@healthymind-healthylifeInstagram – https://www.instagram.com/healthyminds.podThreads – https://www.threads.net/@healthyminds.podFacebook – https://www.facebook.com/podcast.healthymindLinkedIn – https://www.linkedin.com/in/reemachatterjee/ | https://www.linkedin.com/in/avikchakrabortypodcaster #podmatch #healthymind #healthymindbyavik #MentalHealthAwareness #LegalAbuse #DivorceSupport #CoerciveControl #SurvivorSupport #DomesticViolenceAwareness #FamilyCourtReform #MindfulnessMatters #VoicesOfUnity #InspirationDaily

Child Sexual Abuse Allegations in Family Court: Expert Insights with Dr. Wendy BourgIn this compelling episode, Bill Eddy and Megan Hunter welcome clinical psychologist Dr. Wendy Bourg for a rare and candid discussion about one of family court's most challenging issues. With decades of experience developing forensic interview guidelines and working directly with families, Dr. Bourg shares invaluable insights about navigating these complex situations.The conversation explores how courts, professionals, and families can move beyond emotional reactions to find practical solutions that prioritize child wellbeing. Dr. Bourg challenges common assumptions and offers fresh perspectives on handling these sensitive cases, drawing from her extensive work in Oregon's family court system.Questions Explored in This EpisodeWhat makes these cases particularly challenging for family courts?How can professionals avoid common pitfalls when investigating allegations?What approaches best serve children caught in these situations?Where do well-meaning professionals sometimes go wrong?How can courts balance competing priorities in unclear cases?Key Reasons to ListenGain practical insights from a leading expert in the fieldLearn about surprising research findings that challenge conventional wisdomUnderstand how to avoid common mistakes that can harm familiesDiscover innovative approaches to handling complex casesHear real-world examples that illuminate better ways forwardWhether you're a family court professional, mental health practitioner, or concerned parent, this episode offers crucial insights for anyone seeking to better understand and address these challenging situations. Join us for this important conversation that goes beyond typical discussions to explore practical, balanced approaches that put children first.Additional ResourcesGuest, Dr. Wendy Bourghttps://drwendybourg.com/Expert PublicationsEvaluating Sexual Abuse Reports In Family Court by Dr. Wendy BourgTell Me What Happened: Questioning Children About Abuse by Michael LambJeopardy in the Courtroom: A Scientific Analysis of Children's Testimony by Stephen CeciProfessional & Personal DevelopmentConflictInfluencer.com (website for individuals dealing with high-conflict in personal life)New Ways for Families® Training: For family and divorce professionalsConnect With UsVisit High Conflict Institute: highconflictinstitute.comSubmit questions for Bill and MeganBrowse our complete collection of books and resources in our online store—available in print and e-book formatsFind these show notes and all past episode notes on our websiteImportant NoticeOur discussions focus on behavioral patterns rather than diagnoses. For specific legal or therapeutic guidance, please consult qualified professionals in your area. (00:00) - Welcome to It's All Your Fault (01:31) - Child Sexual Abuse Allegations in Family Court (02:02) - Meet Dr. Wendy Bourg (03:19) - Her Interest in This Work (07:45) - Karpman Drama Triangle (09:35) - Prevalence (13:42) - True or Not True? (18:20) - Safety First and Hippocratic Oath (23:55) - Grey Area Solutions (24:42) - Increase in Frequency? (30:24) - Cycles of Hysteria (33:10) - Therapists and Forensic Truths (36:26) - Flaws Still in the System (37:36) - Working to Help Parents Come Around (39:07) - Percent of Cases That Are True (42:32) - Best Practice Tips (45:38) - No Common Trigger Points (47:10) - Thoughts for Judges (49:19) - Non-Family Members (50:39) - Wrap Up (51:55) - Reminders Learn more about our New Ways for Work Coaching sessions. Get started today!

   Slam the Gavel welcomes back Amy Palacios to the podcast. Amy was last on Season 3, Episodes 146, 165 and 179; Season 4, Episodes 134, 145 and 150; Season 5, Episodes 22, 70, 73, 83, 186 and 191.      Amy came back onto update her case as Attorney H. Jay White's sadistic, repetitive behavior CONTINUES as he schedules two hearings at the same time on July 22, 2025. Apparently this has gone on six times in the last five years. Also Attorney White consistently lies, stating that he has not been served paperwork, despite several witnesses looking on in the courthouse.      Actively filing a Federal Lawsuit based on the dual hearings that Amy can't be in two places at the same time, her case has merit and she will continue to defend herself. Two of her children "aged out," and she does have custody of the younger two children. Amy states, "No weapon formed against us will prosper..."To Reach Amy Palacios:  dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/  YouTube:  https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536  Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com   https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright infringement is subject to legal prosecution. Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/

Family Court FAILED - How Judges Gave Homeless Travis Decker Access to Kill His Daughters Description: In this premium episode of Hidden Killers, we deliver the most comprehensive analysis yet of how family court judges catastrophically failed three innocent children by granting a homeless, mentally ill Travis Decker continued access to his daughters despite overwhelming evidence of danger. Expert psychotherapist Shavaun Scott joins Tony Brueski for an explosive investigation into judicial negligence that directly enabled the murders of Olivia, Evelyn, and Paityn Decker. This in-depth analysis exposes the specific judicial decisions that prioritized Travis Decker's parental rights over child safety, despite clear evidence of his mental breakdown, homelessness, and dangerous behavior. We examine court documents, custody evaluation reports, and mental health assessments that should have triggered immediate protection for these children but were instead ignored by family court officials. Shavaun Scott provides expert psychological analysis of how judges and court-appointed professionals failed in their duty to protect vulnerable children from a parent who exhibited multiple risk factors for familicide. We break down each decision point where different choices could have saved three young lives and explore the systemic corruption that allows dangerous parents to maintain custody rights through manipulation of legal proceedings. This premium investigation reveals how Travis Decker's homelessness, mental illness, and dangerous lifestyle should have immediately disqualified him from any custody visits. We examine the specific warnings that were dismissed, the red flags that were ignored, and the fundamental failures in risk assessment that enabled this preventable tragedy. Our analysis includes expert recommendations for urgent family court reforms needed to prevent similar failures. The Travis Decker case represents one of the most egregious examples of family court failure in modern history, where judicial negligence directly facilitated the murder of three children who depended on the system to protect them. This comprehensive analysis exposes the deadly consequences when courts prioritize parental rights over child welfare and safety. #FamilyCourtFailed #TravisDecker #JudicialNegligence #HomelessParent #ChildProtection #CustodyMurder #SystemFailure #CourtCorruption #TrueCrime #HiddenKillers Want to comment and watch this podcast as a video?  Check out our YouTube Channel. https://www.youtube.com/@hiddenkillerspod Instagram https://www.instagram.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Facebook https://www.facebook.com/hiddenkillerspod/ Tik-Tok https://www.tiktok.com/@hiddenkillerspod X Twitter https://x.com/tonybpod Listen Ad-Free On Apple Podcasts Here: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/true-crime-today-premium-plus-ad-free-advance-episode/id1705422872