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Slam the Gavel welcomes back Dave Weigel to the podcast. Dave was last on Season 5, Episodes 230 and 278. The last time he was on we discussed how the system is 100% of the problem and solutions. Today we discussed advocacy and when people should begin to advocate. Through trauma to self-care, healing oneself is the answer, then advocacy should follow. Mother's rights, father's rights were discussed and how there should be unity and not division.To Reach Dave Weigel: Facebook: Family Court Fraud Warrior Project and help@fraudwarrior.orgSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536 Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. For information only and no affiliation with legislation, bills or laws. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/
This episode builds off of last weeks where I disussed DARVO in Family Court. I cover exactly how to capture DARVO behavior in a way that lawyers, GALs, and court professionals can actually understand.You'll learn how to:Identify the denial, attack, and role reversal phases in real-time.Translate emotional chaos into factual, court-readable documentation.Recognize when the abuser is using the legal system as a weapon.Communicate patterns to your attorney without being dismissed or labeled “high conflict.”This episode will help you see that what's happening isn't “miscommunication” — it's manipulation, and you can show the truth, clearly and strategically, without losing yourself in the process.For more support, visit emotionalabusecoach.com and https://jessicaknight.thinkific.com/courses/documentationSupport the showJoin the Patreon: https://patreon.com/Youarenotcrazy *New Course*: Unhooked: Map the Cycle of Abuse in your Relationship Website: Emotional Abuse Coach and high-conflictdivorcecoaching.comInstagram: @emotionalabusecoachEmail: jessica@jessicaknightcoaching.com{Substack} Blog About Recovering from Abuse {E-Book} How to Break Up with a Narcissist{Course} Identify Signs of Abuse and Begin to Heal{Free Resource} Canned Responses for Engaging with an Abusive Partner
IFS therapist Jane Frumberg joins us on this episode to unravel the profound world of Internal Family Systems Therapy. Jane, who leads Light Within Therapy, distinguishes between family systems therapy and reunification therapy, emphasizing the unique approach of IFS in helping individuals connect with their inner parts, particularly those influenced by trauma. Unlike traditional family systems therapy, which analyzes family roles and dynamics, and reunification therapy, which rebuilds relationships between estranged parents and children, IFS offers a deeply personal exploration. We also tackle the complicated terrain of domestic violence cases, where participating together in therapy may not be advisable.We navigate the challenging waters of high-conflict parenting, focusing on how child therapists play a crucial role in supporting children embroiled in parental disputes. When one parent isn't willing to participate, Jane stresses the power of a steadfast and consistent presence from the engaged parent, offering hope even when a child has been turned against them. Our conversation with Jane is filled with valuable insights and a shared eagerness for future collaborations. We close with gratitude for her expertise, encouraging listeners to remain hopeful and resilient in the face of familial challenges.
Send us a textCanada's family court system is weaponizing children against domestic violence victims - and Member of Parliament Lisa Hepfner is fighting to stop it with Bill C-223, the Keeping Children Safe Act. She reveals how abuse allegations can get you labeled an "alienator" and result in your children being forcibly removed, why women are being advised NOT to report domestic violence, and the billion-dollar reunification therapy industry profiting from custody reversals.Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed by our podcast guest are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of the hosts or the podcast. We value diverse perspectives and aim to provide a platform for thoughtful discussion and exploration of different ideas.Got any comments, suggestions or queries? We'd love to hear from you! DM us on Instagram @dirty.laundry.podcast to be featured on one of our upcoming episodes. Also, don't forget to rate and review our show on your favourite podcast player.
Family court can feel like a battlefield — especially when your ex-partner uses the system as another tool for control. But what if advocacy didn't have to mean becoming hardened or adversarial?In this episode of The Rising Beyond Podcast, Sybil is joined by Becky Sampson, founder of a subpoena support service and a survivor who turned her own three-and-a-half-year divorce battle into a mission to help others navigate family court with confidence, compassion, and strength.Together, they discuss:Why knowledge is your greatest form of protection — from learning court terminology to understanding your rights.How documentation can make or break your case (and what judges actually look for).The role of subpoenas, when to use them, and why they can be a game-changer in uncovering hidden information.Balancing empathy and boundaries — learning to lead with heart without letting it be weaponized.What self-advocacy looks like for survivors representing themselves in court.Why your worth and your parenting are not defined by the outcome of a case.Whether you're preparing for your first hearing, fighting post-decree motions, or simply trying to stay steady through the process, this episode offers both practical tools and deep validation.Connect with Becky:Website: https://beckysampson.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/divorcingstrongbeckysampsonLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beckysampson/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/beckysampson11/
November is Family Court Awareness Month, a time to shed light on a system that too often fails to protect survivors and their children. In this episode, I explore what happens when a court system that frequently reframes abuse as “conflict,” rewards manipulation, and punishes protective parents for trying to keep their kids safe.I walk through:What Family Court Awareness Month is and why it matters.How the legal system can retraumatize survivors and reward abusers who appear calm, logical, and “reasonable.”The emotional and strategic toll of trying to protect your child while being gaslit by institutions meant to help.How survivors are adapting—learning to document, regulate, and think strategically to protect themselves and their children.If you're currently navigating family court, divorce, or co-parenting with a high-conflict person, I offer one-on-one coaching and specialized strategy sessions to help you document, organize, and stay grounded through the process.
Until now, it’s been judges trying to grapple with big questions of gender and justice. Now, politicians and sporting administrators face big decisions on what’s fair and whose rights come first. You can read more about this story, plus see photos, videos and additional reporting, on the website or on The Australian’s app. This episode of The Front is presented by Claire Harvey, produced by Kristen Amiet and edited by Joshua Burton. Our team includes Lia Tsamoglou, Tiffany Dimmack, Stephanie Coombes and Jasper Leak, who also composed our music. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Join us for a compelling discussion as we welcome Agape Garcia, the inspiring founder of Confronting Domestic Violence. Agape shares her harrowing yet empowering journey from surviving a double attempted homicide and a life-threatening car accident to establishing a nonprofit dedicated to aiding victims of domestic violence. Listen in as she reveals the multifaceted nature of abuse, highlighting not just physical, but also financial and economic abuse, and the significant hurdles victims encounter when seeking help. Agape's personal story of making over 800 calls to find support underscores the critical role domestic violence advocates play in navigating these challenges. Her organization provides real-time resources and relocation assistance to families in urgent need of safety.We also explore the pervasive impact of domestic violence in the workplace, an often-overlooked aspect that affects both individuals and their professional environments. The episode sheds light on the hidden nature of many cases, exacerbated by stigma and the complexities involved when children are present. Agape discusses the effects of the COVID-19 pandemic, which left many survivors without refuge, and emphasizes the potential risks posed by abusers infiltrating workspaces. By sharing these insights, we aim to raise awareness about the extensive repercussions of domestic violence, from reduced productivity to the potential dangers in work environments.Finally, we highlight the pioneering efforts in California to address domestic violence in the workplace, including the implementation of coercive control laws and workplace violence prevention measures. Discover the significance of SB 553, which mandates workplace violence prevention plans, and the role of human resources in aligning with these regulations. We express our gratitude to Agape for her dedication and look forward to future collaborations that can create a ripple effect of positive change across the nation. This episode is filled with hope and excitement as we discuss fresh starts, new beginnings, and the ongoing efforts to build stronger support networks for victims of domestic violence.
Slam the Gavel welcomes back Marc Fishman who was last on the podcast Season 5, Episodes 202, 224, 240, 264, 276 and 292. Marc discussed what parents go through with being retaliated on during family court proceedings. Marc also gave the update to his case where Judge Cannataro GRANTED an EXPEDITED processing of hearing the Motion to Stay the Jailing of Marc Fishman! There is NO WAY this man should be jailed as his disabilities are extensive. Marc encourages the public to write a letter to Judge Cannataro on his behalf to: press@newrochellepoliceabuse.com.https://www.change.org/p/justice-for-marc-fishman-stop-the-jailing-of-a-disabled-father-in-new-york?signed=trueTo Reach Marc Fishman: press@newrocehellepoliceabuse.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536 Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. For information only and no affiliation with legislation, bills or laws. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/
The Labor-lite Liberals try to convince the party to hold on to net zero by 2050. Plus, a former Family Court chief justice reveals she now has doubts about a landmark puberty blocker ruling. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
A former Family Court chief justice backtracks on her own puberty blockers ruling, a Liberal senator warns he’ll walk if Ley dumps net zero. Plus, chaos and disgraceful scenes unfold in Washington DC.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Discover why hiring a "pit bull" attorney might not be the victory ticket you think it is. Join us and our guest, seasoned Connecticut attorney Renee Bauer, as we unravel the misconceptions fueled by pop culture's courtroom drama narrative. We promise to shed light on the importance of realistic expectations and how finding a balanced attorney can guide you to envision a life beyond the legal fray. Don't let the allure of vengeance mislead you down a path that could prolong the turmoil rather than resolve it.High-achieving individuals often face unique hurdles when domestic violence seeps into their lives, burdened by societal expectations and the fear of shattering their public personas. Through personal narratives, we explore the silent struggles of maintaining professional success while enduring abuse, challenging the stereotypes that confine domestic violence to certain socioeconomic backgrounds. With Renee's valuable insights, we delve into the pitfalls of aggressive legal representation and the necessity of choosing an attorney who aligns with your long-term goals.Effective communication with your lawyer and strategic mediation can transform the course of your legal journey. We discuss the importance of fostering a strong lawyer-client relationship, avoiding past unhealthy patterns, and maintaining strategic oversight of your case. Discover how mediation can offer a more controlled, tailored resolution for families, often saving time and money compared to drawn-out court battles. From choosing the right attorney to the benefits of a detailed parenting plan, we explore how these strategies can lead to a more positive outcome in high-conflict divorces.
Send us a textPlanning a safe exit from a narcissistic or abusive relationship isn't a single leap—it's a step‑by‑step operation. We're joined by Diana Jordan, former family law solicitor and author of How to Divorce a Narcissist and Succeed in the Family Court, to unpack what narcissism really looks like in separation and why time rarely calms a true narcissist. We draw a clear line between difficult divorce behaviour and entrenched narcissistic patterns, then map out a practical route to safety that protects your children, your finances, and your sanity.Diana JordanI work with litigants in person many of whom are leaving an abusive relationship. I support parents whose former partners are narcissists and are using the courts to continue their abuse. I deal with cases labelled as "high conflict" which more often than not simply means no-one knows which is the abusive parent and it's easier to blame both of them for the problems. I help parents in cases of parental alienation as well as some who have false allegations of parental alienation made against them by the abusive parent.With over 25 years experience in the legal profession I am able to give guidance and information throughout the process of separation and divorce. Some clients wish to do as much as they can of the legal work themselves and I assist them with form-filling and letter writing, referring them to the best mediators, financial advisors, solicitors, and direct access barristers as and when appropriate.I enjoy finding creative solutions to the different challenges faced by families in transition. Although I work with parents, securing the best outcomes for their children is my primary focus. My skills as a life coach assist clients to gain clarity in their situation and to move forward in a planned and constructive way. I use my knowledge of personal and spiritual development to empower clients to own the process and make their own decisions; I encourage clients to be and do their very best during a hugely difficult time of change.Diana's book: How to Divorce a Narcissist - order hereLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dianacjordan/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DealingwithDivorce/Twitter / X: https://twitter.com/DwDivorceTamsin CaineTamsin is a Chartered Financial Planner with over 20 years experience. She works with couples and individuals who are at the end of a relationship and want agree how to divide their assets FAIRLY without a fight.You can contact Tamsin at tamsin@smartdivorce.co.uk or arrange a free initial meeting using https://bit.ly/SmDiv15min. She is also part of the team running Facebook group Separation, Divorce and Dissolution UKTamsin Caine MSc., FPFSChartered Financial PlannerSmart Divorce LtdSmart DivorceP.S. I am the co-author of “My Divorce Handbook – It's What You Do Next That Counts”, written by divorce specialists and lawyers writing about their area of expertise to help walk you through the divorce process. You can buy it here https://yourdivorcehandbook.co.uk/buy-the-book/Support the show
Send us a textFamily lawyer and reform advocate Maryam Manteghi returns to expose how judicial bias and outdated court practices are systematically failing abuse survivors. She reveals why educated victims face unique challenges, how false equivalencies between mothers and fathers ignore basic science, and why the groundbreaking Alawalia case could revolutionize financial justice for domestic violence survivors. From strategic timeline building to leveraging tort law, Maryam shares advanced tools every advocate should know to build stronger cases and push for trauma-informed reform.Disclaimer: The views and opinions expressed by our podcast guest are their own and do not necessarily reflect the views of the hosts or the podcast. We value diverse perspectives and aim to provide a platform for thoughtful discussion and exploration of different ideas.Got any comments, suggestions or queries? We'd love to hear from you! DM us on Instagram @dirty.laundry.podcast to be featured on one of our upcoming episodes. Also, don't forget to rate and review our show on your favourite podcast player.
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Join us for an insightful conversation with Kristin Cogan, a seasoned therapist and coach, as we explore the critical coping skills every overwhelmed mom needs. We understand the pressures you face, from navigating family court to co-parenting with a difficult ex, and Kristin is here to help. Discover the importance of celebrating small wins and managing overwhelming stress, which can easily become a lifestyle. Kristin introduces the "54321" grounding technique, a powerful tool designed to help you reconnect with your body and reduce anxiety by focusing on the present moment. By identifying things you can see, touch, hear, smell, and taste, this method can shift your nervous system from distress to a state of calmness.Listen in as we also uncover empowering techniques for emotional regulation in high-stress situations involving an ex or an anxious child. Kristin emphasizes the significance of creating emotional distance by taking intentional pauses before responding to triggering communications. Through affirmations and small actions, we can retrain our brains and provide grounding for ourselves. We also discuss the impact of parental anxiety on children and the importance of breaking intergenerational cycles of stress. Self-care is paramount, as parents often prioritize their children's needs over their own. By committing to the hard work of managing emotions, parents can better support their children and foster healthier family dynamics.
Join Josh, a Canadian family lawyer and tech co-founder, as he dives into his experiences practicing family law in Ontario. In this episode, he shares the highs and lows of court proceedings, offering insights and stories from his time in court. Learn about the challenges of scheduling, dealing with unreasonable parties, and the mental stimulation of engaging with sharp judges. Whether you're a legal professional or just curious about the legal system, this vlog provides a candid look at the realities of family litigation. Never miss an update on his journey by joining his substack here: https://joshschachnow.substack.com/ 00:00 Introduction and Episode Overview 00:23 Weekly Check-In and Background 00:52 Diving into Court Experiences 02:30 The Good: Why I Love Court 06:26 The Bad: Challenges in the Court System 09:36 The Ugly: Dealing with Unreasonable Parties 11:17 Conclusion and Viewer Engagement
Slam The Gavel Podcast welcomes Nicole Amill. Nicole is the mother of three. Two adult children and one nine year-old. Nicole moved to Lorain, OH from the Bronx, NY on February 24th, 2015. Coming to Ohio with almost $100K to invest in real estate to have passive income, Nicole wanted to teach her children how to be self sufficient. She also wanted them to have a close relationship with God. Nicole gave love a chance with the wrong person and quickly found out what TRAUMA BONDS were, what abuse truly is and what healing growth is. She also learned to let go and let God. Escaping her abuser only to be dragged back into court, Nicole was basically being forced to handle being kicked around and verbally abused by her abusers. Nicole is ready to expose the truth in her case and SB174, because the TRUTH will set us FREE. Raising awareness, Nicole wants to be a resource for people to reach out to and be the change that will help others.https://www.ohiosenate.gov/committees/judiciary/meetings/cmte_s_judiciary_1_2025-11-05-0945_903/upload-testimonyTo Reach Nicole Amill: FB: Amill Nikki Nicole and email: amillyn111@gmail.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536 Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. For information only and no affiliation with legislation, bills or laws. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/
Surviving a toxic relationship is never easy, especially when betrayal and manipulation are at play. Deana and Lizzie share their personal journeys of being married to the same toxic narcissist at different times, and how their shared experiences led to an unexpected yet powerful friendship. Through their candid stories, Deana and Lizzie shed light on the emotional aftermath of such relationships, the red flags they encountered, and the importance of trusting one's instincts. Their narratives reveal the strength found in solidarity and the importance of supporting others who may be ensnared in a similar web of deceit.As the episode unfolds, we explore Lizzie's harrowing experience of financial abuse and her brave steps towards freedom. With the support of her sister and the community, Lizzie discovered her husband's hidden past, including a second marriage and a pattern of deception. The episode emphasizes the resilience required to rebuild one's life after such betrayal, highlighting the role of legal protection and the courage to seek truth and justice. Deana and Lizzie discuss the societal and personal factors that often complicate these situations, stressing the necessity of holding manipulative individuals accountable.Finally, we turn our focus to the journey of healing and finding peace after leaving an abusive relationship. Through personal anecdotes, our guests illustrate the pivotal changes they experienced during this difficult yet rewarding phase. We highlight the importance of education on healthy relationships and the power of community support in overcoming the emotional obstacles left by manipulative partners. The discussion serves as a beacon of hope, offering guidance and inspiration for listeners who are striving for healing and liberation from the clutches of abuse.
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How can fathers truly connect with their daughters in a world filled with cultural expectations and personal challenges? Join us for an intimate conversation with Oscar, the empathetic host of the Daughtered Podcast, as we explore the nuanced journey of fatherhood. Oscar, a dedicated father to three daughters and a military veteran, opens up about the profound impact his youngest daughter, born during the tumult of the COVID pandemic, had on his life and the inspiration she provided for creating a supportive community for fathers. Together, we reflect on the powerful influence of father figures, sharing personal stories that underscore the emotional complexities fathers face when striving to be present and nurturing.Oscar and I dive into the evolving mindset around fatherhood, addressing the often-overwhelming emotions that accompany raising daughters. We discuss the cultural norms that shape parental instincts and the pressing need for spaces where fathers can exchange wisdom and support. Through the Daughtered Podcast and our vibrant Instagram community, we provide an avenue for fathers like Russ Kimura and Tyler McAdams to share experiences, thereby enhancing the practical application of parenting knowledge. Highlighting the lack of traditional support networks for fathers, we emphasize the importance of fostering ongoing growth and connection.The conversation takes a heartfelt turn as we explore the challenges faced by fathers separated from their children. Oscar and I delve into the significance of maintaining a strong father-child relationship despite physical distance, advocating for quality time over mere quantity. We offer strategies for staying mindful and connected, encouraging fathers to prioritize their unique identities within their families. As we wrap up, our mutual appreciation resonates, and we invite listeners to engage with the Daughtered Podcast community, celebrating the dedication of fathers striving for excellence.
The Essex witch trials represent one of the darkest chapters in British history. A new Sky History series, Witches of Essex, revisits the real lives of women accused of witchcraft in the 16th and 17th centuries, drawing on newly examined court records and the latest historical research. Historian Dr Eleanor Janega joins Nuala McGovern to discuss.A landmark change to the Family Courts has been announced this week - the court will no longer work on the presumption that having contact with both parents is in the best interest of the child. Domestic abuse campaigners have said the move will save children's lives. Nuala talks to Claire Throssel MBE, one of the campaigners who has driven this change. In October 2014, her two sons, Jack, who was 12, and Paul, who was nine, were deliberately killed by their father. He had been awarded five hours weekly access to the boys despite Claire's warnings that he was a danger to them.After 165 days at sea, two British women have just made history becoming the first pair to row non-stop and unsupported across the Pacific Ocean, from South America to Australia. Jess Rowe, 28, and Miriam Payne, 25, set off from Lima in May and arrived in Cairns in Australia on Saturday, completing more than 8,000 miles in their nine-metre boat, Velocity. Along the way they faced storms, broken equipment, and even navigated by the stars when their systems failed - they join Anita Rani to talk about the highs and lows of their Pacific adventure.Presenter: Anita Rani Producer: Simon Richardson
In this powerful episode, our hosts Vince and Cara dive into new findings revealing that domestic abuse is identified in nearly nine out of ten family court cases - yet still too often treated as a side issue. They unpack how the system's pro-contact culture can place victims at risk, the structural barriers that keep courts from prioritising safety, and the emotional toll this takes on social workers. With personal reflections, examples of good practice, and a call for reform, this is a must-listen for anyone working in or alongside the family justice system. Created by social workers, for social workers. Join the conversation, every Friday morning.
What happens when a relationship teeters on the edge of collapse, and how can therapy help? Join us for a candid conversation with Suzanne Taluy, a licensed clinical social worker and the founder of Embrace Psychotherapy, who specializes in trauma and couples counseling. Suzanne shares her thoughtful approach to therapy, highlighting the significance of initial consultations to ensure a good fit while vigilantly screening for red flags such as ongoing substance abuse or physical violence. Prepare to gain valuable insights into the world of couples counseling, where communication problems can range from minor misunderstandings to pivotal moments on the brink of divorce.Suzanne also opens up about the ethical dilemmas therapists encounter, particularly in couples counseling, where maintaining neutrality is crucial. We explore the intricate dynamics when a therapist already has a pre-existing relationship with one partner and how this can impact the therapeutic process. In situations involving infidelity or potential domestic abuse, Suzanne emphasizes the therapist's responsibility to validate all parties' feelings and ensure clients' safety and well-being. This episode sheds light on the diverse approaches within the field and why some therapists might hesitate to advise leaving toxic relationships.Finally, our discussion turns to the importance of recognizing healthy relationship dynamics and the critical role consultations play in choosing the right therapist. Suzanne highlights how many individuals overlook abusive patterns without professional guidance and how therapy can be a catalyst for change. We wrap up by addressing the value of informed and mindful therapeutic choices, encouraging listeners to seek professional help, especially for trauma or legal concerns, and consider legal advice in severe situations. This episode offers a comprehensive look at how therapy can aid individuals and couples on their healing journeys.
We've heard about the placebo effect, when belief in a treatment makes us feel better, but what do you know about the nocebo effect? It's when our negative expectations of a treatment, medicine or procedure - or even mistrust of our health care services - can actually make us feel worse. And it's a growing area of scientific research.A landmark change to the Family Courts has been announced today - the court will no longer work on the presumption that having contact with both parents is in the best interest of the child. Domestic abuse campaigners have said the move will save children's lives. Claire Throssel MBE is one of the campaigners who has driven this change. In October 2014 her two sons, Jack, who was 12 and Paul, who was nine, were deliberately killed by their father. He had been awarded five hours weekly access to the boys despite Claire's warnings that he was a danger to them. Earlier this month, for the first time, every match across England's top two tiers of women's football was photographed exclusively by female photographers. So how important is it that breakthrough moments in women's sport are captured and told through the eyes of women? Eileen Langsley is a pioneering sports photographer who has captured moments from some of the world's biggest sporting events over the last five decades, and Morgan Harlow was part of the all-female photography team for the Women's Super League.Long queues for the toilets are something women are very used to, whilst often watching the men dash in and out quickly. Amber Probyn and Hazel McShane are two women who are trying to resolve this issue, having invented flat packed ‘female urinals,' which have already been deployed at Glastonbury and the London Marathon. They've just secured almost £1m investment, enabling them to take their invention around the world.
Family court can feel like it's designed to wear you down. The long waits, the unpredictability, the endless back-and-forth with your ex — it can seem impossible to get through without breaking.But what if you didn't have to let court define you?In this episode, Sybil shares how survivors can walk through family court with steadiness and strength. Instead of waiting for one big “final win,” you'll learn how to find momentum in small victories, focus your energy where it counts, and adopt key mindset shifts that protect your well-being along the way.You'll hear about:Small wins that matter — how to recognize progress in the middle of a long battle.Control vs. no control — a practical way to separate what deserves your energy from what doesn't.Mindset shifts that sustain you, including:Court is a chapter, not your whole story.Your strength is not defined by the outcome.Preparation is power.The courtroom doesn't define your parenting.Endurance over perfection.Anchoring in values when the process feels chaotic.Court is difficult — but with these strategies, it doesn't have to break you.Please leave us a review or rating and follow/subscribe to the show. This helps the show get out to more people.If you want to chat more about this topic I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @risingbeyondpcIf you want to support the show you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee. Thank you! We love being able to make this information accessible to you and your community.If you've been looking for a supportive community of women going through the topics we cover, head over to our website to learn more about the Rising Beyond Community. - https://www.risingbeyondpc.com/ Where to find more from Rising Beyond:Rising Beyond FacebookRising Beyond LinkedInRising Beyond Pinterest If you're interested in guesting on the show please fill out this form - https://forms.gle/CSvLWWyZxmJ8GGQu7Enjoy some of our freebies! Choosing Your Battles Freebie Canned Responses Freebie Mic Drop Moments Freebie ...
What if the concept of the perfect family is just a myth? Join us as we challenge this misconception with the help of Torie Wiksell, a seasoned therapist and boundaries coach. Tori brings her wealth of personal and professional experiences to our discussion, shedding light on the often hidden world of toxic family dynamics. With candor and compassion, she shares her own story of growing up under the influence of a narcissistic mother and the unique challenges that arise from such an upbringing. Together, we uncover the layers of societal expectations and unhealthy relationship models that can keep these destructive cycles spinning.Our discussion navigates the tangled web of family roles and the impact they have on children's development, particularly in environments marked by domestic violence and toxic parenting. The conversation gets personal as we explore how roles like the scapegoat and the golden child affect perceptions and relationships. Therapy emerges as a vital tool for breaking free from these harmful patterns, though we acknowledge the frustration that comes with simplistic solutions often peddled by self-help figures. True healing, as we emphasize, is a gradual process that can't be rushed or reduced to a quick fix.As we progress, the focus shifts to the struggles of estranged parents and the heartache of co-parenting with a toxic ex. Through stories of resilience and transformation, we offer hope that as children grow and gain independence, new possibilities for reconciliation and understanding can emerge. We stress the importance of self-reflection, healing, and building solid support systems to counteract toxic influences. By providing insights and strategies, we aim to empower those entangled in these complex familial situations, reinforcing that positive change is achievable and current adversities are not the end of the story.
Slam the Gavel welcomes back Carrie Haight to the podcast. Carrie was last on Season 5, Episodes 185, 221 and 266. Today we addressed parents' questions regarding Coercive Control, Parental Alienation, Child Psychological Abuse in the DSM V, V995.51, and why Family Court favors the abusive parent. We covered other topics as well such as going "grey rock," reunification, toxic personalities within friends and family and how anyone going through the family court system can be easily gaslighted.To Reach Carrie Haight: atimeforchange@live.comSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536 Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. For information only and no affiliation with legislation, bills or laws. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/
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What if navigating the complexities of Child Protective Services didn't have to be so daunting? Bailey Payne, our insightful guest and experienced behavioral analyst, lifts the veil on the often misunderstood world of CPS. We promise you'll gain a deeper understanding of how these services work to not only protect children but also aim to reunite and strengthen families. Bailey shares her personal experiences working within CPS, offering an honest look at how she collaborates with investigators and supports families in crisis. This conversation is a must-listen for anyone looking to demystify CPS involvement and learn about the meaningful path to family reunification, even amidst challenging circumstances like domestic violence.The episode takes a transformative turn as we explore Bailey's journey into behavior analysis and the art of positive parenting. By focusing on grace and positive reinforcement, Bailey reveals strategies for helping children who have faced trauma, particularly when dealing with aggressive behaviors in tweens. Learn how to shift your focus from problems to strengths, creating a nurturing environment where children can thrive. We also tackle the intricacies of the family court system, providing essential insights and actionable tips to empower you beyond the courtroom. This episode is filled with practical advice to help you foster healthier family dynamics and cultivate agency within your home. Join us for a compelling dialogue that offers not just hope but real tools for positive change.
Walking into family court is intimidating enough — and then your ex smirks, rolls their eyes, or drops a lie designed to rattle you. On top of that, opposing counsel may throw you questions that feel like traps or come out of nowhere.In this episode, Sybil breaks down how to keep your composure in court when your ex tries to provoke you, and how to handle curveball questions during cross-examination.You'll learn:Why abusers use provocation in court and how judges often notice your reaction more than the provocation itself.Simple emotional defense strategies — like the “poker face,” grounding tools, and focusing only on the judge.The most common types of curveball questions attorneys ask (from vague to rapid-fire) and how to respond without being trapped.Practical scripts for redirecting with calm and keeping the focus on your child's needs.These strategies don't make court easy — but they can help you feel steady, credible, and prepared in a system that often feels stacked against you.Please leave us a review or rating and follow/subscribe to the show. This helps the show get out to more people.If you want to chat more about this topic I would love to continue our conversation over on Instagram! @risingbeyondpcIf you want to support the show you may do so here at, Buy Me A Coffee. Thank you! We love being able to make this information accessible to you and your community.If you've been looking for a supportive community of women going through the topics we cover, head over to our website to learn more about the Rising Beyond Community. - https://www.risingbeyondpc.com/ Where to find more from Rising Beyond:Rising Beyond FacebookRising Beyond LinkedInRising Beyond Pinterest If you're interested in guesting on the show please fill out this form - https://forms.gle/CSvLWWyZxmJ8GGQu7Enjoy some of our freebies! Choosing Your Battles Freebie Canned Responses Freebie Mic Drop Moments Freebie ...
In this powerful episode of Heartbreak to Happiness, Sara Davison sits down with Rebecca Waclawyj, founder of Brighter Future Mediation, neurodivergent entrepreneur, and survivor turned advocate for safe, trauma-informed conflict resolution.Drawing on over 15 years in the criminal and family court system—and her own lived experience of divorce and separation—Rebecca offers a candid, critical look at mediation in the context of domestic abuse. Can mediation ever be safe when power imbalances exist? When is it a healing alternative, and when does it risk retraumatizing survivors?
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Bobbi Brown is a make-up artist turned entrepreneur who created her now famous eponymous line in 1990. Her fresh-faced approach went against 80s and 90s trends at the time for bright colour and contouring and instead aimed to celebrate and enhance women's natural beauty. She made millions selling her brand to Estée Lauder and has gone on to create a new multimillion brand. On the release of her memoir, she joins Nuala McGovern to talk about her life and work.The family courts are failing to take domestic abuse seriously despite it featuring in nine out of 10 cases, according to a new report. The report reviewed hundreds of cases and found that judges sent children to stay with a potentially unsafe parent in more than half of them. It said safeguarding concerns were often downplayed or ignored in court. Nuala speaks to Nicole Jacobs, domestic abuse commissioner for England and Wales, who instigated this research.A powerful new short film, 22+1, premieres tonight at the BFI London Film Festival during Baby Loss Awareness Week. Written by Pippa Vosper and directed by Pippa Bennett-Warner, it follows Ruby, played by Bennett-Warner, as she loses her baby 22 weeks plus one day into the pregnancy. Drawing on Vosper's personal experience of baby loss and Bennett-Warner's lived experience as a black woman, the film shines a light on the inequalities faced by black women in maternity care. They both join Nuala in the studio.Last week, we looked at what impact the Women's Summer of Sport could have on grassroots participation. Today we look at the economic impact. Can women's sport call itself big business now? Something that many say will be crucial to its continued growth whilst others say it may risk losing its heart that makes different from men's sport. Joining Nuala to discuss is Dr Christina Philippou, associate professor in accounting and sport finance at the University of Portsmouth, and Sam Agini, sports business correspondent at the Financial Times.
In this deeply insightful episode of WITneSSes, Amb. Elisha sits down with the remarkable Alex Dane, author of Winning Your Divorce: A Tactical Guide to Custody Battles and Divorce Court.
What if your childhood could teach you more about your adult life than you ever imagined? Join us for an enlightening conversation with Dr. Sasha, a leading expert in childhood trauma, as we unpack the mysterious ways early experiences shape our futures. From the subtle yet significant "little t" traumas to the more conspicuous "big T" events, Dr. Sasha helps us understand the profound impact these moments can have on our adult relationships and self-perception, even for those who appear outwardly successful.Together, we explore how these early experiences are not a life sentence but rather an invitation to healing and growth. Dr. Sasha brings to light the often-overlooked concept that trauma is not confined to dramatic incidents but can also arise from repeated, everyday experiences, such as the feeling of being unimportant when consistently picked up late from school. With a compassionate approach, she emphasizes that healing is always possible, whether by mending past relationships or embarking on a personal journey of self-discovery.The journey to healing also includes understanding the pivotal role of self-compassion and community. We discuss how reconnecting with our bodies through movement, such as yoga and walking, can restore the mind-body connection disrupted by trauma. Dr. Sasha stresses the importance of surrounding ourselves with supportive communities that foster understanding and empathy, enabling us to break free from the "trauma loop." As we wrap up, we introduce transformative healing materials that empower listeners to take the first step on their healing paths, fostering personal growth and resilience.
Slam the Gavel welcomes new guest, Lee Dobson from Canada. Lee has been suffering legal abuse in the Family Court system for the last three years. The catch is, that he has no ex wife, family and no children. All it took was one false accusation and an UNSIGNED Restraining Order to put him in a position of self representation. As an electrician Lee has lost jobs due to waiting for hearings to start, has suffered defamation of character and extortion. None of this should have happened to begin with, but all it took was one lie and several Justices to look the other way.To Reach Lee Dobson: leedobson528@gmail.com and on Facebook: Canadian Court Nightmare Stories. You can find his You Tube: "Lets TalkAbout It" https://youtube.com/@letstalkaboutit1984?si=H-mkwDvIP-SXfi8kSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536 Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/
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Send us a textA uniform shouldn't cost a parent their child. We sit down with retired Army officer, attorney, and parent advocate Erhan Bettistani to unpack how military service collides with family court—and why a little-known administrative process, the Family Advocacy Program's Incident Determination Committee (FAP IDC), can tilt custody decisions without basic due process. Erhan brings research published in Family Court Review and Military Law Review, plus firsthand stories from Warrior Family Advocacy, to show how “substantiated” findings spill into civilian courts, inflame stress, and even factor into veteran suicide risk.Across an hour, we trace four forces that often work against service members: media narratives of extremes, the stigma of deployments and constant PCS moves, assumptions around PTSD and mental health, and the shadow-court mechanics of FAP IDC. We compare FAP procedures to the old Title IX campus model—informal, opaque, and vulnerable to error—and highlight reforms that state courts and the Department of Education have already embraced: clear notice, access to the evidence file, counsel in the room, cross-examination, written findings, and recorded hearings. The takeaway is stark but hopeful: the Department of Defense can integrate these protections now, without waiting on Congress, and still support victims with clinical care while improving fairness for all parties.We also get practical. If you're navigating divorce or custody as a military parent, you'll hear strategies for documenting stability, addressing PTSD stigma, planning around deployments, and securing counsel early in the right jurisdiction. Erhan explains how Warrior Family Advocacy funds initial attorney consults and offers grounded guidance so you can breathe, plan, and protect your bond with your child. Abuse must be taken seriously—and so must process. Better rules mean better outcomes for families, for justice, and for the mental health of those who serve.If this conversation resonates, follow the show, share it with a military family, and leave a review with your biggest question about fixing FAP. Your voice helps push the right reforms forward.Resources & Links: •
Slam the Gavel welcomes back grandmother, Claudette Collins. Claudette was last on the podcast Season 5, Episode 239. Claudette is retired from healthcare and is a former Sunday School teacher in British Columbia, Canada. Claudette has updated her story as in the past episode she had been falsely accused in Alberta Courts without evidence by her oldest adult daughter. Claudette has evidence, but the courts won't look at it and there has been court staff interference with court files and setting Claudette up to appear as if she forged her attorney's signature. Despite Claudette's evidence, the courts continue to ignore everything. Today, Claudette explains how her case is evolving into a deeper nightmare and that grandparents have no rights even when it comes to the protection of the precious next generations to follow.To Reach E. Claudette Collins: eccollins64@gmail.com and on LinkedInSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)Maryann Petri: dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.comhttps://www.tiktok.com/@maryannpetriFacebook: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/guitarpeace/Pinterest: Slam The Gavel Podcast/@guitarpeaceLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/maryann-petri-62a46b1ab/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@slamthegavelpodcasthostmar5536 Twitter https://x.com/PetriMaryannEzlegalsuit.com https://ko-fi.com/maryannpetrihttps://www.zazzle.com/store/slam_the_gavel/about*DISCLAIMER* The use of this information is at the viewer/user's own risk. Not financial, medical nor legal advice as the content on this podcast does not constitute legal, financial, medical or any other professional advice. Viewer/user's should consult with the relevant professionals. Reproduction, distribution, performing, publicly displaying and making a derivative of the work is explicitly prohibited without permission from content creator. Podcast is protected by owner. The content creator maintains the exclusive right and any unauthorized copyright.Support the showSupportshow(https://www.buymeacoffee.com/maryannpetri)http://www.dismantlingfamilycourtcorruption.com/
Send Us a Message (include your contact info if you'd like a reply)What happens when a country makes mediation free for every separating family—but removes the preparation that makes it work? We dig into New Zealand's bold FDR shift with Mediator and Divorce Coach Nikki Bould, unpacking the real-world impact of funding cuts, waitlists, and the shortage of child inclusion specialists. From the outside, “free” looks like progress; inside the system, parents are queued up, dysregulated, and often walking into high-stakes conversations without the skills or context to succeed.We walk through the practical trade-offs: why even a short prep window can change outcomes, what child-inclusive practice adds to parent decision-making, and how coaching complements therapy by building forward-focused skills when emotions run hot. Nikki shares on-the-ground insights from mediators and family lawyers, highlighting where families stall, why some head straight to court after a failed mediation, and how a coaching-led approach can reduce escalation and make every professional's job easier. We also explore a Kiwi-specific vision for parenting coordination—interdisciplinary, culturally aligned, and designed to keep agreements durable and kids at the center.If you care about child well-being, equitable access to justice, and practical tools that actually move families forward, this conversation offers clear next steps. Learn how early coaching can stabilize parents, how to translate a child's voice into better plans, and what advocates can do to build bridges across law, mediation, and mental health. Subscribe, share with a colleague who supports separating families, and leave a review to help more people find these tools.To contact Nikki Bould:dca.nz@divorcecoachesacademy.com or nikki@thehelpfulhuman.nzADSI.org.nz Learn more about DCA® or any of the classes or events mentioned in this episode at the links below:Website: www.divorcecoachesacademy.comInstagram: @divorcecoachesacademyLinkedIn: divorce-coaches-academyEmail: DCA@divorcecoachesacademy.com
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Navigating a high-conflict divorce or custody battle with a toxic ex? You're not alone. Join me, co-founder of Been There Got Out, high-conflict divorce strategist, and certified domestic violence advocate, as I share hard-earned lessons from my own grueling legal battle—including how I represented myself in court and helped change domestic violence laws. Alongside my partner Chris, we provide expert strategies, real-life stories, and essential guidance to help men and women worldwide take on the legal system with confidence. From dealing with narcissistic exes to protecting your children from parental alienation, this podcast gives you the tools to stay sane and empowered under the most insane circumstances. Whether you're in the trenches or rebuilding your life, we're here to help you turn fear into fierce.About Lisa JohnsonLisa Johnson is the co-founder of Been There Got Out, a high conflict divorce strategist and certified domestic violence advocate who has successfully represented herself through scores of court appearances. Her case, published in the Connecticut Law Journal, is being used as legal precedent. Her live testimony helped pass Jennifers' Law in Connecticut, the third state in America to expand its legal definition of domestic violence to include “coercive control.” She and her partner, Chris, coach people in high-conflict relationships, divorce, custody battles, and co-parenting hell so they have the chance of the best outcome in family court and beyond. They also offer a weekly Legal Abuse Support Group for those dealing with narcissistic opponents in legal matters. Their book, "Been There Got Out: Toxic Relationships, High-Conflict Divorce, and How to Stay Sane Under Insane Circumstances'' was released in March 2023. Their current book on what to do when your ex tries to turn the kids against you, as well as a comprehensive online program, “From Fear to Fierce in Family Court” is coming out this year!About TheresaA wife and a mother to two children and grandmother, Theresa Alexander Inman is a Parenting Coach, Board Certified Behavior Analyst, Infant Toddler Development Specialist, Autism Spectrum Disorder Clinical Specialist. Introduced to behavior analysis in 2007 after years in the juvenile justice system.Her goal is to improve the lives of children and families by helping them strategize child develop skills to prevent or reduce the effects of possible delays while having fun! She also served as a panelist on the first annual Autism World Summit.Theresa is also an author, having published “Pathways to Early Communication” in 2022.Connect with Theresa today!• Instagram | Theresa Inman• LinkedIn | Theresa Inman• BabyBoomer.org | Theresa Inman• YouTube | Parenting with Confidence• Tiktok | https://www.tiktok.com/@parentcoachtheresa• Spotify via Anchor.fm | Parenting with Confidence Website: https://www.theresaalexanderinman.com/About Parenting on the SpectrumRaising autistic children comes with unique joys, challenges, and learning moments. Join host Theresa as she explores the diverse experiences of parenting kids on the spectrum. Each episode features expert insights, real-life stories, and practical strategies to help you navigate this journey with understanding, compassion, and strength. Whether you're a parent, caregiver, or ally, this podcast is your go-to resource for fostering connection and celebrating neurodiversity. Please share, comment, rate, and download! Be blissful! Theresa
In this episode of Perfect Prey: A Podcast on Coercive Control, I am joined by Dr. Bandy X. Lee, a forensic psychiatrist and internationally recognized expert on violence. Together, we examine the alarming injustices occurring within family courts, where coercive control, child abuse, and even child trafficking are too often overlooked or minimized.Dr. Lee brings her extensive experience to highlight how judicial culture and systemic failures repeatedly fail to protect victims, leaving children and protective parents at risk. We also discuss the urgent need for reform and the strategies that could begin to shift these deeply entrenched systems.This is an important conversation for anyone concerned about child safety, coercive control, and the changes necessary to ensure our family courts serve the best interests of children.Tune in for insight, advocacy, and a call to action for systemic change.Connect with Dr. Bandy:Website: https://bandylee.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bandyxlee/?hl=enJoin Dr. Bandy on Substack: https://bandyxlee.substack.com/Resources Mentioned in this Podcast:
Send us a textIn this episode, Billie sits down with Nathan Williams, a professional counselor at Arizona Counseling Collective who specializes in forensically informed therapy and high-conflict co-parenting situations. Nathan brings years of experience working with families navigating the complex intersection of therapy and family court, including therapeutic intervention (TI) appointments, court testimony, and helping parents transition from dysfunctional spousal dynamics to effective co-parenting relationships.This conversation tackles the challenging questions that attorneys and their clients face daily: When should therapists maintain confidentiality versus reporting to parents? How can parents move from adversarial dynamics to neutral co-parenting? What's the real success rate of therapeutic intervention, and why do so many therapists avoid this work entirely? Nathan provides practical insights on everything from parental alienation concerns to the reality of 50-50 custody arrangements, offering both legal professionals and parents a clearer understanding of how mental health intervention actually works in family court cases.What You'll Learn✔ The key differences between court-appointed therapeutic intervention and private therapy, including confidentiality boundaries and reporting requirements✔ Why the "neutral co-parent" approach is essential for moving beyond dysfunctional spousal dynamics into effective business-like co-parenting relationships✔ How to properly communicate with your co-parent about children's concerns using the BIFF method (Brief, Informative, Friendly, Firm) without creating additional conflict✔ The realistic success rates of therapeutic intervention (approximately 50%) and what factors determine whether families will benefit from court-ordered counseling✔ Practical strategies for helping children maintain relationships with both parents while teaching them healthy conflict resolution skills rather than withdrawal patternsWhere to Find Nathan Williamswilliams-coach.com
If you've ever heard the dreaded words, “I love you but I am not in love with you,” or, more bluntly, “I want a divorce,” you know what follows is a mental and emotional rollercoaster of epic proportion. But what you probably don't know is what to do if that day comes and what your rights might be when it comes to protecting yourself, your money, and your relationship with your children. My guest today, Attorney David Pissara, has made it his life's work to help men navigate what is likely the most difficult part of his life – post-divorce. Today, we talk about how to avoid conflict during these times while simultaneously protecting your rights, the emotional manipulation many men face and how to confront it, whether or not the family court system is biased and what to expect when dealing with the courts, what indicators to be on the lookout for you to recognize if a divorce is pending, and even how AI may change family law. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:17 – Introduction and Context 01:05 – Why Men Struggle in Divorce 02:58 – Men, Vulnerability, and Leadership 08:33 – Marriage as a Contract 12:37 – The Question of Fairness in Divorce Settlements 17:01 – What Men Should Look for in Women 20:18 – Predictors of Divorce and Commitment 21:27 – The Danger of Social Isolation 25:51 – Balancing Happiness and Sacrifice 28:15 – Feminism, Disney, and Unrealistic Expectations 31:12 – Dating Standards and Preferences 36:12 – The Dreaded “I Want a Divorce” Moment 37:00 – How Women Strategize Divorce 39:23 – Abuse vs. Violence in Relationships 43:40 – How Courts Handle Restraining Orders 46:06 – Why Men Rarely File Restraining Orders 49:40 – Civil vs. High-Conflict Divorces 52:02 – Should Men Stay or Leave the House? 54:38 – Resources for Fathers in Custody Battles 57:46 – Strategies for High-Conflict Personalities 59:39 – No-Fault Divorce and Its Impact 01:04:00 – Handling Loans and Slander in Divorce 01:06:52 – Bias in Family Courts and AI Judges 01:09:59 – Parental Alienation and Legal Strategy 01:11:00 – Wrap-Up and Post-Show Instructions Battle Planners: Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready
Send us a textDavid Pisarra wants to help fathers navigate their custody and divorce cases to secure more time with their kids. Like several previous Talking About Kids guests, David believes that the processes and systems can be easily biased against fathers, and David wants to help fathers overcome the obstacles. David and I discuss his perspective, his experience as a family law attorney, the dos and don'ts of family court, and Dad's Law School, David's online community that he designed to educate and support fathers. More information about David and Dad's Law School is at talkingaboutkids.com.