Tell Me How with Tiny & Tati

TELL ME HOW ya'll always trying to fix what is not broke. But on a more serious note, we all have insecurities. Not only do we lack confidence in our looks and bodies, but in our careers, relationships, parenting, black blah blah. We all got issues. Today we talked about what our insecurities looked like growing up, dealing with them, finding confidence in the most random things, and understanding that we're made just like how we are for a reason. Being confidence in where we stand in our paths and being proud. And you should be too! Sometimes looking at two people like us, you would assume where confidence lies, but there's always something beneath. We want everyone especially WOMEN, to understand that it's a lot more to this journey than what we can see with our eyes. You don't need to fix your face or body you need to fix your HEART and SOUL.

TELL ME HOW you think I'm a house wife?! On this episode we talked about how you don't have to feel like you need to earn the title you was given. For that matter you don't need to have that title. You just have to be YOU. We discussed how we felt like we did not have to be a certain way as a partner or even as a girl. It took us some time to understand what that meant and how we took those "titles" and made them to be. We are women but we are so much more capable than just cooking and cleaning. And if that's what you want to do, DO IT. Do what YOU want as a HUMAN. That's the only title that matters!

Today we are continuing the conversation on how we experience anxiety. It's been a hot topic in our society for awhile now and it's so great to see people talking about this in the open. It is important to own up to your struggles and to get through your struggles. Life isn't always easy but with God by your side, you can surely find peace. Please find someone to talk to. Someone, ANYONE. Sending you all love!

What is anxiety? Today we talk about how Tiny has been dealing, or not, with her anxiety. She explains how it shows up for her in many ways through out the day and the routines she has created to avoid having episodes. We definitely want to continue the conversation in all the different ways anxiety can show up for many people. Please find some one to talk to and ALWAYS take care yourself.

They say look at yourself in the mirror before you judge someone else. The problem is many people don't like what they see and rather see a distorted reflection based on someone else's life. Today we discuss how Tiny had a situation where she felt as if she was judged by someone that is by no means in a position to judge anyone. Many times people will use others to validate themselves. You may have materialistic things (which are provided to you by someone else) but do you have love? Happiness? Confidence to be the BEST YOU?

Welcome Back! We know the major impact the pandemic made on our lives. Being out of work and bored out our minds at home took a toll on our mental health. But what about the kids? How are you feeling after a year of so many changes? Today we have our little ones expressing themselves. It's always important to check in with your kiddos. Plus they just wanted to be cool and be on the Podcast with their mommies!

It's important for kids to have chores. to teach them responsibilities and give them a sense of competency. They need to be self reliant. But at the same time, we want kids to feel as if they have some one who will always be there for them. Someone to always take care of them and their needs. After all, they have school and other things to worry about. They're just kids. Where do we draw the line in over exerting ourselves and how do we get our kids to learn to be responsible.

Last episode we spoke about the effects we faced not having our father around all the time. Today we brought Jorge, Tati's husband and Tiny's brother in law, to discuss why it's so important for him to be there for his daughter even though they had their daughter at a young age.

In today's episode, we are continuing the conversation about family and the major impact it has on individuals. We are discussing how we experienced not having our father around all the time. We share the SAME parents but our ways of dealing with the inconsistent relationship are completely different. FUN FACT: We are a total of five siblings! Every person has a different outlook to the same circumstances. Thank you for listening and please leave a review. Catch yah on the next one! ✌

Welcome back to the second episode of Tell Me How! Family is always first in our eyes. It's the foundation of who we are and how we live our lives on a day to day basis. Sometimes because family is everything, we lose ourselves in that. Because they're family, we allow things that make us uncomfortable. We go above and beyond for them. Whatever they need, we got it. Don't even worry, I GOTCHU! And vice versa. However, sometimes(or many times) some people don't realize how much is done for them. Or how their behavior and their words can truly affect who we are. Today we're hanging out with Tiny's niece, Lisette (NOT Lizette, sorry..) and how she took care of her family as the oldest sibling because that's her family, and it's only right, RIGHT? But who's taking care of her? And do they even deserve it? Thank you for listening and please leave a review. Catch yah on the next one!

Welcome to the first episode of Tell Me How. Let me TELL YOU HOW we are so excited to be here to share our story, experiences, opinions and all that good stuff. We want to be the thing you need. A friend to about elevating your life in many different aspects: work, kids, & goals. Come join us to talk real shit and give opinions, all while we laugh, cry and probably argue. Go tell them how you joined a new podcast!