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Now let me tell you a little something about "programming". I really don't like the word but its the best that describes what adults(parents/guardiens) do to their kids during childhood untill they grow up. Ever heard this famous quote " If you don't program your kids, society will program them for you". Programming your kids is ok because they are kids. They need someone to look up to. That someone should be you as a parent. If that someone isn't you then it should be someone you can seek expert advice from; someone in whom you have studied their SOURCE.( I explained this better in the podcast). When you Program your kids, they may grow up snd grow out of the programming at a certain stage as they begin to understand or not. Your job is to keep programming them at their different stages of growth untill they become of age because if you don't society will still do it for you anyways. Different stages of growth=Different programming. First stage of growth for example a kid identifies to be a girl or a boy through your programing. At adulthood the child can decide to reverse that or stick with it. Let me leave you with this question. On an average, how many minutes do you spend with your kids between the time they return from school and the time they wake up and are off to school again? Oh! you don't need to. Afterall you have paid lumpsum of school fees so let their teachers do their job right?

New episode of NJAKA_Line is here and it's a dedication to our beautiful Caro Luise. I took few minutes to talk about my healing process and my relationship with Caro Luise; Who she is to me, has been a popular question i have been asked. I also talked about a project in the pipeline that She was to play a role in, together with other kids in Buea and Limbe. Tap on the link. (The text in blue) to listen.

We know our kids are back in school but we also know some parents, especially those whose kids are just starting school for the first time this year can not "shock it". I saw on Facebook as a parent could not bring herself to go home after dropping her kid at school so she had to stay around the campus untill school was over so she can take her back home. I see me in her

Back to School with CBEC

In this episode we are worried about a parent who is seeking advice in how to "sharpen" the son's brain because she thinks the son is "dull". Do you as a parent take time to study your kid? If yes what personality type does your kid possess? Is your kid an introvert or an extrovert? If you can't answer that, don't worry, after listening to this episode you will be able to answer that and more.

Hello, if today is your birthday. I wish you a happy one. NEW PODCAST

Happy New Month. I'm very excited! Its my birth Month. August13th. This month I'm particularly concerned about the reaction of young people after the results of public exams are published. "About Shutting Down Schools In Cameroon" ... Schooling❌ Education✅ Listen

"Our children do not belong to us, they belong to their souls" Tengu solange. A typical example of "unconditional" love used to be the one that exists between parents and their children. Is it still the case nowadays? Find out in this episode some ways to love your children unconditionally.

While some parents think its useless asking the opinion of their kids before taking major decisions about their life, some think its absolutely necessary. Others just don't know. What about you? What do you think?