The D/s Effect

Are you a new or inexperienced Dom-type who desires more authority in your Dominant expression and D/s dynamic? If so, stay tuned today as Ms. Elle discusses the traits of an excellent Dominant, and how to step into your FemDom power, even as a shy switch!

If you are a new Dominant, a Dominant with a new partner, or simply interested in trying out a new type of BDSM play or scene but don't know where to start or how to properly execute your vision, tune in today as Ms. Elle breaks down the flow and function of a proper BDSM scene.

If you are coupled with a shy vanilla lover, or nervous newbie just dipping their toes into the ocean of BDSM, how do you broach new topics? How can you introduce them to your kinks without scaring them off? Ms. Elle answers these questions and more in today's episode.

"I can yell and be aggressive, but I shouldn't have to." That is essentially the mentality that drives soft-Dom types like BDSM Daddies, Mommies, and Caregivers. In this episode, Ms. Elle breaks down the nature of soft Dominance, and the true power and effectiveness of this style of Dominant authority.

With toxic examples like Fifty Shades and 365 Days, fetishized abuse is becoming more prevalent under the BDSM label...so, what is the truth? What actually defines a healthy and safe Dominant? And what are the warning signs to look out for when vetting a potential Dom? Ms. Elle discusses this and more in today's episode.

Despite the narratives presented in Fifty Shades of Grey, 365 Dni (Days), and the like, these examples are not of BDSM or healthy D/s dynamics, but of manipulation, coercion, Stockholm Syndrome, and downright abuse. But how are these narratives passed off as erotic and sexy? And what impact does this have on rape culture and society's understanding of consent? Ms. Elle discusses this and more in today's episode.

NXIVM has been a trending topic due in part to HBO's new documentary, The Vow, where the many abuses of this "BDSM sex cult" came to light. But is NXIVM actually BDSM, and if so, what does that mean for the nature of consent? Ms. Elle discusses this and more in today's powerful episode.

The sexual experience should be filled with connection and intimacy, not over-thinking and insecurity! In this episode, Ms. Elle speaks to those deep places of questions and insecurities as she shares her secrets for conquering sexual anxiety once and for all!

"Vanilla Conditioning" refers to the shame, judgement, and fear that often surrounds the thought of stepping outside of the "norm" sexually or relationally. In this episode, Ms. Elle lays out her practical steps for conquering this conditioning so you can step into sexual confidence!

In this episode, Ms. Elle tackles the most common myths and lies surrounding the BDSM Lifestyle, and discusses the powerful mental health benefits and relational rewards you can expect from a healthy D/s relationship.

Using the Netflix hit, "Love is Blind" as the basis for discussion, Ms. Elle lays the groundwork for healthy BDSM and power-exchange dynamics in the second half of her conversation with digital creator, Kyle Fall.

Using the Netflix hit, "Love is Blind" as the basis for discussion, Ms. Elle lays the groundwork for healthy BDSM and power-exchange dynamics in the first half of her conversation with digital creator, Kyle Fall.