You Only Love Once Podcast

Oooh so we got a DM that we just had to talk about! We discuss a situation with a woman, her husband, and money going to another woman! Let's get stuck in!

What happens if your other half loves to spend and you're all about saving? Who budges, how do you compromise? Let's talk about money.

Esther and Pelumi are discussing triggers and toxicity in relationships (platonic and romantic).

Esther and Pelumi take a leaf out of Michaela's book and challenge each other as well as the listeners to be more proactive in giving compliments to someone of the opposite sex without any expectations or attachments. 

We are starting off the new season by giving our first impressions this season's couples.

This week we take a little detour from the craziness of this season's #marriedatfirstsight and had a chat about how we view the world - using Miles and Karen as an example! Yes! We dive into why some people are still hating on them and why some just can't get over how loved up they are ***hint we think this has more to do with the viewers than the couple themselves! We go into love languages, and all things perspective! Tune in for this week's convo - let's get stuck in!

We all have flaws, quirks and things that make us tick....how difficult is it to deal with your ugly as an adult? Esther and Pelumi discuss this and more

Are there more single people within the Church than outside of it, and is there a reason for this?

Year after year, the age range seems to be dropping....Is this generation experiencing a serious case of dating fatigue or are we all just in love with love? Esther and Pelumi talk about this and much more

What do you do when you think you heard God but you didn't? What if something looks like an answered prayer but isn't? Esther and Pelumi discuss this as well as Paige and Chris.

Are you guilty of giving your newly married friends space, or not inviting your friends out because you think they always want to be with their significant other? Maybe this isn't needed. Pelumi and Esther discuss.

Would you ask permission from your significant other to change your hairstyle? This week Pelumi and Esther discuss where the line is between seeking permission and seeking collaboration and how easy it is to cross that line.

In this continuation of episode 7, Pelumi and Esther discuss whether there is any truth behind that old saying: ‘show me your friends and I'll show you who you are'!

What do your friends say about you when you're not around? How would they describe you? This week Pelumi and Esther talk about this and take part in a vulnerable exercise of their own to test this out! Join us for part 1 of this discussion - we'll be dropping part 2 next week!

Society says this.....Society says that? What are the things we do or avoid because of what Society has prescribed is right and wrong? Pelumi and Esther discuss

What is wrong with being a "Mr Nice Guy"? How has society turned this term into a negative? Pelumi and Esther share their thoughts.

Would you say you argue well and fair? Esther and Pelumi discuss the language of disagreement and more.

Esther and Pelumi have a candid unplanned conversation about gaslighting.

We all have some sort of trauma from our life experiences. Have you healed from it? Is it affecting your current relationships and threatening future ones? Pelumi and Esther talk all about it.

Pelumi and Esther discuss over- communication and whether it is ever too soon to share in a relationship.