Podcasts about Gaslighting

Psychological manipulation via being made to question one's own judgment

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Spencer & Vogue
Gaslighting, Crosswords & Chanel Returns

Spencer & Vogue

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2026 39:30


On this week's Vogue & Amber: Sleep deprivation sparks weird facts, Amber's powering through Dancing with the Stars and Vogue is battling house move chaos, wifi-admin and an accidental Chanel scandal.Plus, a very real sister argument erupts mid-episode, crosswords, the girls debate viral videos, dream TV shows and which animal legs they'd swap theirs for and Agony Amb tackles “the talk”- how to talk to your kids about sex without traumatising everyone involved.Watch us on Youtube! CLICK HERE! or search Vogue & AmberRemember, if you want to get involved you can:Email us at vogueandamberpod@global.com OR find us on socials @voguewilliams, @ambrerosolero @vogueandamberpodListen and subscribe to Vogue & Amber on Global Player or wherever you get your podcasts.

The Silver Linings Handbook
188. When Love Turns Into a Lie with Heather Rovet

The Silver Linings Handbook

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 27, 2026 74:22


What happens when the person you trust most is the one quietly rewriting your reality? Toronto real estate broker Heather Rovet joins me to expose the romance scam that shattered her world—an emotional maze of manipulation, false promises and meticulously crafted lies.By the time the truth surfaced, Heather learned she wasn't his only target. This man had deceived successful women across Canada. And the most devastating part? This wasn't even his first time. He had already been caught once before.Contact me at silverliningshandbookpod@gmail.comCheck out the Silver Linings Handbook website at:https://silverliningshandbook.com/Check out our Patreon to support the show at:https://www.patreon.com/thesilverliningshandbookJoin our Facebook Group at:https://www.facebook.com/groups/1361159947820623Visit the Silver Linings Handbook store to support the podcast at:https://www.bonfire.com/store/the-silver-linings-handbook-podcast-storeVisit The True Crime Times Substack at:https://truecrimemessenger.substack.comThe Silver Linings Handbook podcast is a part of the ART19 network. ART19 is a subsidiary of Wondery and Amazon Music.See the Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and the California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Men Don't Know podcast
GASLIGHTING NO ACCOUNTABILITY

Men Don't Know podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 26, 2026 26:10


On this episode, we call up some friends to find out which sex does the most gaslighting and has less accountability.

Boiler Room
Peace, Inc. — Brought to You by the Department of War

Boiler Room

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 24, 2026 144:14 Transcription Available


Peace, Inc. — Brought to You by the Department of WarAs the language of empire shifts, so does its strategy.In this episode of Boiler Room, we examine the emerging contradiction at the heart of the so-called “new world order”: the quiet move toward renaming the U.S. Department of Defense as the Department of War, while simultaneously promoting global “Boards of Peace,” councils, and stability frameworks meant to manage conflict in an age of permanent war.Is this transparency — or rebranding?From peacekeeping to stabilization, from rules-based order to managed decline, we break down how war is no longer hidden, but normalized — and how peace itself is being repackaged as a bureaucratic product, granted conditionally and enforced selectively.This isn't about ending war.It's about standardizing it.Tonight's discussion includes:• The end of “defense” as a euphemism• Peace as governance, not resolution• Boards, councils, and the rise of managerial empire• Pax Americana 2.0 in a multipolar world• Language, power, and the normalization of permanent conflictHost:Bryan McClain (Hesher)Guests:Adam Clark (Ruckus)Mystical PharaohBazed-Lit AnalyzerWebsite: https://alternatecurrentradio.comSupport: https://alternatecurrentradio.com/support/Merch: https://alternate-current-radio.creator-spring.com/

The Ryan Kelley Morning After
TMA (1-22-26) Hour 2 - We're Gaslighting You

The Ryan Kelley Morning After

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2026 44:06


(00:00-16:01) This is in the running for one of Jackson's favorite songs ever. New friend of the show, Nevin Shapiro is still angry and he's ready to start booting people off the staff. Someone needs to explain gaslighting. Breakfast Big Macs. TMJ and TMD. Are we destined for a one game playoff in the EMOTD competition?(16:09-34:10) Keeping with the QFTA theme for the day. Ranking our favorite sports. Sports franchise values. The Ghost of Mailbu. Jackson lived and died with Drew Bennett. Doug Vauhgn: Toiletside with Stan Kroenke.(34:20-43:57) You want your updated NCAA Net Rankings? Where's Illinois after their win last night and where are the Billikens?See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Marquettism.org
Should Myron Be Criticizing Black Americans & Saying "N***ER"?

Marquettism.org

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 22, 2026 14:06


Marquett shares his ideas on people being triggered about Myron talking about black people.━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━━

Good Morning Liberty
Trump at Davos, Immigration, and Covid Gaslighting || 1715

Good Morning Liberty

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2026 47:58


Good Morning Liberty breaks down Trump's Davos/W.E.F. moment, the "quiet part out loud" politics, Congress' latest spending tricks, and why immigration arguments keep turning into excuses for bigger government. We also cover Thomas Massie's attack ad drama, Turning Point-style "fund ICE at any cost" logic, and the uncomfortable libertarian reality: the welfare state is the root problem, and mass deportation has no clean moral path under the system we've built. Then we revisit COVID-era gaslighting, natural immunity, and the Paul Offit admissions that make "we didn't know" sound like a cover story.  

Heartbreak to Happiness
When Healing Requires Boundaries — Camille Toscano

Heartbreak to Happiness

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2026 43:18


Send us a textCamille Toscano joins Sara to share how healing from childhood abuse and divorce required one non-negotiable step: boundaries. Together they unpack red flags, nervous-system warning signs, and practical tools—plus Camille's new Divorce SOS App designed to help people through breakup and divorce.Connect with Camille Toscano:Website: camilletoscano.comDivorce SOS App: www.divorcesosapp.comDivorce SOS Handbook: www.divorcesoshandbook.comInstagram: @camilledivorcecoachLinkedIn: Camille ToscanoFacebook: @camilledivorcecoachTikTok: @camilletoscanoSupport the showFind more information and resources here: http://saradavison.com/Follow me on social media►Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/saradavisondivorcecoach/Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/SaraDavisonDivorceCoachTwitter: https://twitter.com/SDDivorceCoachLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/sara-davison-742b453/

The Human Risk Podcast
Becky Holmes on Romance Scams

The Human Risk Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2026 68:28


What lies behind Romance Fraud? Romance fraud is one of the fastest-growing forms of fraud worldwide, and one of the most emotionally devastating. It's also one of the most misunderstood.On this episode, I'm speaking to Becky Holmes, author of the bestselling book Keanu Reeves Is Not in Love With You. Becky didn't become interested in romance fraud through victimhood or research. She stumbled into it during the pandemic after being approached by scammers online — and instead of ignoring them, she decided to wind them up. What began as a joke — sending absurd messages, inventing ridiculous scenarios, and pushing scam scripts to breaking point — turned into something much more serious. Through humour, Becky uncovered the psychological mechanics of romance fraud: how trust is built, how isolation and gaslighting work, and why believing you're “too smart to fall for it” is often the most dangerous belief of all.In this conversation, we explore why laughing at scammers is not the same as blaming victims, why romance fraud closely mirrors patterns seen in abusive relationships, and why shame — not stupidity — keeps people trapped. We also talk about humour as a gateway to learning, the limits of victim-focused storytelling, and the uncomfortable truth that none of us are immune. This is a funny conversation in places. And then it isn't. This is not the first time the Human Risk Podcast has explored romance fraud. On a previous episode, I spoke with Anna Rowe, a victim of romance fraud, about the profound emotional and psychological impact of being deceived by someone you believed you loved.In this episode, we discuss:Why romance fraud is a psychological scam, not a technical oneHow humour can expose manipulation without mocking victimsThe striking parallels between romance fraud and abusive relationshipsIsolation, gaslighting, and shame as tools of controlWhy “it would never happen to me” is such a dangerous beliefThe role of AI, deepfakes, and evolving scam tacticsWhy fraud literacy matters — and why people don't seek it out until it's too lateThe emotional cost of online exposure and harassmentWhat institutions, platforms, and society still get wrong about fraudGuest ProfileBecky Holmes is an author, speaker, and writer specialising in fraud, online manipulation, and digital harm. Her first book, Keanu Reeves Is Not in Love With You, explores the world of romance fraud through humour, storytelling, and lived experience.Her second book, The Future of Fraud, examines how scams are evolving in a world shaped by AI and digital identity. Links and resourcesBecky's first book Keanu Reeves Is Not in Love With You - https://share.google/fKQ6qCL1l8Ygl1ey2The Future of Fraud her second (out April 2026) - https://share.google/fKQ6qCL1l8Ygl1ey2Becky on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/beckyholmeshatesspinach/Becky on Instagram: Becky Holmes (@deathtospinach)Becky on Twitter/X: https://x.com/deathtospinach?Becky's book agent profile: https://www.curtisbrown.co.uk/client/becky-holmesPrevious Human Risk Podcast episode with Anna Rowe on being a victim of romance fraud: https://www.humanriskpodcast.com/anna-rowe-on-romance-scams/AI-Generated Timestamped Summary00:00 – Why romance fraud mattersChristian explains why the podcast is returning to romance fraud, linking this episode to an earlier conversation with victim Anna Rowe (linked in the show notes).02:00 – How Becky Holmes got into romance fraudBecky describes how being approached by scammers during lockdown — and deciding to wind them up — accidentally turned into deep expertise.05:00 – When jokes expose the scriptAbsurd replies, fake crime scenes, and the moment Becky realised scammers weren't reading messages, just following scripts.09:00 – Laughing at scammers, not victimsWhy humour can highlight manipulation without blaming those who fall victim — and how the book shifts from comedy to something much darker.14:00 – Romance fraud as psychological abuseThe parallels with abusive relationships: isolation, gaslighting, shame, and why people stay, return, or fall again.21:00 – “It would never happen to me”Why believing you're too smart to fall for romance fraud is often the biggest risk of all.28:00 – What the media gets wrongVictim-focused storytelling, ignored systems, and why AI, deepfakes, and scam scripts matter more than headlines.36:00 – Fraud literacy and preventionWhy people don't seek out information about fraud until it's too late — and how humour can be a gateway to awareness.45:00 – The personal cost of online exposureOnline harassment, cyberflashing, and the emotional toll of spending years inside the systems you're critiquing.55:00 – What's next for BeckyUpcoming books, speaking work, and where to find her online.

Dark Dice
Season 2 | Ep. 31 | The Wish

Dark Dice

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2026 52:56


As the darkness closes in, Soren makes a wish. Story by Travis Vengroff (Game Master) Produced, Edited, and with Sound Design by Travis Vengroff Executive Producers: Dennis Greenhill, Carol Vengroff, AJ Punk'n, & Maico Villegas Mixing and Mastering by Finnur Nielsen Transcriptions by Travis Vengroff Cast: Balmur – Jeff Goldblum Narrator / Co-Game Master – Travis Vengroff Narrator / Co-Game Master – K.A. Statz Father Sindri Westpike – Eyþór Viðarsson Rowena Granitepike – Hem Brewster Lirril – Tanja Milojevic Elias "Payne" Embertree – Drew Tillman Soren Arkwright – Peter Joeseph Lewis Ildrex Mystan – Russ D. More Glom Vogelberg – Sean Howard Gaelle Vogelberg – Holly Billinghurst Music: (in order of appearance) Music Director / Arranged by - Travis Vengroff Music Engineer (Musiversal) - Gergő Lá "The Silent Clan" - Arranged by Travis Vengroff, Performed and Written by Steven Melin "Lament" - Written and Performed by Josh Barron "Danse Silencieuse" – Arranged and Performed by Travis Vengroff with Cello by Sam Boase-Miller and stock media provided by avinograd/ Pond5, Written and Performed by Andrey Vinogradov "Eastwood in Spring" & "Ilmater's Hope" - Written and Mixed by Steven Melin, Orchestrated by Christopher Siu, with Additional Copyist Catherine Nguyen, Lyrics & Translations by Travis Vengroff, Violin by Matheus Garcia Souza, Budapest Strings Recorded by Musiversal, Choir Recorded by Budapest Scoring Dark Dice art by Allen Morris with lettering by Kessir Riliniki This is a Fool and Scholar Production. For early episodes and bonus content join us at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/FoolandScholar⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out our Merch: www.DarkDice.com Free Transcripts are also available: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/posts/dark-dice-22460850⁠⁠ Special Thanks to: Our Patreon supporters! | Hem Brewster | Our Fool & Scholar Discord Lampreys! | Carol Vengroff Content Warnings: Agency (Loss of), Death, Feelz (you may cry), Gaslighting, Loss (Familial) Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Bitch Is Better
Gaslighting 101 ft. Kaya Wilson & Aaron Marcellus (Part 1)

Bitch Is Better

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2026 54:38


Kaya and Aaron of Bravo! We're Black join me to talk about Amanda Batula and Kyle Cooke's split, the hilarious Colorado trip from hell on Real Housewives of Potomac, Gizelle and Mauricio, Married to Medicine, Love During Lockup and more! ⁠ACCESS AD-FREE/EXTENDED/VIDEO EPISODES BY BECOMING A PATRON HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Kaya and Aaron on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, listen to their ⁠podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and check out their ⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!! Follow me on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Bitch Is Better
Gaslighting 101 ft. Kaya Wilson & Aaron Marcellus (Part 2)

Bitch Is Better

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2026 51:31


Kaya and Aaron of Bravo! We're Black join me to talk about Amanda Batula and Kyle Cooke's split, the hilarious Colorado trip from hell on Real Housewives of Potomac, Gizelle and Mauricio, Married to Medicine, Love During Lockup and more! ⁠ACCESS AD-FREE/EXTENDED/VIDEO EPISODES BY BECOMING A PATRON HERE⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow Kaya and Aaron on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠, listen to their ⁠podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and check out their ⁠Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠!! Follow me on⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Unbalanced Encounters: Rally
The Misfortunate 4 - Pt 7 - Flood in the Basement

Unbalanced Encounters: Rally

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2026 104:09


I didn't expect to many convoluted connections. I just thought we were gonna go adventuring. After a cataclysmic flood, our heroes have to reckon with what's really important to them. Honor. Gold. Drugs. Will this adventure give them what they want? Probably not.   !! Content Warnings !! 00:33:55 Physical intimidation 00:40:55 Gaslighting. Physical abuse. Sexism 01:30:35 Deceptive/coercive contracts   == CREDITS == Cast: Patrick Perini, GM Caustic Phoenix as Cal Ironwater Cinderblocksally as Weevil Woebringer Craig Pate as Odion Osprey-Heronshaw Emily Greymoore as Arianna Floridia “Flo” Osprey II Cleo Birch as Ferrin Whel IV Crew: Sabrina Ortiz, Producer Nick Plaisance, Lorekeeper Renee Juneau, Chronicler Mason Allan, Game Design Consultant Sayer Roberts, Composer Callahan Bevilacqua, Dialogue Editor Colin Epstein, Writer System: Tales of the Valiant by Kobold Press Follow us on Bluesky @uepodca.st

I’m An Artist, Not A Salesman Podcast
How Jamie Tompkins Reclaimed Her Voice After Broadcasting Burnout and Workplace Harassment

I’m An Artist, Not A Salesman Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2026 95:50


What happens when you walk away from a high-profile, Emmy-winning career and decide to tell the truth—your truth—for the first time?In this powerful episode of I'm an Artist, Not a Salesman, host Luis Guzman sits down with Jamie Tompkins, a former Fox 13 Seattle news anchor turned truth-teller, survivor, and soon-to-be podcast host of Respectfully. Known for her poise in front of the camera, Jamie opens up about what was really happening behind the scenes: from the polished lights of broadcast journalism to the shadows of sexual harassment, burnout, and betrayal within a police department she once believed in.Jamie's story is more than a career pivot—it's a deep, unfiltered look at identity, trauma, strength, and what it really takes to reclaim your voice in a world that constantly tries to mute it.In this episode, we explore:Jamie's rise through the ranks of broadcast journalism and her decade-long career with Fox 13 SeattleThe intense public scrutiny and coded “feedback” women often face in the media industryHow being from New Jersey gave her the grit to push back against workplace culture that tried to flatten her personalityHer transition from the newsroom to working with the Seattle Police Department as Chief of Staff—and how that journey quickly unraveledThis is not just another career story. It's about:Toxic work environments and how they're often disguised as “opportunity”Gaslighting, sexual harassment, and how even in positions of power, women are forced to fight twice as hard to be taken seriouslyLeaving behind a life that looked glamorous on the outside but was quietly destroying her from withinCreative rebirth and why podcasting—on her own terms—was the outlet she didn't know she neededJamie shares the uncomfortable but necessary truth about why she walked away from it all, how she's healing through honesty, and what her upcoming podcast Respectfully will stand for. She reflects on therapy, fitness, family, and the radical act of saying no more—no more performance, no more compliance, no more pretending.What's especially striking is her clarity. Jamie doesn't speak in platitudes—she speaks from the grit of lived experience. She's unafraid to name names, call out hypocrisy, and discuss the ripple effect of trauma in professional and personal relationships. But this episode is not about bitterness. It's about freedom.Highlights include:Her early roots in musical theatre and how a chance opportunity turned into a decades-long careerHer surprising detour into police department leadership—and what she didn't see comingThe emotional toll of workplace harassment and the strength it took to walk awayFinding joy again in things like music, dogs, family holidays, and quiet momentsWhy going to the gym isn't just physical—it's mental survivalWhether you're a creative, a professional navigating burnout, or someone recovering from toxic environments, this episode will hit home. It's raw, it's real, and it's a reminder that sometimes, your second act is your best one yet.Want more from this episode? Here's how to stay connected:Follow the podcast on Spotify, Apple Podcasts, and YouTube by searching I'm an Artist, Not a SalesmanStay in the loop with host Luis Guzman on Instagram and TikTok: @ImAnArtistNotASalesmanLearn more about Jamie Tompkins and her upcoming podcast Respectfully by keeping an eye on her socials and future announcementsIf this episode resonated, share it with someone who needs to hear that it's never too late to start overYour story doesn't end at burnout. It starts when you take the mic back.

Bachelor Rush Hour With Dave Neal
1-16-26 Morning Rush - Baldoni Dishes Tea On Ex Co Host Partner Liz Plank & More Gaslighting From Trump Administration As A Protester Has Gone Blind

Bachelor Rush Hour With Dave Neal

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 16, 2026 28:14


Morning Rush Hour is packed with breaking updates and behind-the-scenes details you won't hear anywhere else. We dive into Blake Lively vs. Justin Baldoni, unpacking why Liz Plank wanted to go no-contact with Baldoni and sharing newly surfaced Baldoni deposition updates. Plus, Caroline Leavitt responds to mounting questions over ICE brutality, and we break down what her answers really mean. All that, the latest headlines, and so much more—your morning news, without the spin. Sponsored by Wix. Sign up for free at wix dot com Sponsored by Quince. Go to quince dot com slash rush hour for 365 day returns and free shipping!

Deep State Radio
The Daily Blast: Mike Johnson Goes Off Rails in Vile Gaslighting Display on Trump, ICE

Deep State Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026 24:16


House Speaker Mike Johnson's response to growing ICE violence is really something to behold. In one long, rambling answer, he blamed shooting victim Renee Good in every which way, absurdly claiming she'd been “taunting” ICE officers and “impeded” them, while insisting they'd been “very patient.” In another one, he played sleazy little games, claiming the violence represents the “tragic consequences” of ICE facing “too much resistance”—again blaming the victims for violence against them, without a hint of concern about ICE's conduct. We talked to Sarah Posner, author of several good books on the religious right, who is launching a new podcast next week called “Reign of Error.” We discuss Johnson's strain of Christianity, how Trump and MAGA fuse religious and secular authoritarianism, and why some leading Evangelicals are now calling on people to pray—not for the victims of Trump-MAGA violence, but rather for Kristi Noem and ICE. Looking for More from the DSR Network? Click Here: https://linktr.ee/deepstateradio Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Todd Starnes Podcast
Jimmy's Monologue - Walz and Frey are gaslighting Americans

The Todd Starnes Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026 13:45


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Sex, Love, and Addiction
Part 2: Learning to Trust Yourself After Gaslighting

Sex, Love, and Addiction

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026 52:34


Tara Beall-Gomes and Dr. Rob continue their conversation about next-level gaslighting, including red flag behaviors in therapy, role-playing dialogues that highlight gaslighting language, and the role that a therapist can play in finding closure after years of betrayal. Tara also offers encouragement to a partner that is working to regain their spouses trust, and resources for anyone who is unable to pay for extensive therapy.    TAKEAWAYS: [1:25] Now he's gaslighting our therapist?  [3:48] Is gaslighting abusive?  [5:27] Role-play examples of gaslighting, projecting, and controlling.  [10:58] Shame and empathy with rigorous honesty.  [15:43] “I knew all along.” Now what?  [21:37] I can't believe anything my spouse says.  [25:25] Identifying the core values that drive our reactions.  [32:55] The role of your therapist in finding closure.  [34:50] Red flags in therapy behavior.  [38:52] Next steps when an addict has support and you don't. [43:31] How can a partner ever trust again?  [46:15] Encouragement and free resources.    RESOURCES: Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101  Seeking Integrity Free Sexual Addiction Screening Assessment Partner Sexuality Survey Tara Beall-Gomes   Seeking Integrity Podcasts are produced in partnership with Podfly Productions.    QUOTES: “Gaslighting is relational and strategic, while lying is an isolated behavior.”  “Closure is incredibly important in about to find peace, but it doesn't have to mean agreement.”  “You can't derail your own trauma work and recovery when dealing with your partner.”  “If you want to trust again, you have to trust yourself first.”  “You are enough, and you can do this.” 

Sex, Love, and Addiction
Part 1: Learning to Trust Yourself After Gaslighting

Sex, Love, and Addiction

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026 29:40


Tara Beall-Gomes is a certified CT and FL therapist who founded Grit and Grace Recovery, which focuses on betrayal trauma, sex, and porn addiction. Together with Dr. Rob she highlights key differences between simple lies and manipulative gaslighting tactics, the impact that gaslighting has on a partnership, and the importance of empowering a gaslit partner after years of not knowing whether they can trust themselves.    TAKEAWAYS: [4:11] What is gaslighting from a therapist's perspective?  [6:13] Gaslighting affects more than your partnership. [7:44] Patterns in gaslighting, and why they appear.  [12:35] Simple lies or real gaslighting tactics?  [15:01] Common couples gaslighting patterns in Tara's office.  [20:31] Empowering a gaslit partner.  [23:04] Defining the ‘victim' and the ‘problem'.  [26:33] Learning to trust your gut.    RESOURCES: Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101  Seeking Integrity Free Sexual Addiction Screening Assessment Partner Sexuality Survey Tara Beall-Gomes   Seeking Integrity Podcasts are produced in partnership with Podfly Productions.    QUOTES: “Once we understand what something means, we can understand how we can change those behaviors in order to be construction instead of destructive.”  “Chances are, your gaslighting tactics are not just being used in your coupleship, but other areas of your life too.”  “Staying in the victim role is not going to contribute to optimal healing.” 

TARABUSTER with Tara Devlin
Tarabuster Tuesdays with Tara Devlin 1.13 Greed, Grifting& Gaslighting is the GOP “Way”

TARABUSTER with Tara Devlin

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026 63:42


Tarabuster Tuesdays with Tara Devlin 1.13 Over 590,000 Trump Mobile Buyers Complain- Phone Priced $499 Remains Undelivered Months After Payment Make America unapologetically WOKE Again! Watch live at 2PM EST today on the Political Voices Network. Tune in, join the resistance, and let your voice be heard. This is one hour you can't afford to miss if you care about truth, decency, and democracy Become a Tarabuster patron: https://www.patreon.com/c/taradevlin https://substack.com/@tarabuster @tarabuster.bsky.social BlueSky Twitter https://x.com/REALTaraDevlin YouTube https://www.youtube.com/@Tarabuster @tarabuster_show on Insta Support Tara's Devlin's unapologetic liberal work at Venmo @Taradacktyl and Paypal: paypal.com/paypalme/taradacktyl ____________________ Join this channel to get access to perks: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCAHVeeUYu70LGb0c0Rfb5Ig/join Your Calls to Action:

Diabetics Doing Things Podcast
Episode 344 - Doing Well with Diabetes: Kerry Murphy

Diabetics Doing Things Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026


Episode 4 of Doing Well with Diabetes Season 2 features Kerry Murphy, wife and mother to multiple people with type 1 diabetes and founder of Follow T1Ds, who explains how her long, layered exposure to T1D—from her sister-in-law and husband to her niece and daughter—pushed her from terrified observer to frontline advocate. She describes the collision between modern diabetes tech (CGMs, pumps, data-driven care) and school systems still operating on 1990s protocols, culminating in nurses refusing to follow CGM data during the school day.  After discovering Department of Justice rulings that treating CGM follow as a reasonable ADA accommodation applies nationwide, she built Follow T1Ds around three demands: follow T1D CGMs, follow parent input, and follow federal law. The conversation covers how parents can move from raw fear and frustration to strategic advocacy, why labeling kids “non-compliant” ignores context and equity, and why school nurses are often the only line of real safety for some students. Kerry's long-term aim is systems change so that parents don't have to become de facto lawyers and policy experts just to keep their kids safe at school. Chapters 00:40 – Kerry Murphy and Follow T1Ds 01:47 – Kerry's Deep Family History With Type 1 Diabetes 04:58 – Screening Her Sons, Avoiding DKA, and Early Symptom Hindsight 08:32 – Watching From the Sidelines, Then Becoming a Caregiver Herself 09:38 – Kindergarten Clash: Modern Tech vs 1990s School Protocols 14:27 – DOJ/ADA Rulings and the Three Pillars of Follow T1Ds 23:22 – How Parents Navigate Fear, Gaslighting, and Hard Conversations With Schools 30:32 – “Non-Compliant” Kids, Equity, and Why School Nurses Must Step Up 38:21 – Long-Term Vision: Systems Change So Parents Don't Have to Be Lawyers Resources: https://followt1ds.org/ Kerry's Instagram

THE DAILY BLAST with Greg Sargent
Mike Johnson Goes Off Rails in Vile Gaslighting Display on Trump, ICE

THE DAILY BLAST with Greg Sargent

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026 24:16


House Speaker Mike Johnson's response to growing ICE violence is really something to behold. In one long, rambling answer, he blamed shooting victim Renee Good in every which way, absurdly claiming she'd been “taunting” ICE officers and “impeded” them, while insisting they'd been “very patient.” In another one, he played sleazy little games, claiming the violence represents the “tragic consequences” of ICE facing “too much resistance”—again blaming the victims for violence against them, without a hint of concern about ICE's conduct. We talked to Sarah Posner, author of several good books on the religious right, who is launching a new podcast next week called “Reign of Error.” We discuss Johnson's strain of Christianity, how Trump and MAGA fuse religious and secular authoritarianism, and why some leading Evangelicals are now calling on people to pray—not for the victims of Trump-MAGA violence, but rather for Kristi Noem and ICE.  Looking for More from the DSR Network? Click Here: https://linktr.ee/deepstateradio Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Deep State Radio
The Daily Blast: Mike Johnson Goes Off Rails in Vile Gaslighting Display on Trump, ICE

Deep State Radio

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2026 24:16


House Speaker Mike Johnson's response to growing ICE violence is really something to behold. In one long, rambling answer, he blamed shooting victim Renee Good in every which way, absurdly claiming she'd been “taunting” ICE officers and “impeded” them, while insisting they'd been “very patient.” In another one, he played sleazy little games, claiming the violence represents the “tragic consequences” of ICE facing “too much resistance”—again blaming the victims for violence against them, without a hint of concern about ICE's conduct. We talked to Sarah Posner, author of several good books on the religious right, who is launching a new podcast next week called “Reign of Error.” We discuss Johnson's strain of Christianity, how Trump and MAGA fuse religious and secular authoritarianism, and why some leading Evangelicals are now calling on people to pray—not for the victims of Trump-MAGA violence, but rather for Kristi Noem and ICE. Looking for More from the DSR Network? Click Here: https://linktr.ee/deepstateradio Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Confident Communications
What the Spin Reveals: Power, Fear, and Humanity After the Minneapolis ICE Shooting

Confident Communications

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2026 18:01 Transcription Available


When Renee Goode was killed by an ICE agent in Minneapolis, two completely different stories emerged from the same event. One side called her a domestic terrorist who weaponized her Honda Pilot, while the other saw a mother trying to escape. As a crisis manager from the Twin Cities, I break down the competing narratives from President Trump, JD Vance, Kristi Noem, Governor Tim Walz, and Mayor Jacob Frey to reveal the five hidden cues in any crisis communication: who gets humanized first, how they treat uncertainty, what the process looks like, what they ask you to do with your anger, and what happens to people who disagree. This isn't just political analysis, it's a framework you can apply to workplace drama, family conflict, or any situation where someone's trying to control the narrative. You'll learn why Walz's calm messaging worked after he learned from past mistakes, how Frey's profanity-laced response was strategically brilliant, and why the administration's gaslighting playbook falls apart under scrutiny. Once you learn to spot these patterns, you can't unsee them—in politics or in your personal life.Trigger Warning: This episode discusses a fatal police shooting and contains strong language.Want More Behind the Breakdown? Follow The PR Breakdown with Molly McPherson on Substack for early access to podcast episodes, private member chats, weekly live sessions, and monthly workshops that go deeper than the mic. It is the inside hub for communicators who want real strategy, clear judgment, and a little side-eye where it counts.Follow Molly on Substack Subscribe to Molly's Weekly Newsletter Subscribe to Molly's Live Events Calendar. Need a Keynote Speaker? Drawing from real-world PR battles, Molly delivers the same engaging stories and hard-won crisis insights from the podcast to your live audience. Click here to book Molly for your next meeting. Follow & Connect with Molly: https://www.youtube.com/mollymcpherson https://mollymcpherson.substack.com/ https://www.tiktok.com/@mollybmcpherson https://www.instagram.com/molly.mcpherson/ ...

Gray Matter: An Acid Horror Anthology Podcast

An injured man awakens in a hospital ward to find his body undergoing a horrific change.  CW: Includes themes and depictions of Body Horror & Transformation, Pregnancy, Parasitic Infection, Sickness & Vomiting, Medical Anxiety, Gaslighting, Disfigurement & Disability, and Potential Violence & Death.    Starring Jonathan Inbody and Andrea Inbody.  Written & Directed by Jonathan Inbody.  Editing & Sound Design by Jeff Lavin.  Music by Samantha Hunt.  Episode Art by Jon-Michael Marinell.    Full series credits, sound effects attribution, and links to social media can be found at https://www.graymatterhorror.com/  If you like the show, leave us a 5-star rating and review on Apple Podcasts or Spotify!  For ad-free episodes, behind the scenes commentaries, and more, join the Gray Matter Patreon at https://patreon.com/graymatterhorror  Buy Gray Matter Shirts at https://www.teepublic.com/user/graymatterhorror 

The Trevor Carey Show
The Gaslighting in Minnesota Is off the Charts

The Trevor Carey Show

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2026 12:24 Transcription Available


TOUS DANSEURS
#297 - Hélène Rocheteau, performeuse. Gaslight au Festival Faits d'hiver

TOUS DANSEURS

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2026 41:50


Aujourd'hui, je reçois Hélène Rocheteau, performeuse et chorégraphe. Elle présente « Gaslight » au festival Faits d'hiver.« Gaslight » est un solo choral, inspiré du film éponyme et du livre d'Hélène Frappat, « Gaslighting ou l'art de faire taire les femmes ». À travers ce projet, Hélène s'intéresse aux mécanismes de manipulation, à l'effacement de la parole, et à l'héritage collectif de la disqualification des voix féminines.La pièce se construit à partir de paroles de femmes et mêle aux voix, gestes et objets.On l'écoute avec joie,

48 Hours
Post Mortem | The Gaslighting of Hannah Pettey

48 Hours

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 25:38


48 Hours correspondents Natalie Morales and Anne-Marie Green discuss the survivor story of Hannah Pettey, a young mother from Alabama who was poisoned with lead. They discuss why police first suspected both Hannah's mother and her husband, Brian, why Hannah believes Brian had attempted to previously kill her in a car crash, and her incredible recovery. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Psychology In Seattle Podcast
Is This Gaslighting? (2021 Rerun)

Psychology In Seattle Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 108:50


[Rerun] Dr. Kirk and Humberto explore stories from listeners about gaslighting and other related concepts. March 24, 2021This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. Give online therapy a try at betterhelp.com/KIRK to get 10% off your first month.Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/joinBecome a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattleEmail: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contactWebsite: https://www.psychologyinseattle.comMerch: https://psychologyinseattle-shop.fourthwall.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/Facebook Official Page: https://www.facebook.com/PsychologyInSeattle/TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kirk.hondaThe Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com(By The Daily Telegraph. Copyright holders of the image of Madeleine at three are Kate and Gerry McCann. The age-progressed image was commissioned by Scotland Yard from forensic artist Teri Blythe for release to the public. Both images have been widely disseminated by the copyright holders, and have been the subject of significant commentary., Fair use, https://en.wikipedia.org/w/index.php?curid=39861556)

I Have To Call My Sister
The ChatGPT glitch that's ruining EVERYTHING!

I Have To Call My Sister

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 70:16


Is ChatGPT an absolute idiot now… and is he GASLIGHTING us? This week, Stacey and Kayla spiral over a bizarre AI glitch and wonder if artificial intelligence is officially becoming unreliable. Meanwhile, Kayla's body is actively falling apart and she has no idea what to do about it, Stacey is deeply frustrated by her questionable decisions. Nanny thinks Kayla has lice, and faked a heart attack because she was mad at us. Just another normal day for the sisters!See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

The Second Phase Podcast - Personal Branding & Brand Marketing and Life Strategies for Success for Female Entrepreneurs

Understanding narcissism. There is hope. Understanding Narcissism Narcissism is a complex and often misunderstood personality trait. At its core, narcissism isn't about confidence. It's about insecurity disguised as entitlement. This term is frequently misunderstood, leading many to misidentify narcissistic traits as mere self-assurance. In reality, narcissism involves a fragile self-identity, protected through control, blame-shifting, and a lack of empathy. Narcissism exists on a spectrum. relationships more effectively. The Intersection of Narcissism and Anxiety Anxiety often accompanies relationships with narcissists. The confusion and manipulation involved in such relationships can exacerbate anxiety symptoms. Gaslighting, love bombing, and emotional manipulation leave individuals questioning their reality and self-worth. They may feel crazy. This cycle leads to heightened stress levels and can deeply impact emotional health. Many individuals with anxiety have histories of tumultuous relationships or dysfunctional family dynamics. Seeking Hope and Transformation Despite the challenges, there is hope. The path to healing involves finding clarity and re-establishing one's identity independently from the narcissist's influence. This journey can lead to freedom and renewed self-worth. Central to this transformation is understanding one's identity in Christ. Understanding one's identity in Christ and the character of God can offer a secure foundation for healing and overcoming abuse. Christian Faith: A Source of Strength Faith plays a pivotal role in finding hope amid challenges involving narcissism. Christian teachings encourage us to seek God's strength and wisdom in navigating difficult relationships. Relying on prayer and scripture provides clarity and peace. Faith assures us that no experience is wasted. God uses every trial to shape and strengthen us. Empowerment Through Understanding Recognizing narcissistic traits is empowering. It sets the stage for setting boundaries and prioritizing one's emotional health. Understanding narcissism equips individuals to address its challenges. This understanding promotes healthier relationships and personal well-being. It also helps people help others going through an experience with narcissism or covert abuse. Hope and healing are possible. Website for Kris Reece Buy Kris's book: Breaking the Narcissist's Grip Additional Resources Read the full shownotes and access all links. Links for You, Me, and Anxiety: Parent Book Teen Book Schedule a free consultattion discovery call with Robyn. Download the free eBook: Alleviate Anxiety by Developing Healthy Habits for a Healthy Mind

Choose To Be with Choose Recovery Services; Betrayal Trauma Healing
Gaslighting vs. Defensiveness: How Betrayed Partners Can Tell the Difference - with Sarah Morales

Choose To Be with Choose Recovery Services; Betrayal Trauma Healing

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 13, 2026 49:14


Is it gaslighting — or defensiveness rooted in shame? For betrayed partners, the difference matters…but not in the way you might think.In this episode, Sarah Morales joins Amie to break down:Gaslighting vs normal relational conflictWhy “I didn't mean to” isn't the deciding factorHow repeated harm still counts — even without malicious intentWhat it actually means to take your power backIf you've been stuck second-guessing your reality, this episode is for you.Chapters02:55 Understanding Gaslighting and Misunderstandings04:30 The Scale of Gaslighting07:05 Shame Responses16:09 The Broken Arm Analogy24:02 The Bow and Arrow Analogy25:57 Values and Boundaries28:16 Recovery and Self-Awareness32:13 Healthy Communication and Vulnerability45:52 Distinguishing Between Abuse and Gaslighting Register Now!Rise, Renew, Restore Somatic Healing Retreat in Costa Rica -  Ready to experience deep somatic healing? Join us this July for a transformative 5-day intensive created specifically for women healing from betrayal trauma or navigating divorce. This is your opportunity to reconnect with your body's wisdom, release what you've been carrying, and heal alongside other women who truly understand your journey. Get our FREE eBook - Healing From Betrayal Trauma: A Compassionate Guide to Reclaiming Your LifeQuestions or topics you'd like us to address? Send us an email with “Choose To Be” as the subject to podcast@chooserecoveryservices.com. Watch us⁠ on YouTube.Follow us on Instagram: @choose_recovery_services⁠Schedule⁠ a complimentary consultation.Join our email list to be notified when new episodes air.More from Choose Recovery ServicesBeyond the Facade Podcast - Podcast geared toward helping men live authentically and in harmony with their values.Choose Healing - Weekly support group for women who have recently experienced betrayal and are needing help coping with the symptoms of trauma. Intensives - Accelerate your healing journey with one of our intensives. Foster connection with others who share similar experiences, creating an immersive environment that enables profound transformation in a short period of time.Help. Her. Heal - This program is for men seeking to learn more about empathy, conflict resolution, and healthy communication. Beyond the Facade: Men's Healing Group - We help men move through the pains of addiction, relationship healing, managing emotions, and moving past shame. You'll learn how to better connect with others, understand your own emotional experience, and build a deeper sense of self respect.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠The Empowered Divorce Podcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ with Amie Woolsey for those who are leaning toward divorce.⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Dating From Within - Amie Woolsey hosts this workshop which teaches you how to date yourself first. Learn how to know if you are ready to date again and what a healthy relationship looks like. Should I Stay or Go? - Self-paced course designed to be a companion on your journey toward self-discovery and personal empowerment. Trauma Trigger Kit - Triggers can come out of nowhere. Keep a Trauma Trigger Kit on hand to help you use your five senses to stay grounded and connected to yourself.Believing in You - In this program Amie teaches you how to work WITH your brain instead of against it. Learn tools that will help you move forward to trust, love, empowerment, and finding joy once again.Intimacy Within ⁠- Creating healthy intimacy with your partner begins with creating healthy intimacy within. Amie's self-paced course and guidebook will walk you through the seven levels of intimacy. Learn how to embrace authenticity and vulnerability even in the face of potential rejection.

48 Hours
The Gaslighting of Hannah Pettey

48 Hours

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2026 44:56


When a young woman nearly dies from poisoning, investigators focus on the two people she trusted the most. Anne-Marie Green reports. To learn more about listener data and our privacy practices visit: https://www.audacyinc.com/privacy-policy Learn more about your ad choices. Visit https://podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Advancing Women Podcast
It's Not Your Fault: Gaslighting, Fragile Accountability, and Invisible Labor

Advancing Women Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2026 19:22


Why do so many women leave conversations feeling confused, guilty, or like everything is somehow their fault? In this episode of the Advancing Women Podcast, we dive into the subtle but corrosive relational patterns that show up in everyday work and home dynamics. The quiet processes that shift responsibility, distort accountability, and erode self-trust over time. We explore: DARVO” a defensive pattern (Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender) that flips accountability and turns the person raising concerns into the “problem” Gaslighting: not the buzzword, but the researched process that erodes trust in your own perceptions over time, especially in unequal power dynamics Fragile accountability: when feedback is experienced as attack, reasonable expectations feel persecutory, and responsibility collapses under discomfort Invisible labor: the mental, emotional, and logistical work women disproportionately carry, and how it fuels the “nagging” trap This episode explains why these dynamics feel so disorienting, how they thrive in gendered systems, and what changes when we finally name them clearly. If you've ever wondered: Why you're always apologizing Why accountability conversations go nowhere Why you feel responsible without having real authority This episode offers language, clarity, and release from misplaced guilt. Key takeaway: You're not imagining it. These are known patterns. Naming them doesn't make you difficult, it makes you awake. And clarity is where advancing begins. Advancing Women Podcast previous episodes referenced in this episode: Emotional Labor: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/emotional-labor/id1569849100?i=1000531515098 The 4 Ps Advancement Model: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-4ps-advancement-model/id1569849100?i=1000525495125 For more on the 4 Ps Advancement Model: https://advancingwomenpodcast.com/4ps-advancement-model-problem-patterns-process-proficiency/ Let's Connect: · Instagram: @AdvancingWomenPodcast https://www.instagram.com/advancingwomenpodcast/?hl=en · Facebook: Advancing Women Podcast https://www.facebook.com/advancingwomenpodcast/ ·  LinkedIn: Dr. Kimberly DeSimone https://www.linkedin.com/in/kimberly-desimone-phd-mba-ba00b88/

SO FIRED
Game Night Gaslighting

SO FIRED

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 12, 2026 45:57


Only Fans $6,000 course for free (you're welcome), Tom Brady should count his blessing for being seen with Alix Earle, gold bars in big books, and are we bad people?Send us a textSupport the showShare this episode with your besties! Connect with Honestly Smartlesshonestlysmartless.comIG: @honestlysmartlessTikTok: @honestlysmartlessChelsea's IG: @chelsea_turanoLindsay's IG: @dr.lindsayregehrYouTube: Honestly Smartless Send us a text Support the show and will give you a shout out

Sex, Love, and Addiction
Part 1: Deconstructing the Stages of Gaslighting

Sex, Love, and Addiction

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2026 32:07


Sarah Morales is a Certified Life and Relationship Coach and gaslighting specialist who also sits on the board of APSATS – the Association of Partners of Sex Addicts and Trauma Specialists. Together with Dr. Rob she deconstructs the stages of gaslighting, explains the differences between gaslighting, manipulation and guilt, and addresses common emotions and doubts that partners have when they are being gaslit.    TAKEAWAYS: [3:19] The motivation behind Sarah's work with gaslighting.  [5:42] What are common gaslighting patterns?  [8:00] Differentiating between manipulation, guilt, and gaslighting.  [10:51] Flowcharts to breakdown gaslighting.  [12:37] Stages of progressive and chronic gaslighting.  [17:35] Cognitive dissonance at higher levels of gaslighting.  [19:41] Do gaslighters know what they are doing?  [23:33] Diversion tactics and self-abandonment.  [28:40] Maybe my gaslighter is actually right about me?    RESOURCES: Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101  Seeking Integrity Free Sexual Addiction Screening Assessment Partner Sexuality Survey Sarah Morales   Seeking Integrity Podcasts are produced in partnership with Podfly Productions.    QUOTES: “Gaslighting undermines partners who are asking for what they need in order to feel safe in a relationship.”  “Gaslighting only works when it happens from a person that we're supposed to be able to trust.”  “Eventually I no longer see myself through my own eyes, I only see myself through my gaslighter's eyes.” 

Sex, Love, and Addiction
Part 2: Deconstructing the Stages of Gaslighting

Sex, Love, and Addiction

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 9, 2026 33:51


Sarah Morales and Dr. Rob continue their conversation about the progression of gaslighting. Whether intentional or not, gaslighting always happens slowly and stages, and ultimately results in the inability to trust one's self. In this discussion, Sarah offers tactics for awareness, identification and healing from gaslighting at every stage.    TAKEAWAYS: [1:20] The progression of gaslighting.  [4:18] “Let me check in with myself.”  [6:27] What percentage of your childhood included gaslightling?  [9:17] The end result of gaslighting happens a little bit at a time.  [10:32] 7 techniques that fall under the gaslighting umbrella. [13:08] Levels of awareness and motives behind gaslighting.  [24:28] Passive aggressive behavior and other gaslighting roles. [27:55] Determining the frequency of gaslighting.    RESOURCES: Sex and Relationship Healing @RobWeissMSW Sex Addiction 101  Seeking Integrity Free Sexual Addiction Screening Assessment Partner Sexuality Survey Sarah Morales   Seeking Integrity Podcasts are produced in partnership with Podfly Productions.    QUOTES: “An inability to trust one's self is the most significant thing that happens with gaslighting.”  “Gaslightling is not what happened, it's how many things happened.”  “The easiest and fastest way to recognize gaslighting is through the roles we play.” 

THE PERIOD WHISPERER PODCAST - Perimenopause, Menopause, Weight Loss, Holistic Nutrition, Healthy Hormones, Gut Health, Stres

There's a reason so many women feel dismissed about their health.Women have been taught to minimize symptoms, push through discomfort, and trust external rules over their own lived experience. I'm joined by award-winning health journalist and author Meghan Rabbitt, who has spent decades translating medical research into real-life guidance for women. Tune in to learn why your experience matters and how to advocate for your health with confidence and clarity.Episode Timeline: 00:00 – Episode Preview01:17 – Podcast Intro01:38 – Why Meghan wrote this book04:27 – The education gap in women's health06:58 – Talking about taboo topics09:00 – Stop normalizing pain10:22 – Women push through too much12:17 – Gaslighting ourselves13:36 – Strength training matters14:55 – You can't outsource health17:07 – Become your health CEO18:06 – New rules for women's health25:03 – Rethinking hormones27:32 – Your cycle is information31:59 – Midlife is an opportunity34:34 – Check in with your body35:51 – Changing relationship with alcohol39:53 – Believe your experience40:22 – How to get the bookAbout Meghan RabbittMeghan Rabbitt is an award-winning journalist and author of The New Rules of Women's Health: Your Guide to Thriving at Every Age. She specializes in writing about women's health and wellness, and her work has appeared in many national publications, including Women's Health, Oprah Daily, Prevention, Maria Shriver's Sunday Paper, and more. She's known for translating complex medical and scientific topics into clear, actionable information and for telling stories that help readers better understand their bodies, their health, and themselves.Connect with Meghan Rabbitt:https://www.instagram.com/meghanrabbitt https://www.linkedin.com/in/meghan-rabbitt-04b80116/ https://newrulesofwomenshealth.com/ Links:Book a Hormone Breakthrough Call - https://calendly.com/briatheperiodwhisperer/private-coaching?month=2025-12 Connect with Bria on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bria_period_whisperer/ Learn more about Bria's coaching program: https://www.briatheperiodwhisperer.com/Coaching Subscribe to The Period Whisperer Podcast - https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/the-period-whisperer-podcast-perimenopause-menopause/id1617315546 Spotify - https://open.spotify.com/show/5w8w0KbRuDwOUoBMzeFOOO YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@bria_period_whisperer

Narcissistic Abuse No More
Gaslighting...Making You Doubt Your Reality

Narcissistic Abuse No More

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 7, 2026 37:23 Transcription Available


Helping people admit what they feel in order to heal from the effects of narcissism from a Biblical and Psychological perspective. Website: www.NarcAbuseNoMore.org Email: NarcAbuseNoMore@mail.com Donate via PayPal: https://www.paypal.com/donate/?hosted_button_id=F37STVQCNJ9D8 CASH APP - $evangelistklrch1975 IT Iz FINISHED End Times' Ministries Website: www.ITIzFINISHED.com IT Iz FINISHED Email: ITIzFINISHED@mail.com Watch on YouTube at: https://www.youtube.com/@NarcAbuseNoMore Watch on Rumble… https://rumble.com/c/c-1334751 Watch on Brighteon…  www.brighteon.com/channels/narcissisticabusenomore Telegram: https://t.me/itizfinishedBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/narcissistic-abuse-no-more--2855898/support.

The Shameless Mom Academy
973: INCLUSIVE LEADERSHIP: The “Ambition Gap” is Gaslighting Women. Again.

The Shameless Mom Academy

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2026 27:19


The Lean In and McKinsey & Company Women in the Workplace 2025 report claims that, for the first time, women are less likely than men to want a promotion, stating that 80% of women want to be promoted to the next level, compared to 86% of men.  They label this development an “ambition gap”, stating that women are currently less ambitious than men.  This label is wildly inaccurate, deeply offensive, and grossly irresponsible. Calling these findings an “ambition gap” is strategic reframing that places blame back on women, per usual, while letting broken systems (and the power players who uphold them) off the hook.  When powerful institutions confuse correlation with causation and misdiagnose the problem like this, women pay the price. Again. These kinds of reports shape policy, leadership decisions, funding priorities, and how women are talked about at work. This label is not ok.  It is harmful. The report assumes ambition is singular and linear, defined by traditional corporate ascent, and treats women's slower advancement or disengagement as a personal failure instead of a rational response to inequitable systems and poor resource allocation. Most critically, the report ignores caregiving realities entirely.  You cannot meaningfully analyze women's ambition in 2025 without examining care infrastructures - or lack thereof.  Choosing to ignore this is a distortion of reality.  In other words, this is gaslighting.  In this episode, I highlight other voices and data that were conveniently ignored.  This counter data shows us what we already know - women are more ambitious than ever.  Rather than seeking out a deeper understanding of the data, Lean In and McKinsey opted to report dirty diagnostics.  What we know about data analysis is that to get to the real why, you have to dig deeper, think critically, and ask crucial questions of the actual people impacted.  This didn't happen with this reporting. When you actually talk to women, the situation is clear.  We are no longer willing to self-abandon inside systems that refuse to evolve. We know that to get to the reported 80%, we were required to work exponentially harder with fewer resources.  This is proof of our ambition, resilience, and talent, not lack thereof. The headline is not about an ambition gap.  The headline is that women are growing, evolving, and working smarter while institutions largely are not. In reality, what we are seeing is an institutional gap, a patriarchal gap, and a systems gap.  The bottom line is this… If we want to truly understand the evolution of women's ambition, we need to start by examining the systems that punish it. Links Mentioned: Lean In and McKinsey & Company Women in the Workplace 2025: https://leanin.org/women-in-the-workplace Blessing Adesiyan on the Care Gap:https://thecaregap.substack.com/ More about Blessing Adesiyan: https://blessingadesiyan.com/ Chief and Harris Poll Data on Women's Ambition: https://chief.com/articles/calling-bs-on-the-myth-of-womens-fading-ambition [Open Enrollment] Join Sara's Aligned Leadership Incubator: saradean.com/aligned Hire Sara to speak: saradean.com/speaking Coach with Sara: https://saradean.com/executive-coaching-services Connect with Sara on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/saradeanspeaks Watch Shameless Leadership episodes on YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@saradeanspeaks Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Dark Dice
Season 2 | Ep. 30 | PvP

Dark Dice

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2026 31:34


Sindri and Rowena are ambushed by Soren and his team in a bloody battle for the ages. Story by Travis Vengroff (Game Master) Produced, Edited, and with Sound Design by Travis Vengroff Executive Producers: Dennis Greenhill, Carol Vengroff, AJ Punk'n, & Maico Villegas Mixing and Mastering by Finnur Nielsen Transcriptions by Travis Vengroff Cast: Narrator / Game Master – Travis Vengroff Balmur – Jeff Goldblum Father Sindri Westpike – Eyþór Viðarsson Rowena Granitepike – Hem Brewster Lirril – Tanja Milojevic Elias "Payne" Embertree – Drew Tillman Soren Arkwright – Peter Joeseph Lewis Ildrex Mystan – Russ D. More Glom Vogelberg – Sean Howard Gaelle Vogelberg – Holly Billinghurst Music: (in order of appearance) Music Director / Arranged by - Travis Vengroff Music Engineer (Musiversal) - Gergő Lá "Theme of the Realmweaver" – Written and Mixed by Steven Melin, Orchestrated by Christopher Siu, with Additional Copyist Catherine Nguyen, Violin by Matheus Garcia Souza, Budapest Strings Recorded by Musiversal, Choir Recorded by Budapest Scoring "Valor" – Written by Nobuo Uematsu & Steven Melin, Orchestrated and Mixed by Steven Melin, Lyrics & Translations by Travis Vengroff & Florian Seidler, Budapest Strings, Choir, and Brass recorded by Musiversal "Conspiracy" Written and performed by Brandon Boone, orchestrated by Christopher Siu & Catherine Nguyen, Budapest Strings (orchestra) recorded by Musiversal, Budapest Choir Recorded by Budapest Scoring, mixed by Steven Melin "Unchecked Ambition" - Co-Written by Travis Vengroff, Co-Written, Orchestrated, and Mixed by Steven Melin, Other credits match ^ "Dark Dice The Musical Excerpt" - by Steven Melin and Mike Pettry "Sufferers' Cant" Written by Hitoshi Sakimoto, Orchestrated by Steven Melin, Copyist Catherine Nguyen, Lyrics by Travis Vengroff & Florian Seidler, Feat. Matheus Souza Garcia (Violin), Kristin Kaigus (Woodwinds), Andrew Dunn (Cello), Johannes Geworkian Hellman (Hurdy), Kyle Paxton (Dulcimer), Budapest Strings, Budapest Choir, & Budapest Brass by Musiversal "The Lucky Die Intro" - Written and Performed by Neil Martin of Blighthouse Studio, Budapest Choir by Musiversal "Sheila" & "Secret Water" - Written and Performed by Dark Fantasy Studio "A Plot Most Sinister" & "Lament" - Written and Performed by Josh Barron "Sun for Grandpa" - Harp Performed by Steven Melin"Danse Sanguis" - Written and Performed by Steven Melin, and Travis Vengroff, arranged and performed by Steven Melin, with Cello by Sam Boase-Miller, and stock media provided by avinograd/ Pond5, Written and Performed by Andrey Vinogradov "The Silent Clan" - Arranged by Travis Vengroff, Performed and Written by Steven Melin "Empty Hearts" & "Danse Silencieuse" – Arranged and Performed by Travis Vengroff with Cello by Sam Boase-Miller and stock media provided by avinograd/ Pond5, Written and Performed by Andrey Vinogradov Dark Dice art by Allen Morris with lettering by Kessir Riliniki This is a Fool and Scholar Production. For early episodes and bonus content join us at: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/FoolandScholar⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Check out our Merch: www.DarkDice.com Free Transcripts are also available: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/posts/dark-dice-22460850⁠⁠ Special Thanks to: Our Patreon supporters! | Hem Brewster | Our Fool & Scholar Discord Lampreys! | Carol Vengroff Content Warnings: Agency (Loss of), Animal people (harm to), Death, Feelz (you may cry), Gaslighting, Loss (Familial), Mind Control, Murder Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Gaines for Girls with Riley Gaines
NCAA Is Still Gaslighting Women. Texas FIGHTS Back! |

Gaines for Girls with Riley Gaines

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 5, 2026 30:49


Riley Gaines is joined by Rob Farquharson from the Texas Attorney General's Office as they break down how the NCAA continues to posture publicly on women's sports while refusing to enforce reality behind the scenes. What began as Gaines vs. the NCAA has now escalated into Texas vs. the NCAA, as lawsuits target organizations that allowed men into women's sports while misleading athletes and the public. Rob explains the legal strategy driving these cases, including the consumer deception argument and a deposition moment where an NCAA representative refused to acknowledge basic biological facts, while Riley highlights the real harm women have suffered as a result - including athletes who were never told the truth about who they were competing against or living with. A clear-eyed conversation about why statements aren't enough anymore, and why Texas is stepping in where the NCAA won't. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Mental Wealth
What Is Emotional Abuse? Signs, Gaslighting, and How to Break the Cycle (MW41)

Mental Wealth

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 1, 2026 28:47


In this episode of Mental Wealth, we take a deep dive into one of the most misunderstood forms of psychological harm: Emotional Abuse. Because it doesn't leave physical scars, emotional abuse is often minimized or ignored, but its impact on the soul and mind can be devastating.I also start this episode with a quick life update and a sincere apology for my irregular posting schedule lately. Thank you for sticking with me as I navigate life's transitions!In this episode, we break down:Defining the Undefinable: What emotional abuse actually is beyond the misconceptions.The 8 Faces of Abuse: A detailed look at Coercion, Gaslighting, Emotional Withholding, Isolation, Surveillance, Financial Control, Degradation, and Dominance.The "Why" Behind the Struggle: The psychological reasons why it is so difficult to leave an abusive environment.Steps to Freedom: How to begin the journey of recognition, stabilization, and breaking the isolation.If you have ever felt like you're walking on eggshells or questioning your own reality, this episode is for you. You are not alone, and there is a path to safety.

Gaslit Nation
In a Time of Gaslighting, Pay Attention to Your Dreams

Gaslit Nation

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2025 4:45


In this quick update, Andrea shares a dream she had about Ukrainian dissident poet Vasyl Stus, killed in a Russian labor camp in the 1980s, and whose poetry and human rights campaigns helped lay the groundwork for a free Ukraine. In a time of rampant gaslighting, it's never been more important to believe our eyes and ears, and honor our intuition. Pay attention to your dreams; it will help you endure and overcome.   If you're finding moments to rest and binge this holiday season, here are two documentary recommendations: First, Amy Berg's It's Never Over, Jeff Buckley, a haunting intimate tribute to the late musician whose voice and powerful songwriting are otherworldly. For something totally different, check out Murder in Monaco, a chilling true-crime documentary about the murder of mega-banker Edmund Safra. It exposes the Russian-mafia viper den of Monaco. See you at today's Gaslit Nation Salon at 4pm ET. Look for the Zoom link on Patreon.com/Gaslit.

Coping With Ghosting
How to Spot a Narcissist in Relationships, with Dr. Harold Shinitzky, Psy.D.

Coping With Ghosting

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2025 58:05 Transcription Available


Narcissistic behavior often hides in plain sight, especially in relationships. Recognizing the signs of narcissism before entering a relationship or while you are already in one can be the first step toward protecting your peace of mind.In this episode, Dr. Harold Shinitzky, Psy.D., breaks down the different types of narcissism, how narcissistic traits show up in relationships, and what real support and healing can look like.You'll learn about: • Gaslighting, love bombing, mirroring, and future faking • Put-downs, smear campaigns, and projection • Control, surveillance, and emotional manipulation • What actually motivates change in narcissists • Boundary phrases that shut down manipulation • Resources to help you move forward with clarity and confidenceDr. Shinitzky is a highly sought after presenter nationally and internationally. He is the developer of A Champion's Mindset™, and The Winning Zone ©. He also co-authored the book, “A Champions Mindset: 15 Mental Conditioning Steps to Becoming a Champion Athlete” and works with Olympians and professional athletes (PGA, NFL, MLB, ATP, WTA, NBA, NHL) and nationally ranked juniors. Dr. Harold E. Shinitzky, Psy. D. is located in St. Petersburg Florida.Connect With Dr. Shinitzky: drshinitzky.comRead Dr. Dr. Shinitzky's Book:  Me, Myself, and I: A Narcissist's Mindset: A Self-Help Handbook for Victims-Survivors of a NarcissistConnect with Gretta:Free Guide: What to Say To A GhostFree and Private Facebook Support Group |  Instagram | copingwithghosting.comMusic: "Ghosted" by Gustavo ZaiahDisclaimer:  This information is designed to mentor and guide you to cope with Ghosting by cultivating a positive mindset and implementing self-care practices. It is for educational purposes only; it solely provides self-help tools for your use. Coping With Ghosting is not providing health care or psychological therapy services and is not diagnosing or treating any physical or mental ailment of the mind or body. The content is not a substitute for therapy or any advice given by a licensed psychologist or other licensed or other registered professionals. 

The Whinypaluza Podcast
Episode 508: The Silent Burn and Healing From Gaslighting

The Whinypaluza Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2025 37:04


Have you ever walked away from a conversation wondering if you imagined what just happened? In this episode of Whinypaluza, host Rebecca Greene welcomes author, advocate, and survivor Deborah Griffiths for an honest conversation about gaslighting and emotional manipulation. Deborah, author of Torched: Burnt By A Gaslighter, explains how gaslighting works slowly and quietly, chipping away at self esteem, confidence, and self trust over time. Drawing from her lived experience and healing journey, Deborah shares how red flags are often missed, why victims question themselves instead of the behavior, and how clarity begins when we listen to our bodies and instincts. This episode offers validation, language, and hope for anyone beginning to see the fog lift.  Key Takeaways → Gaslighting is emotional manipulation that causes self doubt over time → Confusion is often the first red flag → Love bombing can disguise manipulation → Healthy conflict leaves you feeling heard → Your body often recognizes truth before your mind → Clarity begins when the fog starts to lift Deborah Griffiths is an author, advocate, and survivor whose novel Torched: Burnt By A Gaslighter draws from lived experience to illuminate the subtle and damaging effects of emotional manipulation. She hosts the podcast Bent, Not Broken: Starting Over After Divorce and supports women navigating healing, boundaries, and rebuilding their lives after trauma.  Connect with Deborah Website: https://www.brokentoboldness.com Book: Torched: Burnt By A Gaslighter Podcast: Bent, Not Broken: Starting Over After Divorce If this conversation resonates, share it with someone who may need language for what they are experiencing. Subscribe to Whinypaluza for honest conversations that validate, educate, and empower. https://linktr.ee/whinypaluzamom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

The Whinypaluza Podcast
Episode 508: The Silent Burn and Healing From Gaslighting

The Whinypaluza Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 26, 2025 37:09


Have you ever walked away from a conversation wondering if you imagined what just happened? In this episode of Whinypaluza, host Rebecca Greene welcomes author, advocate, and survivor Deborah Griffiths for an honest conversation about gaslighting and emotional manipulation. Deborah, author of Torched: Burnt By A Gaslighter, explains how gaslighting works slowly and quietly, chipping away at self esteem, confidence, and self trust over time. Drawing from her lived experience and healing journey, Deborah shares how red flags are often missed, why victims question themselves instead of the behavior, and how clarity begins when we listen to our bodies and instincts. This episode offers validation, language, and hope for anyone beginning to see the fog lift.  Key Takeaways → Gaslighting is emotional manipulation that causes self doubt over time → Confusion is often the first red flag → Love bombing can disguise manipulation → Healthy conflict leaves you feeling heard → Your body often recognizes truth before your mind → Clarity begins when the fog starts to lift Deborah Griffiths is an author, advocate, and survivor whose novel Torched: Burnt By A Gaslighter draws from lived experience to illuminate the subtle and damaging effects of emotional manipulation. She hosts the podcast Bent, Not Broken: Starting Over After Divorce and supports women navigating healing, boundaries, and rebuilding their lives after trauma.  Connect with Deborah Website: https://www.brokentoboldness.com Book: Torched: Burnt By A Gaslighter Podcast: Bent, Not Broken: Starting Over After Divorce If this conversation resonates, share it with someone who may need language for what they are experiencing. Subscribe to Whinypaluza for honest conversations that validate, educate, and empower. https://linktr.ee/whinypaluzamom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Crime Junkie
SCANDAL: Police Explorer Programs

Crime Junkie

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2025 74:19


Law enforcement Explorer programs were created to mentor teens interested in policing. But decades of weak oversight created an environment where officers could manipulate that trust. Some exploited their roles, using their authority to groom, abuse, and silence the very teens they were entrusted to guide.Resources:RAINN – Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network: 24/7 hotline and resources for survivors of sexual assault and abuse. Call 1-800-656-HOPE (4673) or visitrainn.orgNational Sexual Violence Resource Center (NSVRC): Research, education, and tools to support prevention and survivor recovery. Visitnsvrc.orgJoyful Heart Foundation: Works to transform the response to sexual assault, domestic violence, and child abuse, while supporting healing and survivor advocacy. Visitjoyfulheartfoundation.orgChildhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: Confidential support for anyone concerned about child abuse. Call 1-800-4-A-CHILD (1-800-422-4453) or visitchildhelphotline.orgVictimConnect Resource Center: Provides free, confidential support and referrals for people affected by crime, including sexual abuse and misconduct by authority figures. Call 1-855-4-VICTIM (855-484-2846) or visitvictimconnect.orgNational Child Traumatic Stress Network (NCTSN): Expert guidance, therapist locators, and educational tools for families navigating trauma and abuse. Visitnctsn.orgBloom365: Youth-focused organization working to end teen dating abuse, sexual violence, and trauma through prevention, peer advocacy, and healing services. Call or text the Bloom helpline at 1-888-606-HOPE (4673) or visitbloom365.orgCDC – Child Sexual Abuse Prevention: Evidence-based strategies and data about child sexual abuse in the U.S. Visit cdc.gov/violenceprevention/childsexualabuseState Child Abuse and Neglect Reporting Numbers: Directory to report child abuse to agencies. Visit childwelfare.gov/state-child-abuse-and-neglect-reporting-numbers988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline: Provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources. Call 988 or visit988lifeline.orgCrisis Text Line: 24/7 mental health support via text. Text "HOME" to 741741 or visitcrisistextline.orgNational Domestic Violence Hotline: Support for those experiencing abuse or coercive control. Call 1-800-799-SAFE (7233), text "START" to 88788, or visitthehotline.orgLove is Respect: Help for teens and young adults in abusive relationships.Call 1-866-331-9474, text "LOVEIS" to 22522, or visitloveisrespect.orgNational Center for Victims of Crime: Provides advocacy, legal information, and trauma-informed resources for survivors of sexual abuse, harassment, and exploitation. Visitvictimsofcrime.orgMale Survivor: Support for male survivors of sexual abuse and assault, including institutional or authority-based abuse. Visitmalesurvivor.orgStaying Safe in Youth Law Enforcement Programs:If you or your child is involved in a Police Explorer program – or any youth mentorship run by law enforcement – there are steps you can take to reduce risk and create safer boundaries.Ask direct questions. Who runs the program? What are the policies around texting, ride-alongs, and one-on-one interactions? Are there rules that limit contact between adult officers and minors outside of scheduled events?Insist on transparency. Reputable programs should have clear, written guidelines about communication, supervision, and conduct. Ask to see them.Monitor ride-alongs. Know who your child is riding with, how long they're gone, and what the reporting procedures are.Watch the tech. Officers or advisors should never be Snapchatting, DMing, or texting minors privately. Monitor app usage and discuss healthy boundaries.Get involved. Show up to meetings. Get to know the adults running the program. Your presence as a parent or guardian helps make the space safer for everyone.Keep communication open. Let your child know they can talk to you about anything -- especially if something makes them uncomfortable. Make it clear that they won't be in trouble for speaking up.Getting Help:If you or someone you know has experienced abuse in a Police Explorer or similar youth program, here's what to do:Believe them. If a child or teen discloses abuse, believe what they say. Stay calm, listen, and affirm that it's not their fault. Praise them for coming forward.Report it. If the child is in danger, call 911. Otherwise, contact your local police, sheriff's department, or state child protection agency. If you're concerned local police might have a conflict of interest, contact your state police, state attorney general, or the FBI.Document/preserve everything. Save messages, screenshots, call logs — anything that could help support the report.Seek emotional support: Abuse by a trusted adult is incredibly disorienting. You and/or your child deserve compassionate care from someone trained in trauma -- like a therapist, school counselor, or crisis line advocate.Connect with survivor resources. Many organizations offer specialized support for young people.Consult legal counsel: Some survivors explore civil legal action against individuals or institutions. An attorney familiar with institutional abuse cases can help assess your options.Red Flags: Signs of Grooming or Abuse in Explorer Programs:Abuse by authority figures often begins with grooming -- a gradual, often-subtle process that builds trust before violating it. Here are common warning signs in youth law enforcement programs:“Special” treatment. One teen is singled out for attention, gifts, mentorship, or exclusive opportunities not given to others.Excessive one-on-one contact. Repeated private ride-alongs, late-night messages, or invitations to hang out off-duty.Private communication. The adult uses personal texting apps, Snapchat, Instagram DMs, or other unmonitored channels to talk to a minor.Overstepping/blurring boundaries. Inappropriate compliments, jokes about relationships, or sharing personal details not appropriate for a mentor-mentee dynamic.Isolation. The adult discourages the teen from talking to others about their relationship or makes the teen feel responsible for their secrecy.Gaslighting or guilt. The adult blames the teen for misunderstandings, manipulates their emotions, or makes them feel they'll “ruin someone's life” if they speak out.Physical contact. Touch that's unnecessary, prolonged, or makes the teen uncomfortable -- even if it's framed as casual or accidental. You can learn more about The Good segment and even submit a story of your own by visiting The Good page on our website! Source materials for this episode cannot be listed here due to character limitations. For a full list of sources, please visit:  https://crimejunkiepodcast.com/scandal-police-explorer-programs/Did you know you can listen to this episode ad-free? Join the Fan Club! Visit https://crimejunkiepodcast.com/fanclub/ to view the current membership options and policies.Don't miss out on all things Crime Junkie!Instagram: @crimejunkiepodcast | @audiochuckTwitter: @CrimeJunkiePod | @audiochuckTikTok: @crimejunkiepodcastFacebook: /CrimeJunkiePodcast | /audiochuckllcCrime Junkie is hosted by Ashley Flowers and Brit Prawat. Instagram: @ashleyflowers | @britprawatTwitter: @Ash_Flowers | @britprawatTikTok: @ashleyflowerscrimejunkieFacebook: /AshleyFlowers.AF Text Ashley at 317-733-7485 to talk all things true crime, get behind the scenes updates, and more! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

The Diary Of A CEO by Steven Bartlett
The Gaslighting & Conversation Expert: This Is A Sign You'll Divorce in 10 Years!

The Diary Of A CEO by Steven Bartlett

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2025 168:42


Trial Lawyer and leading communication expert JEFFERSON FISHER reveals how gaslighting and narcissism work, why people don't listen to you, and the courtroom tricks for respect and power! Jefferson Fisher is a Texas trial lawyer and leading communication expert. He is the founder of Fisher Firm, creator of The Jefferson Fisher School of Communication, and author of the book, “The Next Conversation: Argue Less, Talk More”. He explains: ◼️The fastest way to spot a narcissist in under 30 seconds ◼️The phrase that instantly exposes gaslighting ◼️Why people stop respecting you mid conversation ◼️The courtroom trick that makes people listen ◼️How to control any conversation without raising your voice 00:00 Intro 02:56 These Communication Skills Will Change Your Life and Career Trajectory 09:40 How to Have Control Over Conversations 12:14 The Psychology Behind Feeling Comfortable in Any Conversation 15:42 How Your Body Language Can Influence Others' Opinions 20:38 The Traits of Confident People 22:40 Dealing With Difficult Conversations and Gaslighters 24:38 The Words Gaslighters Use Against You 31:00 The Attachment Style Most at Risk of Being Gaslighted 39:19 This Is What Manipulators and Narcissists Do 42:55 How to Stop a Narcissist 49:15 Your Reactions Reveal So Much About You 51:21 How to Stop Being Easily Triggered 55:00 How Being Honest With People Can Help You 01:00:34 How Our Parents' Arguments Shaped Our Love Relationships 01:15:19 Find Your Priorities and Set Your Boundaries 01:17:20 People Pleasers 01:23:01 Relationship Arguments: Can They Be Good? 01:25:24 A Big Indicator That Something Really Matters to Your Partner 01:33:19 The Secret to Spot Anyone Being Fake 01:34:58 The Fake Laughs 01:42:05 These Small Moments Will Have the Biggest Impact on Impressions 01:53:30 Top 5 Things to Become the Best Communicator at Anything 02:03:02 Phones Have Become Our Pacifier to Relieve Anxiety 02:04:25 Stop Overexplaining 02:08:11 The Power of Taking Pauses to Think 02:10:50 One of the Best Traits of Leaders 02:17:43 How to Help Someone Grieving 02:27:09 The Counterattack to Bullies: Expose Them 02:34:22 Huge Relationship Unlock: Energy Checking With Your Parent 02:40:16 The Predictor of Whether a Relationship Will Last Follow Jefferson: Instagram - https://bit.ly/4pzxZ21  Facebook - https://bit.ly/4rUhTS6 TikTok - https://bit.ly/4aihiDv YouTube - https://bit.ly/3YplSIG  You can pre-order ‘The Next Conversation Workbook', here: https://amzn.to/3XSHOvH  The Diary Of A CEO: ◼️Join DOAC circle here - https://doaccircle.com/  ◼️Buy The Diary Of A CEO book here - https://smarturl.it/DOACbook  ◼️The 1% Diary is back - limited time only - https://bit.ly/3YFbJbt  ◼️The Diary Of A CEO Conversation Cards (Second Edition) - https://g2ul0.app.link/f31dsUttKKb  ◼️Get email updates - https://bit.ly/diary-of-a-ceo-yt  ◼️Follow Steven - https://g2ul0.app.link/gnGqL4IsKKb  Sponsors:  Adobe - https://Adobe.Ly/OneBetter Wispr - Get 14 days of Wispr Flow for free at https://wisprflow.ai/DOAC  Stan: NO PURCHASE NECESSARY. VOID WHERE PROHIBITED. For Official Rules, visit https://DaretoDream.stan.store

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast
How to Shut Down Gaslighting Without Escalating

The Jefferson Fisher Podcast

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 16, 2025 18:10


One of the most powerful weapons in difficult conversations isn't yelling, insults, or aggression — it's confusion. In this episode, I break down how confusion gets weaponized to avoid accountability, derail clarity, and exhaust you into giving up. You'll learn how to spot when confusion is genuine versus strategic, and exactly what to say to regain control, slow the conversation down, and protect your clarity without escalating the conflict. Order The Next Conversation Workbook: https://www.jeffersonfisher.com/workbook Thank you to our sponsors: Cozy Earth. Upgrade Your Every Day. Get 40% off at cozyearth.com/jefferson or use code JEFFERSON at check out. Monarch Money. 50% off your first year at https://monarchmoney.com/jefferson  BetterHelp. Click https://betterhelp.com/jeffersonfisher for a discount on your first month of therapy. Order my new book, The Next Conversation, or listen to the full audiobook today. Like what you hear? Don't forget to subscribe and leave a 5-star review! Suggest a topic or ask a question for me to answer on the show!  Want a FREE communication tip each week? Click here to join my newsletter.  Join My School of Communication Watch my podcast on YouTube  Follow me on Instagram  Follow me on TikTok Follow me on LinkedIn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices