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Who is Jesus to you? Join us, Cathy and Cailee, as we dive into the deepest relationship that you can have with God - Jesus the Bridegroom. We share Truth straight from Catholic teaching, Scripture, and our own personal experience of Him as the Lover of our souls. Our hope is that you are inspired to go and discover the beauty of Christ’s intimate love for you. Regardless of your relationship status, or how well you know the faith already, Jesus the Bridegroom wants you. He is knocking at your heart, and we want to tell you that opening the door to Him is the best thing you could ever do.

Cathy Costigan and Cailee Hamblen


    • Nov 12, 2024 LATEST EPISODE
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    if you knew S2E8 - let Him be consoled

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2024 59:51


    Did you know that Jesus is longing for us to console Him? How is that even possible? In our last episode of the season, we take a look into the heart of Jesus, and how he makes Himself available to us in every way. Do we accept those graces to love him back?

    if you knew S2E7 - let Him lead

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 5, 2024 59:01


    Let Him do it. (:

    if you knew S2E6 - let Him share His inheritance

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 29, 2024 54:21


    Do you live out of your own merits or those of Jesus the Bridegroom? In this episode, we discuss the life of St. Therese of Lisieux and how she relied completely on her Beloved to provide the graces required for each day. Sources used in this episode: Story of a Soul Ephesians 1:11-14

    if you knew S2E5 - let Him write your story

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 15, 2024 62:45


    When Jesus the Bridegroom writes the story, it may not go exactly as intended, but it always ends up better than you ever could have expected. We see this play out in this episode as we finish the story of Tobit and share from our own personal lives.

    if you knew S2E4 - let Him throw a curveball

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2024 56:46


    What are curveballs in the journey with the Bridegroom and why are they one of His favorite ways of loving His bride? Join us as we dive into the book of Tobit to uncover the deeper meaning of surrender and surprise in our walk with Jesus the Bridegroom.

    if you knew S2E3 - let Him satisfy you

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 1, 2024 56:08


    Jesus is telling you that He is the one who fulfills all your expectations, needs, and desires... do you believe Him? Can He really satisfy our hearts when the road we follow Him on can be full of suffering and surrender? Our scripture/text used in this episode: John 10:10 Be Satisfied With Me - St. Anthony of Padua

    if you knew S2E2 - let Him define you

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2024 54:56


    Have you ever wondered what God thinks of you? In this episode, we share what our faith and relationship with Jesus has taught us about our identity as Woman. Our scripture used in this episode: Isaiah 62 - The Vindication and Salvation of Zion 1 For Zion's sake I will not keep silent,    and for Jerusalem's sake I will not rest,until her vindication goes forth as brightness,    and her salvation as a burning torch.2 The nations shall see your vindication,    and all the kings your glory;and you shall be called by a new name    which the mouth of the Lord will give.3 You shall be a crown of beauty in the hand of the Lord,    and a royal diadem in the hand of your God.4 You shall no more be termed Forsaken,    and your land shall no more be termed Desolate;but you shall be called My delight is in her,    and your land Married;for the Lord delights in you,    and your land shall be married.5 For as a young man marries a virgin,    so shall your sons marry you,and as the bridegroom rejoices over the bride,    so shall your God rejoice over you.

    if you knew S2E1 - let Him be Himself

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 18, 2024 54:02


    Welcome back to if you knew... Join us-Cathy, Cailee, and our new co-host, Emma-as we kick off season 2 of the podcast! In this first episode, we reflect on the countless ways the Bridegroom has sought to reveal Himself and His desires to us in our daily lives. Hosea 2:14-20 14“Therefore, behold, I will allure her,    and bring her into the wilderness,    and speak tenderly to her.15 And there I will give her her vineyards,    and make the Valley of Achor a door of hope.And there she shall answer as in the days of her youth,    as at the time when she came out of the land of Egypt. 16 “And in that day, says the Lord, you will call me, ‘My husband,' and no longer will you call me, ‘My Ba′al.' 17 For I will remove the names of the Ba′als from her mouth, and they shall be mentioned by name no more. 18 And I will make for you a covenant on that day with the beasts of the field, the birds of the air, and the creeping things of the ground; and I will abolish the bow, the sword, and war from the land; and I will make you lie down in safety. 19 And I will betroth you to me for ever; I will betroth you to me in righteousness and in justice, in steadfast love, and in mercy. 20 I will betroth you to me in faithfulness; and you shall know the Lord.

    if you knew S1E8 - the Bridegroom amidst the storm

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2024 78:32


    Where is Jesus the Bridegroom within the storm of your anxiety? In the last episode of this season, Cathy and Cailee discuss how moments of worry are really an invitation to deeper intimacy with the Bridegroom. Scripture: Mt. 8:23-27 Waiting by Avery Collins https://open.spotify.com/track/2T9TNjDXDbX1H7aDfd3Q5t?si=VoRhS7-eTbOmBNx1Cd-NTQ&context=spotify%3Asearch%3Awaitin

    if you knew S1E7 - how to be mad at the Bridegroom

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2024 55:05


    Join Cathy and Cailee as we navigate - with Jesus - the all too real frustrations of disappointment, distrust, and disbelief while waiting on God to fulfill the desires of our heart.

    if you knew S1E6 - Beauty and the Bridegroom

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2024 65:32


    Jesus uses Beauty in the world to meet us, encounter us, and sometimes even flirt with us. (; CCC 341 The beauty of the universe: The order and harmony of the created world results from the diversity of beings and from the relationships which exist among them. Man discovers them progressively as the laws of nature. They call forth the admiration of scholars. The beauty of creation reflects the infinite beauty of the Creator and ought to inspire the respect and submission of man's intellect and will.

    if you knew S1E5 - standards and why we keep them

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 23, 2024 62:35


    What does Jesus the Bridegroom have to do with standards? In this episode, we break down how life with Jesus as our Bridegroom leads to a flourishing femininity that opens the door to deeper relationships - especially in dating.

    if you knew S1E4 - go to the well

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2024 55:06


    In this episode, we dive into John 4 to discover all things Bridegroom behind the story of Jesus and the Samaritan women. Our dear friend, Emma McClure, joins us to share her insights and how the Bridegroom came to her in a similar way to the woman at the well.

    if you knew S1E3 - what is His gaze?

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2024 56:44


    What happens once you start to notice the way Jesus looks at you? And even more so when you look back at Him? Join us as we take a deep dive discussing this posture of living in the gaze of Jesus the Bridegroom.

    if you knew S1E2 - our new eve era

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2024 59:38


    Who are you when you are not living in the gaze of Jesus? Join us as we share how we've come to let Him tell us who we are and live out of our true identity - Beloved.

    if you knew S1E1 - the "what if"

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 26, 2024 38:54


    If you knew the way Jesus looked at you, what would change? ....honestly? Everything. music by Avery Collins https://open.spotify.com/track/6Xsa6mCZ9mjb5k8ti55UVm?si=ac15583905f24c2e

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