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    • Mar 24, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 33m AVG DURATION
    • 39 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from LIT.GA : Life In the Grey Area

    Selective Promotion & Demotion of Black Women

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 24, 2021 28:54


    By this time we are all aware of the backlash that Chloe, Cardi B, Meg the Stallion and Lizzo have received from media, fans and haters. With cancel culture we are so quick to swipe left on people. Black women already are the least protected in this world. So why aren’t we working harder to elevate? Join us for this heated discussion!

    Comfort ≥ or ≤ Solutions

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2021 16:48


    How many times have we asked our friends a question and didn’t get the answer we wanted? Yes, we all do it! But what happens when we value one over the other? Listen in as we discuss!

    Can You Re-Friend a Friend?

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2021 18:18


    Life happens, people evolve and friendships change. But what happens when a friendship that went sour or just drifted reappears? Join us as we take some life experiences and compare notes.

    Malcolm & Marie...More like ____ and Me...

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2021 31:24


    Do they remind you of a past or current relationship? These two left us speechless! The level of pettiness, narcissistic behavior, ineffective communication and love? makes up this story. But let’s take another look at this kind of love post Valentine’s Day.

    Communication vs. Parents & Kids

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 10, 2021 22:55


    Ever wonder if your parent’s parenting skills help define your self-worth? Tune in as we answer questions from a Therafriendddd who doesn’t know how to navigate her parents and communication.

    You’re Not My Go-To!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 28, 2021 24:41


    Why is it that we’re always the go to person for someone who isn’t the go to for us? Join us as we discuss how late or early in friendships and relationships we’ve figured this out.

    Recovery Mode: 2021

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 14, 2021 17:59


    Recovering lost time, lost energy, lost money but not the lost people. This year is all about troubleshooting, fixing and removing things that should not affect us, don’t matter to us and are unimportant to us.

    Everybody is Different, But How Rare Are You?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2020 23:30


    Look at the person sitting next you and say “You’re Rare.” We cannot emphasize enough how 2020 has pushed and pulled us all out of our comfort zones. Now that we’re a few days away from a new year, we want to acknowledge that this was all for a greater purpose. So pat yourself on the back and toast yourself. You made it!

    I spared your reputation by not telling my side...

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 9, 2020 28:04


    But why do we do this? The idea of giving grace even in the midst of hurt, is this a woman thing, a religious thing or a human thing? We can say that we’ve spared a few reputations by not telling the whole story.

    Political Anxiety: Need We Say More?

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 1, 2020 31:50


    Where do we begin? 2016 Elections? 2020 Elections? We often don’t discuss politics but this year as we all know has been tumultuous and the elections only added to our anxiety. Listen in as we try to find some “Woosah”.

    Idk what GPS led you here, but follow the reroute.

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 3, 2020 31:43


    2020 has been a year! As we all know a lot of things have gone unexpectedly and at times we’ve found ourselves to be stuck. Are we considering these moments as lessons or failures? Join our discussion as we talk about our lessons and reroutes!

    Minding My Business

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 27, 2020 34:52


    When you’re minding your business you have more time, energy and focus minding your own. So what exactly do you have time for?

    Don’t Judge Me, Judge Yaself!

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 20, 2020 30:27


    I’m growing and entering my next level. Why does this bother you so much? If you need help understanding, ask me but don’t judge me.

    How Heavy is Your Load?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2020 33:10


    Have you ever looked at your friend or hear their voice and know something is off? We cannot emphasize enough how important it is to have good, solid people in your circle. When you’re connected, there are certain things we can sense about each other. Dive deep into this convo with us.

    Dear Inner Child,

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 6, 2020 28:36


    Ever think back to that age where you could’ve saved yourself from heartaches and headaches? Come on in and take a seat as we go back in time and revisit what helped made us today.

    Compromise, Settle or Sacrifice

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 29, 2020 30:21


    “What are we doing here?” A question that has come up during relationships and friendships. But do we really know what we’re asking? Sometimes the answer we’re looking for we don’t get. Listen in as we navigate this conversation.

    I Don’t Owe You!

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 14, 2020 31:24


    What do you say to the people that find the need to interject their opinion in your life? We can think of so many answers. Join us as we discuss our answers and how you can apply them in your life.

    How much louder do we have to shout?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 7, 2020 30:20


    With so much duress within our present time, as Black Queens, we discuss why Black women are the most disrespected, under appreciated, unconsidered and unloved. Take a listen as we dissect the trending topic of Meg & Tory and why we continue to extend grace even to those that cause us harm.

    Approaching 33: Dom’s Therapy Session

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 24, 2020 41:59


    As Dom’s birthday is rapidly approaching, Dar’s curiosity lead to this episode. With Dar’s help, she sets the stage for Dom to talk openly about her feelings and experiences. Tune in and join this journey with us!

    When is it okay to be an adult?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 17, 2020 30:47


    I’m a whole adult!!! How many of us are still looked upon as children even in the midst of our 30s? Without any disrespect, it’s time to have conversations as adults. As adults we learn how much our parents and siblings are still learning as we are. Communication is important to solidify relationships. So why is it forbidden as adults (children)?

    My Final Answer is: NO!

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2020 30:22


    No! No! No! Yes, you heard right! Our mental health and wellness should always be at the forefront of our lives. Come on in as we discuss the need for your “No” and it’s attributes to your life.

    Are you Spiritual or Religious?

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 3, 2020 33:22


    No (eyeroll), I’m not “living in sin” because I haven’t been to church in two weeks! The constant debate of spirituality and religion has been an ever present topic especially as we try to define or categorize our relationship with God and others. Is there really a difference between the two?

    My Price just went UP!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 27, 2020 30:47


    Has your “price” gone up recently?Self worth is key. You have to take the time to do a lot of work on yourself in order for you to require others to see you in the same light you see in yourself. Ride with us as we also talk about past and current relationships.

    Is there a Right or Wrong Way to Hoe?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 20, 2020 30:52


    Yyyaaaassss therafriendddds we went there?! Why is this topic such taboo? Well we deep dive it’s origins and it’s modern state all while schooling each other on our experiences. Listen in for some laughs and let us know what you think!

    Being Strong for FAR Too Long!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 13, 2020 31:27


    As Black women we were innately told that we are Strong women and our job is to hold it together for our households, our communities, our churches and at work. Because of this “pressure” to “keep it together,” our families have grown to be dependent on us emotionally and mentally where we’re coping for everyone else except for ourselves. Listen in as we deep dive this subject matter and how we can change the our outcomes.

    Overt or Covert: Racism in the Workplace

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 6, 2020 31:18


    The window dressings are REAL! So many corporations have “taken the stance” of BLM, but how many of them are truthful in their stance? Jump in and listen as we discuss our experiences and how if they don’t acknowledge, affirm and act on their stance, the end results can be very detrimental!

    Silence is Still An Answer!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 30, 2020 32:27


    Living in two pandemics- Racism and COVID, we are left with so many questions and a few are still left unanswered. Tune in as we explore the answer of silence and how you can rise above and move forward!

    Girlfriends are the NEW Husbands!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2020 30:32


    Say what?!!!! But what about his bromance??!!!! Yes and yes, we discuss both sides of the coin. Tune in as we relate to this topic referencing a new book we’re reading titled “Friendish.”

    God Sense over Good Sense

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 17, 2020 30:44


    OMG! How dare we battle the construct of religion and challenge ourselves and you all for a relationship with God? We are far, FAR from the holier-than-thou group but what we do have in common is a personal relationship with Christ. Listen in as we deep dive into the topic of religion vs. relationship.

    Of course you missed me, I wasn’t the problem!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2020 31:38


    Did you get that text from your Ex? “Hey Bighead!”Guurrrrlllll don’t respond and fall victim to the foolishness of quarantine and chill. Tune in as we give you tips on healing over toxicity and choosing your future over your past.

    InsecureTea

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 1, 2020 30:57


    Sometimes people take their own personal insecurities and try to twist them into someone else’s flaws. Tune in while we discuss the “Tea” into InsecureTea!

    How Close is Close?

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2020 33:12


    You ever have that one friend where you thought your relationship was defined by sisterhood but you come to realize you two aren’t actually as “close” as you thought or people believed you were? Listen in as we deep dive into this topic and see how it’s related to our personal lives!

    Security Blanket x 2020

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2020 28:57


    2020 has been full of quarantine & chill time and honestly we’re a bit tired of the redundancy. We dive into how we’re keeping sane during this pandemic and identifying a few our comfort zones and how to break out this rut! Listen in therafriendddds!!!!

    It’s Not About You: Dar’s Therapy Session

    Play Episode Listen Later May 3, 2020 29:46


    Still quarantined and still in our thoughts, Dar has an all out session about friends vs. acquaintances. Listen in as we sort through some stories and leave you therafriendddds tips on how to navigate a few relationships.

    Your Lease Is Up!

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 27, 2020 30:20


    I wish my landlord would tell me this during this quarantine! But no therafriendddds, tune in as we dive into a recent question concerning self reflection but most importantly relationships! If you’re “altering” yourself for someone, dimming your light or lowering your standards then it’s most likely time you tell them “your lease is up!”

    I’m Highly Annoyed

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2020 76:00


    Hey LITGA-ers!!!! Come and join us on this episode as we talk about what love and its many facets. We share some real life stories all while rolling our eyes!

    This place of employment #SecurityBlanket

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 31, 2020 57:17


    NYE 2020, #20/20 Vision right? But what if we actually take it further and reflect on why we haven’t lived with this “20/20” vision that keeps floating around as a hashtag. We deep dive into our lives and give our listeners tips and advice on how to take this year by the horns and to actually LIVE LIFE!

    Single bells, single bells.....

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2019 44:55


    Holidays are coming up and it’s a time for family and friends. But what happens when you’re trying to rid the toxicity out of your life?! We discuss this here. Join us #therafriends for real life and advice!

    Are we On?.....oooohhhh!

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2019 105:13


    This episode we debate everything from bringing “guest” to the holiday gatherings, friendships, Kanye and ALL his antics but most importantly we deep dive into the infamous Rodney Reed case and how it translates to the culture and our lack of access....or misused access. Listen in for more!!!!!

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