Not Okay

Diving into the motions of moving in with your significant other: is it the right time? Is it the right decision? Should I even be this worried? You're not the only one thinking this, and we obviously need to share our opinion on the matter.

Being in a successful relationship is like a breath of fresh air (whether it's with a boyfriend/girlfriend, with a friend, or with yourself). If you're in a relationship you're proud of, or even one you're not so sure about...listen in on what helped us get to where we are with our significant others, and how we're treating these relationships differently than those past.

Rejection is inevitable - at work, at bars, at social gatherings, and I guess...even at church. Rejection is a part of life, but it's NOT okay to let rejection stop you from moving forward. Listen to find out how we combat the negative feelings imposed on us by way of rejection!

We've all been in one-sided relationships before, so it doesn't take a rocket scientist to determine how miserable they can be. But, do you know how to manage them? Are you guilty of being one-sided yourself? Today we're diving in to how to spot them, deal with them, and turn them into more balanced situations.

Meeting the parents can be stressful, so it's time for a crash course. We're here to walk you through the in's and out's of what to expect when you bring someone home for the first time.

A tribute to those days when all you want to scream is "NO, I'm NOT sick OR tired, I just didn't want to wear makeup today, okay?!" to everyone you talk to, or those dinners where your friends just keep saying things that are NOT okay.

The future is FEMALE, so we’re sharing how we try to empower the women in our lives daily. Because let’s face it, being a mean girl is so early 2000s.

We're both Los Angeles transplants, so in this episode we're breaking down the moving process from start to finish. From highs and lows, to making friends in pilates...we've mapped out exactly what we went through on the journey to loving our city!

Getting real about long distance relationships: how you can make them work, and when they really just don't.

Wondering what Coachella is really like? Listen to hear the in's and out's of the massive festival that floods your newsfeed every year, from a first timer's perspective.

Life happens, and we're all doing the best that we can. And sometimes, that's all you can ask for. This is our take on feeling like you're coming up short, and a reminder that you're doing JUST fine.

Talking about the ins and outs of traveling abroad as a woman: things to avoid, things to embrace, and pretty much any other things we can think of.

When everything feels like it's falling apart, listen to this podcast and rest assured that 1. you're NOT alone, and 2. it IS going to be okay.

Navigating through the ups and downs of FOMO and talking about how to get over them by focussing on the positives (like faces masks, sweat pants, saving money and not being hungover tomorrow morning).

Diving into everyone's favorite topic: Overanalyzing EVERYTHING. Whether it's a text from someone you've recently started talking to, or you suddenly feel like your life has NO direction (or savings account), we're here to tell you to breathe, take a step back, and stop overanalyzing because it's NOT OKAY.

Welcome to our podcast! We're Hannah and Ashley, two best friends living in Santa Monica, figuring it out as we go. This is our FIRST podcast ever, so we thought we'd talk about something that we seem to encounter more often than we'd like. We hope you can relate, and we'd love to hear your feedback! Email us at hello@notokaypodcast.com to say hi, tell us your own red flags, horror stories, and good news! We want to hear it all. Thanks for listening! Hannah: @hannahwittte Ashley: @ashbegash