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A podcast bringing forward and evoking thoughtful collaborative conversations about everyday “situations” millennials experience today. With a focus on relationships (or rather situationships), the Zimbabwean-born and Texas-living host has honest living room convo/pillow talk that invites vulnerabil…

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  • Dec 22, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
  • every other week NEW EPISODES
  • 40m AVG DURATION
  • 37 EPISODES


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Latest episodes from Situationship Goals

It’s never the right time to say goodbye...to 2020

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 22, 2020 15:00


Sike! I’m ready for 2021. Let’s gooooooo!! Be safe and I hope everyone has a happy holidays

Stop wishing you were younger or at least stop telling me about it, respectfully Ofcourse

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2020 44:36


I was a little heated in this episode but I hope I encouraged some young person out there that age is a blessing, age is wisdom, age is discovering who you are and age is not something to fear or dread. It only gets better and you should ensure that that’s true

I tried therapy for the first time. Yikes!

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 8, 2020 32:24


December has entered the chat LOL. I’m back for another epi :) --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Just saying hi. New full episode next week!

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 17, 2020 9:47


Just checking in with all of you and hoping you’re still alive and well --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Permanently on DND

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 21, 2020 23:56


Yes I’m re-publishing this again because I forgot to put my title and description in :) Follow me on IG @ _rubydiamond --- This episode is sponsored by · Charity Promotion: Democracy Works: This advertisement is part of a charitable initiative in partnership with Democracy Works. howto.vote Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Quarantine Life finally hit me

Play Episode Listen Later Oct 13, 2020 36:18


Join me for another episode of Situationship Goals Podcast. Subscribe, Rate and Review the pod and follow me on IG @ _rubydiamond --- This episode is sponsored by · Charity Promotion: Democracy Works: This advertisement is part of a charitable initiative in partnership with Democracy Works. howto.vote Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Quarantine Check In #1 (feat. Tanaka)

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 24, 2020 93:29


We’ve all been in quarantine for a while and I thought it might be a good idea to go on a journey where I found out how my friends have been holding up these last few months. Enjoy! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Rip up the prenup like Dr. Dre did (feat. Dionte)

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 15, 2020 32:17


As promised, we discuss relationships this episode, the state of dating and whether we would sign a pre-nup. Tune in and follow Dionte on IG @dionte.mcclendon --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Pillow talk with me

Play Episode Listen Later Sep 8, 2020 41:48


On this weeks episode, I catch you guys up on what’s been going on in my life, money, quarantine, therapy and relationships. Enjoy and don’t forget to subscribe, rate and review the podcast --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Remedy...but also why did we drink Paul Masson? (feat. Dionte)

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 25, 2020 76:05


This week I’m joined by my friend, Dionte and we get a little too comfortable perhaps discussing our party days during college. Most importantly, he shares his initiative “Remedy” and upcoming plans for this mental health resource and movement. Follow him on IG @dionte.mcclendon --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Zimbabwean Matchmaker (feat. Thabani)

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2020 37:06


Yup you guessed it, we’re discussing relationships this week and the Netflix show, Indian matchmaker. Follow my friend Thabani on IG @ thabani.tshuma and don’t forget to rate, review and subscribe to this podcast --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

WAP is King (feat. Thabani)

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2020 49:15


I apologize in advance for the title - I couldn’t resist lol. Catch me on this week’s episode with friend of the show Thabani as we discuss Black is King, the WAP music video and realizing that the person you built yourself up to be in one season no longer serves you in another season. Follow him on IG: @thabani.tshuma --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Gaslighting at work

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 29, 2020 31:21


Am I the only one who feels like this happens to me? *cries inwardly* --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

I can’t believe Canola Oil is pregnant (Insecurity Goals) ft. Amber

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 25, 2020 60:58


You guessed. Everything Insecure Season 4 in this episode. Enjoy ! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

I’m telling my grandkids we also survived dragons in 2020

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 9, 2020 22:37


I thought I was giving you my quick thoughts on why you wouldn’t be getting an episode this week and 20minutes later, here we are smh...Follow me on IG @ _rubydiamond --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Don’t be the bigger person

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2020 13:11


This was in my drafts. The title seemed fitting. Follow me on IG: @_rubydiamond --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Getting ready for a relationship

Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2020 43:19


Why exactly am I thinking about getting ready for a relationship and how have I been enforcing boundaries? Because quite honestly this lack of boundaries thing is getting out of hand --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Farewell to my brain cells

Play Episode Listen Later May 19, 2020 27:31


On this episode I discuss the crazy ass dreams I’ve been having since quarantine started, the mental glitches I experience at work and Issa and Molly’s relationship (few spoilers). Enjoy!  IG: @_rubydiamond --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

A New Episode? We Didn’t Ask For This

Play Episode Listen Later May 5, 2020 28:48


Wishing you a festive Quarantine de Mayo ☺️ IG: @_rubydiamond --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

It’s too early for this

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2020 15:27


Dawn vibes --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Stop working harder for other people’s goals than your own

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 12, 2019 33:18


I think the title is self-explanatory but just know that this isn’t the typical edited episode like the other seasons. This came to my head, I turned the mic on and spoke for 25-30 mins and didn’t clean up anything. So excuse the jumbled thoughts but this is a raw, uncut, unfiltered episode I wanted to do --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Are we back or what?

Play Episode Listen Later Aug 19, 2019 31:14


Are we really back or just acting like we not about to fall off after 2 episodes?  Listen to me explain my side of the story and try to redeem myself to get my listeners back for what I hope will be a long lasting pod! --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Goals of an Impactful Generation

Play Episode Listen Later Jul 14, 2018 54:29


With so much going on in the political and global environment I am joined by Grassroots Activist for District 1 & 3 in Austin, TX, Angelica Erazo, to get an update on what’s going on in the political, social & technological space right now and why we, as millennials, should care. From net neutrality and the Facebook scandal to the Iran Deal, listen for an update on where we are with some of these issues and the practical steps that you can take to impact change regardless of how big or small. You can find guest here: https://www.instagram.com/secretivo https://www.facebook.com/erazoangelica https://www.twitter.com/angelicaerazo_ You can find shout out here: https://www.instagram.com/bloom_inspirations Follow me online here: Instagram: www.instagram.com/_rubydiamond/ Twitter: twitter.com/_rubydiamond_ Facebook Page: facebook.com/situationshipgoals/ Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/add/fuzstunner Facebook: facebook.com/rufaro.mukahadzi --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Struggle Olympics

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2018 52:06


Just one of those weeks where I have to address the pity party we host every time we get on social media and start comparing ourselves to somebody

Cranes in the Sky #MentalHealthGoals

Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2018 114:06


EP2:6 MENTAL HEALTH EPISODE We’re back with a rather serious but much needed conversation about mental health. Clinical mental health professionals and family counselors, Shanequiwa Sledge & Brooke Gordon get personal and share their experiences with depression and sexual assault; and they go on to offer some relational-related fixes that could help with some of the anxiety and overwhelming feelings that have become prevalent in our generation. I learned so much during this episode, and clearly have so much to work on. So let me get to work while y’all listen. Enjoy

New Age Coming to America

Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2018 51:15


Yup you guessed it from the title. We’re talking all things immigrant in this week’s episode and Seeing as though I’m from Zimbabwe and Zumunda was the fictional country in the movie, Coming to America, the title just made sense lol. Listen to this funny episode and Part 1 of the immigrant series as my Trini friend and I openly & candidly share what we expected from and have experienced in the USA when we first got here nearly 7 years ago, and how things have changed or not changed since. There’s also a Sneak peek of Part 2 that will talk about “dating” an American as an immigrant. Let me know what you think ! You can find guest here: https://www.instagram.com/raeann_spears/ https://www.twitter.com/rae_dash_ann Follow me online here: Instagram: instagram.com/_rubydiamond/ Twitter: twitter.com/_rubydiamond_ Facebook Page: facebook.com/situationshipgoals/ Snapchat: snapchat.com/add/fuzstunner Facebook: facebook.com/rufaro.mukahadzi --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Voices in my Head

Play Episode Listen Later May 8, 2018 1:09


This week I am free associating on the podcast, which is just a fancy way of saying I’m getting a few things off of my chest that have been on my mind in the most raw and unedited way possible. This week’s shout out is BeUFully, a design company owned and operated by a black woman and the song of the week is a rather interesting choice lol. Go listen now on your favorite platform

Glo up Goals

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2018 65:01


This week is all about growth or "the glow up." We discuss the importance and the struggles associated with embracing growth when life demands it from us. Join Rufaro and Devin's conversation as they share their personal stories and experiences. Do leave a comment below with your thoughts and opinions or just to say "hi" Enjoy! Also don't forget to subscribe, share, rate and review this podcast :) You can find guest here: https://www.instagram.com/dapperdevin You can find shout out here: https://www.instagram.com/dishes_by_q Follow me online here: Instagram: www.instagram.com/_rubydiamond/ Twitter: twitter.com/_rubydiamond_ Facebook Page: facebook.com/situationshipgoals/ Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/add/fuzstunner Facebook: facebook.com/rufaro.mukahadzi --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

CODA: Single Goals

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2018 5:52


Final thoughts on Episode 2. Enjoy

Single Goals

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2018 54:05


This week we talk about the perks and purpose of being SINGLE, and how that doesn't mean you're undesirable or in your hoe phase. However, we do discuss the hoe phase and I am told that 6 is the sweet spot for a woman's body count... (LMAO, lets laugh together). Enjoy! Follow me online here: Instagram: www.instagram.com/_rubydiamond/ Twitter: twitter.com/_rubydiamond_ Facebook Page: facebook.com/situationshipgoals/ Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/add/fuzstunner Facebook: facebook.com/rufaro.mukahadzi --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Season 2 Sneak Peek

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2018 28:22


Yeah we're backkkkk. Everything you need to know about what to expect in Season 2 and more. Enjoy! Follow me online here: Instagram: www.instagram.com/_rubydiamond/ Twitter: twitter.com/_rubydiamond_ Facebook Page: facebook.com/situationshipgoals/ Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/add/fuzstunner Facebook: facebook.com/rufaro.mukahadzi --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

Situationships: Girl Talk

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2018 63:09


Let’s get to it then! Through her lense, guest host KBraye humorously and candidly gives us her take on millennials and Situationships and you don’t want to miss this! Tune in. Subscribe. Share. Write a REVIEW ! (SOTW: Miguel - Pineapple Skies | Chris Brown - You Like) Enjoy

Value Yourself 2018

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2018 16:31


As we say goodbye to 2017 and are in the spirit of the “New Year, New Me” vibes, join us this week as we send out positive affirmations for 2018, and express how everybody needs to get it together for themselves this year and I don’t just mean until March. Enjoy

Who’s Mans Is This?

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2017 78:50


This week, I’m joined by Kadie and Calvin to discuss modern day friendships, the importance of selecting the right people to be our friends and what responsibility comes with being a friend

Emotional Health Goals

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2017 61:34


We’re discussing emotional health today with a guest host who spills some tea about his Situationship

Rufaro Goals

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 19, 2017 35:33


This episode is about the host so this might be one of the only episodes without a guest. I will discuss where I’m from, how I grew up etc etc... and ofcourse, I will explain the concept of situationships. Bear with my English and cadence, I will get better as I record more. Oh and there is a prize to be won! Enjoy

Intro Episode

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2017 2:04


Real and relevant situations 20something year olds go through everyday Follow me online here: Instagram: www.instagram.com/_rubydiamond/ Twitter: twitter.com/_rubydiamond_ Facebook Page: facebook.com/situationshipgoals/ Snapchat: www.snapchat.com/add/fuzstunner Facebook: facebook.com/rufaro.mukahadzi --- Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/situationshipgoals/support

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