Thank You Cum Again

This podcast episode is about sex addiction. In this episode: - I try to define sex addiction (with great difficulty) - Caution against over-interpreting brain studies linking porn and sex to addiction and 'brain damage' - Explore the importance of shame in understanding sexuality addiction - Touch on the historical context of pathologising sexuality, especially masturbation - Discuss my own sex addiction - Encourage people to develop a healthy, empowered sexuality that does not shame oneself, but also recognises when sex is being used to cope and causing harm.   Links for the podcast (reddit and insta) https://beacons.ai/tycumagain   My stuff https://fluffyfaerie.com/   Book mentioned:   https://www.goodreads.com/en/book/show/53404242-nobody-s-normal   Sex addiction survey:   https://new.recoveryzone.com/PublicSurvey/Create?SurveyTypeID=53   Fairly OK article on sex addiction:   https://www.healthline.com/health/addiction/sex#get-help   Questionable article on sex addiction: https://www.webmd.com/mental-health/signs-sex-addict   Audio clips from this very dramatic video on porn addiction:   https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bjnXXN67plg      

“You should have no shame about being a sexual being… indulging in that in a healthy environment, that is how you fully get rid of shame and guilt”   Pearl Sage is a no shave fetish sex worker who has been in the industry for 5+ years. She's an autistic artist who finds sensuality and beauty in creating and pushing the boundaries of what society deems as unconventional. With her experience in psychedelics, addiction therapy, and sexual healing, Pearl views sex work in a refreshing way.   In this episode we talk about neurodivergence, and relay our experiences as both being horny neurodivergent sex workers who are really interested in psychedelics, healing, and eastern philosophy. We talk about sex, autism, psychadelics other substances, trauma, healing, shame, addiction and how all these things beautifully intertwine into the beautiful human that is Pearl.   Links for the podcast (reddit and insta) https://beacons.ai/tycumagain   My stuff https://fluffyfaerie.com/   Links: https://www.fans.ly/pearlsage https://www.Onlyfans.com/pearlsage https://www.pearlsage.manyvids.com https://www.twitter.com/pearl_sage Instagram: @pearlsageoffical reddit: u/perplexedkitten Pearlsage@protonmail.com   For addiction support: https://www.reddit.com/r/HeroinRecovery/ https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline (US) https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/chat/ (US) Methadone clinic directory https://www.opiateaddictionresource.com/treatment/methadone_clinic_directory/ (US) https://www.lifeline.org.au/get-help/information-and-support/substance-misuse-and-addiction/ (AUS) Alcohol and drug foundation https://adf.org.au/help-support/ (AUS)   For trauma support: https://www.reddit.com/r/CPTSD/ Support for childhood sexual abuse https://blueknot.org.au/ (AUS) https://www.enoughabuse.org/get-help/survivors.html (US) Mind Medicine Australia - Excellent resources on psychedelic assisted therapy https://mindmedicineaustralia.org.au/ (AUS - not approved for therapy yet)

This is my responses on the yes, maybe, no list referred to in the episode: How we cum in a sexually open relationship. I completed this in mid 2020? And I go through it and talk about how much I have developed!

CONTENT WARNING: Explicit themes/sexual material. Mickey is a country bumpkin taking far too many photos of her bush. She spends her time hanging with her dog & sewing in between showing off her pussy + body hair by making high-quality amateur content. Mickey's stuff: https://onlyfans.com/mmmickeyy https://instagram.com/mickeyisaperv.info https://twitter.com/mmickeyMFC   Links for the podcast (reddit and insta) https://beacons.ai/tycumagain   My stuff https://fluffyfaerie.com/  

In this episode I cover: Me and Mr Faerie's relationship Different types of consensual non-monogamy What it means for us to be sexually open Research about consensually non-monogamous relationships The things we did to get to this point. I specifically discuss 5 factors we think helped us: openness, relationship strength, commitment, specific strategies for opening up, and bouncing back When things HAVEN'T gone well for us! Mistakes! I answer questions about our relationship, adventures, and what turns us on! Yes, Maybe, No list: https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5b162a5675f9ee6cc62c56b5/t/5bc6b816104c7bf5cc8c31f9/1539749911565/Yes%3ANo%3AMaybe+So+Activity+-+Diana+Sadat+Counselling.pdf   Polysecure book: https://www.amazon.com.au/Polysecure-Attachment-Trauma-Consensual-Nonmonogamy/dp/1944934987   The fewer the merrier?: Assessing stigma surrounding consensually non‐monogamous romantic relationships. Analyses of social issues and public policy 2013 https://psycnet.apa.org/record/2013-43051-001/   Consensual Nonmonogamy: Psychological Well-Being and Relationship Quality Correlates 2014 https://www.researchgate.net/publication/265392916_Consensual_Nonmonogamy_Psychological_Well-Being_and_Relationship_Quality_Correlates   Satisfaction in Consensual Nonmonogamy 2019 https://journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.1177/1066480719833411#:~:text=According%20to%20a%20synthesis%20of,monogamists%20suggesting%20it%20is%20possible   Relational Communication and Consensual Nonmonogamy 2021 https://oxfordre.com/communication/view/10.1093/acrefore/9780190228613.001.0001/acrefore-9780190228613-e-1173  

CONTENT WARNING: Explicit themes/sexual material. I talk about our first time me and Mr Faerie visited a sex club, what we got up to, what we learned about ourselves and how we want to approach the swinger's scene.

CONTENT WARNING: Explicit themes/sexual material. Why do people cum to a hairy pussy? Why do people remove their body hair? I unpack the topic of body hair, why people remove it, why people cum to it, and how I became a hairy content creator.   Links for the podcast (reddit and insta) https://beacons.ai/tycumagain   My stuff including (JOI videos available for purchase through Onlyfans) https://fluffyfaerie.com/   Gender, self-objectification and pubic hair removal article: https://www.researchgate.net/publication/225585134_Gender_Self-Objectification_and_Pubic_Hair_Removal   The Hairy Creator Collective (free to follow our Onlyfans!) https://www.hairycreatorcollective.com/ Shout-out to hairy creator who introduced me to the hairy creator community (Penelope, mechanicalhymen) https://beacons.ai/mechanicalhymen   Reddit posts: r/TwoXChromosomes: https://www.reddit.com/r/TwoXChromosomes/comments/t9rjml/for_those_of_you_who_shavewaxlaser_your_body_hair/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3   r/beauty: https://www.reddit.com/r/beauty/comments/t9rl4l/for_those_of_you_who_shavewaxlaser_your_body_hair/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3   Poll: What is the sexiest thing about body hairy on women? https://www.reddit.com/user/fluffy_faerie/comments/t9bt62/poll_what_is_the_sexiest_thing_about_body_hair_on/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3   Discussion post: What turns you on about body hair? https://www.reddit.com/user/fluffy_faerie/comments/sumaxh/want_a_chance_to_win_a_free_subscription_to_my/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf   Audios used for research purposes:   Commericals: https://youtu.be/LFyxSdCrSJA  https://youtu.be/7cEFv7yxios https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7cEFv7yxios  https://youtu.be/oN3zxu3Y7HE Tik Toker talking about "disgusting hairy armpits" https://youtu.be/WOuRxj7BKDI  Dispelling beauty myths: Body hair https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PyWel_sm02M 

CONTENT WARNING: Suicide, therapy, sex, non-monogamy, anal, exhibitionism, online sex work. Hey lovelies, in this episode I tell you what this podcast is going to be all about. And for this first episode I tell the story about how I came to be the sexual person I am, aka an exhibitionistic hotwife who has multiple orgasms every day.   Links to things discussed: Article on Sex Ed - STUDENT perspective: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/abs/10.1080/14681810801981258?tab=permissions&scroll=top Article on Sex Ed study about student knowledge: https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/14681811.2020.1720634 UNESCO report on why we need Sex Ed: https://unesdoc.unesco.org/ark:/48223/pf0000223447  The sexual excitement survey: https://static1.squarespace.com/static/5d31117513fedb000167fc23/t/5d45ecff4cbc9500011e10ea/1564863743765/The%2BSexual%2BExcitement%2BSurvey.pdf First Reddit post discussed "vulva not vagina": https://www.reddit.com/r/GodPussy/comments/s8fpbj/comment/hzn2wmx/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 Second Reddit post discussed "suicide help": https://www.reddit.com/r/AussieGirls/comments/t6wfmb/comment/hzn3c93/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 Third Reddit comment discussed "lick me on the couch": https://www.reddit.com/r/RugsOnly/comments/t62ueo/comment/hzn3kzv/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 ** Support options discussed ** Lifeline Australia: https://www.lifeline.org.au/, 13 11 14 Kids Helpline: https://kidshelpline.com.au/ 1800 55 1800 Suicide call back service: https://www.suicidecallbackservice.org.au/ 1300 659 467     

A trailer for my new podcast: Thank you cum again, by Mia Stewart.