Podcasts about Shame

No can be one of the most powerful words in your vocabulary. But! It's not always easy to say it. Today, I'm connecting with Dr. Jeff Gardere, a medical advisor for Ro Mind, board-certified clinical psychologist, and Associate Professor and Course Director at Touro College. We talk about how to say no and protect your boundaries, plus the right verse wrong way to turn something (or someone) down. SOCIAL @drjeffgardere @emilyabbate @hurdlepodcast OFFERS LMNT | Head to DrinkLMNT.com/hurdle to get a free sample pack, pay just $5 shipping! Inside Tracker | Get 25% off the entire InsideTracker store at InsideTracker.com/hurdle SIGN UP! 2022 Goal Setting Workshop JOIN: THE *Secret* FACEBOOK GROUP SIGN UP: Weekly Hurdle Newsletter ASK ME A QUESTION: Leave me a voice message, ask me a question, and it could be featured in an upcoming episode! --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/hurdle/message

FABcast #621 - Wrestling With Shame And Guilt by RBAR

We all have our own stories we tell ourselves when it comes to starting new projects, or even trying to finish them. We can't do it, we aren't good enough, someone else can do it better, we have to do it a specific way, and on and on and on...But who is REALLY telling you those stories? Do you really believe them? Today, Jenny helps us turn those negative 'what ifs' into helpful and hopeful 'what ifs'. Start believing the stories you need to believe, rather than the stories we're told to believe!Want a complimentary FREE 30 MINUTE COACHING SESSION with Jenny?Leave a 5-star iTunes review for Shed the Shame, screenshot it and send it to jwhitens@gmail.com to schedule your FREE session! Find me on Social Media: Facebook - Jenny Whitens Instagram - @jenwhitens // @shedtheshamepodcastTwitter - @jenwhitens Interested in what services Jenny has to offer?Message Jenny on Instagram or Facebook to schedule a complimentary discovery call for 1:1 coaching. Check out Jenny's NEW Confidently Clear & Connected Community!CCCC is a private monthly group membership for women. It's a place for those who are new to self-healing, looking for guidance and support for self-care practices, and those seeking to come back home to themselves and their vision for their life. If you feel stuck and want to find your passion, purpose, and fire for life in a guided, safe container that's budget-friendly, this membership is for you.  Interested in becoming a member? Join the waitlist HERE!

On today's episode, I'll be discussing the red flags in Christian relationships, but specifically on observing how you and the person you're dating relate to one another. Oftentimes, we are so used to behaving the way that we do in relationships without realizing how we may be harming the other person and even ourselves by not being aware of the negative ways in which we relate. If you want to know how people “truly are”, see how they respond when they're under stress or when they're given power.  This is crucial to observe in dating relationships. To help us understand what this can look like in Christian relationships, I provide some biblical advice to implement to counter what John Gottman calls the Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse: - First, I discuss some obvious red flags that lead you to leave the relationship immediately, - then, we discuss some more subtle red flags, and - lastly, we discuss Gottman's Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse: criticism, contempt, defensiveness, and stonewalling. Scriptures used in this episode: Let no corrupting talk come out of your mouths, but only such as is good for building up, as fits the occasion, that it may give grace to those who hear. – Eph. 4:29A soft answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger. – Prov. 15:1A fool gives full vent to his spirit, but a wise man quietly holds it back. – Prov. 29:11By pride comes nothing but strife, But with the well-advised is wisdom. – Prov. 13:10Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you.” – Eph. 4:32But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, forbearance, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, - Gal. 5:22Be completely humble and gentle; be patient, bearing with one another in love. – Eph. 4:2When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom. – Prov. 11:2Before a downfall the heart is haughty, but humility comes before honor. – Prov. 18:12If you have any questions or comments on this topic, please  email me at slconnect08@gmail.com.Remember to please LEAVE A REVIEW for the podcast as it helps get the word out to a larger audience, and remember to SUBSCRIBE and/or follow on Itunes, Spotify, Stitcher, GooglePlay, and all other podcast platforms.If you're on Facebook and/or Instagram, I'd greatly appreciate it if you SHARE this episode! :)FOLLOW ME ON INSTAGRAM:https://bit.ly/2UyNeLa​FOLLOW ME ON FACEBOOK:https://www.facebook.com/samlanda23/​ABOUT ME

This is a great episode, Jackie recaps how King Richard changed her life, the time she got kicked out of a youth sports league for breaking someone's nose and warns Megan Fox about being dutch-ovened.   Produced by Dear Media

This human being who I got connected with on Breakfast with Champions makes me smile on the regular with his heart. I want to introduce you to the one and only celebrity CEO, Ramon Ray, with smarthustle.com and the Smart Hustle podcast. He's a smart hustler, and if you don't know what that means, and you also know my aversion to that word he actually flips the script on me and I kinda like it.  We discuss being a PK kid, being an entrepreneur, being a risk taker, being a faith driven mission-servant leader and armor bearer. Gosh, the conversation is so good and I know it's going to bless you. So if it does, will you tag Ramon and his Smart Hustle,  and perhaps even do the most amazing extra thing for me, Tamra Andrews, with a big, big podcast review. I am on a mission to get 200 reviews on Apple, Spotify, or on any of the listening platforms. And it would be a great way to share your gratitude and give me a little Christmas present in the process.   Ready to walk into 2022 with a new level of knowledge and inspiration? Come join me for one of my coaching opportunities!  https://www.fitinfaithmedia.com/coaching   Grow for God 2022 registration is OPEN! Special ticket prices through 12/31! https://www.fitinfaithmedia.com/grow-for-god-con  

Sometimes the question of why does the morality of the Faith exist? In this episode Father teaches what willful ignorance is, how we know we are experiencing it, and how morality is grounded in natural law. The podcast Father and Joe brings us, as individuals, closer to the Holy Spirit and His Church.Seek Peace. Be Open to God and Love. Learn from Your Sufferings. Thank you for listening.FatherAndJoe@gmail.comAlso you can find is on twitter @FatherAndJoeCatholic, Church, God, Help, Life, Jesus, Love, Relationship, Ignorance, Shame, Guilt   

What shame are you hiding? Fellas, this episode is for you. As a man, I've carried with me different types of shame through my life that have had a big impact on how I see the world and operate in it. I learned early on that burying my shame and pretending it wasn't there was the safest way for me to operate. The truth is, it's not. And for me, it took years of living in denial and robbing myself of true joy and fulfillment, that finally helped me see that. In today's episode we're tackling a topic that lives within many men -- shame. I'm pulling from various sources here to help you understand shame, watch how it plays out in the lives of men like you, and see how other men are choosing to face it. My intention with this episode is that it inspires you to look into those dark corners of yourself where you have been hiding your shame, and finally choose to bring it out into the light. Do you want some support or coaching on overcoming your shame? Email me and take the next step towards eliminating shame from your life - matthew@matthewbivens.com. Resources from this episode: Institute Of OM - https://instituteofom.com/ Article "Shame: The Core Issue For Many Men - https://menscenter.org/shame/ Will Smith Youtube series "Best Shape Of My Life", Episode 2: My Secret Shame - https://youtu.be/ZvYPIJT6JpM Will Smith Youtube series "Best Shape Of My Life", Episode 4: I'm Sorry Mama - https://youtu.be/B2TlsHdpY_4 The Dad Edge Podcast interview with Lewis Howes - https://thedadedge.com/lewis-howes/

We're back baby! After a little time off, the boys are back on the balcony to recap The What A Shame Tour! We go city by city, talk about our favorite moments and laugh like idiots along the way. Thank you to everyone who came out to see the show, we love you!

This episode, I interview Jay Stringer. Jay is a licensed mental health counselor, ordained minister, and author of the award-winning book Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing. Unwanted is based on a multiyear research project on over 3,800 men and women to address the key drivers of unwanted sexual behavior, be that the use of pornography, infidelity, or buying sex. Jay's passion is to equip the church with resources to change the conversation on sexual brokenness. Towards that end, Jay created the Sexual Behavior Self-Assessment and partnered with the Heart of Man film to create a 5 month online curriculum for small groups to explore how our story shapes and predicts the sexual brokenness we pursue. Learn more about The Journey at www.TheJourneyCourse.com Stringer holds an MDiv and master in counseling psychology from the Seattle School of Theology and Psychology and received post-graduate training under Dr. Dan Allender while serving as a Senior Fellow at the Allender Center. Jay lives in New York City with his wife Heather and their two children. For more, go to menareforged.com

You know the team well. They all travel together. One feeds into and strengthens the next. And getting away from them feels inescapable. It's a Traumatized Motherfucker's worst friends; rumination, shame, and depression. Which cognitive hellhole comes first? Current models aren't certain. All we know is, this horrible-thought-horrible-feeling cycle is one hell of a ride. "The end result of trying to “put ourselves in our maggoty, scum-filled place” is sitting at home alone, isolating ourselves, and engaging in self-destructive behaviors while we try to pass the excruciating hours of the day, which are broken into even more terrorizing individual seconds of the day spent with our least favorite person on the earth." Today, we're taking the neuro-psychological view of clinical depression... and discussing how their common "low energy vibe" might be the best tool for noticing, naming, and not-falling-for-their-shit next time. Ready for more of this conversation? There are options. Hit up t-mfrs.com to see the blog post and visuals that go with this talk. Jump into the backlog of episodes available through patreon.com/traumatizedmotherfuckers when you're ready for deep, dense, posts on similar topics. Or hit up the private discord community, also gated through the patreon page. Got a story or perspective of your own? Hit me up any time at traumatizedmotherfxckers@gmail.com. Send in your voice or your written word, and make a difference for MFs who need to hear they aren't alone. Cheers friends. Jess --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/complextrauma/message

We're back at Hogwarts and Harry meets with Dumbledore to see two distinct memories that will help in understanding Voldemort's ultimate plan. Helene and Adri talk about the politics of Shame, how it shapes our understanding of politics, and what happens in this chapter. We also read some of the answers we got to last episode's question of the week: What could the Ministry of Magic have done to regain Harry's trust after the events of book 5? Patrons get a bonus segment for this episode! This week, we're talking about The Role of Personal Narrative: Slughorn vs. Lockhart. Want access to this bonus content and more? Become a Patron for as little as $2/month by heading over to www.patreon.com/acciopolitics We want to hear from you! Leave us a voicemail: 915.996.1699 or email an mp3 recording to info@acciopolitics.com Do you prefer the written word? Send us an owl: info@acciopolitics.com or leave us a message through our site. Find us online: Social Media: We are @acciopolitics on twitter, Facebook, and Instagram. Our site: www.acciopolitics.com

Nicki's journey is one of growth and loss, loss and growth to the point sometimes it felt like she was stuck on repeat. But even though life has knocked her down more than once these last few years, her challenges, her struggles, didn't define her.Nicki's story is about how she survived her losses and challenges and is now living her life the best way she knows how which is one day at a time.Tune in to the Life As.... Podcast https://podcasts.apple.com/ca/podcast/life-as-with-nicki-pike/id1564126397Learn about Nicki here https://linktr.ee/lifeasourlabelshttps://www.facebook.com/nicole.labergepikehttps://www.instagram.com/nicki_pike/ Learn more about your host, Nelia Hutt at https://neliahutt.comhttps://www.travellivegive.com. Helping you discover Inner Peace through Giving!Email your comments, show ideas or connect at info@travellivegive.comSubscribe to the Podcast YouTube Channel to  watch the videos of the episodes https://www.youtube.com/channel/UClc6cfjxUxZ16QBtL87M14wThe Ultimate I Deserve a Break Colouring Book: https://www.amazon.com/Ultimate-Deserve-Break-Colouring-Book/dp/B09JV9CDDY/ref=sr_1_2?crid=1XD17G0F874NF&dchild=1&keywords=nelia+hutt&qid=1635796851&sprefix=nelia+hutt%2Caps%2C84&sr=8-2Buy Her book Giving My Heart Room to Breathe - A journey through Grief, Healing and Giving https://www.amazon.com/GIVING-MY-HEART-ROOM-BREATHE/dp/1777670608/ref=sr_1_1?crid=C8STS22F31RT&dchild=1&keywords=giving+my+heart+room+to+breathe&qid=1625183016&sprefix=giving+my+heart%2Caps%2C387&sr=8-1Merchandise now available  https://www.redbubble.com/people/NeliaHutt/shop?asc=u

A Little Culty – She's just about the most rockin' Reverend we've ever met. In this episode, Nadia Bolz-Weber takes us to church on everything from sex-obsessed religious doctrine and toxic positivity to cancel culture. Also, if you've been searching for an episode that will illuminate what St. Augustine's medieval boner issues have to do with purity rings, you are in the right place.More about today's guest: Nadia Bolz-Weber is an ordained Lutheran Pastor, and founder of House for All Sinners & Saints in Denver, Co,, a progressive, queer-inclusive Lutheran congregation. She's written three New York Times bestselling memoirs, including Shameless: A Sexual Reformation, which takes on what she sees as the harmful ideas about sexuality that Christianity has promoted throughout history. She's the creator and host of The Confessional podcast, a pop-up prayer network called The Chapel, and the purveyor of a wildly inspirational Substack called The Corners. Learn all about it on her official website.~The views and opinions expressed on A Little Bit Culty do not necessarily reflect the official policy or position of the podcast. Any content provided by our guests, bloggers, sponsors or authors are of their opinion and are not intended to malign any religion, group, club, organization, business individual, anyone or anything.~A Little Bit Culty is proud to support the #IGOTOUT project, which empowers survivors of cultic abuse to share their stories online as a catalyst for education, prevention, and healing. Learn more at igotout.org~For more information on A Little Bit Culty and co-hosts Sarah Edmondson and Nippy “Anthony” Ames, visit our official website at alittlebitculty.com. Follow us on Instagram & Twitter @alittlebitculty~CREDITS: Executive Producers: Sarah Edmondson & Anthony AmesProduction Partner: Citizens of Sound Producer: Will RetherfordAssociate Producer: Jess TardyTheme Song: “Cultivated” by Jon Bryant co-written with Nygel AsselinAdditional Music Score by Will Retherford See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Bob and Lena discuss a common dynamic in intimate relationships, where one person has a fear of abandonment and the other has a fear of shame and/or failure.

Swanner and Judd talk about The Big Leap; Masked Singer; The Connors; The Great; Queen of the Universe; Michael Che: Shame the Devil; Cleo Sol: Mother; Home Sweet Home Alone; and more! Left Click To Listen, Right Click Here To Download

Evelyn "Champagne" King (born July 1, 1960) is an American singer, songwriter, and record producer. She is best known for her hit disco single "Shame", which was released in 1977 during the height of disco's popularity. King had other hits from the early through the mid–1980s including; "I'm in Love" (1981), "Love Come Down" (1982) and "Your Personal Touch" (1985).

Are Glenn and John wasting their time by talking about race? … How Glenn and John's families shaped their attitudes toward race … Looking back on past radicalism … Glenn: Is my anger necessary? … Can “Omar” change his ways? …

Are Glenn and John wasting their time by talking about race? ... How Glenn and John's families shaped their attitudes toward race ... Looking back on past radicalism ... Glenn: Is my anger necessary? ... Can “Omar” change his ways? ...

Are Glenn and John wasting their time by talking about race? ... How Glenn and John's families shaped their attitudes toward race ... Looking back on past radicalism ... Glenn: Is my anger necessary? ... Can “Omar” change his ways? ...

The Fantasy Footballers are back with a new episode to help you get a win in Week 13! On today's fantasy football podcast, Week 13 matchup breakdowns and injury updates. Plus, a recap of the Cowboys vs Saints game, and Jason spins the Wheel of Shame during the “Fantasy Faceoff” segment! Manage your redraft, keeper, and dynasty fantasy football teams with the #1 fantasy football podcast. -- Fantasy Football Podcast for December 3rd, 2021.   (03:00) - Thursday Night Recap: Cowboys at Saints (09:35) - NFL News (13:00) - FootClan Friday (15:20) - Fantasy Forecast  (15:40) - Eagles at Jets (22:30)  - Colts at Texans (26:55)  - Washington Football Team at Raiders (33:40)  - Jaguars at Rams (38:25)  - Ravens at Steelers (42:05)  - 49ers at Seahawks (47:35)  - Broncos at Chiefs (51:30)  - Patriots at Bills (56:30)  - Fantasy Faceoff & Wheel of Shame   Connect with the show: Subscribe on YouTube Visit us on the Web Support the Show Follow on Twitter Follow on Instagram   Check out today's sponsors:   Hello Fresh -- Code: footballers14 Embark -- Code: FOOTBALLERS Notion  SkyLight Frame -- Code: FOOTBALLERS DraftKings -- Code: BALLERS Sleeper Pristine Auction -- Registration Code - BALLERS Support this podcast 

In this episode of The Broken Catholic Show, Joseph Warren is joined by  Darla Harms  CEO and Founder of Small Town Girls Play Big  ...to discuss how to finally break free from your shame.  Links  SmallTownGirlsPlayBig.com  ★ Subscribe  Apple | Stitcher | iHeart   BLOW UP ROCKS™  ELITE VIP COACHING FOR MEN  I Help Christian Husbands Go From Angry & Stressed to PEACE & PURPOSE Without Therapy or Marriage Counseling! -  BlowUpRocks.com  Music: Purple-Planet.com

God is in the wooing business. He loves us. He calls us in. He embraces us in every possible way. And this conversation with Sunil was so good. I got connected with him through Clubhouse, but more so importantly around the attraction, quality of intuitive thinking, intuitive branding, intuitive relationships, and intuitive parenting. This one is deep. It is good. It helps you process your own emotions, your environment, your relationships, your fight, your trauma, or your depression. He teaches us an incredible process at the very end in order to understand and read ourselves better. This is so related to my story and in thinking and branding and marketing and relationships. And all of that is something that I want to be more mindful of so that I can go on the right path. I can walk the right way where God is leading me, and I can stand in purpose on purpose. And so if that's something that meets your spirit, you should tune in and follow him.   Grow for God 2022 registration is OPEN! Special ticket prices through 12/31! https://www.fitinfaithmedia.com/grow-for-god-con  

Shame and disgust are heavy words that inhabit dark places, but we can't avoid dark places if we want to experience the highs a relationship can provide emotionally and sexually. The power of shame is in secrecy. We don't want to show our shame. We don't want to be rejected, so we lock away parts of ourselves and pray that no one sees us. The irony is that the antidote to shame is connection and empathy, gifts we can only receive when we allow others to see us.  Within the sexual cycle, shame takes many forms. We might feel shame over what we've done, over things that have been done to us, or over our desires and fantasies. Many feelings of shame and disgust are rooted in our childhoods (or trauma). If one partner brings up a new sex act and their partner has a huge reaction of disgust, it can create deep shame for simply bringing it up or even disgust at one's self for having "such" ideas, further fueling the shame cycle. So how do we close the gap and find attunement within this mismatched experience? The answer is communication. Listen as Laurie and George roleplay and show you how to have these conversations with your partner – with safety.

Vanessa and Matt explore the theme of Shame in Chapter Eleven of Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets, with special guest Casper ter Kuile! This week they discuss the highs and lows of sleep-away camp, Crabbe's potion-making skills, and Harry's newly discovered fluency in Parseltongue. Throughout the episode we consider the question: what lies on the other side of shame?Thank you to Prabhanjan for this week's voicemail! Next week we're reading Chapter 12, The Polyjuice Potion, through the theme of Guilt.--It's two sickles to join S.P.E.W., and only two dollars to join our Patreon for extra bloopers every week! Please consider helping us fill our Gringotts vault so we can continue to make this show. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

Today, I’m here with Terry Real, a nationally recognized family therapist, author, and teacher who’s been in practice for 30 years. He’s well known for his work on men and male psychology, as well as his work with relationships and couples. His books include I Don’t Want To Talk About It about male depression and …

We have a special, short episode of Spectora Spotlight with James and Megan from our Product team here at Spectora! We talk about how they are improving the way Spectora thinks about feature requests, bugs, prioritization and process improvements that will keep Spectora on the forefront of the industry in 2022.  

Landscape design is a big thing I teach my clients. From your personal life to your professional life, what you allow in to your space is a big determinant of how you feel, action, and believe. Learn more in this episode of F.I.T. Biz Tips!    Grow for God 2022 registration is OPEN! Special ticket prices through 12/31!  https://www.fitinfaithmedia.com/grow-for-god-con  

CW: we discuss sexual assault, incest, self-harm, and addiction in this episode Dax and MB discuss Steve McQueen's (pretty basic) 2011 film 'Shame.' We talk a lot about dongs. Follow the podcast @WONApodcast Follow Dax @daxebaben Follow MB @mbmcandrews

Dr. Jenny Wang, PhD,  (she/her) is a first-generation, Taiwanese American clinical psychologist and national speaker in Houston, Texas. She is also the creator of the Asians for Mental Health Directory and the founder of the Instagram community Asians for Mental Health, where she focuses on the destigmatization of mental health for Asian diaspora communities, the intersection of mental health, Asian American identity, and social justice to a community of 75K on Instagram. In this episode, we discuss what shame around mental health looks like, being a child of immigrants and breaking cycles, viewing conflict as a tool, boundaries during the holidays, and the views of mental health in Asian American communities.FOLLOW DR. WANG:INSTA: @asiansformentalhealthWEBSITE: https://linktr.ee/asiansformentalhealthSTAY CONNECTED:INSTA: @trustandthriveTIKOK:@trustandthriveTWITTER: @trustandthriveFACEBOOK: bit.ly/FBtaramontWEBSITE: www.tara-mont.com EMAIL: tara@tara-mont.com 

Jack Kammer says boys are affected by sexism too.  Boys and girls who engage in the same exact behavior may be treated very differently. And yet, when we fail to acknowledge that fact, we contribute to the gaslighting of our boys. Because the truth is that males and females both experience advantages AND disadvantages related to their sex and gender. But while a lot of of societal effort has been directed toward decreasing gender-related disadvantages that hold back females, little attention has been directed toward eliminating barriers commonly encountered by boys and men. "For the past 60 years, we've done a pretty good job of making sure that girls have a lot of fluidity in the choices that they can make and they options they can pursue," says Kammer, author of Heroes of the Blue Sky Rebellion: How You and Other Young Men Can Claim All the Happiness in the World. "We don't do that so much for boys." In fact, he says, when it comes to love, relationships, nurturing, and expression, today's prevailing narrative posits female superiority and male inferiority. As a result, too many boys and men (and girls & women) believe that males can't multi-task or competently care for young children. "It was a very bad thing for our nation to waste all of the talent that women had to be good business people, lawyers, and scientists. It's really a bad thing for us to waste all of the love and nurturance, the desire to be fully human and helpful, that men feel," Kammer says. In this episode, Jen, Janet & Jack discuss: Helping boys grapple with sexism Advocating for boys in the classroom and on the playground Recess and its importance for boys (& girls) Fluidity for boys How gender stereotypes harm boys & men Shame's impact on boys Empowering boys to delay sexual activity Encouraging father involvement Links we mentioned (or should have) in this episode: jackkammer.com -- Jack's website (includes links to his male-friendly podcasts) Heroes of the Blue Sky Rebellion: How You and Other Young Men Can Claim All the Happiness in the World -- Jack's book Boy Moms as Boy Advocates -- ON BOYS episode featuring Gemma Gaudette (mentioned at 6:10) Need help with your boys? Subscribe to Jen's newsletter, Building Boys Bulletin Opt-in at Boys Alive! for your free guide: Boys & Big Emotions with Janet Sponsor Spotlight: Cozi #1 organizing app for families   Sponsor Spotlight: LCP Medical  Comfortable face masks that capture, disable & discard infectious germs Use the ON BOYS discount code to SAVE 10% off your order

"I'm on a mission to ensure that anyone and everyone feels entitled to exercise whilst cutting through Diet Culture nonsense." - Laura Ghiacy Laura is a fitness guru... only she's actually honest. After going viral 20 times on TikTok, Laura has taken it upon herself to be a voice for reason and reality in an ever hyperbolizing fitness world. We talk about why weight loss is not the key indicator the fitness industry would have you believe, how she tries to reorient her clients perspectives on working out and diet culture, why Keto is a cult, macros are foolish, and we talk about the most fun topic - SHAME only somehow it's fun and hilarious. https://www.lauraghiacy.com/ https://www.instagram.com/laura_ghiacy/ https://www.tiktok.com/@lauraghiacy Want to get better at life with me? Subscribe!→https://goo.gl/g94cKA Like it?? Join my team to help me make more→ http://patreon.com/alispagnola

Shame is the voice in our ear that tells us we're not enough, that asks us who we think we are when we have the courage to try to do or be. On this episode of Tamarindo, we are joined by guest Angelica Maria, a Chicana poet & singer. She is an advocate of divine femme power, an internationally touring artist & mami of the poetry book “They Call Me”.Together we unpack shame; we ground in what shame is, why we experience it, and how we can stop giving it so much power while embracing the power of vulnerability.    During the conversation, we reference Brene Brown's Ted talk “Listening to Shame” and Glennon Doyle's Book “Untamed”.    Angelica reads a poem from her poetry book called  “They Call Me bien creida” and we play a portion of her song “Me Vale”, from her forthcoming album.    Our episode is sponsored by Alma Explores, Marisa Ramirez Consulting, and by Justice Work. Justice work is encouraging our community to participate in the first ever National LGBTQ+ Women*s Community Survey to help address the gaps in knowledge, policy analysis, organizing, and advocacy about the life experiences, needs, priorities and challenges faced by LGBTQ+ women, our partners, and families. Take the Survey.    Tamarindo podcast is the Latinx show where hosts discuss politics, pop culture, and how to balance it all con calma, hosted by Brenda Gonzalez and Ana Sheila Victorino. Join us as we delve into discussions on culture, politics, identity, representation, and life!   Brenda and  Ana Sheila are executive producers of Tamarindo podcast with production support by Mitzi Hernández and Augusto Martinez, of Sonoro Media. Jeff Ricards provides original music. If you want to support our work, please rate and review our show here. You can get in touch with us at www.tamarindopodcast.com   Follow AnaSheila on instagram @la_anasheila and twitter @Shelli1228 Follow Brenda on twitter at @BrendaRicards We need media that portrays our community, especially Latinas, in a positive light! ✨ . This week's guest is making sure children see themselves represented in the stories they read. We speak to Naibe Reynoso (@naibereynoso) , the founder of @contodopress, a publishing company dedicated to celebrating Latino leaders and culture through its children's books.  . Naibe Reynoso is a Mexican-American multi-Emmy award-winning journalist and mom based in Los Angeles California. Listen to her journey into become a #1 best selling author of children's books. Available now whereever you listen to podcasts! . Save 20% offer when you use code TAMARINDO at checkout when you order books from @controdpress from now until Dec. 31, 2021

In this episode, Kristen talks about Betrayal and how to rebuild trust so you can move forward and heal the relationship. Subscribe and Get a free 5-day journal at www.kristendboice.com/freeresources to begin closing the chapter on what doesn't serve you and open the door to the real you. This information is being provided to you for educational and informational purposes only. It is being provided to you to educate you about ideas on stress management and as a self-help tool for your own use. It is not psychotherapy/counseling in any form. This information is to be used at your own risk based on your own judgment.  For my full Disclaimer please to to www.kristendboice.com. For counseling services near Indianapolis, IN, visit www.pathwaystohealingcounseling.com. Pathways to Healing Counseling's vision is to provide warm, caring, compassionate and life-changing counseling services and educational programs to individuals, couples and families in order to create learning, healing and growth.

The Daily Fill Devotional is an audio podcast from Emmanuel Faith Community Church of Escondido, CA, based on the weekly written devotionals under the same title, also published on www.efcc.org. These devotionals follow the current teaching sermon series at Emmanuel Faith, and allow you to go deeper with God's Word each week. We hope you will enjoy these audio devotionals.

Do you feel like you are never accomplishing enough in the day, even when you got a lot done? Do you feel like you're allowed to do anything unproductive like rest or even feel bad about taking a break? This guilt you feel is REAL and it is called productivity shame.  In this episode, we discuss the 6 Spokes Theory by Darius Foroux and how you can learn to manage your time anxiety. Need some help with content creation? Access your content creation freebie HERE:  Consider subscribing, rating, and reviewing the podcast!  Follow us on IG to join free workshops on content creation @arthivemagazine @theangelayungk @jessieprugh  

Sweetbread, cakes, and ham with a side of hot pepper sauce were the smells that overwhelmed my West Indian home as a child during the holidays. I could indulge in these delicacies without a second thought. As an adult, however, holiday eating can be a real challenge while trying to improve my health. There's this battle between wanting to enjoy food, family and friends during the holiday but not blow the progress I've made with my health. Many of us face this challenge, and this can lead us on the cycle of chronic dieting followed by shame and blame. To help us through the holiday eating maze I've brought in renowned dietician Camille Martin. Camille Martin is a registered dietitian, public health writer, and former chronic dieter. She's dedicated to helping women quit dieting, set bigger and better goals, reclaim their excitement for life — and lose weight in the process. Key Takeaways1. Issues with food often become issues with mental health. When you're worried about food and what it does to your body, you become over-critical of yourself and this can lead to eating disorders, depression, and sleep issues to name a few.2. Allow yourself to enjoy the holidays! Don't stress about eating too much. Allow yourself to have fun and enjoy a bit more food than you normally would. Focusing on how much you're eating can lead you to eating too much or not enough.3. It's important to change the way you talk about yourself. What you think and feel will eventually translate into your physical appearance. Learn to be at peace with yourself and it will translate to your body in a positive way. Episode Moments/Quotes 3:03 - Introduction of Camille Martin13:23 - “When we allow ourselves to lose control in other areas we try to think we're reclaiming it with food, but we are actually doing more damage to ourselves” -Dr. Neely15:50 - Why and how Camille Martin broke her diet cycle 24: 48 - “The more you attend to your soul and your heart, your body will adjust to match” -Camille Martin34:03 - "It's not about doing to get, it's about feeling to become." Research on the TopicEmotional eating, as described by Psychology today, is the combination of stress and hunger. They explain that hunger can be normal hunger or hunger based on feelings, and that feelings of stress are often associated with feelings of hunger. Combine this with the stress of the holiday and emotional eating can sometimes get out of hand. When it does, we shame ourselves for the food we've eaten and the weight we've gained and force ourselves to follow crazy diets. This can add more stress, which in turn creates a cycle of eating, shame, and diet. Check out the link below for more information about emotional eating! Want More?Check out episode 63: Emotional Eating w/ Dr. Shawn Hondorp. Dr. Neely and Dr. Hondorp dive into what emotional eating is and why diets don't work! Resources/ Things Mentioned During The Show:Camille Martin https://camillemartinrd.com/Drop The BS Facebook Group https://www.facebook.com/groups/dropthebspodcast/Psychology Today https://www.psychologytoday.com/us

Advent: The Death of Shame and the Birth of Our King - Pastor Alex Early - 11.28.21 by Redemption Church In Seattle Washington

CONTENT ADVISORY: death, suicide, violence, self harm. John Penman returns (episode 76) to talk about his recent relapse into self harm (and how he's learned to treat himself with compassion), processing death, BPD, consent and psychedelics. we also discuss: self-punishment; forgiving self; being a part of a death-centric cycle; watching the self GROW; the WAVES of life; moving through GUILT & shame; accidentally killing animals + the GRIEF; monogamy & partnership & love; clear communication; neurodiversity; and MUCH more. Follow John on IG @jnpnmn Recorded May 23 & Dec1, 2021. Buy MERCH: www.kyeplant.bandcamp.com SUPPORT via PATREON: www.patreon.com/feelinweird DONATE via Paypal Instagram: @feelinweirdpod Web: www.feelinweird.com Email: feelinweird@gmail.com

No matter how dirty with sin you are, through Christ you can see the light of God's glory and believe.

Thank you to today's sponsor, Stamped by Sis, a faith-based business that offers handmade jewelry, Scripture cards, totes and more giftable items. Click the link below to check out her shop! Use code TRUTHTALKS for 20% off your entire order - great for this Christmas season! Shop Stamped by Sis here: www.stampedbysis.etsy.com (use code TRUTHTALKS for 20% off!) Follow Stamped by Sis on Instagram: www.instagram.com/stampedbysis/   Have you ever felt like you have to have it "all together" and be "perfect" to come to God? To be in relationship with Him? Have you ever felt pressure from social media or the world or friendships to be a certain way?   Tara's friend, Sophie, from Simply Sophie Designs on Instagram, is on the show today to talk about her personal battle with perfectionism, overcoming guilt and shame and how to live free from the pressure of the world.   Follow Sophie on Instagram: www.instagram.com/simplesophiedesigns/ Sophie's Shop: www.simplysophiedesigns.com/

Being in a relationship is hard work - but it doesn't have to be a struggle all the time. With the right tools, I really believe we can all have the relationship of our dreams.  This is a special one - I'm sharing 5 relationship tools that my guests have shared with me in some of my favorite episodes. These are tools that have been instrumental in my own relationship.  Take this as your toolkit to having a deeper relationship, better partnership, better intimacy, and better communication with your partner.  The guests sharing these tools are some of the best coaches, therapists, researchers, and real-life couples figuring it out.  Each relationship tool is helpful and profound all while being digestible and applicable for you or you and your partner, or any relationship that you want to apply these to.  Highlights  4:52 #1: The Relationship Board Meeting with That Sex Chick  8:38 #2: The Pause with Dr. Alexandra Solomon  13:52 #3: Mindset theory: hiring your partner to stand for your highest self with Annie Lalla 18:25 #4: Propelling your relationship with therapy with Adee and Michael Cazayoux 26:15 #5: Sex: how often are healthy relationship's partaking with Dr. Amy Muise Resources We Mention:  Relationship Board Meeting Related Episodes:  Podcast 015: Sex, Shame, and Orgasms with Sex & Relationship Coach Alexa Martinez Podcast 046: The Secrets to Lasting Marriage and Having the Love You Really Want with Dr. Alexandra Solomon, PhD Podcast 017: How to Turn Relationship Conflict Into Connection with Annie Lalla, Relationship Coach Podcast 056: The Science Of Keeping The Spark Alive with Love and Sex Researcher Dr. Amy Muise Podcast 004: How to Have an Awesome Marriage with Adee and Michael Cazayoux Health Resources Healing Hashimoto's Course Thyroid Lab Guide + Tracker (free)  Recommended Non-Toxic Products Connect With Carly: CarlyJohnsonBrawner.com Instagram: @carlyjohnsonbrawner Sponsors: Organifi (Use code Carly for 20% off) Microbalance Health (use code Carly for 10% off) Complete Show Notes Here

I have a secret: I have been really struggling with STUFF lately. I am not sure if it's because of pandemic stress, or simply a need to feel safe and secure, but for the past year and a half I have been holding on to a LOT (both physical stuff AND emotional stuff). And I don't think I'm alone in this? Have you been holding on to stuff too? Are you feeling overwhelmed and a bit lost on how to let go and clear the way for a new mindset? If so, hit replay and just type: ME TOO! Shame lives in the shadows and "ME TOO" is one of the most powerful phrases we can say and hear. It can help us feel seen, heard, known, and not so alone. It capitalizes on the concept from Compassion-Based Mindfulness called "Common Humanity" and it is a vital part of beginning to validate our normal, imperfect human experience. In the spirit of holding to the light that we often wish to hide, I am going to be open and vulnerable with you this week and it is going to be a little different from what we usually do. For this episode, I am going to be the one who's getting coached by my good friend and amazing colleague about the transformational process of decluttering. Allie Casazza, Decluttering Queen, is on a mission to eradicate the "hot mess mom" stereotype by empowering other women. She has built a massive audience and a multimillion-dollar online business based on her proven, family-oriented approach to minimalism. She is the author of Declutter Like A Mother and the host of The Purpose Show, a chart-topping podcast, and the creator of multiple online programs and courses. Her platforms continue to grow every day as more women discover her life-changing approach to creating an abundant life. She will be helping me get out of feeling overwhelmed and create more space in my life, my home, and my family. Listen in as she brilliantly coaches me through mindset blocks & shifts I never even knew I needed. Be prepared, I do get emotional in this (it's that deep!) and I hope that my vulnerability in this episode inspires you to a deeper level of honesty and vulnerability with yourself. To get more support, follow Allie through her social media and website: Instagram: @allie_thatsme Facebook: www.facebook.com/alliecasazzablog Website: alliecasazza.com Listen to her podcast: The Purpose Show

Advent: The Death of Shame and the Birth of Our King - Pastor Alex Early - 11.28.21 by Redemption Church In Seattle Washington

The Fellowship of the Ring: Shame, Dissociation, and Trauma Bonds:One does not simply discuss Lord of the Rings….so we teamed up with Southgate Productions and headed to Mordor to discuss the first Lord of the Rings film, Fellowship of the Rings! We discuss the impact of shame in the decision making and sense of identity amongst the fellowship. We also discuss the many ways that dissociation presents in the film as well as the concept of trauma bonds. So join us and hang on to your cloaks!

Jay Stringer is a therapist, author, and public speaker. He guides men and women to overcome unwanted sexual behaviors, and to discover how their story is shaping unwanted sexual behavior or betrayal trauma. He grew up as the son of a Protestant minister in the Presbyterian church, holds a master of Divinity and masters of Counseling Psychology, and is an ordained minister. Steven Shields, ACMHC CET1, is a therapist who acts as a guide to help others heal from trauma and addiction. As founder of Unashamed Unafraid, a non-profit organization, he hosts the podcast that shares hope for sexual addiction recovery. Unashamed funds scholarships for people to go to retreats and receive therapy. Steve works in his private practice in Salt Lake City, at OnSite in Nashville Tennessee, and at the Oaks in San Diego California doing trauma intensives and workshops. His favorite event to speak at is the WarriorHeart Bootcamp every year. Steve is unofficially the biggest Leading Saints and “KF” fan! In this podcast episode, Kurt and co-host Steve speak with Jay about how leaders can best provide help and guidance to those who have been affected by unwanted sexual behaviors. Jay Stringer Steve Shields Highlights 6:15 How can leaders help members with sexual brokenness? Leaders should stop trying to ‘manage' the problem but try to help the member find the core problem. 8:10 Unwanted sexual behavior is a roadmap to healing, not a life sentence to sexual shame or sexual addition. 9:30 Leaders need to listen to the stories and experiences that are behind the unwanted behavior. 13:30 Invite people to take authorship and authority over their unwanted behaviors. It's so much more than ripping out their behavior from their life. Behaviors and addictions come from somewhere much deeper. 17:00 Many people turn to unhealthy sexual behavior or porn because they lack purpose. 17:45 How can a leader create space to listen? Stories are what change the human heart. Stop the practical suggestions because they are not going to work. 20:10 Jay gives a list of questions that can help leaders in interviews. These questions will lead to stories and help the member connect the dots between the current unwanted sexual behavior and the past pain or underlying story. 22:30 You don't have to be a therapist but a safe place for people to share their stories. People don't always need suggestions but someone that has compassion for them. 30:00 How do you help members come to you to confess and talk about the problems they are having? 34:15 Shame convinces people to stay silent about their sexual brokenness. Leaders need to normalize talking about sex and porn. 40:45 Share your scars, not your wounds, when you are in leadership. Be vulnerable to share your scars and experiences too. God wants us to share our stories. 42:30 This is not just a men's issue but a human issue. Many women are also viewing pornography and having affairs. 47:30 While connection and community are very important to recovery and healing it's also very important to take time alone. You have to learn to sit with yourself and not just try to distract yourself all the time. 53:00 How can we find the right community? Links UnashamedUnafraid.com Unwanted: How Sexual Brokenness Reveals Our Way to Healing The Journey Course Kintsugi pottery jay-stringer.com Instagram @jay_stringer_ Read the TRANSCRIPT of this podcast

Demi chats with Me Too Founder and New York Times Bestselling Author Tarana Burke about self work, self worth, so-called “strong” Black women and other themes covered in Burke's debut book, “You Are Your Best Thing: Vulnerability, Shame Resilience, and The Black Experience”. Check out my website: http://www.demetrialucas.com/about/. Follow me:  IG:  demetriallucas. Twitter: demetriallucas. FB: demetriallucas. YouTube: demetriallucas. Thanks to our sponsors: Design like a pro with Canva Pro! Right now, you can get a FREE 45-day extended trial when you use my promo code! Just go to canva.me/ratchet to get your FREE 45-day extended trial. Enter TODAY for your chance to win the “Miami Dream House” or other life-changing prizes and experiences at omaze.com/ratchet. Plus, receive 20 extra entries when you enter code ratchet20. Head to beamorganics.com/RATCHET for 40% off the first 3 months of a peppermint dream subscription PLUS free mug and frother, or 20% off a one-time purchase.  Right now, ShesBirdie is offering our listeners 15% off your first purchase when you go to shesbirdie.com/RATCHET. Right now, Sakara is offering our listeners 20% off their first order when they go to sakara.com/RATCHET or enter code RATCHET at checkout. Sprite Winter Spiced Cranberry is BACK,  and now available with Zero Sugar!  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Vanessa and Matt explore the theme of Dignity in Chapter Ten of Harry Potter and the Chamber of Secrets. This week they discuss Lockhart's dignity, or lack thereof, athletes practicing ballet, and Dobby's big reveal. Throughout the episode we consider the question: is there an inherent human dignity that cannot be stripped away by others?Thank you to MJ for this week's voicemail! Next week we're reading Chapter 11, The Dueling Club, with very special guest Casper Ter Kuile, through the theme of Shame.--It's two sickles to join S.P.E.W., and only two dollars to join our Patreon for extra bloopers every week! Please consider helping us fill our Gringotts vault so we can continue to make this show. See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.

THE MEGALODON SHOW IS HERE! The Fantasy Footballers are back with a Week 12 fantasy football Thanksgiving feast! On today's fantasy football podcast, get a breakdown for ALL Week 12 matchups! Plus, Starts of the Week, Buy or Sell, Turkey Day Awards, and tons more! Manage your redraft, keeper, and dynasty fantasy football teams with the #1 fantasy football podcast -- Fantasy Football Podcast for November 24th, 2021.   (06:10) - Buy or Sell (10:35) - News & Notes (22:40) - Never Not Working (33:45) - Turkey Day Awards (41:15) - Bears at Lions (43:25) - Raiders at Cowboys (48:05) - Bills at Saints  (53:45) - Starts of the Week (53:55) - QB Starts of the Week (56:40) - RB Starts of the Week (59:35) - WR Starts of the Week (01:01:45) - TE Starts of the Week (01:04:30) - Boom Boom Kicker of the Week (01:06:40) - Fantasy Forecast (01:06:45) - Steelers at Bengals (01:12:00) - Buccaneers at Colts (01:18:15) - Panthers at Dolphins (01:22:00) - Titans at Patriots (01:27:20) - Eagles at Giants  (01:32:30) - Falcons at Jaguars (01:36:25) - Jets at Texans (01:40:50) - Chargers at Broncos (01:44:40) - Rams at Packers (01:50:55) - Vikings at 49ers (01:56:30) - Browns at Ravens (02:00:55) - Seahawks at Washington Football Team (02:03:40) - Fantasy Faceoff & Wheel of Shame (02:10:45) - Mailbag Connect with the show: Subscribe on YouTube Visit us on the Web Support the Show Follow on Twitter Follow on Instagram   Check out today's sponsors:   Head & Shoulders SkyLight Frame -- Code: FOOTBALLERS Manscaped -- Code: FOOTBALLERS20 Embark -- Code: FOOTBALLERS Sleeper Pristine Auction -- Registration Code - BALLERS Support this podcast