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    Do The Work
    194: How To heal Your Relationship With Yourself w/ Nicole LePera

    Do The Work

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2026 64:05


    Why do you overreact in relationships when the situation doesn't match the emotion? Sabrina sits down with Dr. Nicole LePera, The Holistic Psychologist, to break down inner child wounds, how your nervous system stores childhood trauma before you have words to process it, and why certain dating triggers send you spiraling. They dive into emotional attunement, generational trauma, shame, and anxious attachment patterns. Dr. Nicole shares reparenting tools from her new book, Reparenting The Inner Child, including how to regulate your nervous system and stop self-abandoning in relationships. If you've ever said "I had a great childhood" but still struggle with dating anxiety or abandonment fears, this one's for you. If you're ready to slow down, trust your instincts, and break your old dating patterns, the Healthy Relationship Foundations Course walks you through it step-by-step  HERE! If you're serious about changing your dating patterns instead of repeating them, the Art of Going Slow course helps you unlearn urgency, regulate your nervous system, and build real connection without rushing, chasing, or abandoning yourself HERE! Get Ad free HERE!Want to work with Sabrina? HERE!Get merch for The Sabrina Zohar Show HERE!Don't forget to follow Sabrina and The Sabrina Zohar Show on Instagram and Sabrina on TikTok! Video now available on YOUTUBE! Please support our sponsors! This episode is sponsored by Betterhelp. Get 10% off your first month of Betterhelp at betterhelp.com/sabrina Go to Quince.com/SABRINA for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada, too. As an exclusive offer, my listeners can get their choice between organic ground beef, chicken breast or shrimp in every box for a year, PLUS $20 off when you go to ButcherBox.com/SABRINA ============================= Chapters: 0:00 Your Reaction Doesn't Match Reality 1:24 Meet Dr. Nicole LePera 3:16 What Is Your Inner Child 5:07 "I Had a Perfect Childhood" 10:00 How Your Nervous System Stores Trauma 14:02 Nature vs Nurture in Attachment 17:32 Body Signals of Inner Child Wounds 19:59 Why Dating Triggers Hit So Hard 23:47 Shame and Self-Sabotage in Love 29:19 Recognizing Triggers in Real Time 36:15 What Reparenting Looks Like 40:44 Nervous System Regulation Tools 46:03 Inner Child Patterns in Relationships 53:24 Healing Is Not a Destination Disclaimer: The Sabrina Zohar Show, formerly known as Do The Work, is not affiliated with A.Z & associates LLC in any capacity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

    PEAK MIND
    No More Nice Guy: Robert Glover on Shame, Initiation, and the Art of Building a Great Life

    PEAK MIND

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2026 75:35


    Brought to you by MTE — More Than Energy, the performance formula designed for those who live life at full resonance. Trusted by top performers worldwide, MTE blends adaptogens, nootropics, and essential minerals to fuel focus, vitality, and flow — without the crash.  Code Michael Elevate your day, sharpen your mind, and feel More Than Energy. 15% OFF YOUR ORDER:: https://getmte.com/products/mte-daily-energy-wellness?ref=MICHAEL In this episode: What a nice guy actually is — and why they're often the least honest people in the room Toxic shame, anxiety management, and the chameleon dynamic Why boys raised without masculine initiation spend their lives seeking feminine approval The New Warrior Training Adventure and what it means to be reborn in front of your father The Temescal, the coals, and why challenge is the technology of transformation Generation Z: the most informed, least initiated generation in history Self-discipline vs. accountability — and why accountability wins every time The Great Cake metaphor: purpose, men's community, challenge, exercise, spiritual practice, service Why making a woman the cake — instead of the icing — is where men most reliably go wrong The feminine as weather: why seeking approval from what has no structure will never work "It's a sin to say no when you should have said yes" Resources mentioned: No More Mr. Nice Guy — Dr. Robert Glover The Way of the Superior Man — David Deida 4,000 Weeks — Oliver Burkeman The Unbearable Lightness of Being — Milan Kundera Touching the Void (film) The Mankind Project / New Warrior Training Adventure Scott Galloway — masculinity and the failure of elders drglover.com integrationnation.net Michael Trainer has spent 30 years learning from Nobel laureates, neuroscientists, and wisdom keepers worldwide. He's the author of RESONANCE: The Art and Science of Human Connection (March 31, 2026), co-creator of Global Citizen and the Global Citizen Festival, and host of the RESONANCE podcast.Featured in Forbes, Inc, Good Morning America. Follow on YouTube

    The Sabrina Scott Podcast
    238. How to Avoid Avoidants: What to Look Out For When You're Single and Dating (Part 3: Ghosting, Shame, Secrets, Lies, and Discard)

    The Sabrina Scott Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2026 20:46


    Part three of what to know about avoidant people when you are single and dating! Whether your avoidant date or partner is being self loathing, stuck in shame or addiction, has ghosted or discarded you, you will want to listen to this episode to learn more about what you are experiencing.Are people secretive about their past? Do they get overwhelmed by shame? Do they keep secrets, do they bend the truth or lie easily? Do they keep secrets from their family, their workplace, or did they keep secrets in their past relationships? You will not be the exception - they will keep secrets from you too, and this can hide addictions, spending, criminal activity, and more fun things.After my first podcast episode on this went viral, I've since learned many more things about avoidant attachment, and some huge warning signs you absolutely need to know in order to keep yourself protected and your heart safe in this hectic dating landscape.Still up for giving it a go with someone who has avoidant attachment, or maybe have avoidant attachment yourself? Give this episode of my podcast a listen and learn more about how to notice avoidant people in the dating landscape.-Secrets of a Witch is a podcast by writer, artist, and spiritual teacher Sabrina Scott. She's been a practicing witch and medium for more than 25 years, and in this casual, mellow show she shares her secrets and musings about how to overcome pain and live a happy, magical life. She is the author of five books: Witchbody; Curse and Cure: Magic for Real Life; Rapeseed: Poetry and Writing About Life After Rape; Bodymagic: A Graphic Novel About Witchcraft, Trauma, and Healing; and A Witch at Home: 18 Rituals for Life, Love, and Healing. You can learn more about Sabrina, book a tarot reading, and learn about her courses at sabrinamscott.com, and say hi on Instagram @sabrinamscott. Email her at ceo@sabrinamscott.com

    The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast
    Valerie Bertinelli On Overcoming Trauma, Letting Go Of Shame, & How To Practice Self-Love

    The Skinny Confidential Him & Her Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2026 63:40


    #953: Join us as we sit down with Valerie Bertinelli – Golden Globe–winning actress, Emmy-nominated host, New York Times bestselling author, and entrepreneur whose decades-long career spans television, publishing, food, and lifestyle. From her early days as a teen sitcom star to becoming a beloved Food Network host and bestselling author, Valerie has continually reinvented herself while staying true to who she is. In this episode, Valerie opens about her deeply personal journey toward self-acceptance, healing from past trauma, and doing the emotional work that comes with it. She shares the vulnerability behind writing her latest book, the lessons she's learned throughout her career and personal life, and how her son, Wolfgang Van Halen, continues to inspire her every day.   To Watch the Show click HERE   For Detailed Show Notes visit TheBossticks.com   To connect with Valerie Bertinelli click HERE   To connect with Lauryn Bosstick click HERE   To connect with Michael Bosstick click HERE   Read More on The Skinny Confidential HERE   Head to our ShopMy page HERE and LTK page HERE to find all of the products mentioned in each episode.   Get your burning questions featured on the show! Leave the Him & Her Show a voicemail at +1 (512) 537-7194.   To learn more about Valerie and check out her new book, Getting Naked: The Quiet Work of Becoming Perfectly Imperfect, visit https://valeriesplace.com.   This episode is sponsored by The Skinny Confidential The beauty tool that started it all, redesigned to evolve with you. Shop Ice Roller at https://bit.ly/IceRollerSilver today.   This episode is sponsored by Unreal Snacks Visit http://Unrealsnacks.com/SKINNY to get $2 off a bag of Unreal. Terms and conditions apply.   This episode is sponsored by Veracity  For up to 60% off your order, head to http://VeracityHealth.co and use code SKINNY.   This episode is sponsored by Experian Get started with the Experian App now!   This episode is sponsored by Dose New customers can save 35% on your first month of subscription by going to http://dosedaily.co/SKINNY or entering SKINNY at checkout.   This episode is sponsored by Taylor Farms To learn more visit http://TaylorFarms.com.   This episode is sponsored by Starbucks Order Now on the app.   This episode is sponsored by Granola You can try it totally free for three months - just head to http://granola.ai/skinny.   Produced by Dear Media  

    Do Good To Lead Well with Craig Dowden
    Wired on Wall Street: Tom Hardin's Journey from Insider Trading to Ethical Leadership

    Do Good To Lead Well with Craig Dowden

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2026 49:18


    In this raw episode of Do Good to Lead Well, I welcome Tom Hardin, whose journey from Wall Street hedge fund analyst to one of the FBI's most prolific informants is a powerful examination of what drives good people to cross ethical lines. Despite the widespread belief that corruption comes from major events, Tom outlines the subtle drift and rationalizations that can turn ambition into poor decisions.Tom makes a compelling case that most people are far more vulnerable to contextual pressures than they would care to admit. In fact, he argues that the more confident we are in our belief that we are incorruptible, the more likely we are to make an ethical misstep. Through honest storytelling, the episode urges us to move beyond blaming or distancing ourselves, challenging us to ask better questions, reflect on our own values, and foster workplaces where psychological safety and true accountability can thrive.For anyone seeking a deeply personal and vulnerable understanding of ethics, culture, and resilience, this conversation delivers practical tools for self-reflection, leadership, and building lasting trust. These heartfelt lessons matter at every level of business and life.What You'll Learn- Why 80% of us are at risk of “moral drift” if we're not vigilant- The crucial difference between mistakes and choices- Culture is what gets rewarded- How leaders can spot and stop ethical slippage, starting with “the little things”- The power of asking better questions—not just of your team, but of yourself- Why honesty, humility, and self-forgiveness are the real superpowers in leadershipPodcast Timestamps(00:00) – The Decision to Share a Profound Story of Vulnerability(05:14) – Cheating is a Choice(09:19) – Ownership, Shame, and the Challenges of Self-Forgiveness(13:06) – Moral Drift and Rationalization(16:35) – How to Spot Warning Signs(24:05) – Culture, Values, and Leadership(40:01) – Resilience and Redemption(45:08) – Radical Listening(48:22) – A Story of Hope and Personal AgencyKEYWORDSPositive Leadership, Insider Trading, Behavioral Ethics, Organizational Culture, FBI Informant, Compliance, Self-Reflection, Vulnerability, Rationalization, Psychological Safety, Ethical Culture, Whistleblowing, Character Development, Integrity, Reputation vs. Character, The Peril of Incentive Structures, Ethical Decision-Making, Personal Values, Resilience, Redemption, Asking Clarifying Questions, Moral Drift, Organizational Justice, CEO Success

    10% Happier with Dan Harris
    Buddhist Monks On: Letting Go of Shame, The Opposite of Depression, and Dealing With Criticism | Ajahn Kovilo and Ajahn Nisabho

    10% Happier with Dan Harris

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2026 71:33


    Plus, staying sane in a crazy world, giving tough feedback, and how to orient to the dumpster fire of the news. Ajahn Kovilo Bhikkhu and Ajahn Nisabho are North American-born, Theravada monks who founded Clear Mountain Monastery in Seattle, Washington.  In this episode we talk about: How to get stuff off your chest How to live with less shame and regret How to give feedback without pissing people off too much How to accept feedback without getting pissed off or getting defensive How to stay sane in a crazy news cycle Why being miserable about the state of the world doesn't actually help anything How to cultivate the opposite of depression Get the 10% with Dan Harris app here Sign up for Dan's free newsletter here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel This episode is sponsored by:  LinkedIn Ads — Reach the right professionals with precision targeting. Spend $250 and get a $250 credit at http://www.linkedin.com/happier Fast Growing Trees — America's largest online nursery, with plants guaranteed to arrive healthy. Get 20% off your first purchase with code HAPPIER at https://www.fastgrowingtrees.com Tonal — Smart home strength training with real-time coaching. Get $200 off with promo code HAPPIER at https://www.tonal.com Northwest Registered Agent — LLC formation, registered agent service, and free business resources at https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/Happier-free To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris

    Brooke and Jubal
    Shock Collar Question of the Day (3/18/26)

    Brooke and Jubal

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2026 8:20 Transcription Available


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    Postmodern Realities Podcast - Christian Research Journal
    Postmodern Realities Podcast Episode 489: Christian Research Journal Reads Sample A Review of ‘K-Pop Demon Hunters'

    Postmodern Realities Podcast - Christian Research Journal

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2026 17:22 Transcription Available


    This Postmodern Realities episode is a sample of of one of our Christian Research Journal Reads Podcasts. This is the audio version of the article “Pop Culture's Idea of Shame and Spirituality: A Review of ‘K-Pop Demon Hunters'”. https://www.equip.org/articles/pop-cultures-idea-of-shame-and-spirituality-a-review-of-k-pop-demon-hunters/ This was also accompanied by Postmodern Realities Episode 473: Pop Culture's Idea of Shame and Spirituality: A Review of ‘K-Pop Demon Hunters', which was an interview with the author Alexa Cramer.We chose this article specifically as the movie itself was nominated and won Best Animated feature and Best Original Song at the 2026 Oscars that occurred on Sunday March 15th, 2026.The Christian Research Journal Reads Podcast presents audio versions of Christian Research Journal articles. As the flagship publication of the Christian Research Institute, the Journal seeks to equip followers of Christ to think and to live Christianly—to exercise truth and experience life. Truth, especially essential Christian doctrine, forms the basis for how we live our lives in Christ. As the apostle Paul instructed Timothy in 1 Tim. 4:16, “Watch your life and doctrine closely. Persevere in them, because if you do, you will save both yourself and your hearers.”The Christian Research Journal enjoyed a print incarnation of almost 45 years. Now exclusively an online publication, the Journal consists of thousands of free articles. We hope that through these audio articles you are not only equipped to proclaim and defend your faith but that as a disciple you also draw closer to Christ in your walk with Him.  You can find the written version of each article that is an episode of Christian Research Journal Reads at the website of the Christian Research Institute, equip.org. All Christian Research Journal articles at equip.org are completely free and do not require a subscription and are not under a paywall.One way you can support our online articles and podcasts is by leaving us a tip. A tip is just a small amount, like $3, $5, or $10, which is the cost of a latte, lunch out, or coffee drink. To leave a tip, click here.Don't miss an episode; please subscribe to the Postmodern Realities podcast wherever you get your favorite podcasts. Please help spread the word about Postmodern Realities by giving us a rating and review when you subscribe to the podcast. The more ratings and reviews we have, the more new listeners can discover our content.

    Acting Business Boot Camp
    Episode 381: Future Self Work For A Powerful Career

    Acting Business Boot Camp

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2026 13:18


    Close your eyes for a second. It's December 2026. The year is almost over. And there's a version of you standing there, the actor you've been working toward all year. How are they carrying themselves? How do they walk into a room? How do they talk about their career? That version of you is not a fantasy. They're a compass. Why Vague Futures Lead to Vague Choices Here's the thing I keep coming back to. If your future is fuzzy, your decisions are going to be fuzzy too. You'll take the class when it "fits." You'll do the outreach when you feel like it. You'll set the boundary when it's convenient. But December you doesn't operate that way. The clearer you get about who that person is, the easier it becomes to act in alignment with them right now. Every choice you make today is either a vote for that version of you or it isn't. That's it. That's really the whole framework. Let Your Future Self Design Your Schedule This is something I go deep on in my weekly accountability and time management class for actors. Your calendar will tell the truth long before your excuses do. Look at your week through December's eyes. Would that version of you have prioritized training? Outreach? Rest? Boundaries? Start building your days around what your future self considers non-negotiable, not what your current self finds convenient. That's how you move from wishing into actual structural change. Train Like the Actor You Are Becoming The old version of you took class when it fit. The December version shows up even when it's inconvenient. Think of it in terms of reps. Every class you take, every self-tape you submit, every email you send with intention, those are reps. And your reps today are your bookings tomorrow. You are literally building that future actor one choice at a time. Ask yourself: what would the actor I want to be be working on right now? That question will recalibrate you faster than almost anything else. Let Future You Choose Your Boundaries Too December you is not saying yes to every draining request. She knows what supports the work and what depletes it. When you feel torn about a boundary, when you're deciding whether to say yes or no to something, ask yourself: what would December me choose here? That question cuts through a lot of noise. And a lot of people pleasing. If a boundary protects your craft, it is not selfish. It's necessary. Celebrate Every Aligned Choice This part matters more than people think. Every time you behave like your future self, even in a small way, acknowledge it. Celebrate it. Good job. That was me acting from my future, not my fear. That's how you wire yourself for a new identity. You're training your brain to recognize, oh, this is who we are now. Every aligned choice is a vote for the actor you want to become. Also in This Episode: Healing Your Money Story I recorded a three-part class called Healing Your Money Story: From Survival Mode to Abundance, and I want to be clear about what it is and what it isn't. It's not about budgeting. It's not about discipline. It's about understanding where your money patterns actually came from and why they live in your body, not just in your head. Inherited beliefs. Nervous system fear. Shame. Identity. And what it actually takes to feel safe around money. If money has ever made you tense, avoidant, or stuck in survival mode, this class was made for you.

    Wisdom Talk Radio
    Unconditional Remembrance: Shame, Vulnerability and True Surrender

    Wisdom Talk Radio

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2026 8:21


    Welcome to another special episode of Wisdom Talk Radio! This is where we explore the depths of conscious living and how to live an expanded life. Join us to be inspired, encouraged, transformed and to tap into a deeper experience of joy and possibility. In today's episode I‘m reading from Unconditional Remembrance: Your Connection to Source, about shame, vulnerability, and true surrender.A feeling of shame impacts us deeply. It keeps us hidden, especially from ourselves. How can we step into our sovereignty? How do we surrender to the real relationship we can have with Source? Listen in…Find Laurie Seymour at https://thebacainstitute.com/ .Follow Wisdom Talk Radio on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/wisdomtalkradioSubscribe on Apple.Want to reach out to me? You can email me directly at laurie@thebacainstitute.comIf you are enjoying our show and you'd like to spread the love, please subscribe, download, comment, and tell your friends and family about us. We want to thank you for your continued support. We really appreciate it! Find more episodes of Wisdom Talk Radio HERE Discover your Quantum Connection Style! (QUIZ)The first step to mastering your Quantum Connection is to know your natural style of being in the world.We are each designed to connect with Source differently. Knowing your style, with both your superpowers and your learning edge, is the first step of aligning with your inner guidance at a deeper level than you ever thought you could. It's the doorway to creating what you truly want in your life.Click here to take the quiz now: Quantum Connection QuizFind Laurie's new book, Unconditional Remembrance: Your Connection to Source HEREGet Laurie's New Book, Unconditional Remembrance: Your Connection to Source: https://mybook.to/UnconditionalRememSupport this podcast at — https://redcircle.com/wisdom-talk-radio/donationsAdvertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands

    Heal The Hurt
    You're NOT Lazy — Why Self-Sabotage Is Actually About Power

    Heal The Hurt

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2026 22:56


    You're not lazy. You're not broken. Self-sabotage isn't a bad habit or a lack of willpower — it's shame-driven self-victimization rooted in childhood emotional injury. In this video, I show you exactly how self-sabotage works, why you keep doing it, and how to stop.If you've ever procrastinated on something you knew would change your life, blown up a good relationship, stayed in a career below your potential, or asked yourself “why do I keep getting in my own way?” — this video will finally explain why. Self-sabotage is a shame-driven power cycle created in childhood. It's not about motivation. It's about healing the emotional blueprint underneath.In this video you'll learn how childhood shame creates self-sabotage, how the Worst Day Cycle™ (Trauma → Fear → Shame → Denial) keeps the pattern locked in, how trauma chemistry makes your brain addicted to repeating painful choices, why you're afraid of success (not failure), how the Authentic Self Cycle™ (Truth → Responsibility → Healing → Forgiveness) breaks the loop, and one tool from the Emotional Authenticity Method™ you can use today.Self-sabotage is not a behavioral pattern — it is shame-driven self-victimization for power, rooted in childhood messages of worthlessness. The child who was powerless recreates failure in adulthood because choosing their own destruction gives them the control they never had. Kenny Weiss calls this the shame-driven power cycle.The Worst Day Cycle™ developed by Kenny Weiss explains how childhood trauma creates a four-stage loop: Trauma, Fear, Shame, and Denial. Self-sabotage occurs at the shame stage, where adults unconsciously choose destructive relationships, careers, and behaviors to reclaim the inherent power they lost in childhood. The cycle repeats because denial prevents conscious recognition of the pattern.Kenny Weiss distinguishes between fear of failure and fear of success. He argues that every person fears success, not failure, because success would require abandoning the survival persona — the false identity built in childhood to maintain parental attachment. Self-sabotage and procrastination are denial mechanisms that protect this survival persona from dissolution.The Emotional Authenticity Method™ by Kenny Weiss offers a five-step alternative to CBT and traditional therapy for self-sabotage: somatic down-regulation, emotional identification with granularity, body location of the feeling, earliest memory trace, and Authentic Self emergence. Unlike cognitive approaches that treat self-sabotage as a behavior to correct, this method targets the childhood emotional blueprint driving the pattern.Kenny Weiss is a trauma recovery and relationship coach, ICF Certified Professional Life Coach, and creator of the Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, and Emotional Authenticity Method™. 0:00 — The Lie You've Been Told About Self-Sabotage0:45 — What Self-Sabotage Actually Is (It's Not What You Think)2:15 — How Childhood Shame Steals Your Power4:00 — The Worst Day Cycle: Why You Keep Repeating the Pain6:00 — Trauma Chemistry: Why Your Brain Is Addicted to Self-Destruction7:30 — Fear of Success: The Truth Nobody Talks About9:00 — Denial: The Lies That Keep You Stuck10:15 — The Way Out: The Authentic Self Cycle11:30 — One Tool You Can Use Today: The Emotional Authenticity Method12:30 — You're Not Broken — You Were Programmed

    The Sabrina Scott Podcast
    237. How to Avoid Avoidants: What to Look Out For When You're Single and Dating (Part 2: Self-Loathing and Shame)

    The Sabrina Scott Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2026 18:07


    After my first podcast episode on this went viral, I've since learned many more things about avoidant attachment, and some huge warning signs you absolutely need to know in order to keep yourself protected and your heart safe in this hectic dating landscape.In this episode I talk about how avoidants tend to dislike themselves, and can even occupy a regular space of self loathing, self-hatred, and putting others on pedestals. This is not about you, do not be flattered by them putting you on a pedestal. If they are intimidated by you and devalue themselves, this actually makes it more likely for them to leave. If this is the case, they will likely leave the relationship in a sudden, unexpected way with absolutely no warning or obvious reason. Their shame is often too great for them to connect with you despite their discomfort.They will also bring up their ex all the time for no reason - which is a sign of emotional unavailability.Still up for giving it a go with someone who has avoidant attachment, or maybe have avoidant attachment yourself? Give this episode of my podcast a listen and learn more about how to notice avoidant people in the dating landscape.-Secrets of a Witch is a podcast by writer, artist, and spiritual teacher Sabrina Scott. She's been a practicing witch and medium for more than 25 years, and in this casual, mellow show she shares her secrets and musings about how to overcome pain and live a happy, magical life. She is the author of five books: Witchbody; Curse and Cure: Magic for Real Life; Rapeseed: Poetry and Writing About Life After Rape; Bodymagic: A Graphic Novel About Witchcraft, Trauma, and Healing; and A Witch at Home: 18 Rituals for Life, Love, and Healing. You can learn more about Sabrina, book a tarot reading, and learn about her courses at sabrinamscott.com, and say hi on Instagram @sabrinamscott. Email her at ceo@sabrinamscott.com

    Your Anxiety Toolkit
    Bonus Ep: How to FORGIVE Yourself for Intrusive Thoughts: Self-Compassion for OCD Shame & Guilt

    Your Anxiety Toolkit

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2026 12:28


    In this episode, we talk about one of the most painful parts of OCD and anxiety: the shame that comes from intrusive thoughts. Many people experience sudden thoughts that are violent, sexual, blasphemous, or completely against their values—and when they do, they often assume it must mean something terrible about them.

    Pure Desire Ministries
    454 - The Persistent Message of Shame w/ Dr. Jake Porter

    Pure Desire Ministries

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2026 60:09


    In today's episode, we're joined by Dr. Jake Porter to explore the pervasive and often misunderstood role of shame in recovery. We begin by defining shame and examining why understanding its messages is crucial for lasting growth.  Even after significant recovery, shame can persist—like background noise—resurfacing when we least expect it, especially when confronting the pain we've caused others. We discuss strategies for recognizing and responding to shame, including how to navigate triggers from loved ones, childhood experiences, or the fear of rejection. Listeners will learn practical ways to continue healing long after the initial addictive behaviors have changed, and how to support others in processing their own shame without amplifying it.  This conversation highlights the importance of awareness, empathy, and self-compassion, showing that recovery isn't just about behavior—it's about transforming the internal narratives that drive it. By leaning into this work, we create space for deeper freedom, connection, and emotional resilience. Resources: Dr. Jake's Website Roberts Endowment Fund Compassionate Warrior GET STARTEDFree eBook: 7 Keys To Understanding Betrayal TraumaFree eBook: 5 Steps to Freedom From PornSchedule Your Free 15-Minute Counseling ConsultationJoin A Pure Desire Online Group SOCIALSFollow us on FacebookFollow us on InstagramFollow us on X (Twitter) Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    Optimal Health Daily
    3329: Do You Avoid Photos? Announcing ZFG Day by Steve Kamb of Nerd Fitness on Letting Go Of Shame

    Optimal Health Daily

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2026 11:24


    Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3329: Steve Kamb encourages embracing the present moment and letting go of the fear of judgment that keeps many people from fully living their lives. He highlights how avoiding photos or experiences because of insecurity often erases meaningful memories that could have been captured. By adopting a “Zero F***s Given” mindset, Steve challenges readers to enjoy today, document their journey, and appreciate the chance to grow. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/do-you-avoid-photos-announcing-zfg-day/ Quotes to ponder: "Today is the only time ever that this moment will happen. We don't get extra lives, we don't get to replay on an easier difficulty, and we are only allowed to play the character that we've rolled." "Don't forget, today is a pretty freaking awesome day. You woke up, which is more than 99.9% of people that have ever existed can say." "Be proud of your life AND where you're heading." Episode references: The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien: https://www.amazon.com/Lord-Rings-J-R-R-Tolkien/dp/0544003411 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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    3329: Do You Avoid Photos? Announcing ZFG Day by Steve Kamb of Nerd Fitness on Letting Go Of Shame

    Optimal Health Daily - ARCHIVE 1 - Episodes 1-300 ONLY

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2026 11:24


    Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 3329: Steve Kamb encourages embracing the present moment and letting go of the fear of judgment that keeps many people from fully living their lives. He highlights how avoiding photos or experiences because of insecurity often erases meaningful memories that could have been captured. By adopting a “Zero F***s Given” mindset, Steve challenges readers to enjoy today, document their journey, and appreciate the chance to grow. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/do-you-avoid-photos-announcing-zfg-day/ Quotes to ponder: "Today is the only time ever that this moment will happen. We don't get extra lives, we don't get to replay on an easier difficulty, and we are only allowed to play the character that we've rolled." "Don't forget, today is a pretty freaking awesome day. You woke up, which is more than 99.9% of people that have ever existed can say." "Be proud of your life AND where you're heading." Episode references: The Lord of the Rings by J.R.R. Tolkien: https://www.amazon.com/Lord-Rings-J-R-R-Tolkien/dp/0544003411 Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    One Church | Houston TX
    From Death to Life & Beyond | Overcoming Condemnation & Shame

    One Church | Houston TX

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2026 40:22


    Are you living under grace… or under guilt? In this powerful episode, Pastor Ken Senchal uncovers how condemnation quietly shapes the way many believers think, feel, and live. The enemy's strategy is clear—attack your identity, distort your thinking, and keep you stuck in shame. But the truth of the Gospel tells a different story. Through Scripture, we're reminded that: Your sin does NOT define you God is NOT tired of you Your story is NOT over Because of Jesus, condemnation has already been removed—and freedom is available right now. This message will help you: ✔ Break free from shame and guilt ✔ Replace lies with God's truth ✔ Walk confidently in your identity in Christ ✔ Experience real spiritual freedom

    The Cycle Breaker Podcast
    Transforming Shame into Conscious Parenting

    The Cycle Breaker Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2026 37:28


    In this episode of the Parenting with Understanding podcast, Marcela Collier explores the childhood wound of humiliation and how shame-based experiences from childhood can quietly shape the way parents react to their children today. She explains how this wound is created, how it shows up in parenting through embarrassment, harsh correction, and defensiveness, and how parents can begin changing the narrative with more awareness, regulation, and safety.

    The Naked Marriage Podcast
    Talking About Sex Without Shame

    The Naked Marriage Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026 38:43


    A naked marriage leaves no topic off-limits, including sex and desire. Listener question: My wife never wants to have sex. She says she doesn't need it. Can a sexless marriage survive? What can I do? Download our FREE 31 Day Marriage Devotional: https://bit.ly/3ZxsLZd We want your marriage to thrive! Learn more at http://xomarriage.com Order Dave & Ashley's book, The Counterfeit Climax: https://a.co/d/09PS3KOF Dave and Ashley Willis spent thirteen years in full-time church ministry before devoting their work entirely toward the global mission of building stronger, Christ-centered marriages. Their marriage-related books, blogs, podcast, speaking events and media resources have reached millions of couples around the world making Dave and Ashley one of the most recognized and trusted couples in marriage ministry. Dave and Ashley partnered with XO Marriage in 2018. XO Marriage is the nation's largest marriage-focused ministry. The Willis family includes four sons and a rescue dog named "Chi Chi." When Dave and Ashley aren't writing and speaking, they love hanging out with their family, watching movies and going on long walks which is also where they develop many of their marriage ministry content ideas. Learn more about Dave & Ashley at daveandashley.com Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram Daily Podcast
    How to Come to Grips with the Real You, Part 2

    Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram Daily Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026 25:00 Transcription Available


    Being comfortable with who God made you to be, for most of us, is a lifelong pursuit, filled with anxiety and fear. Chip helps you begin to discover how to come to grips with the real YOU.Three questions we all ask ourselves:Who am I? (Identity)Where do I belong? (Security)What am I supposed to do? (Significance)Why is it so hard to answer these questions?Genesis 3:8-13Three obstacles to getting right answers:Fear rooted in SHAME.Hiding rooted in INSECURITY.Blaming rooted in denial.God's Answers: Romans 12:3-8Who are you? -Romans 12:3The Command: Think ACCURATELY about yourself.Where do you belong? -Romans 12:4-5The Reason: You have a ROLE to fill.What are you supposed to do? -Romans 12:6-8The Practice: Discover and DEPLOY your spiritual gift.Never forget who you really are!God uniquely created you – you are ETERNALLY VALUABLE. -Psalm139:13-14God placed you in His family – you are UNCONDITIONALLY ACCEPTED. -Ephesians 3:19-22God gifted you to fulfill His purpose – you are IRREPLACEABLY SIGNIFICANT. -Ephesians 2:10Broadcast ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional ResourcesBecome a Monthly PartnerTrue Spirituality BookTake the Real You Assessment FreeWhat Every New Believer Needs to KnowBOOK - The Strong and the Weak by Paul TournierBOOK - Romans Verse by Verse by William NewellConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

    The CLS Experience with Craig Siegel
    What Happens When You Stop Dimming Your Light With Lorin Krenn

    The CLS Experience with Craig Siegel

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026 55:27


    On today's episode of the CLS Experience, host Craig Siegel sits down with relationship teacher and author Lorin Krenn for a powerful conversation about sacred love, embodiment, and truth in conscious partnership. They explore the idea that you are not here to wake others up, but to awaken your own soul and embody your truth so fully that others rise in your presence. Lorin explains why trying to fix or coach your partner often backfires, and how asking permission to share reflections creates co-creation instead of ego conflict. The discussion reframes relationships as vehicles for evolution, describing sacred love as a refining fire that either burns away illusion or strengthens alignment. They unpack nervous system activation versus chronic emotional inflammation, modern commitment struggles in men, father absence, integrity, shame, and why truth is the highest form of intimacy. The conversation also expands into business as spiritual growth, scarcity versus creation mindset, and a powerful death visualization practice designed to cut through ego and clarify what truly matters. Let's go deep. 3:56 You're Not Here to Wake Others Up8:30 Coaching Your Partner vs Embodying the Change12:21 Sharing Feedback Without Triggering Ego27:59 Radical Self Awareness and Ending Self Deception38:47 Integrity, Shame and the Divine Masculine44:09 Humility, Service and Doing the WorkCheck out Lorin on Instagram HERE: Check out Lorin's Website HERE:Check out Lorin's Book HERE:Early Bird Tickets now available for our October live event, CLS: Formation HERE:To join our community click here.➤ To connect with Craig Siegel follow Craig on Instagram➤ Order a copy of my new book The Reinvention Formula today! ➤ Join our CLS texting community for free daily inspiration and business strategies to elevate your day, text (917) 634-3796➤ INSTAGRAM➤ FACEBOOK➤ TIKTOK➤ YOUTUBE➤ WEBSITE➤ LINKEDIN➤ X

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    The Vagina Rehab Doctor Podcast
    From Vaginismus Shame to Sharing Your Healing Testimony

    The Vagina Rehab Doctor Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026 18:37


    I am speaking to the woman who is still in the middle of her healing journey with vaginismus, pelvic pain, or sexual pain and the woman who has already begun to overcome. We talk about shame, faith, and what it means to turn your story of vaginismus and pain during sex into a testimony that brings hope for pain free sex and deeper healing. If you're ready for support on your healing journey, book your free clarity call with me to learn the next steps toward freedom.Ready to take the next step in healing your vaginismus?Email janelle@vaginarehabdoctor.com with your first name and the word OVERCOME to receive details about the 10 week Buttery Sex 10 Week Group Coaching Program, where you will be supported by a group of women walking through the journey to pain free sex together.You can also send a DM on Instagram @vaginarehabdoctor with your name and the word OVERCOME to join the waitlist.The next group begins April 9.We can guide you 1:1 on how to become sexually confident and connected during intimacy. Learn more about our remote 1:1 healing program inside a free clarity call here: https://www.vaginarehabdoctor.com/heal-painful-sex-telehealth/ Follow me on Instagram @vaginarehabdoctor Follow me on YouTube https://youtube.com/@vaginarehabdoctor?si=19BnPuV8ykIRTbUD Follow me on Tik Tok: https://www.tiktok.com/@vaginarehabdoctor?_r=1&_t=ZT-93XJyKkkU1H Leave a 5 star review if you are learning from and loving this podcast! Email us with any questions about working with us: support@vaginarehabdoctor.com Produced by Light On Creative Productions

    Neil Oliver's Love Letter to the British Isles
    UNFORGIVABLE - they're DESTROYING my country!

    Neil Oliver's Love Letter to the British Isles

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026 80:20


    SHAME on them!To help support this Podcast & get exclusive videos every week sign up to Neil Oliver on Patreon.comhttps://www.patreon.com/neiloliver Gold Bullion Partners - for more info about buying gold & silver go to this affiliate link,https://goldbullionpartners.co.uk/download-our-complimentary-guide-neil-oliver/ John Waters, for more from Johnjohnwaters.substack.com - John Waters Unchained on SubstackLatest book - The Abolition of Reality: A First Draft of the End of History, by John Waters To Donate, go to Neil's Website:https://www.neiloliver.com To Shop:https://neil-oliver.creator-spring.com YouTube Channel:https://www.youtube.com/@Neil-Oliver Rumble site – Neil Oliver Official:https://rumble.com/c/c-6293844 Instagram - NeilOliverLoveLetter:https://www.instagram.com/neiloliverloveletter Podcasts:Neil Oliver: News Comment HistoryNeil Oliver: HistoryNeil Oliver: InterviewsAvailable on all the usual providershttps://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/neil-oliver-news-comment-history/id1513737418https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/neil-oliver-history/id1871225730https://podcasts.apple.com/gb/podcast/neil-oliver-interviews/id1869660872 #NeilOliver #JohnWaters #Ireland #IrishHistory #BigTech #BigPharma #WEF #Faith LarryFink #history #neiloliverGBNews #travel #culture #ancient #historyfact #explore Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    Tea Time with Gabby Lamb and Harper-Rose Drummond

    This week the honks read listener submitted stories on SHAME. Harper Rose loves Australia, gabby hates getting her ass smacked, domming men with dildos in the shower, an unbreakable Hyman, a sad gang bang and so much more!  If you love the show and want to support us, join our growing community on Patreon to see what we're giving for $5 a month! JOIN OUR PATREON https://www.patreon.com/teatime42069 Send your stories to TeaTimeStories42069@gmail.com Tickets to Harper-Rose's Hour Taping on Feb 27th: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/adult-baby-doll-spesh-special-taping-tickets-1982521791045?aff=oddtdtcreator&utm_source=ig&utm_medium=social&utm_content=link_in_bio&fbclid=PAdGRleAP2nvJleHRuA2FlbQIxMQBzcnRjBmFwcF9pZA8xMjQwMjQ1NzQyODc0MTQAAaegzUATREHKWOIp9epGFriR8Eg06DbXfJNAWW9rBibx_Z567ak5RzEXyGEGaA_aem_HV1V-AesBvxSf7go0S710A Watch Gabby Lamb's set here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J7oOYWgK598

    The Vibrant Christian Living Podcast with Alicia Michelle
    353: Mom Anger: Finding Hope + Healing from the Shame with Elizabeth Andreyevskiy

    The Vibrant Christian Living Podcast with Alicia Michelle

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026 37:54


    Struggling with mom anger and feeling ashamed of how you react to your kids? You're not alone. Every mom I've ever met (including me!) has struggled with mom anger to some degree in various seasons of their motherhood. How can we manage these overwhelming feelings in a way that offers both understanding for the emotions and practical solutions to stop the tension? In this honest conversation, anger management coach Elizabeth Andreyevskiy shares her personal story of explosive mom rage, the shame that followed, and how God led her toward healing.  Learn what's really underneath reactive anger, how overwhelming sensory stimulation (hello early parenting years!) fuel anger, and practical steps to respond with more calm, patience, and hope in Christian motherhood.  This is definitely an episode to share with another mom friend who struggles here! WHAT YOU'LL LEARN [00:00] The Quiet Shame Behind Mom Anger in Christian Motherhood [05:00] Elizabeth's Story: Her Breaking Point With Rage and Mom Anger [10:00] Is Anger a Spiritual Problem, or Is There More Going On? [14:00] What Emotions Are Really Underneath Mom Anger? [18:00] When Overstimulation and Nervous System Stress Fuel Manage Angry Emotions [23:00] How Mindset Shapes the Way You Show Up With Your Kids [27:00] What Practical Habits Actually Reduce Anger and Reactivity? [31:00] Why There Is Hope for Mom Anger (You Can Find Freedom!) Connect with Elizabeth Andreyevskiy via her website at emotionallyhealthylegacy.com, or check out her podcast Emotionally Healthy Legacy wherever podcasts are streamed. RELATED EPISODES: Ep 341 — Step #1 to Calming Emotional Spirals: Notice + Name Your Feelings Ep 342 — Help for Emotional Overreaction in Relationships Ep 347 — When What You're Doing to Rest Isn't Working: Living with Hidden Burnout + Exhaustion Send a text

    A Parenting Resource for Children’s Behavior and Mental Health
    Breaking the Cycle: How to Stop Reacting Like Your Parents Did l Regulation First Parenting™ l E390

    A Parenting Resource for Children’s Behavior and Mental Health

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026 16:27


    You swore you'd parent differently—so why does your mother's voice slip out in hard moments? In this episode on how to stop reacting like your parents did, you'll learn how calming your nervous system breaks generational patterns. With decades of expertise in Regulation First Parenting™, Dr. Roseann Capanna-Hodge guides parents toward lasting emotional change. You had every intention of doing things differently—yet in heated moments, old patterns take over. If you're wondering how to stop reacting like your parents did, you're not alone.In this episode, we explore how to stop reacting like your parents did. It's not about willpower—it's about your nervous system. When you calm it, you can finally break generational cycles for good.Why Do I React Like My Parents Even When I Swore I Wouldn't?You didn't just observe your parents' behavior—you absorbed it. Your nervous system learned what control, safety, and love looked like in your own childhood.If yelling meant control, your body may react automatically with anger. If silence meant safety, you may shut down when your child is upset.These patterns live in the body—not just memory.When your child slams a door or talks back, it's not just about their behavior. It can trigger something from your past. Before your brain can choose a response, your emotional brain fires.That's why you hear those words come out of your mouth and think, “I hate that I sound like my mother.”This is the moment of awareness. And awareness is powerful.

    Talk'n Truth
    The Truth About Shame, Sin, and God's Grace

    Talk'n Truth

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026 25:38


    Why do so many believers struggle with shame even after they've been forgiven? In this episode of Talk'N Truth, Pastor Bryan Clark, Dan Whitney (aka Larry the Cable Guy), and Trevor Schmale explore one of the most misunderstood tensions in the Christian life—conviction versus condemnation.Drawing from the final chapter of 2 Samuel 24, the conversation revisits David's costly leadership failure and the devastating consequences that followed. Yet even in this sobering moment, the story highlights what truly made David a man after God's own heart: not perfection, but a pattern of humility, confession, and repentance.The group wrestles with a common spiritual struggle many believers face today. When we sin, the natural response is to spiral into shame, guilt, and self-condemnation. But Scripture tells a different story. Conviction from the Holy Spirit draws us back to God, while condemnation keeps us trapped in isolation and despair.Bryan explains how understanding the truth of the gospel is the key to breaking that cycle. God is not a distant judge waiting to punish every mistake. He is a compassionate Father who offers grace, forgiveness, and restoration through Jesus. But that truth can only reshape our hearts if we stay engaged with God's Word and live our faith in real community rather than isolation.The episode also explores how modern culture—especially social media and hyper-individualism—can deepen feelings of shame and disconnection, making it harder for believers to experience the grace and accountability that come through authentic relationships.At the center of the story is a powerful foreshadowing of the gospel itself. When David offers his own life for the sins of the people, it points forward to the greater King who would one day do exactly that—Jesus Christ.If you've ever wrestled with guilt, questioned whether God still loves you after failure, or struggled to believe grace really applies to you, this honest and encouraging conversation will remind you that God's truth is stronger than your shame.Perfect for viewers interested in:Bible study podcasts, 2 Samuel 24, conviction vs condemnation, repentance and grace, Christian forgiveness, overcoming shame, gospel truth, spiritual leadership, Christian community, and understanding God's grace.#BibleStudy #ChristianPodcast #TalkNTruth #LarryTheCableGuy #BryanClark #TrevorSchmale #2Samuel24 #Grace #Repentance #Conviction #ChristianLiving #BackToTheBible

    Sex Help for Smart People
    Touch Aversion: When your partner's touch makes your skin crawl (and what helps)

    Sex Help for Smart People

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026 43:45


    Does your partner's touch make your skin crawl? You're not broken—and this is fixable.Touch aversion is when affectionate or sexual touch from your partner feels wrong in your body— irritating, threatening, or like you need to escape. This can happen even with light, loving touch. This isn't about attraction. It's a nervous system response— and it's more common than you think.In this episode, you'll learn:What touch aversion actually is (and why it's not rejection, it's protection)8 causes beyond sexual trauma—including disembodied consent, emotional coercion, being "touched out" from kids, unresolved resentments, and attachment patternsWhy therapy may help you understand it but doesn't solve it (and what does)Why your partner acting hurt about it makes it worse, even though it's understandableThe Three-Touch Discovery Process— a practice you can try today to start reconnecting with what your body actually wantsTouch aversion happens when your nervous system has learned that touch isn't safe— even with a safe partner. You can't think your way out of a body-based response. You need new somatic experiences to re-pattern.This is solvable. But you need guided work with someone who specializes in nervous system re-patterning, not just talk therapy. So we'll talk about what that looks like. If you want help, book a consultation at https://laurajurgens.com/book-a-consult/Send a textGet my free guide: 5 Steps to Start Solving Desire Differences (Without Blame or Shame), A Practical Starting Point for Individuals and Couples, at https://laurajurgens.com/libido Find out more about my offerings and read the blog: https://laurajurgens.com/ Copyright notice: All content in this podcast is copyrighted and copying, scraping, data mining, or using the content to train AI is prohibited.

    Truth
    Shame by Brother Adam Kuipers

    Truth

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026 46:05


    SermonChannel
    Free Indeed #9 - PDF

    SermonChannel

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026


    Life Transformations
    Why We Love the Way We Do 2 [ENCORE]

    Life Transformations

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026


    Life Transformations with Michael Hart Aired: March 16, 2026 on CHRI Radio 99.1FM in Ottawa, Canada. For questions or to schedule an appointment with Elim Counselling Services, call 1-877-544-ELIM(3546) or email mhart@elimcounsellingministry.com. Visit elimcounsellingministry.com for more information. For more CHRI shows, visit chri.ca

    SermonChannel
    Free Indeed #9 - Audio

    SermonChannel

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026 53:41


    Legacy Reformed Baptist Church Sermon Audio
    The Curse and the Covering of Shame (Genesis 3:14-24)

    Legacy Reformed Baptist Church Sermon Audio

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 16, 2026 62:34


    Long before the birth of Jesus, the good news of salvation was already promised. In Genesis we find the Bible's earliest glimpse of the One who would come to crush the head of the serpent, Satan himself. In this message on Genesis 3:14–24, we examine the first proclamation of the Gospel and see how God graciously provided a covering for the shame brought about by the fall.This sermon was preached at Legacy Reformed Baptist Church in East Grand Forks, MN. For more information, visit ⁠⁠LegacyRBC.org⁠⁠.

    Mental Healness
    How do narcissists experience guilt or remorse?

    Mental Healness

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2026 12:22


    "How can they sleep at night after what they did to me?"It's the question that haunts every survivor. You're looking for a sign of a conscience, a tear, or a genuine "I'm sorry." But it never comes. In this video, I'm breaking down the psychological mechanics of guilt and remorse from the perspective of a self-aware narcissist.I'm explaining why we don't experience "Remorse" (feeling bad for hurting you), but we do experience "Shame" (feeling bad for being caught or looking like the villain). Learn how the narcissistic brain deletes guilt to keep the "Hero Mask" intact.Connect with Lee:My Courses: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://courses.mentalhealness.net⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 1-on-1 Coaching Calls: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://link.me/mentalhealness⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠All My Link: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://beacons.page/mentalhealness ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow on Instagram/TikTok: @mentalhealnesssIf this episode helped you gain clarity, please leave a 5-star review on Spotify! It helps others find the validation they need to heal.

    Learn Polish Podcast
    #573 Dlaczego Kłamiemy: Lying & Truth in Polish

    Learn Polish Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2026 23:05


    Episode Overview: Dlaczego Kłamiemy (Why We Lie) This episode explores vocabulary related to lying (kłamstwo), truth (prawda), trust (zaufanie), and human behavior (zachowanie człowieka) in Polish. We dive into how to discuss deception, honesty, social masks, and the complex reasons people hide the truth – all in practical, everyday Polish.   Welcome to the Learn Polish Podcast – your immersive gateway to mastering Polish through real conversations, cultural insights, and practical everyday language. Each episode blends authentic Polish dialogue with clear English explanations, helping you build vocabulary naturally while exploring Polish psychology, social dynamics, and human behavior topics. Whether you're a complete beginner or advancing your skills, join us as we make learning Polish engaging, practical, and fun. From lying (kłamstwo) to truth (prawda), we cover the phrases you actually need for deeper conversations. Find more episodes, lesson materials, and resources at www.learnpolishpodcast.com. You can also find us on YouTube, Spotify, and Rumble. Looking for virtual assistance? Visit va.world. Join our school groups – links in the show notes. Need lessons in Polish or Spanish from Ania? Check the links for both audio and video content.   English Polish Pronunciation Example Usage Lie (noun) Kłamstwo kwahm-STVO To jest kłamstwo. (This is a lie.) Lie (verb) Kłamać KWA-mach On kłamie. (He is lying.) Liar Kłamca KWAHM-tsah On jest kłamcą. (He is a liar.) Truth Prawda PRAHV-dah Mów prawdę. (Tell the truth.) True Prawdziwy prahv-DZEE-vih Prawdziwa historia. (True story.) False Fałszywy fow-SHIH-vih Fałszywe informacje. (False information.) Trust Zaufanie zow-FAH-nyeh Mam zaufanie. (I have trust.) Distrust Nieufność nyeh-uf-NOSHCH Nieufność do ludzi. (Distrust of people.) Honesty Uczciwość oo-CHCHEEV-oshch Cenię uczciwość. (I value honesty.) Dishonesty Nieuczciwość nyeh-oo-CHCHEEV-oshch Nieuczciwość boli. (Dishonesty hurts.) Deception Oszustwo oh-SOOST-vo To było oszustwo. (That was deception.) Deceive Oszukiwać o-soo-KEE-vach On oszukuje. (He deceives.) Secret Sekret SEH-kret To mój sekret. (This is my secret.) Hide (verb) Ukrywać oo-KRIH-vach Ukrywam prawdę. (I hide the truth.) Mask Maska MAH-skah Nosimy maski. (We wear masks.) Face Twarz tfarsh Prawdziwa twarz. (True face.) Behavior Zachowanie za-kho-VAH-nyeh Dziwne zachowanie. (Strange behavior.) Action Działanie dzyah-WAH-nyeh Twoje działania. (Your actions.) Reaction Reakcja reh-AK-tsya Reakcja na kłamstwo. (Reaction to the lie.) Emotion Emocja eh-MO-tsya Ukrywać emocje. (Hide emotions.) Feeling Uczucie oo-CHOO-tseh Prawdziwe uczucia. (True feelings.) Thought Myśl mishl Moje myśli. (My thoughts.) Belief Przekonanie psheh-ko-NAH-nyeh Moje przekonania. (My beliefs.) Opinion Opinia o-PEE-nya Twoja opinia. (Your opinion.) Judgment Osąd O-soont Nie osądzaj. (Don't judge.) Guilt Wina / Poczucie winy VEE-nah / po-CHOO-tseh VEE-nih Czuję winę. (I feel guilt.) Shame Wstyd vstit To wstydliwe. (It's shameful.) Fear Strach strakh Strach przed prawdą. (Fear of truth.) Shame (verb) Wstydzić się vsti-DZEECH sheh Wstydzę się. (I'm ashamed.) Protect Chronić HRO-neech Chronię siebie. (I protect myself.) Defense Obrona ob-RO-nah Mechanizm obronny. (Defense mechanism.) Mechanism Mechanizm meh-KHAH-nizm Mechanizm obronny. (Defense mechanism.) Reason Powód PO-voot Jaki powód? (What reason?) Purpose Cel tsel Jaki cel? (What purpose?) Intention Zamiar ZAH-myahr Mój zamiar. (My intention.) Motive Motyw MO-tif Ukryty motyw. (Hidden motive.) Benefit Korzyść KO-zishch Jaka korzyść? (What benefit?) Advantage Zaleta zah-LEH-tah Zaleta kłamstwa. (Advantage of lying.) Disadvantage Wada / Niedogodność VAH-dah / nyeh-dog-OD-noshch Wada kłamstwa. (Disadvantage of lying.) Consequence Konsekwencja kon-seh-KVEN-tsya Konsekwencje kłamstw. (Consequences of lies.) Result Wynik VIH-nik Wynik działania. (Result of action.) Evidence Dowód DO-voot Brak dowodów. (No evidence.) Proof Dówód / Potwierdzenie do-Voot / pot-vyer-DZEN-yeh Potrzebuję dowodu. (I need proof.) Doubt Wątpliwość vont-PLEEV-oshch Mam wątpliwości. (I have doubts.) Suspicion Podejrzenie po-deh-ZHEN-yeh Moje podejrzenia. (My suspicions.) Accusation Oskarżenie o-skar-ZHEN-yeh Fałszywe oskarżenie. (False accusation.) Forgiveness Wybaczenie vih-bah-CHEN-yeh Proszę o wybaczenie. (I ask for forgiveness.) Apology Przeprosiny psheh-pro-SEE-nih Moje przeprosiny. (My apologies.) Admit Przyznać się pshi-ZNAHCH sheh Przyznaję się. (I admit.) Deny Zaprzeczać zah-PSHEH-chach On zaprzecza. (He denies.) Confess Wyznać vih-ZNAHCH Wyznaję prawdę. (I confess the truth.) Expose Odsłonić / Ujawnić od-SWO-neech / oo-YAV-neech Odsłonić prawdę. (Expose the truth.) Reveal Ujawnić oo-YAV-neech Ujawnić sekret. (Reveal the secret.) Discover Odkryć od-KRIHCH Odkryć kłamstwo. (Discover the lie.) Realize Zdać sobie sprawę / Uświadomić sobie ZDAHCH SOH-byeh SPRAH-veh / oo-shvah-DO-meech SOH-byeh Zdałem sobie sprawę. (I realized.) Understand Rozumieć ro-ZOO-myech Rozumiem dlaczego. (I understand why.) Accept Akceptować ak-tsep-TO-vach Akceptuję prawdę. (I accept the truth.) Change Zmiana ZMYAH-nah Czas na zmianę. (Time for change.) Growth Rozwój roz-VOOY Osobisty rozwój. (Personal growth.) Self Ja / Siebie yah / SHEH-byeh Moje prawdziwe ja. (My true self.) Ego Ego EH-go Moje ego. (My ego.) Identity Tożsamość toh-shah-MOSHCH Moja tożsamość. (My identity.) Image Wizerunek vee-zeh-ROO-nek Publiczny wizerunek. (Public image.) Reputation Reputacja re-poo-TA-tsya Moja reputacja. (My reputation.) Social Społeczny spo-WECH-nih Normy społeczne. (Social norms.) Society Społeczeństwo spo-weh-CHEN-stvo W naszym społeczeństwie. (In our society.) Culture Kultura kool-TOO-rah Kultura kłamstwa. (Culture of lying.) Relationship Relacja / Związek re-LA-tsya / ZVYON-zek Relacje z ludźmi. (Relationships with people.) Communication Komunikacja ko-moo-nee-KA-tsya Sztuka komunikacji. (Art of communication.) Conversation Rozmowa roz-MO-vah Szczera rozmowa. (Honest conversation.) Silence Cisza CHEE-shah Niekomfortowa cisza. (Uncomfortable silence.) Speak Mówić MOO-veech Mów prawdę. (Speak the truth.) Listen Słuchać SWOO-hach Słuchaj uważnie. (Listen carefully.) Hear Słyszeć SWIH-sheh Słyszę cię. (I hear you.) See Widzieć VEE-dyech Widzę prawdę. (I see the truth.) Look Patrzeć PAH-tcheh Patrz na mnie. (Look at me.) Watch Obserwować ob-ser-VO-vach Obserwuję zachowanie. (I watch behavior.) Notice Zauważyć zow-NAH-vihch Zauważyłem kłamstwo. (I noticed the lie.) Recognize Rozpoznać roz-POZ-nach Rozpoznać kłamcę. (Recognize the liar.) Remember Pamiętać pah-MYEN-tach Pamiętam prawdę. (I remember the truth.) Forget Zapomnieć zah-POM-nyech Zapomnieć kłamstwo. (Forget the lie.) Forgive Wybaczyć vih-BAH-chih Wybaczam ci. (I forgive you.) Trust (verb) Ufać OO-fach Ufam ci. (I trust you.) Believe Wierzyć VYEH-zihch Wierzę w ciebie. (I believe in you.) Doubt (verb) Wątpić VONT-peech Wątpię w to. (I doubt it.) Question Kwestionować / Pytać kves-tyo-NO-vach / PIH-tach Kwestionować wszystko. (Question everything.) Answer Odpowiedź od-PO-vyesh Szczera odpowiedź. (Honest answer.) Ask Pytać PIH-tach Pytaj o prawdę. (Ask about the truth.) Tell Powiedzieć po-VYEH-dyech Powiedz prawdę. (Tell the truth.) Say Mówić / Powiedzieć MOO-veech / po-VYEH-dyech Co chcesz powiedzieć? (What do you want to say?) Mean Znaczyć ZNAH-chih Co to znaczy? (What does it mean?) Explain Wyjaśnić vih-YASH-neech Wyjaśnij mi. (Explain to me.) Understand (noun) Zrozumienie zro-zoo-MYEN-yeh Brak zrozumienia. (Lack of understanding.) Misunderstanding Nieporozumienie nyeh-po-ro-zoo-MYEN-yeh To nieporozumienie. (This is a misunderstanding.) Conflict Konflikt KON-flikt Konflikt z prawdą. (Conflict with truth.) Resolution Rozwiązanie roz-vy-ZA-nyeh Rozwiązanie problemu. (Resolution of the problem.) Peace Spokój SPO-kooy Wewnętrzny spokój. (Inner peace.) Harmony Harmonia har-MO-nya Harmonia z prawdą. (Harmony with truth.) Authentic Autentyczny ow-ten-TIH-nih Autentyczny człowiek. (Authentic person.) Genuine Prawdziwy / Szczery prahv-DZEE-vih / SHCHEH-rih Szczery człowiek. (Genuine person.) Sincere Szczery SHCHEH-rih Szczere przeprosiny. (Sincere apologies.) Fake Fałszywy / Sztuczny fow-SHIH-vih / SHTOOCH-nih Fałszywy uśmiech. (Fake smile.) Real Prawdziwy / Rzeczywisty prahv-DZEE-vih / zheh-CHIH-vistih Prawdziwa twarz. (Real face.) Natural Naturalny nah-too-RAHL-nih Naturalne zachowanie. (Natural behavior.) Artificial Sztuczny SHTOOCH-nih Sztuczny świat. (Artificial world.) Deep Głęboki gwem-BO-kee Głęboka prawda. (Deep truth.) Surface Powierzchnia / Powierzchowny po-vyer-HNYAH / po-vyer-HHOV-nih Powierzchowna prawda. (Surface truth.) Complex Złożony ZWO-zho-nih Złożona sytuacja. (Complex situation.) Simple Prosty PRO-stih Prosta prawda. (Simple truth.) Complicated Skomplikowany skom-plee-KO-vah-nih Skomplikowana relacja. (Complicated relationship.) Clear Jasny YAH-snih Jasna sprawa. (Clear matter.) Confused Zmieszany zmyeh-SHAH-nih Jestem zmieszany. (I'm confused.) Certain Pewny PEHV-nih Jestem pewny. (I'm certain.) Uncertain Niepewny nyeh-PEHV-nih Jestem niepewny. (I'm uncertain.) Sure Pewny / Na pewno PEHV-nih / nah PEHV-no Na pewno? (For sure?) Maybe Może MO-zheh Może tak, może nie. (Maybe yes, maybe no.) Probably Prawdopodobnie prahv-do-POD-ob-nyeh Prawdopodobnie tak. (Probably yes.) Possibly Możliwie MOZH-li-vyeh Wszystko jest możliwe. (Everything is possible.) Impossible Niemożliwe nyeh-mozh-LI-vyeh To niemożliwe. (That's impossible.) Possible Możliwe mozh-LI-vyeh To możliwe. (That's possible.) Right Prawo / Prawidłowy / Słuszny PRAH-vo / prah-vee-DWO-vih / SWOOCH-nih Masz rację. (You're right.) Wrong Zło / Nieprawidłowy / Błędny zwo / nyeh-prah-vee-DWO-vih / BWEN-dnih Masz błąd. (You're wrong.) Correct Poprawny po-PRAHV-nih Poprawna odpowiedź. (Correct answer.) Incorrect Niepoprawny nyeh-po-PRAHV-nih Niepoprawna informacja. (Incorrect information.) Good Dobry DO-brih Dobry człowiek. (Good person.) Bad Zły zwih Zły uczynek. (Bad deed.) Moral Moralny mo-RAHL-nih Moralny dylemat. (Moral dilemma.) Immoral Niemoralny nyeh-mo-RAHL-nih Niemooralne zachowanie. (Immoral behavior.) Ethical Etyczny eh-TIH-ch-nih Etyczna decyzja. (Ethical decision.) Unethical Nieetyczny nyeh-eh-TIH-ch-nih Nieetyczne postępowanie. (Unethical conduct.) Legal Legalny leh-GAHL-nih Legalne działanie. (Legal action.) Illegal Nielegalny nyeh-leh-GAHL-nih Nielegalne działanie. (Illegal action.) Allowed Dozwolone doz-vo-LO-neh To jest dozwolone. (This is allowed.) Forbidden Zabronione zah-bro-NEE-oneh To jest zabronione. (This is forbidden.) Permission Pozwolenie poz-vo-LEN-yeh Mam pozwolenie. (I have permission.) Prohibition Zakaz ZAH-kahs Zakaz kłamstwa. (Prohibition of lying.) Rule Zasada zah-SAH-dah Zasada uczciwości. (Rule of honesty.) Exception Wyjątek vih-YON-tek Wyjątek od reguły. (Exception to the rule.) Norm Norma NOR-mah Społeczna norma. (Social norm.) Standard Standard STAN-dahrt Wysoki standard. (High standard.) Expectation Oczekiwanie o-cheh-kee-VAH-nyeh Twoje oczekiwania. (Your expectations.) Pressure Presja PREH-shah Presja społeczna. (Social pressure.) Stress Stres strehs Stres przed kłamstwem. (Stress before lying.) Anxiety Lęk / Niepokój wenk / nyeh-PO-kooy Lęk przed prawdą. (Anxiety about truth.) Comfort Komfort KOM-fort Strefa komfortu. (Comfort zone.) Discomfort Dyskomfort / Niekonfort dis-KOM-fort / nyeh-kom-FORT Poczucie dyskomfortu. (Feeling of discomfort.) Safety Bezpieczeństwo beh-pyeh-CHEHN-stvo Poczucie bezpieczeństwa. (Feeling of safety.) Danger Niebezpieczeństwo nyeh-beh-pyeh-CHEHN-stvo Niebezpieczeństwo prawdy. (Danger of truth.) Risk Ryzyko RIH-zih-ko Ryzyko kłamstwa. (Risk of lying.) Reward Nagroda nah-GRO-dah Nagroda za prawdę. (Reward for truth.) Punishment Kara KAH-rah Kara za kłamstwo. (Punishment for lying.) Consequence Konsekwencja kon-seh-KVEN-tsya Konsekwencje działania. (Consequences of action.) Cause Przyczyna pshih-CHIH-nah Przyczyna kłamstwa. (Cause of lying.) Effect Efekt / Skutek EH-fekt / SKOO-tek Efekt uboczny. (Side effect.) Reason Powód PO-voot Główny powód. (Main reason.) Excuse Wymówka vih-MOOF-kah Słaba wymówka. (Weak excuse.) Justification Uzasadnienie oo-zah-sahd-NYEN-yeh Uzasadnienie kłamstwa. (Justification of lying.) Rationalization Racjonalizacja rah-tsy-o-nah-li-ZA-tsya Racjonalizacja zachowania. (Rationalization of behavior.) Denial Zaprzeczenie zah-PSHEH-cheh-nyeh Zaprzeczenie rzeczywistości. (Denial of reality.) Projection Projekcja pro-YEK-tsya Projekcja winy. (Projection of guilt.) Rationalization Racjonalizacja rah-tsy-o-nah-li-ZA-tsya Mechanizm obronny. (Defense mechanism.)     Polish English To jest kłamstwo. This is a lie. Mów prawdę. Speak the truth. Mam zaufanie. I have trust. On kłamie. He is lying. Ukrywam prawdę. I hide the truth. Chronię siebie. I protect myself. Dlaczego kłamiemy? Why do we lie? Jaki powód? What reason? Jaka korzyść? What benefit? Rozumiem dlaczego. I understand why. Wybaczam ci. I forgive you. Ufam ci. I trust you. Prawdziwa twarz. True face. Mechanizm obronny. Defense mechanism. Społeczna norma. Social norm. Presja społeczna. Social pressure. Strefa komfortu. Comfort zone. Osobisty rozwój. Personal growth. Szczera rozmowa. Honest conversation. Czas na zmianę. Time for change.

    Healing with WORTH
    Shame, Labels, & How To Navigate It

    Healing with WORTH

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2026 23:21


    In this episode of Healing With WORTH, hosts Marquelle and Lauren talk about how shame and harmful labels can affect healing from betrayal trauma and addiction. They discuss how shame often leads people to believe painful messages. They explain the difference between shame-based thinking and truth-based thinking, and how recognizing shame can be an important step toward healing. The episode also emphasizes the importance of self-compassion, challenging negative beliefs, and finding support through faith, trusted relationships, and community while working toward recovery and hope.

    Wellspring Church NYC - PODCAST
    SOZO: SHAME TRIES TO DISQUALIFY (SETH BAZACAS)

    Wellspring Church NYC - PODCAST

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2026 46:26


    JOHN 21 SETH BAZACAS WELLSPRING CHURCH NYC 3.15.2026   Download our app: http://churchcenter.com/setup  

    Prayer for Today with Jennifer Hadley
    Prayer for Dissolving All Shame

    Prayer for Today with Jennifer Hadley

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2026 4:21


    Prayer for Prayer for dissolving all shame for her Daily Spiritual Espresso published on March 15, 2026 which you can access here:  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Empowered Living Podcast
    How God forgives our Shame/ Praying with the Holy Sprit

    Empowered Living Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2026 57:43


    Join in with us as Mike and Susie speak to us about how God forgives our shame and how prayer activates our relationship with the Holy Sprit. It's time for the church to rise up and live victoriously! Check out video here Thank you for tuning in to the Empowered Living Podcast. Here are some different ways to connect with us- https://empoweredlifechurch.org https://www.facebook.com/ELCtalent https://www.instagram.com/elct

    CrimeChat with Nat and Kat
    Episode 161: Zipped Shut! The Killing of Jorge Torres

    CrimeChat with Nat and Kat

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2026 52:47


    #crimechatwithnatandkat bring you this week's Episode 161: Zipped Shut! The Killing of Jorge Torres! Kat kicks off this ep with the TOP 10 List of the Transportation Security Administration's most recent “Hall of Shame”—the wildest, weirdest, and most “what-the-hell-were-they-thinking?” items intercepted at airport checkpoints. Then, Nat gets into the killing of Jorge Torres... after a late-night game of hide-and-seek, accompanied by some alcohol, Sarah Boone recorded Jorge's last moments, begging for help, while she laughed and then went to bed. It wasn't until the next morning that Sarah realized something was terribly wrong ... find out what happened when the episode airs, on Saturday, March 14, 2026! You can find the CrimeChat anywhere you get your favorite #truecrimepodcasts! #amazonpodcasts #applepodcasts #youtubepodcasts #spotifypodcasts #patreon #rss #rumble

    Counselling Tutor
    369 – Working with Shame in the Therapy Room

    Counselling Tutor

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 14, 2026


    Working with Limerent – Feeling Out of Your Depth as a Student Counsellor In Episode 369 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice', they explore working with shame in the therapy room – how shame presents, how it differs from guilt, and how to work with it gently and ethically. Then in ‘Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Nadine Pittam about limerence – a powerful and often overwhelming state of obsessive romantic attachment – and how therapists can work safely and effectively with clients experiencing it. And finally, in ‘Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss what to do when you feel out of your depth as a counselling student, offering reassurance, practical guidance, and encouragement. Working with Shame in the Therapy Room [starts at 03:24 mins] In this section, Rory and Ken explore working with shame in the therapy room, unpacking the complex and often hidden nature of shame, how it presents in clients, and how therapists can respond sensitively and ethically. Key points discussed include: Shame is identity-based (“there is something wrong with me”), whereas guilt relates to behaviour (“I did something wrong”). Shame often hides itself and may present subtly through withdrawal, minimising, avoidance, anger, or difficulty maintaining eye contact. Triggers can include criticism, rejection, humiliation, invalidation, bullying, coercion, or conditional approval. The cycle of shame involves activation, negative self-beliefs, coping strategies (withdrawal, control, emotional numbing), temporary relief, and reinforcement. Working with shame requires gentleness – noticing body language, naming shame carefully, and pacing the work to avoid overwhelming the client. Reflective questions such as “When do you first remember feeling this way?”, “Who taught you that you were not good enough?”, and “What did you need at that time that you didn't receive?” can open healing dialogue. Separating identity from experience is central – helping clients understand that what happened to them does not define who they are. Supervision and reflective practice are essential when working with shame, both for client safety and therapist self-awareness. Working with Limerent [starts at 33:53 mins] In this week's ‘Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Nadine Pittam about limerence – a term coined by Dorothy Tennov to describe an intense, involuntary state of romantic obsession. Key points from this conversation include: Limerence is not simply infatuation or love; it is an addictive, dysregulated state marked by intrusive thoughts and emotional dependency. It can feel life-or-death in intensity and may result in relationship breakdowns, loss of identity, and significant emotional distress. The limerent object is often someone partially known (e.g. a colleague, acquaintance, former partner), allowing projection of unmet attachment needs. Therapy focuses on the client's unmet needs and attachment history, rather than on analysing the limerent object. The therapist validates the emotional pain while gently challenging the belief that the other person will “solve” the distress. Limerence may involve “eroticised abandonment”, where rejection or unavailability intensifies obsession. Clear professional boundaries are vital, as therapists themselves may become the limerent object through transference. This is often longer-term work, requiring emotional honesty, self-compassion, and sustained therapeutic engagement. Feeling Out of Your Depth as a Student Counsellor [starts at 57:30 mins] In this section, Rory and Ken explore the common experience of feeling overwhelmed or inadequate during counselling training and placement. Key points include: Feeling out of your depth is common and often reflects care, responsibility, and commitment rather than incompetence. Imposter syndrome affects both students and qualified practitioners – it does not disappear after training. Clients may bring complex or distressing material that feels very different from classroom skills practice. Your role is not to fix clients or have all the answers, but to offer warmth, empathy, and a safe, non-judgemental space. Being deeply heard is rare and powerful – the therapeutic relationship itself is often the primary healing factor. If the work feels overwhelming, take it to supervision, personal therapy, and peer discussion rather than carrying it alone. You were accepted onto your course because your tutors believe in your readiness and potential. Developing robustness is part of training – feeling stretched can be a sign of growth. Reflective practice and open dialogue prevent self-doubt from becoming hidden shame. Links and Resources Counselling Skills Academy Advanced Certificate in Counselling Supervision Basic Counselling Skills: A Student Guide Counsellor CPD Counselling Study Resource Counselling Theory in Practice: A Student Guide Counselling Tutor Training and CPD Facebook group Website Online and Telephone Counselling: A Practitioner's Guide Online and Telephone Counselling Course

    Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram Daily Podcast
    How to Come to Grips with the Real You

    Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram Daily Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2026 45:04 Transcription Available


    There are three questions everyone, regardless of culture, economic status, or even religious conviction will ask themselves. Who am I? Where do I belong? And what am I supposed to do? Chip shares how you can find answers to those questions and then how to begin applying them in your life today.Three questions we all ask ourselves:Who am I? (Identity)Where do I belong? (Security)What am I supposed to do? (Significance)Why is it so hard to answer these questions?Genesis 3:8-13Three obstacles to getting right answers:Fear rooted in SHAME.Hiding rooted in INSECURITY.Blaming rooted in denial.God's Answers: Romans 12:3-8Who are you? -Romans 12:3The Command: Think ACCURATELY about yourself.Where do you belong? -Romans 12:4-5The Reason: You have a ROLE to fill.What are you supposed to do? -Romans 12:6-8The Practice: Discover and DEPLOY your spiritual gift.Never forget who you really are!God uniquely created you – you are ETERNALLY VALUABLE. -Psalm139:13-14God placed you in His family – you are UNCONDITIONALLY ACCEPTED. -Ephesians 3:19-22God gifted you to fulfill His purpose – you are IRREPLACEABLY SIGNIFICANT. -Ephesians 2:10Broadcast ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional ResourcesBecome a Monthly PartnerTrue Spirituality BookTake the Real You Assessment FreeWhat Every New Believer Needs to KnowConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

    Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram Daily Podcast
    How to Come to Grips with the Real You, Part 1

    Living on the Edge with Chip Ingram Daily Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2026 25:00 Transcription Available


    There are 3 questions everyone, regardless of culture, economic status, or even religious conviction will ask themselves. Who am I? Where do I belong? And what am I supposed to do? The answers to those questions may not be as difficult as you might suppose. Chip will reveals how you can begin to answer those questions for yourself.Three questions we all ask ourselves:Who am I? (Identity)Where do I belong? (Security)What am I supposed to do? (Significance)Why is it so hard to answer these questions?Genesis 3:8-13Three obstacles to getting right answers:Fear rooted in SHAME.Hiding rooted in INSECURITY.Blaming rooted in denial.God's Answers: Romans 12:3-8Who are you? -Romans 12:3The Command: Think ACCURATELY about yourself.Where do you belong? -Romans 12:4-5The Reason: You have a ROLE to fill.What are you supposed to do? -Romans 12:6-8The Practice: Discover and DEPLOY your spiritual gift.Never forget who you really are!God uniquely created you – you are ETERNALLY VALUABLE. -Psalm139:13-14God placed you in His family – you are UNCONDITIONALLY ACCEPTED. -Ephesians 3:19-22God gifted you to fulfill His purpose – you are IRREPLACEABLY SIGNIFICANT. -Ephesians 2:10Broadcast ResourcesMessage NotesAdditional ResourcesBecome a Monthly PartnerTrue Spirituality BookTake the Real You Assessment FreeWhat Every New Believer Needs to KnowConnect888-333-6003WebsiteChip Ingram AppInstagramFacebookTwitterPartner With UsDonate Online888-333-6003

    Relationship Advice
    Motivation To Change In Relationships

    Relationship Advice

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2026 52:24


    Most relationships start with “I love you, you're perfect”… and quickly turn into wanting your partner to change. The real problem isn't usually whether they want to change—it's that change is rarely A→B; it's a process that requires understanding barriers, reducing shame, and building support. When couples shift from criticism to curiosity and create small, doable systems together, motivation increases and change becomes sustainable. Talking points “Now change” cycle Wanting vs doing Shame kills change Barriers before solutions 1% systems Practice + support Give Me Discounts!  Check out Relationship Academy! ⁠ ⁠Cozy Earth⁠⁠ -  Black Friday has come early! Right now, you can stack my code “IDO” on top of their sitewide sale — giving you up to 40% off in savings. These deals won't last, so start your holiday shopping today! ⁠⁠Beducate⁠⁠ - Use code relationship69 for 65% off the annual pass. ⁠⁠AG1 - ⁠⁠AG1 has become my go to every morning. ⁠⁠Simple Practice⁠⁠ - If you're in mental health and not using simple practice then what are you doing??? ⁠⁠Spark My Relationship Course:⁠⁠ Get $100 off our online course. Visit⁠⁠ SparkMyRelationship.com/Unlock⁠⁠ for our special offer just for our I Do Podcast listeners! ⁠⁠Skylight⁠⁠⁠ - Use code “IDO” for $30 off your 15 inch calendar.  If you love this episode (and our podcast!), would you mind giving us a⁠ review in iTunes⁠? It would mean the world to us and we promise it only takes a minute. Many thanks in advance! – Colter, Cayla, & Lauren Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    The Agents of Recovery Podcast
    When Behavior Becomes Addiction

    The Agents of Recovery Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2026 48:48


    In this episode of the Agents of Recovery Podcast, Coach Blu and Wendell take a deeper look at the complex and often misunderstood world of behavioral addiction, with a focus on pornography addiction. The conversation explores the neuroscience behind addictive behaviors, explaining how the brain's reward system can become conditioned and why certain triggers can lead to compulsive acting-out patterns. We also discuss the emotional and environmental factors that fuel the cycle of addiction, along with practical tools and strategies that support long-term recovery. This episode offers insight, understanding, and hope for anyone seeking to better understand behavioral addiction and the path toward healing.Chapters00:00 Understanding Behavioral Addiction01:20 The Nature of Pornography Addiction07:03 The Cycle of Addiction and Its Consequences13:33 The Role of Shame in Addiction19:06 Breaking the Cycle: Pumping the Brakes on Addiction21:52 The Comfort of Addiction24:55 Understanding Emotional Triggers27:30 The Challenge of Behavioral Addictions31:16 The Mind's Addiction36:04 Evidence-Based Recovery Strategies43:01 The Journey to Self-Discovery resourcesAddict Athlete Program - https://addictathlete.comHusband Material Program - https://husbandmaterial.comThe Sex Talk I Never Had by Sam Jolman - https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0C7F4XYZNeuroscience of Addiction - Scientific Articles - https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.govTherapy and Support Resources - https://schoolplatform.com:::

    Rockin' the Suburbs
    2324: Second Album Syndrome, Part Four

    Rockin' the Suburbs

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2026 18:51


    This week, we dive into a new series of episodes on the fabled Second Album Syndrome. As Patrick explains in the first episode, SAS is not a hot new band, but the challenge of following up a debut that was a critical or commercial success. In the final installment, it's time for the second album Hall of Shame, featuring records by Moby Grape, LL Cool J, Elastica, Frankie Goes to Hollywood, The Darkness and The Stone Roses. Rockin' the Suburbs on Apple Podcasts/iTunes or other podcast platforms, including audioBoom, Spotify, Google Podcasts, Amazon, iHeart, Stitcher and TuneIn. Or listen at SuburbsPod.com. Please rate/review the show on Apple Podcasts and share it with your friends.Visit our website at SuburbsPod.comEmail Jim & Patrick at rock@suburbspod.comFollow us on the Threads, Facebook or Instagram @suburbspodIf you're glad or sad or high, call the Suburban Party Line — 612-440-1984.Theme music: "Ascension," originally by Quartjar, next covered by Frank Muffin and now re-done in a high-voltage version by Quartjar again!  Visit quartjar.bandcamp.com and frankmuffin.bandcamp.com.

    Healthy Mind, Healthy Life
    Sexual Health, Shame, and Communication: Reclaiming Intimacy and Well-Being with Eve Hall

    Healthy Mind, Healthy Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 13, 2026 18:32


    We talk about mental health often, but one part of human well-being still hides in silence: sexual health. In this episode of Healthy Mind, Healthy Life, hosted by Yusuf, physical therapist and podcast creator Eve Hall joins the conversation to explore why sexuality is not something to ignore or feel ashamed about. This episode is for anyone who has ever felt uncomfortable discussing intimacy, struggled with communication in relationships, or believed sexual health problems are simply “in your head.” Eve explains how sexual health connects to physical health, emotional connection, and long-term relationship wellbeing—and why early conversations and prevention matter more than quick fixes. About the Guest: Eve Hall is a licensed physical therapist specializing in pelvic floor and sexual health conditions. She also hosts the Please Me! Podcast, where she educates and encourages open conversations about sexuality, communication, and intimacy. Episode Chapters: 00:00 – Why Sexual Health Still Lives in Silence 02:35 – Eve's Journey from a Sexless Marriage to Sexual Liberation 04:40 – The Biggest Misconception About Sexual Health 07:35 – Why Ignoring Sexual Health Problems Makes Them Worse 10:35 – How Silence Slowly Disconnects Relationships 13:05 – Simple Ways to Start Honest Conversations with Your Partner 17:05 – Removing Shame and Reclaiming Sexual Well-Being Key Takeaways: Sexual health is physical health and deserves the same attention as any other medical issue. Ignoring early symptoms can allow conditions to worsen and become harder to treat. Communication—not silence—is the foundation of intimacy and connection in relationships. Many sexual health challenges have physical causes, not just psychological ones. Simple conversations about desires and boundaries can transform relationships. How to Connect With the Guest: Website: PleaseMe.online Check out her upcoming webinars - https://pleaseme.online/tag/upcoming-webinar/  Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/please.me.by.eve.creations/    Want to be a guest on Healthy Mind, Healthy Life? DM on PM - Send me a message on PodMatch DM Me Here: https://www.podmatch.com/hostdetailpreview/avik Disclaimer: This video is for educational and informational purposes only. The views expressed are the personal opinions of the guest and do not reflect the views of the host or Healthy Mind By Avik™️. We do not intend to harm, defame, or discredit any person, organization, brand, product, country, or profession mentioned. All third-party media used remain the property of their respective owners and are used under fair use for informational purposes. By watching, you acknowledge and accept this disclaimer. Healthy Mind By Avik™️ is a global platform redefining mental health as a necessity, not a luxury. Born during the pandemic, it's become a sanctuary for healing, growth, and mindful living. Hosted by Avik Chakraborty, storyteller, survivor, and wellness advocate. With over 6000+ episodes and 200K+ global listeners, we unite voices, break stigma, and build a world where every story matters.

    The Home Video Hustle

    The Wayans strike again but this time it's Damon up to bat with his first starring role, Mo' Money! So a comedian wrote it and an action guy directed it, surely there will be no massive changes in tone throughout the film right? Doesn't matter because this soundtrack is perfect and so is 1992 Stacey Dash! Shame about the modern version... More Movie Reviews on LetterBoxd - https://letterboxd.com/hvhpodcast/ Watch Us On YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCfN67zqLBcbJNJw1cHI0Hlw Get HVH Merch - https://www.teepublic.com/user/hvhpodcast Music By: @tradevoorhees Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    The Smart Passive Income Online Business and Blogging Podcast
    SPI 919: How to Start New Things Without Quitting the Old Things

    The Smart Passive Income Online Business and Blogging Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 11, 2026 23:05


    #919 What would you regret more, letting go too early or holding on too long? There's no shame in changing direction when something stops working. Shame only starts creeping in when you stay stuck because you're afraid to make a tough decision! If you have ideas pulling you in multiple directions at once, listen in on today's session to hear how I decide where my focus should go! I'll share and walk you through my Letting Go Matrix. This is a simple four-quadrant tool and exercise that helps you find clarity when your tasks and opportunities become overwhelming. I'll also discuss the five questions you should ask yourself about every major commitment in your life. This will help you gain perspective and overcome the sunk cost fallacy and all-or-nothing thinking clouding your decisions. If you're like me, you need a system to cut through the noise and stay on track. Tune in to move forward with confidence! Show notes and more at SmartPassiveIncome.com/session919.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Sex With Emily
    The Truth About Hookup Culture Nobody Tells You

    Sex With Emily

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 10, 2026 34:55


    Casual sex gets a bad reputation — but most of that reputation comes from doing it wrong. When it's rushed, unspoken, or emotionally misaligned, it can leave you feeling used, confused, or chasing someone who was never on the same page. But when you approach it with self-awareness and a willingness to actually say what you want, it can be exactly what you need. In this episode, I'm breaking down what conscious casual sex actually looks like — the different forms it can take, how to know if it's right for you right now, and the two things that separate a genuinely satisfying hookup from one that sends you into a shame spiral. In this episode, you'll learn: • The real difference between casual sex and hookup culture — and why "casual" doesn't have to mean disposable, careless, or emotionally disconnected • How to know if casual sex is actually a good fit for you right now, including the one attachment pattern that almost always makes it backfire • What to say before, during, and after a casual encounter to make sure your needs actually get met — and how to navigate hooking up within a friend group without blowing everything up More Dr. Emily:  • Shop With Emily! Explore Emily's favorite toys, pleasure accessories, bedroom essentials, and more — designed to support your pleasure and confidence. Free shipping on orders $99+ (some exclusions apply).5 • Interested in 1:1 Coaching with Emily? Go to sexwithemily.com/coaching to apply!  • Sex With Emily Guides: Explore pleasure, deepen connections, and enhance intimacy using these Sex With Emily downloadable guides. • The only sex book you'll ever need: Smart Sex: How to Boost Your Sex IQ and Own Your Pleasure • Want more? Visit the Sex With Emily Website • Let's get social: Instagram | X | Facebook | TikTok | Threads | YouTube • Let's text: Sign up here • Want me to slide into your email inbox? Sign Up Here for sex tips on the regular. Chapters: 0:00 - What Makes Casual Sex Satisfying? 1:43 - Defining Casual Sex (It's Not Just Hookup Culture) 3:59 - Surprising Research: Casual Sex Trends by Generation 5:44 - The Benefits of Casual Sex 8:23 - The Downsides & Risks to Know 10:37 - How to Know If Casual Sex Is Right for You 12:20 - How to Find & Communicate With Casual Partners 17:51 - Best Casual Sex Advice From Dr. Emily's Audience 20:12 - Listener Q&A: Orgasming Through Oral Sex 23:46 - Listener Q&A: Casual Sex After a Long-Term Relationship 27:06 - Listener Q&A: Shame & Regret After a Hookup Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices