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    Jewish Inspiration Podcast · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe
    Why the Universe Was Created for You [Day 191 - Orchos Tzaddikim | Fear of Heaven 7]

    Jewish Inspiration Podcast · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 14, 2026 12:59


    In Day 191 of The Ways of the Righteous (Gate of Fear of Heaven), Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe explains that while human beings are given dominion over creation, that authority carries responsibility. Animals were created to serve mankind—not because they are unimportant, but because humanity possesses something infinitely greater: an eternal soul. We are commanded to treat animals with compassion and even feed them before ourselves, yet our unique role is to elevate creation through our relationship with Hashem.Rabbi Wolbe emphasizes the extraordinary greatness of the neshamah. Before birth, the soul exists in a realm of perfect spiritual clarity, but at birth it becomes enclosed within a physical body. The crying of a newborn symbolizes the soul's transition from unlimited closeness to Hashem into a world of confusion and physical limitations. Throughout life, the soul longs to return to that closeness, while the body constantly seeks physical gratification. Our task is to allow the soul—not the body—to direct our choices.Using the metaphor of a rider and a horse, Rabbi Wolbe teaches that the neshamah must hold the reins while the body serves merely as its vehicle. The body is necessary to perform mitzvot and acts of kindness, but it must remain subordinate to the soul's higher purpose. When the soul guides the body, every physical action becomes elevated into something eternal.The lesson also explores why Judaism teaches the future resurrection of the dead. Both the soul and the body contribute to a life of righteousness: the soul inspires holiness, while the body performs the mitzvot. Therefore, both ultimately share in the eternal reward when they are reunited in the World to Come.Finally, Rabbi Wolbe explains that the vast universe—the sun, moon, stars, and all of creation—exists not for the temporary body but for the eternal soul. Every aspect of creation is designed to inspire us to recognize Hashem's greatness and draw closer to Him. The purpose of enjoying this world is not indulgence but elevation: to use every blessing Hashem gives us as a means of strengthening our relationship with Him._____________This Podcast Series is Generously Underwritten by Peter & Becky BotvinRecorded at TORCH Centre in the Levin Family Studios (B) to a live audience on February 23, 2026, in Houston, Texas.Released as Podcast on August 14, 2026_____________This series on Orchos Tzadikim/Ways of the Righteous is produced in partnership with Hachzek.Join the revolution of daily Mussar study at hachzek.com.We are using the Treasure of Life edition of the Orchos Tzadikkim (Published by Feldheim)_____________Listen, Subscribe & Share: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jewish-inspiration-podcast-rabbi-aryeh-wolbe/id1476610783Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4r0KfjMzmCNQbiNaZBCSU7) to stay inspired! Share your questions at aw@torchweb.org or visit torchweb.org for more Torah content.  _____________About the Host:Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: awolbe@torchweb.org_____________Support Our Mission:Our Mission is Connecting Jews & Judaism. Help us spread Judaism globally by sponsoring an episode at torchweb.org.Your support makes a HUGE difference!_____________Listen MoreOther podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe: NEW!! Hey Rabbi! Podcast: https://heyrabbi.transistor.fm/episodesPrayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodesJewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodesParsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodesLiving Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodesThinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodesUnboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodesRabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodesFor a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at http://podcast.torchweb.orgv_____________Keywords:#JewishInspiration, #Mussar, #MasterClass, #FearOfHeaven, #YiratShamayim, #Nefesh, #Ruach, #Neshamah, #JewishSoul, #MindOverEmotion, #YetzerHara, #SelfControl, #InnerBattle, #LiveWithPurpose ★ Support this podcast ★

    The Bible in a Year (with Fr. Mike Schmitz)
    Day 225: Our Will Versus God's Will (2026)

    The Bible in a Year (with Fr. Mike Schmitz)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 25:07


    Fr. Mike reviews one of the most powerful verses in Proverbs, dealing with personal discernment and wanting to follow our own will instead of God's. He also goes into a deeper explanation of the prophet, Jeremiah, and how we ourselves can reflect the actions of Israel in the Old Testament. Today's readings are Jeremiah 2, Ezekiel 28, and Proverbs 14:9-12. For the complete reading plan, visit ascensionpress.com/bibleinayear. Please note: The Bible contains adult themes that may not be suitable for children - parental discretion is advised.

    Reading Glasses
    Ep 475 - Getting Rid of Inherited Book Shame!

    Reading Glasses

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 28:20


    Brea and Mallory help you de-shame your reading life! Plus, they solve a problem about finding a book from your past, and recommend books written by an author pair. Email us at readingglassespodcast at gmail dot com! Reading Glasses Merch Recommendations Store The Reading Glasses Book!Mallory and Clay at Ripped Bodice Links - Reading Glasses Facebook Group Reading Glasses Goodreads Group Wish List Newsletter Libro.fm To join our Discord channel, email us proof of your Reading-Glasses-supporting Maximum Fun membership! Join us here! Recommendation Party - Members Only August 21st 6pm PT Books Mentioned -Carl's Doomsday Scenario by Matt DinnimanThe Infinite Sadness of Small Appliances by Glenn DixonPoseidon's Steed: The Story of Seahorses, From Myth to Reality by Helen ScalesThe Soul of an Octopus: A Surprising Exploration into the Wonder of Consciousness by Sy MontgomeryThe Dragon Behind the Glass: A True Story of Power, Obsession, and the World's Most Coveted Fish by Emily VoigtMerry Little Meet Cute by Julie Murphy and Sierra SimoneThe Roughest Draft by Emily Wibberley and Austin Siegemund-Broka Help support this show and unlock bonus content! Become a member at https://maximumfun.org/joinglasses

    Brooke and Jubal
    FULL SHOW: Ex Ruined Everything Closure Call, Dentist Shame +Rainbow Humping Wife (8/13/26)

    Brooke and Jubal

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 53:09 Transcription Available


    FULL SHOW: Thursday, August 13th, 2026 Curious if we look as bad as we sound? Follow us @BrookeandJeffrey: Youtube Instagram TikTok BrookeandJeffrey.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Modern Wisdom
    Hunter Biden, Matt McCusker & Duncan Trussell - Mostly Wise #2 - #1136

    Modern Wisdom

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 186:11


    I spent a really long time putting this together, I really hope you enjoy it! In this second episode of Mostly Wise, we explore: Hunter's true version of the laptop story The best conspiracy theories that are (maybe) real. If it was Hunter's bag of cocaine that was found in the White House. What the next two years for the Democratic Party will look like. Hunter's unfiltered thoughts on the Trump family. Matt gifts a ceremonial "pipe" to Hunter And much more... Guests Hunter Biden is an artist, former attorney, and the son of former US President Joe Biden. Matt McCusker is a comedian, writer, author and podcaster. Duncan Trussell is a comedian, actor, writer and podcaster. Sponsors: See discounts for all the products I use and recommend: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/deals⁠ Get 160+ lab tests for just $365 and save an extra $25 at ⁠https://functionhealth.com/modernwisdom⁠ Get 35% off your first subscription on the best supplements from Momentous at ⁠https://livemomentous.com/modernwisdom⁠ Get a Free Sample Pack of LMNT's most popular flavours with your first purchase at ⁠https://drinklmnt.com/modernwisdom⁠ Get a free bottle of D3K2, an AG1 Welcome Kit, and more when you first subscribe at ⁠https://ag1.info/modernwisdom⁠ Get ChatGPT to explore ideas, solve problems, and learn faster at ⁠⁠https://chatgpt.com⁠ Timestamps: (00:00) Is Peter Thiel in League With the Anti-Christ? (03:10) Are Robot Dogs and Delivery Drones Taking Over? (06:50) Shaking the Shame of Addiction and a Leaked Laptop (15:37) How Much Power Does a President Really Have? (23:38) Living Through the Hunter Biden Laptop Controversy (33:40) What Stopped Hunter From Relapsing? (38:07) Would Hunter Be Pardoned If His Dad Had Won? (40:00) Was Joe Biden Fit to Run Again? (50:17) Was Joe Biden America's Poorest President? (52:56) Is Hunter Cage-Fighting Donald Jr. and Eric Trump? (54:00) The Secret Doors in the Presidential Residence (56:58) Is the White House Actually Haunted? (59:57) How to Hide D***s in the White House (01:05:37) Why Hunter Packs His Bags With a Witness (01:09:26) Will Hunter Ever Run for President? (01:10:24) What's Next for Hunter? (01:13:10) Why Are C***k Addictions So Shocking? (01:17:52) Was the CIA Behind JFK's Assassination? (01:26:10) The Flex of Avoiding the Epstein Files (01:27:00) How Hunter Joined the Board of Burisma (01:36:42) Don't Let Addiction Define You (01:43:56) We Need to Get Money Out of Politics (02:00:45) What's Driving Political Violence? (02:10:23) When Did Politics Become So Confrontational? (02:13:56) Are We Ready for Superintelligence? (02:25:02) Is AI Creating Viruses? (02:28:51) Why Anthony Fauci Keeps Pleading the Fifth (02:32:18) The Greatest Danger to America (02:39:18) The Catalyst of the Iran War (02:51:12) What If Hunter Had Never Been Pardoned? (02:55:33) What It's Really Like Talking to Nick Fuentes (03:01:21) You Have to Play the Game to Win Extra Stuff: Check out Hunter's Substack: https://hunterbiden.substack.com Get my free reading list of 100 books to read before you die: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/books⁠ Try my productivity energy drink Neutonic: ⁠https://neutonic.com/modernwisdom⁠ Episodes You Might Enjoy: #577 - David Goggins - This Is How To Master Your Life: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠ #712 - Dr Jordan Peterson - How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠ #700 - Dr Andrew Huberman - The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain: ⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠ - Get In Touch: Instagram: ⁠https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx⁠ Twitter: ⁠https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx⁠ YouTube: ⁠https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast⁠ Email: ⁠https://chriswillx.com/contact⁠ - Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

    Text Talk
    2 Timothy 1: Do Not Be Ashamed

    Text Talk

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 15:37


    2 Timothy 2:8-14 (ESV)Andrew, Isack, and Edwin discuss why Timothy had no need to be ashamed and why we have no need to either.Read the written devo that goes along with this episode by clicking here.    Let us know what you are learning or any questions you have. Email us at TextTalk@ChristiansMeetHere.org.    Join the Facebook community and join the conversation by clicking here. We'd love to meet you. Be a guest among the Christians who meet on Livingston Avenue. Click here to find out more. Michael Eldridge sang all four parts of our theme song. Find more from him by clicking here.   Thanks for talking about the text with us today.________________________________________________If the hyperlinks do not work, copy the following addresses and paste them into the URL bar of your web browser: Daily Written Devo: https://readthebiblemakedisciples.wordpress.com/?p=26476The Christians Who Meet on Livingston Avenue: http://www.christiansmeethere.org/Facebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/TalkAboutTheTextFacebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/texttalkMichael Eldridge: https://acapeldridge.com/ 

    Jewish Inspiration Podcast · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe
    Feed Your Soul, Not Just Your Body [Day 190 - Orchos Tzaddikim | Fear of Heaven 5]

    Jewish Inspiration Podcast · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 22:42


    In Day 190 of The Ways of the Righteous (Gate of Fear of Heaven), Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe continues exploring the three dimensions of the human soul: the nefesh, ruach, and neshamah. While animals possess the drives of the nefesh and ruach, only human beings are endowed with the neshamah—the uniquely Divine intellect that enables us to discern truth from falsehood, develop wisdom, and elevate ourselves spiritually. Unlike the physical body, the wisdom acquired by the neshamah accompanies a person beyond this world.The central message of the lesson is that our lives are shaped by whichever part of ourselves we choose to nourish. Rabbi Wolbe compares the neshamah to a vacuum cleaner that is constantly searching to be filled. If we fail to satisfy it with holiness, Torah, mitzvot, and acts of kindness, it will desperately seek fulfillment elsewhere through material pursuits that can never truly satisfy. Wealth, pleasure, fame, and possessions may entertain the body, but only closeness to Hashem nourishes the soul.Rabbi Wolbe also explains that although the neshamah originates in the intellect, its goal is to transform the heart. The heart is the source of both positive and negative inclinations, and every person chooses which side to strengthen. By allowing the mind and the neshamah to guide the heart, a person redirects powerful emotions and desires toward holiness rather than selfish gratification. The same passion that can drive destructive behavior can also become the engine for tremendous righteousness.Finally, the lesson teaches that wisdom is the key to understanding both the physical and spiritual worlds. Torah enables a person to distinguish between what merely appears attractive and what genuinely brings eternal value. Every advancement, talent, and technology can be used either for holiness or for destruction. The responsibility lies with us to allow our neshamah to lead our choices so that, when we ultimately stand before Hashem, we can answer that we invested our lives in what truly mattered._____________This Podcast Series is Generously Underwritten by Peter & Becky BotvinRecorded at TORCH Centre in the Levin Family Studios (B) to a live audience on February 23, 2026, in Houston, Texas.Released as Podcast on August 13, 2026_____________This series on Orchos Tzadikim/Ways of the Righteous is produced in partnership with Hachzek.Join the revolution of daily Mussar study at hachzek.com.We are using the Treasure of Life edition of the Orchos Tzadikkim (Published by Feldheim)_____________Listen, Subscribe & Share: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jewish-inspiration-podcast-rabbi-aryeh-wolbe/id1476610783Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4r0KfjMzmCNQbiNaZBCSU7) to stay inspired! Share your questions at aw@torchweb.org or visit torchweb.org for more Torah content.  _____________About the Host:Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: awolbe@torchweb.org_____________Support Our Mission:Our Mission is Connecting Jews & Judaism. Help us spread Judaism globally by sponsoring an episode at torchweb.org.Your support makes a HUGE difference!_____________Listen MoreOther podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe: NEW!! Hey Rabbi! Podcast: https://heyrabbi.transistor.fm/episodesPrayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodesJewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodesParsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodesLiving Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodesThinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodesUnboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodesRabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodesFor a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at http://podcast.torchweb.orgv_____________Keywords:#JewishInspiration, #Mussar, #MasterClass, #FearOfHeaven, #YiratShamayim, #Nefesh, #Ruach, #Neshamah, #JewishSoul, #MindOverEmotion, #YetzerHara, #SelfControl, #InnerBattle, #LiveWithPurpose ★ Support this podcast ★

    Glass Half Full
    What If Sexual Health Care Started With Less Shame

    Glass Half Full

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 56:20 Transcription Available


    Send us Fan MailA “full panel” STI test sounds like peace of mind until you learn what it often leaves out. We sit down with Robert Johnson, founder of Shameless Care, to unpack the testing blind spots that can quietly miss infections, especially when oral exposure is part of your sex life. His turning point is painfully relatable: a partner flags possible gonorrhea, he feels totally fine, and he is staring at a negative result from the week before. The catch? No throat swab, no real clarity.We get specific about how STI testing actually works in the real world: why blood and urine alone may not be enough, why most STIs are asymptomatic, and why “full panel” is not a standardized button your doctor can click. Robert also explains how shame changes what people say in the exam room and how that can snowball into incomplete care. If you have ever walked out of a clinic thinking you were tested for “everything,” this conversation gives you better questions to ask and a clearer way to read your results.Then we zoom out into prevention and modern sexual health tools. We talk PrEP as an HIV prevention breakthrough, U equals U and what it means for transmission, and DoxyPEP as a promising option that also raises real concerns about antibiotic resistance. We also highlight vaccines like HPV and hepatitis B as practical, cancer-preventing steps that too many adults still miss.If you want smarter, shame-free sexual health information that you can actually use, listen now, share this with someone who dates, and leave a review so more people find it. What did your last STI test truly include?https://shamelesscare.com/https://youtu.be/e36gU87R-sU?si=dVsNUK8G9HcQSf7QPodcast: Sex Is Good https://www.buzzsprout.com/2505799 Support the show

    Soul Sense with Mark Verkler
    Am I an Addict? Recognizing the Signs of Addiction | Carolyn Dunegan

    Soul Sense with Mark Verkler

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 47:34


    In this episode of Soul Sense, Mark Verkler and Carolyn Dunegan explore the progression of addiction—from recreational use to problematic use, dependence, and addiction. Drawing from decades of experience in chemical dependency treatment, Carolyn explains how addiction affects relationships, identity, priorities, and spiritual life.They discuss denial, comparison, isolation, secrecy, withdrawal, and why recovery requires community, humility, honesty, and bringing what is hidden “into the light.” From a Christian perspective, they explore how addiction can become a stronghold that competes with relationships, community, and allegiance to God.The episode also offers practical guidance for anyone concerned about their own substance use or the addiction of someone they love.⏱️ TIMESTAMPS00:00 — Introduction01:29 — The Stages of Addiction03:32 — Recreational vs. Problematic Use06:23 — Emotional & Physical Dependence08:20 — Relational Consequences10:06 — How Addiction Changes Your Social Life12:44 — When the Substance Becomes a Relationship14:01 — Addiction as an Idol16:24 — The Double Life of Addiction18:18 — Why Functioning Doesn't Mean Healthy19:12 — Denial & Comparison22:12 — The Absence of Consequences Isn't Permission23:39 — The Later Stages of Addiction26:23 — Isolation & Addiction27:43 — Understanding Withdrawal29:08 — What Early Sobriety Feels Like30:19 — Why Community Matters31:06 — Why Therapy Alone May Not Be Enough32:19 — Secrecy, Shame & Control35:00 — Coming Into the Light35:27 — 1 John 1 & Walking in the Light36:20 — Honesty, Humility & Recovery40:14 — Isolation, Pride & Being Known41:20 — The Brutality of Addiction's End Stages43:11 — The First Step Toward Recovery45:06 — Next Episode: Addiction & the Family47:23 — Humility, Grace & Freedom48:08 — ClosingFor counseling and resources: samaritanswell.comFree Guide: Christian Emotional Health Guidehttps://samaritanswell.thinkific.com/products/digital_downloads/Christian-Emotional-Health-GuideConnect with Samaritan's Well:Instagram: @samaritanswellFacebook: @samaritanswelldallasLinkedIn: Samaritan's Well CounselingTikTok: @samaritanswellcounseling#SoulSense #AddictionRecovery #ChristianCounseling #Recovery #MentalHealth #FaithAndMentalHealth

    Harvest Chapel International - Kumasi
    MGD: God Won't Shame Us

    Harvest Chapel International - Kumasi

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 13, 2026 12:31 Transcription Available


    Are you facing mockery for choosing God over worldly gains? Will your radical faith leave you empty-handed? Discover how David and Daniel overcame impossible odds, and why your unwavering trust in the Lord guarantees you will never be put to shame!

    Dopey: On the Dark Comedy of Drug Addiction
    He Shot Blue Ecstasy, Boofed It & Went to Work: Jed Payne on Relapse, Lies, Shame & One Year Back

    Dopey: On the Dark Comedy of Drug Addiction

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 81:44


    Patreon is no ads and discounts for DopeyCon: www.patreon.com/dopeypodcast Episode summary Dave opens the Wednesday Dose of Dopey by responding to a listener who noticed he seemed a little off. He talks honestly about the pressure of producing five shows a week, his obsessive pursuit of Jason Mewes, the strange sadness that follows surrender, and what's coming together for DopeyCon. Then JD shares a terrifying story from his twenties: three sleepless days inside a Mississippi trailer with an ounce of cocaine, crack, beer, no food and almost no water. After a massive shot leaves him conscious but completely unable to move, his friend helps bring him back—only for JD to immediately smoke the biggest crack hit of his life. Dave remembers Annie Ellie and Brian “Hot Wheels” Connolly through comments from the Dopey Nation before welcoming back Jed Payne of Church & Other Drugs and Rehab Bromance. Approaching one year sober after years of concealed relapse, Jed talks about going from addiction counselor to treatment patient, sharing a room with former clients, working at a coffee shop with teenagers, and accepting the humiliation required to rebuild his life. He explains how CBD and “microdosing” became the beginning of his return to getting high, why clinicians in recovery need somewhere safe to struggle, and how easily helping addicts can replace doing your own recovery work. Then things get properly Dopey: Jed recalls shooting cocaine while a police officer stood beside the car, injecting a bright-blue ecstasy pill in a gas-station bathroom, boofing two more pills before work, rolling with his hands submerged in marinara sauce, and eventually passing out on the prep table. Jed and Dave also discuss 7-OH, smoke-shop opioids, Sublocade, coming off Suboxone, emotional recovery after relapse, staying present, and the small daily actions he is using to become a man of his word again. All that and STILL MORE on the newest Wednesday Dose of Dopey! Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

    White Flag with Joe Walsh
    Shame On Us America. Shame On Us

    White Flag with Joe Walsh

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 34:55


    She's a green card holder, has lived in California for yrs, she's a teacher, with no criminal record, who's done everything right per our fucked up immigration laws, but for the past five months, she, and her husband and her high school aged son have been locked up in horrible conditions in an ICE detention facility in Texas. I don't know how we'll ever recover from Trump's crimes. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

    The Jimmy Rex Show
    #706 - Makenna Gibbons - How to Recover From a Nationwide Public Scandal

    The Jimmy Rex Show

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 45:19 Transcription Available


    Makenna Gibbons became part of one of Utah's most public scandals when the “Mormon swinging” story exploded online in 2022. Behind the viral headlines, Makenna was simultaneously dealing with infidelity, divorce, motherhood, public scrutiny, and the collapse of the life she knew.In this episode, Makenna sits down with Jimmy to tell her side of the story and, more importantly, share what happened after the headlines faded. She talks about the boundaries she wishes she had protected, how group dynamics and alcohol contributed to decisions she regrets, the painful process of rebuilding her identity, and what years of therapy taught her about accountability without shame.Makenna also opens up about rebuilding a healthy co-parenting relationship with her ex-husband, getting remarried, learning to trust herself again, and why she believes even the darkest seasons eventually end.This conversation is ultimately about what happens when your worst mistakes become public—and how you rebuild a life you're proud of afterward.Follow Makenna Gibbons: IG

    Fresh Start Family Show
    How to Help Teens Delay Sexual Activity—Without Shame or Fear with Kimberly Wolf

    Fresh Start Family Show

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 66:12


    What if the key to helping your teen make safer, more thoughtful choices around sex… wasn't control, silence, or fear? But connection, honesty, and real education? In this powerful and refreshingly honest conversation, Wendy's joined by sex educator Kimberly Wolf to talk about how we can guide our kids through one of the most misunderstood (and often avoided) topics in parenting, without shame, awkwardness, or panic. They dive into what kids are actually being exposed to these days (it's a lot), why avoiding the conversation can backfire in big ways, and how simple, everyday moments can become opportunities to build trust, safety, and confidence in your child. You'll learn why kids who receive clear, respectful, fact-based education are actually more likely to delay sexual activity, and how to become the safe place your child turns to when it matters most. This episode is honest, eye-opening, and incredibly empowering, no matter what your background or belief system is. ➡️ Head to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.freshstartfamilyonline.com/334 ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ for more info and links.⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠

    Encountering You
    Tending to Yourself Is Not Selfish

    Encountering You

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 25:29


    Self-care isn't a spa day or a to-do list. In the HOCI model, it's one of the six core areas of healthy human functioning -- the ability to identify and tend to your own needs across four domains: physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual. In this episode we look at why self-care breaks down, what the value wound has to do with it, and why the cultural version of self-care leaves a lot of people -- especially men -- out entirely. If you've ever felt like tending to yourself was somehow selfish, this one's for you. IN THIS EPISODE The HOCI definition of self-care -- and why it's broader and more serious than the cultural version Why self-care breaks down: the value wound, codependence, and the belief that needs are selfish The four domains: physical, emotional, relational, and spiritual -- and what neglect in each one costs A direct conversation about men and self-care: what men are taught about needs, and what that costs them What self-care actually looks like for men -- practical and without the cultural baggage How self-care connects to all six HOCI principles Why giving from depletion isn't generosity -- it's a slow burn REFLECTION QUESTION In which of the four domains -- physical, emotional, relational, spiritual -- are you most depleted right now? And what is the story you tell yourself about why you don't have permission to tend to it?

    What Healthy Couples Know That You Don't
    What Shame Is Really Trying to Tell You: The Surprising Key to Healing Trauma and Finding Yourself Again

    What Healthy Couples Know That You Don't

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 36:32


    Shame is one of the most powerful human emotions. It can quietly influence the choices we make, the relationships we create, the risks we take, and even the way we talk to ourselves when no one else is listening. Unlike guilt, which says "I did something wrong," shame can leave us feeling like "something is wrong with me." And that belief can become a heavy burden to carry.

    Zo Williams: Voice of Reason
    I HAVE NO MOORING FOR YOUR WOUNDS TO LATCH ONTO

    Zo Williams: Voice of Reason

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 75:33


    I HAVE NO MOORING FOR YOUR WOUNDS TO LATCH ONTO Perhaps one of love's greatest tests arrives when your pain reaches for me and discovers that I will not become who your pain remembers. Human wounds rarely remain private. They enter relationships carrying expectations shaped by earlier experience. Abandonment may anticipate pursuit. Distrust may provoke interrogation. Fear may seek control. Shame may invite rescue. None of this means every wounded person behaves identically, nor that another person causes the wound. The deeper question concerns what happens between two people when an old expectation reaches outward and finds no cooperating response. Here lies the possibility of a different intimacy. I can care about your fear without obeying it. I can hear your accusation without manufacturing a defense merely because you expected one. Your distance can hurt without forcing me to chase you. Your anger can register in my body without becoming the author of my behavior. Compassion does not require psychological conscription.

    Jewish Inspiration Podcast · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe
    Why Temptation Gets Stronger When You Get Closer [Day 189 - Orchos Tzaddikim | Fear of Heaven 4]

    Jewish Inspiration Podcast · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 19:13


    In this lesson from the Gate of Fear of Heaven (Shaar Yirat Shamayim), Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe explores the deeper structure of the human soul through the concepts of nefesh, ruach, and neshamah. Drawing from the teachings of Orchot Tzaddikim, he explains that the nefesh is associated with physical desire, the ruach with emotion, honor, and ego, and the neshamah with the intellect and our highest spiritual aspirations. These three forces operate simultaneously within every person, creating the lifelong struggle between immediate physical gratification and the soul's desire for closeness to Hashem.Rabbi Wolbe emphasizes that reality extends far beyond what our physical eyes can perceive. Spiritual causes and consequences may exist even when they are hidden from us. Through a story involving a businessman who sought guidance from a Kabbalistic sage, he illustrates the Torah perspective that our spiritual choices can influence aspects of life in ways that are not visible on the surface. The broader lesson is that Judaism asks us to look beyond the purely material world and recognize that our actions affect both the physical and spiritual dimensions of existence.The lesson then focuses on the central battle between intellect and emotion. The heart may crave what feels pleasurable in the moment, even when the mind knows that the choice is harmful. Rabbi Wolbe uses the example of someone warned by a doctor to avoid unhealthy food who nevertheless places himself in a tempting environment and gradually rationalizes giving in. Spiritual maturity requires training the mind to govern the heart rather than allowing emotions and impulses to dictate our choices.Rabbi Wolbe concludes by describing life as an ongoing contest between the physical forces that pursue pleasure, wealth, honor, and comfort and the neshamah that continually asks a deeper question: What will bring me closer to Hashem? Whichever side we strengthen becomes more powerful. When physical desires dominate, spiritual sensitivity weakens. When the neshamah leads, humility, wisdom, and closeness to God flourish. The struggle itself is the purpose of life—and every choice gives us another opportunity to allow the highest part of ourselves to lead._____________This Podcast Series is Generously Underwritten by Peter & Becky BotvinRecorded at TORCH Centre in the Levin Family Studios (B) to a live audience on February 23, 2026, in Houston, Texas.Released as Podcast on August 12, 2026_____________This series on Orchos Tzadikim/Ways of the Righteous is produced in partnership with Hachzek.Join the revolution of daily Mussar study at hachzek.com.We are using the Treasure of Life edition of the Orchos Tzadikkim (Published by Feldheim)_____________Listen, Subscribe & Share: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jewish-inspiration-podcast-rabbi-aryeh-wolbe/id1476610783Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4r0KfjMzmCNQbiNaZBCSU7) to stay inspired! Share your questions at aw@torchweb.org or visit torchweb.org for more Torah content.  _____________About the Host:Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: awolbe@torchweb.org_____________Support Our Mission:Our Mission is Connecting Jews & Judaism. Help us spread Judaism globally by sponsoring an episode at torchweb.org.Your support makes a HUGE difference!_____________Listen MoreOther podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe: NEW!! Hey Rabbi! Podcast: https://heyrabbi.transistor.fm/episodesPrayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodesJewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodesParsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodesLiving Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodesThinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodesUnboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodesRabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodesFor a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at http://podcast.torchweb.orgv_____________Keywords:#JewishInspiration, #Mussar, #MasterClass, #FearOfHeaven, #YiratShamayim, #Nefesh, #Ruach, #Neshamah, #JewishSoul, #MindOverEmotion, #YetzerHara, #SelfControl, #InnerBattle, #LiveWithPurpose ★ Support this podcast ★

    The Sandy Show Podcast
    Parental Anxiety, Cone of Shame, and Vibe Coding

    The Sandy Show Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 17:57 Transcription Available


    A senior's first solo drive, a dog with the cone of shame, and a wildly unnecessary amount of confidence in one man's horn-honking skills - JB and Sandy turn a morning show into a hilarious, oddly heartfelt ride.If you need a laugh, a little parent anxiety, and a reminder that some milestones hit harder than others, this one delivers. Sandy, JB, and Tricia trade stories about Sandy and Tricia's daughter Landry's first drive to school, the emotional spiral of senior year, and the kind of dad behavior that kicks in when your daughter suddenly needs car washes, gas, and emotional support on demand.You'll also hear the trio go off on everything from a classic Napoleon Dynamite Letterman clip to Boerne Little League's path to the Little League World Series, including the age controversy that sent the whole thing to court. And if you're into pop-culture moments, there is a fun detour into surprise celebrity appearances, from Ella Langley in St. Thomas to artists like Train and Bon Jovi showing up unannounced to sing with fans.Then Sandy reveals the behind-the-scenes obsession that's got everyone teasing him: vibe coding and AI automation. He explains how he's using AI to build practical tools, like organizing photos and automating everyday tasks, while JB and Tricia roast him for sounding a little too much like a coder with no coding background at all. Perfect for listeners who love local radio chemistry, funny family stories, and a few genuinely useful takeaways buried inside the chaos. It is smart, silly, and full of the kind of banter that makes you feel like you're hanging out in the room.

    Emotionally Healthy Legacy- Stress management, mindset shifts, emotional wellness, boundaries, self care for moms
    334. From Mom Rage & Feeling Stuck in Shame to Joy & Confidence in Motherhood // Client Testimonial Leidy Bass

    Emotionally Healthy Legacy- Stress management, mindset shifts, emotional wellness, boundaries, self care for moms

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 47:09


    What if you're not a bad mom—you just haven't been given the right tools and support to break the patterns you've learned?In this episode, I'm joined by Leidy, a mom who joined Calm Christian Mom Coaching while pregnant with her third baby. She was struggling with mom rage, yelling, harsh tones, guilt, and deep shame. She knew she didn't want to keep parenting this way, but she didn't know how to change it.In our conversation, we talk about:How shame kept her from asking for helpThe mindset patterns underneath her angerWhy knowing parenting tools isn't enough when you're already triggeredHow learning to recognize her brain states changed the way she respondedHow her daughter began saying, “In this family, we speak with love.”How she went from feeling like a terrible mom to feeling lighter, happier, and more confidentLeidy's story is a powerful reminder that you are not your worst parenting moment. You can learn new patterns and experience joy in motherhood again.Ready to leave mom rage behind in 2026?If you're tired of yelling, reacting, and feeling guilty afterward, you don't have to figure this out alone.Learn more about Calm Christian Mom Coaching and book a free consultation call to see if coaching is the right next step for you.Mentioned in the episode:319. From Constant Irritation, Anger + Yelling to Lasting Peace, Steadiness and Connection // Elizabeth's Transformation Testimonial314. “I Didn't Think I Could Change”… Real Wins From a Mom Who Stopped Yelling // Elizabeth's Wins~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~Next Steps: 1. Watch FREE TRAINING: 5 Steps to Break free from Mom Rage Shame ⬇️2. Learn about Calm Christian Mom Coaching Program ⬇️3. BOOK A FREE CONSULTATION CALL if you are ready for support and accountability in overcoming damaging anger patterns. ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~How to Be More Patient with Your Kids (So You're Not Screaming Over Spilled Milk)Leave a 5 star rating and review on the Podcast and email me (hello@emotionallyhealthylegacy.com) a  screenshot of the REVIEW for free access the training or buy it HERE for $27.  Website: emotionallyhealthylegacy.comContact: hello@emotionallyhealthylegacy.comQuestions? Form / Voice memo 

    No More Desire â„¢ Porn Addiction Recovery
    158: Why Porn Cravings Aren't Really Sexual: The Hidden Emotions Behind Pornography Addiction

    No More Desire â„¢ Porn Addiction Recovery

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 12, 2026 24:37 Transcription Available


    Have you ever wondered why your porn cravings can feel so intensely sexual—even when you just had sex, genuinely want to quit porn, or know that acting on the craving will hurt you?One of the most important things I've learned in porn addiction recovery is that many cravings aren't really about sex at all.They're emotional.Pressure. Loneliness. Shame. Fear. Inadequacy. Sadness. Anger. Disconnection. Sometimes what my brain labels as “I need porn” is actually an emotional or relational need that I haven't learned how to recognize, feel, and respond to yet.In this episode, I'm diving deep into the connection between porn cravings, emotional triggers, and emotional regulation—and why learning to work with your emotions can become one of the most powerful tools for overcoming pornography addiction.I'll also walk you through the principles behind The RAIL Method™, the emotional mindfulness process I use to help men stop treating cravings and painful emotions like enemies and begin responding to them with acceptance, compassion, and leadership.Because recovery isn't just learning how to resist an urge.It's learning how to understand what that urge is trying to tell you.One of the central ideas I want you to walk away with is this:Your cravings are signals, not commands.You don't have to blindly obey them, and you don't have to hate them either.You can learn to slow down, become present, understand what is happening inside of you, and choose a response that actually serves the man you're becoming.Practice Emotional Mindfulness With UsDuring the month of August, the No More Desire Brotherhood is practicing emotional mindfulness together through our monthly challenge. The community is completely free:https://www.nomoredesire.com/communityIf you want to learn The RAIL Method™ in depth, you can also take the full course. Use code AUGUSTCHALLENGE for 15% off this month:https://www.nomoredesire.com/railLink to Blog Article for this EpisodeVisit No More Desire Tools for Recovery for recovery tools and training, the free online community, my free eBook, Workshop, The RAIL Method ™ and more to help you break free from porn.If you're tired of trying to quit porn on your own, the No More Desire Academy gives you a structured path to recovery through coaching, brotherhood, practical tools, and step-by-step training. Learn more about the Academy.If you want deeper, more personalized support, I also offer 1-on-1 porn addiction recovery coaching. We'll work directly on your patterns, emotional triggers, recovery plan, and long-term growth. Learn more about working 1-on-1 with Jake Kastleman.My gratitude for the music in this episode (in order of appearance) goes to Ievgen Poltavskyi, Yevhen Astafiev, Aleksey Voroninfrom Pixabay.Support the showNo More Desire

    #IMOMSOHARD
    I ORGANIZE MY LIFE SO HARD

    #IMOMSOHARD

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 54:39


    We are officially in our back-to-school organizing era... or at least we're trying. Join us as we discuss laundry room disasters, doom piles, clutter guilt, husbands who shrink expensive swimsuits, and why one of us stress-cleans while the other stress-watches The Bodyguard. Plus, we debate snack houses vs. ingredient houses and admit the embarrassing things we keep buying over and over.Thank you to our sponsor, Zenni Optical!Go to  http://www.zenni.com/PODCAST use code PODCAST15 for 15% off your first order.Thank you to our sponsor, ZBiotics!Go tohttps://zbiotics.com/IMOMSOHARD and use IMOMSOHARD at checkout for 15% off any first timeorders of ZBiotics probiotics.Thank you to our sponsor, Famous Footwear!Buy one pair, get one half off at Famous Footwear. Shop instore to get $10 to spend this fall. Some exclusions apply.If you are interested in advertising on this podcast email advertising@pionairepodcasting.comTo request #IMOMSOHARD to be on your Podcast, Radio Show, or TV Show, reach out to talent@pionairepodcasting.comFOLLOW US: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/imomsohardInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/imomsohard/Twitter: https://twitter.com/imomsohardSEE US ON TOUR: https://www.imomsohard.com/WATCH OUR AMAZON PRIME SPECIAL: https://www.amazon.com/IMomSoHard-Live/dp/B07VBJ34DTCHAPTERS:00:00 Intro & Live Show Updates05:17 Why We Get Overwhelmed08:14 The Chaos of Organization10:16 Tackling the Laundry Room Disaster11:35 When Your Husband Ruins the Laundry

    Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide
    ERP 541: Breaking the Shame Cycle: How Couples Create Safety and Connection — An Interview with Brannon and Tyler Patrick

    Empowered Relationship Podcast: Your Relationship Resource And Guide

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 44:23


    Shame might be the silent architect behind our biggest relationship struggles—fueling secrecy, driving distance, and making genuine intimacy feel just out of reach. When the fear of rejection or not being enough sneaks in, it often keeps us locked in painful cycles of criticism, defensiveness, and disconnect. But what if the way we react to shame is the very thing sabotaging our deepest connections? In this episode, the discussion dives into how shame operates beneath the surface of issues like betrayal, addiction, and disconnection, and offers concrete strategies for transforming these patterns. Through personal stories, therapeutic insights, and powerful principles such as courage, context, and compassion, listeners are guided in breaking free from shame's grip. The conversation also explores practical ways to practice vulnerability, build safety, and foster more authentic connections—both with ourselves and our partners. Brannon Patrick, LCSW, and Tyler Patrick, LMFT, are brothers and licensed clinicians who help individuals and couples heal after infidelity, addiction, and the trust rupture that follows. With 20+ years each in addiction and trauma work, they bring both depth and straight talk, translating complex psychology into practical next steps people can use immediately. Together, they host The Therapy Brothers, a weekly call-in show where real people work through betrayal, shame, trauma, and addiction in real time, with over 500 episodes and nearly 2 million downloads. Their approach centers on heart work: healing the underlying trauma and shame so couples can rebuild trust with honesty, accountability, empathy, and healthy strength.   Episode Highlights 03:25 Overcoming betrayal and rebuilding trust. 07:34 Authenticity vs connection in relationships. 12:17 Shame's hidden impact on self-image. 15:35 Using IFS to overcome shame. 18:39 Choosing love and self-awareness. 21:10 Navigating shame's impact on relationships. 24:13 Navigating vulnerability in relationships. 28:28 Embracing compassion over self-criticism. 31:52 Exploring EFT and emotional connectivity. 34:48 Recovering trust after betrayal. 36:45 The trust equation and lasting love. 41:54 Beginning your healing journey.   Your Checklist of Actions to Take Practice Courage: Begin sharing your personal story and feelings with people you trust, focusing on authenticity and vulnerability. Build Context: Remind yourself you are not alone in your struggles; seek out others with similar experiences to normalize your feelings and reduce shame. Cultivate Compassion: Replace self-criticism with curiosity and kindness; when you notice a harsh inner voice, intentionally respond with understanding instead. Separate Your Parts: Use parts work or Internal Family Systems (IFS) to identify shame-driven and protective parts within yourself, then approach them with gratitude rather than rejection. Join a Support Group: Find or create safe spaces such as group therapy or support circles where you can practice vulnerability and receive nonjudgmental feedback. Create Boundaries: Establish healthy internal and external boundaries so you can engage with others' emotions without absorbing attacks or losing your sense of self. Get Professional Help: Explore modalities such as IFS, EMDR, ART, or DBT to address entrenched patterns and trauma that reinforce shame. Work on Relationship Recovery: If healing from betrayal, prioritize establishing safety and consistency, then focus on individual growth alongside nurturing relationship trust and intimacy.   Mentioned The Therapy Brothers (podcast) Shifting Criticism For Connected Communication (free relationship guide)   Connect with Tyler and Brannon Patrick Website: therapybrothers.org YouTube: youtube.com/@lovestrong | youtube.com/@therapy.brothers  Facebook: facebook.com/love.strong.org | facebook.com/ExpertBrannon  Instagram: instagram.com/therapy.brothers/ | instagram.com/sunrisegoal LinkedIn: linkedin.com/in/brannon-patrick/ | linkedin.com/in/tyler-patrick-lmft-24488366/ | linkedin.com/in/chase-jones-b63368128  

    The Built Different Podcast with Zach Clinton
    Christine D'Clario: Can You Love Jesus and Still Be Depressed? Suicide, Shame, & Surviving the Darkness By Finding God in the Desert, Ep. 314

    The Built Different Podcast with Zach Clinton

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 53:25 Transcription Available


    In this powerful and vulnerable conversation, renowned singer, songwriter, worship artist, and author, Christine D’Clario, opens up about her battle with postpartum depression, suicidal thoughts, and the stigma surrounding mental health, particularly within Latin American culture and the Church. Christine shares what her darkest seasons taught her about faith, asking for help, and finding hope when God feels distant. We also dive into her newest book, Healing in the Desert: Finding Your Voice on the Journey from Brokenness to Freedom, and the powerful reminder that our deserts don’t have to be the end of our story…they can become the places where God restores our voice, heals our wounds, and leads us toward freedom. Links: Christine’s Website: Home - CHRISTINE D'CLARIO Visit Christine on Tour: Home - CHRISTINE D'CLARIO Pick Up a Copy of Christine’s Book: Healing in the Desert: https://shorturl.at/LlWPa Struggling with Depression, Suicidal Ideations, or Shame? Find Clinically Excellent, Distinctively Christian Care & Counsel TODAY: Find Trusted Therapists - Christian Care Connect Become a Certified Mental Health Coach Today: Coach de salud mental | Light University Español Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Jewish Inspiration Podcast · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe
    Your Soul Is Royalty [Day 188 - Orchos Tzaddikim | Fear of Heaven 3]

    Jewish Inspiration Podcast · Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 14:21


    In this lesson from the Gate of Fear of Heaven (Shaar Yirat Shamayim), Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe continues the powerful parable of the royal soul. The human neshamah is compared to the daughter of a king—pure, precious, and lofty—yet placed inside a physical body filled with earthly desires. The body wants comfort, food, pleasure, materialism, and immediate gratification, while the soul longs for holiness and closeness to Hashem. This tension between body and soul is not a defect in creation; it is the very arena in which human greatness is achieved.Rabbi Wolbe explains that our mission is not to reject the physical world, but to elevate it. Physical experiences can become extraordinarily holy when directed properly. He illustrates this through marriage and intimacy: what the outside world may treat as merely physical can, within the sanctity of a Jewish marriage, become one of the holiest expressions of Divine service. Torah awakens the soul to remember its royalty and teaches us not to “sell ourselves cheaply” by living beneath our spiritual dignity.The lesson then turns to the unique privilege and responsibility of the Jewish people. Hashem gave us Torah and mitzvos as the means through which we recognize His greatness, develop Yirat Shamayim, and draw closer to Him. Looking at the heavens, the earth, the sun, moon, and stars can awaken awareness of the Creator—but Torah gives that awareness clarity and direction. Through learning and mitzvah observance, we begin to understand not only that Hashem exists, but what He wants from us.Rabbi Wolbe concludes by describing Yirat Shamayim as Hashem's greatest treasure. Gold, silver, possessions, and worldly success cannot compare to the clarity of knowing our relationship with God. The more we invest in Torah, mitzvos, and Hashem's wisdom, the more we awaken the royal soul within and recognize how privileged we are to live in a personal relationship with the Creator._____________This Podcast Series is Generously Underwritten by Peter & Becky BotvinRecorded at TORCH Centre in the Levin Family Studios (B) to a live audience on February 16, 2026, in Houston, Texas.Released as Podcast on August 11, 2026_____________This series on Orchos Tzadikim/Ways of the Righteous is produced in partnership with Hachzek.Join the revolution of daily Mussar study at hachzek.com.We are using the Treasure of Life edition of the Orchos Tzadikkim (Published by Feldheim)_____________Listen, Subscribe & Share: Apple Podcasts: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/jewish-inspiration-podcast-rabbi-aryeh-wolbe/id1476610783Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4r0KfjMzmCNQbiNaZBCSU7) to stay inspired! Share your questions at aw@torchweb.org or visit torchweb.org for more Torah content.  _____________About the Host:Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe, Director of TORCH in Houston, brings decades of Torah scholarship to guide listeners in applying Jewish wisdom to daily life.  To directly send your questions, comments, and feedback, please email: awolbe@torchweb.org_____________Support Our Mission:Our Mission is Connecting Jews & Judaism. Help us spread Judaism globally by sponsoring an episode at torchweb.org.Your support makes a HUGE difference!_____________Listen MoreOther podcasts by Rabbi Aryeh Wolbe: NEW!! Hey Rabbi! Podcast: https://heyrabbi.transistor.fm/episodesPrayer Podcast: https://prayerpodcast.transistor.fm/episodesJewish Inspiration Podcast: https://inspiration.transistor.fm/episodesParsha Review Podcast: https://parsha.transistor.fm/episodesLiving Jewishly Podcast: https://jewishly.transistor.fm/episodesThinking Talmudist Podcast: https://talmud.transistor.fm/episodesUnboxing Judaism Podcast: https://unboxing.transistor.fm/episodesRabbi Aryeh Wolbe Podcast Collection: https://collection.transistor.fm/episodesFor a full listing of podcasts available by TORCH at http://podcast.torchweb.orgv_____________Keywords:#JewishInspiration, #Mussar, #MasterClass, #FearOfHeaven, #YiratShamayim, #SpiritualGrowth, #Faith, #AweOfGod, #RelationshipWithHashem, #LoveOfHashem, #LiveWithPurpose ★ Support this podcast ★

    Mind Architect
    The 5 Survival Styles behind Chronic Shame and Guilt | Stephan Niederwieser & NARM

    Mind Architect

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 53:16


    According to the NeuroAffective Relational Model, chronic shame isn't an emotion, it's actually a strategy. Stephan K. Niederwieser is the co-author of the new book Healing Shame and Guilt.Shame tells us something is wrong with who we are, while guilt tells us something was wrong with what we did. In this brief episode, Luciana Baicea and Adrian Dinu talk with Stephan Niederwieser about why neither one behaves like an emotion: emotions come, tell us something and pass, while shame settles in and stays. He also explains what shame did FOR us: it helped us disconnect from needs, anger and grief that once felt too dangerous to have.Stephan Niederwieser has been in private practice in Berlin since the late 1980s. He initially trained in Hakomi and Somatic Experiencing before moving to the NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM), which he now teaches internationally. He is the co-author, alongside Laurence Heller, PhD, of Healing Shame and Guilt, recently published in Romanian by Editura Herald.In this episode we briefly explored:Why "toxic shame" is the wrong term, and what "chronic" points to insteadThe five core developmental needs (connection, attunement, trust, autonomy, love and sexuality) and the survival styles that appear when they are not metShame-based identification and its opposite - pride-based counter-identificationDepression as anger that has been pushed down rather than feltWhether an AI companion can offer connection without rupture and repairThe difference between being loved and being admiredResources mentioned in the conversation:Book: Healing Shame and Guilt by Laurence Heller, PhD & Stephan K. Niederwieser (Romanian edition by Editura Herald) Book: Healing Developmental Trauma by Laurence Heller & Aline LaPierreThe NeuroAffective Relational Model (NARM) method, founded by Laurence HellerNARM in RomaniaEpisode produced in partnership with Editura Herald."(00:00) Stephan Niederwieser on chronic shame & chronic guilt""(02:04) Stephan's journey: from Hakomi & Somatic Experiencing to NARM""(06:30) Shame vs. Guilt and why 'chronic' describes them better than 'toxic'""(11:05) Why shame and guilt are not emotions according to NARM's approach""(14:03) Disconnection from our needs - how it came from suppressing our emotions""(16:48) Burnout, exhaustion and the high of being productive as symptoms""(19:25) How Depression is connected to anger, according to NARM""(21:19) Where NARM starts and how it works: what do you want for yourself?""(25:32) AI companionship - facilitating connection or bypassing it?""(30:35) Developmental Trauma & the 5 development stages""(33:30) Our 5 developmental needs""(38:59) Pride-based counter-identification and shame-based identification""(41:29) Identification and counter-identification for each developmental stage""(43:58) Attunement, trust & autonomy: always helping, dominating, disappointing""(46:31) The need for love vs. the survival strategy of being admired""(49:43) One final idea for the audience & where to find NARM in Romania"

    Lifted to Hope
    Moving Past Shame and Regret with Jason Castleberry, Part 2

    Lifted to Hope

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 31:47


    When we come to know Jesus as Savior, the Holy Spirit begins a transforming work in us. The change is complete, but learning to believe and live in the truth of who we are in Christ can take time. My guest, Jason Castleberry, experienced this transformation firsthand. After military service left him carrying deep shame, PTSD, depression, and regret, Jason could have remained trapped in isolation and despair. Instead, God pursued him, rescued him, and began bringing him back to life. In this second episode, Jason shares the dramatic difference Jesus has made in his life. The heaviness and despair that once defined his days gave way to hope, joy, purpose, and freedom. His own healing awakened a desire to tell others what Jesus can do when life feels impossibly dark, eventually leading him into pastoral ministry. Jason's story is a powerful picture of Colossians 1:13 and a reminder that God can rescue us from darkness and bring us into the freedom and hope found in Christ. Connect with Jason:  https://www.facebook.com/jason.castleberry.2025/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/jason-castleberry-96b80394/ https://x.com/Pbcpastor24 To connect with Jason through his church: https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61567179489505 https://www.instagram.com/fbcplevna/ https://www.tiktok.com/@fbc.plevna   To inquire about counseling, email Louise at Louise@louisesedgwick.com.

    Lifegate Church
    SHAME SAYS “HIDE.” JESUS SAYS “COME.”

    Lifegate Church

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 42:26


    Deception comes first. Disobedience comes next. In Part 4 of Return to Eden, Bishop unpacks the story of Adam and Eve and reveals how temptation moves from seeing it → desiring it → taking it → becoming bound by it. Your “when” matters. The wrong timing can make the wrong thing look right. But God always provides a way of escape. And where shame says “hide,” Jesus says “come.” It's time to stop flirting with the fire, recognize the warning signs, and step out of hiding.

    Heal The Hurt
    Radical Acceptance - How to Stop Waiting for Them to Change

    Heal The Hurt

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 20:32


    Radical acceptance means you stop expecting them to change, ever. It is not approval and it is not surrender, it is how you stop waiting and finally get your peace back.In this video, trauma recovery and relationship coach Kenny Weiss explains how to practice radical acceptance with a partner, parent, or difficult family member who will never change, why the arguments you keep losing are reality arguments, and the exact words that let you hold on to your reality without arguing, defending, or convincing.Kenny walks you through his three proprietary frameworks: the Worst Day Cycle™ (Trauma, Fear, Shame, Denial), the Authentic Self Cycle™ (Truth, Responsibility, Healing, Forgiveness), and the six steps of the Emotional Authenticity Method™, including Feelization, the step that rewires the emotional blueprint at the root instead of managing symptoms.Radical acceptance is not approval and not surrender. Kenny Weiss teaches that it is releasing the demand that another person change, because demanding someone be who they are not is a denial of reality, not love. The waiting itself sends an unspoken message: I will not accept you for who you are.A reality argument is when two people look at the same thing but see it differently. Kenny Weiss teaches that neither person is right or wrong, and that demanding someone accept your reality makes your internal peace depend on them, which is the definition of codependence.Kenny Weiss's radical acceptance process starts with the pink elephant test: if an accusation lands far from your truth, you don't argue or defend. You respond with, I hear what you are saying, but my reality is different.Kenny Weiss is a relationship, communication, and childhood trauma recovery specialist, author of Your Journey to Success and Your Journey to Being Yourself, and creator of the Worst Day Cycle™, Authentic Self Cycle™, and Emotional Authenticity Method™. He helps high-functioning, emotionally exhausted adults break the repeating emotional patterns that therapy, mindset work, and communication tools never touched.TOPICS COVERED: radical acceptance, how to practice radical acceptance, accepting someone who won't change, accepting a difficult family member, reality arguments, letting go of expectations in relationships, stop trying to change your partner, codependency, boundaries, emotional blueprint, survival persona, grieving the relationship you wanted, pink elephant test, Worst Day Cycle, Authentic Self Cycle, Emotional Authenticity Method, Kenny WeissTIMESTAMPS:0:00 — Waiting for Them to Finally Change1:00 — My Ten-Year Lesson: The Rattlesnake and the Puppy2:50 — The Reality Argument: Arguing Over the Color of the Wall5:15 — Why Demanding They Change Is Codependence7:30 — The Real Reason We Keep Waiting9:00 — Where the Fantasy Was Born: The Worst Day Cycle™11:45 — What Radical Acceptance Requires: The Authentic Self Cycle™14:00 — The Six Steps of Emotional Authenticity17:00 — The Pink Elephant Test: My Reality Is Different19:15 — You Are the One You Have Been Waiting For

    Celebration Church Rarotonga
    The Power that Breaks Fear and Shame

    Celebration Church Rarotonga

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 11, 2026 25:03 Transcription Available


    Bernard Tararo shares a powerful message on the Gospel of Jesus Christ and the freedom that is found through His death and resurrection. Bernard shares his own testimony about how Jesus broke the power of fear, shame, sin, and addiction, and brought lasting transformation and new life. This message boldly declares the finished work of the cross, the power of Christ's blood, and the hope available to everyone who puts their faith in Him.Our heart at Celebration Church Rarotonga is that this message will greatly bless your walk with Jesus and help bring you closer to Him. We pray that you would be stirred to live a life that is passionate about loving Jesus!We would love to hear from you! Connect with us through the links below:Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/celebrationraroInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/celebrationchurch_rarotonga/Website: https://www.celebrationrarotonga.com/

    Joe Benigno and Evan Roberts
    Old Stadiums Put Billion-Dollar Venues to Shame

    Joe Benigno and Evan Roberts

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 13:17


    The newest stadiums may cost billions, but the classics still win. Shaun Morash is in for Evan Roberts alongside Tiki Barber as Connor Green ranks the Rose Bowl, Wrigley Field, Fenway Park, Lambeau Field and even the Roman Colosseum among sports' best venues, sparking a debate over why old-school stadiums still have more character than their modern replacements. The conversation turns to MetLife Stadium, American Dream and the complications of maintaining a grass field at a venue packed with concerts and other events. Then a Jets caller predicts nine wins, but Shaun pushes back on the idea that the offense is set with Geno Smith at quarterback.

    The Crossway Podcast
    On Parenting: The Best of 'The Crossway Podcast'

    The Crossway Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 34:49


    In today's very special episode, we take a look back into The Crossway Podcast archives and put together our favorite clips of authors talking about parenting. Check out the interviews featured in the episode below: ❖ If You Don't Catechize Your Kids, the World Will (Kevin DeYoung) Apple Podcasts | Spotify  ❖ Preparing Our Kids for a Post-Christian World (Rebecca McLaughlin) Apple Podcasts | Spotify ❖ How Do I Discipline My Kids without Shaming Them? (Heather Nelson) ⁠Apple Podcasts | Spotify ❖ What Your Teenager Needs Most (Paul Tripp) ⁠Apple Podcasts | Spotify ❖ Answering Tough Questions about Raising Teenagers (Jon Nielson) Apple Podcasts | Spotify ❖ Your Kids Are Already Theologians, So Give Them Good Theology (Kristen Wetherell) ⁠Apple Podcasts | Spotify Authors featured in this episode: ❖ Kevin DeYoung is the senior pastor at Christ Covenant Church in Matthews, North Carolina, and associate professor of systematic theology at Reformed Theological Seminary, Charlotte. He is also the author of 'The Biggest Story Bible Storybook' from Crossway. ❖ Rebecca McLaughlin is the host of the "Confronting Christianity" podcast and the author of several books, including '10 Questions Every Teen Should Ask (and Answer) about Christianity' from Crossway. ❖ Heather Davis Nelson is a writer, counselor, and speaker. She is also the author of 'Unashamed: Healing Our Brokenness and Finding Freedom from Shame' from Crossway. ❖ Paul David Tripp is a pastor, an award-winning author, and an international conference speaker. He has written numerous books, including 'New Morning Mercies for Teens: A Daily Gospel Devotional' from Crossway. ❖ Jon Nielson serves as the senior pastor of Christ Presbyterian Church of Wheaton in Wheaton, Illinois. He is also the author of 'God's Great Story: A Daily Devotional for Teens' from Crossway. ❖ Kristen Wetherell is a wife, mother, writer, and speaker. She is the author of numerous books for adults and kids, including several board books for kids in the For the Bible Tells Me So series from Crossway. Previous compilation episodes: ❖ On Marriage: The Best of ‘The Crossway Podcast' | ⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠ ❖ On Apologetics: The Best of ‘The Crossway Podcast' | ⁠⁠⁠Apple Podcasts⁠⁠⁠ | ⁠⁠⁠Spotify⁠⁠⁠ ❖ On the End Times: The Best of ‘The Crossway Podcast' | ⁠Apple Podcasts⁠ | ⁠Spotify⁠ If you enjoyed this episode, be sure to leave us a review, which helps us spread the word about the show! ⁠⁠⁠Complete this survey for a free audiobook by Kevin DeYoung!

    Mind Bully
    256. You Are Not Who You Used to Be | Breaking Free From Shame and Old Habits

    Mind Bully

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 36:21


    You Are Not Who You Used to Be | Breaking Free From Shame and Old HabitsYou do not have to be perfect. There is no perfect person breathing.That's where Norense starts this episode — and it's a message for anyone who has been hard on themselves for slipping, falling back into old habits, and then hiding in shame instead of running back to God.Recorded from his Brooklyn apartment after a long day in the Word, Norense breaks down one of the most important distinctions in the Christian walk: the difference between condemnation and conviction. Condemnation drags you backward into bondage and ties your identity to what you did wrong. Conviction draws you forward toward repentance and reminds you who you actually are in Christ.This one is raw, scripture-heavy, and honest — a reminder that being a new creation doesn't mean the old appetites disappear overnight. It means you renew your mind daily, one day at a time, and let the Holy Spirit do the work you were never meant to do on your own.In this episode:The critical difference between condemnation (backward to bondage) and conviction (forward to repentance)Why falling back into old patterns doesn't make you who you used to beWhat it means to be a "new creation" — and why the old man still leaves behind thoughts, appetites, and impulses to surrenderThe "HALT" principle — how being Hungry, Angry, Lonely, or Tired lowers your defensesA walk through 1 John 1 and Hebrews 10 — grace is real, but it's not a license to do whatever you wantWhy nothing external — money, sex, titles, achievement — ever actually satisfies the deeper cravingWhy "man shall not live by bread alone" reframes Maslow's hierarchy entirelyHonest, unfiltered thoughts on identity, culture, and why the real battle is spiritual, not surface-levelKey Truth: "Condemnation condemns you backward to bondage and identifies you with what you did wrong. Conviction convicts you toward repentance and your real identity in Christ."Key Verse: Romans 8:1 — There is therefore now no condemnation to them which are in Christ Jesus, who walk not after the flesh, but after the Spirit.If this episode hit you:Rate and review the Mind Bully Podcast — it helps this message reach more homes and hearts, one thought at a time.

    The Coworkers Podcast
    Summer Spotlight: Shame: What Does the Bible Actually Say About It?

    The Coworkers Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 41:28


    Shame  and being set free from shame is such a hot topic, in both Christian and secular circles. Resources abound, but what does the Bible actually say? As we completed a biblical survey on shame, we were surprised at how much the Bible had to say on this topic! Listen in as we share key biblical principles that are necessary in order to deal with the universal emotion of shame. Biblical Survey on Shame: I. Genesis 2-3- Naked and unashamed… No sin, nothing to hide from one another or God, perfect unity in relationships, acceptance of one another. After sinning, they hid and covered themselves and were afraid… shame leads to fear, hiding parts of ourselves, isolation, and disconnection. Shame came when sin entered the world.  Now, there are two general sources of shame- directly from personal and/or corporate sin, or indirectly due to the brokenness in the world.  There are also biblical examples of people trying to make others feel ashamed for things they shouldn't feel ashamed of, such as barrenness. So there is appropriate shame and inappropriate shame.  II. Appropriate shame due to sinful behavior in Proverbs and prophets:Proverbs: There are ways of foolish or sinful living, such as dishonesty, gluttony, and laziness, that are shameful, that bring shame on oneself and one's parents or spouse. -Prov 10:5 -Prov 12:4 -Prov 13:5 -Prov 17:2 -Prov 18:13 -Prov 19:26 -Prov 28:7 -Prov 29:15Sexual sin/misconduct is especially shameful: -Lev. 20:17 -2 Sam. 13:12-13 -Matt. 1:19 -Rom. 1:27Isaiah: A life of rejecting God and worshipping idols is the most shameful life. Idolatry always leads to shame and disappointment. -Is 30:3-5 -Is 41:8, 10, 11 -Is 42:9-11 -Is 42:17 -Is 45:16-17, 19, 24-25 -Is 49 -Is 50:6-9 -Is 51:7, 12-13 -Is 61:7 Sometimes shame is due to both sin and resulting defeat from enemies and/or God's judgment: -Ezra 8:22 -Ezra 9:6-7 -Neh. 1:3 -Daniel 9:7 III. Shame not directly due to personal sin, but due to perceived failure, deficiency, or defeat:Barrenness was considered shameful by society: -Gen. 30:23 -1 Sam. 1:6 -Luke 1:6 Being defeated by enemies feels shameful: -1 Sam. 17:26 -2 Sam. 10:5 / 1 Chron. 19:5 -2 Kings 18 -2 Chron. 32:21 2 Sam. 19:3, 5-Shame due to disapproval from others, but not necessarily personal sin.Sometimes shame is a result of seeing others' devotion and our lack of devotion (comparison): 2 Chron. 30:15 Now let's see how God responds. IV. When shame is an appropriate response to sin and a part of true confession and repentance, God is always ready to receive His children, welcome them into His Presence, replace their shame with gladness, and heal their faithlessness.  -Jer. 3:19-25; 4:2, 4, 14 -Jer. 31V. When people continue in shameless sin, pride, and idolatry, God shames and judges them. In the book of Jeremiah, God's people are persisting in unrepentant idolatry, defiling God's places of worship with idolatry, and prophets are lying to the people in the name of God. God warns His people many times, but they are stiff-necked, stubborn, and unashamed of their idolatry. “They do not know how to blush.” God shames Israel and sends judgment upon them- for their unrepentant idolatry, for changing their glory (God) for that which does not profit (false gods), which is appalling, evil, and bitter. But God's heart is ALWAYS that His judgment (and shaming words) would lead to them feeling a proper shame over their sin, confess, turn back to God, and be restored. He remains ready to receive them, heal them, and turn their shame into joy. God's judgment of Israel's shameless idolatry and refusal to repent in Jeremiah:-Jer. 2:11-13, 26, 36-Jer. 5:3, 30, 31; 6:13-15-Jer. 6:13-20-Jer. 7:18-20 -Jer. 8:5-6, 9-Jer. 10:14-16-Jer. 11:12-15-Jer. 13:24-27-Jer. 17:13-Jer. 23:40 The book of Jeremiah ends with God's judgment on foreign nations and Israel's enemies who rejected God and continued in shameless sin, pride, and idolatry (Jer. 46-51). Their sin and idolatry led to their shame, disappointment, and God's judgment. This is the fulfillment of God's promise that His enemies would be ultimately shamed, and His people would be ultimately honored.  Jer. 46:12, 24 Jer. 51:17, 47-53 Ezekiel, Hosea, Joel, Obadiah, Micah, Nahum, Habakkuk, Zephaniah, and Zechariah all continue the theme of unrepentant idolatry leading to shame and God's judgment, and when repentant, to restoration with God.  Ez. 7:18; Ez. 16:61, 63; Ez. 32:24, 25, 30 Ez. 39:25-26 Ez. 43:10-11 Ez. 44:10-13 -Hosea 2:5; Hos. 4:7, 18; Hos. 9:10; Hos. 10:6. NT examples of God shaming prideful, unrepentant, shameless people: -Luke 13:16-17 -1 Cor. 1:27 -Rev. 3:18 VI. God promises not to let His people be put to shame (be ultimately defeated, ridiculed, or proven wrong), but to in the end to defend them, give them justice, honor, and eternal life. God's enemies will ultimately be put to shame. -Psalm 25:2-3, 20 -Psalm 34 -Psalm 71:1, 13, 24 -Ps 97:7 -Daniel 12:2 -Rom. 5:3-5 -Rom. 9:33 -Rom. 10:11 -Phil. 1:20 -Heb. 11:16 -1 Peter 2:6-7 VII. Jesus was shamefully treated (ridiculed, mocked, considered a failure, embarrassed, dishonored)- by others and b/c of our sin- in our place on the cross. On the cross he took not only our sin, but also the accompanying shame, for us. On the cross, he defeated Satan and all his enemies, putting them to shame. -Psalm 22 -Isaiah 53 -Luke 18:32 -Heb. 12:2 -Col. 2:15 -Rom. 8:1VIII. Jesus-followers are commanded by Jesus to follow Him and not be ashamed of Him, the gospel, or suffering for the gospel, at all cost. -Jeremiah warned the people of judgment for their sin and idolatry, in the face of persecution and rejection (and feeling shamed), and trusted God to ultimately honor him and shame the people.-Jer. 17:  -Jer. 20:11, 18-  -Jer. 37-38- -Mark 8:38; Luke 9:26 -Rom. 1:16 -1 Thess. 2:2- -2 Tim. 1:8, 12 -2 Tim. 1:16 -1 Peter 4:16 -Heb. 2:11 IX. Believers have been set free from sinful lifestyles that lead to shame, unfruitfulness, and death. Believers should live honorable lifestyles that will not put them to shame, but that results in fruit, sanctification, and eternal life, and puts their opponents to shame. -Rom. 6:21-22 -Phil. 3:19 -2 Tim. 2:15 -Titus 2:8 -1 Peter 3:16  -1 Peter 5:2 -Jesus taught His followers to purposefully humble themselves, take lower positions, and allow other people to exalt us, instead of exalting ourselves, which could lead to shame (embarrassment). Luke 14:9. -Believers can be put to shame by other believers' behavior. 2 Cor. 7:14. X. Sometimes believers need to rebuke one another for doing shameful things. -1 Cor. 6:5 -1 Cor. 14:35 -1 Cor. 15:34 -Eph. 5:12 -2 Thess. 3:14 -Titus 1:11 -We also can call out and rebuke others' sin without shaming them. 1 Cor. 4:14. XI. Sometimes, people “shame” others in order to express their anger, contempt, or criticism, and when it is unfair, we can refuse to be ashamed. -1 Sam. 20:30, 34 -2 Sam. 6:20-22 -Job's friends tried to shame him many times: 6:20; Job 8:22. Job 10:15 Job 11:3; Job 19:3In the face of unfair criticism, Paul defended his ministry and refused to be ashamed: 2 Cor. 10:8; 2 Cor. 11:21

    Self Reflection Podcast
    What is Really Behind Disrespect

    Self Reflection Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 47:19


    Send us Fan MailWhat if the disrespect you experience—or the disrespect you sometimes give—has less to do with the moment and more to do with something happening underneath?In this thought-provoking episode of Self Reflection Podcast, host Lira Ndifon explores The 11 Behaviors of Disrespect by DB Bedford and takes a deeper look at what disrespect can reveal about our emotional world.Rudeness. Interrupting. Condescension. Dismissiveness.On the surface, these behaviors can seem like simple acts of poor character or bad manners. But what happens when we pause before reacting and ask a different question: What is really driving this behavior?Lira explores how behaviors such as rudeness and condescension can sometimes function as emotional defenses—ways of protecting insecurity, shame, fear of rejection, or feelings of inadequacy. Someone who appears overly confident or superior may actually be struggling with a deep fear of not being enough.That doesn't make disrespect acceptable. But understanding the root can change how we respond to it—and how we understand ourselves.The conversation goes deeper into the connection between childhood experiences, emotional wounds, societal conditioning, and the ways these experiences can shape how we communicate and relate to others. When unresolved wounds influence our behavior, we can unknowingly repeat patterns that hurt ourselves and the people around us.At the heart of this conversation is self-reflection.Instead of only asking, “Why did they treat me this way?”, we are invited to also ask:“What is this behavior revealing?”“What wound might be underneath it?”“What am I carrying that still needs healing?”Lira emphasizes the importance of developing internal validation and self-worth rather than constantly seeking confirmation from others. Real growth begins when we become willing to examine our emotional patterns, recognize our wounds, and take responsibility for the healing that follows.This episode is ultimately an invitation to look beneath the behavior—to understand without excusing, to reflect without judging, and to begin breaking patterns that no longer serve us.Because sometimes the behavior we see is only the surface.The real story is underneath.

    Unhooked: Breaking Porn Addiction Podcast
    Porn, Shame, and the Hungry Ghost: Jeremy Lipkowitz on Addiction, Integrity, and Mindfulness | My Conversation with Jonah Primo on The Overexamined Life Podcast

    Unhooked: Breaking Porn Addiction Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 88:25 Transcription Available


    Sex Help for Smart People
    Is My Vagina Normal? Undoing Vulva and Labia Shame

    Sex Help for Smart People

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 32:05 Transcription Available


    Around 40, I realized I felt disgust about my own genitals. I'd been carrying middle school bullies' words about female bodies in my head for more than thirty years without ever once questioning them, and it wasn't until I started trying to reclaim my own sexuality that it smacked me in the face. It's very hard to feel pleasure in a part of your body you feel bad about.If any of that lands, you are in extremely good company, and I want you to know it is not personal, not yours alone, and not permanent.This episode covers where female genital shame comes from, why it's more layered than penis shame, and the exact four-step process I used to repair my own relationship with my vulva. Plus the myths worth dismantling on the way: that vulvas are dirty, that porn vulvas resemble real ones, and that "vagina" is the right word for the parts that actually give you pleasure.A scope note: this episode addresses cis women's experience specifically. Trans people with vulvas face distinct and important challenges with genital shame that deserve dedicated coverage, and I'm working with a trans colleague on a collaborative episode on that.In this episode:Where vulva shame comes from, and the strange contradiction at the center of it — women are the only sex with an organ that exists purely for our own pleasureWhy middle school is so often where genital shame gets installed, and what's actually going on for the boys doing the installingThe dirty myth, and why calling a vulva dirty makes about as much sense as calling a flower dirtyWhy porn vulvas aren't real-world vulvas, and how to normalize the actual rangeVulva versus vagina, why the distinction matters for your pleasure, and how to pick language that works for youMy four-step repair process: acknowledging the harm, normalizing through exposure, mirror work, and a daily gratitude practiceThe eviction exercise — identifying whose voice is actually in your head, and taking away their voteThere is no downside to loving your genitals. None. And on the other side of that shame is considerably more pleasure than you currently have access to.Topics: vulva shame, genital shame, body shame, female anatomy, vulva vs vagina, labia, porn myths, sexual shame, somatic sex coach, feminist sex coach, women's pleasure, intimacy coach AshevilleResource Links: https://www.labialibrary.org.au/labia_gallery/  https://www.all-vulvas-are-beautiful.com/https://www.thevulvagallery.comSend Laura Fan MailGet my free guide: Get Out of Your Head: A Starter Guide to Releasing the Pressure, Shame, and "Shoulds" Around Intimacy at https://laurajurgens.com/guideMore links: Substack at https://laurajurgens.substack.com/Wheel of Erotic emotions, go to: https://laurajurgens.com/wheelCopyright notice: All content in this podcast is copyrighted and copying, scraping, data mining, or using the content to train AI is prohibited. 

    Daily Christian Meditation
    Power Made Perfect

    Daily Christian Meditation

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 5:40 Transcription Available


    Wherever you are today, this biblical meditation, narrated by James Seawood, offers a quiet space to pause and reconnect with God. Wishing you were stronger? Meditate on 2 Corinthians 12:9. Abide is a Christian meditation app that helps you experience peace and grow in your relationship with Christ through Scripture, prayer, and reflection. Try Abide free for 30 days and explore our premium, ad-free meditations here: https://abide.com/peace Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.

    Brojo Online Podcast
    The Hidden Shame That Controls People Pleasers

    Brojo Online Podcast

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026 88:48


    ✅ Join the Brojo community on Skool to build your confidence and relationships https://www.skool.com/brojo-the-integrity-army-6491/about ✅ This video is a taste of the work I do with clients. For a full, step‑by‑step system on this exact topic, get the deep‑dive course here: https://www.udemy.com/course/shamelessness-social-confidence/?referralCode=A4167161F0AC9F801883 ✅ From “Nice Guy” to Confident Man in 90 Days - check out my main program here: https://theinspirationallifestyle.com/from-nice-guy-to-authentic-and-confident-in-90-days/ ✅ More about Dan Munro… - Coached over 200 clients since 2013. - Prior to that spent 7 years rehabilitating high‑risk criminals in the Department of Corrections. - Published 4 non‑fiction books on confidence, valued living, and overcoming Nice Guy Syndrome. - I spent my first 25 years as a sufferer of Nice Guy Syndrome who struggled with confidence, dating, and meaning in life. I transformed myself with hard work, courageous actions, and a never-ending education in psychology, integrity and confidence. - I went from miserably single to creating a strong marriage and becoming a father. These videos are free, and they're also my marketing: if they help you and you want more, use the links above.

    Lift the Shame: Mothering Free From Diet Culture, Food Guilt, and Body Shame

    The Swimsuit I Couldn't Put OnThere are moments in motherhood that seem ordinary on the surface—but quietly carry years of shame.For many mothers in eating disorder recovery, putting on a swimsuit isn't just about what they're wearing. It's about visibility, vulnerability, and the fear that their body will become the center of the day.In this episode, we're talking about what shame can quietly steal from us—not because we don't love our children, but because shame has a way of convincing us that hiding is safer than being seen.Together, we'll explore how recovery isn't about learning to love every part of your body before you live your life. It's about gently choosing presence, even when shame is still whispering.If you've ever found yourself sitting on the edge of the bed wondering whether you could avoid the beach, the pool, or the family outing altogether, this conversation is for you.In this episode, we'll explore:Why the swimsuit is rarely just about the swimsuitHow body shame quietly steals presence in motherhoodWhy your children need you, not a perfect bodyA gentle invitation to choose one moment of presence this summerYou're not alone on your journey. Check out Lift the Shame, our free virtual support group for mothers and moms-to-be in eating disorder recovery: https://www.crystalkarges.com/lift-the-shame-online-support-group Get full access to Lift The Shame: The Column at crystalkarges.substack.com/subscribe

    Life Transformations
    Hannah - When Pain Becomes Prayer [ENCORE]

    Life Transformations

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 10, 2026


    Life Transformations with Michael Hart Aired: August 10, 2026 on CHRI Radio 99.1FM in Ottawa, Canada. For questions or to schedule an appointment with Elim Counselling Services, call 1-877-544-ELIM(3546) or email mhart@elimcounsellingministry.com. Visit elimcounsellingministry.com for more information. For more CHRI shows, visit chri.ca

    Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update
    FULL SHOW: Horror Movie Date, Jeff's Discount Humiliation + Brooke's Pickleball Shame (8/5/26)

    Brooke and Jeffrey: Second Date Update

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2026 65:50 Transcription Available


    Every Sunday, we will be hosting one of our FULL HOUR episodes from our main show feed, Brooke & Jeffrey! We'd love to hear your feedback...but please send all negative reviews to Jeffrey. FULL SHOW: Wednesday, August 5th 2026 Curious if we look as bad as we sound? Follow us @BrookeandJeffrey: Youtube Instagram TikTok BrookeandJeffrey.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Gary and Shannon
    Overtime: Red Bull Shame & Moving In With Seniors

    Gary and Shannon

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2026 30:10 Transcription Available


    Gary & Shannon debate energy drinks, Red Bull judgment, snoring, sleep habits, and whether we’re all doing wellness wrong. Then they dig into the growing trend of younger adults moving into senior living communities for cheaper housing, unexpected friendships, and a sense of community they weren’t finding anywhere else.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    Gospel Fellowship Presbyterian Church

    Welcome to our Podcast. Listen to Rev. Lincoln Larsen as he preaches on Genesis 3:7-7Sin and Shame

    NOLA TRASH TALK
    NOLA TRASH TALK #584 08/09/2026 - Local Politicians For The Hall of the Shame

    NOLA TRASH TALK

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2026 44:59


    Helena Moreno doubles down on bad looks by hanging with her best friend.

    Mental Illness Happy Hour
    #812 Shame & Leading Double Lives - Krissy Johnson

    Mental Illness Happy Hour

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2026 151:12


    Krissy Johnson is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist (LMFT) and devoted MIHH listener. She opens up about escaping a manipulative relationship, shedding her secrecy and shame, and what led her to become a therapist. More about Krissy:www.inthelifetherapy.comIG handle: @inthelifetherapyFB: In the Life TherapyThis episode is sponsored Quince. Go to www.Quince.com/mental for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns. Now available in Canada, too.This episode is sponsored by Alma. Search their directory of over 20,000 therapists with different specialities, life experiences, and identities, and 99% of them take insurance. Go to www.HelloAlma.com/happyhourThis episode is sponsored by Timeline. Timeline's clinically proven formula is now available at a new, lower price . Mitopure now starts at $99, with the exact same science and formula and listeners can still get 20% off when they go to www.timeline.com/MENTALIf you're interested in seeing or buying the furniture that Paul designs and makes follow his IG @ShapedFurniture or visit the website www.shapedfurniture.comWAYS TO HELP THE MIHH PODCASTSubscribe via Apple Podcasts (or whatever player you use). It costs nothing. It's extremely helpful to have your subscription set to download all episodes automatically. https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/mental-illness-happy-hour/id427377900?mt=2Spread the word via social media. It costs nothing.Our website is www.mentalpod.com our FB is www.Facebook.com/mentalpod and our Twitter and Instagram are both @Mentalpod Become a much-needed Patreon monthly-donor (with occasional rewards) for as little as $1/month at www.Patreon.com/mentalpod Become a one-time or monthly donor via PayPal at https://mentalpod.com/donateYou can also donate via Zelle (make payment to mentalpod@gmail.com) To donate via Venmo make payment to @Mentalpod See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

    Freedomain with Stefan Molyneux
    6475 Pushing 30 - Can't Get STARTED! CALL IN SHOW

    Freedomain with Stefan Molyneux

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 7, 2026 133:37


    Philosopher Stefan Molyneux talks with a caller stuck in his late 20s after his parents split at 13, leaving him bullied, overweight, self-harming, and numbed by porn and weed. He pushes the man to stop hiding and tell his parents the straight truth about their neglect so he can drop the shame and get moving on work and independence.GET FREEDOMAIN MERCH! https://shop.freedomain.com/SUBSCRIBE TO ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneuxFollow me on Youtube! https://www.youtube.com/@freedomain1GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/FREEDOMAIN2026

    A Slob Comes Clean
    522: When Your Husband Won’t Declutter, Shame When You Fall Off Track, and Helping Older Family Members

    A Slob Comes Clean

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 6, 2026 41:31


    As always, I’m taking time off during the summer. We’re sharing the audio of previous live Q&As that I did on YouTube. If you only listen to the podcast, this will be all new to you! We’ll be back to our regular format mid-August. This episode includes my answers to questions about when your husband […] The post 522: When Your Husband Won’t Declutter, Shame When You Fall Off Track, and Helping Older Family Members appeared first on Dana K. White: A Slob Comes Clean.

    Brooke and Jubal
    FULL SHOW: Horror Movie Date, Jeff's Discount Humiliation + Brooke's Pickleball Shame (8/5/26)

    Brooke and Jubal

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 5, 2026 65:50 Transcription Available


    FULL SHOW: Thursday, August 5th 2026 Curious if we look as bad as we sound? Follow us @BrookeandJeffrey: Youtube Instagram TikTok BrookeandJeffrey.comSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

    The Bible in a Year (with Fr. Mike Schmitz)
    Day 216: The Suffering Servant (2026)

    The Bible in a Year (with Fr. Mike Schmitz)

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 4, 2026 20:57


    Fr. Mike marvels at the beauty of Isaiah 53, which reveals that Jesus is the Lord's suffering servant and also zeroes in on Ezekiel 15, which reminds us that without God we are like a useless vine that bears no fruit. Today we read Isaiah 53-54, Ezekiel 14-15, and Proverbs 12:25-28. For the complete reading plan, visit ascensionpress.com/bibleinayear. Please note: The Bible contains adult themes that may not be suitable for children - parental discretion is advised.