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Stefan Molyneux speaks with a mid-30s caller facing personal challenges from an injury, a troubled family past, and PTSD from a violent crime. The discussion explores shame, unresolved grief over his father's death, and the caller's self-perception. Molyneux emphasizes vulnerability and the pursuit of growth amid trauma.SUBSCRIBE TO ME ON X! https://x.com/StefanMolyneuxFollow me on Youtube! https://www.youtube.com/@freedomain1GET MY NEW BOOK 'PEACEFUL PARENTING', THE INTERACTIVE PEACEFUL PARENTING AI, AND THE FULL AUDIOBOOK!https://peacefulparenting.com/Join the PREMIUM philosophy community on the web for free!Subscribers get 12 HOURS on the "Truth About the French Revolution," multiple interactive multi-lingual philosophy AIs trained on thousands of hours of my material - as well as AIs for Real-Time Relationships, Bitcoin, Peaceful Parenting, and Call-In Shows!You also receive private livestreams, HUNDREDS of exclusive premium shows, early release podcasts, the 22 Part History of Philosophers series and much more!See you soon!https://freedomain.locals.com/support/promo/UPB2025
Shame is one of the biggest barriers to change, but what if understanding where it comes from could help you finally release it? We often see shame as something that lives only inside of us, but it actually has two sides: the external messages we've absorbed from the world around us, and the internalized beliefs that shape how we see ourselves. In this episode, coach Kat Jenkins explores how these two layers of shame work together to keep you stuck in cycles of disconnection and self-criticism. You'll hear practical ways to start releasing shame by questioning where it came from, choosing what to let go of, and learning to respond with compassion instead of criticism. Kat also shares somatic tools to help calm your body when shame arises so you can feel grounded, safe, and open to connection again. Get full show notes, transcript, and more information here: https://centerforovercoming.com/post/understanding-healing-two-sides-shame-katClick here to sign up for my free masterclass, How to Overcome Pornography without using Willpower: https://sarabrewer.com/masterclass
Welcome to Season 5, Episode 43! This episode's guest is Sheilah Jane. She's a writer, entrepreneur and wellness advocate. Her latest work is a heartfelt memoir called Shadows and Sunrises: A True Story of Shame, Strength, and Rebirth Across Continents. In it she brings lived experience and lyrical prose to tell the story of her life and family. Her book is a powerful memoir that was released on October 7, 2025. From a childhood under Martial Law in the Philippines to rebuilding a life in America, Shadows and Sunrises traces Sheilah Jane's journey through teen motherhood, cultural dislocation, and the quiet rituals that held her together. Outside of writing, Sheila is a Certified Yoga Instructor and the co-founder of Sempre Avanti Imports, which is focused on family-run wineries and distilleries. She is also the founder of Foxy Flower CBD, which is rooted in natural wellness. To learn more about Sheilah's work, you can visit her website, follow her on instagram @sheilajaneauthor, and of course, buy Shadows and Sunrises: A True Story of Shame, Strength, and Rebirth Across Continents. If you like what we do, please share, follow, and like us in your podcast directory of choice or on Instagram @AAHistory101. For previous episodes and resources, please visit our site at https://asianamericanhistory101.libsyn.com or our links at http://castpie.com/AAHistory101. If you have any questions, comments or suggestions, email us at info@aahistory101.com.
The Human Equation with Joe Pangaro – Our decisions are rarely made in a vacuum of logic. Emotions color our perceptions, influence our relationships, and even affect our physical health. Chronic anger, for instance, can lead to high blood pressure, anxiety, and depression. Grief can immobilize us. Shame can isolate us. But emotions also have the power to uplift. Love fosters connection...
The Shadow of Shame — Pastor Barry Baugh In this message, Pastor Barry unpacks the weight of shame—where it comes from, how it causes us to hide, and how God invites us to step into the light. From the Garden of Eden to the cross, we see that shame was never God's design for us. To learn more about Access Church, visit access.tv
01:00 Why Are People So Emotionally Invested In Trump's White House Renovations? https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=164461 05:00 Democrats in Uproar Over Trump's White House Renovations, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QhtwH_WYFx8 19:00 Left loses its mind over Trump's ballroom, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=27LCqYzXX_U 28:00 Trump Slams "Third Rate Reporters" Criticizing His Ballroom As Democrats Decry East Wing Demolition, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dTfDa2WR2P0 37:00 How Do You Touch The Face Of God?, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=164528 43:00 The Washington Post's Op/Ed Section Has Shifted During 2025, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=164505 45:00 Democrats in Meltdown Over Trump's White House Ballroom, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EkPf_jVuX58 47:30 A DEEPER Look Into Tom Landry's 40 Defense- The Mad Scientist-WARNING EXCESSIVE CONTACT, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=e_FGbZO170o 55:00 WP: Nation's biggest law firms back off from challenging Trump policies, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=164480 1:01:30 Trump's ballroom, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7hOLeDwPDpM 1:03:30 Trump Demolishes East Wing, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H50Go28kb7A 1:22:00 "But basketball has proven especially susceptible to foul play." https://www.wsj.com/sports/basketball/nba-gambling-adam-silver-rozier-billups-b8e27662?mod=hp_lead_pos7 1:37:00 NYT: Can Anyone Rescue the Trafficked Girls of L.A.'s Figueroa Street? https://www.nytimes.com/2025/10/26/magazine/sex-trafficking-girls-la-figueroa.html 1:40:00 When do children deserve autonomy? https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=164465 1:50:00 Shame, Pride, and Guilt with Daniel Sznycer, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OkCBaBSvSzs 1:57:50 The New Right's New Home with Helen Andrews, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GJ30HxpvOyY 2:02:20 Stop buying the 'Left v. Right' myth | Hyrum and Verlan Lewis, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xOMIJvbosRA 2:04:40 How I Fell In Love With The Dodgers & Cowboys, https://lukeford.net/blog/?p=164453 2:06:00 WSJ is the best newspaper in the world, Best Newspaper In The Worldhttps://lukeford.net/blog/?p=164420 2:14:30 Trump sends in the National Guard, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FAwVZa9Ur-g 2:24:30 The AI Economist: The Skill You Need to Stay Employed in the Age of AI, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UhfpHwcrx6c 2:28:00 Comey, Government Shutdown, Charlie Kirk Fallout & More | Mark Halperin, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Z3Q68aWmnI4 2:32:00 James Comey is not a good guy, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=62sJUS2azuQ 2:45:00 The spooky energy between Nicole Kidman and Keith Urban 2:47:00 David Pinsof: The Alliance Theory of Political Belief Systems, Meaning of Life, and Morality, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7kMPxH0yxts 3:00:00 The function of morality 3:10:00 Sheldon Solomon - The Worm at the Core: On the Role of Death in Life, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1tkkmInXfOE 3:20:00 The Legacy of Ernest Becker: Death, Ideologies, and Cultures, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7T8WqjciN1E 3:27:40 Renewing the Old, Sanctifying the New with Marc Shapiro, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xwnXChROx2k 3:35:00 The Radical Messages of Rav Kook for Orthodox Jews Today, with Professor Marc Shapiro, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=wrh4bL1-zvU 3:46:00 When God called on Jews to return to the land and to history 3:50:00 The Case for a New U.S. Industrial Policy | Ian Fletcher, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=awLdN6CBdB8 3:51:00 A strong dollar sounds good
College GameDay has officially moved on from the Big 12 — and Saturday's show proved it.Heartland College Sports' Pete Mundo breaks down how ESPN's flagship pregame show barely mentioned the Big 12 in Week 9, hasn't visited a Big 12 campus in over two years, and what that says about ESPN's future with the conference.The Big 12 has options — including its growing partnership with TNT — but it might finally be time to move on from ESPN.Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy
I was abused growing up, and it led me to drinking too much. Will that keep me from Heaven? How can I deal with the guilt and shame that has come from the abuse? How can I share my faith with my young adult children without seeming too pushy?
We all carry shame—it's part of the human experience. But what if there was a way to transform that shame into something more nurturing and supportive? In this episode, we welcome back Jessica Fern and David Cooley to discuss their groundbreaking new book, Transforming the Shame Triangle: From Shame to Love with Parts Work. Jessica describes this as her most important book yet!This isn't just another relationship book—it's a practical guide to understanding and transforming the internal patterns that keep us stuck in cycles of shame, self-criticism, and unhealthy coping mechanisms. Whether you're in a monogamous or non-monogamous relationship, the tools and insights shared in this conversation can help you build more authentic connections with yourself and others.In this episode, we talk about:— What the "shame triangle" is and how it operates within us— How shame narratives are inherited from family, culture, and society rather than being personal flaws— The ways our inner critic can transform into an inner coach with more supportive messaging— How our "escaper" behaviors (like perfectionism, numbing out, or overworking) can evolve into inner nurturers— The connection between attachment styles and our preferred escape strategies— Why addressing our shame triangle is essential for authentic living rather than just surviving— Practical ways to recognize when you're caught in the shame triangle during interactions with partners— How to create a shared language around shame that can deepen intimacy and understanding— The importance of differentiating between raw emotional experiences and the shame stories we tell about them— How this work can help break cycles of intergenerational traumaResources mentioned in this episode:— Jessica and David's new book: Transforming the Shame Triangle: From Shame to Love with Parts Work (out October 31st)— Jessica's website— David's websiteJOIN The Year Of Opening® community for a full year of learning & support. Registration is open now at www.TheYearOfOpening.comLearn the 5 secrets to open your relationship the smart wayAre you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.comGet the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything hereMusic: Dance of Felt by Blue Dot Sessions
Have you ever wondered that, and even bigger perhaps what do I do about these WARNING LIGHTS Flashing in my soul. Maybe what's the little caricature on the flashing light and is the light red or yellow?
When money is tight, everything feels urgent. Rent, groceries, a credit card bill, and that unexpected car repair. In this episode, we walk through a survival-mode framework for prioritizing essentials, organizing a bare-minimum budget, and avoiding common traps that lead to a deeper debt spiral. We discuss why “loud” debts aren't always the ones you should pay first, and when it makes sense to speak with a Licensed Insolvency Trustee about a consumer proposal. If the math “isn't mathing” this guide helps you focus on stability right now and a path to rebuild next. 00:00 – How to Make Smart Decisions in Survival Mode 03:30 – Inflation Pressure: Why Everything Feels Urgent 06:00 – What Comes First: Rent, Utilities, and Food 09:00 – Organizing Finances: Your Personal Priority Order 12:00 – Grocery Strategies That Stretch a Tight Budget 13:30 – Collections 101: Small Debts Are Loud, Big Debts Need a Plan 15:00 – Shame, Stress, and the Realities Canadians Face 19:00 – Don't Let the Loudest Creditor Set Your Budget 23:00 – Joe Debtor Study: What We Know & Why You Have Options 26:00 – Negotiating with Creditors & How Consumer Proposals Work 28:00 – Survival First, Debt Strategy Second: Keep Moving Forward Hidden Costs on Food in Canada: The Food Professor on Debt Free in 30 Blows Up Our TikTok Food Inflation Exposed: The Surprising Truth About Grocery Prices - The Food Professor on Debt Free in 30 Ways To Survive Without A Credit Card Personal Budgeting Help and Free Spreadsheet DIY Credit Repair Strategies and Free Course Sign Up for the Monthly Debt Free Digest Hoyes Michalos YouTube Channel Disclaimer: The information provided in the Debt Free in 30 Podcast is for entertainment and informational purposes only and is not intended as personal financial advice. Individual financial situations vary and may require personal guidance from a financial professional. The views expressed in this episode do not necessarily reflect the opinions of Hoyes, Michalos & Associates, or any other affiliated organizations. We do not endorse or guarantee the effectiveness of any specific financial institutions, strategies, or digital tools/apps discussed.
Fantasy Football show for Oct 24, 2025. Week 8 start/sit advice for fantasy football lineups with tons of teams on bye! Many matchups covered on today's show with fantasy football player outlooks. Plus, injury updates, and a recap of Thursday Night Football! Manage your redraft, keeper, and dynasty fantasy football teams with the #1 fantasy football podcast.(00:00) Intro(00:45) Thursday Night Recap(07:50) Footclan Friday(08:30) NFL News(13:45) Fantasy Forecast(14:35) Bears at Ravens(21:15) 49ers at Texans(28:10) Buccaneers at Saints(33:05) Cowboys at Broncos(38:50) Titans at Colts(43:15) Packers at Steelers(48:25) Commanders at Chiefs(56:00 ) Fantasy Faceoff + Wheel of ShameConnect with the show:Subscribe on YouTubeVisit us on the WebSupport the ShowFollow on XFollow on InstagramJoin our Discord Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
HOUR 3- The Box of Shame, Lawyer Intern Arguments and MORE full 1943 Fri, 24 Oct 2025 15:42:00 +0000 JVsTbEf5Gzglih9zLd6PJZ2yOfxuFf8Y society & culture Klein/Ally Show: The Podcast society & culture HOUR 3- The Box of Shame, Lawyer Intern Arguments and MORE Klein.Ally.Show on KROQ is more than just a "dynamic, irreverent morning radio show that mixes humor, pop culture, and unpredictable conversation with a heavy dose of realness." (but thanks for that quote anyway). Hosted by Klein, Ally, and a cast of weirdos (both on the team and from their audience), the show is known for its raw, offbeat style, offering a mix of sarcastic banter, candid interviews, and an unfiltered take on everything from culture to the chaos of everyday life. With a loyal, engaged fanbase and an addiction for pushing boundaries, the show delivers the perfect blend of humor and insight, all while keeping things fun, fresh, and sometimes a little bit illegal. 2024 © 2021 Audacy, Inc. Society & Culture False https://player.amperwavepodcasting
Shame is one of the most isolating and painful emotions we can experience—especially after betrayal. In this episode, I dive deep into how internalized shame takes root, how it quietly shapes our thoughts, and how it keeps us locked in cycles of pain and disconnection. Whether you were the one betrayed or the one who did the betraying, shame shows up in powerful, sneaky ways that can make us believe we are the problem instead of simply experiencing something painful. I walk through how shame forms, what the “shame loop” looks like in real life, and how to recognize the moment it begins hijacking your nervous system. More importantly, I share the practical steps you can take to meet shame with awareness, compassion, and truth—so you can begin to dissolve its power and reconnect with yourself and others. Key Takeaways: Shame often disguises itself as truth, but it's a lie. Recognizing the “shame loop” is the first step out of it. Self-compassion, context, and connection dissolve shame's grip. Healing begins when we stop proving shame right. If you're ready to learn how to break free from internalized shame and build real self-trust, I invite you to apply for my program at https://andreagiles.com/get-your-life-back/. Mentioned in this episode: Men's group waitlist opt-in: https://portal.andreagiles.com/mens-group-waitlist Couples coaching waitlist opt-in: https://portal.andreagiles.com/couples-coaching-waitlist More from me: Please leave a rating and review if you like our podcast: https://ratethispodcast.com/healfrominfidelity Sign up for the $47 class "Decide: How to Commit to Staying or Going After Infidelity" here: https://portal.andreagiles.com/decide Apply to join the "Get Your Life Back After Infidelity" group program here: https://andreagiles.com/get-your-life-back/ Follow me on Instagram at: https://www.instagram.com/theinfidelitycoach/ Please click the button to subscribe so you don't miss any episodes! For transcripts and other available downloads, please visit my website at https://andreagiles.com/podcast/ © 2020 - 2025 Andrea Giles
In this episode, Brenda J and Karen B sit down with author and speaker Daniel Cruz to discuss his powerful new book, Don't Adopt Until You Read This Book! — Transracial Adoption: From a Biracial Adoptee's Perspective. Written from the viewpoint of a biracial adoptee, Daniel's story challenges listeners to rethink what it means to love and support adopted children — especially in transracial adoptions. Daniel shares his deeply personal journey. For years, he had no idea who his biological parents were or even what race he was. As he grew older, the loss of identity and belonging led to trauma and shame that he now speaks of with honesty and compassion. In this conversation, Daniel unpacks why his book isn't anti-adoption but pro-truth, calling adoptive parents to embrace their child's culture and heritage so every child knows who they are and where they come from. He also shares the incredible story of finding his birth parents through a DNA test and how his journey led to self-discovery and finding his true identity in Christ. Brenda opens up about her own experiences raising biracial children and how this conversation helped her recognize and confront her own racial blind spots. This episode is an honest, heartfelt discussion about race, adoption, identity, and faith — a must-listen. https://multiracial-voice.beehiiv.com https://www.amazon.com/Dont-Adopt-Transracial-adoption-perspective/dp/B0FR3QZRCJ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=2CYV2QQAV0VN&dib=eyJ2IjoiMSJ9.vIGN7PsnfwXDaa9IYVGI3FX5rpIa-n9CgXEpEVhXLEI.zfrOwAjnf46AVAzY_BXZ5gKapKbFzU1bZ8c_jr-mTwM&dib_tag=se&keywords=dont+adopt+until+you+read+this+book&qid=1761264787&sprefix=dont+adopt+%2Caps%2C176&sr=8-1 https://hangingontohope.org
Why do so many high achievers feel like frauds? In this episode, Brett and Joe explore a topic near and dear to the hearts of anyone who has ever thought they needed to be someone else to be loved: Imposter Syndrome. Together, they explore:Our relationship to shame and self-worthAntidotes to imposter syndromeThe childhood experiences that encourage imposter syndromeImplications in leadership and businessDive Deeper:Imposter Syndrome - Psychology TodayImposter Syndrome & Self Compassion - AAPAAcademic paper on imposter syndromeSend us your questions on Twitter, through our website, or in our Circle community! Joe on X: @FU_JoeHudsonBrett on X: @airkistler AOA on X: @artofaccompVisit Us: www.artofaccomplishment.com We invite you to experience our work. Reserve your spot at www.view.life/explore Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
Mike and Deuce reviewed Baker Mayfield's "dirty" comments about the Saints. They discussed the final injury report for the two teams entering Week 8. Marc Spears, a senior NBA writer for Andscape, joined Fans and the Pro. Spears previewed the Pelicans' home opener against the San Antonio Spurs and rising superstar center Victor Wembanyama. Spears also shared his thoughts on Zion Williamson, the NBA's rookie class, and the Pelicans' upcoming matchup against the Celtics.
JOIN THE 7 DAY RESET - ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset In this powerful episode of The Rebuilt Man Podcast, Coach Frank Rich exposes one of the most dangerous battles facing men today, the hidden war between faith and pornography. If you're a Christian man who's prayed, “God, please help me stop,” but still find yourself trapped in the same cycle of shame and relapse, this episode will give you the truth you've been missing. Frank breaks down the five root reasons so many Christian men stay stuck in porn addiction, from guilt and confusion around sexuality, to isolation, self-reliance, and the lack of real purpose and reveals the practical and spiritual tools to finally break free. This isn't just about quitting a bad habit. This is about reclaiming your identity, your integrity, and your calling as a man of God. Key Takeaways: This isn't just a bad habit — it's spiritual warfare. Over 70% of Christian men struggle with pornography. Shame and secrecy are the fuel that keep addiction alive. You cannot heal what you hide. Sex is sacred, not sinful — learn to honor, not suppress, desire. Isolation breeds addiction; brotherhood builds freedom. Willpower alone will fail — transformation comes through grace, structure, and surrender. A man without vision will always settle for distraction. Freedom requires both truth and a tribe. You were created to lead, not live in shame. Connect & Take Action Join The Rebuilt Man Brotherhood for a free 7-day trial and get access to live coaching, accountability, and the tools to finally break free. ▶️ www.therebuiltman.com/7dayreset – Follow Coach Frank: IG - https://www.instagram.com/coachfrankrich YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@CoachFrankRich Website - https://www.rebuiltrecovery.com/homepage
Ever catch yourself thinking, “I should've figured this out by now”? That's not just self-doubt talking—that's SHAME: Should Have Already Mastered Everything. In this empowering episode of This Woman Can, Janice Sutherland breaks down the pressure so many Black women feel to have life completely “together” by midlife. From careers and confidence to technology and transitions, SHAME shows up everywhere—and it's time to call it out. Janice shares how this belief takes root in perfectionism, representation, and survival-driven success, and how to replace it with self-compassion, curiosity, and courage. You'll learn how to embrace being a beginner again, redefine mastery on your own terms, and remember that midlife isn't a deadline, it's your do-over. Because you're not here to master everything, you're here to live everything. Tune in, laugh a little, and leave lighter, wiser, and ready to evolve. Ready to create your fearless future? Enroll in my self-paced program 50 Forward: Fearless Future - the step-by-step guide to designing your next chapter with clarity, confidence, and joy. ------------------------------------------------------------------------------ Are you a mature Black woman feeling stuck in your career? Discover how to plan your next chapter with confidence and clarity. Subscribe to my FREE newsletter for exclusive career tips for the mature Black woman: https://www.janicesutherland.com/subscribe-to-twc-newsletter I'm Janice Sutherland, a Career and Life Strategist passionate about helping mature Black women navigate their midlife journeys. I help you discover your own answers, cultivate confidence, gain clarity, and effectively self-advocate for success. Connect with Janice: Web: https://www.janicesutherland.com Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/iamjanicesutherland/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/iamjanicesutherland YouTube Channel: https://www.youtube.com/@thiswomancan
Want help uncovering the real reasons behind your urges and building a plan to overcome your pornography use? Click here to book a free call with Sam to get help to overcome pornography – https://stopporn.info/ Have questions you want me to address on future podcast episodes? Email me here: sam@healingcouples.org Episode show notes: Perfectionism might look like high standards — but for many men, it's actually fear in disguise. In this episode, we talk about how the pressure to always “get it right” becomes one of the biggest hidden triggers for porn use. You'll learn why feelings of failure, shame, and “not being enough” create the emotional weight that drives the urge to escape through pornography — and how to break that cycle for good. Instead of fighting perfectionism with more willpower or affirmations, you'll discover how to pinpoint the real issue underneath it — whether it's stress, disconnection, or a skill that just needs to be built. This episode will help you: Understand the root cause of pornography addiction linked to perfectionism and shame. Learn how to overcome porn urges by removing the emotional pressure that fuels them. Build a stronger sense of self-worth that's not tied to performance or success. See failure differently — not as proof you're broken, but as feedback about your system that can be improved. If you've ever felt like you have to be perfect to feel worthy — or that one slip means you've ruined all your progress — this episode will help you breathe again. You'll see how to find peace, rebuild confidence, and take your next step forward in porn addiction recovery with clarity and compassion.
In this deeply vulnerable episode, Dara explores why we resist the very tools that could transform our lives, using a client's confession about avoiding thought downloads as the starting point for understanding our patterns of self-sabotage. Key Topics Covered:
With your co-hostesses: Lyschel Burket from HopeRedefined.org Bonny Burns from StrongWives.com with special guest, Cat Etherington from nakedtruthproject.com Listen now: Shame has a sneaky way of convincing us the our brokenness is a result of the fact we're defective at our core, we're not enough, or that we should stay silent. In this conversation, we'll unpack how shame shows up, why it feels so heavy, and how finding safe spaces can begin to lift its weight. If you've ever thought, ‘Maybe it's me,' this episode is for you. Support HFW through a donation We Will be Discussing: Cat explains the very interesting, “shame containment theory.” How does shame show up for partners? Resources mentioned in this show: Lisa Etherson – The Shame Training Company
In this potent conversation, I sit down with Yarrow Kae—a mentor, spiritual guide, healer, and clinically trained therapist who bridges ancient wisdom with modern psychology—to explore what it really means to embody the truth of who you are. Yarrow's story is nothing short of extraordinary: at 19, she downloaded enlightenment on the dance floor of a rave, setting her on a decades-long journey of integration, nervous system healing, and self-mastery. Her work now blends somatics, depth psychology, energetics, and spirituality to help others shift at a cellular level and live from their unique magnetic vibration.Together, we dive deep into the subtle ways our attachment patterns, shame stories, and identity constructs keep us bound—often in ways that feel “productive” or “good.” From perfectionism and people-pleasing to the spiritual bypassing that hides beneath our self-development work, this conversation unveils the unconscious habits that keep us safe but small. Yarrow shares how nervous system regulation and secure attachment create the foundation for true embodiment—and how the willingness to be radically honest with ourselves is the real portal to freedom.If you've been craving deeper self-trust, or if you're ready to stop performing the “healed” version of yourself and start living as the embodied one—this episode will speak straight to your soul. You'll walk away feeling both challenged and seen, with new language for your own evolution and practical wisdom to anchor your healing in your body.In this episode, we explore:How attachment wounds subtly shape your nervous system, identity, and relationshipsThe link between shame, anxiety, and perfectionism—and how these patterns keep us stuck in controlWhy even “productive” habits like personal growth or cleaning can become addictions rooted in shame or avoidanceThe importance of nervous system safety in receiving love, abundance, and regulationHow to identify the hidden ways you sacrifice authenticity for attachmentWhat it really means to worship at the altar of you—and how self-devotion becomes the ultimate act of sovereigntyThe power of radical honesty and self-compassion in releasing control and embodying freedomHow to alchemize rage, grief, and shame into embodied truthWhat happens when you finally allow yourself to be seen, safe, and free—on your own termsBe sure to hit subscribe so you never miss the latest episode!Connect with Yarrow Kae:Instagram: @yarrowkaeYouTube: Yarrow Kae AcademyThe Composer: heal-with-yarrow.teachable.com/p/the-composerThe Portal: heal-with-yarrow.teachable.com/p/the-portalConnect with Emily:Website: www.EmilyReuschel.comInstagram: @emilyreuschelFacebook: Emily ReuschelLinkedIn: Emily ReuschelJoin my Book Insiders List:
It's not every day that the most interesting story in American politics is a Senate primary in Maine, but here we are. This race, at least for now, has everything: a populist outsider, a messy internal fight, a supposedly safe Democrat, and a very unfortunate tattoo. If the Democrats blow a winnable seat in 2026, you can probably trace it back to this moment, and to one name: Graham Platner.Platner launched his campaign with the kind of fire Democrats usually dream of and then quickly move to kill. He's ex-military, tattooed, and came out swinging against the party establishment. Think Fetterman with a more overtly socialist bent — and the endorsements to match. Bernie Sanders, Ro Khanna, a digital team built for viral insurgency. His launch video was raw and effective, casting him as the only one who'd fight Collins like it meant something. But before he could define himself, the knives came out. Old Reddit comments. Unpolished statements. And most notably, a chest tattoo that bears an uncomfortable resemblance to an SS death's head symbol.Politics Politics Politics is a reader-supported publication. To receive new posts and support my work, consider becoming a free or paid subscriber.Now, he says the tattoo was a drunk decision made while serving overseas — something picked off the wall at a shop in Croatia. That tracks. Plenty of service members come home with something dumb etched into their skin. But politics isn't fair. The second it surfaced, it became a narrative — a “secret Nazi” smear that, while ridiculous, is now baked into every conversation about the guy. And that's not something most voters are willing to fact-check. The perception — not the reality — becomes the problem.Still, the bigger issue isn't the ink. It's how Platner handled it. His entire appeal is built on strength and authenticity — and he responded like a nervous staffer trying to keep his job. The apology video was soft. It was long. It was careful. None of that fits the image he's built. If you're running on being the guy who doesn't back down, you can't fold the first time someone calls you a name. He needed to come out swinging — not just at the press, but at the party that clearly doesn't want him there.Because make no mistake, they don't. Janet Mills is the Schumer pick. She's the “safe” one — a proven fundraiser, a party loyalist, and the kind of candidate who rarely wins a general in a state like Maine but always gets through the primary. That's why the long knives came out for Platner. And if he doesn't wake up and fight them like they're already trying to end his campaign — which they are — then he doesn't deserve the spot. Not because he's a bad guy, or because he's unelectable. But because he misunderstood the moment.This is a fight. Not a conversation. Not a listening tour. A fight. And if he doesn't start treating it like one, he's already lost.Chapters00:00:00 - Intro00:02:26 - Graham Platner00:16:10 - Interview with Josh Jennings and Andrew Heaton00:45:58 - Update00:46:13 - Trump-Putin00:49:03 - Israel-Hamas00:52:30 - Shutdown00:56:30 - Interview with Josh Jennings and Andrew Heaton, con't01:23:09 - Wrap-up This is a public episode. If you'd like to discuss this with other subscribers or get access to bonus episodes, visit www.politicspoliticspolitics.com/subscribe
There's a kind of faith that performs instead of worships, and eventually, that kind of faith breaks down. This week on Win Today, Paul and Hannah McClure from Bethel Music join me to talk about the slow drift from softness to cynicism in the life of a believer. We talk about the orphan spirit, fake faith that looks right but can't hold weight, and how disappointment left untreated eventually hardens into disconnection. We also confront the myth that faith equals certainty, and why true worship isn't just a song; it's surrender in the absence of clarity. For anyone who's battled disillusionment in church, questioned the language of worship, or wondered whether they're singing words they don't believe anymore, this conversation offers both confrontation and comfort. Paul and Hannah don't sugarcoat the road. But they do point to healing. This isn't about emotional hype. It's about reclaiming your heart before it turns cold. You'll learn: Why disappointment often precedes cynicism What the orphan spirit really is—and how it forms How fake faith is often learned, not chosen Why worship without surrender is just noise How to walk with God when certainty disappears Guest Bio Paul and Hannah McClure are worship leaders, songwriters, and pastors with Bethel Music. Known for their vulnerability, depth, and refusal to perform, their ministry helps people reconnect with a God who isn't afraid of pain. They've led a generation to encounter God through honesty, not hype. Their story is one of surrender, resilience, and the long journey back from burnout, cynicism, and emotional numbness. Episode Links Show Notes Buy my NEW BOOK "Healing What You Can't Erase" here! Invite me to speak at your church or event. Connect with me @WINTODAYChris on Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and YouTube.
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On this episode Aaron and Nate discuss recovery quotes and prescribe them for others. This week, Nate and Aaron interview Steven Shields. Steven returns and is moving fast. Steve wanted to talk to Aaron, who starts showering with questions. Therapy lacks culture and is useless. Steve teaches: recover, heal, done, so hopeful! Guidance on how to find a therapist, with a purpose. How to fire your therapist or cult, if it isn't uplifting and forward moving. Also, guidance on how to lead a peer recovery group, STICK TO THE SCRIPT! Don't forget to rate and subscribe on your favorite podcast players.Links: Accepted Life Unashamed Unafraid Podcast Steve Shields EmailNov 7-9, 2025 Santa Fe, NM Samson Summit Nov 7-9, 2025 The Wild & Sacred Journey, Womens Retreat If you have thoughts or questions and you'd like the guys to address in upcoming episodes or suggestions for future guests, please drop a note to piratemonkpodcast@gmail.com.The music on this podcast is contributed by members of the Samson Society.For more information on this ministry, please visit samsonsociety.com. Support for the women in our lives who have been impacted by our choices is available at sarahsociety.com.The Pirate Monk Podcast is provided by Samson Society, a ministry of Samson House, a 501(c)3 nonprofit. To enjoy future Pirate Monk podcasts, please consider a contribution to Samson House. Recovery is not for people who need it but for people who want it. Accepted Therapy and Coaching Accepted Therapy & Coaching MORE THAN A THERAPIST. Healing is possible, and healing can happen today. Take the first step towards a healthier, happier, and more whole life. Written by Justin Martin Time to read Less than a minute Feb 13th, 2024 unashamedunafraid.com Unashamed Unafraid A podcast unashamed about sexual addiction recovery and unafraid of coming unto Christ for healing. Hope. Love. Compassion. Education. Healing. Samson House Store 2025 Samson Summit — Samson House Store Join us for an unforgettable weekend to explore your story, deepen your relationships, and live out your story as fully as God intended. When: November 7-9, 2025 Where: Camp Glorieta , a 2,400-acre campus located about 15 miles southeast of Santa Fe, New Mexico lodging options available. Samson House Store Wild & Sacred Journey — Samson House Store Join us during the Samson Summit on November 7-9, 2025, for The Wild and Sacred Journey , a transformative weekend retreat designed exclusively for women to reconnect with the wild, playful, and sacred aspects of themselves. This experience weaves together moments of creative expression and deep reflection. Samson Society Help Us Reach More Men - Samson Society This site, built and maintained by Samson House, is an effort to turn the computer or smartphone—which has often served as an instrument of destruction—into an instrument of healing. Through this site and the Samson app, men all around the world are being invited into the kind of authentic conversation that actually meets our deepest needs.
Bill Belichick cleared another hurdle to get closer to the Hall of Fame and regardless about how everyone feels about him, everyone should agree that not getting in on that first ballot would be an absolute disgrace.
Shame the Antithesis of Grace (Part 2) by Dr. Cindy Johnson
Many high-achieving, sensitive women find themselves trapped in cycles of self-doubt, insecurity, and relentless self-criticism—uncertain why, despite so much effort and insight, they can't seem to break free. Emma Lyons reveals that the real saboteur isn't actually your own voice, but an inner narcissist—a toxic, controlling dialogue internalized from years of shame and outside judgment. This inner critic hijacks your confidence, makes you overthink, and convinces you that shrinking yourself is the safest option, all while masquerading as your genuine self. Recognizing that this thought pattern isn't actually you, but a parasitic voice you've absorbed, is a turning point. Emma calls out the shame-based systems and conditioning that fuel perfectionism, people-pleasing, and the invisible wounds women carry, often believing they must bear them alone. She empowers women to expose these scripts, break the trance of internalized shame, and reclaim confidence, calm, and self-worth from the inside out. If you're ready to stop playing small and eradicate self-sabotage at the root, it's time to break up with your inner narcissist. Claim Emma's free guide, 5 Signs You Need to Break Up with Your Inner Narcissist, and get the clarity and tools you need to silence the critic that never belonged to you. Start your breakthrough here and take your first step toward real, lasting freedom. For the accessible version of the podcast, go to our Ziotag gallery.We're happy you're here! Like the pod?Support the podcast and receive discounts from our sponsors: https://yourbrandamplified.codeadx.me/Leave a rating and review on your favorite platformFollow @yourbrandamplified on the socialsTalk to my digital avatar Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
So far, we've focused on what scarcity does to the mind. Now, we explore what it does to the heart. Host Danny investigates the profound emotional burdens of poverty, moving from the cognitive to the social experience. We begin with the concept of "relative deprivation"—the constant, painful awareness of what you don't have in a world that never stops showing it to you. Through the story of a young boy at a school "Spirit Day," we feel the sting of social comparison and the formation of shame. We then explore how this evolves into adult stigma, where the simple act of buying groceries can become an emotionally taxing performance. Finally, we uncover the devastating mind-body connection. Learn how the chronic stress from this "Weight of the Gaze" keeps the body's fight-or-flight system perpetually activated, leading to a flood of cortisol that can weaken the immune system and damage the very parts of the brain needed to escape poverty. To unlock full access to all our episodes, consider becoming a premium subscriber on Apple Podcasts or Patreon. And don't forget to visit englishpluspodcast.com for even more content, including articles, in-depth studies, and our brand-new audio series and courses now available in our Patreon Shop!
Listen in on this conversation with Dr. Audrey Davidheiser and DJ Chuang and, you'll learn more about a better way to face challenging emotions as a part of me (e.g. "a part of me is sad") rather than identifying with it, like "I am sad." We also talk about the shame of dealing with grief, especially in cultures that "look down on emotions." And, get an overview of how the Internal Family Systems (IFS) model helps with healing hurts that happen in life.Dr. Audrey Davidheiser is the author of 2 books— "Grieving Wholeheartedly: Bringing Healing to Every Part of Your Soul" https://amzn.to/4o6dAk4 & "Surviving Difficult People: When Your Faith and Feelings Clash" https://amzn.to/4ncpZ4ZConnect with Dr. Audrey online on:Instagram • https://www.instagram.com/draudreyd/Substack • https://substack.com/@draudreydLinktree • https://linktr.ee/DrAudreyD
Getting Back On Track After a Binge (Without Shame or Spiral) How to process the moment, reclaim your discipline, and move forward like an athlete Even the most disciplined athlete has a moment where she slips — the night she eats off-plan, goes overboard, or wakes up feeling defeated. But what if that “bad night” wasn't a setback… but an opportunity to learn, reset, and rebuild your identity? In this episode, Rachel gets real about the emotional side of binge moments and what it actually means to get back on track without shame or punishment. You'll learn how to process the moment logically, re-engage your athlete identity, and keep your prep (and your peace) intact. This isn't about guilt — it's about growth. Because the woman becoming HER doesn't let a moment define her… she lets it refine her.
In the leadup to the “No Kings” protests, Trump and Republicans widely derided the protesters as extremists, criminals, and terrorists. Then the protests actually happened. They were a wild success: Peaceful, enormous, and representative of a very wide swath of American society. So what did Republicans do in response? They just kept on calling the protesters criminals and terrorists. That MAGA smear is sharply contradicted by countless on-the-scene accounts. We talked to writer Ana Marie Cox, who has a great piece for The New Republic capturing what the protests looked like in a red county in Texas. She explains that the protesters were mostly ordinary Americans who put on a civil and powerfully patriotic display. We think that in their own quiet way, what these protesters really offered, deep in Trump country, was a brutally effective repudiation of MAGA and Trumpism. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
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Have you ever found yourself holding onto feelings of guilt or shame long after a difficult experience or mistake? In this episode, Jill sits down with Dr. Carolyn Allard, a leading voice in trauma-focused psychology and research. Together, they unpack the complex nature of guilt and shame, especially when these emotions become non-adaptive in the face of trauma or hardship. Carolyn, who is also the author of Transform Your Guilt and Shame: Evidence-Based Strategies to Heal from Trauma and Adversity, shares how to recognize the difference between guilt and shame and introduces the idea of “non-adaptive guilt and shame” (NAGS). You'll gain insight into how these emotions link to moral injury and other trauma responses, and walk away with actionable tools such as hindsight bias and justification analysis to better understand, challenge, and manage them.Listen and Learn: How guilt and shame differ lies in focus, as guilt is about actions and shame is about identity, and why they matterHow moral injury can emerge from situations where individuals face impossible choices that conflict with their values, leading to lasting feelings of guilt and shameWhy we feel non-adaptive guilt and shame often comes down to distorted beliefs about responsibility, justification, and values, and how understanding these patterns helps us break free from self-blame and move toward self-compassionHow hindsight bias can trick us into unfair self-judgment, and by reflecting on our choices and context at the time, we can gain a clearer, kinder perspectiveUnderstanding the difference between accountability (being answerable) and responsibility (having control or intention) and how this helps us untangle guilt and shame, process mistakes effectively, and break the self-reinforcing cycles of trauma that impair our ability to act according to our valuesResources: Transform Your Guilt and Shame: Evidence-Based Strategies to Heal from Trauma and Adversity: https://bookshop.org/a/30734/9781433843419 Carolyn's Website: https://www.carolynallardphd.com/Connect with Carolyn on Social Media: Bluesky: https://bsky.app/profile/carolynallardphd.bsky.social Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/p/Carolyn-Allard-PhD LinkedInhttps://www.linkedin.com/in/carolyn-allard-99749155/About Carolyn B. AllardCarolyn B. Allard ,PhD, ABPP, is internationally recognized for her trauma-focused research and clinical expertise. She is a licensed, board-certified clinical psychologist, Distinguished Professor and Program Director of the Clinical Psychology PhD Program at Alliant International University. Before that, she directed a trauma clinic at the VA San Diego Healthcare System and served as clinical faculty at the University of California San Diego. Carolyn also serves on the executive council of the American Psychological Association's Trauma Division and its scientific journal's editorial board, and has over 200 scientific publications and presentations. For over 20 years, she has been providing therapy, training and consultation in empirically supported therapy for posttraumatic distress; and conducting research focused on socio-cultural and contextual predictors of posttraumatic distress and treatment outcomes. She co-developed Trauma Informed Guilt Reduction (TrIGR), the evidence-based therapy that is the basis of her latest book, Transform Your Guilt and Shame, a self-guided workbook. Besides making psychology accessible, Carolyn is passionate about traveling and promoting compassion. Visit CarolynAllardPhD.com for more information.Related Episodes:118. Moral Injury and Shame with Lauren Borges and Jacob Farnsworth416. Trauma and PTSD Treatment with Robyn Walser383. What My Bones Know: C-PTSD with Stephanie Foo417. Busting Trauma Treatment Myths with Emi Nietfeld405. Taming the Inner Critic with Holly Yates and Shawn Whooley341. Self-Forgiveness with Grant Dewar279. ACT for Healing Black Racial Trauma with Jennifer Shepard PayneSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.
Description:In this episode of the Compared to Who? podcast, Heather Creekmore continues her Fear Free Fall series with a deep dive into the fear of failure. Heather unpacks the difference between perfectionism and fear of failure, revealing how each shows up in the ways we approach life, our goals, and our body image struggles. She explores how our definitions of success can become idols and how God’s grace redefines our worth. Heather shares personal experiences, practical examples from her coaching, and biblical encouragement to help listeners break free from the grip of performance-based living and find freedom in Christ. Key Topics: Difference between perfectionism and fear of failure Identity issues at the root of both struggles How fear of failure shows up as avoidance, hesitation, and "analysis paralysis" The role of “success” as an idol and how it influences body image Processing where personal standards and God’s standards diverge God’s grace as the answer to our endless striving for worth Practical encouragement for stepping out in faith, even when failure feels likely Encouragement:Heather challenges listeners to reflect on where fear of failure might be holding them back and offers gospel-centered strategies to reframe their thinking and experience freedom in Christ. Resources & Links Listen to Previous Episodes: Compared to Who? Podcast Fear Free Fall Series: Kickoff Episode: Faith Over Fear (October 7th) Episode on Fear of Rejection, Perfectionism, and People Pleasing 40 Day Body Image Journey:Join the next round in January or start now and catch up!➡️ improvebodyimage.com — 40 Day Journey Heather Creekmore’s Books:Find all of Heather’s books on body image and Christian living.➡️ improvebodyimage.com/books 10 Days of Encouragement:Free daily scripture-based encouragement sent to your inbox.➡️ Sign up here In His Image ConferenceNovember 15th, Dallas, Texas. Drop Heather a note if you’re coming! ➡️ In His Image Conference Info (Check for upcoming dates and details!) Body Image Coaching and Workbook:Want practical help? Try the 40 Day Body Image Workbook Connect With Heather & Show Website: improvebodyimage.com Podcast Network: Life Audio If this episode encouraged you, share it with a friend, discuss it together, and leave a review to help others find gospel-based body image encouragement! P.S. Want to stop comparing and start living? Dive into more encouragement at improvebodyimage.com. Discover more Christian podcasts at lifeaudio.com and inquire about advertising opportunities at lifeaudio.com/contact-us.
It is estimated that there are at least 28 million adult children of alcoholics in the United States alone. The statistics are staggering. Combine those numbers with a deep understanding of the impact of growing up in an alcoholic home, and it becomes easy to understand why so many adult children struggle with emotional regulation, telling the truth, setting boundaries and with emotional dependencies that result in seeking approval and validation in order to feel somewhat 'normal'. Many adult children of alcoholics do not even know their parents or grandparents were alcoholics. Toxic family systems are enmeshed and shrouded in denial. When the adults in the family are not addressing their trauma, they inadvertently pass that trauma down to their children. Listen in as Lisa A. Romano offers adult children across the globe an opportunity to better understand themselves, how they process their emotions and perceive themselves and the world through a trauma lens, offering all those who are willing and ready an opportunity to live above the veil of consciousness, the only place where true transformation can occur. This episode is a must-listen if you: Grew up with a parent who struggle with addiction. You are the grandchild of an alcoholic. Recognize that you struggle to know what you want or need. Identify as a cyclebreaker, who is ready to speak the truth and end generational trauma with you! ✨ Pro tip: Understanding your parent's trauma is often a key in recovering from subconscious faulty, negative childhood survival patterns. Begin Your Healing Journey: Lisa introduces her signature 12 Week Breakthrough Method—a trauma-informed, neuroscience-based coaching program designed for adult children of narcissistic, neglectful, or emotionally immature parents. Inside the program, you'll discover: Brain retraining techniques rooted in neuroscience. Inner child healing and self-concept reorganization. Journaling prompts and assessments to increase self-awareness. Tools to stop subconscious self-abandonment and live authentically. How to integrate shadow work and break toxic generational patterns. Thousands have transformed their lives with this method—learning to step out of survival mode and into authentic, empowered living.
Peter Orner is the author of seven acclaimed books including Maggie Brown & Others, Love and Shame and Love, Esther Stories, finalist for the Pen/ Hemingway Award, and Am I Alone Here?, finalist for the National Book Critics Circle Award. His work has appeared in the New Yorker, the Paris Review, Best American Stories, and been awarded four Pushcart Prizes. A former Guggenheim fellow and recipient of the Rome Prize from the American Academy of Arts and Letters, Orner is chair of the English and Creative Writing Department at Dartmouth College. He lives with his family in Vermont, where he's also a volunteer firefighter. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Had a very enlightening and fun conversation with Shelby Nolan of A Divergent Lens Counseling this week. We learn more about alexithymia, the positive side of shame, and more! I really enjoyed our chat.Shelby Nolan Bio:works as a trauma therapist as a licensed professional counselor. She specializes in working with neurodivergent and queer folks, in particular. As a neurodivergent person herself, she is passionate about reducing the stigma and the shame around neurodivergence and helping folks both celebrate their neurodivergence and also build strategies for managing the parts that can be more difficult. She has her own practice: A Divergent Lens Counseling in Colorado, where she also works hard to build community with other mental healthcare providers and others who are in helping fields. She's been slowly working on writing more about neurodivergence and therapy, so feel free to check out her website to see how that's going! https://www.adivergentlenscounseling.com/Interested in getting unstuck, gaining confidence, and consistency? Book a free chat with Russ and let's explore if/how I can help! Get my FREE PDF for instant un-stuck-ification when you get my newsletter. My Ready S.E.T. Go method will get you started when getting started is unstartable. Click here for the free PDF. ⚡️ Come see what ADHDBB is all about! We are a community built on action. Join us for daily accountability, peer support with Russ and friends, and a FREE coaching call with Russ when you join. You don't have to wing it alone. We got you.
When faced with difficult situations, our human instincts lead us to fight, flight, or freeze. This is no different when confronted with sin. When dealing with the ugliness of our shortcomings and failures, we can succumb to them, try to run from them, or face them head-on and deal with them. In this dramatic and heartwrenching episode, Jesus defends a woman who is dragged out into the streets in shame. While others are poised to stone her, Jesus stands firm that nobody is sinless, and we all need mercy. Today's Bible verse is John 8:7 from the King James Version.Download the Pray.com app for more Christian content including, Daily Prayers, Inspirational Testimonies, and Bedtime Bible Stories.Pray.com is the digital destination for faith. With over 5,000 daily prayers, meditations, bedtime stories, and cinematic stories inspired by the Bible, the Pray.com app has everything you need to keep your focus on the Lord. Make Prayer a priority and download the #1 App for Prayer and Sleep today in the Apple app store or Google Play store.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Welcome to the The Achievers Podcast. I'm your host, Amber Deibert, Performance Coach. I help enterprise sellers unlock their full potential by aligning their work with how they workout and cleaning up mindset trash, so they can sell more, stress less, and take back control of their time and success. We spend our whole lives trying to outthink emotions. We outwork them. Outrun them. Numb them with busyness and “productivity.” But the truth is, it's not your calendar, your system, or your discipline that's holding you back. It's the one thing you refuse to feel. Fear. Embarrassment. Shame. Whatever it is, you've built your whole life around not feeling it. And that's what's keeping you stuck. In this episode, I'll walk you into the part nobody talks about, where every goal you want lives on the other side of a feeling you've been avoiding. I'll teach you how to sit with it, how to let it move, and how to discover that it was never as scary as you thought. Because once you can feel anything, You can create everything.
You're both in pain about your desire gap, but you're processing it separately – venting to friends, talking to therapists, building separate narratives about what's wrong. Meanwhile, the gap between you keeps widening. Sound familiar?Most couples approach mismatched libidos like adversaries: one person wants more sex, one wants less, and now you're fighting about whose needs matter more. But when one of you loses, you both lose.In this episode, you'll learn why the adversarial approach never works, how to get underneath surface feelings like "frustrated" or "fine" to the real pain you're both experiencing, and why suppressing your feelings or only venting to others actually makes your desire gap worse. This is the foundation for everything that follows – getting vulnerable enough to stop fighting each other and start solving the problem together.Get my free guide: 5 Steps to Start Solving Desire Differences (Without Blame or Shame), A Practical Starting Point for Individuals and Couples, at https://laurajurgens.com/libido Find out more about me at https://laurajurgens.com/
Your child smashes a TV. Or floods the bathroom. Or writes off the car. What now? In this episode, Justin and Kylie unpack one of parenting’s trickiest questions: should our kids pay for the damage they cause? You’ll hear real family stories, a breakdown of natural vs logical consequences, and a powerful mindset shift that helps kids take ownership without shame — and keeps relationships intact. KEY POINTS Why “natural consequences” aren’t the same as punishment How to teach accountability without blame, guilt, or control The “OAR vs BED” principle: helping kids own mistakes and grow from them When (and how) to talk about reparations or paying for damages How to balance compassion, responsibility, and fairness QUOTE OF THE EPISODE “Discipline isn’t about punishment. It’s about problem solving — together.” RESOURCES MENTIONED Happy Families Membership 10 Things Every Parent Needs to Know by Dr Justin Coulson Entitled [Upcoming Live Webinar] ACTION STEPS FOR PARENTS When something breaks, pause before reacting. Ask: “What does my child need right now?” — not “What consequence fits this?” Guide your child toward ownership, accountability, and reparation. Keep the relationship more important than the thing. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.
Fantasy Football show for Oct 17, 2025. Week 7 start/sit advice for fantasy football lineups! Lots of matchups covered on today's show with fantasy football player outlooks. Plus, injury updates, and a recap of Thursday Night Football! Manage your redraft, keeper, and dynasty fantasy football teams with the #1 fantasy football podcast.(00:00) Intro(00:45) Thursday Night Recap(10:00) Footclan Friday(10:55) NFL News(17:45) Fantasy Forecast(19:30) Giants at Broncos(26:55) Colts at Chargers(33:45) Commanders at Cowboys(39:50) Packers at Cardinals(55:30) Buccaneers at Lions(01:03:15) Texans at Seahawks(01:08:20) Fantasy Faceoff + Wheel of ShameConnect with the show:Subscribe on YouTubeVisit us on the WebSupport the ShowFollow on XFollow on InstagramJoin our Discord Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.
In this week's episode, I (Kayla) share a moment in kink where I realized I felt shame – which was a shock. Which brought me back to this conversation – the last time we... The post Dealing with Shame in Kink appeared first on Loving BDSM.
Financial Shame - College Debt, Generational Wealth for Kids, & Stewardship | Wide Open #131
A Buddhist recipe for speaking, working, and living in a way that will make you happy. JoAnna Hardy has practiced in multiple traditions since 1999. She is currently a meditation trainer at Apple Fitness+, a visiting teacher at Black Being LA, a visiting retreat teacher at Insight Meditation Society, and about to embark on a new mystery journey! In this episode we talk about: Sila, the Buddhist code of ethics Concepts such as right livelihood and right speech Why we lie The power of Buddhist tattoos Hiri and Otappa (AKA healthy shame and healthy embarrassment) Related Episodes: How to Speak Clearly, Calmly, and Without Alienating People | Dan Clurman and Mudita Nisker Oren Jay Sofer, Practicing Mindful Communication The Buddha's 8-Part Manual for a Good Life | Brother Pháp Dung The Surprising Power of “Healthy Embarrassment” | Koshin Paley Ellison The Selfish Case for Being Ethical | Eugene Cash Join Dan's online community here Follow Dan on social: Instagram, TikTok Subscribe to our YouTube Channel Get ready for another Meditation Party at Omega Institute! This in-person workshop brings together Dan with his friends and meditation teachers, Sebene Selassie, Jeff Warren, and for the first time, Ofosu Jones-Quartey. The event runs October 24th-26th. Sign up and learn more here! Tickets are now on sale for a special live taping of the 10% Happier Podcast with guest Pete Holmes! Join us on November 18th in NYC for this benefit show, with all proceeds supporting the New York Insight Meditation Center. Grab your tickets here! To advertise on the show, contact sales@advertisecast.com or visit https://advertising.libsyn.com/10HappierwithDanHarris Thanks to our sponsors: Airbnb: Your home might be worth more than you think. Find out how much at airbnb.com/host. AT&T: Staying connected matters. That's why AT&T has connectivity you can depend on, or they will proactively make it right. Visit att.com/guarantee for details. Function: Our first 1000 listeners get a $100 credit toward their membership. Visit www.functionhealth.com/Happier or use the gift code Happier100 at signup to own your health.
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