Podcasts about nonmonogamy

Ever tried to think your way out of a feeling?You read the books, have the talks, highlight every chapter on jealousy and self-regulation… and your nervous system just shrugs and says, “That's cute, I'm still panicking.”This week on Nope! We're Not Monogamous, I'm getting real about the hilarious (and exhausting) ways we try to outsmart our emotions, and why logic doesn't work when your body doesn't feel safe.In this solo episode, I share my own “self-help fails,” the moment I realized you can't out-think a trauma response, and what actually does help when jealousy, anxiety, or insecurity hit hard in non-monogamous relationships.We'll talk about what it means to stop fixing and start feeling, to breathe, laugh, and build emotional safety in real time, one micro-moment at a time.What You'll LearnWhy jealousy in polyamory is a nervous system response, not a logic problem.How overthinking and self-help spirals fuel relationship anxiety in non-monogamy.The mind-body disconnect that happens during triggers in open relationships.Simple nervous system regulation tools that actually help with jealousy and insecurity.How laughter and self-compassion reduce emotional overwhelm in polyamorous dynamics.How to use body-based honesty to communicate needs and build trust with partners.Send us a textSupport the show

Dr. Zhana, PhD, NYU professor of Sexuality, called in to talk all about sex and science and how and why some people are actually wired for non-monogamy and kinky sex. Tune in to hear all the details including the fair amount of evidence out there that shows there's a strong genetic component to some people being way more open sexually than others, how and why non-monogamy should be an option for certain people, her early curiosity toward sex and sexual exploration and how that led her to study sexuality in college, the stigma she faced and how and why she decided not to let it stop her from being adventurous as well as not let it stop her from seeking a committed, romantic, and open relationship, her current open relationship and how it's set up, how and why they were monogamous the first year before opening up and why she recommends that for other couples, the initial stage of infatuation and chemistry in a new relationship and how long that lasts as well as how to prolong it, the book she's writing on sex and relationships and the five relationship structures that exist and what they are, plus info about the research study she's conducting for the book and how you can be part of it, and a whole lot more. You can find her on instagram @drzhana Clickhttps://nyu.qualtrics.com/jfe/form/SV_7OphTMSQeQVjjWS To see HOT pics SOCRATES plus my female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord!  MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠  To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712  Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show." Want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. All voices are changed.  Sponsors:⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Use the code STRICTLY at checkout for 30% OFF your entire order⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Get your first month of the new Bluechew Max FREE! Use code: STRICTLYANON⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://brooklynbedding.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ — Use my promo code STRICTLY at checkout to get 30% off sitewide⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://www.quince.com/strictlyanon⁠⁠⁠ — For premium quality Quince clothing plus FREE shipping and 365 day returns! ⁠⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2536-anonymous⁠⁠⁠ — Use code ANONYMOUS69 to get 50% off your yearly pass plus a 14-day money-back guarantee⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠http://loadboost.com⁠⁠⁠ — To get 10% off LOAD Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly⁠⁠⁠ — Use code STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠⁠⁠ — To get $15 OFF your oxytocin products, STI panels and more, use code STRICTLY  Follow me! Instagram  ⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠ X ⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠ Website  ⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠ Everything else: ⁠https://linktr.ee/Strictlyanonymouspodcast⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

On Today's show, Three confessions that prove sometimes the hottest part is NOT touching… yet.Nicole's boyfriend cancels on the double date, so she stays anyway, sits on the couch fully dressed, and purrs the words every man dreams of: “I want to watch.” What follows is a masterclass in cuckquean restraint — licking, spanking, directing, and one very impressed audience of one.A married man grabs spray paint at the hardware store, locks eyes with a stranger over “Pineapple Yellow,” and twenty minutes later she's naked and screaming his name in the bathroom while employees bang on the door. He goes home, his wife smells the evidence, and her only question is “Did you get pictures?”A secret keycard. Room 512. One instruction: don't knock. He opens the door to find Nikky (yes, your host) already riding a stranger in the dark. His only job? Stand in the shadows, stroke on command, come when I say… then let me kneel and worship the cock I just made ache for fifteen filthy minutes.Plus a riddle that sounds like pure porn but is 100% innocent (answer in the outro).If you've ever wondered how long someone can watch without breaking… this episode will ruin you in the best way.Content Warning: This episode contains explicit sexual content, including graphic descriptions of nudity, public sex, infidelity, and boundary-pushing consensual fantasies. Stories are fictional and depict enthusiastic consent. Listener discretion advised; 18+ only. Submissions involving bestiality, incest, underage role-play, rape, non-consensual content, or racial slurs are not aired. Get Involved:Submit Your Story: Got a secret fantasy or steamy confession? Write to Nikky at Nikky@dearnikky.com or submit anonymously at DearNikky.com/confessions. By submitting, you certify:You're the sole creator of the submission.You're 18+ and legally able to submit erotic material.No prohibited themes (bestiality, incest, underage, rape, non-consensual content, racial slurs).Names/identifiable info may be changed.You release all rights to the submission.Say Hello: Have a burning fantasy or just want to chat? Email Nikky@dearnikky.com or connect on Twitter (@DNikky162), Instagram (@DNikky162) , or Facebook (@DearNikky). Nikky wants to hear your naughtiest thoughts!Support the Show: Love these private peeks into filthy lives? Leave a review on Apple Podcasts, Spotify,  Spreaker or your favorite platform to help new listeners discover the heat. Your support keeps the conversation sizzling!Support Nikky:Patreon: Unlock exclusive confessions, bonus thoughts, and steamy Q&As at Patreon.com/DearNikky. Join the inner circle for extra spice!Nectar.ai: Explore your wildest fantasies with immersive AI experiences at Nectar.ai. Perfect for Frisky Friday fans craving more.Featured Release: Dear Nikky: Sex Confessions From People Just Like You is out now! Dive deeper into the raw, unfiltered stories you love. Contact:Email: Nikky@dearnikky.comWebsite: DearNikky.com/confessionsSocials: Twitter (@DNikky162), Instagram (@DNikky162), Facebook (@DearNikky)Become a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/dear-nikky-hidden-desires--6316414/support.

Send us a textJoin us as we dive into the world of ethical non-monogamy—what it means, how it works, and why communication and consent are everything. Nestle in for an open-minded, honest conversation about modern love — followed by a steamy trip to grab coffee ☕

1000 SCENES & STILL HUNGRY FOR MORE. 200 Episodes. 2 shots of Tito's. One legend. Adult Superstar Jennifer White shows up 16 years deep, 1000+ scenes in, & still hungry because she loves sex and always has. She talks about the firsts that rewired her: first DP, first gangbang, and the moment it all clicked and never let go.We go inside the 50-Guy Creampie Scene featuring a live band, her wildest OnlyFans custom requests, and why her showcase Hollywood Whore: Jennifer White, elevates her to a whole other level. She also talks about her role in Once Upon A Time In The Valley, and with such big projects under her belt this year, how is she feeling about nomination season? At the end of the episode Jennifer goes through THE BURNER and doesn't even flinch.Raise your glass and help us celebrate 200 EPISODES of Sex Party with a true legend in the Adult Industry, the one and only Jennifer White.A HUGE THANK YOU to everyone for 200 episodes of this podcast. Your support means everything. What an insane ride. Here's to 200 more. Welcome to EP 200: "The Legend Of Jennifer White" with Jennifer White. Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Jennifer White Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/jenwhite2.0 (@jenwhite2.0)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Send us a textToday, Jo talks about assertive women in the LS. Jo talks about some of the reasons why guys like an assertive woman, but even more importantly, Jo talks about why SHE loves to be assertive herself.And, if you're looking to be more assertive, she gives some tips to help.Support the showOld music (

Dr. Rick and Forrest open up the mailbag to answer listener questions about effective communication, healthy relationships, and contentment. They explore how defining boundaries, taking maximum reasonable responsibility, and extending an olive branch can help manage ongoing conflict without sacrificing your own needs. They then discuss the power dynamics, ethics, and practicalities of non-monogamy, emphasizing the importance of fairly balancing the rights and needs of everyone involved. Finally, they explore how to cultivate the habit of contentment, even amidst imperfect circumstances.  Key Topics:  0:00: Introduction 3:36: Question 1: “We had an argument and now they're being mean to me!” 14:18: Question 2: “I set a boundary, and they're being really passive aggressive” 27:32: Question 3: “My partner wants a non-monogamous relationship. What now?” 48:14: Question 4: “I can't find contentment anywhere, help!” 1:03:51: Recap Support the Podcast: We're on Patreon! If you'd like to support the podcast, follow this link. Sponsors Listen to Turning Points: Navigating Mental Health wherever you get your podcasts. Follow the show so you never miss an episode.  Level up your bedding with Quince. Go to Quince.com/BEINGWELL for free shipping on your order and three hundred and sixty-five -day returns. If you are exploring whether you might be neurodivergent, check out Hyperfocus with Rae Jacobson.  Skylight is offering our listeners $20 off their 10 inch Skylight Frame by going to myskylight.com/BEINGWELL. Go to Zocdoc.com/BEING to find and instantly book a top-rated doctor today. Sign up for a one-dollar-per-month trial period at shopify.com/beingwell.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Many people wonder if their trauma history means they can't successfully navigate the complex emotional terrain that comes with open relationships. When we step away from default monogamy into consciously chosen relationship structures, our nervous systems can get activated. This may be especially challenging for trauma survivors, whose systems are often already primed for hypervigilance.The truth? It's absolutely possible, but it requires intentionality, support, patience, and self-compassion. In fact, many trauma survivors may be especially well-equipped for non-monogamy; the healing work and skill development you've already done to manage your trauma could become powerful tools for navigating polyamory.In this episode, we talk about:— The common fear that trauma survivors have about whether they "can handle" non-monogamy— Why trauma history is not a disqualifier for non-monogamy, but does require special consideration— How opening up can actually provide evidence that your healing work is working— The disconnect between intellectual readiness and bodily/nervous system readiness for non-monogamy— Why trauma survivors often have robust toolboxes for managing relationship challenges— The importance of pacing yourself and recognizing when you need to slow down— How community support creates perspective and validation during challenging transitions— The difference between a partner moving slowly versus stonewalling— Why explicit repair practices are especially crucial for trauma survivors in non-monogamous relationships— The value of creating flexible, time-bound agreements rather than rigid "forever" rules— How the investment of time, energy, and patience can lead to profound growth and authentic relatingResources mentioned in this episode:— Free Nervous System Regulation Training— Trauma Rewired podcast hosted by Jennifer Wallace— Unruly: An Agreements Lab workshop for creating flexible, resilient agreements— Our free Repair Skills VideosJOIN The Year Of Opening® community for a full year of learning & support. Registration is open now at ⁠⁠www.TheYearOfOpening.com⁠⁠Learn the 5 secrets to open your relationship the smart wayAre you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.comGet the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything hereMusic: Dance of Felt by ⁠Blue Dot Sessions

Episode 176: Exploring Non-Monogamy & Dating Apps with Öykü from Beyond Dating AppWhat if everything we were taught about love, sex, and relationships was designed to keep us playing small?

SHE'S GOING BIIIIIIIIG. Two years in and Suki Sin's resume already reads like a decade. We get into how she landed an early collab with Adult Superstar Violet Myers — the DM, the setup, the slippery shoot — and why that moment changed her trajectory. Then it's kinks and chaos: strap-ons, free-use dynamics, girl-girl, boy-girl, and the way she builds chemistry fast without faking it.“Drive-Thru” isn't just a title — McDonald's breakfast becomes a running bit (you'll find out why), right alongside her wildest strip-club story and a couple of completely unhinged OnlyFans custom requests. She closes with the unexpected origin story that pulled her into adult and the mindset that keeps it fun, hot, and fully on her terms.Welcome to EP 199: "Drive-Thru" with Suki Sin. Better hold on tight chief.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Suki Sin Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sukixsinn (@sukixsinn)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Join hosts John and Jackie Melfi from openlove101.com as they discuss common misconceptions about consensual non-monogamy and the stigmas they face as a swinger couple. In this enlightening conversation, they address the funny and sometimes frustrating questions they receive from "vanilla" friends, from concerns about hitting on partners to fears of association.   The Melfis share their experiences of educating curious strangers, dealing with people who avoid them due to their lifestyle choices, and their mission to demystify consensual non-monogamy. They emphasize that non-monogamous couples are remarkably similar to monogamous ones - they just follow a different relationship model.   TIMESTAMPS:   00:00 - Introduction to Open Love 101 Podcast 00:47 - Common misconceptions from vanilla friends 01:48 - Breaking down stigmas about swinger relationships 03:04 - The reality of consensual non-monogamy vs. stereotypes 05:07 - Educating others about open relationship models 06:31 - Dealing with people who avoid association 07:43 - Understanding societal subgroups and identity 09:06 - Challenges of morality clauses in workplaces 10:25 - Standing up against backlash and judgment   Are you curious about alternative relationship models or looking to better understand the swinger lifestyle? The Melfis offer a judgment-free zone where all questions are welcome.  

Send us a textChad is in the hot seat! Today, Jo interviews Chad; they talk about their LS journey, how it has changed over the years, and how Chad has grown and changed over the years.Support the showOld music (

A pastor preaching virtue. A mistress promised “truth.” A wife who knew nothing. And a murder that ripped the mask off a so-called “ethical non-monogamy.” In 2019, Executive Pastor Brodes Perry of Mississippi Boulevard Christian Church was shot to death inside his Tennessee apartment by Latoshia Daniels, a woman who believed she was part of a consensual “open” relationship — one the pastor insisted his wife had approved. Except… she hadn't. Now, years later, Daniels is on trial for first-degree murder and attempted murder of Perry's wife Tabatha, who survived the attack and took the stand to tell a very different story. Jurors have seen videos of Perry himself describing “ethical non-monogamy” — claiming transparency, honesty, and divine understanding — while prosecutors say those same words expose the lies that fueled the killing. In this episode, Tony Brueski breaks down how a pastor's moral branding turned into manipulation, how a so-called modern “ethic” became a weapon of deceit, and why this trial isn't just about one shooting — it's about the danger of self-righteous hypocrisy hiding behind the language of enlightenment. This is not about alternative lifestyles. This is about control, delusion, and the rot that grows when a man of God decides the rules no longer apply to him.

A pastor preaching virtue. A mistress promised “truth.” A wife who knew nothing. And a murder that ripped the mask off a so-called “ethical non-monogamy.” In 2019, Executive Pastor Brodes Perry of Mississippi Boulevard Christian Church was shot to death inside his Tennessee apartment by Latoshia Daniels, a woman who believed she was part of a consensual “open” relationship — one the pastor insisted his wife had approved. Except… she hadn't. Now, years later, Daniels is on trial for first-degree murder and attempted murder of Perry's wife Tabatha, who survived the attack and took the stand to tell a very different story. Jurors have seen videos of Perry himself describing “ethical non-monogamy” — claiming transparency, honesty, and divine understanding — while prosecutors say those same words expose the lies that fueled the killing. In this episode, Tony Brueski breaks down how a pastor's moral branding turned into manipulation, how a so-called modern “ethic” became a weapon of deceit, and why this trial isn't just about one shooting — it's about the danger of self-righteous hypocrisy hiding behind the language of enlightenment. This is not about alternative lifestyles. This is about control, delusion, and the rot that grows when a man of God decides the rules no longer apply to him.

What if the secret to better sex, stronger orgasms, and more confidence isn't another relationship hack—but your pelvic floor?This week, I'm joined by Jana Danielson, sensual health and pelvic floor wellness expert, Pilates master instructor, and creator of the Cooch Ball (yes, that's really what it's called). Jana and I met in a group for sex-positive professionals, and even though she's delightfully monogamous—we don't discriminate against the monogamous here—her work is pure gold for every body.We talk about the 14 muscles that literally make or break pleasure, why so many people struggle with tension or numbness “down there,” and how breathwork, movement, and curiosity can completely transform your sensual life.Whether you're poly, monogamous, or somewhere beautifully in-between, this conversation will help you reconnect with your body, your desire, and your pleasure—because honestly, you deserve to feel amazing in your skin.

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Saige Kiljoy is building a cult — a goon cult — and she's not shy about it. The OnlyFans powerhouse and self-proclaimed gooner leader breaks down what gooning really is (edging? trance? total submission to the spiral?) and why she's recruiting the largest “zombie-gooner horde” on earth. Cucks of every flavor show up for her, and she explains exactly why.This is femdom with teeth: control, humiliation, and genuine pleasure in the same breath. Saige talks power exchange, male and female cuck psychology, and how she stays dominant and turned on. She even gets specific about her preferred finish — from a dominant frame — and why it matters.There's a very famous name she calls out, plus the wildest requests she's fielded online. Smart, filthy, hypnotic. Welcome to EP 198: "Goon World" with Saige Kiljoy. Enjoy your stay.

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Send us a textConfidence can be a fickle bitch... sometimes you are riding high, and sometimes you bottom out. Chad and Jo talk about the ins and outs of confidence.Reach out to Jo on FB at Facebook or email her at theconfidentswinger@gmail.comSupport the showOld music (

In this episode of Nope! We're Not Monogamous, relationship coach Ellecia Paine dives into the emotional cost of silence in open relationships and polyamory.If you've ever swallowed your truth to keep the peace, or stayed quiet because you were scared of rocking the boat, this conversation will help you find the courage to speak up with honesty and compassion.You'll learn how to:→ Recognize when you're betraying yourself by staying quiet→ Understand the fears that keep you silent in non-monogamy (rejection, loss, shame)→ Speak your truth without exploding or shutting down→ Create emotional safety for hard conversations with partners or metamours→ Reconnect to your own inner honesty and nervous system safetyBecause pretending your desires don't exist won't protect your relationship, it'll rot it from the inside.Your truth might hurt for a moment, but hiding it will hurt forever.Send us a textFLOW Nitric Oxide BoosterFLOW brings blood where you want it to go — your brain, your heart, and your pleasure zones. Try your first bottle of FLOW FREE — just pay shipping. Experience the results yourself and cancel anytime. We're confident FLOW will reignite your spark! Support the show

HOW TO ASK FOR THE WEIRD STUFF.Amanda Pahl aka Handy Mandy — sex therapist, coach, and mastermind behind Kinkish — returns for one hell of a ride. This one dives headfirst into taboo territory: piss play, kink curiosity, and the deeper urges people are afraid to admit, even to themselves.She breaks down the “is squirt pee?” debate, helps singles and couples navigate entry into kink spaces without shame, and gives real advice to guys on how not to come off like a creep when exploring their darker desires.From low libido to wild fetishes to building the confidence to actually live out your fantasies, Amanda brings it all with no filter. Horny, honest, and dangerously useful — this one goes deep, and gets a little messy. Because of course it does. Welcome to EP 197: "Amanda's Wild Ride" with Amanda Pahl. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Amanda PahlInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/handymandysextherapy (@handymandysextherapy)Follow KinkishInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kinkishllc (@kinkishllc)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

In this playful and eye-opening episode, John and Jackie dive into the world of fantasy roleplay — a powerful tool for connection, communication, and confidence within relationships. Whether you're new to consensual non-monogamy or simply looking to spice up your intimacy, roleplay offers a safe, creative space to explore fantasies together. From costumes and card games to themed nights at clubs like colette, John and Jackie reveal how fantasy roleplay can break routine, build trust, and help couples express their desires without judgment. They share real-life stories, tips for easing into roleplay, and how to use it as a gentle "test drive" for exploring new boundaries before trying them in real life. With their signature warmth and honesty, they remind listeners that fantasy isn't just about fun — it's about freedom, growth, and shared discovery.     

In this episode of The Open Bedroom Podcast, I welcome Dr. Alison Ash, a trauma-informed intimacy coach, to discuss navigating mismatched libidos in relationships. We explore how libido fluctuates due to life circumstances, the shift from spontaneous to responsive desire, and the impact of stress and aging. Dr. Ash offers practical strategies like scheduling connection time, building an “intimacy bank,” and embracing non-sexual touch. Our conversation also covers self-pleasure, embodiment, and open relationships as options. I encourage listeners to communicate openly, release shame, and cultivate intimacy through compassion and intentionality.Dr. Alison Ash shares personal updates, including new offerings for neurodivergent folks and her fertility journey.Fertility, Hormones, and Intimacy (00:03:16)Discussion on how fertility journeys, hormones, and aging impact intimacy and libido in relationships.Introducing the Topic: Differing Libido (00:06:00)Jen introduces the main topic: navigating differences in libido within relationships, with personal anecdotes.Understanding Libido Fluctuations (00:06:57)Dr. Ash explains that libido is not static, affected by physiological, situational, and contextual factors.New Relationship Energy & Responsive Desire (00:08:34)Exploration of how new relationship energy impacts desire, and the shift from spontaneous to responsive desire over time.Cultivating Responsive Desire (00:10:30)Discussion on tools and practices to cultivate responsive desire, especially in long-term relationships.Aging, Attraction, and Sexuality (00:12:23)Challenging cultural narratives about aging and sexual attractiveness, especially for women.Creating Spaciousness for Intimacy (00:14:23)Strategies for making time and space for intimacy, including rituals and sensory-based pleasure.Scheduling Intimacy & The Intimacy Bank (00:18:22)Advice on scheduling connection time and introducing the "intimacy bank" concept to build emotional and sexual connection.Self-Responsibility & Erotic Blueprints (00:22:11)The importance of self-care, understanding erotic blueprints, and meeting your own needs in relationships.Sexual Scripts, Resentment, and Pleasure (00:24:36)How societal scripts and having unwanted sex can lead to resentment and disconnection from pleasure.Asexuality & Pleasure Spectrum (00:28:04)Clarifying asexuality as an orientation and discussing the spectrum of sexual and sensory pleasure.Erotic Blueprints & Love Languages (00:30:09)Exploring different frameworks for understanding what turns people on and how to communicate desires.Embodiment: What It Is and How to Practice (00:33:45)Defining embodiment, its benefits, and practical exercises to become more embodied.Medicines, Drugs, and Embodiment (00:38:07)Discussion on the use of cannabis and other substances for embodiment, and their pros and cons.Advice for Higher Libido Partners (00:41:09)Tools and mindset shifts for higher libido partners, including self-pleasure and breaking the pressure/rejection cycle.Physical Affection & Creativity in Intimacy (00:44:58)Encouraging non-penetrative intimacy, rebuilding physical affection, and creative connection strategies.Masturbation, Boundaries, and Inclusion (00:47:42)Navigating boundaries around self-pleasure, reducing shame, and ways to include partners in the process.Non-Monogamy as an Option (00:49:59)Considering open relationships or non-monogamy for couples with mismatched libido, and the potential benefits.Dr. Alison Ash's Website:www.TurnON.love Couples Retreat:Sustainable Intimacy: Refuel Passion for Lasting Love Online Course: Sexual and Emotional Intimacy Skills*Super early bird tickets are available now for $200-$400 offFollow The Open Bedroom Podcasthttps://www.instagram.com/theopenbedroompodcast

Send us a textFeeling unwanted is something that probably everyone has felt at some point. It's not a popular feeling, but it's common enough, even in the LS.Jo shares her latest experience in feeling unwanted, and how she managed it.Support the showOld music (

NO TRICKS. JUST TATUM. It's Halloween, and you know what that means: pure horny chaos. Welcome to "HORROR SHOW" The 2025 Halloween Special. Every year I go off the rails for this one — and this time, it's just me and one guest, but not just anyone…Tatum Zoe is back. Friend of the show, friend in real life, and she's ready to go all out. We go deep into everything horny, raunchy, slutty, wild, around Halloween. She's in costume — a BONKERS one — and we're talking sex parties, slutty costumes, kinky taboos, and whether Halloween is still the free-for-all it used to be. Plus, we dive into a few surprises I'm just gonna let unfold during the episode.Like always, there's no script here. Just raw, real, ridiculous energy. Grab your mask, your drink, put your phone on do not disturb — and hit play.... HAPPY HALLOWEEN & welcome to "HORROR SHOW" The 2025 Halloween Special with Tatum Zoe. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Tatum ZoeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/tatumzoeee (@tatumzoeee)Follow the Girl Stop Talking Podcast Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/girlstoptalkingpod (@girlstoptalkingpod) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Season 2 of Nobody Wants This has finally dropped — but one of our hosts is far too distracted by Kristen Bell’s latest Instagram post to care. Holly, Amelia and Jessie ask: does an actress have to be likeable for her show to work? Meanwhile, “Nonmonogamummy” and “Pussy Palace” weren’t exactly on our cultural bingo cards for 2025… yet here we are. Lily Allen’s new album is a gloriously messy post-divorce confessional — a world away from the Gwyneth Paltrow school of conscious uncoupling. Plus, freebirthing — what it is, why it’s trending, and how it’s dividing the internet. If you or somebody you know has experienced sexual assault and are in need of support, please call 1800 RESPECT on 1800 737 732. Help is available 24 hours a day, seven days a week. And, always consult your healthcare provider for advice specific to your situation. Support independent women's media What To Listen To Next: Listen to our latest episode: Other People’s Marriages & Your New 'Shobby' Listen: The Precise Etiquette Of A 'Grudget' Listen: Kim K's Bush & An Office Politics Dilemma Listen: A 'Furious' King & The Rise Of The Barbie Waist Listen: The Friends Vs Family Trap & We're All Rapunzel Now Listen: What Did You Do Yesterday? Listen: "A Comedian Hurt My Feelings" Listen: Every Thought We Had About The Victoria Beckham Documentary Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts Discover more Mamamia Podcasts here including the very latest episode of Parenting Out Loud, the parenting podcast for people who don't listen to... parenting podcasts. Watch Mamamia Out Loud: Mamamia Out Loud on YouTube What to read: 'This Nobody Wants This season 2 storyline is painfully accurate. It made me feel seen.' 6 behind-the-scenes facts that will change the way you watch Nobody Wants This season two. Why everyone is talking about Lily Allen's new album. 'David Harbour and Lily Allen just shared their home with us. And I really wish they hadn't.' THE BLOCK 2025 FINALE: A record-breaking win and two surprise disappointments. THE END BITS: Check out our merch at MamamiaOutLoud.com Mamamia studios are styled with furniture from Fenton and Fenton GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message. Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud and on Tiktok @mamamiaoutloud Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures. Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Episode 174: Orgies to Monogamy?! The Double Teamed Twins Spill the Truth - Lessons from Non-Monogamy Get ready for a juicy and unexpected twist with the Double Teamed Twins!

In this follow-up to Part 1, I continue my candid conversation with licensed professional counselor and AASECT-certified sex therapist Kelvin Pace, diving even deeper into what consensual non-monogamy really looks like in practice. From swinging to polyamory to kink, we unpack the myths, labels, and lived realities behind open relationships. Kelvin explains why communication and consent—not structure—define success, and why non-monogamous relationships can often be just as loving and committed as traditional ones. We also explore the overlap between kink and CNM, how the military became part of swinging lore, and the importance of sex-positive therapy that challenges bias instead of pathologizing pleasure.Timestamps:00:00 – Welcome back & why you should listen to Part 1 first00:58 – Do open marriages usually end?02:03 – Swinging vs. polyamory: orientation or play?04:25 – The many forms of consensual non-monogamy06:10 – How kink overlaps (and doesn't) with CNM08:02 – The biggest myths about non-monogamy10:10 – Therapy, bias, and the importance of consent12:05 – Parenting and openness about sexuality14:00 – Did swinging really start in the military?15:22 – Kelvin's quick-fire questions: definition, orgasm, fantasy17:00 – Where to find Kelvin Want a deeper look? Watch the full episode on YouTube for a more visual experience of today's discussion. This episode is best enjoyed on video—don't miss out!Karen Bigman, a Sexual Health Alliance Certified Sex Educator, Life, and Menopause Coach, tackles the often-taboo subject of sexuality with a straightforward and candid approach. We explore the intricacies of sex during perimenopause, post-menopause, and andropause, offering insights and support for all those experiencing these transformative phases.This podcast is not intended to give medical advice. Karen Bigman is not a medical professional. For any medical questions or issues, please visit your licensed medical provider.Looking for some fresh perspective on sex in midlife? You can find me here:Email: karen@taboototruth.comWebsite: https://www.taboototruth.com/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/taboototruthYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@taboototruthpodcastAbout the Guest:Kelvin Pace graduated with a master's in clinical psychology from the University of Alaska Anchorage in 2009. He is a licensed professional counselor and supervisor and an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Supervisor.He is the owner of KpaceCounseling, LLC in Anchorage, Alaska. Kelvin works with couples and individuals dealing with sexual or relationship issues that include low desire, anxiety surrounding sex, and infidelity. His current focus is on mindfulness-based interventions to manage sexual concerns, working with individuals and couples either in or looking to explore non-traditional relationship orientations such as consensual/ethical non-monogamy.Connect with Kelvin Pace:Website: kpacecounseling.netInstagram:

This week, Vee and Elle chat with Eden, a tantra facilitator and intimacy coach, discussing the importance of creating safe spaces for women to explore their sexuality and intimacy without the male gaze. They talk what actually happens inside femme-only temples — no boys, no judgment, just sacred play, deep connection, and maybe a little glitter lube. They unpack queerness, non-monogamy, and the power of women's spaces that feel safe and sexy. From overcoming mean-girl energy to feeling fully seen in our desires, this convo pulls back the curtain on tantra, sisterhood, and the kind of turn-on that heals. Introduction to Eden and Creating Safe Spaces for Women  (00:00)Exploring Queerness and Its Pathway to Non-Monogamy (7:31)Monogamish & Territorial Feelings and Do You and Your Partner Share Separate Play Details (10:51)Elle's Journey Into Queerness and All Femme Party Experiences (16:08)(The Role of Male Gaze When Women Are Playing And Who Initiates in all Femme Spaces (19:37)Painted Picture Being In The Temple of Eden  (22:29)Ice Breaker Games and Relating Games (26:04)Is There A Space for Straight Women In All Women Spaces? (31:42)What's the Difference between Temple Parties vs. Traditional Play Parties (35:20)Expanding Events DC and Philly (43:08)What if I am a  Newvie or Inexperienced to Tantra, Can I Come to Temple of Eden? (46:01Practices To Do At Home To Feel Your Inner Goddess (50:27)Follow Along! EFT Tapping Glamour Magic Practice  (52:03)—Follow her on Instagram embodiedwithedenEvents tantraphilly.comEdens WebsiteWhere to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com © 2025 GGD Alchemy, LLC. All Rights Reserved.

You've read the books. You've had the conversations. You've tried to journal your way into compersion.So why does your stomach still drop the moment your partner says they're heading to someone else's house?In this episode, I'm unpacking the real reason jealousy sticks around in polyamory — even when you've “done the work.” Spoiler alert: it's not about logic, it's about your nervous system.We'll explore:Why jealousy is a felt experience, not a failureThe toxic pressure to be the “chill poly person”What actually helps (hint: it's not another script)Real-life signs you're stuck in a jealousy loopA breathwork practice you can use mid-spiralListener Q&A on compersion, insecurity, and nervous system careIf your brain says “I'm fine” but your body says “I'm not safe,” this one's for you.

Adam called in to talk all about how he dealt with and conquered his jealousy in his non-monogamous relationship. Tune in to hear all the details including how hardcore his girlfriend was and how and why he was super jealous about the way she wanted things set up, the boundaries he tried to put in place and why they didn't stick, the first sex party they went to and what made him extremely jealous and how he dealt with his feelings, how she liked to tell him about her hookups and how he learned to handle that even though it made him feel terrible, how writing helped him process his emotions, what went down the night she had a foursome and why that was his breaking point, how being uncomfortable and pushed out of his comfort zone actually helped him grow, how reframing and tools from extreme sports helped him calm his mind, why he now believes a little jealousy can be healthy, and how he eventually got to a a place where it even turned him on plus a whole lot more. You can buy his book here: Seek the Risk **To see HOT pics ADAM and his GF JANE plu see pics of my other female guests + hear anonymous confessions + get all the episodes early and AD FREE, join my Patreon! It's only $7 a month and you can cancel at any time. You can sign up here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.patreon.com/StrictlyAnonymousPodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and when you join, I'll throw in a complimentary link to my private Discord! MY BOOK IS NOW OUT FOR PRE-ORDER!!!! Strictly Anonymous Confessions: Secret Sex Lives of Total Strangers. A bunch of short, super sexy, TRUE stories. GET YOUR COPY NOW: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://amzn.to/4i7hBCd⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠   To join SDC and get a FREE Trial! click here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.sdc.com/?ref=37712⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to SDC.com and use my code 37712   Want to be on the show? Email me at ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠strictlyanonymouspodcast@gmail.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ or go to ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ and click on "Be on the Show" Have something quick you want to confess while remaining anonymous? Call the CONFESSIONS hotline at 347-420-3579. You can call 24/7. All voices are changed.  Sponsors:  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://uberlube.com/discount/Strictly⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use code: STRICTLY for 10% off Uberlube aka the BEST Lube EVER ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://bluechew.com⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your first month of the new Blewchew Max FREE! use code: STRICTLYANON ⁠⁠https://beducate.me/pd2532-anonymous⁠⁠⁠  ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Use code: ANONYMOUS to get 50% off your yearly pass plus get a 14-day money-back guarantee ⁠⁠⁠https://brooklynbedding.com⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use my promo code STRICTLY at checkout to get 30% off sitewide ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://vb.health⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ To get 10% off Drive Boost by VB Health use code: STRICTLY ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://butterwellness.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Use the code “STRICTLY” at checkout for 20% off your entire order To get $15 OFF your female oxytocin arousal tablets and more, use code STRICTLY here: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://shamelesscare.sjv.io/xLQ3Jv⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Follow me! Instagram ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/strictanonymous/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Twitter ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://twitter.com/strictanonymous?lang=en⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Website: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠http://www.strictlyanonymouspodcast.com/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

EPISODE 278 Interview with Jessica Fern & David Cooley. Jessica Fern holds a Master's degree in Conflict Resolution, is a Certified Clinical Trauma Professional, a trained Internal Family Systems (IFS) practitioner, and an integrative therapist drawing on 25 years of experience in somatic, narrative, psychotherapeutic, and spiritual healing modalities. She is the internationally recognized author of Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and Nonmonogamy, The Polysecure Workbook, and Polywise: A Deeper Dive Into Navigating Open Relationships. Through her international private practice, Jessica works with individuals, couples, and multi-partner relationships to break free from reactive patterns, cultural conditioning, insecure attachment, and past trauma—empowering them to embody new possibilities in life and love.  David Cooley is a professional Restorative Justice facilitator, diversity and privilege awareness trainer, and bilingual cultural broker. He is the creator of the Restorative Relationship Conversations model, a process that transforms interpersonal conflict into deeper connection, intimacy and repair. In his private practice, David specializes in working with non-monogamous and LGBTQ partnerships, incorporating a variety of modalities including trauma-informed care, attachment theory, somatic practices, narrative theory, and mindfulness-based techniques. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

30 MEN PAINTED HER WHITE.Sofie Marie has entered the gangbang arena — and she's not playing small. This week on the show, Sofie breaks down her 30-man gangbang in excruciatingly BONKERS detail: how it started, how it ended, and everything she felt in between. Did she cum? Was she overwhelmed? Was she painted white? You already know.We talk Stepmom Porn, industry trends (hi Lily Phillips, Bonnie Blue), and what it takes to organize something this insane — physically and mentally. Sofie's not just an Adult Star, she's a competitor. She's got a vision, a network, and maybe… a 50-man follow-up in the works?This one is hardcore, fast-paced, and full of advice for anyone curious about swinging, adult content, or diving headfirst into the deep end of the sex work pool. Sofie Marie does not hold back — and you're gonna love it.Welcome to EP 196: "Paint By Numbers" with Sofie MarieWatch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Sofie MarieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/yummysofie (@yummysofie)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

In this episode of Luvbites by Dr. Tara Podcast, to celebrate the launch of her new book How Do You Like It, Dr. Tara is answering your juiciest questions from Instagram and YouTube! From bedroom confidence to relationship red flags, she's diving deep into everything you've been too shy to ask. #drtara #sexeducation #relationshipadvice

In this illuminating conversation, Anthony and Pinky go "Deeper" with Tantra experts Mikhayla Harrell and Kaitlin Nolan to untangle centuries of myths and misconceptions surrounding Tantra and the Kama Sutra — and explore how these ancient practices can deepen connection and pleasure in modern non-monogamous relationships. Far from being just about sex positions or sacred rituals, Tantra and the Kama Sutra invite us into a practice of presence, play, and embodied awareness. Together, the guests and hosts dive into the intersections of spirituality, sensuality, and ethics in today's evolving relationship landscape. ✨ Connect with Our Guests: • Explore embodied creativity with Mikhayla - where art, movement, and mindfulness meet. https://starblossomlife.com | Instagram: @mikhaylastarblossomlife (https://instagram.com/mikhaylastarblossomlife) • Kaitlin → Grab your free Erotic Rituals Playbook at https://pleasureinpractice.com | Instagram: @pleasure.in.practice (https://instagram.com/pleasure.in.practice) • Learn more about the Kama Sutra with Seema Anand → YouTube: @SeemaAnandStoryTelling (https://youtube.com/@SeemaAnandStoryTelling)

We've got company! This week we're joined by Brandon Kyle Goodman — writer, actor, and the mind behind Heaux Church, Tell Me Something Messy, and Big Mouth's own Walter the Lovebug!We talk queer sex education, non-monogamy, writing, love, and what it means to find freedom in your “mess.” Brandon shares how being Black, queer, and nonbinary has shaped their relationship with intimacy and joy — and delivers one of the funniest Bad Queer Opinions yet.Stay tuned for Queer Urban Dictionary (Frot + Bull Queer) and shoutouts to some incredible queer creators and spaces.Shoutouts:Kris: For Everyone Collective - is a formerly incarcerated worker-owned brand combining design with community organizing. Follow and support on IG @foreveryone.collectiveShana: Thique Party - An event series celebrating plus size queer and trans bodies. Curated by DJ Mangumami - Follow so you can hit up the next party: @djmangumami and @thique.party Brandon: Everywhere is queer - A worldwide map of 19,000+ LGBTQ+ organizations and job board - Follow on @everywhereisqueerEpisode Notes: 0:59 - Queer Urban Dictionary2:45 - Guest Intro: Brandon Kyle Goodman3:41 - Guest Interview with Brandon Kyle Goodman 56:08 - Bad Queer Opinion 1:10:30 - Shoutouts Share your Am I A Bad Queer? hereOn Wednesdays We Read (OWWR Pod)We are two best friends who do a deep dive into a new book book series, one book at a timeListen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showPATREON: patreon.com/BadQueersPodcast Subscribe to our Youtubehttps://www.youtube.com/@BadQueersPodcast The opinions expressed during this podcast are conversational in nature and expressed only for comedic purposes. Not all of the facts will be correct but we attempt to be as accurate as possible. BQ Media LLC, the hosts, nor any guest host(s) hold no liability over the conversations on this podcast and by using this podcast you understand that it is solely for entertainment purposes. Copyright Disclaimer: Under Section 107 of the Copyright Act 1976, allowance is made for "fair use" for purposes such as criticism, comment, news reporting, teaching, parody, scholarship and research.

We all experience transitions in our relationships. And, they can actually be even more frequent in non-monogamous relationships, like when our attention shifts from one partner to another, when we leave for a date, or when we return home. These seemingly small shifts in energy and attention can create surprising friction, even in the healthiest dynamics.A ton of us could use extra support around these issues. In fact, transition management is the topic that results in the most emergency sessions scheduled with Dr. Joli! That's because these moments, when handled poorly, can turn what could be positive experiences into sources of conflict and disconnection. But with some thoughtful planning and self-awareness, transitions can actually become opportunities for deeper intimacy.In this episode, we talk about:— What relationship transitions actually are (they're more than just coming and going!)— Why the "grinding" day-to-day moments can either build you up or wear you down— The importance of acknowledging your own transition style—are you a "fast shifter" or a "slow shifter"?— Why it's okay to be "high maintenance" about your transition needs (and why pretending you don't have needs only makes things worse)— How to create simple but effective transition rituals that don't have to be complicated to work— Why compromise in transition planning doesn't necessarily mean "splitting the difference"— The critical difference between reconnection and debriefing (and why mixing them can lead to problems)— How to handle the "last bit of time" before reunion, which is often the hardest part for the person at home— The unique challenges of managing transitions in long-distance relationships— Why the fear of being "too needy" can actually prevent us from creating the transition support we really needJOIN The Year Of Opening® community for a full year of learning & support. Registration is open now at ⁠⁠www.TheYearOfOpening.com⁠⁠Learn the 5 secrets to open your relationship the smart wayAre you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.comGet the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything hereMusic: Dance of Felt by ⁠Blue Dot Sessions

Yoni and her partner have a non-monogamous agreement, but historically Yoni is the only one who has acted on it. Now her partner is getting in on the action, and it's triggering challenging emotions and behaviors in Yoni. She wants to do better by their relationship, and Jessica helps her investigate the workings of her heart.

THEY WENT FROM ROLEPLAYING TO HOTWIFING, AND THEN...She did it. Serenity Cox just pulled off her very first gangbang — six guys, no turning back, and she's here to tell every last juicy detail. In this wild, honest, insanely fun episode, Serenity breaks down exactly how the whole thing came together: how many loads, where they went, what surprised her, whether or not she was overwhelmed, and whether she'd do it again.But it's not just about the gangbang. We talk about Serenity's real-life hotwife origin story — the kind that starts with roleplaying at home with her husband and ends with her winning major mainstream porn awards. She opens up about filming wild sex for the internet, falling in love with it, and then skyrocketing into scenes with brands like Vixen, Wifey, and more. There's advice, laughs, wild stories — and it all goes off the rails in the best way possible. As things usually do around here.So strap in, turn on, and enjoy EP 195: "The Hotwife Express" with Serenity Cox.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Serenity CoxInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/serenitycox.official (@serenitycox.official)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Send us a textWe hit 100,000 downloads! And as a special thank you to all of our listeners, Chad and Jo recorded this special bonus episode. Chad puts Jo in the hot seat and gets her thoughts on the journey of the first 100,000 downloads of The Confident Swinger Podcast.Support the showOld music (

In this candid and compassionate episode, hosts John and Jackie explore how couples in consensual non-monogamous relationships can navigate major fights and moments of emotional turbulence. They answer a viewer's heartfelt question about whether a serious fight means the lifestyle “isn't right” for them — and reveal why the opposite is often true.  Drawing from over two decades of experience, John and Jackie explain that conflict is a normal part of any relationship, not just open ones. They share how fear, unfamiliarity, and emotional overwhelm can spark arguments — and how learning to communicate calmly and empathetically can turn those same moments into opportunities for growth and deeper connection. They also discuss how to “baby step” through difficult moments by adjusting boundaries and pacing, creating space for healing and rebuilding trust. This episode reminds viewers that consensual non-monogamy isn't simply about sexual exploration — it's about cultivating safety, self-worth, and authentic partnership through honesty and emotional awareness.   

What happens when curiosity meets consciousness? In this episode, Ava and Ramone share their five-day journey at the New England Conscious Arts Festival, a transformative Tantra experience that brought together about 130 open-hearted souls—most exploring non-monogamy, self-discovery, and deep connection. From eye-gazing ceremonies to "liquid love" sessions, emotional alchemy, and even firewalking; Ava and Ramon open up about what it's like to strip away shame, lean into vulnerability, and embrace some unexpected lessons though Tantra. Ava reflects on her shift from skepticism to surrender, while Ramon shares how emotional and sensual exploration deepened his understanding of connection and consent. By the end, both walk away forever changed—and perhaps a little more open-minded than ever. #ThreeShadesOfGreyPodcast #TantraFestival #NonMonogamy #ConsciousConnection #LiquidLove #EmotionalAlchemy #OpenRelationships #TantricJourney #SexPositive #PersonalGrowth #AvaMoore #PinkyGreyman #AnthonyGreyman  

Send us a textIn this episode, Chad and Jo talk about which person initiates in a play situation. He often leaves it up to Jo, so he knows that she is comfortable and wants to play. And while that is a good strategy, it often puts the pressure on her.Support the showOld music (

Delanie Fischer chats with Em Schulz, co-host of And That's Why We Drink and one of Delanie's best buds, to discuss past heartbreak, healing from breakups, and what they wish they would've known - like how to avoid tolerating, and dishing out, toxic behavior. Having been with their current partners for nearly a decade, they share their perspective on what's led to the most relationship growth.  Plus: + 8 Things To Try During A Breakup (Weird Stuff Works)  + The Worst Things They've Done In Relationships  + Healthy Partnership, Marriage, and Personal Growth  Self-Helpless on Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/selfhelpless Your Host, Delanie Fischer: https://www.delaniefischer.com EPISODES RELATED TO THIS TOPIC: Your Burning Relationship Questions Answered with Rachel DeAlto: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/3f1ddb9c/your-burning-relationship-questions-answered-with-rachel-dealto The Psychology of Infidelity: Why People Cheat, Non-Monogamy vs. Monogamy, and Sexual Mindfulness with Dr. Tara: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/24240595/the-psychology-of-infidelity-why-people-cheat-non-monogamy-vs-monogamy-and-sexual-mindfulness-with-dr-tara Craving A Healthy Relationship? Understand Your Attachment Style with Thais Gibson: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/228cc412/craving-a-healthy-relationship-understand-your-attachment-style-with-thais-gibson When My Husband Came Out: Sexuality, Betrayal, and Healing with Jessica Frew: https://www.delaniefischer.com/selfhelplesspodcast/episode/229e6642/when-my-husband-came-out-sexuality-betrayal-and-healing-with-jessica-frew Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

EPISODE 277 Interview with Lola Phoenix. Lola Phoenix is an American born writer living in Sweden, working within digital marketing while trying to find an agent to represent their fiction work. Lola is the author of “The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy”, “The Non-Monogamy Journal” and “Supporting Someone Polyamorous” as well as a weekly advice column and podcast called Non-Monogamy Help. Lola is also an amateur Strongman athlete and has a special interest in fitness and nutrition science. When not writing books, Lola is either at the gym, talking walks in nature, learning about sciencey stuff or baking new treats. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

On today's episode, we have Shai (he/him) join us for a conversation about expanding the capacity of our cultural imagination. Together we talk about the spectrum of non-monogamy, the Olympics of relationships, and how to support yourself and others through the expansion process.

MARRIED MEN CAN'T STOP CALLING HER. Pepper Kat is a full-time phone sex operator — yes, still a thing — and she's taking SUPER horny calls from strangers every day, turning voices into blowout orgasms. But that's not all…We get into the freakiest things she's ever heard on a call, the absolutely bonkers places people call from, and what it's like when a couple hires you to masturbate on FaceTime while they fuck in front of you. On an iPad. In their bedroom.She's got some amazingly deep knowledge on why people love the freaky taboo things that they do, why voice still dominates even in a visual world, and how her dirty talk turned into a thriving creator business across OnlyFans, LoyalFans, Fansly, Playboy and more.This episode is filthy, smart, and fucking fascinating.Enjoy EP 194: "Dream Girl" with Pepper Kat.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Pepper KatInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/peppertheblackkat (@peppertheblackkat) Follow Spicy SpectrumInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/spicyspectrumpodcast (@spicyspectrumpodcast) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Reclaiming one's body and voice is a key part of the healing journey for an abuse survivor, but can this process happen concurrent with practicing consensual non-monogamy? In this episode, Dr. Holly Richmond talks to us about how survivors can avoid potential re-traumatization and increase the chance for corrective experiences within consensual non-monogamy. Trauma survivors often learn to freeze/fawn as a way to reduce harm. These behavioral patterns can continue to stay with them as they explore non-monogamy making consent difficult to verify. In this episode, we discuss how to increase a sense of agency and pleasure while healing as consensual non-monogamy is explored. Please join us as once again, we face the hard topics and dare to Open Deeply. How to find Dr. Holly Richmond: Media links: drhollyrichmond.com and @drhollyrichmond on IG. My book, Reclaiming Pleasure, is available on Amazon and at all major book sellers. How to find Sunny Megatron: Website: http://sunnymegatron.com Facebook http://facebook.com/sunnymegatron Twitter http://twitter.com/sunnymegatron Instagram http://instagram.com/sunnymegatron Tiktok https://www.tiktok.com/@sunnymegatron YouTube https://www.youtube.com/sunnymegatron American Sex Podcast https://open.spotify.com/show/2HroMhWJnyZbMSsOBKwBnk How to find Kate Loree: Website http://kateloree.com Instagram: http://instagram.com/opendeeplywithkateloree Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@opendeeplywithkateloree Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/kateloreelmft Twitter http://twitter.com/kateloreelmft YouTube https://youtube.com/channel/UCSTFAqGYKW3sIUa0tKivbqQ Open Deeply podcast is not therapy or a replacement for therapy.

Participate in this anonymous 20-30-minute survey here: Chapman University StudyThis year, we've partnered with OPEN and Dr. Amy Moors at Chapman University, a leading non-monogamy researcher, to bring a new level of academic rigor to this research!Why participate: This data directly supports advocacy work – previous surveys helped win legal protections in major cities. Eligibility: 18+ and practice any form of consensual non-monogamy (polyamory, open relationships, swinging, relationship anarchy, etc.)Study details: Chapman University IRB approved (IRB No. #26-13). Research questions: Dr. Amy Moors, moors@chapman.edu. IRB concerns: (714) 628-2833 or irb@chapman.edu.Survey LinkParticipation is completely voluntary and anonymous. Please share with your non-monogamous networks – more voices = better data = stronger advocacy!