Podcasts about nonmonogamy

What happens when your non-monogamy is no longer a secret? In this episode, we go deeper with Mr. and Mrs. Jones of the We Gotta Thing Podcast to unpack the emotional journey of being outed to their church (and family)—and how they handled it with grace, honesty, and strength. We share our own fears around exposure and talk about how to prepare for conversations you might never want to have. Whether you're out loud or staying low-key, this episode is filled with tools, perspective, and solidarity. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website We Gotta Thing | Mr. & Mrs. Jones Desire Riviera Maya Pearl  

We made it, Raccoons! Season 19 is FINALLY over, and what a way to end it with another disappointing tell-nothing. Kody and Robyn continue to lie and gaslight the audience, Meri continues to simp for Kody, Janelle wants us to know she likes to f*ck, and Christine is living her best life. Thank God this sh*t is OVER! We need a break! Get more cringey contact by joining our Patreon! https://patreon.com/realitytvcringeFollow us on IG https://instagram.com/realitytvcringeSubscribe to see our raccoon faces on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_2CgqXLWjIEKV9PCtH3Kjw?sub_confirmation=1Leave a message for us on SpeakPipe: https://speakpipe.com/realitytvcringeSupport the pod by leaving a 5-star review on your favorite podcast platform! Thank you so much!

On today's episode, we have Lea (she/her) join us for a conversation about the liberation of desire and the future of relationships. Together we talk about how the Disney dream dies, the intensity of paradigm shock, and cheating on the narrative.

SHE'S HAVING SEX IN FRONT OF HER HUSBAND NON-STOP. Adult Star and OnlyFans Creator Krystal Sparks didn't always live life wide open — but once she found a partner who was into swinging, hotwifing, and sex parties, the floodgates (and, well, everything else) opened. Suddenly, Krystal was in the orgy room at a sex club, living out wild fantasies with multiple men in front of her husband — and loving every second of it.We talk about how those experiences unlocked something primal in her, how she went from living in secret to thriving in the spotlight, and how that path led straight to OnlyFans and the Adult Industry. Krystal's story is proof that sometimes, the real glow-up starts in a sex club, with excellent lighting.This one's hot, hilarious, and full of big freak energy. You've been warned.ENJOY EP 178: "Freak Flag Flying" with Krystal Sparks.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Krystal SparksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/pskrystalsparks (@pskrystalsparks)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

In this episode of LaidOPEN Podcast, I have an insightful conversation with activist and author Dean Spade about his extensive work in movements for queer and trans liberation, anti-militarism, and the abolition of police and prisons.  Dean and I discuss his new book titled 'Love in a Fucked Up World: How to Build Relationships, Hook Up, and Raise Hell Together,' covering topics such as mindful practices for managing stress, the evolution of his book over nine years, and personal growth in relationships.  We also delve into the romance myth, decentralizing romantic relationships, and the importance of community support. Dean shares valuable insights and practices for generating internal safety and the importance of collective care in social movements.  This episode is an enriching dialogue aimed at anyone interested in social justice, personal growth, and transformative community practices.   Show Notes: 00:00 Introduction and Course Announcement 00:55 Introducing Dean Spade 02:01 Dean Spade's Book Journey 02:28 Healing Modalities and Personal Growth 03:05 Non-Monogamous Relationships 03:34 Challenges in Writing the Book 05:15 Self-Help Literature Critique 06:45 Emotional Awareness in Movements 15:27 Decentralizing Romantic Relationships 23:49 Self-Generated Safety and Belonging 31:40 Therapy Misconceptions and Realities 32:38 The Overuse of Pathologizing Language 33:23 Forgiveness and Self-Inquiry in Relationships 36:05 The Impact of Alcoholism on Relationships 37:28 The Process of Forgiveness and Healing 41:34 Sexual Trauma and Cultural Narratives 44:18 Transformative Justice and Community Response 49:52 Decentralizing Romantic Relationships You can watch this episode on my YouTube channel, just search LaidOPEN. Plus, I have free guided visualizations and a host of other tools and resources available to you there and on my website at CharnaCassell.com.

The Brown's discuss Coyote Pass, the family's mismanagement of funds, Christine & Kody's intimate life (ew), and the disillusionment of Meri & Robyn's friendship. Oh, and in case no one figured it out - Kody gives Robyn the luggage rack. OMG is this season over yet?! Get more cringey contact by joining our Patreon! https://patreon.com/realitytvcringeFollow us on IG https://instagram.com/realitytvcringeSubscribe to see our raccoon faces on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_2CgqXLWjIEKV9PCtH3Kjw?sub_confirmation=1Leave a message for us on SpeakPipe: https://speakpipe.com/realitytvcringeSupport the pod by leaving a 5-star review on your favorite podcast platform! Thank you so much!

EPISODE 270: Interview with Cory Wagner. Cory Wagner is an artist and entrepreneur from the middle of nowhere in Wyoming and lives in Houston, TX. He convinced his wife to do the LWB program to save his marriage, and instead, ended up saving his sanity and gave himself a chance at happiness and a new life. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

On today's episode, we have Dr. Dave Rabin (he/him) join us for a conversation all about the ever expansive journey of knowing thyself. Together we talk about feeling our own damn feelings, the power of presence, and cultivating safety within the body.

READY TO GO FULL EYES WIDE SHUT???This week Dustin welcomes Certified Relationship Coach by day, Erotic Event Producer by night — Ally Iseman to the show, and Ally is basically your favorite rom-com lead if she moonlighted as the mastermind behind elite and mysterious sex parties in European palaces. Her luxury sex events (featured in The New York Times and Cosmo, thank you very much) are FULL immersions, we're talking invite-only, ultra-curated, and themed to the nines — her latest? A horny wedding in a centuries-old Lisbon Palace. Guests must qualify to enter. Orgasms optional.Ally walks us through the very real logistics of planning a high-end sex party, what actually happens once the doors close, and how she got into this wild wild world in the first place. She also shares her very own experience of attending a sex party for the first time.Towards the end of the episode, we get into her work as a Certified Relationship Coach — helping couples open up their relationships and embrace their kinks. Get ready to go behind the curtain and way down the rabbit hole in EP 177: "High End" with Ally Iseman.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Ally IsemanInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/allyiseman (@allyiseman) Follow Passport2PleasureInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/passport2pleasure (@passport2pleasure) Follow Kavanos LifeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/kavanoslife (@kavanoslife) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexpartyfm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

This week, Sonia and Roberta welcome Deb Dennis, an attorney and moderator the DMV chapter of Black and Poly. That's right—we're diving into the world of polyamory, also known as ethical non-monogamy. From the misconceptions (spoiler: it's not all about sex!) to the relationship dynamics and emotional maturity it requires, we're unpacking it all. Deb shares her personal journey, how she navigates her relationships, and the supportive community she found while educating herself about this lifestyle. It's a grown conversation that just might expand how you think about love, connection, and commitment.Like. Follow. Share. Website: grownandgrowingpodcast.comFacebook: @GrownandgrowingpodcastInstagram: @GrownandgrowingpodcastYouTube: Grown and Growing PodcastEmail: grown.growingpodcast@gmail.com

Send us a textPlaytionships, or the relationship between play partners, often end. Sometimes they end organically, and sometimes one person or one couple ends it. It's easy to say that it's ok to end things, but the reality is that sometimes it's challenging. It can be hard for everyone involved.Today, Chad and Jo talk about that.Support the showOld music (

We explore the nuanced topic of consent violations within non-monogamous relationships. From the ethics of sharing intimate photos to the complexities of informed consent in the context of infidelity, this conversation invites Evolving Lovers to consider how trust, transparency, and communication are foundational to ethical non-monogamy.

The Freak Show is FINALLY OVER and we couldn't be happier! Time to take a shower and figure out what we should cover next....Get more cringey contact by joining our Patreon! https://patreon.com/realitytvcringeFollow us on IG https://instagram.com/realitytvcringeSubscribe to see our raccoon faces on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_2CgqXLWjIEKV9PCtH3Kjw?sub_confirmation=1Leave a message for us on SpeakPipe: https://speakpipe.com/realitytvcringeSupport the pod by leaving a 5-star review on your favorite podcast platform! Thank you so much!

Sukanya calls Kody a big diaper pamper baby, Robyn still refuses to participate, Christine calls Kody out for his rotten behavior, and Janelle admits to hating who Robyn and Kody have become. Holy sh*t, are we done with this season already?! Get more cringey contact by joining our Patreon! https://patreon.com/realitytvcringeFollow us on IG https://instagram.com/realitytvcringeSubscribe to see our raccoon faces on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_2CgqXLWjIEKV9PCtH3Kjw?sub_confirmation=1Leave a message for us on SpeakPipe: https://speakpipe.com/realitytvcringeSupport the pod by leaving a 5-star review on your favorite podcast platform! Thank you so much!

SHE'S A STEPMOM & MILF WHO LOVES YOUNGER MEN. Dustin welcomes Adult Performer and OnlyFans Creator Addyson James to the show this week for an explosive episode that's been a long time coming. Addyson tells Dustin all about her experience in the Mainstream Porn World with just shy of 2 years under her belt. The "firsts" she's had, the "firsts" she's about to have, what it REALLY feels like to play the Stepmom role, to be the MILF, and of course, what it's like banging tons of younger men. Addyson also reveals her No. 1 Request on OnlyFans, her dog getting caught in the squirt crossfire, and her desire to put together a scene featuring herself and all of the other Military Veterans in the Porn Industry for one big blowout. Strap yourself in and enjoy EP 176: "The Professional" with Addyson JamesWatch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Addyson James Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialaddysonjames (@officialaddysonjames) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Is non-monogamy really the higher path to spiritual awakening—or just another way to avoid commitment? Lately, I've been watching a growing trend in the spiritual and wellness world that claims non-monogamy is a sign of higher consciousness, an enlightened way of loving that transcends the old, tired ideas of monogamy. Yet, so often, when spirituality merges with social media influence and unchecked ego, it becomes a smokescreen that leaves women doubting their own desires and boundaries.  Join me as I pull back the veil and invite you to remember that your boundaries, your voice, and your choice matter deeply. You don't owe your evolution to anyone else's journey. As a woman who has been married for 28 years, I have explored these questions in my own relationship. I share honestly why I have chosen monogamy as my personal path—not out of rigidity, but because of the power and spiritual growth that comes from meeting yourself again and again with the same partner. And beyond my story, we talk about how this trend often leaves women with nothing but confusion, deep wounds, and a longing to be chosen. In this episode, we explore: The cultural narrative that non-monogamy is an evolved spiritual path Why women are so often the ones “going along” to please a partner, despite feeling the sting of not being chosen The power of monogamy to reveal every hidden part of yourself—and how that is its own sacred spiritual practice The way our bodies speak up when we are in situations that don't feel safe or aligned How to honor your own desires, even when they don't fit the latest trend or influencer narrative The critical difference between choosing from power and abandoning yourself in the name of someone else's idea of expansion Building a foundation of self-love as the deepest trust you can offer yourself If it resonates, please share it with another woman who might need this perspective today. Connect with Dr. Amanda on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/midlife.muse/  Join Dr. Amanda for The Sacred Assessment at Omega  https://www.eomega.org/workshops/sacred-assessment-women

Send us a textBreak-ups are a part of life, and when it happens in the LS it's even harder for everyone to navigate.Today, Chad and Jo talk about navigating through the break-ups, whether you are on the inside or outside.Support the showOld music (

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Van and Rachel are back from the Memorial Day break to talk Trump's "big, beautiful bill" (:48), Elon Musk's decision to officially leave the administration (2:40), the latest out of the Diddy trial (8:15) and Trump's recent pardons (17:37). Then they give their reactions to Druski's skit in whiteface (24:46) and have a conversation about conversations with RGIII (32:53), before they give some updates on the alpha dog King Charles (45:46). Finally, Mandii B and WeezyWTF of Decisions Decisions join to talk about the name change from Whoreible Decisions (58:32) and takeaways from their upcoming book, ‘No Holes Barred: A Dual Manifesto of Sexual Exploration and Power' (1:07:37) Hosts: Van Lathan and Rachel Lindsay Guests: Mandii B and WeezyWTF Producers: Donnie Beacham Jr. and Ashleigh Smith Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Can these people be anymore revolting? And what is so special about Taya? Why does she get everything she wants? These people are the worst! Get more cringey contact by joining our Patreon! https://patreon.com/realitytvcringeFollow us on IG https://instagram.com/realitytvcringeSubscribe to see our raccoon faces on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_2CgqXLWjIEKV9PCtH3Kjw?sub_confirmation=1Leave a message for us on SpeakPipe: https://speakpipe.com/realitytvcringeSupport the pod by leaving a 5-star review on your favorite podcast platform! Thank you so much!

Tired of misunderstandings, silent resentment, or agreements that leave you feeling unseen?In this episode, we unpack the real difference between collaboration and compromise—and how building intentional, values-based agreements in non-monogamy can transform your relationships.

Meet Joe Sanok Joe Sanok helps counselors to create thriving practices that are the envy of other counselors. He has helped counselors to grow their businesses by 50-500% and is proud of all the private practice owners who are growing their income, influence, and impact on the world. Click here to explore consulting with Joe. […] The post Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and NonMonogamy with Jessica Fern | POP 1211 appeared first on How to Start, Grow, and Scale a Private Practice | Practice of the Practice.

Lola has been exploring non-monogamy since about 2009 and like many of us, their motivation has shifted and evolved along the way. In this powerful interview Lola takes us through their beautiful journey of self-discovery, healing, and untangling the web of misconceptions we're taught about sex, love, and relationships. Lola Phoenix is an American-born writer living in Sweden, working within digital marketing while trying to find an agent to represent their fiction work. Lola is the author of The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy and The Non-Monogamy Journal as well as a weekly advice column and podcast called Non-Monogamy Help. Please check out nonmonogamyhelp.com for all of Lola's work! Lola is also an amateur Strongman athlete and has a special interest in fitness and nutrition. When not writing books, Lola is either at the gym, talking walks in nature, learning about sciencey stuff or baking new treats. Check out the full show notes here. Join the most amazing community of open-minded humans on the planet!   Click here to order your very own NNM shirt! $10 Off - Online STI Testing

The girls are back in their jammies and this time they've brought a special guest—Dragonfly returns for another round of real, raw, and playful conversation. In this episode, Pinky, Ava, and Dragonfly dive deep into the delicious topic of pleasure: from the power of self-connection to the fun of toys, and why prioritizing intimate time with yourself is more than just self-care—it's self-celebration. So grab your favorite toy (or take notes for later), because after this episode, you won't have homework… you'll have homeplay.  LINKS: Three Shade Of Grey | Website Dragonfly Somatic Wellness SOCIALS:  Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram Dragonfly's Instagram  

WILL THERE BE A NATIONWIDE PORN BAN?!? What does the current state of Censorship and Porn look like in America? Are there really people out there having sex with furniture? What's the best place out there to find the weirdest, horniest fan fiction about Taylor Swift, Ariana Grande, and Harry Styles? Is the Leonardo DiCaprio AirPod rumor true? Did I mention people having sex with furniture?To tackle all this AND MORE, Dustin welcomes one of the only people out there who is actually capable and qualified enough to do so: Porn Historian and Writer Noelle Perdue. Noelle handles this stuff for a living and is here to tell us all just how worried we should be about a Nationwide Ban on Porn as well as how out of control Censorship of Porn and Adult Content has become. Noelle is also responsible for writing MANY of your favorite Porn Movie Scripts, so pour yourself a heavy one, find your favorite couch (see what I did there?) and enjoy EP 175: "Saving Family Dinners" with Noelle Perdue.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Noelle PerdueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/all_day_breakfast_ (@all_day_breakfast_) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Get your cameras out, it's a moment for the pop culture history books. This week, we have an Everything In Conversation *with* the Queen of pop culture deep-dives: Caroline O'Donoghue.We tackled everything with the best-selling author, podcaster, and journalist, from how we consider art from artists who commit atrocious acts, to why we can't accept satire from women. There are some absolute gems including some very special analysis into why Gordon Ramsey's TV work is a feminist piece of culture worth academic investigation, and possibly one of the best listener questions we have ever received for a guest....Ramsey's Kitchen NightmaresThe Rachel Incident SkipshockSentimental Garbage Live Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

We're back with a brand new topic! In this episode we sit down with sex and relationship psychotherapist Nicole Thompson, an expert in psychedelic integration therapy and non-monogamous relationship structures.

In this episode of 'Get Real with Dakota', Dakota Ramppen and Dirty Lola delve into the complexities of love, sex, and relationships, particularly focusing on the themes of divorce and non-monogamy. They share personal experiences and insights on navigating emotional connections, the importance of communication, and the challenges of polyamory. The conversation emphasizes the need for self-awareness, creating personalized relationship standards, and the significance of pleasure during difficult times.Support Dirty Lola's work by visiting her Instagram @dirtylola and her website.Subscribe, leave a review, and share this episode to spread the tough love and real talk. 

The Quad celebrate Taya's birthday by floating in a giant bathtub on the Wilammette River (ew), Tyler confronts Sean and Alysia feels left out. These people suck! Get more cringey contact by joining our Patreon! https://patreon.com/realitytvcringeFollow us on IG https://instagram.com/realitytvcringeSubscribe to see our raccoon faces on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_2CgqXLWjIEKV9PCtH3Kjw?sub_confirmation=1Leave a message for us on SpeakPipe: https://speakpipe.com/realitytvcringeSupport the pod by leaving a 5-star review on your favorite podcast platform! Thank you so much!

Do you ever feel like you're doing everything right in your open or polyamorous relationship—and yet still crumble inside the moment your partner connects with someone else? In this honest and unfiltered episode, I explore what real self-love looks like in non-monogamous relationships—especially when comparison, jealousy, and insecurity hit hard. 

In this powerful episode of Three Shades Deeper, we sit down with the incomparable Cindy Gallop—advertising icon, entrepreneur, and founder of the groundbreaking platform MakeLoveNotPorn (https://makelovenotporn.tv). Known for speaking boldly about sex, Cindy shares how she “accidentally” got into porn—not the industry, but the mission to revolutionize how we think about it. Dating younger men led Cindy to discover a troubling gap between porn fantasy and real-world sex. Frustrated by the lack of practical, healthy sex education, she took action by launching MakeLoveNotPorn—a site that showcases real people having real sex, for the purpose of education, not titillation. We dive into:     •    Cindy's origin story and what inspired her to create a sex-positive business     •    The disconnect between mainstream porn and intimate reality     •    The role of MakeLoveNotPorn in normalizing open conversations around sex     •    How we can all be part of changing the narrative This episode is a must-listen for anyone curious about sextech, intimacy, and reshaping the way we talk about sex in the digital age. Click Here For A Special Offer!!! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Make Love Not Porn | Website Cindy's Viral Ted Talk | YouTube Make Love Not Porn Academy SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram Cindy's Twitter (X.com)  

Send us a textOne of the things that people struggle with the most in the lifestyle is closing the deal... actually getting to the play. Jo and Chad talk about their struggles with closing the deal and give some perspective and tips to hopefully make it a little bit easier for you. So, listen up! And then go close that deal!Support the showOld music (

Baby Quintin is born and we are pretending like we don't know who his father is (it's Tyler), Alysia wants to meet with a lactation consultant, and Sean is a big, disgusting loser (allegedly).Get more cringey contact by joining our Patreon! https://patreon.com/realitytvcringeFollow us on IG https://instagram.com/realitytvcringeSubscribe to see our raccoon faces on YouTube! https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_2CgqXLWjIEKV9PCtH3Kjw?sub_confirmation=1Leave a message for us on SpeakPipe: https://speakpipe.com/realitytvcringeSupport the pod by leaving a 5-star review on your favorite podcast platform! Thank you so much!

Send us a textWhat happens when a long-term couple invites a third person into their relationship—and it doesn't go as planned?In this raw and revealing episode, I sit down with six-time Emmy-nominated TV producer Jeff Hudson to talk about his memoir Deconstructing Us: My Trouble with a Throuple. Jeff shares what it was like to navigate the emotional rollercoaster of a throuple, how jealousy blindsided him, and why non-monogamy cracked him wide open—in the best and worst ways.We explore:Why three-person relationships are emotional rocket fuelHow jealousy shows up even when you're experienced in open relationshipsThe difference between love and compatibilityIdentity shifts that come with loving outside the boxWhy breakdowns in love can lead to breakthroughs in self-awarenessWhether you're polyam-curious, actively non-monogamous, or just fascinated by the complexity of modern love—this conversation will challenge and expand how you think about commitment, identity, and connection.

EPISODE 268: Interview with Robert Dalbol. Rob Dalbol was married for 10 yrs in a typical relationship before they decided to open their marriage. Ultimately, the inability to communicate effectively and differences in their values led them to separate. The tools in Kitty's coaching Program have taught Rob that he is capable of providing more in his future relationships and show up as a more confident and emotionally mature man without letting fear or trauma come between him and his happiness. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

In this episode, we dive deep with Bobby, one of the driving forces behind Splash Takeovers, the multi-city lifestyle hotel takeover experience. Bobby shares his personal origin story and how he found his way into the lifestyle, giving us a behind-the-scenes look at his journey from attendee to organizer. We also explore the wide range of Splash events held throughout the year in cities across the country—and get an exciting preview of new events on the horizon. Bobby talks candidly about what he's observed in the lifestyle over the years, from shifting dynamics to evolving community norms, and sprinkles in some hilarious and heartwarming stories along the way. Whether you're a seasoned vet or just curious about dipping your toes in, this episode offers a fun and entertaining peek into one of the best hotel takeovers in the scene. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Splash Takeovers EROTICON 2026 | August 6-9, 2026 SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram

SHE'S HERE TO BUST. YOUR. FUCKING. BALLS. This week Dustin welcomes Award-Winning, Internationally Renowned, Bicoastal Dominatrix, Luxury Mistress, Fetish Model, Kink Educator, and Author Goddess Lilith to the show and man I hope you have your game faces on because this one is special. Goddess Lilith takes us inside her own personal world of pain, pleasure, and domination experience. What is she doing online? What is she doing in person? Pegging? Ball Busting? What are some of her absolute favorite experiences to have with a client? Goddess Lilith also opens up about LITERALLY writing the book on feet and creating foot content, how wild some of her experiences can actually get, blowing people's heads off on tour with her metal band, taking subs on tour with her, how she got into this work, and what it feels like to be Goddess Lilith in all of her power. Pour a double and enjoy EP 173: "Whips, Chains, Whistles, Yo-Yos" with Goddess LilithWatch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Goddess LilithInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/goddesslilith66 (@goddesslilith66) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Send us a textIn today's episode, Jo rereleases episode 4 from June of 2022, making the first move. It's a fan favorite, full of great ideas. Support the showOld music (

When we open our relationships, we often focus on creating boundaries and agreements around emotions, time, and sex. But there's another crucial element that frequently gets overlooked (until it becomes a problem): money. How we handle finances in our relationships can reveal deep-seated values, trigger old wounds, and create unexpected power dynamics—especially when we start dating outside our established partnerships.The financial aspects of non-monogamy touch on some of our most vulnerable places. They can bring up childhood patterns, highlight privilege differences, and force us to examine our relationship with capitalism itself. While these conversations might feel uncomfortable, they're essential for building healthy relationships with clear expectations and boundaries. Money conversations in non-monogamy can be terrifying—but avoiding them is worse!In this episode, we talk about:— Why money conversations are often avoided until they become painful problems— How our personal money histories shape our approach to finances in relationships (including childhood experiences with scarcity or abundance)— The practical questions that arise when dating: What counts as a "date expense"? Who pays? How do we handle financial disparities?— Why separate accounts can be helpful for financial differentiation in non-monogamy— The challenge of funding separate accounts when income disparities exist between partners— How dating expenses can reveal our values and trigger judgments about what's "worth" spending on— The way money intersects with other resources like time, emotional labor, and childcare responsibilities— Why regular money check-ins are crucial as relationships evolve and circumstances change— How money conversations can actually build intimacy when approached with curiosity and compassion— The importance of allowing partners to change over time and not assuming their financial values remain static— Why examining privilege and socioeconomic differences can be both challenging and a way to deeply connectResources mentioned in this episode:— Imago dialogue as a tool for difficult conversationsJOIN The Year Of Opening® community for a full year of learning & support. Registration is open now at ⁠⁠www.TheYearOfOpening.com⁠⁠Learn the 5 secrets to open your relationship the smart wayAre you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.comGet the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything hereMusic: Dance of Felt by ⁠Blue Dot Sessions

Co-Host Adam Darrow (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/risk) My first-time guest Adam Darrow has always been a thrill-seeking risk taker. Early on, that meant participating in extreme sports, of course. But not until he met ONE woman in particular did he ever consider dating and relating to women an extreme sport unto itself. She made it very clear that she was not the kind of woman who wanted to settle down with one man. That led to a path of sexual discovery for Adam that would make Mickey Rourke's character in 9 1/2 Weeks jealous. So who was this woman, and what made her so tantalizingly different? And how did Adam's response to her--and what she offered--differ from most guys who might dream about finding a chick and getting into 'The Lifestyle' with her? When Adam's new girlfriend was quite public about their non-monogamous relationship, how did Adam's family and friends respond? And did he care? How did this new relationship affect his masculinity? Well, given they got married and stayed together for over ten years, you can already sense how amazing the story of this adventure is going to get. What happened when Adam entered the 'underground' sex society of New York City, and what was that like? Were there any pitfalls or was it all pleasure? How did Adam feel about sharing his girl with other men...even in real time? Is desiring and living such a lifestyle a matter of nature or nurture? And is there such thing as 'cheating' is a completely open relationship? Is monogamous intimacy overrated? Can you go back to monogamy after extreme non-monogamy, even if you want to? Ultimately, would Adam recommend a non-monogamous lifestyle? These are some powerful questions amidst one of the most shocking episodes in recent memory, but it all made for a great episode. Check in with the latest Masterclass For Men and more at: https://mountaintoppodcast.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === The content in this show is NEVER generated by AI. I discovered it can't handle a joke a long time ago. Meanwhile, I'll keep the practical, actionable ideas coming as well as the entertaining part...all for free. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review. As we say here in Texas, I appreciate you!

Bella Snow made history as the first Vietnamese trans woman featured in a Sephora campaign — but that's just the beginning. In this episode, she gets real about her transition, exploring non-monogamy, what it really takes to pass, and the confidence it took to show up fully as herself.

Send us a textYou know you're enough—but the second your partner mentions her, the spiral starts. Sound familiar?In this honest, grounding episode, I break down the real costs of comparison in non-monogamous relationships—like the way it quietly erodes your presence, self-trust, and peace.You'll hear:Why “knowing better” doesn't stop the spiralHow patriarchy conditions us to compete—even in open dynamicsWhat comparison really steals from youAnd the exact reframe and tools that help you come back to yourself

On today's episode, we have Justice Riveria join (she/they; ella/elle) us for a conversation about the collective liberation of our bodily autonomy. Together we talk about how compassion is better than punishment, deconstructing systems of oppression within our subconscious, and the need for both harm reduction and pleasure enhancement.

COCO HAS A SEX FINISHING MOVE THAT YOU'VE NEVER HEARD OF. TRUST ME. Dustin welcomes super popular Adult Star and OnlyFans Creator Coco Bae to the show this week, and let's just say Coco has A LOT of passion for her work in the adult industry. Saying she gives 110% on a porn set is putting it mildly. Coco tells Dustin about shooting a 7 person orgy, the truth behind her dick ratings on OnlyFans, and getting so overwhelmed with dick on set that she finds herself in a whole other realm. A realm only known as.... THE COCK GOBLIN REALM. Coco also talks about not being able to stick a golf club OR golf balls in your pussy on OnlyFans, gives two CRAZY strip club stories, explains the physical mechanics of shooting a porn scene with herself and 3 gentlemen, chats wanting to double up in her vagina on every scene in the future, and shares her favorite sex finishing move that will blow your mind. This one is wild.

If you're curious about non-monogamous relationships or simply want to strengthen your current partnership, you will learn about jealousy management, how to build stronger communication skills regardless of relationship structure. Learn why relationship skills from non-monogamy transfer beautifully to monogamous relationships and discover the importance of clear boundaries and consent in any intimate connection. Whether you are considering opening your relationship or are committed to monogamy, this episode has insight for you. Transform jealousy from a relationship destroyer into a pathway for deeper intimacy and understanding. Dr. Hamilton emphasizes that non-monogamous relationship skills can enhance monogamous partnerships by focusing on clear communication, personal boundaries, and honest discussions about desires. Whether you're considering opening your relationship or simply want to strengthen your monogamous bond, this episode offers valuable insights into creating relationships designed for the specific people involved. Listen now and discover how to move beyond societal expectations to create relationships that truly honor your authentic needs and desires.   Connect with Dr. Joli Hamilton https://www.jolihamilton.com/quiz Join a FREE salon to open your relationship: https://www.jolihamilton.com/salon  

Send us a textJo and Chad talk about going into LS situations with no expectations. It's easy to say that, but it's a lot harder to do it in real life. Our brains like to create expectations of how the night or the event is going to go, and that can lead to disappointment.Support the showOld music (

Send us a textNavigating non-monogamy can stir up some BIG emotions—especially jealousy. But what if jealousy wasn't something to fight against... but a tool for deeper connection?In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Emma Smith, licensed professional counselor and certified sex therapist, to talk about:✨ How to create emotional safety plans when opening a relationship ✨ The difference between healthy boundaries and rigid rules ✨ Why jealousy isn't the enemy—and how it can guide your growth ✨ Tips for crafting relationship agreements that actually work for you"Boundaries are about care, they're about safety. They are about being grounded in your love and respect for another person." — Dr. Emma SmithIf you're exploring non-monogamy (or just want stronger, healthier connections), this conversation is packed with real talk and practical strategies you'll want to come back to.

EPISODE 267: Interview with Zara Shah. Zara Shah is a Pakistani-Canadian queer sex worker. She uses her unique immigrant experience and perspective as a way to draw intersection between race, cultural background, and sexuality. Being a non-monogamous sex worker has allowed her greater control and freedom in both her social and professional life, and her book, “Nonmonogamy and Sex Work,” explores that in detail. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

This week on Problem Solved, Jeff and Alex are diving into all the juicy stuff: shame, secrecy, shadow, and sex. They tackle listener questions about navigating a religious rift in marriage, integrating your sexual self into everyday life, handling ethically questionable non-monogamy, confronting a messy friend, and embracing a little post-divorce wildness. Along the way, they talk fingered flowers, cotton candy souls, and why sometimes you gotta show your shame a little love. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Keep up with Alex at alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeff/Jeff's Instagram: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WhenNon-Judgmental Becomes Judgy: The Hypocrisy in Non-Monogamy Spaces.They say non-monogamy is all about freedom, acceptance, andbeing non-judgmental. But let's be real — some of the rudest, mostjudgmental people out there are the same ones preaching "love islove." Why does this happen? And why do some folks in the non-monogamouscommunity act like their way is the only right way?In this episode, we're diving deep into the contradictionsand call-outs within non-monogamous circles. Why do people who claim to beopen-minded often come off as elitist or harsh? How can we build relationshipspaces that are truly inclusive — not just in theory, but in practice?Whether you're poly, single, curious, or just tired of thedrama, this episode is for you.