Podcasts about nonmonogamy

Jess B—better known online as Jess B 716—takes us from nervously launching an OnlyFans to discovering just how far she was willing to push herself once people started watching. She gets into posting her first nude, learning how to masturbate differently on camera, getting turned on during live shows, and how confidence, attention, and curiosity turned a hesitant experiment into something much bigger.Then things get properly unhinged. Jess talks creampies, facials, the very specific preferences she's developed along the way, and the “powerful assets” that helped build her audience. We get into a 21-guy gangbang, creator gangbangs, content houses, whether mainstream porn could be next, and the undeniable pipeline from hairstylist to horny internet entrepreneur. Jess B came to play—and absolutely nothing stays innocent for long. Get yourself overly psyched up, hit play and enjoy EP 245: "Powerful Assets" with Jess B.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Jess BInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/jessb___716 (@jessb___716) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

I'm back. And my life looks pretty different than it did a few months ago.I took most of the summer off from podcasting while I remodeled, moved, and navigated a pretty big life change: my husband and I split up.I'm sharing a little about where I've been, but this episode isn't really about the details of my separation. It's about a question I've been thinking about a lot:Does a relationship ending mean it failed?In this episode:Where I've been and why I took most of the summer offA little about my separation and the changes happening in my lifeWhy we equate relationship longevity with relationship successWhy an ending doesn't automatically mean a relationship failedWhat non-monogamy can and cannot protect us fromLetting relationships change shape instead of forcing them to stay the sameThe pressure to prove that polyamory “works”Why I coach the people in a relationship, not the relationship itselfChoosing honesty and alignment over preserving a relationship at all costsWhat I'm excited to explore in this next chapter of the podcastIf you're in the messy middle of figuring out what you want, questioning the shape of a relationship, navigating non-monogamy, or realizing that the life you've built might not fit anymore, you don't have to have the answer before asking for support.Sometimes the work starts with finally having enough space to hear yourself.Send us Fan MailSupport the show

Chloe Amour has mastered a rare kind of duality. She can deliver the polished, beautiful fantasy people expect from a mainstream adult star while going considerably harder than her image might suggest. Chloe joins Sex Party to talk about why that contrast has made her so popular and marketable, from double anal, fisting, golden showers, and double penetration to filming her first gangbang — and why she might eventually take on an entire football team while dressed as the cheerleader.We also get into the darker fantasies Chloe still wants to explore, including horror-themed roleplay and a CNC burglar scenario, plus her experience working with Playboy while Hugh Hefner was still running the company. Chloe opens up about bizarre fan requests, her love of movies, what makes the perfect finish, and what she still wants to accomplish over the next 18 months in adult entertainment. Pretty on the surface. Pretty hardcore underneath.Brace yourself for EP 244: "Pretty Hardcore" with Chloe Amour.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Chloe AmourInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/realchloeamour (@realchloeamour)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Today we're diving into the world of OCD, specifically relationship OCD, with Sheva Rajaee.Sheva is a licensed marriage and family therapist, director of The Center for Anxiety and OCD, and the author of the book Relationship OCD. She is globally recognized for her work treating and addressing chronic doubt, commitment phobia, and anxiety in romantic relationships. Join our amazing community of listeners at ⁠multiamory.com/join and get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community!Get 10% off sexual health supplements at vb.health with promo code MULTI.EVERYONE who signs up to our giveaway will receive a FREE Rose suction toy with their @bellesaco order! bbvibes.com/multiamory #bbpartner Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at ⁠multiamory.link/masterclass⁠Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at ⁠multiamory.link/skillshare⁠Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by ⁠Josh and Anand⁠Follow us on Instagram ⁠@Multiamory_Podcast⁠ and visit our website ⁠Multiamory.com⁠.We are a proud member of the ⁠Pleasure Podcasts⁠ network.

Today we're diving into the world of OCD, specifically relationship OCD, with Sheva Rajaee.Sheva is a licensed marriage and family therapist, director of The Center for Anxiety and OCD, and the author of the book Relationship OCD. She is globally recognized for her work treating and addressing chronic doubt, commitment phobia, and anxiety in romantic relationships.Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. Get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community!Get 10% off sexual health supplements at vb.health with promo code MULTI.EVERYONE who signs up to our giveaway will receive a FREE Rose suction toy with their @bellesaco order! bbvibes.com/multiamoryWhatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at multiamory.link/masterclass.Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

"How do you have time for multiple partners, two kids, a business, the gym, and friends, and still look like you're having fun?" It's the question Thorhildur gets asked constantly, and in this episode she gives the honest, unfiltered answer. She breaks down the real shifts that freed up her time and energy: letting go of the belief that one person has to meet all her needs, ditching default togetherness for intentional time, and rethinking what she actually owes her kids as their mother. The short version: audit every area of your life by one question, is it feeding you or draining you? And see what opens up when you stop living out of obligation. Ready to go deeper? ❤️ Join my signature program Life Beyond Monogamy to stop fantasizing about Non-Monogamy and start living it with full safety, respect & clarity: https://risewiththorhildur.com/lifebeyondmonogamy

Porn's biggest night takes over Las Vegas, and Sex Party is right in the middle of it. We hit the 2026 AVN Awards Red Carpet at the Virgin Hotels Las Vegas for our biggest special yet, catching up with Angela White, Jennifer White, Lauren Phillips, Alexis Fawx, Kira Noir, Lexi Luna, Elly Clutch, Sophia Locke, Octavia Red, Hailey Rose, Max Fills, Leana Lovings, Chloe Amour, Jason Luv, Asteria Jade, Genna James, Ariel Demure, Brittany Andrews, Girthmaster, and many, many more.It's wall-to-wall stars, absolute chaos, and the kind of conversations that can only happen when the entire adult industry descends on Vegas for one night. From the biggest names in porn to some of the wildest personalities on the carpet, this is Sex Party at the 2026 AVN Awards Red Carpet. Pop some champagne, pop in an AirPod, and enjoy THE 2026 AVN RED CARPET SPECIAL.This Special Is Brought To You By ProDx Health — use code PARTY at ProDxHealth.com for 25% off everything.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

One of the most prolific sex educators of our time is back on Sex Party. Susan Bratton returns with decades of knowledge, zero hesitation, and a masterclass in how to experience more pleasure. We get into stronger, more frequent orgasms, how to make your partner cum harder, and why most of us are capable of experiencing far more sexually than we've ever been taught to expect.Susan also brings a collection of toys, gadgets, and cutting-edge sex tech as we dive into the increasingly fascinating intersection of AI, technology, intimacy, and human sexuality. Whether you're solo, partnered, multi-partnered, or simply curious about what else your body can do, Susan is here to remind you there is always another level to discover. And just when you think you know where this conversation is going, Susan casually reveals that she's fucking a werewolf.You're so not ready for EP 243: "Susan Bratton Returns" with Susan Bratton.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Susan BrattonInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/susanbratton (@susanbratton)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Can psychedelics actually make you better at non-monogamy? Jealousy. Fear. Defensiveness. Insecurity. The urge to control what your partner does so you don't have to feel something uncomfortable. These are some of the hardest parts of opening a relationship, and in this episode, Scott sits down with Dr. Chandra Khalifian and Dr. Kayla Knopp, co-founders of Enamory, to explore whether psychedelic-assisted therapy can help us respond to those challenges differently. Chandra and Kayla work at the intersection of couples therapy, expansive relationships, and psychedelic-assisted psychotherapy. Together, they explore how substances like MDMA and ketamine may temporarily reduce defensiveness, increase cognitive flexibility, deepen empathy, and make it easier to see a conflict through your partner's eyes. And that creates a fascinating possibility for non-monogamy: What if the goal isn't to eliminate jealousy, fear, or insecurity? What if the goal is to become better at experiencing those emotions without immediately trying to restrict someone else's freedom? Scott, Chandra, and Kayla discuss: • How to talk to your partner about opening your relationship • Why being terrified to raise the subject may reveal a deeper issue • What happens in the brain when MDMA reduces fight-or-flight responses • Why psychedelics may make us less defensive during difficult conversations • How non-monogamy can expose our instinct to control what makes us uncomfortable • Why jealousy is information, not automatic proof that your partner has done something wrong • How psychedelic therapy may expand our ability to tolerate fear, insecurity, shame, and uncertainty • Why letting go of control can become a learnable skill • How psychedelics can make it easier to understand your partner's perspective • What ketamine-assisted relationship therapy actually looks like • Why the psychedelic experience itself isn't enough, and why integration matters • How to tell the difference between a meaningful psychedelic insight and simply having a strange idea while high Scott also shares how an early MDMA experience with April unexpectedly changed the way they communicated and allowed each of them to hear things from the other that had previously been much harder to receive. This isn't a conversation about using psychedelics to magically make non-monogamy easy. It's about whether psychedelic-assisted therapy might help us develop some of the very capacities non-monogamy demands: emotional flexibility, empathy, curiosity, perspective-taking, and the ability to experience discomfort without immediately trying to control the person we love. Featuring Dr. Chandra Khalifian and Dr. Kayla Knopp of Enamory. Learn more at Enamory.com.

It's Kiki's birthday episode, and Mandii B is back on the couch — which means there was never a chance this conversation was going to stay on one topic.Kiki and Mandii catch up on friendship, getting older, cutting people off, dating across age groups, and what it means when the relationships you've had for years no longer fit the person you're becoming. Mandii also gets candid about being solo poly, why marriage and kids aren't part of her end goal, navigating jealousy in non-monogamous relationships, and why knowing exactly what you want makes dating a whole lot easier.Of course, things get messy along the way. They get into who can and cannot say the N-word, why some people are obsessed with leaving a “legacy” through children, the pressure women put on romantic relationships, AI helping the girlies text men, rich auntie expectations, and whether people actually like the people they're dating.Then Ask Kiki brings the perfect dilemma for Mandii: a listener is considering opening her relationship… except her boyfriend already has a coworker picked out. Is that ethical non-monogamy or just cheating with extra paperwork?And because Mandii is Mandii, she closes things out with a CockTale from Jamaica involving a nude pool, a very forward woman, a sea urchin, and a trip to the nurse's station that somehow only gets wilder from there.Pour something bubbly and get into it — because this one is equal parts friendship, sex, relationships, hot takes, and pure chaos.Every sip has a story.Follow me! @kikisaidso & @cocktalespodcastContact Me!Advice: advice@cocktalespod.comCockTales: cocktales@cocktalespod.comAdvertising: cameron@pleasurepodcasts.com Sip & Spill where I sip and you spill: 404-692-0039Sponsors/Special Offers:DRIVE BOOSTVisit vb.health and use code COCKTALES for 10% off or click the link in the episode description.BROOKLYN BEDDINGGo to brooklynbedding.com and use my promo code COCKTALESPOD at checkout to get 30% off sitewideduring the LABOR DAY SALE. Exclusive with my code!Interested in Podcasting? Join the Cohort to learn from me! Fill Out The Interest Formhttps://forms.gle/TrzDVEUHtaHv6fW89Join Patreon to help support the show! www.patreon.com/cocktalesGet Your Merch & Order Your Card Game  www.imcurioustoknow.comBali With Kiki! The Travel Tribe Experience: https://travel.kikisaidso.com/BaliGet Klassy Baste! Learn to Cook with Kiki www.klassybaste.comJoin Kiki's Book Club www.patreon.com/kikisaidsoBecome a supporter of this podcast: https://www.spreaker.com/podcast/cocktales-with-kiki--2818687/support.CONNECT WITH USFollow the host and join the conversation after the episode:Kiki Said So (Kiara Walker)Instagram: @kikisaidsoTikTok: @kikisaidsoCocktales With KikiInstagram:@cocktalespodcastTikTok: @cocktalespodcastWant to be a guest on Cocktales?We are always looking for interesting guests, experts, and storytellers to join the show. If you would like to be considered, please fill out our guest submission form here:Guest Interest Form

Leaving high-demand religion isn't just about changing your Sunday morning schedule. It's about deconstructing a belief system that touches everything in your life. And when you start pulling on this thread, you might find yourself questioning monogamous norms too. These processes can open you up to a wealth of opportunities, but they can also bring a whole lot of uncertainty online. That's why we're thrilled to bring you this conversation with Natasha Helfer, an AASECT-certified sex therapist supervisor and licensed marriage and family therapist with 30 years of experience working at the intersection of conservative religious upbringing, sexuality, and internalized sexual shame.Natasha was excommunicated from the Mormon church for her advocacy work, so alongside her professional expertise, she brings a wealth of lived experience to this topic. If you've ever struggled with the aftermath of purity culture, if you're deconstructing from high-demand religion while exploring non-monogamy, or if you're supporting someone through this journey, this episode offers validation, insight, and practical frameworks for understanding what's really happening during deconstruction and reconstruction.In this episode, we talk about:— What makes a religion "high-demand" and why sexual behavior monitoring is such a central feature— The difference between being pushed out (excommunication) versus choosing to leave, and why both can be traumatic— Why deconstruction is not a linear process with a clear endpoint— How compulsory monogamy in mainstream culture mirrors compulsory polygamy in fundamentalist communities (and why that realization is so important)— The challenge of doing adolescent developmental work in midlife while simultaneously navigating midlife transitions— Why people deconstructing from one thing (like religion) often start questioning everything else (like monogamy), and why that's actually a natural part of the process— The grief of leaving certainty behind, both religious certainty and the certainty of traditional relationship structures— Practical therapeutic approaches— Why reconstruction work is just as important as deconstruction, and how to build a new identity and value system— The reality that old messaging and shame will resurface periodically—and why accepting that actually helps you move forward— How privilege (race, gender, sexual orientation) dramatically impacts the severity of religious traumaResources mentioned in this episode:— Find Natasha at natashahelfer.com— Natasha's group practice, Symmetry Counseling— Natasha's seven-week educational group for people exploring ethical non-monogamyJOIN The Year Of Opening® community for a full year of learning & supportLearn the 5 secrets to open your relationship the smart wayAre you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.comGet the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for a Playing With Fire Community Call hereMusic: Dance of Felt by ⁠Blue Dot Sessions

Non-monogamy can be about much more than sex with other people. For us, it has enriched our relationship, created meaningful friendships, and changed the way we move through everyday life. In this episode, we explore how the lessons we've learned through ethical non-monogamy show up in our relationships with family, friends, neighbors, co-workers, and even when meeting strangers.  We discuss the important distinction between being honest about who you are as a couple and oversharing the private details of your sex life. We've learned how to define our relationship on our own terms rather than allowing family, friends, religion, age, or societal expectations to define it for us. Mentioned in this episode: Contact Mr Jones for a promo code to try the We Gotta Thing community for three months! Book your Desire Resorts trip here Music used with permission from Luxe Music Studios: We Gotta Thing Playtime  Dressed to Undress

Delilah Raige started with solo content, graduated to girl-girl, moved into guy-girl—and now she's officially entered her gangbang era. This week, Delilah breaks down her first gangbang, first DP, first airtight, what it felt like to actually cum during DP, and why working with men can sometimes be a whole lot more complicated than the sex itself. With bigger gangbangs already on the horizon, she's clearly not interested in slowing down anytime soon.We also get into the scammers lurking around OnlyFans—some famous, some complete nobodies—how they take advantage of consumers and drag the entire creator industry down, and why Delilah and Dustin think Hidden is doing it so much better than OnlyFans. Plus, she explains why her dick ratings are brutally, unapologetically honest, what happens when guys discover she actually means what she says, and whether mainstream porn could be next. Delilah is confident, hilarious, completely unfiltered, and has one hell of a poker face. Put on your best podcast hat and enjoy EP 242: "Poker Face" with Delilah Raige.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Delilah RaigeInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/_delilahraige (@_delilahraige) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Marie Thouin, PhD is a Mindful Dating & Relationship Coach and the author of "What is Compersion? Understanding Positive Empathy in Consensually Non-Monogamous Relationships," the first-ever comprehensive scholarly book on compersion. She has been featured in several publications and podcasts, including The New York Times, ELLE, The Times of London, and HuffPost. In her coaching practice, she supports individuals and couples of all backgrounds and orientations to create intentional, authentic, and vibrant love lives.Learn more at www.MarieThouin.com. *. RANDITSCAN** **Protect Your Digital Presence** One of the best defenses against social media fraud, impersonation, and stolen content. Protect your name, likeness, and online presence today, and get your first month free when you sign up through my link: **Sign Up:** https://branditscan.com/?aff=marcelaalonso ### **PODCAST AFFILIATES** **SDC | The Lifestyle Community** Looking to explore the lifestyle, meet open-minded people, or learn more about non-monogamy? Join one of the largest lifestyle communities online. **Explore here:** https://www.sdc.com/signup.php?ref=37593 *Take control of your sexual wellness with private at-home testing kits. Convenient, easy, and informed health tracking. **Shop Kits:** https://prodxhealth.com/products/pro-13-home-collection-kit?variant=42594725298278&_ef_transaction_id=&oid=1&affid=123 **Mums Candy | Sweet Deliveries** Treat yourself to fun candy and treats delivered directly to your door. **Get Treats:** https://www.mumscandy.com?sca_ref=11159574.RUXJwCcADs0U8m ### **FOLLOW MARCELA** **Exclusive Content (OnlyFans)**  * **VIP Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/marcela_luv  * **Free Membership:** https://onlyfans.com/latinamilfnyc **Untamed in the City (Substack)** Deep dives and personal writing on lifestyle and culture. **Subscribe:** https://substack.com/@untamedinthecity Full Unedited Episodes Only On https://subs.com/Marcelasobella Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Michelle is a clinical psychologist who returns to the channel after a hiatus of some years to share some pointers for anyone who wishes to try out consensual non-monogamy, open relationships, or polyamory. Be prepared for a new vocabulary and some challenges to fixed beliefs! Here's Michelle's piece in LinkedInSpike's note: Apparently, the "frog in the pot" analogy, while a good metaphor for coercive control, is indeed a myth, and the real story is so, so, SO much worse. Here's a decent retelling of what really happened.

This is a raw, unplanned little episode built around one funny, provocative thought experiment: what if you could actually choose your desires? Sparked by a conversation with a listener wrestling with mismatched desire in his marriage, Thorhildur explores why we don't get to pick what lights us up, whether it's wanting multiple partners, wanting to be more adventurous, or wanting to want something entirely different than what we do. She talks candidly about trying to suppress her own desires over the years, what she's learned from chasing (and sometimes catching) forbidden fantasies, and why she's become both more accepting and more intentional about what she wants as a result. It's playful, honest, and a little unfiltered, exactly the kind of conversation Thorhildur says she dreams of having with a whole community of people brave enough to own their desires without shame. Ready to go deeper? ❤️ My signature program Life Beyond Monogamy is currently 60% OFF the standard price (expires Sept 7th). Join now if you want to stop fantasizing about Non-Monogamy and start living it with full safety, respect & clarity:  https://risewiththorhildur.com/waitlist-bigcourse

Lady LorReign is a mainstream adult star, OnlyFans and LoyalFans creator, cam star, and longtime swinger whose marriage fits perfectly into the world of Vixen's Wifey. We get into what made Wifey such a natural fit for her and her husband, what that first scene was really like, and the advice she has for couples curious about trying the swinger lifestyle themselves. Then we get to her recent six-on-one gangbang: six guys, DP, her husband behind the camera, and a facial finish. LorReign breaks down what the experience was actually like, how she felt when it was over, and where she really prefers the final shot.We also get into her life on cam, whether she's getting off alongside her fans, and the wildest requests she's received live. Then it's OnlyFans and LoyalFans—what she's making now, how those requests differ from cam, and just how strange things can get once fans have a little more access. Pour a strong one, pop in those AirPods, and enjoy EP 241: "Fast & Furious" with Lady LorReign.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube  YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Lady LorReignInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/lady.lorreign (@lady.lorreign)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Some of my favorite conversations on this podcast are the ones where we stop trying to make non-monogamy look perfect and just talk about what it's actually like.This is absolutely one of those episodes.For this Rewind, I'm bringing back my conversation with sex educator Dirty Lola, and ohhhh, there is so much good stuff in this one.Lola takes us through her journey from experimenting with non-monogamy before she even had language for it, to marriage and monogamy, swinging, polyamory, divorce, and eventually building relationships that feel much more aligned with who she actually is.And we talk about the messy parts.Jealousy. Resentment. Agreements that don't work. Agreements people say yes to and then don't actually follow. Feeling unheard. Learning how to ask for what you need. Figuring out what information you actually want about your partner's other relationships.And, of course, compersion.One of my favorite parts of this conversation is how honest we both are about the idea that compersion is supposed to be this magical gold standard of successful polyamory.Sometimes Lola feels it.Sometimes I feel it.And sometimes neutral is fucking fantastic.Because healthy non-monogamy isn't about never feeling jealous or being delighted every time your partner falls in love with someone new. It's about knowing yourself well enough to recognize what's happening, communicate about it, create boundaries that actually support you, and take responsibility for what you do with your feelings.We also get into something I wish more people understood about agreements: don't say yes to something you don't actually agree to.A reluctant yes followed by broken agreements isn't healthier than having the uncomfortable conversation in the first place.Say no. Keep talking. Get curious about what each of you actually needs. Find the version that works for everyone involved.That's collaboration.In this episode, we talk about:Lola's journey from monogamy to swinging and polyamoryDiscovering non-monogamy before having language for itWhat happens when one partner identifies as polyamorous and the other doesn'tJealousy as information instead of something to eliminateRecognizing the unmet needs underneath jealousyRules, boundaries, agreements, and what happens when they're brokenWhy saying yes when you really mean no creates resentmentLearning how to disagree and collaborate instead of fightHow being heard can completely change conflictBreaking old relationship patterns in healthier relationshipsCompersion, jealousy, and why neutrality is a perfectly wonderful place to beKnowing how much you actually want to hear about your partner's other relationshipsWhy it's okay to want some moments to feel like they're just yoursThe very human reality of polyamoryWhy not every form of non-monogamy is polyamoryLola's simple, free practice for getting out of your own head before a difficult conversationThere is so much laughter in this conversation, but there's also a ton of wisdom about what it really takes to build relationships where you can be honest, messy, imperfect, and still deeply loving.If you're navigating jealousy, trying to figure out your boundaries, opening a relationship, or wondering why you don't feel that mythical nonstop compersion everyone keeps talking about, this episode is absolutely worth another listen.Because you don't have to be perfectly polyamorous.You just have to be willing to know yourself, tell the truth, communicate, and keep learning.Enjoy this Rewind with Dirty Lola.Send us Fan MailSupport the show

The Queen Of Gangbangs herself, Ray Ray, joins Sex Party to break down what it actually takes to pull one off — recreationally, on camera, or somewhere in between. She gets into the biggest gangbangs she's done, what people underestimate, how to organize one safely, and what it's like being at the center of all that chaos. We also meet Gangbang Girl, her superhero alter ego complete with a costume and some very specific superpowers.Ray Ray makes no secret of how much she loves cum, calling it her favorite thing in the whole world and saying, “it's my pure existence.” Naturally, that means we get deep into facials, why they turn her on so much, and just how central all of this is to the Ray Ray experience. We also get into her podcast, why she loves what she loves, and every question you'd want to ask someone who has truly earned the title Queen of Gangbangs. Filthy, hilarious, educational, and completely off the fucking rails. Make a huge mess and enjoy EP 240: “Queen Of Gangbangs” with Ray Ray.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Ray RayInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/rayof_sunshine529 (@rayof_sunshine529)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

"I trust my partner, I just don't trust other people." It's a statement Thorhildur hears constantly from people curious about, but hesitant toward, non-monogamy. In this episode, recorded from bed in Munich after a day of mini golf and lake time, she's joined by her boyfriend Marcel to pull the statement apart layer by layer. They dig into who that statement is really about (hint: not the "other people"), why it often reveals a deeper mistrust of your own partner rather than strangers, and why it's so much easier to blame an abstract "other" than to have the harder conversation at home. Using a poll Thorhildur ran on Instagram, they walk through the different fears hiding underneath this excuse: not trusting others to respect agreements, worrying someone will "steal" your partner, and the deeper questions of ownership, jealousy, and security those fears expose. Thorhildur and Marcel also share a real example of what it can look like when this fear is met with communication instead of avoidance, and why for many people, this statement isn't the end of a conversation but the start of one. Ready to go deeper? ❤️ JOIN the waitlist for Life Beyond Monogamy & get over 50% OFF the standard price if you want to stop fantasizing about Non-Monogamy and start living it with full safety, respect & clarity:  https://risewiththorhildur.com/waitlist-bigcourse

What if someone had actually taught you how to have a great relationship? While Sex and the Psyche takes a short production break, we're bringing back some of the conversations our listeners connected with most. In this Encore Episode, we revisit our conversation with Zach and Sally Maxwell and explore The Relationship Framework Nobody Taught You. Relationships don't come with an instruction manual. Most of us learn how to communicate, navigate conflict, build intimacy, and stay connected by trial and error—and sometimes by making a whole lot of mistakes along the way. Zach and Sally offer a fresh perspective on the skills and framework that can help couples better understand each other, communicate more effectively, and create a stronger, more connected relationship. Whether you heard this conversation the first time around or you're discovering it for the first time, this is one worth revisiting. Take another listen, share it with someone you love, and remember: a better relationship starts with better conversations. New episodes of Sex and the Psyche return soon. Until then, enjoy this Encore Conversation—and keep your questions coming! Follow us on Facebook, Instagram and TikTok and please DM us with your questions! Guest Information: sally@max-wellcoaching.com https://www.max-wellcoaching.com/ See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Karen talks about The Invite and I Want Your Sex, two very different sex-positive comedies out this summer that lampoon both long-term and open relationships and kink. TICKETS FOR OCT 25, 2026 LIVE CHICAGO SHOW HERE.In this episode:The Invite (2026) I Want Your Sex (2026) Interview with Gregg Araki in The Guardian Host, sex educator, and writer Karen Yates Get Say It Better in Bed, Karen's free guide to upping your intimacy pleasure. Download here!Show your love for Wild & Sublime: Leave a tip!The Afterglow, our Patreon membership group, brings you regular bonus content, early alerts, and discounts to live shows! Be Wild & Sublime out in the world!  Check out our tees and accessories for maximum visibility. Support the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!

OnlyFans creator and occasional mainstream performer Veronica Rose joins Sex Party for an episode packed with gangbangs, blowbangs, sex parties, facials, and a whole lot of head. She gets into what she loves so much about giving it, the mountains of solo content she's making for OnlyFans, dildos shooting fake cum everywhere, and the infamous heart-shaped bed that somehow becomes a character of its own.We also get into Veronica gearing up for collabs with both women and men, her enormous VHS collection, what you can find on her OnlyFans right now, the craziest request a fan has ever sent her, and whether more mainstream porn is in her future. This one is hilarious, filthy, completely unhinged, and guaranteed to leave your jaw on the floor. Like we always do. Enjoy EP 239: "Heart Shaped Bed" with Veronica Rose.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Veronica RoseInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/missveronicarose (@missveronicarose) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Curious about an open lifestyle with your partner? Wondering how trust, communication, and intimacy can deepen your connection? Let's explore it together!

Someone slid into Thorhildur's DMs with a familiar problem: he and his wife tried swinging, he loved it, and now she's done. She's not interested anymore, and he doesn't know what to do next. In this episode, recorded on a bright Icelandic midsummer evening walking around a lake, Thorhildur answers the question by going back to her own experience of mismatched desire in her marriage, the moment she realized she couldn't wait for her husband to move things forward, and what it actually took to own that desire instead of quietly resenting him for not sharing it. She gets into why shame (not lack of love) is usually what's underneath these stuck points, why blaming your partner keeps you stuck, and the sovereign question she asks herself when she's waiting on someone else to create her happiness: would I be okay if I never get this? She also names the risk of not facing that question honestly, and how unmet desire can end up surfacing sideways when you least expect it. Ready to go deeper? ❤️ JOIN the waitlist for Life Beyond Monogamy & get over 50% OFF the standard price if you want to stop fantasizing about Non-Monogamy and start living it with full safety, respect & clarity:  https://risewiththorhildur.com/waitlist-bigcourse

OnlyFans, Fansly and LoyalFans creator, cam girl and stripper Rogue has one hell of a story to tell. We get into her love of facials, taking her infamous “cum walks” into public, interviewing strangers with the evidence still on her face, gangbangs, DP, discovering just how intensely she can cum from anal, and the mishap that temporarily put her favorite kind of play on hold.We also get into orgies with men and women, the wildest requests from her fans, her surprisingly heartwarming road into sex work, and, of course, the craziest stories from her years in the strip club. One of them involves Fettuccine Alfredo. We close with Rogue's potential move into mainstream porn and whether or not she believes in aliens. Get ready to go completely off the fucking rails with EP 238: "Going Rogue" with Rogue.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow RogueInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/stellar_rogue (@stellar_rogue)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

"Non-monogamy is just about sex." "It means you love your partner less." "It's inherently unstable." Thorhildur has heard it all, and in this episode she's busting the 7 biggest myths, one by one. Drawing on her own decade-long journey from monogamy to polyamory, plus years of coaching clients through the same terrain, she unpacks mononormativity: the invisible belief that monogamy is the "correct" default that everything else has to justify itself against. She takes apart the idea that opening up means something is broken, that it's just a phase, that it's for people running from commitment, or that it means no rules and no structure. Along the way, she gets into the post-traumatic growth research behind why hard conversations can actually build deeper trust, and why love, unlike time, isn't something you run out of. Whether you're curious, skeptical, or somewhere in between, this one's going to challenge what you thought you knew. Ready to go deeper? ❤️ JOIN the waitlist for Life Beyond Monogamy & get over 50% OFF the standard price if you want to stop fantasizing about Non-Monogamy and start living it with full safety, respect & clarity:  https://risewiththorhildur.com/waitlist-bigcourse

Fox Emerson moves to Milan with his husband for a fresh start, then lets a charismatic man he met in Atlanta follow him there. The man settles into the apartment, grows colder and stranger by the day, and one late-night argument escalates until Fox is the one in handcuffs, alone in an Italian jail cell with no idea why. Patrick Holbert convinces himself his marriage is quietly open, books an appointment with a dominatrix in Queens, and spends the next six weeks deciding whether to tell his wife. His confession lands nothing like he pictured. Funny, filthy, and more honest about marriage than he probably planned. Both men skipped the conversation that might have changed everything. Leave your comments on the stories and find episode details and music credits at risk-show.Be Part of RISK!

What happens when you really click with another person or couple, maybe even have great sex, and then find yourself hurt or jealous when they connect with someone else?In Episode 83, April and Scott talk about the invisible agreements we sometimes create in non-monogamy without ever discussing them.Maybe you've played together before and assumed it would happen again. Maybe you went to an event together expecting to spend the night together. Maybe you felt close to someone and were surprised by your jealousy when they met someone new. Problems can arise when those assumptions affect how we treat someone who never knew we had them.We also explore how differently people experience sexual desire. Attraction, chemistry, and opportunity may lead one person toward sex, while someone else can enjoy the same chemistry without wanting to take it further. Previous sex doesn't guarantee future sex.We talk about what happens when disappointment creates pressure, why someone else shouldn't have to manage our reaction to hearing no, and how this can affect consent. April also shares how fear of disappointing people influenced some of her own choices in the past.Plus, we get into jealousy between friends and play partners, compersion, autonomy, community, and why communicating our hopes can prevent unspoken expectations from creating hurt feelings.Want more of our deeper conversations? Join us on Patreon:https://www.patreon.com/naughtygymWILD LOVE THEORY BOOK LAUNCHMinneapolis, MN | September 4–7, 2026https://www.naughtygym.com/wildlovetheorybooklaunch

In this episode we bring back Dr Jane Guyn to discuss ENM (ethical non-monogamy). Dr Jane Guyn Terra Blanca

Encore: N is for Non-monogamy with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey

Ravyn Alexa proudly calls herself the Fantasy Slut, and after this episode, you'll understand exactly why. We get into working for Brazzers, what she's building on OnlyFans, the requests that fill up her inbox, the ones she never saw coming, and why fans can't seem to get enough.We also talk about her years as a stripper, the craziest stories from the club, partying with a famous rapper, people doing lines off of her asshole, pulling off her first DP, and why she's putting every major studio on notice: stop making her wait and book her first gangbang already. This is a wild one. Enjoy EP 237: "In The Trenches" with Ravyn Alexa.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Ravyn AlexaInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/ravynalexaagain (@ravynalexaagain)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

This week we're hearing from some of our listeners. We recently polled listeners and asked you all to tell us what the hardest, complicated, messy parts of non-monogamy are, as well as the reasons why you wouldn't trade it for anything. We're going to hear from a few listeners about their struggles and joys, and answer the questions ourselves. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community.FREE TOYS OR GIFT CARDS FOR TOYS! Everyone who signs up to our giveaway with @bellesacowins something! bbvibes.com/multiamory,Get 10% off sexual health supplements at vb.health with promo code MULTI.Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at multiamory.link/masterclass.Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at multiamory.link/skillshare.Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand.Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This week we're hearing from some of our listeners. We recently polled listeners and asked you all to tell us what the hardest, complicated, messy parts of non-monogamy are, as well as the reasons why you wouldn't trade it for anything. We're going to hear from a few listeners about their struggles and joys, and answer the questions ourselves.Join our amazing community of listeners at ⁠multiamory.com/join and get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community!EVERYONE who signs up to our giveaway will receive a FREE Rose suction toy with their @bellesaco order! bbvibes.com/multiamory #bbpartner Get 10% off sexual health supplements at vb.health with promo code MULTI.Whatever you want to learn, MasterClass has something for you, taught by experts in their fields. Support the show and get an exclusive 15% offer at ⁠multiamory.link/masterclass⁠Skillshare is an online learning community with thousands of classes for creators. Everything from graphic design and video editing to photography, writing, and business. Get a free month of Skilllshare at ⁠multiamory.link/skillshare⁠Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack.Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by ⁠Josh and Anand⁠Follow us on Instagram ⁠@Multiamory_Podcast⁠ and visit our website ⁠Multiamory.com⁠.We are a proud member of the ⁠Pleasure Podcasts⁠ network.

What is consensual non-monogamy and why does it seem to be gaining influence? What problems easily can come up from encouraging people to engage in relationships in this way? Ricky and Bonnie discuss this and more in today's episode!

There's a question most people are too scared to ask their partner — and it's not "can I sleep with someone else?" It's will you still love me if I tell you the truth? In this episode, Thorhildur unpacks the real cost of staying silent about what you want in your relationship — and why that silence, not honesty, is usually what causes the disconnection. Drawing from her own experience opening a 10-year marriage and years of coaching clients through the same threshold, she breaks down the difference between freedom and permission, why "reckless freedom" backfires, and why the goal was never to put a label on your relationship — it was always to feel safe enough to speak.

Karen reviews Sex Diaries, the new collection of erotic anonymous week-long diaries focusing on nonmonogamous adventures, based on the popular New York Magazine column.In this episode:Sex Diaries, edited by Alyssa Shelasky Host, sex educator, and writer Karen Yates Get Say It Better in Bed, Karen's free guide to upping your intimacy pleasure. Download here!Show your love for Wild & Sublime: Leave a tip!The Afterglow, our Patreon membership group, brings you regular bonus content, early alerts, and discounts to live shows! Be Wild & Sublime out in the world!  Check out our tees and accessories for maximum visibility. Support the showFollow Wild & Sublime on Instagram and Facebook!

Brooksie Brooks is a Babestation streamer, stripper, and self-proclaimed squirt queen—and she has the stats to back it up. Known as “the wettest pussy in the North,” Brooksie once squirted 32 times in 45 minutes. We get into the anything-goes world of Babestation, using “more baby oil than Diddy” (her words), her wild experiences on stream, selling her squirt, and the wildest requests she's ever gotten from fans.Then we get very, very detailed about her collabs with other women, including exactly how messy she likes things to get. And because Brooksie is also a stripper, you know I had to ask for her craziest stories from the club. She gives me three—INCLUDING THE WILDEST STRIP CLUB STORY WE'VE EVER HAD ON THE SHOW. So buckle the fuck up, get out your tarp, strap that helmet on tight, and prepare yourself for EP 236: "Babe Land" with Brooksie Brooks.Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Brooksie BrooksInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/brooksiebrooks_ (@brooksiebrooks_)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

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Hazel Heart has a pitch-black Gooner cave in her basement where she disappears for hours with headphones on and completely loses herself. We get into those three-hour sessions, her brutally hardcore work with Hookup Hotshot, what it feels like to get dick drunk and fall completely into subspace, and why some scenes leave her needing a serious recovery nap.Hazel also opens up about her first DP—and what it feels like to actually orgasm during it. We get into her gangbang ambitions, blowbang fantasies, love of sucking dick, cosplay, anime, AVN, OnlyFans, and the wildest request she's ever gotten. This episode is filthy, hypnotic, and completely out of control. As always.Grab your headphones, head to your cave or dark room of choice, and enjoy EP 235: "Heart Eyes" with Hazel Heart. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Hazel HeartInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/xhazelheartx (@xhazelheartx)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Why is Non-Monogamy Still Taboo?In this segment from our throwback episode with Dr. Joli Hamilton, we dig into why non-monogamy still carries so much stigma — even as more people quietly explore it. Dr. Hamilton, a relationship coach and research psychologist, unpacks the cultural scripts that keep monogamy positioned as the "default" and everything else as a deviation, and why that framing doesn't hold up under scrutiny.We talk through the double standards, the assumptions about jealousy and commitment, and what actually changes when couples give themselves permission to question the rules they inherited. A short but pointed listen for anyone curious about where the taboo comes from — and why it's worth challenging.

Some conversations are simply too good to leave in the archives.This week I'm re-releasing one of my favorite early episodes with my dear friend, Wilder. Even years later, this conversation feels just as relevant. We dive into what it actually looks like to build a life outside of traditional relationship norms, from joining an already-married couple to creating a thriving polyamorous family together.Wilder shares her experience of living in a closed triad, navigating the assumptions people make about triads, unpacking monogamous conditioning, and raising children in a loving, intentional polyamorous household.Whether you're curious about polyamory, already practicing ethical non-monogamy, or simply interested in questioning the relationship scripts we've all inherited, this conversation is full of honesty, vulnerability, and hope.Wilder lives in Olalla with her partners, their children, and an ever-growing collection of chickens, ducks, adventures, and beautiful chaos.In This Episode What a closed triad actually is - and what people often misunderstand about them  Why labels can be helpful...and where they can become limiting  The emotional journey of transitioning from monogamy to polyamory  Authenticity, self-love, and creating relationships that fit who you really are  Unlearning monogamous programming  Navigating jealousy with curiosity instead of fear  Raising children in a polyamorous family  Imagining new possibilities for love, family, and partnership  The difference between control and trust  Choosing authenticity over societal expectations Timestamps2:19 – What is a closed triad?4:20 – Labels and identity8:24 – Transitioning into polyamory15:03 – Authenticity and self-love18:59 – Monogamous programming and triad dynamics33:24 – Jealousy44:49 – Raising kids in a polyamorous family52:44 – The possibilities of the future54:41 – Control versus trust1:00:08 – Living authenticallyIf you enjoyed this conversation, I'd love for you to share it with someone who's questioning the relationship "rules" they've always been taught. Every time we hear real stories from real people, it becomes a little easier to imagine that there are many ways to build a loving, connected life.❤️ Thanks for listening to Nope, We're Not Monogamous.Send us Fan MailSupport the show

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In this collaborative episode of Openlove101, John and Jackie are joined by Samia to discuss their journeys into consensual non-monogamy, the importance of honest communication, and challenging traditional relationship expectations. Together, they explore how openness, autonomy, and authentic self-expression have shaped their relationships while encouraging others to question societal norms and build relationships based on trust rather than fear. Highlights John and Jackie share how Openlove101 began from Jackie's personal journey and writing. Samia discusses discovering she could love more than one person at the same time. The conversation explores the difference between social and sexual monogamy. Honest communication and autonomy are presented as the foundation of healthy relationships. They discuss challenging cultural expectations surrounding love and commitment. The importance of friendships and community alongside romantic relationships is emphasized. The episode encourages embracing authenticity over societal pressure. Key Insights Authenticity Creates Freedom: Living honestly allows relationships to grow through trust rather than secrecy. Communication Builds Stronger Relationships: Open conversations about attraction, boundaries, and desires deepen intimacy. There Is No One "Right" Relationship Model: Healthy relationships are built around the needs of the people involved, not societal expectations. Community Matters: Romantic, platonic, and social connections all contribute to a fulfilling life. Growth Comes From Challenging Assumptions: Questioning traditional beliefs about love can lead to greater self-awareness and stronger partnerships. Check Out Our Guest: @samia.mounts @happyslutcast

After years of helping individuals and couples navigate the complexities of intimacy, renowned clinical psychologist and sex therapist Dr. Kate Balestrieri has seen it all—from the challenges of fostering honest conversations to the powerful transformation that comes with reconnecting to oneself. In this episode, Dr. Kate shares profound insights into why so many people feel disconnected from their desire and how curiosity, vulnerability, and non-judgment can reignite connection and pleasure in relationships. Drawing from themes in her upcoming book, “What Happened to My Sex Life,” she also reveals how overcoming self-abandonment is the key to living authentically and building deeper intimacy. In this episode, Darius and Dr. Kate will discuss: (00:00) Introduction to Dr. Kate Balestrieri (02:00) Dr. Kate's Journey into Sex Therapy (05:40) Exploring Crime and Psychology (09:35) The Spectrum of Sexuality (12:50) Cultural Shame Around Sex (15:39) Hedonism vs. Shame in Sexuality (18:59) Parenting and Sexual Education (27:14) The State of Sexual Satisfaction (33:40) Improving Partnered Sex Lives (37:58) Navigating Novelty in Relationships (43:59) The Rise of Non-Monogamy (49:03) The Role of Therapy in Sexual Conversations Dr. Kate Balestrieri is a licensed psychologist, certified sex therapist, and founder of Modern Intimacy, with practices in Los Angeles, Miami, and Chicago. Passionate about the intersection of mental health, sex, and relationships, she helps individuals and couples heal from trauma, navigate addictions, improve communication, and build deeper intimacy. Guided by a holistic approach that integrates evidence-based practices, Dr. Kate emphasizes the mind-body connection to foster resilience, recovery, and thriving vitality. She also hosts the podcast Get Naked with Dr. Kate, where she explores topics on mental health, sexuality, and relationships. Connect with Dr. Kate: Website: https://www.modernintimacy.com/ LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/kate-balestrieri-psy-d-cst-csat-s-pact-iii-42b378152/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/drkatebalestrieri/ Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/get-naked-with-dr-kate/id1563975869 Book: https://www.amazon.com/What-Happened-My-Sex-Life/dp/1891011766  Connect with Darius: Connect with Darius: Website: https://therealdarius.com/ Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/in/dariusmirshahzadeh/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/imthedarius/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Thegreatnessmachine  Book: The Core Value Equation https://www.amazon.com/Core-Value-Equation-Framework-Limitless/dp/1544506708 Write a review for The Greatness Machine using this link: https://ratethispodcast.com/spreadinggreatness.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

After her divorce, Sophia Sloane discovered a side of herself she never knew existed. The self-described “vanilla” woman found confidence, freedom, and a whole new career through camming. We get into what it's really like performing live for hundreds of viewers, the genuine connections she's built with her regulars, and how stepping in front of the camera changed her relationship with sex.Sophia also tells the story of unexpectedly squirting A LOT—during a live ticketed show, the moment she realized what was happening, and how it completely changed the way she thinks about her own body and pleasure. We also dive into the wildest requests she's received on Stripchat, whether collaborations are in her future, and why the biggest surprise wasn't the audience—it was discovering what she was capable of.Roll out your favorite tarp, blanket, or towel and enjoy EP 233: "Sophia's Game" with Sophia Sloane.Watch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Sophia Sloane Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/itssophiasloane (@itssophiasloane) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustin.rybka (@dustin.rybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

What if the key to greater pleasure, connection, and fulfillment is understanding your unique erotic wiring? In this episode, we explore the Erotic Blueprints™, a framework developed by somatic sexologist Jaiya that helps explain the different ways people experience desire, arousal, and intimacy. We unpack the five Erotic Blueprints—Energetic, Sensual, Sexual, Kinky, and Shapeshifter—and explore how each type experiences pleasure differently. We also share how this framework has become a valuable tool for relationships and individuals. Time and again, we've watched people experience powerful "aha" moments as they discover why certain experiences excite them, why others don't, and where misunderstandings with partners may be coming from. Understanding your blueprint can remove shame, increase self-awareness, and provide a new language for discussing desire, boundaries, and pleasure. We also share our own blueprint profiles and discuss how different types can learn to better understand and connect with one another. Finally, we explore how Erotic Blueprints can enrich experiences within ethical non-monogamy and the lifestyle. The goal isn't to put yourself in a box, but to better understand your erotic "home" while remaining curious about other ways of experiencing pleasure. By learning each other's unique wiring, couples can expand their erotic vocabulary, deepen connection, and create more meaningful experiences together. Mentioned in this episode: Expansive Connection Coaching Events The Erotic Blueprint with Miss Jaiya Contact Mr Jones for a promo code to try the We Gotta Thing community for three months! Book your Desire Resorts trip here Trial membership to lifestyle dating sites Kasidie and SDC Music used with permission from Luxe Music Studios: We Gotta Thing

A trans woman's friend is married to a Russian-born MAGA creep-o. But, plot twist! The Trump/Putin-lover is transitioning! It's hard for the caller to gin up sympathy for someone who supports anti-gay/trans autocrats. How should she interact with these bizarre people? A gay man's new boyfriend wants to get dominated. But the caller has always been vanilla. Dan welcomes Master R, who specializes in shibari bondage to offer this newbie some tips. On the Magnum, Dan once asked if there were ANY poly-under-duress memoirs written by men. There is, and we got him! Adam Darrow, author of Seek the Risk: One Man's Journey into Non-Monogamy is on to talk about his initial reluctance in dating a woman with a various sexual appetite. He compares his experience to participating in extreme sports. Listen in. A woman is about to meet a new paramour, who will be visiting her for the first time. In their remote conversations, he has made it crystal clear that he enjoys jizzing all over his ladies. She hates the taste of come. It makes her wretch. How can they square their opposing desires? YOU KNOW YOU HAVE A QUESTION. Here's how to ask it. Record it and send it to Q@Savage.Love Or call 206-302-2064 and leave us a message. Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 20% off your first order by visiting ⁠ForiaWellness.com/Savage⁠ This episode is brought to you by VB Health, Doctor-formulated supplements that work . To learn more about Load Boost, Drive Boost and Soaking Wet and to get 10% off, visit ⁠VB.Health⁠ when you use the code Savage. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From bondage to bisexuality, cuckolding to crossdressing and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.