Podcasts about nonmonogamy

Meet Joe Sanok Joe Sanok helps counselors to create thriving practices that are the envy of other counselors. He has helped counselors to grow their businesses by 50-500% and is proud of all the private practice owners who are growing their income, influence, and impact on the world. Click here to explore consulting with Joe. […] The post Polysecure: Attachment, Trauma, and NonMonogamy with Jessica Fern | POP 1211 appeared first on How to Start, Grow, and Scale a Private Practice | Practice of the Practice.

Lola has been exploring non-monogamy since about 2009 and like many of us, their motivation has shifted and evolved along the way. In this powerful interview Lola takes us through their beautiful journey of self-discovery, healing, and untangling the web of misconceptions we're taught about sex, love, and relationships. Lola Phoenix is an American-born writer living in Sweden, working within digital marketing while trying to find an agent to represent their fiction work. Lola is the author of The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy and The Non-Monogamy Journal as well as a weekly advice column and podcast called Non-Monogamy Help. Please check out nonmonogamyhelp.com for all of Lola's work! Lola is also an amateur Strongman athlete and has a special interest in fitness and nutrition. When not writing books, Lola is either at the gym, talking walks in nature, learning about sciencey stuff or baking new treats. Check out the full show notes here. Join the most amazing community of open-minded humans on the planet!   Click here to order your very own NNM shirt! $10 Off - Online STI Testing

Do you ever feel like you're doing everything right in your open or polyamorous relationship—and yet still crumble inside the moment your partner connects with someone else? In this honest and unfiltered episode, I explore what real self-love looks like in non-monogamous relationships—especially when comparison, jealousy, and insecurity hit hard. 

Send us a textOne of the things that people struggle with the most in the lifestyle is closing the deal... actually getting to the play. Jo and Chad talk about their struggles with closing the deal and give some perspective and tips to hopefully make it a little bit easier for you. So, listen up! And then go close that deal!Support the showOld music (

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Send us a textWhat happens when a long-term couple invites a third person into their relationship—and it doesn't go as planned?In this raw and revealing episode, I sit down with six-time Emmy-nominated TV producer Jeff Hudson to talk about his memoir Deconstructing Us: My Trouble with a Throuple. Jeff shares what it was like to navigate the emotional rollercoaster of a throuple, how jealousy blindsided him, and why non-monogamy cracked him wide open—in the best and worst ways.We explore:Why three-person relationships are emotional rocket fuelHow jealousy shows up even when you're experienced in open relationshipsThe difference between love and compatibilityIdentity shifts that come with loving outside the boxWhy breakdowns in love can lead to breakthroughs in self-awarenessWhether you're polyam-curious, actively non-monogamous, or just fascinated by the complexity of modern love—this conversation will challenge and expand how you think about commitment, identity, and connection.

EPISODE 268: Interview with Robert Dalbol. Rob Dalbol was married for 10 yrs in a typical relationship before they decided to open their marriage. Ultimately, the inability to communicate effectively and differences in their values led them to separate. The tools in Kitty's coaching Program have taught Rob that he is capable of providing more in his future relationships and show up as a more confident and emotionally mature man without letting fear or trauma come between him and his happiness. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

In this episode, we dive deep with Bobby, one of the driving forces behind Splash Takeovers, the multi-city lifestyle hotel takeover experience. Bobby shares his personal origin story and how he found his way into the lifestyle, giving us a behind-the-scenes look at his journey from attendee to organizer. We also explore the wide range of Splash events held throughout the year in cities across the country—and get an exciting preview of new events on the horizon. Bobby talks candidly about what he's observed in the lifestyle over the years, from shifting dynamics to evolving community norms, and sprinkles in some hilarious and heartwarming stories along the way. Whether you're a seasoned vet or just curious about dipping your toes in, this episode offers a fun and entertaining peek into one of the best hotel takeovers in the scene. LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Splash Takeovers EROTICON 2026 | August 6-9, 2026 SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram

SHE'S HERE TO BUST. YOUR. FUCKING. BALLS. This week Dustin welcomes Award-Winning, Internationally Renowned, Bicoastal Dominatrix, Luxury Mistress, Fetish Model, Kink Educator, and Author Goddess Lilith to the show and man I hope you have your game faces on because this one is special. Goddess Lilith takes us inside her own personal world of pain, pleasure, and domination experience. What is she doing online? What is she doing in person? Pegging? Ball Busting? What are some of her absolute favorite experiences to have with a client? Goddess Lilith also opens up about LITERALLY writing the book on feet and creating foot content, how wild some of her experiences can actually get, blowing people's heads off on tour with her metal band, taking subs on tour with her, how she got into this work, and what it feels like to be Goddess Lilith in all of her power. Pour a double and enjoy EP 173: "Whips, Chains, Whistles, Yo-Yos" with Goddess LilithWatch the video version of the show on YouTubeYouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Goddess LilithInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/goddesslilith66 (@goddesslilith66) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Send us a textIn today's episode, Jo rereleases episode 4 from June of 2022, making the first move. It's a fan favorite, full of great ideas. Support the showOld music (

When we open our relationships, we often focus on creating boundaries and agreements around emotions, time, and sex. But there's another crucial element that frequently gets overlooked (until it becomes a problem): money. How we handle finances in our relationships can reveal deep-seated values, trigger old wounds, and create unexpected power dynamics—especially when we start dating outside our established partnerships.The financial aspects of non-monogamy touch on some of our most vulnerable places. They can bring up childhood patterns, highlight privilege differences, and force us to examine our relationship with capitalism itself. While these conversations might feel uncomfortable, they're essential for building healthy relationships with clear expectations and boundaries. Money conversations in non-monogamy can be terrifying—but avoiding them is worse!In this episode, we talk about:— Why money conversations are often avoided until they become painful problems— How our personal money histories shape our approach to finances in relationships (including childhood experiences with scarcity or abundance)— The practical questions that arise when dating: What counts as a "date expense"? Who pays? How do we handle financial disparities?— Why separate accounts can be helpful for financial differentiation in non-monogamy— The challenge of funding separate accounts when income disparities exist between partners— How dating expenses can reveal our values and trigger judgments about what's "worth" spending on— The way money intersects with other resources like time, emotional labor, and childcare responsibilities— Why regular money check-ins are crucial as relationships evolve and circumstances change— How money conversations can actually build intimacy when approached with curiosity and compassion— The importance of allowing partners to change over time and not assuming their financial values remain static— Why examining privilege and socioeconomic differences can be both challenging and a way to deeply connectResources mentioned in this episode:— Imago dialogue as a tool for difficult conversationsJOIN The Year Of Opening® community for a full year of learning & support. Registration is open now at ⁠⁠www.TheYearOfOpening.com⁠⁠Learn the 5 secrets to open your relationship the smart wayAre you ready to open your relationship happily? Find out at www.JoliQuiz.comGet the answers you want to create the open relationship of your dreams! Sign up for an Ask Me Anything hereMusic: Dance of Felt by ⁠Blue Dot Sessions

Co-Host Adam Darrow (https://mountaintoppodcast.com/risk) My first-time guest Adam Darrow has always been a thrill-seeking risk taker. Early on, that meant participating in extreme sports, of course. But not until he met ONE woman in particular did he ever consider dating and relating to women an extreme sport unto itself. She made it very clear that she was not the kind of woman who wanted to settle down with one man. That led to a path of sexual discovery for Adam that would make Mickey Rourke's character in 9 1/2 Weeks jealous. So who was this woman, and what made her so tantalizingly different? And how did Adam's response to her--and what she offered--differ from most guys who might dream about finding a chick and getting into 'The Lifestyle' with her? When Adam's new girlfriend was quite public about their non-monogamous relationship, how did Adam's family and friends respond? And did he care? How did this new relationship affect his masculinity? Well, given they got married and stayed together for over ten years, you can already sense how amazing the story of this adventure is going to get. What happened when Adam entered the 'underground' sex society of New York City, and what was that like? Were there any pitfalls or was it all pleasure? How did Adam feel about sharing his girl with other men...even in real time? Is desiring and living such a lifestyle a matter of nature or nurture? And is there such thing as 'cheating' is a completely open relationship? Is monogamous intimacy overrated? Can you go back to monogamy after extreme non-monogamy, even if you want to? Ultimately, would Adam recommend a non-monogamous lifestyle? These are some powerful questions amidst one of the most shocking episodes in recent memory, but it all made for a great episode. Check in with the latest Masterclass For Men and more at: https://mountaintoppodcast.com === HELP US SEND THE MESSAGE TO GREAT MEN EVERYWHERE === The content in this show is NEVER generated by AI. I discovered it can't handle a joke a long time ago. Meanwhile, I'll keep the practical, actionable ideas coming as well as the entertaining part...all for free. If you love what you hear, please rate the show on the service you subscribed to it on (takes one second) and leave a review. As we say here in Texas, I appreciate you!

Bella Snow made history as the first Vietnamese trans woman featured in a Sephora campaign — but that's just the beginning. In this episode, she gets real about her transition, exploring non-monogamy, what it really takes to pass, and the confidence it took to show up fully as herself.

Send us a textYou know you're enough—but the second your partner mentions her, the spiral starts. Sound familiar?In this honest, grounding episode, I break down the real costs of comparison in non-monogamous relationships—like the way it quietly erodes your presence, self-trust, and peace.You'll hear:Why “knowing better” doesn't stop the spiralHow patriarchy conditions us to compete—even in open dynamicsWhat comparison really steals from youAnd the exact reframe and tools that help you come back to yourself

COCO HAS A SEX FINISHING MOVE THAT YOU'VE NEVER HEARD OF. TRUST ME. Dustin welcomes super popular Adult Star and OnlyFans Creator Coco Bae to the show this week, and let's just say Coco has A LOT of passion for her work in the adult industry. Saying she gives 110% on a porn set is putting it mildly. Coco tells Dustin about shooting a 7 person orgy, the truth behind her dick ratings on OnlyFans, and getting so overwhelmed with dick on set that she finds herself in a whole other realm. A realm only known as.... THE COCK GOBLIN REALM. Coco also talks about not being able to stick a golf club OR golf balls in your pussy on OnlyFans, gives two CRAZY strip club stories, explains the physical mechanics of shooting a porn scene with herself and 3 gentlemen, chats wanting to double up in her vagina on every scene in the future, and shares her favorite sex finishing move that will blow your mind. This one is wild.

If you're curious about non-monogamous relationships or simply want to strengthen your current partnership, you will learn about jealousy management, how to build stronger communication skills regardless of relationship structure. Learn why relationship skills from non-monogamy transfer beautifully to monogamous relationships and discover the importance of clear boundaries and consent in any intimate connection. Whether you are considering opening your relationship or are committed to monogamy, this episode has insight for you. Transform jealousy from a relationship destroyer into a pathway for deeper intimacy and understanding. Dr. Hamilton emphasizes that non-monogamous relationship skills can enhance monogamous partnerships by focusing on clear communication, personal boundaries, and honest discussions about desires. Whether you're considering opening your relationship or simply want to strengthen your monogamous bond, this episode offers valuable insights into creating relationships designed for the specific people involved. Listen now and discover how to move beyond societal expectations to create relationships that truly honor your authentic needs and desires.   Connect with Dr. Joli Hamilton https://www.jolihamilton.com/quiz Join a FREE salon to open your relationship: https://www.jolihamilton.com/salon  

Send us a textJo and Chad talk about going into LS situations with no expectations. It's easy to say that, but it's a lot harder to do it in real life. Our brains like to create expectations of how the night or the event is going to go, and that can lead to disappointment.Support the showOld music (

Send us a textNavigating non-monogamy can stir up some BIG emotions—especially jealousy. But what if jealousy wasn't something to fight against... but a tool for deeper connection?In this episode, I sit down with Dr. Emma Smith, licensed professional counselor and certified sex therapist, to talk about:✨ How to create emotional safety plans when opening a relationship ✨ The difference between healthy boundaries and rigid rules ✨ Why jealousy isn't the enemy—and how it can guide your growth ✨ Tips for crafting relationship agreements that actually work for you"Boundaries are about care, they're about safety. They are about being grounded in your love and respect for another person." — Dr. Emma SmithIf you're exploring non-monogamy (or just want stronger, healthier connections), this conversation is packed with real talk and practical strategies you'll want to come back to.

EPISODE 267: Interview with Zara Shah. Zara Shah is a Pakistani-Canadian queer sex worker. She uses her unique immigrant experience and perspective as a way to draw intersection between race, cultural background, and sexuality. Being a non-monogamous sex worker has allowed her greater control and freedom in both her social and professional life, and her book, “Nonmonogamy and Sex Work,” explores that in detail. If you get value out of the Loving Without Boundaries podcast, then consider becoming one of our patrons! Not only will you enjoy exclusive content made just for you, your support will also help us continue creating educational content while helping more people have a deeper understanding of consensual non-monogamy and healthy, sex positive relationships in general. https://www.patreon.com/lovingwithoutboundaries

ALEXA DOES DOUBLE VAGINAL PENETRATION AT A SEX PARTY & TEACHES BETTER ANAL ON SWINGERS CRUISES!  Dustin welcomes back Psychologist, Sexologist, Sexpert, and Podcast Host Alexa Andre to the show to talk about how she's gone from Adult Swingers Cruise Attendee to Adult Swingers Cruise Sexpert & Instructor. Basically, she's the captain now. Alexa opens up about teaching 3 different intimate workshops, instructing people how to have better anal while they're having anal in front of her, and how you can learn to develop better dirty talking skills in the bedroom, not only with a partner, but with yourself. Alexa also chats about doing Double Vaginal Penetration with a couple of friends at a party for the first time and how she still gets to have a ton of sexual fun on the wildest adult cruises ever. Welcome to EP 171: "Cruise Control" with Alexa Andre.

This week on Problem Solved, Jeff and Alex are diving into all the juicy stuff: shame, secrecy, shadow, and sex. They tackle listener questions about navigating a religious rift in marriage, integrating your sexual self into everyday life, handling ethically questionable non-monogamy, confronting a messy friend, and embracing a little post-divorce wildness. Along the way, they talk fingered flowers, cotton candy souls, and why sometimes you gotta show your shame a little love. Listen to more podcasts like this: https://wavepodcastnetwork.com/Keep up with Alex at alexandramoskovichpsychotherapy.comJeff's TikTok: https://www.instagram.com/therapyjeff/Jeff's Instagram: https://www.tiktok.com/@therapyjeffDISCLAIMER: The insights shared in this podcast are for educational purposes only, and should not be seen as a substitute for professional therapy. The guidance is general in nature, and does not equate to the personalized care provided by a licensed therapist. The callers are not therapy clients.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WhenNon-Judgmental Becomes Judgy: The Hypocrisy in Non-Monogamy Spaces.They say non-monogamy is all about freedom, acceptance, andbeing non-judgmental. But let's be real — some of the rudest, mostjudgmental people out there are the same ones preaching "love islove." Why does this happen? And why do some folks in the non-monogamouscommunity act like their way is the only right way?In this episode, we're diving deep into the contradictionsand call-outs within non-monogamous circles. Why do people who claim to beopen-minded often come off as elitist or harsh? How can we build relationshipspaces that are truly inclusive — not just in theory, but in practice?Whether you're poly, single, curious, or just tired of thedrama, this episode is for you.

In a time when relationships are no longer confined to traditional labels, ethical non-monogamy allows gay individuals to build connections that align with their unique desires and values. By fostering open communication, trust, and mutual consent, non-monogamous relationships can provide fulfilling connections that honor the evolving dynamics of love and partnership.In this episode, Jeff Hudson joins us to share his personal journey with ethical non-monogamy, discussing the challenges and misconceptions surrounding non-traditional relationships and how his experience reshaped his views on love and commitment.Related Episodes:Listen to Episode 54. Love in the Third Degree (with Eric Praniewicz)Additional Resources:Read Exploring Polyamory Among Gay Men: Redefining Love, Connection, and AuthenticityFollow Jeff on InstagramRead Deconstructing Us: My Trouble with a ThroupleEthical Non-Monogamy: Basics & Rules for ENM RelationshipsRooted ResilienceRooted Resilience: Intersectional Narratives of 2SLGBTQIA+ Creatives in MAListen on: Apple Podcasts SpotifySupport the showGet Your Merch

Send us a textPeople often try to meet LS people online, whether on websites, apps, or social media. And it can be challenging to go from talking to someone online, where it's "safe" to the real world where you don't have a keyboard to hide behind. Chad and Jo talk about the challenges of that. Support the showOld music (

Both monogamy and non-monogamy are valid choices, but a lot of people default into the modern-day societal norm without even fully discussing it or considering the options that best align with us.  This episode provides an introduction to the different choices for relationship structures available. Whatever you choose, I encourage you to make it an intentional decision for you and your partner or partner. I also provide direct you to some resources that can really help. As a coach who has helped many couples navigate changes in their relationship structures, I highly recommend having a listen. Book list mentioned: Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships (originally The Prehistoric Origins of Modern Sexuality)  by Christopher Ryan and Cacilda JetháPolysecure: Attachment, Trauma and Consensual Nonmonogamy by Jessica FernPolywise: A Deeper Dive into Navigating Open Relationships by Jessica FernGet my free email newsletter with helpful tips, plus a free guide to Finding Your Deepest Turn-Ons, and learn how to work with me at https://laurajurgens.com.

In this episode of Pinky and Ava's Pajama Party, we welcome back relationship coach Elizabeth Cunningham for a deep and juicy conversation about eroticism and pleasure. Elizabeth reminds us that eroticism isn't just about sex — it's about the full range of aliveness, desire, and connection in our lives. Together, they explore how to tap into your wants and needs, whether in polyamory, sexually, or in other parts of your relationships. Plus, Elizabeth, Pinky, and Ava offer practical ideas for asking for (and getting!) what you want. If you've ever struggled to express your desires or felt unsure about navigating pleasure with multiple partners, this one's for you! LINKS: Three Shades Of Grey | Website Elizabeth Ann Cunningham | Website Miss Jay | Erotic Blueprints How To Have Difficult Convos | Website Ro Moed | Writer & Relationship Coach

In this episode, Elle and Vee go deep with Adam Darrow, the author of Seek the Risk: One Man's Journey Into Non-Monogamy. Described as a "firsthand recounting of a wide-open relationship, told with unflinching candor from the male perspective", Elle and Vee were struck by the relatability of Adam's ENM story in Seek the Risk, from the overthinking and jealousy to the adventurous sex and deep connection in his relationship. His firsthand account of how he worked through the challenging emotional moments of his relationship with "the wrong girl" is FULL of nuggets, many of which are mentioned in this deep, candid, vulnerable conversation.  Grab a pen and dig in :) What does Seek the Risk mean? "Experience hunting" rather than "trophy bagging". (2:52)Applying the Seek the Risk philosophy to CNM (consensual non monogamy). (6:49)Misalignment and shame: when one partner is the one who is pushing, and one is being pushed. Being mindful and careful about not shaming the “slower” partner. (9:23)The treasure you seek: when do you know it's growth vs. self-flagellation? (15:13)Tool #1: Creating a container to hear stories about your partner's sexual activities so you aren't blindsided by them. Asking for consent to share information. (18:30)Tool #2: Check-ins/debriefs. (23:37)Being triggered at a sex party and how to work through it. (25:36)Tool #3: “Take the cigarette break.” aka Not reacting in the moment. Notice your own growth! (31:22)Tool #4: Self-hypnosis aka “magical reframing”. (36:01)Tool #5: “Exist in the grey.” Don't act on emotions when spiraling out: sit with uncomfortable feelings. “Negative outcome fantasy.” (38:50)Imposter syndrome: how our childhood traumas show up in our adult relationships. (43:37)IFS: internal family systems and Aspecting (from ISTA). (49:52)Masculinity: Societal hypocrisies and submissive associations with pegging and anal play. (52:58)Final Nugget! (1:00:34)Where to find us, and how you can support us:Instagram: @girlsgonedeeppod Merch: girlsgonedeep.com/shop Woo More Play Affiliate Link: Support us while you shop! WHOREible Life: Get 10% off your deck with code GONEDEEP at whoreiblelife.com Instagram: @wlthegameContact: girlsgonedeep@gmail.com

Send us a textEver wondered if you can learn to feel compersion instead of jealousy? Or if talking about opening up your relationship means you're actually ready to do it? This episode dives deep into these questions and more!I'm joined by Ally Iseman, a certified relationship coach and founder of Passport to Pleasure. Ally brings her unique blend of humor, compassion, and practical tools to help couples navigate the complexities of non-monogamy.In this episode, we explore:Why "conversation is lubrication" and how to make it work for youReframing jealousy (even the hot kind!) as a tool for growthThe value of understanding consensual non-monogamy, regardless of your relationship styleAlly's step-by-step method for moving through jealousyHow to know if your relationship is truly ready to open upKey Takeaways:Compersion vs. Jealousy: Ally shares her personal journey from experiencing what she thought was jealousy to realizing it was actually compersion.The NERD OUT Method: Learn Ally's unique technique for transforming jealousy into a mindful, growth-oriented experience.Effective Communication: Discover the crucial difference between clear communication and effective communication in relationships.Curiosity Over Conviction: Why approaching non-monogamy with genuine curiosity is more powerful than trying to convince your partner.Whether you're actively practicing non-monogamy, considering it, or simply curious about different relationship styles, this conversation offers valuable insights for everyone. Ally's approach emphasizes personal growth, effective communication, and creating relationships that truly work for you – no matter what form they take.Ready to explore if your relationship is prepared for non-monogamy? Take Ally's free Relationship Ratio quiz at  www.passport2pleasure.com/ratio to get started on your journey.And check out Ally's Substack https://allyiseman.substack.com/https://elleciapaine.com/callSupport the show

SHE WENT FROM UNFULFILLED WIFE TO SWINGER AND ADULT STAR.Dustin welcomes OnlyFans Creator and Adult Star Taylor Vixxen to the show this week to talk about her journey from Wife and Corporate Executive to attending wild sex parties and working with some of the biggest names and companies in the porn. Taylor shares the ins and outs of swinging and swapping (see what I did there?), attending wild swinger parties, cumming incredibly loud, getting insane blowback for shooting a Mom Swap scene, self recording sex with strangers, and what the experience of shooting her first mainstream porn scene was like.Taylor also talks about only having been in the mainstream porn world for less than a year, what you can expect from her OnlyFans, and the BIG plans she has coming up for 2025 and beyond. Anal? Double Penetration? Gangbang? It's a loaded one. Just the way you like it.

What happens when a triad and a quad walk into a podcast?  You get one unforgettable conversation full of laughs, insight, and lifestyle realness. In this episode of Three Shades Deeper, we sit down with two incredible couples in the non-monogamy space—Swinky Life and The Accidental Swingers—to explore what it really means to be polyamorous. From love and labels to communication, compatibility, and the beautiful messiness of human connection, this is the kind of episode that goes way beyond the surface. We talk about:    •    Navigating poly dynamics as couples and groups     •    Dealing with jealousy, growth, and unexpected feelings     •    How each couple defines “poly” in their own lives     •    The power of community and authentic connection Whether you're new to polyamory or living the life out loud, this episode is full of real talk, hard truths, and hilarious moments you won't want to miss. #ThreeShadesDeeper #WhatDoesItMeanToBePoly #AccidentalSwingers #SwinkyLife #ThreeShadesOfGreyPodcast #Polyamory #NonMonogamy #EthicalNonMonogamy #LifestylePodcast #RealRelationships #SexPositiveCommunity

JKS 58  Celebate Swingers 2, The SequelWelcome back faithful listeners!April is STI awareness month so we wanted to get this episode out there.This episode, we do a little discussion about how things have been going and go back to last october and november before Mrs. Sting's breakup with her boyfriend, to disclose the most recent issue that has forced us to be Celebate again.We talk about STIs (big surprise) and getting tested.Mentioned in the episode...tellyourpartner.orgshamelesscare.comSee below for links to testing & STI information. Please reach out if you have something to say about this.We hope you enjoy the show!Thank You for listening, and "Just Keep Swinging"!You can reach Mr.Sting at @JKSwingingPod on Twitter or @justkeepswinging.bsky.socialemail at JustKeepSwingingPod@gmail.comIf you like our show and the perspective we provide, PLEASE give us a positive review on iTunes.  If you don't like us, say nothing and just move along .WE HIGHLY RESPECT THE FOLLOWING LIST OF CREATORS/ORGS(FYI-we do not generate any form of compensation from our show. We do it for love & caring for ourselves and others. The following are people we believe in.)We encourage you to visit OPEN The Organization for Polyamory and Ethical Non Monogamy https://www.open-love.org/follow @openloveorg Libertine Events Lifestyle vacations,https://libertineevents.com/  follow @PaloozaPodcast on social media or visit https://podcast-a-palooza.comwww.openingus.comhttps://beyondourbedroom.com/https://www.expansiveconnection.com/Average Swingers podcastSapphic Swingers podcastTwo or more to Tango podcastSwinger University podcastCasual Swinger podcast My Favorite app for building sex positive community & education is called Plura. you can find out more here...https://heyplura.com/faqFascinated about swinging and other kinds of open or sex positive relationships? Go listen to our friends at Normalizing Non Monogamy podcast. Join their community.  https://www.normalizingnonmonogamy.com/  and Bawdy Storytelling podcast https://bawdystorytelling.com/podcastHave you or a loved one contracted Herpes or another STI and are looking for resources on coping with your diagnosis? Search IG for Courtney Brame from the Podcast & Non-Profit "Something Positive for Positive People". A resource for fighting stigma and shame, while finding community & emotional healing for people living with Herpes & other STIs.visit https://www.spfpp.org/Other resources to consider...American Sexual Health association- ASHAsexualhealth.org @infoASHAThe- nationalcoalitionforsexualhealth.org @NCSH_stdcheck.com @STDcheck Shameless Care STI testing and meds www.shamelesscare.comOther notes: We recommend watching Embarrassing Bodies & Big Mouth on Netflix for relaxing the grip of stigma, fear and poor sexual & relationship education. 

Send us a textIn this episode of The Pineapple Express: A Guide to Millennial Love, Evolution, and Relationships, we're diving headfirst into the world of relationship design, jealousy, and letting go of the outdated love scripts that no longer serve us.My guest is the incredible Dr. Joli Hamilton—psychologist, TEDx speaker, and founder of The Institute for Creative Relating—who's on a mission to help people create intentional, empowering relationships that actually fit their lives.Whether you're monogamous, polyamorous, non-monogamous, or somewhere in between, this episode is packed with juicy insights about: 

THIS STEPMOM & STEPDAUGHTER HOOKED UP WITH EACH OTHER AND WENT INSANELY VIRAL. Here's how it all happened.... Dustin welcomes OnlyFans Creators Little Annie and Dirty Danii to the show to talk about hooking up with each other's husbands + one another, then going MEGA viral on Instagram & TikTok for talking about it. They are spilling all the secrets on how it got started, what it's like to make content with each other, swapping husbands, and what they are up to together and individually on OnlyFans. At the very end of the episode Danii shares details about her start in Mainstream Porn and the WILD act the duo is planning on doing before the year is out.Spoiler Alert: It involves 40-50 guys. Welcome to EP 169: "Family Matters" with Little Annie & Dirty Danii. Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Little AnnieInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/littleannie2022 (@littleannie2022)Follow Dirty DaniiInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/dirtydanii69 (@dirtydanii69)Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

It's Dustin interviewing EVERYONE on the Red Carpet of the BIGGEST event in the Adult Industry; The 2025 AVN Awards. Brace yourself.  Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

They tried non-monogamy in the past and it didn't work, but they'd like to try again. Here's the question: My Daddy and I have been together for almost 2 years now. We are 24/7... The post Q&A: How Will We Know We're Ready to Try Nonmonogamy Again? appeared first on Loving BDSM.

In this episode, we sit down with the incredible Dragonfly Lee and her partner E from Pure Orgasmic Love, two passionate guides in the realms of non-monogamy, somatic work, and holistic intimacy. Pinky first connected with Dragonfly at Naughty N'awlins, and it was clear from the start that her energy and depth of experience needed to be shared with our community. In this conversation, Dragonfly opens up deeply about her personal journey — from navigating health challenges to embracing a life of embodied pleasure and conscious connection. E adds his own thoughtful insights, sharing how they work together to help people rediscover intimacy, trust, and empowerment in their relationships. We explore the origins of Pure Orgasmic Love, the transformative power of somatic practices, and how they hold space for individuals and couples to step into their fullest, most authentic selves. With moments that are playful, vulnerable, and deeply educational, this episode is a beautiful reminder of how our personal healing journeys can lead to expansive love lives. Plus, Dragonfly and E are offering a special gift just for our listeners! Check out the exclusive offer linked below. SPECIAL OFFERS:  Hearts and Hips Membership. Use the code "3SHADES" for 30% off the first month; after a 2 week trial. Free Guided Audio with Dragonfly LINKS: Three Shade Of Grey | Website Pure Orgasmic Love Naughty N'awlins Erotic Blueprints and Breakthrough with Miss Jaiya SOCIALS: Anthony's Instagram Pinky's Instagram Ava's Instagram TikTok  

This week, we’re joined by Liam and Abbey—a married, non-monogamous couple who are also parents. Wondering how that dynamic works? That’s exactly what we’re unpacking in today’s episode. Liam and Abbey are the hosts of Evolving Love, a podcast that dives deep into the world of non-monogamy. Through honest conversations, they’re breaking down stigmas and helping to normalise what can still be a taboo topic for many. Get ready for an open, insightful, and eye-opening chat. LINKS: Follow Cam @camerondaddo on Instagram Follow Ali @alidaddo on Instagram Follow Nova Podcasts @novapodcastsofficial. Follow @evolvingloveproject on Instagram Listen to Evolving Love HERE CREDITSHost: Cam & Ali Daddo Senior Producer: Xander CrossManaging Producer: Elle Beattie Got a question for Cam & Ali? You can email them at:Theheartofit@novapodcasts.com.auSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

Send us a textIf you've ever struggled with mismatched desires, defining commitment with a partner, or navigating the messier side of non-monogamy — this episode is for you.In this candid conversation, I talk with Dr. Tammy Nelson, sexologist, therapist, TEDx speaker, and author of Open Monogamy. With 35+ years of experience working with couples in both monogamous and open relationships, Tammy brings a nuanced lens to everything from sexual boredom and emotional disconnection to jealousy, relationship fatigue, and the evolving nature of commitment.We explore:Why mismatched desires and “monogamy gaps” show up even in non-monogamyHow open relationships can become more intimate — not less — when built on clarityTools for navigating jealousy, initiating hard conversations, and honoring shifting needsThe danger of jumping to a solution before naming the real problemWhy fantasy, communication, and appreciation matter more than frequency or rules

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WILDER DREYES WANTS TO BE IN PORN. Dustin welcomes OnlyFans Creator and Mainstream Porn Hopeful, Wilder Dreyes to the show this week and when I tell you that you won't see the twists coming in this one, believe me, YOU WILL NOT SEE THE TWISTS COMING IN THIS ONE....Wilder tells Dustin about starting OnlyFans on her 18th birthday, what she is up to on OnlyFans now, a wild double penetration threesome with a famous Netflix Star and his friend, a dangerously violent strip club patron, offering strip club "extras", and her ultimate goal of making it into Mainstream Porn as well as who she REALLY wants to collab with once she gets there. MURDER, (yes you read that correctly) MAYHEM, AND MADNESS await you in EP 168: "Young, Horny, & Wild" with Wilder Dreyes. Enjoy! Watch the video version of the show on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Wilder DreyesInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/wilderxdreyes (@wilderxdreyes) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

Send us a textThe Pineapple Express: A Guide to Millennial Love, Evolution, and RelationshipsIn this episode, I sit down with the legendary Reid Mihalko—sex and relationship educator, creator of Sex Geek Summer Camp, and the brain behind reidaboutsex.com—to talk about something that often gets overlooked in non-monogamy: connective sex.Whether you're navigating swinging, polyamory, or open relationships, it can be easy to get swept up in novelty, scheduling, and logistics… but Reid and I unpack the deeper stuff:✨ What does it really mean to stay emotionally connected during casual or multiple sexual connections? How do you create sex that feels nourishing—not just exciting? Can casual sex be intimate? (Spoiler: Yes. And Reid tells us how.)We talk about: – The difference between “porn sex” and “connected sex” – How to bring heart, intention, and intimacy into non-monogamous dynamics – Tools for checking in with partners before and after play – Why emotional presence during sex matters—even when it's casualWhether you're new to ethical non-monogamy or years into your journey, this episode is packed with wisdom, warmth, and permission to slow down and get real about what turns you on—emotionally.About Reid Mihalko: Reid is a world-renowned sex and relationship coach who blends humor, heart, and skill-building to help people create more intimacy and connection in their sex lives. You can learn more about him at reidaboutsex.com.

There are two types of people in this world. The pranksters who live for April Fools' chaos, and the rest of us who'd rather eat glass than endure another workplace whoopee cushion. Which camp are you claiming? Plus, Jessie has some feedback and a theory about April Fools' Day. Also, the very public custody battles with some of the richest, highest-profile, most volatile men in the world. From copyright claims to children appearing in presidential offices, we unpack the high-stakes turmoil surrounding Kanye West and Elon Musk. And kinks are having their moment in pop culture, with The White Lotus season 3 finale coming next week and a confession on Gwyneth Paltrow's latest Goop podcast we have many questions. Support independent women's media Get your tickets to the Mamamia Out Loud Live 2025 All or Nothing Tour Presented By Nivea Cellular Get your merch for Mamamia Out Loud Resources:If you or someone you know is in need of support contact help is available: Lifeline 13 11 14 1800RESPECT 1800 737 732 What To Listen To Next: Listen to our latest episode: Finally Debriefing On 'Adolescence' In Forensic Detail Listen: The Woman Who's Never Met A Happy Parent Listen: Millennials Were The Last Generation To Have It All Listen: Oh Dear. The Biggest Group Chat Whoopsies Listen: The White Lotus Recap – The Kiss & An Astonishing Scene Listen: The Belle Gibson Fallout & Armie's 'D*ckhead Defence' Listen: The White Lotus — 5 Theories & A Dong Watch Listen to Mamamia's erotic podcast: Butter Listen to The Quicky: What Australian Women Are Going Without & Kanye's Latest Attack on Kim Connect your subscription to Apple Podcasts The End Bits: Sign up to the Mamamia Out Loud Newsletter for all our recommendations and behind-the-scenes content in one place. What To Read: Read: Everything you need to know about the Mamamia Out Loud ALL OR NOTHING TOUR coming May 2025 Read: Kanye West just crossed a line for Kim Kardashian. It may cost him custody of his kids. Read: Kim Kardashian tried to stop the most sickening thing Kanye West has done so far. Read: Elon Musk just welcomed his (checks notes)... 14th child. Read: As Elon Musk’s custody battles are dragged into the spotlight, one video speaks volumes. Read: This White Lotus theory suggests our fave is going to meet a tragic death. Read: The White Lotus just nailed the ugly friendship dynamic we all recognise. Read: From Koh Samui to Phuket: All of The White Lotus Season 3 filming locations. GET IN TOUCH: Feedback? We’re listening. Send us an email at outloud@mamamia.com.au Share your story, feedback, or dilemma! Send us a voice message Join our Facebook group Mamamia Outlouders to talk about the show. Follow us on Instagram @mamamiaoutloud CREDITS: Hosts: Mia Freedman, Jessie Stephens & Holly Wainwright Group Executive Producer: Ruth Devine Executive Producer: Emeline Gazilas Audio Producer: Leah Porges Video Producer: Josh Green Mamamia acknowledges the Traditional Owners of the Land we have recorded this podcast on, the Gadigal people of the Eora Nation. We pay our respects to their Elders past and present, and extend that respect to all Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander cultures.Become a Mamamia subscriber: https://www.mamamia.com.au/subscribeSee omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

ABBY ROSE SQUIRTS AND GOES HORNY WILD WHILE IN THE MARINES! Dustin welcomes Adult Performer and OnlyFans Creator Abby Rose to the show this week for an episode of squirt soaked carpet, getting slutty while in the Marines, open relationships, and giving pilots some extra oral motivation to land the plane safely. Abby goes in depth about how super squirt shows while camming were not the best idea for her to perform while on carpet, all of her horny hook ups while in the US Marines, and how she kept her job as a flight attendant not just exciting for herself, but for the pilots as well.  Abby also tells Dustin about her journey so far in the porn industry, wanting to get all of the Military Veteran Porn Performers together for one big gangbang, what she is up to on her OnlyFans, and what it's been like to balance an open relationship on top of it all. Get ready for a fun one. Welcome to EP 167: "Secret Slutty Marine" with Abby Rose.Watch the video version on YouTube YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCIuCkOl_XummXVdu1t3XOuQFollow Abby RoseInstagram: https://www.instagram.com/itsabbyrosemain (@itsabbyrosemain) Follow the showInstagram: https://instagram.com/sexparty.fm (@sexparty.fm)Twitter: https://twitter.com/sexpartyfm (@sexpartyfm)Follow Dustin Instagram: https://instagram.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Twitter: https://twitter.com/dustinrybka (@dustinrybka)Sex Party with Dustin Rybka

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Season 5: Episode 11Dr. Michael Simmons is the founder of Inner Work Community LLC, an online collective of psycho-spiritual healers. He is a Shadow Work Coach with over a decade of experience initiating people into their inner landscape, and liberating them to embrace their authentic life. Everything Numa

Summary  In this conversation, Wayne Scott shares his journey through a mixed orientation marriage, detailing the challenges and transformations he and his wife faced. They navigated the complexities of identity, love, and commitment, ultimately redefining their relationship through non-monogamy. Wayne emphasizes the importance of communication, patience, and the willingness to adapt as individuals grow over time. His story serves as a testament to the possibility of creating a fulfilling partnership that honors both personal and shared desires.  Keywords  mixed orientation marriage, non-monogamy, relationships, LGBTQ+, marriage advice, communication, love story, personal growth, therapy, bisexuality, coming out, LGBTQ+  Takeaways  Mixed orientation marriages can thrive without ending in divorce.Communication is key in navigating relationship challenges.Non-monogamy can be a viable option for some couples.Patience is essential when exploring new relationship dynamics.It's important to redefine what marriage means to you.Love can persist through difficult transitions in a relationship.Couples can create their own rules for their relationship.Support from a therapist can facilitate difficult conversations.Children can adapt to their parents' non-traditional relationships.Personal growth is a continuous journey within a marriage.Sound Bites  "It doesn't always end in divorce.""A new idea turned his marriage into a love story.""Your marriage can be whatever you want it to be.""It's okay to take a couple years to figure it out.""It can be whatever you want it to be.""They chose to break the rules and norms of society."Audio Chapters  00:00 Navigating Mixed Orientation Marriages09:50 The Shift to Non-Monogamy20:01 Lessons Learned from Non-Traditional Relationships  Podcast website and resources: https://www.OutLateWithDavid.com  YouTube Edition:    https://youtu.be/wHFdiTkYoYk  YouTube Channel:   https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCvsthP9yClKI4o5LxbuQnOg  Certified Professional Life Coach, David Cotton:  https://www.DavidCottonCoaching.com  Contact me:  mailto:david@davidcottoncoaching.com  © 2025 David Cotton Coaching, LLC. All rights reserved. The "Out Late With David" podcast and its content are the property of David Cotton Coaching, LLC. Unauthorized use and/or duplication of this material without express and written permission from David Cotton Coaching, LLC is strictly prohibited. Excerpts and links may be used, provided that full and clear credit is given to "Out Late With David" and David Cotton Coaching, LLC with appropriate and specific direction to the original content.  

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Send us a textHiatus Week 13: Playlist About Advocacy and Relationship Diversity, Exploring Intersectionality, Justice, and Representation Even while I'm taking some time off, I want to continue showing up for you and pursuing my passion, which is to help people break free from societal norms and rethink everything they know about relationships. I truly believe there's a new paradigm for relationships being birthed, one grounded in the concept and foundations of relationship diversity.So, to keep the conversations alive, I've taken a look back at my two years of episodes and noticed some exciting themes emerging. Each week, during my hiatus, I'll post a specially curated playlist of episodes centered on a specific topic. Then you'll find links to those episodes in the show notes to help you dive deeper into areas that might resonate with where you are in your journey.Let's continue exploring, growing, and embracing the expansiveness of relationship diversity together. This week's special playlist focuses on the theme of advocacy and relationship diversity. Featured episodes include conversations with experts like Tamara Pincus on fat justice and self-acceptance, Dr. Christopher Smith on race and non-monogamy, Brett Chamberlain on advocacy for non-monogamous families, Dr. Baddie on decolonizing relationships for BIPOC individuals, and Michelle Hy on the political nature of relationships. Each episode dives into critical discussions about intersectionality, justice, and representation in various relationship structures.Episodes in this playlist:Episode 67: Exploring Relationship Diversity, Fat Justice, and Self-Acceptance with Tamara PincusEpisode 99: The Intersectionality of Race and Non-Monogamy with Dr. Christopher Smith Episode 104: Advocacy and Support for Non-Monogamy with Brett Chamberlain, Executive Director for OPENEpisode 114: Decolonizing Relationships: BIPOC Perspectives with Dr. Badiee, PolyTherapistEpisode 117: Relationships are Political with Michelle Hy, Polyamorous While AsianThis is Relationships Reimagined.Join the conversation as we dive into a new paradigm of conscious, intentional and diverse relationships. ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️ ✴️Get Your Free Relationship Diversity GuideConnect with me:YouTubeInstagramWebsiteGet my book, “Why Do They Always Break Up with Me? The Ultimate Support the show Please note: I am not a doctor, psychiatrist, psychologist, therapist, counselor, or social worker. I am not attempting to diagnose, treat, prevent or cure any physical, mental, or emotional issue, disease, or condition. The information provided in or through my podcast is not intended to be a substitute for the professional medical advice, diagnosis, or treatment provided by your own Medical Provider or Mental Health Provider. Always seek the advice of your own Medical Provider and/or Mental Health Provider regarding any questions or concerns you have about your specific circumstance.

Today we're talking about equity, equality, and fairness in all relationships, but particularly non-monogamous ones. We'll discuss the differences between equity and equality, perceived fairness, equity among multiple partners, and more! As always, we'll have some practical takeaways at the end of the episode to help you be more aware of equity and fairness in your relationships and how to communicate about it better. Join our amazing community of listeners at multiamory.supercast.com. We offer sliding scale subscriptions so everyone can also get access to ad-free episodes, group video discussions, and our amazing Discord community. Get 20% off your first order of the world's smartest cat litter at prettylitter.com/multiamory with promo code MULTIAMORY Multiamory was created by Dedeker Winston, Jase Lindgren, and Emily Matlack. Our theme music is Forms I Know I Did by Josh and Anand. Follow us on Instagram @Multiamory_Podcast and visit our website Multiamory.com. We are a proud member of the Pleasure Podcasts network. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back everyone to this week's thought-provoking episode of Can't Be Contained! Today, I'm honoured to be joined by a master at navigating the intricate dance of human relationships—--relationship coach Annie Lalla!    Annie shares with me her philosophy that TRUE intimacy comes from working through challenges as opposed to avoiding them. It's a lens through which she likens relationship tensions to an opportunity for growth—--much like the way going to the gym strengthens muscles through resistance.    Annie and I cover a complex range of topics, including:  ➤ The Art Of Fighting!