Podcasts about Guilt

This week on Two Parents & A Podcast, we're joined by Laura Modi — co-founder & CEO of Bobbie — to talk through everything parents actually need to know about infant formula, without the fear, guilt, or internet panic. Laura breaks down formula in a way that finally makes sense: what it is, how it's designed to mimic breast milk, how to read ingredient labels, and which things actually matter (+which ones parents can stop spiraling about). We also get into why formulas that look nearly identical can be priced so differently, whether European formulas are really “better” than U.S. formulas, and why seed oils have become such a hot-button topic in this space. We also talk openly about recalls, safety standards, switching formulas, and the emotional weight that comes with feeding decisions — including the guilt and pressure so many parents experience when breastfeeding doesn't go as planned or when formula ends up being the right choice for their family (because feeding your baby should not feel like a moral test). If you've ever stood in the formula aisle feeling overwhelmed, gone down an ingredient-label rabbit hole, or wondered if you're “doing it right” (you are) — this episode is here to bring clarity, confidence, and a whole lot of relief (and maybe help you close 17 browser tabs). Timestamps: 00:00:00 Welcome Back to Two Parents & A Podcast!  00:00:32 Meet Laura Modi, Co-Founder & CEO of Bobbie 00:03:15 Formula 101: What It Is, How It Mimics Breast Milk & How to Read a Formula Label 00:04:50 The Top 3 Ingredients to Look for in Infant Formula  00:06:03 The Top 3 Ingredients to Avoid in Infant Formula 00:07:00 Why Formula Prices Vary (Even When Ingredients Look Similar) 00:10:17 How Formula Is Approved, Tested & Regulated in the U.S. 00:14:38 Are European Formulas Really “Better Than” U.S. Formulas? 00:17:08 Why Seed Oils Became So Controversial 00:25:00 What Infant Formula Would Look Like Without Seed Oils 00:29:09 The ByHeart Recall & How Parents Should Think About Safety 00:31:13 The Biggest Formula Myth Parents Need to Unlearn 00:35:24 When a Formula Isn't Working & How to Know It's Time to Switch 00:37:25 Feeding Guilt, Shame & Choosing What's Best for Your Baby 00:40:46 Where Laura Hopes Bobbie Will Be in 10 Years 00:42:00 Thanks for Listening! #twoparentsandapod --------------------------------------------------------------- Thank you to our sponsors this week: *Aura Frames: $35 off with code TWOPARENTS — shop perfect holiday gifts at https://on.auraframes.com/ *MasterClass: MasterClass always has great offers during the holidays, sometimes up to as much as 50% off. Head over to https://www.masterclass.com/TWOPARENTS for the current offer. *Veracity: Make the switch to GLP 1's the natural way. Head to https://www.VeracitySelfCare.com and use code TWOPARENTS for up to 45% off your order. *Magnetic Me: New customers get 15% off at https://www.magneticme.com with code TWOPARENTS. --------------------------------------------------------------- Listen to the pod on YouTube/Spotify/Apple: https://www.youtube.com/@twoparentsandapod https://open.spotify.com/show/7BxuZnHmNzOX9MdnzyU4bD?si=5e715ebaf9014fac https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-parents-a-podcast/id1737442386 --------------------------------------------------------------- Follow Two Parents & A Podcast: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/twoparentsandapod TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@twoparentsandapod Follow Alex Bennett: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/justalexbennett TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@justalexbennett Follow Harrison Fugman: Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/harrisonfugman TikTok | https://www.tiktok.com/@harrisonfugman Find our guest: Website | https://www.hibobbie.com/ Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/lauraclairemodi Instagram | https://www.instagram.com/bobbie Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

How often do we try to fix our health without ever addressing what's happening in our hearts?In today's episode of the Visibly Fit Podcast, I'm sharing a powerful conversation that weaves together faith, forgiveness, identity, and physical healing—because true wellness is never just about food or fitness.I begin with a heartfelt devotional from Written in Heaven: His Story, Our Lives, a 40-day devotional curated by Tamara Battaglia. This beautiful collection showcases stories of unwavering faith and triumph from today's leading female voices in Christian music, ministry, film, and literature. Inside the book, I came across a powerful devotion written by June Hunt, and I read her story aloud in this episode.June's story reminds us that belief isn't just head knowledge. It's trust. It's surrender. And it's allowing God to redefine who we are—especially when our past, old wounds, or rejection try to tell us otherwise.I also talk openly about how unforgiveness, bitterness, and believing lies about ourselves can quietly impact our emotional and physical health. These inner struggles often show up as exhaustion, inflammation, weight resistance, or chronic symptoms. Healing begins when we start aligning our thoughts, our faith, and our actions with truth.Then you'll hear from my dear friend Nicole as she shares her Visibly Fit testimony. Nicole didn't come into the program to lose weight. She came in dealing with severe inflammation and limited mobility. Over seven weeks, she experienced a dramatic reduction in inflammatory markers, gained strength and confidence, nourished her body properly, and learned how to care for herself—without guilt.If you're feeling stuck, inflamed, exhausted, or ready for something different, this episode is for you. Healing is possible, and it starts from the inside out.Chapters:[00:00] Podcast Preview[01:28] Holiday Hustle & Self-Care Check-In[02:39] Written in Heaven by Tamara Battaglia[03:48] Reading June Hunt's Devotional: “But I Didn't Know”[10:53] Forgiveness, Identity & Adoption into God's Family[12:35] How Lies & Old Wounds Impact Our Health[13:55] Why Healing Is a Journey (Not a Quick Fix)[14:42] Underlying Cause of Sickness Nobody Talks About[19:05] Nicole's Visibly Fit Testimony Begins[23:02] Movement for Every Ability Level[25:55] Eating More, Nourishing Better & Letting Go of Guilt[30:23] Community, Faith & Sustainable Lifestyle Change[32:40] Invitation to Take Action & Invest in Your HealthResources mentioned:Written in Heaven: His Story, Our Lives (A 40-Day Devotional)Join My Visibly Fit 7-Week Accelerator ProgramEpisode 101: A Discussion on Forgiveness with June HuntP.S. If you're just checking out the show to see if it's a good fit for you, welcome!If you're really serious about becoming Visibly Fit, you'll get the best experience if you download the worksheets available at https://wendiepett.com/visiblyfitpodcast.

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What if the guilt you feel after a slip-up is actually more damaging than the slip itself?So many people approach the holidays believing one cookie, one skipped workout, or one moment of overwhelm means they've “ruined” their healing. But that narrative isn't true — and it's undermining your progress far more than any single choice ever could.In today's episode of Renegade Remission, we're dismantling the myth of “falling off the wagon” and replacing it with a new, science-backed understanding of healing: one rooted in compassion, nervous system safety, and resilience.You'll learn how guilt elevates cortisol, increases inflammation, disrupts digestion and sleep, and keeps your body stuck in fight-or-flight, in other words, the exact opposite of the healing state your cells need. And more importantly, you'll learn how small, intentional resets can bring you back into alignment instantly.By the end of this episode, you'll discover:Why falling off the wagon is a myth, and healing is continuous, not linearHow guilt hijacks your nervous system and increases inflammationWhy self-compassion accelerates healing more effectively than disciplineHow to use slip-ups as information, and not beat yourself up over themSimple reset rituals (breath, hydration, movement, mindset shifts) that get you back on track in secondsHow to separate your identity from your actions — the key to breaking lifelong guilt patternsYou'll walk away with a new framework for staying grounded, kind, and committed to your health during the holidays — without perfectionism, shame, or self-criticism.Today, choose one small act of reconnection: a deep breath, a glass of water, a grounding pause, or a compassionate thought. Let that be your reset — your signal to step back into healing gently and without judgment.And join us in our next episode for Day 10, where we'll explore how to stay calm and centered in the midst of holiday chaos, no matter what's happening around you.DisclaimerThis podcast is for educational purposes only and does not offer medical advice. Consult your licensed healthcare provider before making any changes to your treatment or health regimen. Reliance on any information provided is solely at your own risk.This podcast explores stories and science around ALS, dementia, MS, cancer, mind body recovery, healing, functional medicine, heart disease, regression, remission, integrative medicine, autoimmune conditions, chronic illness, terminal disease, terminal illness, holistic health, quality of life, alternative medicine, natural healing, lifestyle medicine, and remission from cancer, offering hope and insights for those seeking resilience and renewal.

In Part 4 of Emotions That Destroy Pastor Chad tackles the emotion of Guilt! In this sermon you will learn the power of confession and the remedy to a guilt-ridden heart. To support this ministry financially, visit: https://www.oneplace.com/donate/1388/29?v=20251111

December 15, 2025Today's Reading: Isaiah 40:1-11Daily Lectionary: Isaiah 30:27-31:9; Revelation 3:1-22"A voice cries: ‘In the wilderness prepare the way of the LORD; make straight in the desert a highway for our God. Every valley shall be lifted up, and every mountain and hill be made low; the uneven ground shall become level, and the rough places a plain." (Isaiah 40:3-4)In the Name + of Jesus. Amen.When John the Baptizer was asked who he was, he pointed to this verse from Isaiah. So, how did he change the landscape? By preaching repentance. Turns out people aren't generally keen on confessing their sins. The world is not a very forgiving place. We ourselves have been trained from the earliest ages to find reasons why our wrongs were actually rights. A child who is confronted with knocking over a lamp might blame a stuffed animal. That doesn't work, but our reasoning gets more sophisticated as we grow. It was a sibling's fault. It was a parent's fault for putting the lamp so close to the edge. It was an emergency, so haste was more important than the lamp. Whatever the reason, it doesn't matter. So long as someone believes it, we show ourselves to be right.We live in a world that demands self-righteousness. If you cannot justify yourself, you will be blamed. However, when people without faith sin in such a way that they cannot justify themselves, it breaks them. Guilt overwhelms them. All that self-justification was actually protection. And without it, people lose their minds, which is why confession and absolution in the Church is so weird to people. Why would anyone willingly put themselves through such guilt and shame? However, the repentance of a Christian has two parts. First is sorrow over our sin. That is the same as anyone else. It's the second part that is different. The second part is hope. A sure and certain hope that all our sin is forgiven. The guilt is made Christ's. The shame hangs on His shoulders. His blood pays for it. And His life is given for our salvation.Without Christ, we would make mountains to hide our sin behind. We would bury in whatever valley we could. But the way of the Lord leaves nowhere for our sin to hide. All our hiding places are made an open field, so the sin can all be seen. And so that Jesus can take it all away. That is why we are so willing to turn in repentance. That is why we willingly confess our sins. Because we know the one who takes them and makes them His. And they're ours no longer. In the Name + of Jesus. Amen.Make ye straight what long was crooked; Make the rougher places plain. Let your hearts be true and humble, As befits His holy reign. For the glory of the Lord Now o'er earth is shed abroad, and all flesh shall see the token That His Word is never broken. (LSB 347:4)Author: Rev. Eli Davis, pastor of St. Paul Lutheran Church in Grants Pass, OR.Audio Reflections Speaker: Rev. Richard Heinz, pastor at Trinity Lutheran Church in Lowell, IN.Work through the first ten chapters of Matthew and learn more about who Jesus is. As you move through this study, you'll ponder the theological, practical, and historical considerations of the text. With ample room for personal notes, this study will have you feeling confident in your understanding of Matthew's Gospel. Matthew 1:1-11:1 of the new Concordia Commentary Bible Study Series is available now.

Well Sh*t. It really is that simple - Episode 185 - "If you find yourself in a difficult situation, here's how to avoid the drama and protect your peace" is now LIVE!Full Show notes: https://bit.ly/WellShitEpisodeGuideCrappy situations are like a calling card for unmet needs, and our unmet needs will often make a crappy situation even crappier. They will create chaos in an attempt to get met as quickly as possible, which are often in unfulfilling and unsupportive ways that also compromise the needs of others. Join us on today's episode where we discuss how to make the choices that will prioritize our needs, serve us best and help to protect our peace, even in crappy situations.In this episode we cover:Unmet needs don't make the best decisionsDropping into Creator Approach to manage crappy situationsWhat happens when you let your unmet needs run the showNavigating someone else's unmet needsWhere is it worth pointing out someone's impact to our needs and where is notWhen addressing a situation is what will protect your peace in the long runThe misconception that time heals everythingAvoiding the drama swirl (yours and others)The toxic needs boost people receive when feeding dramaFocusing on our longterm outcomesThe choices we often forget we haveEpisode References:The Creator Approach episode - Episode 163 - How to meet your needs in empowering ways (Shapes 5) - The Creator ApproachThe Guilt and Shame Series - Episode 43 - The Guilt & Shame Series: The difference between guilt and shame; Episode 44 - The Guilt & Shame Series: That's not guilt, it's shame in disguise; Episode 45 - The Guilt & Shame Series: That's not guilt, it's an attempt at manipulating your humanityThe Inner Teenager episode - Episode 184 - Inner TeenagerPodcast Episode guide and full show notes: https://bit.ly/WellShitEpisodeGuideFind our website and connect with us on Social Media: https://linktr.ee/theuniversalneeds Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

What Jesus did here in Cana of Galilee was the first of the signs through which he revealed his glory; and his disciples believed in him (John 2:11). This Advent, we are focussing on Immanuel, God with us. Let's head deeper into the gospels to see what there is regarding this theme in the life of Jesus. Today, a wedding in Cana. There is significant mystery in this story. There is no mention of who the happy couple are or why Jesus and his disciples and his mother are even there. There is no explanation as to why Jesus tells his mother it's not his time but then does a miracle anyway. Everything focuses on the problem and its solution. The problem is that the wine has run out. This was simply not allowed. Hospitality was paramount in Jewish culture and a wedding with out wine…that was the worst of the worst. It would be the story of the town for generations. But Jesus intervenes and provides an abundance of excellent wine. And I do mean an abundance. The six stone jars that are suddenly filled with wine have a combined capacity of over 700 litres. John tells us why he included this story in his gospel. It was the first of the signs through which Jesus revealed his glory. The glory of God's kingdom revealed in an abundance of wine. "Is that wise?" you might ask. Well yes, it is. It says two things about God's kingdom. First, it is a kingdom of plenty. Many Christians in North America wonder, if we ought to feel guilty about the abundance of wealth we possess, compared to most of the residents of this globe. It's good to ask such a question. But the answer is that we do not need to feel guilty. Everywhere in the Bible, God's kingdom is shown to be a kingdom of plenty. Guilt should not be our reaction to our wealth. Rather, a true understanding of God's kingdom causes us to become generous. If God has plenty, then we can share what we have because God can replenish our bank accounts. That, I think, is, at least in part, what Paul communicates in 2 Corinthians 8 & 9. It's worth the read. The second thing this story tells us about God's kingdom is that it is characterized by joy. Years ago, I was walking alongside some colleagues who were struggling with their churches. They just couldn't get on the same page as the leadership. It was painful to watch. I remember wondering if it was alright for me to be enjoying ministry so much, because I really was. Then a retired pastor told me that it was permitted to enjoy ministry. He reminded me that the kingdom of God is one of joy. Jesus brought joy with him. The angels said as much to the shepherds. So, when you receive a gift this Christmas, receive it with joy, recognizing that God is inviting you to enjoy a taste of his kingdom. As you journey on, go with the blessing of God: May the peace of the Lord Christ go with you, wherever he may send you. May he guide you through the wilderness, protect you through the storm. May your day end with rejoicing at the wonders he has shown you. May you rest in his provision as he brings night, and then new dawn.

The holidays are meant to be joyful—but for many busy women physicians, they also bring stress, overwhelm, food guilt, and totally derailed fitness routines. In this special holiday edition of The Fit Physician Podcast, Jake Wright and Dr. Suzanne Rutherford break down how to stay healthy, present, and grounded through the busiest season of the year—without perfectionism or burnout. You'll learn practical strategies for navigating holiday eating, social events, alcohol, hospital snack traps, and disrupted workout schedules—while keeping your progress intact.--

In this episode of The Healthy Her Podcast, I'm opening up and sharing the dieting habits I used to do in the lead-up to the Christmas festive season. I'll show you how I went from stressing over festive food and feeling restricted to eating all foods in moderation, enjoying every bite, and being 10kgs lighter. You'll learn how to: - Enjoy holiday food without guilt - Stay consistent with healthy eating during the holidays - Feel in control of your food choices without restricting or dieting - Manage festive food stress while still losing weight for good If you've ever felt overwhelmed by holiday meals, snacks, and treats, this episode is for you. I'm sharing the simple steps I follow so you can feel completely free and confident with your food choices. Tune in now to learn how to move from holiday dieting to food freedom and enjoy your festive season without restriction. REGISTER for my FREE Masterclass HERE Why You Are Not Losing Weight : The Non-Diet Success Approach  DOWNLOAD your FREE Healthy Eating and Weight Loss Guide HERE And if you're ready to start your journey to a healthier, happier more confident you. Join The Healthy Eating Hype Gal Community HERE Read my book and story HERE SHOP my favourite protein powder HAPPYWAY use code HAPPYACTIVEBOD to save. Use code THEHEALTHYHER for 10% off Real Nourish meal prep mixes HERE eel in control of your food choices without restricting or dieting - Manage festive food stress while still losing weight for good If you've ever felt overwhelmed by holiday meals, snacks, and treats, this episode is for you. I'm sharing the simple steps I follow so you can feel completely free and confident with your food choices. Tune in now to learn how to move from holiday dieting to food freedom and enjoy your festive season without restriction.    

Unknown Broadcast returns with classic old-time radio horror stories—radio suspense steeped in paranoia, poison, prison clocks, and a blade that never stops its kiss. Settle in, my dear: this ghost stories podcast slips between classic OTR chambers—Mystery Theater, Escape, The Whistler, and more—where alibis are stitched on ocean liners, serpents nest under sheets, and justice keeps perfect time. Tonight's anthology is candlelit, close-mouthed, and very patient. Breathe quietly.

This episode is an invitation to soften.I'm talking about what it really means to receive love, rest, support, joy, and care without guilt, overthinking, or feeling like you have to earn it.When you grow up in survival mode, receiving can feel unsafe. Support may come with strings attached. Rest can feel uncomfortable. Joy can feel temporary. So we learn how to give, over-function, and carry everything on our own.In this episode, I explore:✨ Why receiving often feels uncomfortable after emotional instability✨ How guilt around rest and support is a learned response✨ The difference between intuition and trauma-based guilt✨ How the body holds resistance to receiving✨ Learning to accept care without feeling indebted✨ Small, gentle ways to practice receiving in everyday life✨ What begins to shift when you allow yourself to softenIf you've ever struggled to rest without guilt, receive love without fear, or accept support without bracing this episode is for you.Take a breath.Let your shoulders drop.And allow yourself to receive.Because this… This Is Healing.

2025 Advent Devotionals: “Longing for the Presence of God”Copyright © 2025 Steve Hoogerhyde. All rights reserved.All Bible references are taken from the New International Version (2011) unless otherwise noted.

Ever walk into a holiday party and immediately feel like you need to explain yourself before anyone even asks? Reality check: you don't. Not even a little bit.  In this episode, Coach Hayley shares her own messy, beautiful journey through her first alcohol-free holidays. She talks about feeling like she was under a microscope (spoiler: she wasn't), worrying everyone was judging her (they were mostly thinking about their own to-do lists), and that game-changing moment when someone said, "Hayley seems so happy." That's when she realized—this whole creating healthy holiday boundaries thing isn't about losing yourself. It's about coming home to yourself. Coach Hayley breaks down why defensiveness shows up (hint: it's your nervous system protecting you from shame), how to handle "just have one" comments without a ten-minute explanation, and why most people actually don't care what's in your glass. She introduces the Connection Compass, a super simple tool to ground yourself before any gathering by checking in on calm, clear, kind, and connected. Walk away with tips on navigating social pressure, keeping your favorite traditions while swapping ingredients, and showing up unapologetically as you. Whether you're worried about being boring, anxious about family questions, or just tired of feeling like you owe everyone a dissertation on your choices, this episode's got you covered with compassion, practical tools, and zero judgment. Coach Hayley is sharing more on: Why you never have to justify your choice not to drink, and how creating healthy holiday boundaries means honoring yourself  What defensiveness really is (a protective response, not a character flaw) and why your only job is to be kind and honest Easy-to-use responses for handling "Why aren't you drinking?" questions, and how to gracefully change the subject without feeling awkward The Connection Compass: a four-direction check-in tool (calm, clear, kind, connected) that helps you prepare emotionally before holiday gatherings How boundaries protect and empower you rather than push people away Ways to handle cravings when they show up at parties, festive drink options that still feel special, and the freedom of leaving when you're ready Transforming FOMO into JOMO—the joy of missing out on hangovers, regret, and anxiety in exchange for presence, peace, and real connection And more… Episode links: Related Episodes: Why do we desire alcohol for celebration? - Reader Question - E266 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-266-reader-question-why-do-we-desire-alcohol-for-celebration/ Will I Ever Have Fun Without Drinking Alcohol? - Reader Question - E362 - https://thisnakedmind.com/ep-362-reader-question-will-i-ever-have-fun-without-drinking-alcohol/ The Cost of Fitting In - Alcohol Freedom Coaching - E785 - https://thisnakedmind.com/the-cost-of-fitting-in-alcohol-freedom-coaching-e785/ Ready to take the next step on your journey? Visit https://learn.thisnakedmind.com/podcast-resources for free resources, programs, and more. Until next week, stay curious! Quince: Find gifts so good you'll want to keep them with Quince. Go to ⁠⁠Quince.com/naked⁠⁠ for free shipping on your order and 365-day returns  Hungryroot: Get 40% off your first box + a free item for life at ⁠⁠Hungryroot.com/nakedmind⁠⁠ with code nakedmind Shopify: Sign up for your one-dollar-per-month trial and start selling today at ⁠⁠Shopify.com/mind⁠⁠  Aura Frame: Get $35 off Aura's Carver Mat frame at ⁠⁠AuraFrames.com⁠⁠ with promo code NAKEDMIND Masterclass: Get 15% off any annual membership at ⁠⁠MasterClass.com/NAKEDMIND⁠

 HEADLINE: Post-War Guilt and the Legacy of Stimson, Spaatz, and Togo GUEST AUTHOR: Evan Thomas SUMMARY: After the war, Henry Stimson and General Spaatz were haunted by guilt, fearing science had outpaced human morality. Foreign Minister Togo died in prison serving a sentence for war crimes, believing he did his best for peace, though he remains largely uncelebrated in modern ambivalent Japan.

On the 1st day of Nightmares Before Christmas... Nineteen-year-old Sarah Stern was a gifted artist, a young woman passionate about painting, sketching, and all things Disney. Known for her kindness, creativity, and quiet energy, she was loved by friends and family alike. Her disappearance, in December 2016, would shock the close-knit communities of Neptune City and Belmar, New Jersey. But it was who was responsible that would be the biggest shock of all. Join Cam and Jen on this episode of Our True Crime Podcast entitled “The Sound of Guilt: Murder of Sarah Stern”. Thank you to our incredible team: Listener discretion by Edward October @octoberpodVHS Executive Producers/Music by @theinkypawprint Sources:  https://www.nbcnewyork.com/news/local/sarah-stern-new-jersey-college-student-murder-friend-liam-mcatasney-sentence-court-guilty/1537853/ https://www.app.com/story/news/local/courts/2023/02/03/sarah-stern-death-murder-liam-mcatasney-conviction-upheld/69866758007/ https://www.cbsnews.com/newyork/news/sarah-stern-father-testifies/ https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W0fRXGTHbrg https://abc7chicago.com/post/jurors-hear-mans-chilling-grisly-confession-to-childhood-friends-murder/5127362/ https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/new-jersey-man-found-guilty-robbing-murdering-friend-throwing-her-n976681 https://www.nbcnews.com/news/us-news/new-jersey-man-found-guilty-robbing-murdering-friend-throwing-her-n976681 https://www.njcourts.gov/system/files/court-opinions/2022/a2155-19.pdf https://www.nytimes.com/2017/03/07/nyregion/nj-liam-mcatasney-sarah-stern-missing.html https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m1hymSRRCXU https://abcnews.go.com/2020/video/liam-mcatasney-sarah-sterns-childhood-friend-trial-murder-61421935 https://abcnews.go.com/US/liam-mcatasney-sentenced-life-parole-murdering-friend-sarah/story?id=63869375 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CksZ0lxfXQ0 https://6abc.com/post/ex-classmate-gets-life-in-prison-for-sarah-stern-murder/5357392/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Does looking at your bank balance or holiday shopping list trigger a immediate knot of panic in your chest?. You are not alone.In the middle of December, we are often bombarded with the message that "love equals spending," which triggers deep financial scarcity and unworthiness wounds. But your worthiness is not a transaction, and your love is not measured by a price tag.Join clinical hypnotherapist Martin for a Somatic Reset designed to help you put down the heavy bag of expectation and reclaim your peace.In this episode, we will:Identify Financial Stress: Locate where money anxiety lives in your body (often the jaw and lower belly).Switch Off the Scarcity Alarm: Use Box Breathing (Inhale 4, Hold 4, Exhale 4, Hold 4) to balance the mind and ground the nervous system.Visualize the Release: Somatically "set down" the heavy burden of needing to buy the perfect gift or perfect reaction.Reframe Gift-Giving: Learn why offering your calm presence is more valuable than any stressed-out version of you holding a box.Mantras for this Session:"My presence is the greatest present I can give." "I release the need to buy approval." "I am enough exactly as I am right now." Timestamps:00:00 - The "Scarcity Mindset" Trap01:20 - Somatic Check-in: Jaw & Belly01:59 - Box Breathing Technique03:21 - Visualization: Setting Down the Heavy Bag04:25 - Hand on Heart Affirmations07:17 - The Gift of Time (Martin's Story) A Note from Martin: "One of my gifts when I was very poor was the gift of time. I'd write cards to friends and family and offer them an hour, half a day, or a day of my time. It is a precious gift." If this session helped you lower your shoulders, please share it with a friend who might be overwhelmed by their shopping list.

Supporting Therapists and Clients Through Peri and Post Menopause - Door Knobbing in Counselling In Episode 359 of the Counselling Tutor Podcast, your hosts Rory Lees-Oakes and Ken Kelly take us through this week's three topics: Firstly, in ‘Ethical, Sustainable Practice', they explore getting over cancellation guilt, looking at what therapist cancellation guilt means, why it arises, and how to approach it with compassion and professionalism. Then in ‘Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Ruth Hill about supporting therapists and clients through perimenopause and post menopause - challenging outdated views and reframing this life stage as one of growth, not decline. And finally, in ‘Student Services', Rory and Ken discuss the phenomenon of doorknobbing - those last-minute disclosures from clients - and how to respond ethically and sensitively in practice. Getting Over Cancellation Guilt [starts at 03:09 mins] In this section, Rory and Ken explore getting over cancellation guilt, examining the emotional impact on therapists when they must cancel sessions and offering compassionate strategies to reframe the experience. Key points discussed include: Cancellation guilt is a common emotional experience, especially when sessions are called off at short notice. Ethically, prioritising self-care supports safer practice and protects the therapeutic relationship. Cancelling when unwell models healthy boundaries and gives clients permission to do the same. Communication is key - offer reassurance, alternative times, and avoid oversharing to prevent client worry. Contracting for cancellations upfront can reduce confusion and help manage expectations. Use supervision to explore guilt, recognise blind spots, and develop resilience in responding to these scenarios. Supporting Therapists and Clients Through Peri and Post Menopause [starts at 21:57 mins] In this week's ‘Practice Matters', Rory speaks with Ruth Hill, REBT therapist and sports scientist, who shares insights from her CPD lecture on menopause and its implications for therapy. Key points from this conversation include: Menopause is often overlooked, under-celebrated, or medicalised - yet it is a significant life stage deserving validation. Therapists must reframe menopause as a natural transition rather than a deficit or decline. Ruth highlights how REBT and the ABCDE model can help clients challenge perfectionism and internalised stigma. Brain rewiring during menopause affects cognitive and emotional functioning - requiring compassion, not self-blame. The therapy space should allow for honest dialogue, normalising experiences like brain fog or hot flushes without shame. Menopause also affects therapists - being human and modelling acceptance benefits both client and practitioner. Door Knobbing in Counselling [starts at 45:39 mins] In this section, Rory and Ken explore ‘door knobbing' - when clients make significant disclosures just before leaving a session - and how practitioners can navigate this with care. Key points include: A doorknob comment is typically a serious or emotionally charged disclosure made at the end of a session. Clients may use this as a safety mechanism, dropping difficult truths when time is limited. Therapists should hold the client emotionally and assess immediate risk if necessary. Revisit doorknob comments in the next session with sensitivity - offer choice, don't impose an agenda. Supervision is essential when managing potential safeguarding issues or feeling overwhelmed. Know agency policies and procedures - particularly for harm to self or others - and act accordingly. Links and Resources Counselling Skills Academy Advanced Certificate in Counselling Supervision Basic Counselling Skills: A Student Guide Counsellor CPD Counselling Study Resource Counselling Theory in Practice: A Student Guide Counselling Tutor Training and CPD Facebook group Website Online and Telephone Counselling: A Practitioner's Guide Online and Telephone Counselling Course

We got on the mic this week to complain about the weather, discuss more heat training studies, and chat through all the lottery results. Cheers!

On this episode, Tracy shares how to enjoy the holidays without all of the guilt of over spending and over doing everything. Subscribe, Rate, and Review the podcast on Apple Podcasts, Stitcher, Google Play, TuneIn Radio, the iHeartRadio app, and now on Spotify. Follow Tracy on Twitter and Like Forking Around Town on Instagram The post Holiday Guilt appeared first on Radio Influence.

Waiting to finally feel “ready” before you stop carrying everyone else's pain? You might be waiting forever.

How long ago did they bring in the p*rn ban in the UK? A good while ago, no? Apparently, Joanne hadn't noticed. Vogue had, but that's less of a surprise. This week, with Vogue finally back from Australia, it's time to dive in on the Wicked press tour and for Vogue to hard launch a new project! If you'd like to get in touch, you can send an email to hello@MTGMpod.comPlease review Global's Privacy Policy: https://global.com/legal/privacy-policy/For merch, tour dates and more visit: www.mytherapistghostedme.comJoanne's comedy gigs: www.joannemcnally.comThis episode contains explicit language and adult themes that may not be suitable for all listeners.

SummaryIn this episode, Chase and Chris talk all about the mindset struggles around food during the holidays. It's not just about willpower—it's how your brain reacts to feeling like food is limited. That's called a scarcity mindset. The guys explain why holiday foods feel so tempting, why we feel out of control, and how to shift into an abundance mindset instead. They share tips, real client stories, and simple steps to help you enjoy the holidays without going overboard. You'll learn how to feel in control again, not anxious or guilty around food. Whether it's cookies at home or a big holiday dinner, they show you how to keep making progress—without missing out.Chapters(00:00) Why This Episode Matters During the Holidays(01:00) Client Story: Holiday Food, Childhood, and Guilt(02:20) The “Last Supper” Effect and Scarcity Mindset(05:50) Why Skipping Meals Backfires(07:30) All-or-Nothing Thinking and Holiday Overeating(08:45) Grandma's Pie, Dopamine, and Food Obsession(10:00) Flexible Dieting and Improving Food Relationships(11:00) What an Abundance Mindset Really Means(12:30) Examples of Scarcity vs. Abundance Around Food(14:45) Changing Your Environment and Food Habits(17:00) Building Trust Around Trigger Foods(18:35) How to Shift From Scarcity to Abundance(20:00) Planning Ahead and Staying Present(22:30) Reframing Your Thoughts About the Holidays(24:30) Small Wins to Practice During Holiday Meals(26:00) Celebrate the Wins, Even the Tiny Ones(28:00) Remembering What Really Matters(30:00) Creating Food Freedom and Long-Term Mindset Change(33:00) Wrapping Up and Final ThoughtsSUBMIT YOUR QUESTIONS to be answered on the show: https://forms.gle/B6bpTBDYnDcbUkeD7How to Connect with Us:Chase's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/changing_chase/Chris' Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/conquer_fitness2021/Facebook Group: https://www.facebook.com/groups/665770984678334/Interested in 1:1 Coaching: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/1on1-coachingJoin The Fit Fam Collective: https://conquerfitnessandnutrition.com/fit-fam-collective

What happens when the architect of a war knows—deep down—that it cannot be won?In this episode of In Conversation with Frank Schaeffer, I speak with William Taubman and Philip Taubman about their new book, McNamara at War: A New History, which is our December “It Has to Be Read” selection.William Taubman is a Pulitzer Prize–winning historian. Philip Taubman is a longtime journalist and former New York Times Washington bureau chief and associate editor. Together, they've gone back through diaries, letters, declassified documents, and interviews that were never fully used before. What they found is a more complicated and more troubling picture of Robert McNamara than we've had until now.McNamara helped escalate the Vietnam War even as he came to believe it could not be won. Our conversation looks closely at how that happened, why he stayed silent for so long, and what that silence cost us all.For me, this isn't abstract. I lived through the Vietnam era, and years later my own son served as a U.S. Marine in Afghanistan and Iraq. As we watch Donald Trump blowing up and seizing boats in a march toward conflict with Venezuela, it's hard not to notice how often the same patterns repeat themselves.McNamara at War is our December “It Has to Be Read” because it doesn't just explain a war we lost.It forces us to reckon with why we keep losing them._____LINKSI have had the pleasure of talking to some of the leading authors, artists, activists, and change-makers of our time on this podcast, and I want to personally thank you for subscribing, listening, and sharing 100-plus episodes over 100,000 times.Please subscribe to this Podcast, In Conversation… with Frank Schaeffer, on your favorite platform, and to my Substack, It Has to Be Said. Thanks! Every subscription helps create, build, sustain and put voice to this movement for truth. Subscribe to It Has to Be Said. The Gospel of Zip will be released in print and on Amazon Kindle, and as a full video on YouTube and Substack that you can watch or listen to for free.Support the show_____In Conversation… with Frank Schaeffer is a production of the George Bailey Morality in Public Life Fellowship. It is hosted by Frank Schaeffer, author of The Gospel of Zip. Learn more at https://www.thegospelofzip.com/Follow Frank on Substack, Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, Threads, TikTok, and YouTube. https://frankschaeffer.substack.comhttps://www.facebook.com/frank.schaeffer.16https://twitter.com/Frank_Schaefferhttps://www.instagram.com/frank_schaeffer_arthttps://www.threads.net/@frank_schaeffer_arthttps://www.tiktok.com/@frank_schaefferhttps://www.youtube.com/c/FrankSchaefferYouTube In Conversation… with Frank Schaeffer Podcast

Sen. John Kennedy (R-LA) has put together a 'greatest hits' album of classic takes, and Dan revisits one of those where the Senator asks 'health experts' the simple question - 'do you support abortion up to the moment of birth for a healthy mother and a healthy infant?'Kentucky state representative Sarah Stalker (D) expresses that she 'doesn't feel good about being white every day,' and goes on to describe her white privilege. Dan and Ryan scoff at this notion.

What if the things you feel most ashamed of at work are actually your superpowers? In this conversation, I sit down with bestselling author and Founder & CEO of Working Genius, Patrick Lencioni. We dive into his Working Genius framework to discover why certain kinds of work light you up while others reliably drain you. Using his six types of “genius” we explore why differently wired (aka “spiky”) brains can be massive assets in leadership when we stop trying to do everything. You'll also hear Pat share candidly about his own anxious achieving, how working outside his genius led to grumpiness and burnout, and what changed when he finally designed his role (and team) around his true strengths. It's time to reframe guilt and shame around your “weaknesses,” so you can lead from your zone of genius with more effectiveness, sustainability, and joy. This episode is brought to you in partnership with Working Genius. Check out our sponsors: Northwest Registered Agent - Protect your privacy, build your brand and get your complete business identity in just 10 clicks and 10 minutes! Visit https://www.northwestregisteredagent.com/achieverfree In this Episode, You Will Learn 00:00 How to stop feeling ashamed of what you're not good at. 04:00 How to become boldly bad at things as a neurodistinct leader. 10:45 The six types of Working Genius and how to discover yours. 16:00 How wounds and fear can push you to overachieve at work you dislike. 18:00 What is the difference between fear-based vs. joy-based achievement? 24:00 Why burnout is more about misalignment than workload. 31:00 How knowing your team's geniuses transform trust and accountability. 33:30 Why your team will perform better when everyone admits what they are bad at. 40:30 What should I do if my job doesn't fit my working genius? Resources + Links Take the Working Genius Assessment HERE Use promo code ACHIEVER for 20% off Get a copy of my book - The Anxious Achiever Watch the podcast on YouTube  Find more resources on our website morraam.com Follow Follow me: on LinkedIn @morraaronsmele + Instagram @morraam Follow Patrick Lencioni: on LinkedIn @patricklencioniorghealth + Instagram @patricklencioniofficial

FREE Master Class: The Farm Marketing Fix Sign Up HERE What if the real reason you're exhausted isn't the workload—it's a single emotion you don't even realize is running the show? Guilt is silently hijacking your decisions, pushing you toward $20/hour tasks while $5,000/hour opportunities slip away. It's why you say yes when you should say no, why rest never actually restores you, and why "being responsible" might be the most reckless choice you're making. In this episode, you'll discover: The 5-step guilt cycle controlling your farm decisions without your permission How to catch guilt in the act before it costs you thousands The single question that created a 60-second breakthrough for one farmer Why one farmer was up until 2 AM making mistakes and resenting her neighbor—all traced back to this invisible force This isn't about hustling harder. It's about finally seeing what's been invisible—and breaking free from the pattern that's keeping you stuck. If you've ever thought "I should just be able to handle all this," this one's for you. Click HERE and Let's Meet! Chat with us to see if Farm Marketing Mastery can break you out of marketing misery.

There's a quiet kind of courage in letting yourself enjoy something simple, without guilt, without earning it first. In this episode, I share how one small daily ritual is helping me soften my nervous system, shift out of restriction, and invite more ease, pleasure, and presence into my mornings. We explore how tiny, intentional practices can become powerful tools for anxiety, burnout, and self-judgment—without needing hours of self-care or a big life overhaul. If you've been delaying joy until you “deserve it,” this conversation will feel like a gentle permission slip back to yourself.Reflection for you: What is one tiny daily pleasure you could allow yourself—fully, and without explanation—starting today?Related episodes to explore:•⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ 156: The Healing Power of Nature for Your Mind & Soul - https://youtu.be/O6ATd2dPHyE• 152: What If You Didn't Have to Push Anymore? - https://youtu.be/i9FKwBd-gmc

Have you ever welcomed something new into your life, something you thought would fill you with joy, only to feel guilt instead?In this episode of Sarah's Thoughts, Sarah Grynberg reflects on the unexpected emotions that surfaced when she brought home her new puppy, Maggie. What she believed would be a moment of pure happiness was instead met with guilt, as though she was replacing her beloved Lola, along with a wave of grief and confusion. Through this tender experience, Sarah explores a universal truth: we don't just grieve the ones we've lost, we grieve the seasons of life they held. A past job, a past relationship, even a past version of ourselves can bring the same quiet ache when a new chapter begins.You'll learn:Why new beginnings can stir old grief, and why that's completely normal.How to make space for new love without feeling like you're abandoning the past.Simple reminders to help you move forward gently, without forcing joy before it's ready.This is an episode about understanding that love isn't replaced, it expands. Moving forward doesn't erase what was meaningful. It simply shows that your heart is still open, still capable, and still growing.Purchase Sarah's book: Living A Life Of Greatness here.To purchase Living A Life of Greatness outside Australia here or here.Watch A Life of Greatness Episodes On Youtube here.Sign up for Sarah's newsletter (Greatness Guide) here.Purchase Sarah's Meditations here.Instagram: @sarahgrynberg Website: https://sarahgrynberg.com/Facebook: facebook.com/sarahgrynbergTwitter: twitter.com/sarahgrynberg Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Send us a textThere are the things people can see on the surface, and then there are the things that live underneath, the stuff that feels too heavy or too messy to name out loud. This episode digs into the quiet weight of shame and guilt, the parts of ourselves we think disqualify us from being powerful.Join Anna and Tim as they unpack what it means to look at your life without fear of the dark corners. They talk about the difference between a rap sheet and a resume, how past mistakes can become strength, and why the things a person has survived are often the real markers of capability. This conversation moves through discomfort, honesty, and the unexpected liberation that comes from telling the truth about your own history.This Episode Covers:The tension between who people see and who someone feels they really are.How guilt and shame shape identity and influence behavior.Looking at your past through the lens of resilience instead of failure.The power of owning your story without apology.How lived experience becomes credibility and clarity.Why vulnerability can feel risky but creates deeper connection.The difference between being defined by your past and being informed by it.What it means to rewrite the meaning of your own experiences.Ready to get out of your own way and finally feel grounded in who you are?Join the Emotional Mastery Group Coaching Cohort this January and learn how to regulate your nervous system, stop second-guessing yourself, and move through life with more clarity and power. www.annamarcolin.com/coaching-packages/p/emotional-mastery-group-coaching-january-2026-cohortUntil next time, here's to deeper connections and personal growth.Mad love!The podcast is now on YouTube! If you prefer to watch, head over to https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PLw3CabcJueib20U_L3WeaR-lNG_B3zYquDon't forget to subscribe to the Badass Confidence Coach podcast on your favorite podcast platform!CONNECT WITH ANNA:Instagram https://www.instagram.com/askannamarcolin/TikTok https://www.tiktok.com/tag/askannamarcolinEmail hello@annamarcolin.comWebsite https://www.annamarcolin.com

In this episode, Michelle Bader Ebersole opens her heart and shares what it's really like to walk through grief during the holiday season. From the pressure of traditions to the unexpected waves of emotion, Michelle talks honestly about the challenges that so many widows face this time of year. She reflects on her own journey and offers gentle guidance on how to navigate the season with intention, honesty, and grace.Michelle dives into the importance of checking in with your feelings instead of pushing them down, and why giving yourself permission to rest or step back from certain events can be an act of courage. She also shares practical tools for planning ahead, taking care of yourself, and creating space for both old memories and new traditions.A big theme of this episode is releasing the guilt that so often follows widows during the holidays—guilt for feeling joy, guilt for changing traditions, or even guilt for simply surviving. Michelle reminds listeners that letting go of guilt is not only freeing, but vital for healing.You'll also hear encouragement about rediscovering purpose after loss and how God continues to meet us in both the heaviness and the hope. Michelle highlights the importance of community, connection, and reaching out, especially when the holiday season can feel isolating.Whether you're newly grieving or years into your journey, this episode offers comfort, perspective, and gentle reminders that you are not alone—and that healing, joy, and purpose are still possible, even in the midst of the holidays.Click HERE to learn about the Widow Goals Support Program Click HERE to order Michelle's book Widow Goals: Steps to Finding Peace When You Lose Your SpouseClick HERE to order the Widow Goals WorkbookClick HERE to order the Widow Goals Workbook Leader GuideClick here to be sent an email on the anniversary of your spouse's passing, wedding anniversary, and more Click HERE to review Widow Goals on AmazonBook Michelle as a speakerGo here to see a list of all the areas we have Widow Goals Groups⁠⁠To join our podcast listener community, send me a message here. Thank you!⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Click Here to apply to be a guest on Widowed 2 Soon⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Michelle on TikTok⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow me on Instagram⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/widowed2soon_/⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.instagram.com/widowgoals⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠See my videos on Youtube⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Subscribe to our YouTube Channel⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Email me michelle@widowgoals.org

After a long break, we're back with Aragorn Part 4! We cover the war of the ring and the greatest fictional man's demise after a long life.

In this week's solo episode, I'm diving into something many of us feel, but don't always say out loud holiday money anxiety. This season can be full of joy, nostalgia, and family connection, but it can also bring up guilt, pressure, overspending, and emotional triggers that hit our wallets hard. So today, I'm sharing honest reflections on the expectations we carry, the emotional weight of holiday giving, and how I personally navigate the overwhelm of gifting, family obligations, and wanting to "do enough" without draining my finances or my energy. I walk you through practical strategies for shifting your mindset, breaking old patterns, and giving yourself permission to rethink how you show up this season.  In this episode, I discuss: Guilt-free gifting: How to focus on intention instead of price tags, and ways to simplify gifts especially for kids who may value the moment more than the item itself. Setting family & personal boundaries: What to say when you want to keep things simple, stick to a budget, or opt out without shame. Overspending triggers: Why boredom, stress, nostalgia, and scarcity mindset push us to buy more and how to create friction to avoid impulse purchases. Reframing the season: How to shift from "stuff" to connection, small rituals, meaning, and presence. Planning ahead for next year: Using what you spent this season to set realistic expectations and savings goals for the future. Other related blog posts/links mentioned in this episode: Get your copy of Your Journey To Financial Freedom if you haven't already. Apply to Share Your Journeyer Story, here. Join the Journey to Launch Book Club to dive deeper into financial freedom with guided discussions and resources here! Join The Weekly Newsletter List to get updates, deals & more! Leave Your Journey To Financial Freedom a review! Get The Budget Bootcamp Check out my personal website here. Leave me a voicemail– Leave me a question on the Journey To Launch voicemail and have it answered on the podcast! YNAB –  Start managing your money and budgeting so that you can reach your financial dreams. Sign up for a free 34 days trial of YNAB, my go-to budgeting app by using my referral link. What stage of the financial journey are you on? Are you working on financial stability or work flexibility? Find out with this free assessment and get a curated list of the 10 next best episodes for you to listen to depending on your stage. Check it out here! Connect with me: Instagram: @Journeytolaunch Twitter: @JourneyToLaunch Facebook: @Journey To Launch Join the Private Facebook Group Join the Waitlist for My FI Course Get The Free Jumpstart Guide

Rebecca Herbst reached financial independence at age 32 during the tenuous early days of the pandemic, and volunteered shortly thereafter to be furloughed from her job in commercial real estate—and so began her (extremely) early retirement.  But spending her days exactly as she wanted featured an unexpected side effect: guilt. What do you owe to others when you've gotten everything you wanted? Rebecca alchemized her sense of duty and founded Yield & Spread. In detail, we cover: What the “FI-lanthropy” pledge entails How she squares the desire to retire early with the idea of “hoarding money” Where Rebecca gives for the highest impact Who donor-advised funds might make sense for, and how they work How to donate appreciated stock, and why it might be  preferable to giving cash Subscribe to my weekly newsletter: ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://moneywithkatie.com/newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Get your copy of Rich Girl Nation, one of Barnes & Noble's Best Business Books of 2025:⁠ ⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.moneywithkatie.com/rich-girl-nation⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠ Transcripts, show notes, resources, and credits at: https://moneywithkatie.com/the_mwk_show/the-filanthropy-pledge/ — Money with Katie's mission is to be the intersection where the economic, cultural, and political meet the tactical, practical, personal finance education everyone needs. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

This podcast shows you how to fully recover from OCD.Each episode breaks down the exact techniques and nuances that stop rumination, reduce compulsions, and help you retrain your brain out of the OCD cycle. We cover every major OCD theme, including:Pure-O OCDRelationship OCDHarm OCDReal Event OCDSO-OCD / Sexuality OCDReligious / Scrupulosity OCDCleaning & Contamination OCDPhysical CompulsionsAll other OCD subtypesMy goal is simple: clear guidance that actually works, explained in a way that is calm, direct, and easy to apply immediately.You can fully recover from OCD. Don't give up — you're not stuck, and your brain can change.

In this episode, we're talking about one of the hardest realities daughters face when their mothers age. Your mom may be getting older, more fragile, or more dependent, but the patterns you grew up with haven't changed. So how are you supposed to make decisions about caregiving, contact, or end of life when the relationship has always been complicated and often painful?Today I'm answering the questions daughters ask the most in this season. Questions about guilt, boundaries, responsibility, and what “enough” looks like when you're caring for someone who never truly cared for you.We explore how to make decisions with clarity instead of fear, how to set limits that protect your well being, and how to support without losing yourself. We also talk about the emotional whiplash that comes with this role. Grief, anger, obligation, exhaustion, and tenderness can all show up at the same time.If your mother is aging and you are the one being asked to manage, respond, coordinate, or carry the emotional weight, this episode is meant to steady you. You are allowed to make decisions based on your capacity, not your conditioning. You are allowed to protect your peace. And you are allowed to define enough in a way that keeps you whole.If you're a daughter navigating this, you don't have to do it alone. Join us inside the Mayhem Daughters community, where we talk openly about trauma brain, boundaries, nervous system healing, and how to rebuild a life that actually feels like yours. Members who join now keep their rate when prices go up in 2026.

In the medical world miscarriages are called spontaneous abortions, and in this community we have to learn how to extend grace to individuals who electively terminate their pregnancies no matter their choice. Join us this month as we explore abortion stories and how healing, grief, and shame can keep all of us bound. When today's guest became pregnant with her daughter she sobbed to a friend "how was she going to take care of one when she had given up another" Latoya Mathews shares her abortion story, how post-partum depression along with guilt and shame of her abortion came alive after having her daughter, and how she has turned her pain into power by helping other post-abortive women eliminate shame, guilt, and regret of their abortions. This episode is for you to listen to if you are ready to release the shame and stigma of having an abortion and want a community to help you. Become a Sisters in Loss Birth Bereavement, and Postpartum Doula Here Living Water Doula Services Book Recommendations and Links Below You can shop my Amazon Store for the Book Recommendations You can follow Sisters in Loss on Social Join our Black Moms in Loss Online Weekly Grief Support Group Join the Sisters in Loss Online Community Sisters in Loss TV Youtube Channel Sisters in Loss Instagram Sisters in Loss Facebook Sisters in Loss Twitter You can follow Erica on Social Erica's Website Erica's Instagram Erica's Facebook Erica's Twitter  

1 - How was Trump yesterday in The Poconos? Will there be taxing on gambling winnings? Why can't Democrats hide behind blindly attacking big corporations? 105 - Your calls. 110 - Is Trump's message on affordability hitting? Will a message about voting from Trump carry weight? Is Andy Beshear living in fantasyland? 120 - Why does Josh Shapiro run from the issues, like why somebody set his house ablaze? 135 - Why is guilt the ultimate tool in Minnesota? 140 - Your calls. 155 - Teasing the final hour.

In this candid conversation, Rocky and Temi unpack the unseen emotional weight many fathers and creatives carry but rarely name out loud. From dad guilt to under-belief to the pressure to be everything for everyone, Temi opens up about the internal battles shaping his identity as a husband, father, and artist. This episode invites listeners to reflect on what they're chasing, what they're avoiding, and what it really means to be human. A powerful dialogue for anyone navigating responsibility, creativity, and self-worth.Episode Highlights:Why many fathers feel Dad guilt but struggle to talk about it openly. . How overthinking often masks deeper patterns of under-belief. . The tension between being needed and being wanted in marriage and parenting. . The danger of defining your worth by being “the problem-solver.” . How comparison steals joy from creative and family life. . Rewriting internal soundtracks and choosing human things over hard things. . The power of trusting the people who actually love you. . Seeing yourself as complete today, not someone who needs to be fixed tomorrow.Get To Know Our Guest:Temi Coker is a Designer and Art Director who layers his Nigerian heritage through bold colors, patterns, dimensions, and textures. He creates powerful visual experiences through wearable art, art prints, and creative campaigns that help people feel seen, connected, and represented. His work challenges beauty standards and reflects a growing cultural movement. His mission is to make space for every person to discover their creative voice.Website: www.temicoker.co | shop.temicoker.coLinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/temiloluwacoker/Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/temi.coker/?hl=enResources Mentioned:Soundtracks by Jon Acuff. Temi Coker – www.temicoker.co. Temi's Shop – shop.temicoker.coJoin Rocky for a live leadership training at the end of the month by RSVPing at rockygarza.com/confident.

In this episode of Own Your Health, Katie Brindle is joined by illustrator and creative powerhouse Jakki Jones to talk about how to keep your spark alive when life is full-on. Jakki shares her journey from classical music graduate to Warner Music and MTV talent booker, to becoming “Jackkidoodles” – an in-demand illustrator, card designer and creative collaborator – all while juggling a blended family of four children and a touring musician husband. Together, Katie and Jakki discuss:  - How not to lose yourself in motherhood and caregiving - Simple daily health habits: power naps, Pilates, hot water with lemon, early family dinners. - Why creativity is a lifeline (not a luxury) - Beauty, sleep and skin rituals that actually fit into a busy life - The emotional shift from feeling engulfed to reclaiming autonomy and joy If you've ever felt like you're just serving, working and collapsing into bed with nothing left for yourself, this conversation will give you practical ideas, comfort and a big reminder: you are allowed your own life, creativity and energy. Don't forget to like, subscribe, and share this with a friend who needs a boost.

Saying no is simple in theory, but in real life it can feel loaded with guilt, obligation, and pressure to keep everyone else happy. In this episode, I talk with visionary coach and consultant Helene Rennervik about how to say no with grace, honor your limits, and create space for what truly matters.Helene has more than 30 years of international experience in leadership, coaching, and personal transformation. She shares her journey from high-pressure corporate life in the Middle East, through burnout and reinvention, to teaching women how to release perfectionism and people pleasing without losing their generous hearts.We talk about:Why saying no is an act of self-respect, not selfishnessHow to pause before you automatically say yesWhat it really means to live from your valuesHow boundaries create more freedom, energy, and joyListening to your body as your best organizing and decision-making toolWhy “living in the question” opens up more possibilities and less pressureHelene also shares her People Pleaser Score App and gives a sneak peek at Helen AI, her new tool that helps women practice the power of no without guilt in everyday situations.If you are tired of overcommitting, feeling resentful, or putting yourself last, this conversation will help you step into a kinder, stronger version of yourself. 

I know you've felt like, in the past, you've been hesitant to share your true feelings and beliefs. Maybe you didn't want to offend that woman you were pursuing. Or, maybe you didn't want to upset your boss and run the risk of losing your job. Or, maybe you were afraid of what society or social media would say if you shared your true thoughts. My guest today, Father Stephen Gadberry, is familiar with all of that in a way that many of us relate with. As a Catholic priest, US Air Force Veteran, and American Ninja Warrior competitor, he knows how compelling public criticism can become. Today, Father Gadberry and I talk about discipline, what "turning the other cheek," really means, how to handle false accusations, what true accountability actually means, the difference between your "vocation," and "occupation," and how God will speak to all of us. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS 00:00 Introduction 00:22 Masculinity and the Church 01:20 Growing Up Rural and Military 02:20 Has the Church Become Soft? 04:00 Culture, Covid and Truth 05:40 Truth vs Feeling Good 06:50 What Does "Love at All Costs" Mean? 08:20 Learning to Speak Truth Boldly 10:30 Men and Zero-F Attitudes 11:30 Tempering Instincts and Temptations 13:40 Crash and Burn Lessons 15:40 Discipline and "Doing Hard Things" 17:15 Small Things Shape Big Character 18:45 Christian Persecution Today 21:20 Should Christians Fight Back? 23:40 Violence, Duty, and Discernment 25:20 Bold, Relatable Preaching 27:20 Conviction vs Condemnation 30:00 Accountability Done Right 31:40 Guiding Boys and Raising Men 34:10 Real Discipline and Real Consequences 38:50 Guilt, Shame, and Responsibility 41:15 Preaching While Imperfect 45:10 His Calling and Vocation 53:15 Hearing God's Voice 56:30 Silence and Spiritual Clarity 57:50 Real Masculinity and Faith 59:00 Where to Follow Father Stephen  

Still stuck in the guilt spiral after indulging in your favorite holiday treats? What if enjoying dessert didn't mean starting over on Monday, or vowing to “be good” in January?In episode 3 of our Holiday Eating Series, I'm sharing the real psychology behind holiday food guilt, “off-limits” indulgences, and those all-or-nothing spirals that can leave you feeling frustrated and defeated by January 1st. You'll hear my go-to mindset shifts to stop guilt in its tracks, why giving yourself permission around holiday foods is the most freeing thing you can do, and the secret to truly enjoying your favorite treats without the inevitable shame spiral. Plus, I'll share one simple action you can try this week to make mindful eating feel effortless.And, if this resonated and you're ready to enjoy the holidays without sacrificing your body goals, download your FREE Holiday Eating Roadmap here: https://mindin-my-wellness.captivate.fm/roadmapReady to stop dieting through December and step into the holidays with confidence, clarity, and zero regret? Hit play and let's dive in.3:10 – Why Food Guilt Is Learned (And How to Unlearn It for Good) 4:25 – The Dangerous Cycle of Restriction, Craving, and Guilt (and How to Break It)5:16 – How Granting Yourself Permission Around Food Reduces Chaos5:51 – What True Balance Looks Like During the Holidays (No Perfection Required)7:11 – Three Mindset Shifts to Stop the “Start Over Monday” Mentality9:52 – Your One-Item Action Step to Practice Mindful Eating in Real Life Other Episodes You'll Love:Episode 139: Why Starting Over in January Keeps You Stuck (Do THIS simple reset to stay consistent all season!) | HOLIDAY EATING SERIESEpisode 140: How to Create a Flexible Holiday Eating Routine So You Can Enjoy the Season Without Stressing About Weight Gain | HOLIDAY EATING SERIES

People-pleasing is an indication of anxiety and nervous system dysregulation. So why are you people-pleasing? People pleasers frequently have experienced emotional chaos, abuse, emotional neglect, anxiety, or trauma that has left them feeling unsafe. The need to feel safe and to keep the peace drives people-pleasing. What is people pleasing? According to Psychology Today, people-pleasing is a need for approval and validation from others. People pleasers habitually focus more on helping others than caring for their own needs. In addition, people pleasers fear rejection and prioritize others' happiness over their own. Why are you people-pleasing? The need to people-please is multifaceted but includes the following: Avoid conflict We often see people-pleasing in those who have experienced trauma, anxiety, and emotional dysfunction in the family unit. If parents have used physical punishment, yelled and screamed, and the child has felt unsafe, they will strive to please others to keep peace in their environment. People-pleasing then becomes a pattern in other areas as well and carries forward into adulthood, relationships, and career. Emotional neglect When a child experiences emotional neglect, intentional or unintentional, they may strive to gain approval as a means of emotional connection. Again, these people-pleasing tendencies will carry over into adulthood in most, if not all, aspects of their lives. Anxiety If a person has anxiety, they are living in an abnormal state of fear. They may feel they are unable to cope, so they please others to avoid disrupting their ecosystem. Meaning, if they please others, they won't have to face challenges they fear they cannot handle. In addition, when someone is anxious and their nervous system is not regulated, they may experience a fawning response. Fawning is people-pleasing. Therefore, we can associate a dysregulated nervous system with the need to please others. Guilt and shame If a child grows up in a dysfunctional home or has anxiety, they may develop a sense of guilt and shame that their life has not been similar to or as good as that of others around them. In addition, they may feel that the dysfunction, yelling, screaming, fighting, abuse, or trauma may have been their fault. So many things can lead to someone feeling guilt and shame, but a sense of abnormalcy can exacerbate this. People-pleasing becomes a coping mechanism for emotional instability. What does it look like to be a people-pleaser? Consequences of pleasing others and sacrificing your own happiness. How to overcome being a people-pleaser. Things you can focus on to change from a people-pleasing mindset. It's not easy, but it's doable. Read the full show notes and access all links. https://therobyngraham.com/why-are-you-people-pleasing/

Mastering The Art of Saying No Without Guilt Sometimes saying "no" feels anything but peaceful. Even when we know it's the right decision, the guilt creeps in. We worry about letting people down, missing out, or not being seen as a "good mom." And before we know it, we've said yes to too many things that pull us away from what actually matters. In this episode, I'm talking about how to master the art of saying no with peace, purpose, and love. You'll hear: Why it's so hard to say no (even when we want to) How guilt disguises itself as responsibility What happens when we override our peace to please others A few mindset shifts that can help you say no with clarity and confidence Phrases to use when you need to set a boundary Why every "no" creates room for a better "yes" You're not selfish for needing space. You're not unkind for honoring your limits. But if that still feels hard, this episode will help. If you liked this episode, here are some others you might enjoy: 37. Letting Go of Guilt 228.How to Let Go of What Other People Think 247. The Hidden Cost of People Pleasing: A Catholic Mom's Guide to Authentic Living For more help from Danielle Thienel Coaching:

What would happen if churches stopped talking about money with guilt, shame, or fear—and started talking about vision, impact, and opportunity instead? In this episode, Loren interviews Jason Hanselman, Donor Relations Director and longtime pastor, missionary, church planter, and fundraiser. Jason shares why asking people for money is, surprisingly, one of his most deeply spiritual practices, and why churches must rethink the way they talk about giving if they want to cultivate generosity rather than anxiety. Together they explore: Why asking for money can be a spiritual experience for donors and leaders How childhood experiences shape our money scripts Why guilt-based “money talks” cause people to disengage How nonprofits have shifted donor expectations—and why churches must catch up How to make giving personal, relational, and meaningful Why younger adults don't lack commitment—they lack invitation and clarity How segmenting, storytelling, and vision casting can transform a giving culture Why many churches need to simplify their structures, clarify their mission, and make compelling asks How capital campaigns can tie internal needs to external impact Jason offers honest, practical, field-tested wisdom for pastors, stewardship teams, and anyone responsible for raising money in a ministry context. If you want to cultivate a healthier, more joyful, more spiritually grounded approach to giving, this conversation will give you the tools to start.   Jason Hanselman currently serves as a Donor Relations Director with Mission Aviation Fellowship. His ministry experience spans more than 25 years. He has led in a variety of capacities in kingdom-building roles as a pastor, missionary, church planter and fundraiser. Jason was born and raised in Denver Colorado where he met his wife Mary - they've been married for 32 years. He holds a Bachelor's degree in Ministry and a Master of Arts degree in Education. Jason's goal is to partner with other Kingdom minded individuals and churches to raise enough resources to make it possible for them to fund their vision and increase their impact. Jason enjoys spending time with his family on hikes and in art museums. Jason and Mary raised their three children in Boise, Idaho: Naomi (25), Grace (23) and Solomon (20). When he has extra time, Jason is a portrait artist and an avid sports fan.   Mentioned Resources:

SEND US A TEXT MESSAGE!!! Let Drs. Nii & Renee know what you think about the show!We tackle a raw listener question about carrying $520k in med school debt, feeling guilty about pursuing Public Service Loan Forgiveness, and navigating first‑gen family expectations. We break down what PSLF really is, why it exists, and how to compare it against traditional and accelerated payoff paths.FREE DOWNLOAD -  7 Considerations Before Starting Locum Tenens - https://darkos.lpages.co/7-considerations-before-locumsLINKS MENTIONED SIGN UP FOR OUR NEWSLETTER! WATCH THIS EPISODE ON YOUTUBE!Send us a Voice Message - https://www.speakpipe.com/docsoutsidetheboxHave a question for the podcast?Text us at 833-230-2860 Wanna listen instead? Apple podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast... Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/7lPD2QG...Instagram: @docsoutsidetheboxEmail: team@drniidarko.comTwitter: @drniidarkoMerch: https://docs-outside-the-box.creator-spring.comThis episode is sponsored by Locumstory. Learn how locum tenens helps doctors make more and have the lifestyle they deserve!. Check them out HERE!

Your narcissistic wife refuses to work or leave the house. After you sought divorce, she attempted suicide and called 53 times. It's Feedback Friday!And in case you didn't already know it, Jordan Harbinger (@JordanHarbinger) and Gabriel Mizrahi (@GabeMizrahi) banter and take your comments and questions for Feedback Friday right here every week! If you want us to answer your question, register your feedback, or tell your story on one of our upcoming weekly Feedback Friday episodes, drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com. Now let's dive in!Full show notes and resources can be found here: jordanharbinger.com/1252On This Week's Feedback Friday:Banter alert! If you don't want to stick around for Jordan and Gabe's stories about hangry Japanese 7-Eleven faux pas, take the bullet train to about 16 minutes and 20 seconds into the episode for preferential dooze cruise boarding!Your wife has become increasingly narcissistic, manipulative, and homebound over the past five years, refusing to work or care for herself while treating you with passive-aggression and toxicity. After you filed for divorce, she attempted suicide and called you 53 times in 24 hours. How do you protect yourself now? [Thanks once again to attorney Corbin Payne for helping us answer this!]You've worked for the same company three different times and were fired once due to a background issue tied to a youthful mistake with an ex. Now they want you back with better pay, but you just accepted a six-month contract elsewhere. Do you bail on integrity or pass on long-term opportunity? [Thanks to HR professional Joanna Tate for helping us with this one!]You're a leftist structural engineer who believes we're facing a fascist takeover and wants to flee the country, but your wife thinks you're overreacting to podcasts and social media. Who should you trust — your fear or her skepticism — and where do you even find reliable guidance in these polarized times?Recommendation of the Week: Setting up an eSIM straight from your phone before you travel. Saily and Airalo are good options.You're an introverted loner starting a new job and want to network better with colleagues without becoming best friends. You're awkward in conversations, your mind goes blank, and someone once called you boring. How do you build professional relationships when socializing drains you and you struggle to connect?Have any questions, comments, or stories you'd like to share with us? Drop us a line at friday@jordanharbinger.com!Connect with Jordan on Twitter at @JordanHarbinger and Instagram at @jordanharbinger.Connect with Gabriel on Twitter at @GabeMizrahi and Instagram @gabrielmizrahi.And if you're still game to support us, please leave a review here — even one sentence helps! Sign up for Six-Minute Networking — our free networking and relationship development mini course — at jordanharbinger.com/course!Subscribe to our once-a-week Wee Bit Wiser newsletter today and start filling your Wednesdays with wisdom!Do you even Reddit, bro? Join us at r/JordanHarbinger!This Episode Is Brought To You By Our Fine Sponsors:Aura Frames: $35 off: auraframes.com, code JORDANBetterHelp: 10% off first month: betterhelp.com/jordanNutrafol: $10 off 1st month: nutrafol.com, code JORDANSimpliSafe: 50% off + 1st month free: simplisafe.com/jordanQuiltmind: Email jordanaudience@quiltmind.com to get started or visit quiltmind.com for more infoSee Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.