The Hoe and The Hopeless

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Kia and Deb are two friends from Philadelphia working to destigmatize what it means to be a “hoe” or “hopeless”. Kia is a sexually liberated woman with the stories to match but is in a committed relationship. Deb is single but doesn’t need the pity party

The Hoe and The Hopeless


    • Apr 25, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 50m AVG DURATION
    • 16 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from The Hoe and The Hopeless

    Kia's RElationship ft. Joey Stix

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 25, 2020 47:40


    On this episode Deb sits across from Kia & her partner Joey, as they get real about what it's like to be together!

    REfreshing Your Sex Life

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 6, 2020 48:06


    On this episode we discuss how your friendships shift when you dive into a new relationship and of course SEX! Refreshing your sex life is so important and this includes self pleasure as well... so join Kia & Deb in a discussion about how we spice it up in the bedroom (or on the kitchen counter

    The mini-coronasode

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 20, 2020 18:34


    We just wanted to check in and say hi! CORONAVIRUS (cardi B voice) got us fucked up tbh!

    Dating REsponsibility ft Payal

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 17, 2020 69:00


    Everything dating! We sat down with our talented friend Payal, the host of podcast The Dating Culture and discuss all things dating. We cover everything from online dating to the importance of peeing after sex.

    REdefining relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 26, 2020 54:07


    Let's talk about redefining relationships! On this episode Kia & Deb talk about relationships in the past versus now, as well as what we think about marriage and tradition. We also discuss dating experiences- from dealing with awkward first dates to shooting your shot!

    REjection

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 12, 2020 47:28


    On this episode Kia & Deb dive into their experience with rejection. How it feels to be rejected and how it affects your dating life. We also give our engineer some advice on getting back with an ex. Can you spark an old flame or is it a whole new spark? Find out our thoughts on this first full episode of season two!

    REunited!!!

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 21, 2020 16:25


    Sorry, we were gone for a minute (tbh we were beefing). We're back and honestly beaten but also better.  We're on anchor now! But catch us on Apple Podcasts and Spotify too.  Follow us on instagram: instagram.com/thehoeandthehopeless

    Episode 13: The Dirty Talk Episode

    Play Episode Listen Later May 26, 2019 47:17


    Deb and Kia talk dirty this episode. WE HAVE AN INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/thehoeandthehopeless/ WE HAVE AN EMAIL: thehandtheh@gmail.com Dope theme music by Kia Orio

    Episode 12: The Fuckgirl and The Underused BC

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2019 48:04


    Kia and Deb chat about when to come clean about someone you hooked up with, times they were (or weren't) fuckgirlssssss, and spermicide (whatever the fuck that is).

    Episode 11: The Sugar Daddy and The Best Way

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 14, 2019 53:04


    Hey y'all. we're back and trying new things. We talk about getting the opportunity to be a sugar baby AND the best way to get over someone. Emojibator: https://emojibator.com/ Use HOEMIES for 15% off WE HAVE AN INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/thehoeandthehopeless/ WE HAVE AN EMAIL: thehandtheh@gmail.com Dope theme music by Kia Orion

    Episode 10: The Tinder Date and The Misconceptions about STIs

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 18, 2019 60:03


    Kia and Deb recap their worst tinder dates, talk about the impact of social media and rap about why STIs are kind of no biggie.

    Episode 9: The Other Woman and The Way To Holla

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 3, 2019 54:18


    This is 45 minutes of us talking about the Jordyn Woods "scandal" (the devil works hard but kris jenner works harder) and why isn't the CHEATER ever the one to blame?!? We have a lot to say.

    Episode 8: The Banana Vibrator and The Hymen Hypothesis

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 17, 2019 60:16


    Kia and Deb bring Joe Vela from Emojibator to talk about self-pleasure and why it's so important. Also, they also discuss what to do post cuffin season. Emojibator: https://emojibator.com/ Use HOEMIES for 15% off WE HAVE AN INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/thehoeandthehopeless/ WE HAVE AN EMAIL: thehandtheh@gmail.com Dope theme music by Kia Orion

    Episode 7: The Aggressively Passive Boys and The Mature Way to End

    Play Episode Listen Later Feb 3, 2019 70:36


    Kia and Deb talk about the pros of breaking up, lube's place in the bedroom and bring on the boys from Aggressively Passive Podcast to ask "why do y'all ghost?!?!"

    Epsiode 6- The Incredible, Transforming Vagina and The Interracial Conversation

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 20, 2019 46:38


    Y'all are still here? Bet. This week we're talking about interracial dating and are actually left speechless (i know, right?!) We also give you a hoe tip that will save you a ton of time. As always, let us know what you think below. WE HAVE AN INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/thehoeandthehopeless/ WE HAVE AN EMAIL: thehandtheh@gmail.com Dope theme music by Kia Orion

    Episode 5- The More You Have and The New Year

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 6, 2019 58:53


    Kia & Deb get together to explain why it's good to date multiple people at once, list what they're leaving in 2019 and talk sex dive (or lack thereof). WE HAVE AN INSTAGRAM: www.instagram.com/thehoeandthehopeless/ WE HAVE AN EMAIL: thehandtheh@gmail.com Dope theme music by Kia Orion

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