We're All Messy

Josh and Trevor asked you for questions, and we got a few.  This is our response to your inquiries! 

Josh explains his journey to becoming an activist, an anti racist, and why.  We talk about his journey to waking up to his own racism, and we learn about why he is outspoken and vocal about racism in America.  

Join Josh and Trevor as we listen to Dorionne's story.  From kindergarten being bussed into white schools, to being able to finally go outside.  Lean in and listen to what it was like to grow up in America as an African American.  

Join Josh and Trevor as they hear about what it was like to grow up as an immigrant in America.  Felipe Contreras shares his story with us, and we couldn't have been more impressed.  We laugh, and get serious, but please take a listen to what it may look like to grow up in America as Latinx.  

Josh and Trevor interview, and listen to the story of Gyasi.  How he grew up, what racism he has endured, and what white privilege looks like.  Even if you don't believe in anything regarding racism, or white privilege, it is still a great story to hear about.

Josh, Trevor, and Lindsay interview Pastor Terry Fulkes about being fired from a church he once pastored.  Learn about Josh's life growing up, and how being fired can become freedom.     Love you all    See you in season 3: Prob in February 

Acceptance is the start of change.  Lets all be real and authentic about how much we feel like a fraud.  And if you don't feel like a fraud, maybe you should re asses your life.  Josh and Trevor discuss the constant feeling of being a fraud and how it impacts our mental and physical health.     Love you all 

Josh and Trevor discuss what it means to deconstruct your faith.  Is this just a trendy topic, or is this a real phase everyone should go through.  Should we just take other people at their words, or should we figure things out on our own.  What do you think?    Love you all

Trevor and Josh discuss why Bryce's PP so small.  Enjoy, plus, we love you

Josh and Cole have no clue what this podcast is about, so this is fun for everyone.  Listen to Emily and Lindsay share about what marriage was before, and what it is like now.  We loved having the opportunity to hear from both sides now on marriage.  What do you think?    Love you all

Josh and Trevor interview Stacia about the epidemic that is porn.  How invasive, and harmful it can be, and how prevalent it is in the female world.  1 and 3 girls watch porn.  Did you know that?  We didn't.    Get ahold of Stacia at www.stormandarmor.com    Love you  

Josh and Trevor discuss anger; the destructive, and constructive nature of it.  When do you find yourself getting angry, and how do you cope?  Is your anger something positive for the world or negative?  What are ways to observe, contain, and listen to your anger.     Love you  

Samantha opens up about having a miscarriage, dealing with healthcare or lack there of, and dealing with the shame involved.  Miscarriages are more common  we know, and hearing this story was eye opening and we are incredibly grateful for having her on.     Thank you all   Love you

Josh and Cole discuss what it was like before and after marriage.  What does the church say about marriage, and what is it really like.  What is the best part of being single, and what are some of the best parts of being married!    Love you all 

Steve McCarthy shares his story of growing up in the church and being gay.  There are a lot of things Christianity needs to talk about and this is one of them.  Thank you for listening and remember Steve is a real person, and he is one of many.   Steve's Podcast openbiblepodcast.com and airs first episode first week of October    Love you

Josh and Trevor talk about playboys, growing up, and kids today.  Is it harder to be a kid today?  How can we have more conversations with those we love?  Why is it so hard to talk to our parents about what we would like in a relationship.     Love you all

Hayden joins us and shares what it was like working at Planned Parenthood as a nurse practitioner.  We would love for you to join in and listen.  We hope this episode will help healthy dialogue and reveal the truth about shame and guilt. Love you. 

We discuss the death of Josh's brother and what it is like going to therapy.  We hope this helps take away stigma's of therapy, and the unbelievable help therapy can do.  Please reach out to friends and see where they go to therapy, and make this a priority in your life.     Love you 

Josh has invited his friend Seth back on the podcast to discuss and share his journey with PTSD. Struggling over the years with abusive therapists, Seth headed to Ecuador to seek alternative medicines.  We are not saying to go and do the same, we are not saying do not seek professional help, but we do want to let Seth share his story!     Enjoy

The struggles of insecurities, and our own failings to live into them is why we do the things we don't want to do.  If you are like us, we struggle with our own demons.  We hope by listening to our insecurities you can see it is all a part of being human.  Let's try and get through our own downfalls to see our true self for who we are.  Loved and beautiful.      

Josh and Trevor are back!  We discuss what's going to happen and why the long wait, so sit back and relax, and enjoy a beverage whilst getting messy.     Love you

Josh got a Job, and Trevor's been left on read.  So, take heart this is not the end, but just our first attempt at a season finale.  We are going to start back up, we don't know when, but it will be when we have enough pod casts in the bank to feel comfortable starting back!     Stay Tuned.     Love

Sound quality was poor, but don't let that stop you from listening.  Josh and Treavor talk about what to do if you don't have all the answeres.  Can uncertainty be a good thing?  What do you think?  Does God give pain and suffering to show love?     Text, Venmo, or Fax us @  https://www.instagram.com/wereallmessy/

Josh and Trevor talk about becmoing adults, and they are the least qualified to talk about this subject.   When did you know you were an adult?  Do you ever fully want to become an adult?  What is your definition of adult?    Comment, like, subscribe to our instagram account.  We just did a photo shoot so be ready to be inspired.  https://www.instagram.com/wereallmessy/

Josh and Trevor Discuss Sin, the affects, and all things related.  What do you think is the worst sin?  What is your favorite sin?  What is Sin?     Let us know on our instagram https://www.instagram.com/wereallmessy/

Josh and Trevor discuss words, emotions, power vacuums, and cussing.  What is your take?  Do you cuss when you are alone, but in public make up new words?  What words do you think are taboo and should never exist?     Let us know.  Comment on the Instagram https://www.instagram.com/wereallmessy/

Josh and Trevor talk about comparison.  Where do you find yourself on the spectrum?  Can you celebrate with others when they get the thing you want so badly? Or, do you simply throw a pity party and wish you had what they have?     Follow us on Instagram and tell us what you think!   https://www.instagram.com/wereallmessy/   Or leave a comment and or a review to tell us what you like! 

This might be the most important podcast we will ever do.  Rebecca Ching is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist. Has extensive training in family systems therapy and mind-body approaches which take into account the whole person and the whole body in recovery.  She is Certified Internal Family Systems Therapist, a Certified Daring Way™ Facilitator+Consultant (CDWF-C) (based on the research of Brené Brown), Certified EMDR Therapist+Consultant-in-Training , Certified Eating Disorder Specialist (CEDS) + iaedp™ Approved Supervisor, AAMFT Approved Supervisor.   SO She is a big deal:  Find her at Potentiatherapy.com  Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/potentiatherapy/ and she recommends books at the end, and we are going to try and read them here at :  https://selfleadership.org/ifs-store.html#ebook  

Where do you stand on alcohol?  We talk about what it is like to drink within Christianity and why it can be seen as a double standard.     We would love to  here your input.  What do you think?    Follow our instagram at https://www.instagram.com/wereallmessy/

Josh brought Arlene to the studio where we interviewed her about her Tea Shop, and the failure of a second shop.  She has an incredible story and we asked some pretty hard questions.  Hope you enjoy.     Find Arlene at  Tea Shop: Tea pop Insta: Teapop Other Insta: Thegotcha    Please feel free to leave questions on Wereallmessy.podbean.com  or contact Trevor or Josh to suggest an interview E    

Josh and Trevor discuss why we don't always tell the truth, and why we often state how we are :going to get through it though".     We need to start being ok with not being ok.  It is fine to just be sad, or angry, or hurt.  We don't even have to learn antying from it.     Please comment or leave a review! 

Seth is one of Josh's friends from Junior College.  We sat down with Seth and asked him to tell his story and this is what we heard.   Keep in mind Seth is not giving advice and he is not telling people to do what he did.  He strongle recommends Therapy, and Clinical Phsycologists, but has himself battled with this disease for a long time.     Who would you want us to interview?  Put you comments below at wereallmessy.podbean.com or email us at Trevor.yl@gmail.com   Hope you enjoy this episode

In this episode we talk about Motivation.  What is motivation, how do you get it, and where does it come from?  We also talk about why I Trevor doesn't work out, and maybe why He should.     For comments or questions, head to wereallmessy.podbean.com and submit a response, or a question!    Thanks for listening 

In this episode we discover a lot about my sister, the brain, and why my sister drinks diet cokes.  But truly this was special.  It is one thing to know your sibling as a brother or a sister, but to see them in a new light, or what they were made for is so incredible.     If you want, at www.Wereallmessy.podbean.com leave a comment of what you would like to have answered, or if you yourself would like to be interviewed.     Thanks for listening. 

In this Episode, we talk through our own fears, what fear is, and why we have them.  Also, learn why I went to Jail, and what Josh thinks about self perception.     We are all in the together.  Things to think through.  What are your biggest fears?  Why?  If you didn't have them what would you accomplish, or do? 

This podcast will take you into our reason for making a podcast.  It goes into the depths of what we are wanting to do, and why we are doing it.  We hope you find grace, and authenticity.  This is supposed to be fun and it is supposed to give you freedom.   In this episode we find out why Josh got fired, and what this is all about.  Subscribe and enjoy our weekly updates!