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Welcome to When Love Works podcast. Cullen and Elitia, husband and wife relationship coaches are your hosts for all aspects of healthy relationships. Each episode focuses on the how-to’s of building, repairing and maintaining health. Every Friday, get real practice and weekly truths. The goal of the…

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    • Jun 4, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
    • every other week NEW EPISODES
    • 22m AVG DURATION
    • 45 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from When Love Works

    WLWD S4 E10 Break the Mold, Create the Relationship of your Dreams

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 4, 2021 19:45


    As Season 4 comes to an end, the WLWD Coaches invite you to break the mold and get creative in your Marriages and Lifetime Partnerships. In this final episode of Season 4 Cullen & Elitia hold back nothing when it comes to creating the relationship of your dreams. Moderated by: Alica J Green Relationship Coaches/Hosts: Cullen & Elitia Mattox Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Podcast soundtrack: Tre' Rochelle Set notifications on whichever platform you stream podcasts, so you never miss an episode. Each Friday, tune in to know When Love Works! If you like watching podcast episodes without commercials and get them days earlier, then get the WLWD App on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/) And if you want to do more reading along with your listening, get a copy of our book, Love Literacy on our website too. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLWD S4 E9 Grace

    Play Episode Listen Later May 28, 2021 22:45


    In this episode learn why Grace is a great staple to add to your relationship if you aren't already doing it. Cullen & Elitia unpack definitions and processes of the impact of Grace on your relationship's health. Moderated by: Alica J Green Relationship Coaches/Hosts: Cullen & Elitia Mattox Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Podcast soundtrack: Tre' Rochelle Set notifications on whichever platform you stream podcasts, so you never miss an episode. Each Friday, tune in to know When Love Works! If you like watching podcast episodes without commercials and get them days earlier, then get the WLWD App on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/) And if you want to do more reading along with your listening, get a copy of our book, Love Literacy on our website too. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLWD S4 E8 Surrender to What is

    Play Episode Listen Later May 21, 2021 17:22


    Are you ready to Surrender? Wonder why Surrender is needed in healthy relationships when it's commonly used in competition. Tune in as Cullen & Elitia provide absolute clarity on Surrender. Moderated by: Alica J Green Relationship Coaches/Hosts: Cullen & Elitia Mattox Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Podcast soundtrack: Tre' Rochelle Set notifications on whichever platform you stream podcasts, so you never miss an episode. Each Friday, tune in to know When Love Works! If you like watching podcast episodes without commercials and get them days earlier, then get the WLWD App on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/) And if you want to do more reading along with your listening, get a copy of our book, Love Literacy on our website too. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLWD S4 E7 Relationship Capacity

    Play Episode Listen Later May 14, 2021 22:16


    A lot of couples set beautiful goals for their relationships. They want great things for and within their relationship, but don’t have the capacity to bring about the goal they set out. Cullen & Elitia unpack the importance of building relationship capacity to be effective in bringing their relationship dreams to pass. Moderated by: Alica J Green Relationship Coaches/Hosts: Cullen & Elitia Mattox Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Podcast soundtrack: Tre' Rochelle Set notifications on whichever platform you stream podcasts, so you never miss an episode. Each Friday, tune in to know When Love Works! If you like watching podcast episodes without commercials and get them days earlier, then get the WLWD App on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/) And if you want to do more reading along with your listening, get a copy of our book, Love Literacy on our website too. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLWD S4 Bonus Forgiveness

    Play Episode Listen Later May 12, 2021 14:27


    Is everything forgivable within a marriage? Cullen & Elitia go into how to use forgiveness to help manage consistency in your relationship. Moderated by: Alica J Green Relationship Coaches/Hosts: Cullen & Elitia Mattox Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Podcast soundtrack: Tre' Rochelle Set notifications on whichever platform you stream podcasts, so you never miss an episode. Each Friday, tune in to know When Love Works! If you like watching podcast episodes without commercials and get them days earlier, then get the WLWD App on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/) And if you want to do more reading along with your listening, get a copy of our book, Love Literacy on our website too. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLWD S4 E6 Irreconcilable Differences

    Play Episode Listen Later May 7, 2021 27:27


    Ever wonder why couples split? Most people arrive at irreconcilable differences because they have never built the necessary relationship infrastructure. Cullen & Elitia invite you to listen in for more on this issue. Moderated by: Alica J Green Relationship Coaches/Hosts: Cullen & Elitia Mattox Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Podcast soundtrack: Tre' Rochelle Set notifications on whichever platform you stream podcasts, so you never miss an episode. Each Friday, tune in to know When Love Works! If you like watching podcast episodes without commercials and get them days earlier, then get the WLWD App on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/) And if you want to do more reading along with your listening, get a copy of our book, Love Literacy on our website too. --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLWD S4 E5 Conflict

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 30, 2021 27:17


    Every time you share in healthy relationship culture, you will hear Cullen & Elitia's take on conflict. Don't rue conflict. Learn what it means to your relationship and how to navigate it. Check out this episode as Cullen & Elitia invite you to rethink how conflict shows up in your life. For more than just listening, grab a copy of the Love Literacy book on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/books) Moderated by: Alica J Green Relationship Coaches/Hosts: Cullen & Elitia Mattox Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Podcast soundtrack: Tre' Rochelle If you want to watch podcast episodes without commercials and get them early, then get the WLWD App on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLWD S4 E4 Creative Mode

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2021 17:41


    The last episode's topic, survival mode, put us on alert for its healthy alternative, creative mode. So in this episode, Cullen & Elitia invite you to put your creativity to work in crafting the relationship of your dreams. For more than just listening, grab a copy of the Love Literacy book on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/books) Moderated by: Alica J Green Relationship Coaches/Hosts: Cullen & Elitia Mattox Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Podcast soundtrack: Tre' Rochelle If you want to watch podcast episodes without commercials and get them early, then get the WLWD App on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLWD S4 E3 Survival Mode

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 16, 2021 18:24


    Survival mode is not necessary anymore. We are not hunting and gathering food. So being on guard within your relationship is survival mode. Cullen & Elitia break down the dangers of survival mode and give details on a healthier option. For more than just listening, grab a copy of the Love Literacy book on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/books) Podcast Moderated by: Alica J Green Relationship Coaches/Hosts: Cullen & Elitia Mattox Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Podcast soundtrack: Tre' Rochelle If you want to watch podcast episodes without commercials and get them early, then get the WLWD App on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLWD S4 E2: No Downtime

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2021 22:45


    In Episode 2, Cullen & Elitia dig out the challenges and shortfalls that happens when couples 'get mad' and are disconnected. The thinking behind this 'downtime' and how to fix it. For more than just listening, grab a copy of the Love Literacy book on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/books) Moderated by: Alica J Green Relationship Coaches/Hosts: Cullen & Elitia Mattox Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Podcast song: Tre' Rochelle --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLWD S4 E1: Full Immersion

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 2, 2021 19:38


    We're back for another Season. This 4th Season is all about unpacking Marriage. We kick off this first episode of the season with Full Immersion because in Marriage, it's 100% or nothing. Go inside as Cullen & Elitia unpack the importance and dangers of these extremes within a committed relationship. Set notifications on whichever platform you stream Podcasts, so you never miss an episode. Each Friday, tune in to know When Love Works! For more than just listening, grab a copy of the Love Literacy book on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/books) Moderated by: Alica J Green Relationship Coaches/Hosts: Cullen & Elitia Mattox Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Podcast song: Tre' Rochelle If you like watching podcast episodes without commercials and get them days earlier, then get the WLWD App on the website at (https://wlwdynamically.com/) --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW Bonus: Don't Give Up on Love

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 23, 2020 48:37


    This bonus episode is for you if you ever thought of giving up on love. Wait, before you call it quits, listen to Elitia's story. While some parts of her journey can be triggering and difficult to hear, know that it's all shared in hopes that you remain confident in the power of love.   Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S3 E10: Relationship Ecosystem

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2020 20:53


    For the final episode of Season 3, join the discussion with Cullen & Elitia to learn what a relationship Ecosystem is, how-to customize your ecosystem for optimal health and the threats to your relationship's ecosystem. To see Video Episodes, get the WLW App. Just go to https://wlwapp.whenloveworks.com/ Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Shakiyla Newland Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S3 E9: Sensitivity is a Superpower

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2020 20:10


    The word 'Sensitive' is often used to describe a weakness. Well within healthy relationships, sensitivity is a superpower. Cullen & Elitia describe why and ways to ensure your relationship's sensitivity is heightened. To see Video Episodes, get the WLW App. Just go to https://wlwapp.whenloveworks.com/ Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Shakiyla Newland Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S3 E8: Gratitude

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2020 29:18


    Do Not let gratitude be a foregone conclusion in your relationship. Gratitude can start to fall off in relationships when these practices are not in place. Listen as Cullen & Elitia unpack the importance of gratitude to healthy relationships. To see Video Episodes, get the WLW App. Just go to https://wlwapp.whenloveworks.com/ Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Shakiyla Newland Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S3 E7: Account for the Ego

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 13, 2020 34:41


    This long awaited episode helps you account for the ego. The Ego, when untamed, has single-handedly dismantled the health of relationships. Unfortunately many couples are tripped up when they do not take the time to account for their own ego or how their partner's ego is showing up in the process of building a strong relationship. Cullen & Elitia offer support for accounting for the ego within your relationship. To see Video Episodes, get the WLW App. Just go to https://wlwapp.whenloveworks.com/ Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Shakiyla Newland Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S3 Bonus Episode: Skill & Will

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 10, 2020 9:29


    Cullen & Elitia offer what to look for as you are navigating Courtship and Coupling. See how skill and will impact the foundation you two are building. #bonusepisode #skillwill #evolution --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S3 E6: Conflict Management

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 6, 2020 21:38


    Conflict is not a bad word. If the work of Courtship is too challenging or proves that you both are incompatible, then it's ok. Courtship is a temporary relationship with several components for you to work through. So conflict will arise but it does not have to demolish the relationship. Join the discussion as Cullen & Elitia share how conflict management is managed, when love works styled. To see Video Episodes, get the WLW App. Just go to https://wlwapp.whenloveworks.com/ Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Shakiyla Newland Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S3 E5: The Work

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 30, 2020 37:16


    To avoid seeing the same relationship challenges in your over and over again-do the work to deal with the issue once. That's the When Love Works way to create a healthy relationship. In this episode Cullen & Elitia share what's included in the real work of relationships during Courtship. To see Video Episodes, get the WLW App. Just go to https://wlwapp.whenloveworks.com/ Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Shakiyla Newland Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S3 E4: Court Privately

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 23, 2020 25:51


    We believe In the first quarter of Courtship, you should Court Privately. Remember you both are still trying to figure out how to work together. Join the discussion, share questions and see if any of your beliefs are challenged by what Cullen and Elitia share. To see Video Episodes, get the WLW App. Just go to https://wlwapp.whenloveworks.com/ Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Shakiyla Newland Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S3 E3: No Holds Barred Communication

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 16, 2020 19:11


    Do all couples argue? We don’t know if all couples argue but what we will say is this: It depends on the type of argument because as long as information is being exchanged and both parties are listening, then there is room for growth and evolution. However, there is a better way. This episode goes into a better way. To see Video Episodes, get the WLW App. Just go to https://wlwapp.whenloveworks.com/ Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Shakiyla Newland Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S3 E2: Pick your partner, don’t pick them apart

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 9, 2020 22:20


    Courtship is where you first introduce unconditional love. Once you find a partner you love and are confident with your choice, now is the time to introduce unconditional love. In this episode, Cullen & Elitia shares why love must be working in your new relationship. To see Video Episodes, get the WLW App. Just go to https://wlwapp.whenloveworks.com/ Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Shakiyla Newland Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S3 E1: What is Courtship?

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 2, 2020 17:19


    Season 3 is all about Courtship. Episode 1 jumps right in with When Love Works Coaches defining courtship, its purpose and creating a healthy time line. Join the discussion, share questions and see if any of your beliefs are challenged. This episode brings clarity on the often unspoken relationship type called Courtship. To see Video Episodes, get the WLW App. Just go to https://wlwapp.whenloveworks.com/ Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Shakiyla Newland Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S2 E10: The End of Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 24, 2020 19:00


    Episode 10 is the season finale. It takes on the subject of dating longevity and knowing when an encounter has run its course. Likewise Cullen & Elitia address what answers you should definitely have before you emerge from dating. Finally they discuss your transition, whether it be into Courtship or to parting in love. To see Video Episodes, become a member of WhenLoveWorks Community. Just go to https://bit.ly/wlwcommunity and join. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Siria Alvarez Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S2 E9: Declare Your Interest

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 17, 2020 17:50


    In this episode, Cullen & Elitia encourage listeners and viewers to boldly declare their interests and relationship goals. They also encourage you to be forthright in all of your interactions like the stakeholders you are and get your questions answered. To see Video Episodes, become a member of WhenLoveWorks Community. Just go to https://bit.ly/wlwcommunity and join. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Siria Alvarez Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S2 E8: No Grace Allowed

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 10, 2020 16:24


    Fresh off of the teachings about guilt, Cullen & Elitia jump right into the subject of grace. Grace is amongst the finest of things, but it can be absolutely catastrophic to your dating journey. Tune in to find out why? To see Video Episodes, become a member of WhenLoveWorks Community. Just go to https://bit.ly/wlwcommunity and join. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Siria Alvarez Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S2 E7: Navigate Guilt

    Play Episode Listen Later Jul 3, 2020 20:15


    Episode 7 is all about guilt and how it shows up in relationships. In this episode, Cullen & Ellitia address the tough questions like: How do I let someone down easy? or When, if ever is it okay to compromise? To see Video Episodes, become a member of WhenLoveWorks Community. Just go to https://bit.ly/wlwcommunity and join. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Siria Alvarez Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S2 E6: Get Clarity

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 26, 2020 14:00


    In this episode Cullen & Elitia stress the importance of remaining in the present moment so you can get really clear about who you and your partner are together. Advice abounds from everywhere about how to optimize your dating experience including how to stay genuine and vibrate people with like energy. To see Video Episodes, become a member of WhenLoveWorks Community. Just go to https://bit.ly/wlwcommunity and join. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Siria Alvarez Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S2 Bonus: Relationships during COVID-19

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 23, 2020 16:56


    The State of Relationships during COVID 19. Let's get into it. Cullen and Elitia offer some insight and what you should know to come out on the healthy side of this pandemic. To see Video Episodes, become a member of WhenLoveWorks Community. Just go to https://bit.ly/wlwcommunity and join. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S2 E5: Projections & other Traps

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 19, 2020 17:31


    The most critical element in conscious dating is staying in the present moment. And just as there is infinite power in this alignment, In projection there is a vast leakage of your power. In this episode Cullen and Elitia expose how Projection gets you focusing on what could be in the future, good or bad, and takes your attention off of the only thing that is important and real, what is happening now. To see Video Episodes, become a member of WhenLoveWorks Community. Just go to https://bit.ly/wlwcommunity and join. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Siria Alvarez Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S2 E4: Ideal Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2020 29:35


    In this episode, Cullen & Elitia address when is it healthy to date again after a breakup? It's not what you think. Then they unpack common denominators in all of the healthy dating experiences that they have observed over the years. To see Video Episodes, become a member of WhenLoveWorks on Patreon. Just go to https://www.patreon.com/whenloveworks and join a tier. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Siria Alvarez Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S2 E3: Situationships & Dysfunctionships

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 5, 2020 13:51


    What happens when you don’t honor your relationship vision? Situationships and Dysfunctionships happen! Although dating is not a relationship, situationships and dysfunctionships usually begin to take root in this stage with people who don’t vet properly. Join Cullen and Elitia in unpacking these healthy types of connections. To see Video Episodes, become a member of WhenLoveWorks on Patreon. Just go to https://www.patreon.com/whenloveworks and join a tier. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Siria Alvarez Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S2 E2: Conscious Dating

    Play Episode Listen Later May 29, 2020 20:58


    In episode 2, amongst other things Cullen & Elitia define Conscious Dating. They explain why it is superior to other alternatives. Likewise, they reveal how consciousness in dating eliminates the need for strategies and games. It allows one to just be and enjoy the dating experience. To see Video Episodes, become a member of WhenLoveWorks on Patreon. Just go to https://www.patreon.com/whenloveworks and join a tier. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Siria Alvarez Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com) --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S2 E1: Dating is Important

    Play Episode Listen Later May 22, 2020 15:06


    In this episode we unpack why dating is so important. And since Dating is the first in the three stages leading to a life partnership, How effectively you Date, is of crucial importance and will undoubtedly impact the stages that follow. Also in this episode we answer questions like how should healthy dating look and how long is too long to stay in a dating experience. So join us for this, the premiere of the second season, and prepare for a comprehensive journey into demystifying Dating. To see Video Episodes, become a member of WhenLoveWorks on Patreon. Just go to https://www.patreon.com/whenloveworks and join a tier. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Podcast Moderator: Siria Alvarez Producer: Ty Lawson Send Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S1E10: Myth Busters 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 17, 2020 22:39


    In this final episode of Season 1, Cullen & Elitia bust 2 of the most common myths that plague relationships: the idea of Happily Ever After and the belief that If one has to work at their relationship, then they must have chosen poorly. Listen in as they debunk these myths with practical tools. Then support WhenLoveWorks on Patreon. Just go to https://www.patreon.com/whenloveworks and join a tier. Come back for Season 2 this April for more practical tools and resources to make love work in your relationships. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S1E9: Teamwork

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 10, 2020 25:10


    Relationship done right produce the ultimate team. Done wrong, however, they can produce a personal hell. Join Cullen and Elitia for tips on how to navigate 3 of the biggest deterrents to teamwork. Then support WhenLoveWorks on Patreon. Just go to https://www.patreon.com/whenloveworks and join a tier to support the work and help us continue sharing these tools with you. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S1E8: The 3Cs

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 3, 2020 29:18


    Now that you know how to dethroned the ego, it’s time to take the next step to building positive culture in its stead. Join Cullen and Elitia as they unpack the 3Cs: Communication, Conflict and Companionship. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S1E7: Ego Stunts Relationship Growth

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2019 23:54


    Have you ever aggressively defended your position? And not just the need to be right, but the need to also prove others wrong? Or if you need to have the last word, and will violently spar like your life depends on winning, then you are probably in the clutches of your ego. But don't fret, no worries at all. In this episode, Cullen and Elitia share great tools on how to reign that ego in. Listen in and then share this episode with everyone you know who may be caught up in ego behavior. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S1E6: Love Leadership

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 20, 2019 22:53


    Are you a love cheapskate? Are you so busy watching the transactions that you're not enjoying your relationships? Then this week's episode is perfect for you! Free yourself from this absolutely draining cycle and get back to enjoying the partner that you chose. Listen in as Cullen & Elitia share the definition of love leadership, the tools to operate as a love leader and 2 obstacles that can get in the way. Put these tools to work in your relationship practice. And as always if you need support being a love leader, visit www.whenloveworks.com to schedule your consultation today. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW Bonus: Ebb & Flow

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 17, 2019 14:01


    In this bonus episode, we discuss a couple of things that usually trip couples up. Listen and Learn When Love Works with Cullen and Elitia because it's important to know what these inevitabilities are so you aren't surprised when they show up in your relationship. Change is real within every relationship. That's why we don't want the ebb and flow that will result from that change to be a deal breaker. Cullen & Elitia lead you through practice to maintain stability. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre' Rochelle Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S1E5: Build the Relationship of Your Dreams

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2019 27:30


    Did you know you can build whatever type of relationship you desire? Well actually, it takes two. That's why we believe relationships are a great blank slate for those involved. You two can co-create from scratch. But recognize that along the journey as you two are building, conflict will expose what you two need to repurpose for your relationship. In this episode, Cullen & Elitia guide you through this inevitable conflict. You get a working definition and the 3 options for your building process. Then put the tools to work in your relationships. If you need support in building relationship culture, connect with us: The LoveWorks Conference, Couples Toolbox or a Couples Getaway. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com The LoveWorks Conference: http://bit.ly/theloveworks Couples Toolbox: http://bit.ly/wlwpartners Couples Getaway: http://bit.ly/getawayroatan --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S1E4: Love and Fear Can't Coexist

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 6, 2019 22:28


    This week Cullen and Elitia invite you to decide what’s the driving force in your relationships? If it’s not love, then it’s gotta be the other driver, fear. But Love and Fear, cannot coexist so you’re gonna have to choose a side. But when you choose fear, you will inevitably waste energy, time and resources and you create a stressful relationship. No worries, we have you covered. Listen for the key strategy to choosing love over fear. Then put it to work in your weekly practice. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S1E3: Avoid Relationship Apathy

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 29, 2019 28:10


    People do a good job of picking a partner. Then they front-load the relationship with conditions that they believe will make the relationship bulletproof. But love is unconditional. That's why Cullen and Elitia share 5 ways to avoid the relationship apathy that comes with conditional love. Put them to work in your weekly practice. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S1E2: Love or Addiction?

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2019 22:53


    In the last episode you discovered some truths about your relationships. Now that you did the work to get clear about your relationship status, it's time to dig a little deeper. Cullen & Elitia guide you in recognizing which relationships are based in Love or Addiction. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

    WLW S1E1: The MisEducation of Relationships

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2019 19:03


    Listen and Learn When Love Works with Cullen and Elitia. The husband and wife Relationship Coaches uncover the 2 reasons why so many of us suffer from the MisEducation of Relationships. Then they define healthy relationships for you before inviting you to put this definition to work. Take your first step toward healthy relationships with this first practice task. Podcast Song: The Thrill by Tre’Rochelle Editing Producer: Ty Lawson Episode Questions: wlwdevelops@gmail.com --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app --- Send in a voice message: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/message Support this podcast: https://anchor.fm/when-love-works/support

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