Change the Odds

Pastors Kevin Thompson and Ray Johnston sit down with Tv's Dr. Phil and talk about his new book "We've Got Issues." Kevin, Ray, and Phil  address the growing issues with Christianity in America and the importance of being who you are on purpose.

Kevin talks with special guest Dr. Barbara Wilson about what happens in the brain during the different stages of a relationship. Barbara is a Doctor of clinical psychology and the founder of Freedom Bound Communications, and specializes in sexual bonding and healing. 

What does a healthy relationship look like? Many people grow up without having a strong marriage modeled for them so they don't even know what a good marriage is. In this episode, Kevin and Leslie talk about 15 characteristics of a healthy relationship. 

It's Q&A time. Everyone has questions about their relationship, but few people have a place to ask them. We are that place. In this episode, Kevin and Leslie answer questions from listeners. Text Marriage to 56316 to submit your anonymous question for future episodes.

Friendship is the foundation of a healthy marriage. How does one know if their friendship is strong? In this episode Leslie and Kevin look at the ten questions from the Change The Odds Marriage Assessment that deal with the topic of friendship. From trust to time to attention, take the assessment and listen to this discussion to increase your connection with your spouse. For more information about the assessment, go to changetheodds.com

The number one issue in marriage in 2024 is the issue of attention. As major corporations spend billions of dollars to gain our attention those who are often lose are the ones we love the most. In this episode, Kevin and Leslie talk about the issue of attention—why has it become the most important issue in marriage, how do we control where our attention goes, and what to do if your spouse no longer sees you. This is the first topic in the Marriage Assessment used by Change The Odds to determine a couple's friend, partner and lover score.  https://baysidechurchca.typeform.com/to/ov8ygQbu

In Episode 3 of Change the Odds the Podcast, Kevin and Leslie discuss what it means for a couple to become Friends, Partners & Lovers.  

The number of young adults who are delaying marriage has doubled in the last two decades. Why? Leslie and Kevin are joined by Curt Harlow as they discuss the pros and cons of delaying marriage.

Welcome to Change the Odds, the podcast! In this episode, hosts Kevin Thompson and Leslie Johnston dive deep into the crucial topic of attention in relationships. They discuss how attention can make or break a marriage, and why it's essential to create rhythms and mechanisms for quality communication with your spouse. Learn how to recognize and address the issue of 'Marital Attention Deficit Disorder' in your relationship and why it's so important to prioritize your spouse's attention. Discover practical tips on how to initiate conversations with your spouse about the need for more attention and create a system for giving each other the attention you both deserve. Kevin and Leslie share their personal insights and experiences to help you navigate the challenges of modern relationships in a world filled with distractions. If you want to strengthen your marriage and enhance your connection with your partner, this episode is a must-watch. Join the conversation and don't miss out on this valuable advice for building a lasting and fulfilling relationship.