Not Your Mama’s Therapy

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Not Your Mama’s Therapy is our irreverent take on therapy. Hosted by Sarah Card (not a therapist) and Lair Torrent (a licensed marriage and family therapist), we cover all topics related to family therapy, self-therapy, and generally bettering yourself.

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    • Dec 2, 2023 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 43m AVG DURATION
    • 15 EPISODES


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    Latest episodes from Not Your Mama’s Therapy

    How We Lose the Sense of Urgency in a Relationship

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 2, 2023 50:42


    In this episode, we explore the questions: Why do we have a sense of urgency at the beginning of a relationship and when things are falling apart? How can we remember the heart we won is the heart we want to keep? Not Your Mama's Therapy is an irreverent but also serious take on therapy. Hosted by Sarah Card (not a therapist) and Lair Torrent (a licensed marriage and family therapist), we cover all topics related to family therapy, self-therapy, and generally bettering yourself. You can find Lair Torrent at lairtorrent.com or on Instagram at @lairtorrentholistictherapist  

    Identifying Abuse

    Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2023 47:01


    In this episode, Lair and Sarah talk about mental and emotional abuse and how to identify it. This is the type of abuse that leaves marks that look like scars on the inside. 

    Befriending the Self and Monkeys

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2023 41:47


    In this episode, Lair and Sarah discuss how to process our emotions, turn toward ourselves rather than away, and the pitfalls of hanging with monkeys.

    Introverts vs. Extroverts

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2023 41:21


    The ins and the outs and the ups and the downs of introvert/extrovert relationships.

    The Downside of Healing

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 27, 2022 41:36


    In this episode, Sarah and Lair discuss the trials, tribulations, and pitfalls of healing. That's right, healing is not all puppy dogs and rainbows. 

    Sexy Over the Long Haul

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 13, 2022 50:09


    Lair and Sarah spice it up this episode where we learn that good sex might actually be linked to the story/narratives you tell about your partner.

    Home for the Holidays

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 22, 2022 57:49


    This episode is a doomsday preppers kit for going home for the holidays. Lair and Sarah discuss the trials and tribulations of spending an inordinate amount of time with family. 

    Ask A Therapist: Part 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 31, 2022 41:31


    Lair and Sarah tackle big questions around remote therapy and anal bleaching.  

    Part 1: Ask a Therapist

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2022 29:04


    In this episode, our listeners ask the questions they have always wanted to ask a therapist, for example, do therapists go to therapy? We also answer the question, why is Sarah not getting any dick pics?

    The Authentic Self

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 3, 2022 34:36


    Lair and Sarah discuss the authentic self and pillow talk. 

    The Practice of Personal Responsibility

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 22, 2022 42:03


    Personal responsibility is the foundation for all of the practices. It's the skeleton key and all-access pass to a better relationship. 

    The Practice of Choosing

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 9, 2022 45:35


    In this episode, we discuss Sarah's life-threatening wasp sting and why the practice of choosing is the heart and soul of a relationship.

    The Parts of Self

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 7, 2022 43:46


    In this episode, Lair and Sarah discuss the impact of our parts of self on relationships and how his part "Mitch" showed up to a showdown with a shark.  

    The Practice of Love

    Play Episode Listen Later May 18, 2022 44:03


    Lair and Sarah discuss Lair's new book, The Practice of Love. In this conversation, they explore the five practices that make relationships work.

    Meet Lair (LMFT) and Sarah (Not a LMFT)

    Play Episode Listen Later May 27, 2021 40:02


    Not Your Mama's Therapy is an irreverent therapy podcast where we swap couches and pillows for lawnchairs and beers and talk about the real sh*t that goes on in our minds. We wanted to talk just a little about who we are, what our goals are for the show, and why you should listen if you like therapy without the filter. 

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