Podcasts about personal responsibility

The former UK Prime Minister and Chancellor joins Yonit and Jonathan for the latest of our Unholy Conversations — on the void populist nationalists have moved into, on the difference between hope and optimism, on the father whose projector slides taught him the kings of Israel before the kings of England, and on the Middle East peace deal he watched come apart in 2009. Chapters: 00:06 Introduction to Gordon Brown and His New Book 05:48 The Connection Between Nationalism and Community Decline 12:46 Personal Responsibility and Moral Leadership 17:23 Addressing Anti-Semitism and Global Issues 22:41 Hope vs. Optimism in Times of Crisis 30:13 Britain's Role in Global Peace Efforts 32:27 Personal Reflections and Motivations of Gordon Brown

What does it take to go from working as a candy store cashier to becoming a global CEO? In this episode, Christina Lecuyer sits down with Steve Felder, a seasoned business leader who has lived in seven countries and led organizations across 23 markets in industries including shipping, logistics, and cybersecurity. Steve shares the unexpected twists that shaped his career and the lessons he's learned about the power of relationships, staying adaptable, and remaining open to opportunities. Now redefining success through entrepreneurship, travel, and personal well-being, Steve opens up about building a life on his own terms—including his popular “One Week, One City” LinkedIn travel series. This is a conversation about taking chances, staying curious, and creating a definition of success that evolves with you. About Steve Felder Steve Felder is a global executive, board advisor, investor, and former multinational CEO with 25+ years of leadership experience across North America, Europe, Africa, the Middle East, and Asia. Having lived and worked in seven countries and led businesses across 23 markets, Steve specializes in growth, transformation, international expansion, and building high-performing organizations. Most recently, he served as President of ZIM Canada, following 17 years with Maersk in senior leadership roles across Africa, the Middle East, and Asia. Today, Steve advises companies, boards, and investors across industries including cybersecurity, AI, aviation, sustainability, logistics technology, and M&A. He holds an MBA from the University of South Africa and completed executive education at INSEAD. Connect with Steve on LinkedIn If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating and leave us a comment on iTunes CONNECT WITH CHRISTINA! Instagram LinkedIn Christinalecuyer.com Book a Free Clarity Call Book Christina For Your Next Workshop

Karol Markowicz sits down with Kevin Smith, founder of Loud Majority and host of Loud Majority Live, for a wide-ranging conversation about grassroots activism, New York politics, the culture wars, and the power of getting involved at the local level. Kevin shares how the COVID lockdown era transformed him from a delivery driver into a political activist, beginning with Trump car parades across Long Island before expanding into school board races, local elections, campaigns, and political media. He explains why COVID restrictions awakened many Americans to the importance of local government—and why changing a school board or city council can sometimes have a more immediate impact on your life than national politics. Karol and Kevin also discuss the political transformation of Long Island, why so many New Yorkers are leaving the state, personal responsibility in an era of economic frustration, the WNBA and the culture wars, celebrities getting political, the decline of Hollywood entertainment, and whether American culture is beginning to shift away from ideological preaching. Plus, Kevin offers his prediction for the rise of economic populism and shares his advice for anyone who wants to improve their life: focus on what you can control, take responsibility, and don't be afraid to stand up for what you believe.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

In this episode, multi-business owner and mom of three Dani Lynnes joins the show to discuss her journey growing a seven-figure childcare center in North Dakota, alongside managing an Airbnb, a farm, a tote rental company, and a family sports schedule. Dani opens up about the pivotal moment that forced her to shift from a hands-on director to a systems-oriented COO, leading to the creation of "the dashboard"—a Trello-based organization system that helps busy moms and entrepreneurs streamline their lives, reduce decision fatigue, and reclaim their freedom. She also shares her raw perspective on navigating the comparison traps of social media, leaning into faith after the sudden loss of her father, and learning to prioritize health, sleep, and alignment over superficial markers of success. About Dani Lynnes Dani Lynnes is a business owner, systems strategist, and creator of The Dashboard—a simple operating system that helps established entrepreneurs organize their priorities, reduce overwhelm, and make confident decisions. As the owner of multiple businesses, including a successful childcare center, real estate ventures, and other entrepreneurial endeavors, Dani understands what it takes to balance growth, leadership, and family without sacrificing what matters most. Known for her practical, no-fluff approach, Dani teaches business owners how to create systems that bring clarity, increase productivity, and free up mental space so they can focus on the work that truly moves the needle. Her mission is simple: help entrepreneurs stop managing chaos and start leading with intention. Connect with Dani on LinkedIn Follow Dani on Instagram Check out Dani's freebie 30 Minute Weekly Reset   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating  and leave us a comment on iTunes   CONNECT WITH CHRISTINA! Instagram LinkedIn Christinalecuyer.com Book a Free Clarity Call Book Christina For Your Next Workshop

'Should' is a sketchy word. Not only does it keep us in a place of limbo, somewhere between doing things and not doing things, it also creates a lot of shame around our lack of focus and momentum. And if there's one thing we know about shame, it's that it will never move us forward into a better version of ourselves. Shame always shuts us down and even creates a downward spiral. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #39 Guilt & Shame on Apple on Spotify #55 Don't Should Yourself on Apple on Spotify #70 Self Reflection and Self Coaching on Apple on Spotify #83 Self-Honesty on Apple on Spotify #91 Personal Responsibility on Apple on Spotify #104 Cultivating Self-Love on Apple on Spotify #105 Self-Love in Our Past, Present, and Future on Apple on Spotify #106 Fierce Self-Love on Apple on Spotify #107 Why Our Thoughts Are So Important on Apple on Spotify #130 Exploring Our Darkness on Apple on Spotify #143 Stuck in Perfectionism on Apple on Spotify #186 Are You Committed or Just Interested?  on Apple  on Spotify #225 Shame, Blame, and Disempowerment on Apple on Spotify #305 When We Don't Feel Good Enough on Apple on Spotify #327 Learning to Love Your Human Self on Apple on Spotify #351 Grace, Shame, and Letting Yourself Off the Hook on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) - Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com Episode 4128: Steve Kamb explains why personal responsibility is the skill that every other improvement depends on. He separates responsibility from fault, arguing that a situation does not have to be someone's fault for it to be theirs to fix, and describes how that shift removes the need to wait for anyone else's permission to start changing. The takeaway is an honest audit of the areas where blame has been passed outward, followed by small steps toward personal growth. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://www.nerdfitness.com/blog/challenge-yourself-upgrade-yourself/ Quotes to ponder: "Once we stop blaming outside forces for our misfortunes or predicaments, there's only one place to look: the mirror!" "Because you are the reason that you are where you are, you ALSO get to be the reason that you move forward." "Identify the things in your life that you're unhappy with, then start taking steps, even teeny tiny ones, to start improving them." Optimal Living Daily is a daily personal development and self-improvement podcast where we narrate the best self-help articles on minimalism, productivity, and intentional living, read to you by a professional narrator so you can live your best life a little more every day. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Dr. Robert Lustig is a neuroendocrinologist, pediatrician, and bestselling author who has spent 45 years watching children get sicker despite his best efforts to stop it. His work connects the dots between ultra-processed food, mitochondrial dysfunction, dopamine hijacking, and the chronic stress epidemic in a way that is impossible to dismiss. In this conversation, we explore what he calls the hostage brain, what happens to a nervous system under sustained biochemical assault, and why so much of what we call personal failure is actually a systems problem.What We Dive Into:1. When chronic pain, emotional or physical, goes unresolved, the brain reaches for anything that spikes dopamine to quiet it. Over time, tolerance builds and neurons die. Lustig's point is that this is not a personal weakness. The food, the screens, and the stress have conspired to put nearly all of us in some version of this state.2. Dopamine drives wanting. Serotonin drives contentment. The loneliness epidemic is not simply a social problem but a neurochemical one. Cortisol reduces serotonin, dopamine antagonizes it, and ultra-processed food depletes the tryptophan needed to make it. 3. Lustig draws a clear line between primary needs, love, sleep, real food, and secondary desires, status, power, accumulation. Meeting the basics first is both the simplest and most radical act available.Know Thyself, but not by yourself. A guided space to return home to yourself.https://www.knowthyselfcollective.com✨THANK YOU TO OUR SPONSORS:https://www.mudwtr.com/knowthyselfUse code KNOWTHYSELF for up to 43% off sitewidehttps://www.oneskin.co/KNOWTHYSELF Use code KNOWTHYSELF for 15% off OneSkin___________00:00 Intro02:02 What Is Hostage Brain?04:47 The Loss of Stress Resilience09:15 Dopamine, Tolerance, and the Addicted Brain11:26 The Five Causes of Hijacked Biology13:08 The Amygdala: Fear Center, Air Traffic Controller, Buckshot16:07 The Four Brakes on the Amygdala and Why They're Failing22:13 From Real Food to Ultra-Processed Food: The Five Changes23:51 Sugar: The Big Kahuna29:57 Mitochondria, Body Temperature, and the Energy Crisis32:33 The Corporate Machine: Big Food, Big Pharma, and the Atlas Network36:26 Does Big Food Collude with Big Pharma?40:51 Children Getting Sicker: The Systemic Failure46:10 "Personal Responsibility" Is a Tobacco Industry Invention51:44 Freedom of Choice Is Really Freedom to Blame53:11 Loneliness vs. Solitude: The Serotonin Distinction56:52 You Can't Love with an Inflamed Brain57:25 The Gut-Brain Axis and the Light of Tryptophan1:03:13 Orange vs. Orange Juice: Why Fiber Is the Point1:07:44 BioLumen and Making Ultra-Processed Food Healthy1:16:14 Insulin, the Three Fat Depots, and Thin Outside Fat Inside1:25:10 How to Reduce Liver Fat1:26:19 Sugar, ADHD, and the Prefrontal Cortex1:26:41 Practical Steps: Phones, Plastics, and Environmental Toxins1:33:18 The Four C's: Connect, Contribute, Cope, Cook1:41:29 Community Questions: ATP, Cognition, and the Biological Basis of Consciousness1:45:27 What Gives Dr. Lustig Hope1:47:38 Closing Message: Tend to Yourself First___________✨MORE FROM DR. ROBERT LUSTIG↳Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/DrRobertLustig/↳Metabolical Book: https://metabolical.com↳https://robertlustig.comSTUDIES MENTIONED:↳https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/41880620/↳https://supreme.justia.com/cases/federal/us/505/504/↳https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/abs/pii/S0306987726001544

What happens when a high achiever learns that success isn't just about pushing harder—it's about thinking differently? In this episode, Christina sits down with renowned executive coach John Ryan to unpack the mindset, tools, and experiences that have shaped his coaching career. They dive into the power of NLP, the hidden challenges that often come with high achievement, and why genuine human connection may be more important than ever in an increasingly tech-driven world. This is a conversation about success, self-awareness, and what it really takes to perform at your highest level, without losing yourself in the process. About John Ryan John Ryan, MBA, MSW, PHD is a leading expert in leadership, communication, and change. He is a Certified Master Trainer of Neuro-Linguistic Programming and the Founder of NLP Unlimited™. John has 30 years of experience in the training and development industry, logging over 2,000 days of training and countless hours of coaching, empowering his students and clients to expand their impact, influence, and income.  Connect with John on LinkedIn Follow John's Youtube channel   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating  and leave us a comment on iTunes   CONNECT WITH CHRISTINA! Instagram LinkedIn Christinalecuyer.com Book a Free Clarity Call Book Christina For Your Next Workshop

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What really changes when you go from $1 million to $100 million? Surprisingly, not much. In this episode, Christina explores why bigger businesses don't necessarily mean fewer problems, more freedom, or greater peace. From payroll and hiring to leadership loneliness and personal pressure, CEOs face many of the same challenges, just at a larger scale. The real difference? Knowing how to make clear, decisive decisions under pressure and keep moving forward. If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating  and leave us a comment on iTunes   CONNECT WITH CHRISTINA! Instagram LinkedIn Christinalecuyer.com Book a Free Clarity Call Book Christina For Your Next Workshop

In this heartfelt conversation, Dr. Laura welcomes Elizabeth Hamilton-Guarino and Dr. Katie Eastman, co-authors of The Peace Guidebook, to explore what it means to cultivate inner peace during uncertain and divisive times. Elizabeth, cofounder of Best Ever You Network and leader in personal development, and Dr. Katie, a grief and change expert and licensed therapist, drew on their experience when the simple but profound question, “What does the world need right now?” led them to create a practical guide for fostering peace from the inside out. Together, they and Dr. Laura explore why peace begins within each of us, how it ripples through our relationships and communities, and why connection, compassion, and understanding are more important than ever.  Dr. Laura examines the challenges of navigating conflict, judgment, grief, workplace tension, and the growing sense of disconnection many of us feel today. Elizabeth and Dr. Katie share practical insights from The Peace Guidebook, including the importance of showing up with love, pausing before reacting, and remembering that every person is carrying struggles we may not see. The conversation offers a hopeful perspective on humanity's future and practical ways to choose peace, even in difficult moments, while reminding us that meaningful change begins one person at a time.  "I believe that we will get better at inclusivity, diversity, connection, compassion, acceptance, and love. Unconditional love. That is my hope for the world, for the future." - Dr. Katie Eastman "Peace is not a weakness. It's not passive. It's not silence. It's power. And it's our participation." - Elizabeth Hamilton-Guarino About Elizabeth Hamilton-Guarino: Elizabeth Hamilton-Guarino is one of the world's leading voices in personal development and peaceful leadership, inspiring a global movement toward authenticity, compassion, and change. She is a bestselling and award-winning author, certified Master Coach, and cofounder of BEST EVER YOU NETWORK, a global multimedia platform reaching millions. For over two decades, she has helped individuals, teams, and organizations navigate change and cultivate resilience through her compassionate and practical approach to transformation. The author of several acclaimed books, Elizabeth's work redefines change, success, and peace as daily practices rooted in awareness, aligned action, and shared humanity. With a degree in journalism from St. Ambrose University and leadership studies at Harvard Business School, Elizabeth brings both professional depth and lived experience to her work. Contact: Website: ElizabethGuarino.com Website: Compliance4.com About Dr. Katie Eastman: Dr. Katie Eastman is an internationally acclaimed grief and change expert, licensed therapist, Master Grief Coach, cofounder of Re-Create Coaching and Counseling, and co-author of The Peace Guidebook. With over four decades of experience guiding individuals, families, organizations, and communities through life's most complex transitions, Dr. Katie Eastman is recognized globally for her unwavering presence, emotional depth, and ability to transform heartbreak into healing. As a speaker, coach, and consultant, Dr. Katie has impacted thousands around the world through her masterful teachings on anticipatory grief, emotional resilience, compassionate leadership, and the psychology of transformation. She is also a passionate voice in the global peace movement, reminding us that peaceful living is not the absence of pain, but the presence of love, self-trust, and human connection. Contact: Website: DrKatieEastman.com   Resources: BestEverYou.com The Percolate Peace Project: PercolatePeace.com The Peace Guidebook: How to Cultivate Hope, Healing, and Harmony for the Good of Humankind by Elizabeth Hamilton-Guarino and Dr. Katie Eastman Percolate: Let Your Best Self Filter Through by Elizabeth Hamilton-Guarino and Dr. Katie Eastman Harness Your PromisePower: Change Your Life, Transform the World by Matthew Cossolotto   “I Wish I'd Quit Sooner: Practical Strategies for Navigating and Escaping a Toxic Boss” by Dr. Laura Hambley Lovett   Dr. Laura on LinkedIn Where Work Meets Life™ on YouTube Learn more about Dr. Laura on her website: https://drlaura.live For more resources, look into Dr. Laura's organizations:  Canada Career Counselling Synthesis Psychology Order Dr. Laura's new book today: I Wish I'd Quit Sooner: Practical Strategies for Navigating a Toxic Boss Hosted by Simplecast, an AdsWizz company. See pcm.adswizz.com for information about our collection and use of personal data for advertising.

Today on Uncommon Sense with Ginny Robinson, I'm addressing the divorcee community and I'm going straight to the Bible.Why does God say He hates divorce? What does Scripture actually teach about marriage, covenant, divorce, and the responsibilities of husbands and wives? And why have divorce rates become so incredibly high, particularly as wives increasingly initiate divorce over reasons that, from a biblical perspective, are trivial, selfish, or completely unbiblical?This is not a message designed to just shame people who have experienced divorce. It is a challenge to the culture that has normalized abandoning marriage whenever things become difficult, inconvenient, or uncomfortable. We need to be willing to distinguish between legitimate biblical grounds for divorce and the endless list of modern excuses we've created to justify walking away from a sacred covenant.And that's not all we're discussing.I'm also talking about Donald Trump's continued failures, the gap between political promises and political reality, and why Americans should be questioning the decisions being made in our name.Plus, we're talking about the Iran War and why I believe this conflict is unnecessary and why Americans should be asking whether another foreign war actually serves the interests of the United States.Marriage. Divorce. Biblical truth. Trump. Iran. War. Political accountability.I'm saying what I believe needs to be said, even when it isn't popular (as usual).--https://www.youversion.com/bible-app

The Metaphysical Hour with Julia Cannon and Tracie Mahan and Question Master Tiffanny Lion's Gate, Soul Timelines, and the Everyday Mirrors of Metaphysical Life Julia Cannon, Tracie Mahan, and Tiffany explore Lion's Gate energy, conscious manifesting, personal power, generational healing, parallel timelines, soul aspects, animal mirrors, QHHT, Soul Speak, and the everyday signs that reveal how deeply metaphysical life is woven into ordinary experience. The Metaphysical Hour Opens With Energy, Humor, and Global Connection This episode of The Metaphysical Hour, broadcast on August 7, 2026, opens with Julia Cannon, Tracie Mahan, and Tiffany welcoming viewers into a lively, playful, spiritually focused conversation. The hosts invite viewers to share where they are watching from, creating a sense of a global energetic grid lighting up around the world. Lion's Gate and the Power of Collective Focus The first major topic is the Lion's Gate portal, which Tracie describes as a major energetic gateway connected with manifesting, creating, and the 8/8 portal. She notes that she has posted a Lion's Gate journey on her website, Facebook, and YouTube for anyone who wants to use it. Julia and Tracie discuss the idea that while there may be astrological or energetic factors involved, much of the power comes from collective human focus. They emphasize that people are always creating through their thoughts, and the Lion's Gate simply offers a concentrated opportunity to focus on what is desired rather than on old patterns, worries, or “woe is me” energy. Viewers Around the World and a Portal-Like Sun Image Tiffany reads off viewer locations including Florida, Seattle, Arkansas, Australia, Quebec, Tasmania, San Antonio, Tucson, San Francisco, Wisconsin, Nova Scotia, Kansas, Sweden, Arizona, North Dakota, Indiana, Michigan, Iceland, Scotland, Ohio, and more. The hosts respond by describing the audience as lights shining around the world, spreading outward in an expanded field. Tracie then shares a story about taking a selfie near a pond and later noticing that the sun in the photo looked like a portal with rainbow energy coming out of it. The image becomes an example of the episode's recurring theme: extraordinary signs may be happening around people even when their attention is elsewhere. Generational Healing, Personal Responsibility, and the Ripple Effect An audience question about a QHHT session leads Julia and Tracie into a deep discussion of generational and ancestral healing. The viewer explains that a practitioner asked the higher self to heal everything across all generations, but the higher self responded that each generation is responsible for its own healing. Julia emphasizes that the primary responsibility is to heal oneself, not to take on everyone else's lessons. Tracie adds that healing can occur across all time, space, dimensions, realities, timelines, and versions of a person, but both hosts stress discernment, free will, belief systems, and the idea that personal healing naturally ripples outward when appropriate. Free Will, Mirrors, and Stopping Patterns From Moving Forward Julia and Tracie further explain that people cannot take away the lessons another soul has chosen, whether that soul is living, ancestral, or in another dimension. They compare this to relationships and manifestation: one cannot force healing or outcomes for another person if that person is not ready. Tracie discusses the idea of volunteers or souls entering certain family lineages to stop patterns, such as abuse, from continuing forward. In that sense, the work is not about fixing everyone in the past, but about choosing differently now, becoming a healed example, and no longer passing a pattern forward through one's own life. Parallel Timelines, Soul Aspects, and the Infinite Self Another audience question asks whether, when someone dies in one timeline, they also die in other timelines. Julia answers no, explaining that other aspects of the soul may continue on their own trajectories, join another version, or return to the oversoul. Tracie shares a personal story about unexplained pain on her right side that she connected during a session to another aspect of herself, a teenage girl in a car accident who died in another timeline. Once the connection was seen and cleared, Tracie says the physical symptoms and a fear response connected to left turns disappeared. The hosts use this to discuss parallel lives, threads of the universe, soul tapestries, and the vastness of the oversoul. Awakening Abilities and the Gradual Opening of the Doors Julia reflects on spiritual abilities by recalling an image she received years earlier of two French doors barely cracked open, with only a small line of light coming through. At that time, she says, the opening represented the beginning of abilities coming in. Now, she feels the doors have opened more, though still gradually, because a sudden full opening would be overwhelming. The hosts discuss how people often want all their abilities at once, but spiritual expansion unfolds at a pace the soul has chosen. They remind listeners that people are not their experiences or emotions; they are souls having experiences. Everyday Metaphysics: Lawns, Deep Cleaning, and Animal Mirrors The episode becomes especially practical when Tracie describes watering a patchy lawn while preparing to move. She realizes the lawn may be mirroring something within her: green and lush around the edges but empty or ungrown in the middle. As she reflects, she connects the yard work to deep cleaning, purging, and examining hidden areas of her life. Julia explains that this is metaphysics in everyday life, not something separate or lofty. A later question about an aggressive cat leads the hosts to suggest that pets often mirror the energy of the person closest to them, especially unexpressed anger, frustration, agitation, or inner tension. QHHT, Soul Speak, Retreats, and Closing Love Near the end, Julia and Tracie direct listeners to several resources. Julia mentions QHHTOfficial.com for sessions, practitioner training, and an upcoming retreat in Santa Fe, New Mexico, as well as SoulSpeakOfficial.com for understanding the language of the body and related metaphysical patterns. Tracie directs listeners to her website for the Lion's Gate journey and other information. Tiffany closes with the simple parting message, “Love one another,” and the hosts echo that message with affection, gratitude, and goodnight wishes to the audience.

Text the show! A 16-year-old California lifeguard saved a 10-year-old boy from drowning in massive surf.The country celebrated the rescue.His mother celebrated something else: the training that made the rescue possible.When people tried to give her son money, she redirected them toward the Junior Lifeguards program that had spent years preparing him for the moment everyone else saw on video.That got Chad thinking:Why do we spend so much attention on the rescue and so little on the readiness?On this Freedom Friday, Chad follows that question from Junior Lifeguards and America's lifeguard shortage to CPR, Stop the Bleed, hunter education, emergency preparedness, and the invisible instructors who quietly create competent citizens.He also tells the story of flipping a raft on Oregon's Deschutes River with his 70- and 74-year-old parents — and realizing that training he hadn't consciously thought about in decades was still there when he needed it.The larger question:What should every American know before they're handed a high school diploma?Not politically.Practically.Because there's always a gap between the emergency and the professionals arriving.Those minutes belong to whoever is standing there.Freedom isn't only permission. Freedom is capability.

(0:00) Intro(1:39) The Biology and Psychology of Blame Avoidance(1:44) How the Amygdala Triggers the Brain's Danger Response(2:18) When Your Reputation, Job, or Credibility Feels Threatened(2:41) How the Brain Tries to Escape Responsibility(3:07) Controlling the Conversation to Avoid Blame(3:35) Denial as a Psychological Defense Mechanism(3:54) Blaming Others to Protect Yourself(4:01) The Two-Step Process Behind Blame Avoidance(4:16) The Brain's Reaction vs. the Mind's Response(4:38) Blame-Shifting and Basic Morality(5:02) Training Yourself to Take Ownership of Mistakes(5:21) How Parenting Shapes Subconscious Responsibility(5:50) Understanding the Locus of Control Test(6:20) Self-Serving Bias Explained(6:40) How to Interrupt Your First Defensive Reaction(7:05) How Self-Awareness Slows Automatic Reactions(7:56) Why Adults Need Emotional Catharsis(8:17) What Catharsis Really Means(9:49) Can We Control Self-Serving Bias?(10:13) Personal Responsibility and Locus of Control Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Someone else's attitude can affect you before you even realize it. In this episode, Pastor Mark Q shares how to recognize when you are carrying someone else's emotions, stay connected without matching their intensity, and know when a bad moment has become a pattern that needs to be addressed. In this episode: Recognizing when someone else's attitude is changing yours Staying calm without becoming cold or disconnected Caring about what someone feels without carrying it Knowing when an attitude needs to be addressed You may not control the attitude someone brings into the room, but you get to decide what you bring back. Recommended Resources Crucial Conversations by Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan and Al Switzler Practical tools for staying calm, communicating clearly and handling difficult conversations when emotions are high. Switch by Chip Heath and Dan Heath A helpful look at why change is difficult and how to help people move forward when emotions, habits and resistance get in the way.

In this episode of Daily Creative, we reflect on the story of mathematician Andrew Wiles, whose years-long journey to solve Fermat's Last Theorem becomes a metaphor for creative perseverance. We examine how our attention is constantly siphoned away in small increments—a phenomenon dubbed "human fracking"—leaving us with little space for deep, transformative thought. We challenge listeners to resist the lure of constant stimulation and instead carve out “the long moment”: uninterrupted stretches where true insight and creativity can take root. The conversation encourages embracing discomfort, boredom, and the slow, often frustrating process that underpins all meaningful creative work.Five Key LearningsThe Power of Extended Focus: Meaningful breakthroughs rarely occur in quick bursts; they emerge after prolonged periods of deep attention and discomfort.Human Fracking and Attention: Our attention is eroded not by grand distractions, but by countless tiny interruptions that collectively damage our ability to think deeply.Short vs. Long Moments: Quick, stimulating inputs feel productive but only sustained “long moments” create the conditions for valuable ideas to develop.Boredom's Role in Creativity: Boredom isn't emptiness; it's the necessary soil for deep thought and originality. Allowing ourselves to be bored is often the catalyst for genuine insight.Personal Responsibility for Creative Space: No one will protect your uninterrupted creative time for you. We must actively defend and cultivate the conditions required for our best work to surface.Get full interviews and bonus content for free! Just join the list at DailyCreativePlus.com.

What does it take to turn a passion into a global brand? In this episode, Christina sits down with professional golfer, world-renowned trick shot artist, and entrepreneur Tania Tare to unpack her incredible journey from the golf course to social media stardom. Tania shares how viral content opened unexpected doors, the challenges she faced building a business and navigating international opportunities, and how she's now helping creators and brands collaborate in smarter ways. Whether you're an entrepreneur, content creator, or simply looking for inspiration to think bigger, this conversation is packed with insights on creativity, resilience, and building a career on your own terms. About Tania Tare Tania Tare is a professional golfer and one of the world's most recognizable golf trick shot artists. Originally from New Zealand, she gained international attention for her creative cup trick videos, which quickly went viral across Instagram and other social media platforms. Today, Tania combines her passion for golf with entertaining, innovative content that has captivated millions of viewers and inspired golfers around the world. Connect with Tania on LinkedIn Follow Tania on Instagram   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating  and leave us a comment on iTunes   CONNECT WITH CHRISTINA! Instagram LinkedIn Christinalecuyer.com Book a Free Clarity Call Book Christina For Your Next Workshop

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) — Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: ⁠⁠https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join⁠ Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4102: Chris Guillebeau argues that meaningful success begins with personal responsibility: showing up consistently, owning both failures and victories, and refusing to wait for someone else to create the life you want. Through personal stories of rejection, unexpected opportunities, and hard-earned perspective, Guillebeau shows how setbacks can become the experiences that ultimately lead to a more purposeful and fulfilling path. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://chrisguillebeau.com/personal-responsibility-and-showing-up/ Quotes to ponder: “Remember this: many people can help you achieve success, but no one else is RESPONSIBLE for your success.” “Sometimes people let you down because they suck. Sometimes you're just not ready. Other times, they let you down to give you the chance to be great without their help.” “Luck is like a winning lottery ticket, if it comes your way, might as well cash it in. In the meantime, better to focus on what you can really influence.” Episode references: Korean Air: https://www.koreanair.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) — Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: ⁠⁠https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join⁠ Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4102: Chris Guillebeau argues that meaningful success begins with personal responsibility: showing up consistently, owning both failures and victories, and refusing to wait for someone else to create the life you want. Through personal stories of rejection, unexpected opportunities, and hard-earned perspective, Guillebeau shows how setbacks can become the experiences that ultimately lead to a more purposeful and fulfilling path. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://chrisguillebeau.com/personal-responsibility-and-showing-up/ Quotes to ponder: “Remember this: many people can help you achieve success, but no one else is RESPONSIBLE for your success.” “Sometimes people let you down because they suck. Sometimes you're just not ready. Other times, they let you down to give you the chance to be great without their help.” “Luck is like a winning lottery ticket, if it comes your way, might as well cash it in. In the meantime, better to focus on what you can really influence.” Episode references: Korean Air: https://www.koreanair.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Get the 200+ Page Optimal Living Daily Workbook (PDF) — Free. Want to turn today's episode into an actionable plan? Join the Optimal Living Weekly newsletter and I'll send you our 200-page digital workbook immediately. It's packed with the best takeaways from the show, formatted for easy reading and implementation at home. Get your free PDF workbook here: ⁠⁠https://oldpodcast.eo.page/join⁠ Discover all of the podcasts in our network, search for specific episodes, get the Optimal Living Daily workbook, and learn more at: OLDPodcast.com. Episode 4102: Chris Guillebeau argues that meaningful success begins with personal responsibility: showing up consistently, owning both failures and victories, and refusing to wait for someone else to create the life you want. Through personal stories of rejection, unexpected opportunities, and hard-earned perspective, Guillebeau shows how setbacks can become the experiences that ultimately lead to a more purposeful and fulfilling path. Read along with the original article(s) here: https://chrisguillebeau.com/personal-responsibility-and-showing-up/ Quotes to ponder: “Remember this: many people can help you achieve success, but no one else is RESPONSIBLE for your success.” “Sometimes people let you down because they suck. Sometimes you're just not ready. Other times, they let you down to give you the chance to be great without their help.” “Luck is like a winning lottery ticket, if it comes your way, might as well cash it in. In the meantime, better to focus on what you can really influence.” Episode references: Korean Air: https://www.koreanair.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Sally and Zach Maxwell introduced eight pillars. Jenni and Daniel spent the next number of days talking about all of them. This bonus episode is what happens when two therapists who are also married to each other sit down to unpack a framework that resonated deeply- finding the places where the Maxwell pillars align with their own clinical work, the places where they want to push further, and the places where an entirely new conversation opens up. The first thread is about why frameworks matter at all. Daniel makes the case that most couples stumble into relationship rather than building it intentionally, and that having named categories for what you're working on is not cold or clinical. It is the scaffolding that allows the emotional, spontaneous, genuinely alive parts of a relationship to exist without collapsing under their own weight. Jenni responds with a vision of the Maxwell pillars printed on the refrigerator, a cheat sheet for the OCD brain, the ADD brain, and every brain that has ever been in a relationship and lost the thread of where the conversation was supposed to be going. The second thread is about authenticity, and it starts with Jenni noticing something about Zach Maxwell. He is not fluffy or effusive. He doesn't do the rom-com version of showing up. And yet he is clearly exactly the right person for Sally. Daniel's answer is one of the most quietly important things he says in any episode this season: what matters is not that you show up the way your partner imagines you should. It's that you show up wholeheartedly in your own way, because a partner performing someone else's version of love is not actually giving you love at all. Your partner can feel the difference. Every time. The third thread is the one that deserves its own full episode, and Jenni says so directly. Sex as a transaction. Not the dismissive, joyless version of that phrase. The genuinely useful reframe: I am going to offer you pleasure, and in exchange you are going to offer me pleasure. And if you can surrender to that- if you can allow yourself to be present in the transaction rather than resentful of it, something shifts. This leads to Daniel's homework assignment built around a car dealership analogy that somehow perfectly captures everything. The narrative you bring to a transaction determines the experience you have of it. Where in your relationship are you walking in convinced you're going to get the short end of the stick? And what would shift if you walked in grateful instead? And it leads to the line that became the title of this episode. How many women have sat across from Jenni in her office and said some version of: I feel like I'm just a receptacle. Like he's using me. And Jenni's clinical response, delivered with complete warmth and zero apology is the truest and funniest reframe she has: he can masturbate with his hand. He is choosing you because he wants connection with you. He likes you. And your vagina. And those two things are allowed to coexist. This is Jenni and Daniel at their most themselves. Thinking out loud, finishing each other's sentences, disagreeing slightly, and landing somewhere true.See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

What if the quality of your life is determined by the quality of your decisions? In this episode, Christina sits down with Guffy Wright to unpack the powerful principles behind his upcoming book, Attach High. Together, they explore how your values shape every decision you make, why vulnerability is a leadership superpower, and how seeking validation from the right places can transform your personal and professional life. If you're ready to make more intentional decisions, lead with greater clarity, and create lasting impact, this conversation is packed with practical wisdom you won't want to miss. About Guffy Wright Guffy Wright is the National Sales Leader and a member of the Board of Directors at The Mahoney Group, one of the largest insurance brokerages in the country. After dropping out of college at 22, he joined the company and has spent the past 19 years building an exceptional leadership career. Today, Guffy is passionate about helping others make better decisions, lead with purpose, and achieve lasting success in both business and life. Learn more about Guffy's book Attach High on his website Connect with Guffy on LinkedIn   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating  and leave us a comment on iTunes   CONNECT WITH CHRISTINA! Instagram LinkedIn Christinalecuyer.com Book a Free Clarity Call Book Christina For Your Next Workshop

“Send Coach John a message”This episode comes to you thanks to a remarkable difference maker named Sarah Nauser (@SarahNauser) and she has a lot to share with everyone due to what she's been through in her life. I'm going to read to you a post that I saw that really hammered home a reminder for me and my life.  I hope it does the same for you too.  Check her out as she's helping so many people despite (and due to) her battle.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

“Send Coach John a message”I found a great post from John O'Leary for his Monday Morning Motivation. It's a long post, but it sure is worth connecting with.  Find it HERE. It sure does hit home for us to find the lessons here dealing with regrets, those people we love, memories, life lessons, the past, forgiveness, conversations, and a ton of other life moments we all go through.  The key is how do we stay connected to things that John is reminding us about. How can we start living in the moment with things like what he's talking about.  Do me a favor, listen to John O'Leary sharing his thoughts as he's much better at it than I am.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. ** 

“Send Coach John a message”After coming out of the gym and on my way to another errand, I heard a commercial on the radio (yes… I still listen to the radio at times), Kirk Gibson was in this commercial and he was speaking to how he deals with having Parkinson's disease.  He said every day he wakes up, it's another chance to win the day! What an incredible attitude that I know I need to take for sure!! There are so many people out there that we can learn from - so many that I know I need to learn from.  Kirk Gibson has had some great plays in his day - his help with his Parkinson's foundation is his best play too! Find a connection here:  Kirk Gibson Foundation for Parkinson's (@KirkGibsonFdn)  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

In this fun, fast-paced solo episode, Christina takes the hot seat for a candid rapid-fire Q&A filled with unexpected questions, personal reflections, and powerful lessons. She shares what success truly means to her, the value of investing in yourself, key business and financial insights, and a simple 4-step framework to help leaders reduce unnecessary meetings and reclaim valuable time. From trusting intuition over perfection, choosing experiences over things, and building a life aligned with her values, this episode is packed with honest stories, mindset shifts, and reminders that you have the power to create the life you want. Tune in for an inspiring mix of business wisdom, personal growth, and plenty of laughs.   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating  and leave us a comment on iTunes   CONNECT WITH CHRISTINA! Instagram LinkedIn Christinalecuyer.com Book a Free Clarity Call Book Christina For Your Next Workshop

“Send Coach John a message”I really do enjoy finding things that get me to think and reflect on things I know I need to do to get better. I found this post from Book Therapy (@Book_therapy223) and this reminder is shared with it: “Hearing a story is not the same as living it.”  There are so many things that this directly connects to me and I need to be totally reminded about this main title of the post - “Do Not Assume You Know What You Never Lived.”  Most people usually never even try to imagine how hard it is for someone that we are judging or we think we can connect one of our hard times to them.  The quiet battles that they fight. What it takes to simply keep standing day after day.  I am reminded it is so easy to judge a picture when we are standing outside the frame.  It's impossible to understand a weight that we never carried. I know I need to walk a few steps in their shoes a bit more or at least try to. This post is pure gold in my book for understanding others and really understanding ourselves on our journey to keep getting better!  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

Text the show! George Washington's greatest accomplishment wasn't defeating Britain.It was giving power back.In this episode of Common Sense, Chad Law explores the forgotten principle that built America: stewardship.From Congress and family businesses to churches, corporations, and even our own homes, institutions don't usually collapse because bad people take over.They collapse because caretakers slowly become owners.Using history, psychology, leadership research, and one remarkable painting hanging inside the Capitol Rotunda, Chad examines why America's institutions struggle to renew themselves—and what every one of us can do to reverse the trend.This isn't really an episode about Washington.It's about every chair we'll someday have to leave behind.Chapters00:00 The Empty Chair: A Symbol of Power and Sacrifice03:11 The Mystery of Institutional Decline06:04 Caretakers vs. Owners: A Fundamental Question15:22 Washington's Legacy: The Chair He Refused18:47 The Science of Leadership and Institutional Health28:29 Congress: A Case Study in Institutional Failure35:56 The Role of Civil Servants36:57 Vidal Sassoon: A Legacy of Teaching and Selling39:48 Understanding Psychological Ownership44:00 The Importance of Stewardship in Institutions48:42 The Challenge of Leadership and Mentorship52:20 Building a Legacy Through Stewardship56:32 The Dinner Table: A Call to Action57:59 Final Thoughts on Stewardship and LegacyConnect with Common Sense

“Send Coach John a message”Found a great (and short) post that I wanted to share with you today. It comes from Kylie Riordan (@mindfulheal) and she introduces this post with this:  “Goodness I love these people.”  The thought is this:  “The people whose first instinct is to smile when you make eye contact with them are some of Earth's greatest treasure.”  So, I caught a couple of things here. First is that I need to be this person more often.  It also helped to remind me that when I smile more it benefits someone else and myself.  Once again, something that the world needs more of for sure.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

“Send Coach John a message”There are times when I find a powerful (and simple) reminder for me that I know will probably help others too.  This gem was shared by Reads with Ravi (@readswithravi) and his very short and simple thought was:  “Clarity comes from action!!”  The actual post was this:  “Rumi said ‘As you start to walk on the way, the way appears.'  Clarity doesn't come before action.  It comes from action.” My intro to my re-post was this:  “There have been times I have spent / invested too much time thinking & planning (which helps when there is action after)… amazing and wonderful how the learning & growing never stops!”  There needs to be some planning and thoughts all the time. But without taking action, they won't move on from just sitting there. Action cures fear and it also helps us to see where the next step of our journey should go.  I know I need to keep focusing on taking action for sure.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

“Send Coach John a message”I have found another legend - Nancy Lieberman (@NancyLieberman) shared this simple (and short) message - “Do the work even when nobody claps.”  Remember this is coming from a Hall of Famer and someone (once again) is out there helping, encouraging, lifting others up from the journey she has been on.  How awesome would it be if more people looked to do this to help others. Keep working towards great things, being our best along with making a difference with others along the way. Instead of tearing down others with actions and words (as there are way too many examples in today's world) all of us can do better. Part of that is doing things the right way - even if we don't get noticed. The applause shouldn't be the reason we are doing good things in the first place.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. ** 

“Send Coach John a message”I found something that I needed - it comes from Reads with Ravi (@readswithravi) and it's from James Clear on the antidote to anxiety:  “Working on a problem reduces fear of it.  It's hard to fear a problem when you are making progress on it - even if the progress is imperfect and slow.  Action relieves anxiety.”  This directly ties into something that I learned a long time ago from the awesome book “The Magic of Thinking Big” (but I still am trying to improve on), that Action Cures Fear!  Imperfect action towards accomplishing something is still WAY BETTER than no action at all. Even if we are taking steps backwards, we are still learning.  I'm finding a ton of “advice” lately that I certainly need to pay attention to.  It's amazing the number of clues that are out there for all of us. When I think about it, there is no possible way that we will ever run out of these clues.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. ** 

In 2008, bankers made reckless bets with your money, burned the economy to the ground, and kept their bonuses while you paid the bill. Economists call it moral hazard: when the person making the decision never suffers the consequences of being wrong, they get careless. They get greedy. And they stop caring whether what they're selling you actually works.We swore never again. We were lied to. Right now, there's an industry embedded in your doctor's office, your child's school, and your own family that runs the exact same scam — except the losses aren't measured in foreclosures. They're measured in your kids. It knows things about its product it will never tell you. It gets paid whether you improve or deteriorate. And when it fails you, that failure doesn't trigger accountability. It generates the next invoice. You've probably already been a customer. You may be one right now.Dr. Roger McFillin builds the case one brick at a time — and by the end, you'll understand why the worst outcomes in American life keep getting rewarded with more money, more power, and more access to your children.Once you see it, you can't unsee it.

“Send Coach John a message”Another legend comes to the front of the class to share some invaluable lessons about life. You know what?? These are simple lessons too, but I'm just talking about me here - they are not easy to keep remembering.  I've always had trouble paying attention. It's one of many things that Jim Rohn helps me and all of us remember to work through.  The clip comes from Jim Rohn Official (@OfficialJimRohn) - “Growth isn't always about grinding harder. Sometimes, it's just about watching more closely. Jim Rohn believed that success leaves clues, and the people who progress fastest are the ones learning from the wins of others. Look at what's working around you. Ask questions. Study outcomes. The better you observe, the more you learn what to repeat and what to release.”  He's one that helps leave clues for all of us as we all navigate this journey of life.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. ** 

What happens when a mom sees a problem no one else is solving? She creates the solution. In this episode, Stacey shares how she went from speech pathologist and mom of four to the founder of Smile Paint®, a revolutionary toothpaste designed to make brushing easier, more fun, and more accessible for kids with sensory needs. She opens up about taking a leap of faith, overcoming obstacles, and why having a purpose bigger than yourself can carry you through the toughest moments of entrepreneurship. Whether you're a parent, business owner, or dreamer with a big idea, this conversation will leave you inspired to keep going. About Stacey Thomas Stacey Thomas is a speech-language pathologist, special needs advocate, and mom of four who founded Smile Paint®, a play-based toothpaste designed to make brushing fun and accessible for children, especially those with sensory sensitivities. Inspired by her firsthand experience helping families navigate daily toothbrushing challenges, Stacey created Smile Paint® to turn oral care into a positive, engaging experience that helps kids build healthy habits through play. Learn more about Smile Paint website Connect with Stacey on LinkedIn   If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating  and leave us a comment on iTunes   CONNECT WITH CHRISTINA! Instagram LinkedIn Christinalecuyer.com Book a Free Clarity Call Book Christina For Your Next Workshop

“Send Coach John a message”I came across a short clip from a legend that has always been a difference-maker for others. He's done it through the great game of basketball, but his lessons are all about success in life.  The lessons from Coach K are shared by Coach AJ / Mental Fitness (@coachajkings).  “Coach K shares what it actually takes to get better. "In order to get better, you change limits." "When you change limits, you're going to look bad and you're going to fail." Growth requires pushing past what's comfortable. And that means you're going to stumble. You're going to look like you don't know what you're doing. That's not a sign you're on the wrong path - it's proof you're on the right one. Coach K would always emphasize: Failure isn't a destination. It's a checkpoint. It takes grit to keep going. Courage to try again. And the willingness to endure when it would be easier to quit. The only way to expand your limits is to test them.” (The audio clip comes from Bloomberg)  What an amazing reminder and any time we can pick up lessons from successful people, we need to pay attention.  My next podcast episode will have some more information on the importance of paying attention.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

In Episode 523 of Fishing Without Bait, we continue our conversation with Missy Sorg in Part 2 of a thoughtful and challenging discussion about politics, responsibility, family support, and respectful disagreement. Missy and Jim Ellermeyer begin by examining the complicated realities surrounding abortion and the question of what happens after a child is born. Their conversation moves beyond political slogans to consider infertility, adoption, foster care, support systems, special-needs care, financial responsibility, and the difficult decisions families may face. Missy shares personal experiences that have shaped her perspective, including going through infertility treatments and seeing family members navigate teenage pregnancy and lifelong care needs. The discussion asks whether society is doing enough to educate young people about consequences, critical thinking, emotional decision-making, and personal responsibility. The conversation then expands into voter education and representative government. Drawing from her work as a Republican committee woman and her experiences at polling locations, Missy discusses the importance of understanding what elected offices actually control rather than voting entirely through party labels or a single issue. Jim and Missy also consider how political representatives can become disconnected from their constituents, how social media encourages echo chambers, and why people often listen only long enough to prepare their response. Despite the disagreements and difficult subjects, the episode returns to a simple principle: people should be treated with courtesy and respect. Meaningful progress begins when we stop reducing one another to political labels and begin listening to learn. This is Part 2 of our conversation with Missy Sorg. The discussion continues in the next episode. Subscribe to Fishing Without Bait through your favorite podcast player so you do not miss the continuation. Support the podcast and receive ad-free episodes through Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/c/fishingwithoutbait Pick up Learn to Fish Without Bait: A 365-Day Mindfulness Journal and Adult Coloring Book: https://www.lulu.com/shop/james-ellermeyer-lpc-ma-ncc-lpc/learn-to-fish-without-bait/paperback/product-6n9rd8.html?page=1&pageSize=4 Do a kindness for yourself. Do a kindness for another. Forgive yourself and forgive another.

“Send Coach John a message”I saw a gentle and small reminder that I think we all take for granted a lot during life. It comes from Alan Stein, Jr. (@AlanSteinJr) who is the author of a couple of great books that I read and I think it would be great if you connected with both of them at some point - “Raise Your Game” and “Sustain Your Game”.  His quote is this:  “One decision can change the course of your entire life. The power to choose is our greatest gift.”  I've heard that a few times that our greatest gift we have (and it could be one of a few), is that of choice.  I think it's worth it for us to keep working on our choices in life. It's our thinking. Our actions. Our habits. Our words. There's many things that we get to choose throughout life. One thing for sure I know I can keep getting better with the choices I make AND I know I need to do that for sure.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

“Send Coach John a message”I found this from Kylie Riordan (@mindfulheal) because it made total sense to me as I have been thinking about this a lot more lately.  What she shared was this:  “I hope you have a random moment today where you look around and think “Oh.  This is my life.”  And instead of spiraling, you smile.  Because maybe it's not perfect.  But it's yours.”  As I prepped for this podcast along with the errands and other things I had to do this morning, I got a message from one of my good friends Jodie.  This topic has come up for both of us in recent weeks. She shared how she felt a bit “giddy” with one aspect of what she's been going through. I was reminded that we also need to do things / recognize things that make us feel that way a bit more often.  I know I need to take more intentful moments to remind myself how proud and “giddy” I am about “Oh, this is my life.”  Maybe you can find those moments too.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

What you'll learn in this episode: ● Why every outcome in your business is tied directly to your daily choices ● How small habits compound into massive long-term results—for better or worse ● The leadership lesson Dan taught his daughter about responsibility ● Why discipline today prevents regret tomorrow ● The four daily principles Dan teaches Maggie: Have the best day of your life, make good choices, help someone, and be grateful ● How to evaluate your current habits and shift toward better outcomes To find out more about Dan Rochon and the CPI Community, you can check these links:GET THE BOOK! Teach to Sell : Teach to Sell: Why Top Performers Never Sell – And What They Do InsteadWebsite: No Broke MonthsPodcast: No Broke Months for Salespeople PodcastInstagram: @donrochonxFacebook Page: https://www.facebook.com/NoBrokeMonths/Facebook: Dan RochonLinkedIn: Dan Rochon

“Send Coach John a message”It's always awesome finding so many things that speak directly to my heart. It's like Clint Hurdle (@ClintHurdle13) knew this advice he was sharing, was something that I needed to connect with.  He shares this thought from his book:  “Hurdle-isms for having a high standard.  #17) “Lower the bar and you lose the winners; raise the bar and you lose the losers.”  Now I know I need to raise the bar simply to tell (and show) myself that I can (and need to) get rid of the “loser” versions of my previous selves along with their excuses, habits, self-talk, etc.  The other one was #18) “We don't have time to have “just another day.”  I am seeing this more and more as I get older. I knew about this truth when I was younger, but I for sure didn't think about it too often and it did not really add any reasons for me to do things that I knew I needed to do. I need to do things. Now! How about you?  Any thoughts for the person staring back at you in the mirror about these two “hurdle-sims”?  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

“Send Coach John a message”I found a couple of gems this morning, both coming from Gary Vaynerchuk  (@garyvee).  The first is a short video clip where he is having a conversation with a young kid and her mom, reminding the kid that she is capable of learning to do things to help herself out with her Youtube channel editing.  The simplicity of reminding her (and us) that we learned how to do things as a young child and that we are capable to keep learning new things, no matter how old we are.  That leads into the second post I saw from Gary - “Seriously, so many of you in your 40's, 50's, and 60's have hunger to go for more but think you have to “wrap it up” because of your age - that's just not true.”  Amazing reminders from a guy that just keeps putting kindness, compassion, authenticity, passion and tons of other life examples out there for us to connect with and learn from. The ideas and lessons are out there my friends - it's up to each of us to decide where and how we implement them into our lives!  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

“Send Coach John a message”I'm not sure why lessons from rivers have been a thing lately, but Bob Starkey (@CoachBobStarkey) had a post that deals with both persistence and resilience thoughts all from what a river does all the time.  “A river only breaks through rock because it shows up everyday.”  Just keep showing up like a river and go around, over, through, under, etc., the “rocks” that we face every day. Just don't quit. Sounds easy, but we know it's not.  Amazing lessons to pick up from nature once again that we can use for sure.  Many things that we have to get through are not even as tough as a rock is. Remember, over time that river will wear down the rock, even break the rock into pieces. What we have to face may seem impossible, but we need to also remember we don't have thousands of years either.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

What happens when you mix marriage, entrepreneurship, and a whole lot of humor? Christina Lecuyer and her husband, Nathan, are pulling back the curtain on what life really looks like behind the scenes. In this fun, unfiltered conversation, they share the highs, the challenges, and the lessons they've learned from building a life and business together. From navigating work and family to keeping laughter at the center of it all, you'll walk away with practical takeaways, fresh perspective, and maybe even a few relationship goals. Whether you're building a business, raising a family, or simply trying to find more balance, this episode is packed with honest stories, relatable moments, and plenty of laughs you won't want to miss. If you enjoyed this episode, make sure and give us a five star rating  and leave us a comment on iTunes   CONNECT WITH CHRISTINA! Instagram LinkedIn Christinalecuyer.com Book a Free Clarity Call Book Christina For Your Next Workshop

“Send Coach John a message”From POSITIVITY (@PositivitySaid) - Reminded us that we should  “Never forget - it's a luxury to have zero health problems.”  I chuckled at this a bit as I have plenty, but I still view my life as full of so many things that I'm grateful for. Actually my health issues (not often enough), help me to realize that I have a great life - IN SPITE of my challenges. I also realize that nobody, not one single human being has zero problems.  There are many different types of problems that all humans have to deal with in life, but I would say that (and I've heard it said before), our health is the most valuable thing to have in life. We only get one shot at life and something like this sure does help us to understand that.  Don't forget to look at the “other” luxuries you have in life too.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

“Send Coach John a message”I came across my buddy John O'Leary's post on Facebook and it really made a strong connection with me. I think it's something that all of us need to be reminded about. This passage from what I shared with you says it all:  “So today, if someone in your life is hurting, don't worry about finding the perfect words. Just be there for them with a phone call, a handwritten note, your presence or a simple hug. Because sometimes the greatest gift we can offer someone who is struggling isn't an answer, but the reminder they do not have to suffer alone.”  We all have someone we can reach out to. In fact, I am doing that now to a couple of people even before I finish putting this podcast out there.  Also, don't forget to reach out to someone to let them know that maybe you could use a few minutes of their time to talk if you need some help too. Life works out a lot better when we are in it together.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

Many of us are in the habit of resisting things we can't change, and it creates a lot of unhappiness and havoc in our lives. Byron Katie wrote a book entitled, 'Loving What is', and it presents the concept that when we stop resisting reality, we will find so much more peace in our lives. When we learn to focus on our response and choose to behave in ways that are in alignment with our values, we find much more satisfaction, contentment, happiness, and peace. Learning to love what is, rather than resisting and fighting against it, creates a solid space for growth. Thanks for listening!  Want to learn more about this concept?  Check out these podcasts: #2 Control Issues on Apple on Spotify #19 Storytelling on Apple on Spotify #48 Love Is All You Need on Apple on Spotify #75 Emotional Adulthood on Apple on Spotify #91 Personal Responsibility on Apple on Spotify #92 Clean Love on Apple on Spotify #96 Understanding the Thought Model on Apple on Spotify #97 Why the Thought Model Matters on Apple on Spotify #118 100% Responsibility  on Apple  on Spotify #148 Grace & Grudges in Our Relationships on Apple on Spotify #152 Victim or Hero? on Apple on Spotify #165 I Would Never Act That Way on Apple on Spotify #166 Imaginary Friends on Apple on Spotify #167 I Didn't Sign Up For This on Apple on Spotify #173 A Space For Grace on Apple on Spotify #204 Being a Peacemaker on Apple on Spotify #257 Other People's Agency on Apple on Spotify #268 Drama Response on Apple on Spotify #269 Fine - The 4-Letter F-Word on Apple on Spotify #298 Friendship in Marriage on Apple on Spotify #299 Love Is Not a Reward on Apple on Spotify #304 Personalities, Preferences, and Perspectives on Apple on Spotify Are you curious about what it would be like to work with me? Here are three options: Group coaching classes are available at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Talk with Tanya is a free monthly webinar where you can ask me anything and we can have a great discussion.  You can sign up for that at tanyahale.com/groupcoaching Interested in one-on-one coaching and a free 90-minute coaching/consult with me?  Access my calendar at: https://tanyahalecalendar.as.me/

“Send Coach John a message”I found a great reminder and it's really easy to picture this in my mind. It comes from Mindful Maven (@mindfulmaven_) where this true reminder is shared:  “Rivers never go in reverse. So try to live like a river.  Forget your past and focus on your future.  Always be positive.”  Powerful picture for us to follow.  It helps me to remember that like water in a river, life is always moving forward. We can't go backwards…. Only in our minds can we do that. The lessons we carry are HUGE for learning and growing. They help us to keep moving forward in life.  Thanks for listening.  Please take a few moments to subscribe & share this with someone, also leave a 5 Star rating on Apple Podcasts and ITunes or other services where you find this show.  Find me on Facebook:  https://www.facebook.com/coachtoexpectsuccess/   on Twitter / “X”:  @coachtosuccess   and on Instagram at:  @coachjohndaly  - My YouTube Channel is at: Coach John Daly.   Email me at: CoachJohnDalyPodcast@gmail.com     You can also head on over to https://www.coachtoexpectsuccess.com/ and get in touch with me there on my homepage along with checking out my Top Book list too.  Other things there on my site are being worked on too.  Please let me know that you are reaching out to me from my podcast.  ** I would appreciate anyone to try clicking on the top of the show notes where it says "Send us a text" to leave a few thoughts / comments / questions.  It's a new feature that I'd like to see how it works. **

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