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Peace Be With You explores the use of mediation, pastoral counseling, and spiritual direction to create an army of peacemakers that overcome the division, hostility, and conflict that ruins man’s happiness. We explore theology as the foundation, the bedrock of all peacemaking. We seek a deep understanding of the comprehensive reality in which man loves and fights. The podcast will consider the theory and the practice of peacemaking. Hate, conflict, evil, and war have persisted for way too long — it is time we hasten the arrival of an era of world peace. This podcast is for all men and women who hunger for peace.

Greg Stone

  • Apr 24, 2019 LATEST EPISODE
  • infrequent NEW EPISODES
  • 9m AVG DURATION
  • 35 EPISODES


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Episode 35: Social Injustice

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 24, 2019 9:07


Non-faith-based versions of Social Justice, versions that advocate identity politics and victimhood, tend to promote division and conflict. Instead of focusing on collaboration, consensus, and unity — they focus on differences.

Episode 34: Lies

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 20, 2019 7:53


Creative storytelling used to protect self-image differs from lies intended to take advantage of others. Lies that sweeten the conflict narrative and Save Face differ from intentionally destructive lies. Peacemakers must discern the difference.

Episode 33: Empathy Not Sympathy

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 9, 2019 10:44


In this episode, I want to point out a common trap that awaits peacemakers: Sympathy is often equated with empathy. When peacemakers fail to discern the difference between sympathy and empathy, they get into trouble.

Episode 32: Love & Wisdom Part II

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 5, 2019 6:41


When peacemakers reconcile relationships they deliver a bonus — people better understand Life. This is especially true when a person’s relationship with God is reconciled. When a loving relationship with God is restored, people gain an ability to see reality at the deepest level possible.

Episode 31: Love & Wisdom Part I

Play Episode Listen Later Apr 3, 2019 6:55


As a practical matter, love precedes knowledge. Love comes first. When love is absent, knowledge is absent. At first, this idea may seem strange. Ordinarily, we do not consider that we must first to love something in order to know it. Let’s reflect on how that might be.

Episode 30: Sin

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 22, 2019 9:56


We must seek a dynamic and operational definition of sin, a definition that integrates with peacemaking. What does that mean? As peacemakers, we seek a definition of sin that focuses on relationship. Sin ends when divine love is brought back into a relationship. People do not cease sinning because they know the rules better. They stop sinning because they want to love more.

Episode 29: “I” Messages

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 19, 2019 7:20


One way we avoid threatening Face is by using “I” messages. These messages describe how a situation or event made you feel. They are your personal, interior accounts of the conflict. Ordinarily, you would make statements that seem to accuse the other person. You might say, “you did this or you did that.” But, now, with an “I” message, you replace the words “you did” with “I felt.”

Episode 28: Deception, Part IV

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 15, 2019 12:54


Peacemakers probably do not anticipate being called upon to be detectives, but Destructive Hidden Influences make this necessary. Peacemakers must become sleuths in the tradition of Columbo, the television detective.

Episode 27: Deception, Part III

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 12, 2019 7:41


How does a peacemaker know a Destructive Hidden Influence is at work? Evidence is found in the irrational or illogical fears expressed by parties. Evidence is found in the distrust that lingers when it should have dissipated. Evidence lies in the damaged relationship that is unusually difficult to heal. Fear, distrust, and hostility are signs of a Destructive Hidden Influence.

Episode 26: Deception – Part II

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 8, 2019 7:42


In the previous episode, I introduced Destructive Hidden Influences, covert agents that foster fear and distrust. The prototype was the Serpent, also known as the Deceiver, introduced in Genesis. In this episode I will explore how the Destructive Hidden Influence — the most significant barrier to resolving conflict.

Episode 25: Deception – Part I

Play Episode Listen Later Mar 6, 2019 10:47


The first instance of a Destructive Hidden Influence, the prototype we call the Serpent, appears in Genesis. The passage describes the primary source of all conflict. In this mystical lesson we discover what we might call Original Deception. The Serpent models the paradigm of a Destructive Hidden Influence — a covert deceiver who wrecks relationships.

Episode 24: Apology

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 22, 2019 11:24


All too often we do not know how to craft a valid apology. We’re not certain what we should say. An effective apology addresses the primary concern of the wronged party — assurance that “this will not happen again.”

Episode 23: Body Soul Duality, Part II

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2019 12:19


If I believe I am the Flesh Body and I believe in an After Life, then the Flesh Body must be resurrected. But the belief that the Flesh Body is resurrected is false, incorrect, a widespread faulty belief.

Episode 22: Body Soul Duality, Part I

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 14, 2019 13:24


As we study and reflect on scripture, we discover a duality between Flesh Body and Immortal Soul or Spirit. They are not the same thing. The Flesh Body is perishable. It is transitory. Its existence is fleeting. In contrast, an immortal soul — who we are as Divine Self — does not perish. We enjoy eternal life.

Episode 21: Expectations

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 5, 2019 8:36


There are times when we fully expect to be something or do something or have something — then, when we are denied what we want, we’re ready to fight, ready to go into battle. Disappointed expectations drive us into conflict.

Episode 20: False Attribution Error

Play Episode Listen Later Feb 1, 2019 5:46


When we create our inner story, we blame our trespasses on situations, on other people, or even on God. We protect our self-image. When another person crosses the line, we attribute their behavior to bad character, nasty disposition, or evil motives. When we mediate, we uncover missing information and redraft our narrative without false attributions.

Episode 19: Face of a Franciscan

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 29, 2019 11:15


Peacemakers must become skilled in giving this gift of Divine Face. They will want to turn to the example of Francis who spent the entire night in prayer before he traveled to meet the besieged people of Gubbio, where he tamed the fierce wolf with his prayerful presence.

Episode 18: Authority, Rights, Interests

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 25, 2019 7:18


In Matthew 18:15 we read: “If your brother sins (against you), go and tell him his fault between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have won over your brother.” This passage advises us to take a conciliatory approach.

Episode 17: Dear Bishops

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 23, 2019 11:55


The bishops meet again next month to reflect further on the path forward beyond the scandals destroying trust in the Catholic Church. With that in mind, I would like to offer the following suggestion for their consideration.

Episode 16: God is Love

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 18, 2019 12:08


Immortal souls immersed in Divine Love are drawn into divine relationship. And, ultimately, this unity of “Being-In-Love” is what makes peacemaking possible.

Episode 15: Divine Collaboration

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 15, 2019 12:42


In a faith-based approach, we expand the collaboration model. We not only seek to satisfy our interests and the interests of the other party, we also seek to satisfy God’s interests — typically referred to as “the Will of God.”

Episode 14: Sculpting False Self

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2019 7:47


All conflict is the result of one False Self becoming entangled in opposition to another False Self. Each False Self is comprised of ego traits and swirling clouds of intentions desires. There is one way to de-escalate conflict: Vanish the clusters of False Self traits. Peace arrives after we scrub away ego personality.

Episode 13: Worldviews

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 8, 2019 10:17


Peacemakers encounter a clash of two primary worldviews: The dominant secular culture advances Materialism. The other worldview, a spiritual worldview, rests on the philosophy of Idealism.

Episode 12: The Ombudsperson

Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2019 10:51


Large institutions, such as universities, typically employ ombudspersons. But the Catholic Church lacks such a program.

Episode 11: Celebrating the Incarnation

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 21, 2018 9:04


At Christmas we celebrate not only the birth of the baby Jesus, but also a major supernatural event — the Incarnation. Caught up in celebrating the birth, we forget to reflect on the Incarnation, on the idea expressed in John 1:14, “And the Word became flesh and made his dwelling among us…”

Episode 10: Tribalism & Theology

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 18, 2018 12:05


Peacemakers must offset destructive Catholic tribalism by promoting widespread catechism in Benedict XVI's theology of relationship.

Episode 9: Habitual Responses to Conflict

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 14, 2018 9:37


The False Self brings about habitual responses to conflict. Thus, for us to reconcile we must strip away the False Self, a cluster of destructive ego traits.

Episode 8: The False Self

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 11, 2018 7:56


All conflicts are the result of two or more False Selves becoming entangled in opposing intentions. The False Self is a cluster of ego traits that do not reflect divine nature. In spiritual direction we sculpt away the layers of false self that taint our interests.

Episode 7: Going Below the Line

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 7, 2018 6:15


When you find yourself managing a conflict, slow up and ask the question — what do people really want? What interest are they really trying to satisfy? Do I really know what they want?

Episode 6: Spiritual Direction, An Introduction

Play Episode Listen Later Dec 4, 2018 8:39


Spiritual direction, an ancient tradition, focuses on reconciling relationships with God. Catholic spiritual direction seeks to bring about mystical union with Christ.

Episode 5: Pastoral Counseling

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 30, 2018 13:46


Pastoral counseling clears away personal emotional, mental, and spiritual barriers to reconciliation. Pastoral counselors see man as an immortal soul, In order to serve the faithful, the Catholic Church must greatly expand its delivery of pastoral counseling.

Episode 4: Mediation Part II, A Faith-Based Approach

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 27, 2018 10:41


In faith-based mediation, when a person reconciles with God, their human relationships improve. When a person reconciles human relationships, their relationship with God improves. Secular models, however, dismiss the fundamental relationship between Man and God. 

Episode 3: Mediation Part I, The Basics

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 23, 2018 8:31


Mediation is the art of restoring harmony in the presence of the Holy Spirit. It is a practice found in the Gospel of Matthew, Chapter 18:15-18.

Episode 2: The Assisi Option, an Introduction

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 20, 2018 9:31


The Assisi Option addresses the clash between people of faith and a secular culture. It calls for the creation of spiritual direction…

Episode 1: Peace Be With You, An Introduction

Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2018 11:56


People hunger for peace but they are surrounded by conflict and suffering. In response, Peace Be With You explores…

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