You're Dead Too

You're Dead Too - Episode 57 - Brenda Hartman (Rebroadcast)   John sits down with Brenda Hartman (M. S. W., L. I. C. S. W.) to talk about her experiences as a counselor and guide for people walking on their journey towards death. Brenda shares tales of doctors and giving bad news, how that process can go awry and what a bucket list really is for someone beyond the Hollywood training wheels. She also shares her experiences with death, existence beyond the mortal plane, what constitutes a ritual and what lies in store both for all of us and for her career.    You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 56 - First Year Check In   Sooooo...yeah. Coronavirus. What happens now? You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 55 - First Year Check In   John sits down at the mic to say hello, thank you and give good tidings. The world feels like it's on fire and how do we go forward? We look back for guidance. John assesses his first year in podcasting, how each show has been and what he has learned from guests, subjects and exercises. Some are more loved than others but there's a lot of love to go around. The coronavirus drives fear into John but John accepts it and looks to determine how to move forward. You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 54 - Brian (Rebroadcast)   John sits down at the mic to acknowledge a year under his belt and then chooses his favorite episode to share. This interview with Brian Boyer about his near death experience and actual death in the ER contains upsetting material and may not be suitable for all audiences but it is solid gold material for this podcast. Instead of rambling about the corona virus John wanted to share this highlight episode in the hopes that new and old listeners will appreciate the incredible journey Brian was kind enough to share with us.  You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 53 - Exhuming A Body   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about how and why we exhume a body. Criminal cases, relocations or just plain old spite. How much does it cost, how do you do it and what are you going to encounter when you get down to it? Also, a look at the Cadaver Synod, also known as the Trial of the Dead Man. It's hardcore stuff. You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 52 - Neanderthal Funerals   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about neanderthals and whether or not they would have funerals for their dead. They definitely put them in the ground, but why? Why put flowers on them? What does this mean for current humans? John loses his mind in the cold and talks about cave man culture and his inability to survive in the wilderness.  You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 51 - Not Dying At Home   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about not dying at home. In a horrible mirror version of last week's episode, John looks at the various ways your home is trying to kill you. He also cops to his own idiocy about coronavirus conspiracies, his ability to fall up and down the stairs in his home, how basements are a local custom and why the bathroom is just as deadly as the kitchen. Good times! You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 50 - Dying At Home   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about dying at home. Turns out, Americans are doing it more than ever but it's nowhere close to universal like it could be. Race, gender and wealth all play a factor and John ends up on a soapbox talking about human dignity. And Coronavirus conspiracies. You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 49 - Grave Relocation   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about moving a cemetery from point A to point B. As it turns out, Poltergeist is a movie that need not be avoided as this happens pretty often and there's no reason to get squeamish about digging up a whole plot of graves to make room for more development. So long as you do it with love and care. Or maybe the Spanish Influenza was a harbinger for the arrival of the coronavirus. John's not a scientist.  You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 48 - Alkaline Hydrolysis   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about aquamation! It's a weird, ranty episode where John gets all hopped up on coffee and rants about bad news, the Catholic Church, body integrity, cremation and practical uses of sewer sanitation. Tune in to learn why Drano is the wave of the future!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 47 - Body Brokers   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about body brokers. While they might not like that title, that seems to be an accurate description of what they do. So what is it? What happens when someone sells off your body? Is donating to science a clean and ethical way to be treated in death? John looks at how the industry of selling a body can go wrong.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 46 - Cryonics   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about freezing yourself to escape death and be revived later. Seriously. It's a look at the hows and whys of cryonics (which is not cryogenics) and why John feels it comes up short as a solution to death. And maybe we don't need a solution. And maybe there's a field trip in the future. Dig in!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 45 - Consciousness and Death Pt 6   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about our conscious experience as people and what it means to die. This is the sixth (and for now, final) part in an ongoing series of examining what it means to be conscious and what the significance is when we die. This episode is a warts and all display of how one can be lost down the rabbit hole of mental states when trying to explain what a subjective experience is. John fully cops to the notion he's bit off more than he can chew and tries not to malign a science and space book he's been reading. Happy New Year!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 44 - Consciousness and Death Pt 5   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about our conscious experience as people and what it means to die. This is the fifth part in an ongoing series of examining what it means to be conscious and what the significance is when we die. This episode takes a dive into existential investigation and what it even means to be aware we're aware. It's a look at how our monkey minds evolved to be paranoid apes that see faces in shapes and how our minds are still scientific black boxes today, despite all our learning.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 43 - Consciousness and Death Pt 4   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about our conscious experience as people and what it means to die. This is the fourth part in an ongoing series of examining what it means to be conscious and what the significance is when we die. This episode takes a closer look at the notion of 'Dead = Over' John keeps running into when looking at consciousness - why people adhere to it, how it can be comforting, why he doesn't like arguing with nerds on the internet and how Star Wars fits in as an analogy.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 42 - Consciousness and Death Pt 3   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about our conscious experience as people and what it means to die. This is the third part in an ongoing series of examining what it means to be conscious and what the significance is when we die. This episode takes an in depth look at 'Spook: Science Tackles the Afterlife' by Mary Roach. Listen in to hear how it affects John's perspective on people dying and how we can learn from it!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 41 - Consciousness and Death Pt 2   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about our conscious experience as people and what it means to die. This is the second part in an ongoing series of examining what it means to be conscious and what the significance is when we die. This episode spends a lot of time getting to the term 'detuned radio' for a good reason - lots of weird talk in this one!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 40 - Consciousness and Death Pt 1   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about our conscious experience as people and what it means to die. This is the first part in an ongoing series about our consciousness and death, so strap in to get acclimated - it's some weird, heady stuff and we're going to need to set some parameters to really unravel the subject matter.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 39 - Funerals - Pt 10   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about funerals. This is the tenth entry in a longer, more nuanced exploration of funeral practices. Today John looks at pallbearers - what they are, what they do and how they do it. Also, he shares his own perspective in a way that's sure to ruin his Thanksgiving!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 38 - Funerals - Pt 9   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about funerals. This is the ninth entry in a longer, more nuanced exploration of funeral practices. Today John looks at caskets and not coffins. Rather, he tries to talk about the difference and keeps slipping up on terminology. All in all, a fun time discussing what to put dead people into!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 37 - Funerals - Pt 8   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about funerals. This is the eight entry in a longer, more nuanced exploration of funeral practices. Today John looks at professional mourning. Yes, that both was and still is a thing. John also fully expects it to become more and more common as time and online culture marches on. Get in on the trend now!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 36 - Funerals - Pt 7   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about funerals. This is the seventh entry in a longer, more nuanced exploration of funeral practices. Today John looks at burials at sea. Turns out you can just kind of...do it. It's a strange practice that offers a uniquely universal experience but it's of course regulated and controlled as all things are. Listen in on how!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 35 - Funerals - Pt 6   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about funerals. This is the sixth entry in a longer, more nuanced exploration of funeral practices. Today John looks at premature burial - the horrible, albeit unintentional, act of burying someone before they've actually...you know...died. Fun!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 34 - Funerals - Pt 5   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about funerals. This is the fifth entry in a longer, more nuanced exploration of funeral practices. Today John looks at burial - what it is, why we do it, how we do it and the horrifying practicality of putting a body in dirt in order to let it dissolve to nothing.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 33 - Funerals - Pt 4   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about funerals. This is the fourth entry in a longer, more nuanced exploration of funeral practices. Today John looks at cremation - what it is, why we do it, how we do it and the horrifying practicality of burning a body on purpose in a respectful manner.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 32 - Funerals - Pt 3   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about funerals. This is the third entry in a longer, more nuanced exploration of funeral practices. Today John looks at what happens regarding cost. What do you pay? What if you're broke? Also, he thinks caskets are fancy.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 31 - Funerals - Pt 2   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about funerals. This is the second entry in a longer, more nuanced exploration of funeral practices. To start off we're looking at American funerals and their general structure. John gets really fixated on cars for some reason.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 30 - Funerals - Pt 1   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about funerals. This is the first entry in a longer, more nuanced exploration of funeral practices so the episode aims to establish a broader background into what we'll examine. It's gonna be weird so get ready to put the fun back in funeral!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 29 - Notable Death - Marilyn Monroe   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about the first of the Notable Deaths to be covered as part of an ongoing series. Today's installment looks at the life and death of Marilyn Monroe. Let's all have fun diving into the world of seedy Hollywood politics and the omnipresent male gaze!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 28 - Notable Death - Kurt Cobain   John sits down at the mic by himself to talk about the first of the Notable Deaths to be covered as part of an ongoing series. Today's installment looks at the life and tragic death of Nirvana frontman Kurt Cobain. Listen and learn about one of our many dead rock stars!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 27 - Cheo Smith   John sits down with Cheo Smith to talk about doubling flavor in the kitchen, his outlook on mortality and the multiverse of selves he tries to be kind to. Seriously, this is a weird and wild episode full of heady goodness, guaranteed to make you wonder about life beyond this level.    You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 26 - Brenna Galvin pt 2   John sits down with Brenna Galvin, an Elder Law attorney and certified Death Doula to talk about what she does and why she does it. This second of a two part series covers Brenna's journey in becoming a death doula and what the role actually entails. She's also kind enough to share experiences and views on what she sees and how the world works after death.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 25 - Brenna Galvin   John sits down with Brenna Galvin, an Elder Law attorney and certified Death Doula to talk about what she does and why she does it. This first of a two part series covers Brenna's history and experiences that lead her toward a life of caring for those who need it most.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 24 - Don Cameron   John sits down with long time friend Don Cameron to talk about growing up in Canada, the joys of public shaming, why religion didn't take hold and then proceeds to tell horrifying ghost stories for the remainder of the episode. Seriously, they're great.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 23 - Summer Break & Existential Crises   John sits down alone at the mic to talk about what is an existential crisis, how we can deal with them and how he deals with them. Listen in as he quickly goes off the rails and into weird tangents about society, tech, philosophy and self determinism. It's a hot mess and a clear sign we need to get back to our regularly scheduled programming next week!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 22 - Summer Break & Being Mortal (Book Report)   John sits down alone at the mic to talk about Atul Gawande's book Being Mortal: Medicine and What Matters in the End. It's a beautifully written book that explores the dying process, how we deal with it, what we avoid talking about and how we can make it as comforting and open for those experiencing it. It's a wonderful book that can impart deep wisdom on a difficult subject. Link to the book on Amazon here: https://www.amazon.com/gp/product/B00JCW0BCY?ref=dbs_p2d_P_R_popup_yes_prpp_T1   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 21 - Summer Break & Night of the Living Dead   John sits down alone at the mic to talk about the prescient genius of the 1968 George Romero classic 'Night of the Living Dead'. It's a landmark in horror and independent cinema, as well as a disturbing look at the roots of pop cultural nihilism. You can find a free streaming version on YouTube right here: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jclhVKSC0Tk   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 20 - Summer Break & Unusual Deaths   John sits down alone at the mic to talk about the summer break, why his voice is fried and how unusual deaths can bring a bit of levity to death. Deaths in antiquity were rarely recorded but when they were, you can bet there was a reason!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 19 - Brett   John sits down with Brett Kurth to talk with her about following Christ, losing faith and reexamining it as she reached adulthood. She also shares her experience and perspective on being empathetic, helping others and all around positivity that throws John off his axis.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 18 - Brenda Hartman Pt. 2   John sits down with Brenda Hartman (M. S. W., L. I. C. S. W.) to talk about her experiences as a counselor and guide for people walking on their journey towards death. Brenda shares her experiences with death, existence beyond the mortal plane, what constitutes a ritual and what lies in store both for all of us and for her career.    You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 17 - Brenda Hartman Pt. 1   John sits down with Brenda Hartman (M. S. W., L. I. C. S. W.) to talk about her experiences as a counselor and guide for people walking on their journey towards death. Brenda shares tales of doctors and giving bad news, how that process can go awry and what a bucket list really is for someone beyond the Hollywood training wheels. Stay tuned for part two in which she shares her own experience in dying and how it has affected her world view!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 16 - Tara   John sits down with Tara Aiken, one of his oldest and closest friends. They share embarrassing stories about John in college, tales of career jumping and losing multiple pregnancies. Yes, multiple. Strap in, folks - it's heavy stuff and Tara does an amazing job sharing her story with us.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 15 - Michelle   John sits down with youngest and most Catholic guest so far, Michelle Covington! Michelle is a beacon of light in John's life due to her work as a child care provider and being an all around good person with a fabulous take on humanity and personhood. She's also funny and well versed in Agronomy, for those who have no idea what that is. John had no idea.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 14 - Nobody   John sits down at the mic with a full cup of coffee to talk about the state of the podcast, what he's learned so far, what he has in store and why he's doing this. He also shares his own experiences with death throughout his life. If you're patient enough to get to the end, there's a ghost story too!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 13 - Kevin   Kevin Hansen sits down with John to talk about teaching, philosophy, Weekly World News, ghosts, theater kids and what to do when you're bored in Wisconsin. He's also kind enough to share his thoughts on what happens when he dies, how he deals with anxiety and how to deal with gender norms and science kits.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 12 - Austen   Austen Alexander sits down with John to talk about logistics, new fatherhood, the joy and sorrow of being a Vikings fan, losing his father at a young age and the legacy his dad left behind.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 11 - Knute Pt. 2   Knute Sands sits down with John in the second of his 2 part discussion on death, art, fear, funerals and fun! It was an awesome experience to be able to pick his brain so methodically and he was kind enough to share his most private concerns and causes. Plus we talk about snakes!   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 10 - Knute Pt. 1   Knute Sands sits down with John in the first of his 2 part discussion on death, faith, medieval art, being born again and a whole slew of other ideas. There's so much to talk about in this episode that Knute comes back for a part 2 to unpack all of the ideas next week. Listen and learn how to be as relentless as Knute!    You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.

You're Dead Too - Episode 9 - Erica   Erica Boyer sits down with John to talk about practicality, Catholicism vs Buddhism and what it's like to watch your husband die. Erica shares her perspective on her husband Brian Boyer's experience in the ER (see episode 4 of this podcast) and how it affected her in an everyday and profound way. She also shares the joys of finding out your kid does creepy stuff at school.   You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it

You're Dead Too - Episode 8 - Alex   Alex Lehr sits down with John to talk about crystals, dongers and flowers. Alex shares her out-there, woo-woo theories on reincarnation and life paths as well as her direct experiences in the death industries by providing floral arrangements and comfort to families. She also shares some amazing personal ghost stories!    You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it. 

You're Dead Too - Episode 7 - Tanya   Tanya Sanders sits down with John to talk about how being a stylist is eerily similar to being a counselor, how being in the Air Force shaped her experiences with death and duty and finally shares some amazing stories of death, moving on and surviving loss.    You're Dead Too is a podcast about our shared, inevitable demise! No matter in life what you try to do, you're dead too. So let's talk about what that means and how we deal with it.