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This podcast explores the taboo topics that often left undiscussed in South Asian contexts. Indu, an organization that combats domestic violence in South Asian communities across the U.S., delves into topics surrounding abuse, allyship, healthy relationships, and normalization of the subordination of women in popular media.

Indu


    • Nov 15, 2020 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 14m AVG DURATION
    • 14 EPISODES


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    Religion--South Asia's justification to carry on the tradition of subjugating women

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 15, 2020 12:34


    Tasmina Ahmed, from Turning Point for Women and Families, speaks with Vasudha about how customs can often be packaged as religiously sanctioned to justify abuse against women. She speaks about the need for inclusivity within South Asian organizations and the importance of culture-specific aid.

    Annesa's Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 8, 2020 14:25


    Kavya talks to Annesa Tabassum about her abusive marriage, and the stigma about divorce in the South Asian community.

    Spilling the chai on Indian Matchmaking

    Play Episode Listen Later Nov 1, 2020 9:26


    Vasudha and Aleena discuss how the show Indian Matchmaking reinforces the idea of a "passive" woman as desirable while projecting castist, racist, colorist, and (generally exclusionary) opinions about matchmaking.

    Honor violence against LGBTQ+ individuals in South Asian communities

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 25, 2020 10:39


    Kavya, Sanah and Simmi discuss domestic violence against LGBTQ+ peoples, and how colonial remnants still continue to influence social norms.

    Education as a control tactic

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 18, 2020 10:44


    Aleena and Payal talk about educational abuse in South Asian communities and how women might be limited in pursuing higher education.

    It's not "fiscally responsible", it's financial abuse

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 11, 2020 6:47


    Sanah and Michael discuss how abusers can attempt to control by limiting access or accumulation of funds, and give tips on how to practice boundaries.

    Immigration Law and Survivors

    Play Episode Listen Later Oct 4, 2020 39:23


    Tulika speaks with immigration lawyers--Katie and Maria--discussing the legal options for immigrant victims of intimate partner violence.

    Why survivors can't just go to the police

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 27, 2020 9:33


    Iman and Manal explore why survivors might feel threatened by law enforcement, and explore other options for seeking help.

    ~Everything your parents should have taught you~

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 20, 2020 12:24


    Jake and Simmi chat with the founder and head of Tresurher, Anushay Chaudhry, about reproductive abuse and normalization of sexual coercion in South Asian communities.

    Locked in or Locked up?

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 13, 2020 10:16


    Jake and Manal talk about the increase in IPV and child abuse during this worldwide pandemic, and how we all can be allies in this unprecedented time.

    Nalini's Story

    Play Episode Listen Later Sep 6, 2020 22:11


    Manal chats with Nalini Chaturvedi, a domestic violence survivor, about abuse and ally ship in the South Asian community.

    Rishta me ASAP

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2020 10:27


    Annaika and Dhyan tackle how taboos in the South Asian community of engaging in sexual or romantic relationships. They explore how normalizing relationships may lead to higher self-esteem and make help more accessible in cases on IPV.

    You're not overreacting, it's a red flag

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 18, 2020 12:02


    Iman and Annaika explore control as a form of abuse, how to identify red flags, and ways to approach someone experiencing abuse.

    "How can I be a feminist if I'm a guy?"

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 16, 2020 15:05


    Simmi and Dhyan discuss how men can be better allies to women, what it takes to be a feminist and how male privilege translates to South Asian culture.

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