Family Ties

Jump back in to for part 2 of our discussion about how to talk to our kids about sex. In this episode we will get more specific about what age we need to start talking to our kids, and how to go about having those discussions. Title Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic

The "birds and the bees" talk is one that we know as parents we should have with our kids? But how do we go about it? When do we do it? And is it really just one conversation? Join Jerran and Jon as they talk about how to go about talking to our kids about sex. Title Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic

Jerran and Jon continue their conversation about how to talk to our kids about money and turn to some practical approaches when they are younger, and as they get older, that will guide them to handle their money Biblically and with wisdom. Title Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic

Money makes the world go around, or at least that's the saying. And it often appears to be true. Money is a big part of our life, and has a huge influence on us. So it's crucial that we talk to our kids often about what money is...and isn't. Join Jerran and Jon as they explore how we as parents can help our kids have a healthy and faith-filled perspective on money. Title Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic

It is beyond frustrating when our kids won't obey us. After all, we have more life experience and know what we're talking about. So how do we get them to obey us? What does that mean? And how can we talk with our kids about it in a way that points them to God? Join Jerran and Jon as they explore what it means to have healthy expectations around obedience. Title Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic

We want our kids to make good choices. We know they will face challenges as an adult that can't be anticipated. So how do we train them up to make wise choices? What does that even mean? And how do we help them see that they get the chance to get better at it everyday? Join Jon and Jerran as we continue our series, exploring topics of discussion that we should be having with our kids often. Title Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusi

Jump in to part 2 of our converstation about how to talk to our kids about faith. In this part of our discussion, we explore what we can do as parents if our child's faith and theology start to go in a direction we aren't comfortable with. And what we can do if our child doesn't really have an interest in a relationship with Christ. We can still be intentional and point them toward God, but maybe in different ways. Title Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic

We kick off a new series discussing some topics that are absolutely essential things to discuss with our kids. In this first episode, we will be exploring the idea of faith - that for better or worse, our children's ideas about faith in Christ will be influenced by us as parents above most other sources. So taking a proactive approach to discussing faith with our kids is essential. So how do we do that? Join Jerran and Jon as they dive in. Title Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic

We all want to feel safe and secure, our children most of all. As parents we feel the responsibility of keeping our kids protected from the chaos and inconsistency that seems to be all around us. So how do we do it? How can we help our kids feel secure in the midst of uncertain circumstances? Join Jon and Jerran as they dive into the conversation. Title Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic

Jerran and Jon wrap up the series by talking about where we go from here. Our kids are inheriting a world where these ideas about human sexuality are normal. So as Christians, what do we do? How do we interact with the world in a way that stands for truth, but is motivated by love? What should our posture be? What are some important questions that we will need to talk through with our kids? And how do we navigate some of the uncertainty that will be unavoidable? After this episode, we will be taking a short break but will be back with more episodes soon! In this episode we mention and cite material from the following books: "Embodied" by Preston Sprinkle "What Does the Bible Really Teach about Homosexuality" by Kevin DeYoung "Messy Grace" by Caleb Kaltenbach "Emerging Gender Identities" by Mark Yardhouse & Julia Sadusky "Changing Our Mind" by David Gushee "God and the Gay Christian" by Matthew Vines Title Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic

This episode is the 2nd half of conversation from last time where Jerran and Jon talk about how to better understand how our culture thinks about sexuality. In this episode we explore what Scripture has to say and how we can apply it to the culture we find ourselves in today. In this episode we mention and cite material from the following books: "Embodied" by Preston Sprinkle "What Does the Bible Really Teach about Homosexuality" by Kevin DeYoung "Messy Grace" by Caleb Kaltenbach We also reference the following Scripture: Genesis 2 Genesis 19 Ezekiel 16:47-50 Leviticus 18 & 20 Matthew 5:17-18 2 Timothy 3:16-17 2 Corinthians 6:16 1 Peter 1:16 1 Corinthians 6:9 Title Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic

Jerran and Jon continue the conversation about how to understand the world that are kids are growing up in and inheriting. Culture has drastically changed how it perceives human sexuality, and it continues to change rapidly. And in order to help our children know how to not only navigate this culture, but be a light for Christ in the midst of it, we must work to understand it. So in our episode today, Jerran and Jon talk through some of the more common terms used today in regards to sexuality, and they point to some books that are great resources for those that want to keep learning. In this episode we mention and cite material from the following books: "The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self: Cultural Amnesia, Expressive Individualism, and the Road to Sexual Revolution" by Carl R. Trueman "Embodied" by Preston Sprinkle Title Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic

It would be hard to deny that the culture we live in today has more than a passing interest in sexuality. Sexual identity seems to be a core tenet of our society's value system. And the rules (and categories) have changed. Where did this all come from? It would seem that things have changed almost overnight. Join Jerran and Jon as they talk through how we got to where we are and how the winds of change may have been blowing for a long time now. In this episode we mention and cite material from the following books: "The Rise and Triumph of the Modern Self: Cultural Amnesia, Expressive Individualism, and the Road to Sexual Revolution" by Carl R. Trueman Gen Z: The Culture, Beliefs and Motivations Shaping the Next Generation" by Barna Group Title Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic Show Music "Above Lines" by MooveKa "Flickering Technology" by Frequently Asked Music "Charmed Life" by AlexAlex

We continue to work to understand the world our kids live in. There might be nothing harder than trying to understand the idea that truth is somehow relative. How does that even work, and how did it become such a popular concept? Join us as we try to wrap our minds around this idea, so that we can help our kids embrace truth while reaching out to a world that rejects it. Show Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic Podcast distributed by Castos.

The world changes with each generation. This has probably been the case for a long time. But it seems like the pace of change is increasing. What if the changes we are seeing are more than fashion trends and music styles? What if the world around us is changing at a fundamental level? This is the world that are children are inheriting. If we want to help our children understand how to wisely navigate this world as disciples of Jesus, we have to walk with them. That means we have to work to better understand it. Join Jerran and Jon as they wade into a series of conversations about how the world our children live in may be drastically different than our own. In this first episode we explore how technology is the lynchpin for these changes and how the online world has altered how we think. Show Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic Podcast distributed by Castos.

Our fourth and final episode covering our Connected Parenting Seminar, we wrap up by talking through some of the popular filtering apps and resources that are out there. And we give our recommendations for which we feel work best. Plus, we'll point you to a few sites that have lots of great information and articles to help you as you continue to wade through these issues and work towards what's best for your family. Show Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic “Charmed Life” by AlexAlex “Flickering Technology” by Frequently Asked Music Podcast distributed by Castos

We've talked about the dangers of technology that are real. We've talked about the correct perspective to have as parents. Now we dive into what to do. What are realistic expectations when it comes to screens and are kids? How much is too much? What are some ground rules for our households? Join us as we dig into how to set up our families for success. Show Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic “Flickering Technology” by Frequently Asked Music Podcast distributed by Castos

We know there are plenty of things to fear when it comes to technology and our kids. But is fear actually a healthy place to parent from? What perspective should we have as we seek to help our kids have a healthy relationship with the technology that they use everyday? Show Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic "Have Fun Today" by G Studio Podcast distributed by Castos

We held a parenting seminar in April 2021 where we talked through what it means to parent in light of all the technology that is present in seemingly every aspect of our kids' lives. Technology can be amazing, but it is not without drawbacks. What are the dangers? And as parents, how can we ensure to help our kids navigate a complicated world? Show Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic “The Light of Innovation” by LEXMusic Podcast distributed by Castos.

Jon and Jerran continue their conversation about teaching our kids to be trustworthy. As parents it's our job to prepare our kids to handle the freedom and responsibility that comes with being an adult. And we have opportunities everyday to help them develop that way. So how do we take advantage of those opportunities? And what are the goals we are working on along the way? Show Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic Podcast distributed by Castos.

Our kids want us to trust them. There's just one problem. We often can't. Sometimes they aren't ready for more freedom. And sometimes they have shown that they aren't trustworthy. But trust is a big issue for our kids. But when we don't trust them, what does that communicate to them? And how can we help them learn to be more trustworthy so they can be prepared for the freedom they will have as they get older? Show Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic Podcast distributed by Castos.

It's inevitible that our kids will do something that will shock us. They will confess something big or we will discover something that's been hidden. We won't see it coming. We couldn't. But that means we may not handle it well and could react poorly. But that has devastating effects, not just for the immediate situation, but for communication going forward. So how can we handle things differently? How can we be ready for something we that we can't anticipate? What can we do now so that we can be an unshockable parent? Show Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic "Travel, It's Great!" by SonicMusic Podcast distributed by Castos.

As parents we want to have open, honest communication with our kids. We want them to feel comfortable talking to us, and we want them to listen to what we have to say. And it may not always be obvious that they want that too, but it's true. So why is it that so many teens stop communicating? How can we create good communication early? How can we re-establish communication if it's broken down. And are there things we are doing as parents that are actually getting in the way? Show Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic "Have Fun Today" by G Studio "Upbeat Hipster Rock" by Lucky Sound Podcast distributed by Castos.

Welcome to the Family Ties podcast! Show Music "Welcome to the Groove" by SonicMusic Podcast distributed by Castos.