Gay After Thirty

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Gay After Thirty is a podcast about all things gay and grown. Host Kee Tobar discusses all the things that matter to those who are gay and over thirty. She discusses everything from the homebuying process and choosing the right investments, to family planning, dating, navigating family, and everything in between.

Gay After Thirty


    • Aug 30, 2021 LATEST EPISODE
    • infrequent NEW EPISODES
    • 27m AVG DURATION
    • 11 EPISODES


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    From Survival To Thriving

    Play Episode Listen Later Aug 30, 2021 26:39


    Your favorite gay auntie, Kee, is back to discuss transitioning from survival to thriving. She discusses her journey navigating the trauma responses and daily habits that helped her survive, but no longer serve her in her current environment. Kee welcomes the audience to reflect and discuss how they are navigating their moment of transition, and moving from survival responses to a thriving mindset. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Pride Isn't Linear & Neither Is Shame

    Play Episode Listen Later Jun 12, 2021 19:37


    Host Kee returns and discusses her journey to Pride and reveals a story she's never disclosed in honor of this year's Pride month.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Black Women & Femmes, Multidimension, Play & Access to Lightness

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2021 62:08


    Host Kee and guests, her good friends Tracie and Ashley, discuss Black women/femmes and our ability to be publicly multidimensional. They also discuss whether Black women/femmes have the ability to play and be playful without negative repercussion. Lastly, they discuss Black women/femme's ability to access lightness of being, while also being forced into the role as the mules of society. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Black Girls/Femmes, Adultification, & Freedom

    Play Episode Listen Later Mar 30, 2021 39:42


    Host Kee returns with her guest and good friend Ashley to discuss important but not widely known issues surrounding Black girls and femmes. The session as the question, are Black girls/femmes allowed/afforded freedom or the ability to space to participate in childhood? Lastly, both Kee and Ashley discuss how we can show up better for the youth, and also show up better for the girls and younger femmes within ourselves. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Is Reddit Where The Money Resides?

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 30, 2021 15:39


    Host Kee discusses the recent financial battle between Wall Street and retail investors (everyday people) who bought Gamestop, AMC, Nokia and other stocks after a few hedge funds nakedly shorted said stocks --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Gay After Thirty Episode 4 : Friendships, Faith, & Labor

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 11, 2021 56:11


    Host Kee and her guest Tracie discuss the seeming lack of close friendships between heterosexual and queer women and what might be the reasons behind the divide. They also discuss being a Christian LGBTQ ally. Lastly, they discuss Black women, and queer folx,  and their relationship to labor without reward.  In between those serious gems there were so many laughs, so make sure you check out this episode.  --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    The Importance of Black Queer Homeownership

    Play Episode Listen Later Jan 4, 2021 27:47


    In 2021 we're going where the money resides, as host Kee discusses the importance of Queer home ownership. So many gems were dropped, including grant programs. You don't want to miss this episode. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Episode 1 Navigating Identity, Family, and Self pt. 2

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2020 18:51


    In episode 1 we welcome my bestfriend Whitney, as we discuss how growing up in a small town has affected us as queer Black women, navigating family and creating healthy boundaries, self acceptance, as well as our experience of being queer and playing college sports. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Gay After Thirty Episode 1: Navigating Identity, Family, and Self pt. 1

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 30, 2020 11:46


    In episode 1 I welcome my bestfriend Whitney, as we discuss how growing up in a small town has affected us as queer Black women, navigating family and creating healthy boundaries, self acceptance, as well as our experience of being queer and playing college basketball. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Gay After Thirty Episode 2: Single and Dating After Thirty

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 29, 2020 18:12


    Kee and guest Whitney discuss what it's like dating after 30. We discuss what romantic relationships taught us about ourselves, having clarity regarding wants and needs, therapy as a tool to build healthier relationships & what our 30+ self would tell our younger selves. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app

    Gay After Thirty (Trailer)

    Play Episode Listen Later Dec 28, 2020 0:41


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